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ExpendableEfforts

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  1. Nesting Necessary?

    Just to let you know....after making my decision on leaving the family nesting...I decided to gift my mother one last time and fulfill her wishes. Her ultimatum was to seek hospital help or seek out a doctor (which is also at a hospital). Clearly, there was no 'option' for me...but because I love her I decided to simply play along to prove to her that there is nothing wrong with me. Things got WAY out of hand...even to the point where my own mother, who brought me there, along with all my friends and family DISAGREE with the way that things were carried out. Unlawful, concealed, demanding, delaying, and out right morally WRONG. We all agree on how things were carried out was NOT to my BEST INTEREST. My family will not lift 1 finger to correct this, even though they disagree with the care team that is provided to me. I am seeking my alliance. I have a lot of information which may be used against "them" to our advantage. We have won this battle of getting me out....if I'm not alone with this, however...I sense that they are planning something big, a "checkmate" to keep me here permanently. I ask for all of your assistance and all of your forgiveness for trying to tackle this alone. Time just kept slipping by...and now...I am begging for aide. Thank you....unfortunately I was placed in a NutHouse involuntarily (And unlawfully to boot), and they have SET me up and are controlling my stay and initiating force against me in many aspects. I thought that I could take care of this situation on my own...but it is apparent that I am playing against a large number of members who which to keep me here. I am currently stuck at the Kirkwood site on the 5th floor (705) 523-7100 ext 8042. I need to get out of here...and I can no longer do this alone....I need more than just a petition, I need a rally of protesters outside of this building. They have the power of the "Mental Health Act" behind them....but I have been fighting back with facts and reasoning. This cannot hold up forever. I am refusing to take their medications. The only time my rights are taken away from me in terms of meds, is when the Psychiatrist gives me an ultimatum of meds or meds, which is illegal. This is why you haven't heard from me after I left my family. My family is Definitely the one to blame for this ordeal. Get as many people involved as you can. I have done my research, and I am ready to take legal action against the psychiatrists, the Hospital and against this Private Institution at Kirkwood Acute Inpatient Psychiatry.
  2. Nesting Necessary?

    Thank you S1988. Words of wisdom. Glad you cited some hoovering material.
  3. Nesting Necessary?

    I was not in a good mood...and I have lost some faith in my family. There was nothing but frustration, and my immature behaviour can be represented by capital letters. This is important to note because in shows how out of touch I was with reality. So...allow me to break this down; My family has accepted the fact that family spats are inevitable...however, I never initiate any harassment or verbal abuse. I have been targeted without just cause, and they became extremely defensive and controlling. They do not like the fact that I am an introvert, and are willing to change my personality to 'their' liking. They do not wish to support my aspirations, nor do they trust my judgement. They believe that seniority and democracy is more important than reasoning and facts. They pry into my personal business when they have no right asking. They want to know everything that is going on with me, yet at the same time, they can't bare to hear anymore. They want me to be opened...but they shun me every time. I only do things that are beneficial for them, yet they will not accept my advice. They do not recognize me for who I am, a good soul. They had the nerve to tell me that I was using them....and yet they take advantage of my kindness by slandering me with verbal abuse. They want the best for me...but when I explain what that best thing may very well be...they ignore me. They refuse to acknowledge that I have made complete changes since my great depression based on their words....and they have the audacity to say that I am the exact same person 6 years ago. I have told them that the financial situation is the only thing that truly upsets them about me....and they continue to find new blames to pass onto me. I was heart-broken...abandoned, unwanted, unheard, ignored, bullied, forced into corners, trapped from any escape, without any sense of rational sane solution. They would rather lecture me on things that are completely irrelevant to the issues at hand....just to prove power over me. Today...I took a stand. Enough is Enough. I will not be a part of a broken family that I must amend to every time. Not happening. This is NOT family. If I can act rational...you have no excuse to not do so. Verbal abuse, harassment, bullying, ganging up, forcing opinions, initiations of force....These are all criminally unlawful...and just not a good practice. It should not happen within the family, and I should have never been mistreated at any given point of time.....EVER. So...Do I leave them behind because they are toxic, or do I attempt to reason with people, who listen to my advice on a personal level, but attack me in a group setting. I hope this calm explanation helped clear some things up....Any advice now?
  4. Nesting Necessary?

    Definitely My Foo buddy. I just left the house, the fam jam is a bit too toxic with my current situation. I never lose my temper, like ever....but I got sick and tired of verbal abuse, harassment, neglect, misunderstanding and trust issues.
  5. Nesting Necessary?

    Sometimes....it's hard when your family doesn't understand you....or listen to you....or reason with you....or support you....or trust you....or believe in you....or show the same degree of respect. I know...I'm not perfect either....but my family makes 0 effort to reach my minimal needs or standards...and I am ALWAYS the one to step in and BREAK IT UP. When they gang up on me (when I really don't deserve it), there is no one left to ease the situation. I've been abandoned in more than one way. My entire family are just a bunch of control freaks. I really can't do this all alone....not at this point. I can be flourishing right now if it wasn't for my family holding me back....And god knows I tried everything in my power to just do the right thing. I've got something great in the works at the moment, and many other important things that SHOULD NOT be delayed. I lose my mind, not because things didn't go my way....but because I can't FIND ANY EXPLANATION FOR THEIR FOOLISH BEHAVIORS! Any help would be appreciated. In Deep Distress; Captain Obvious.
  6. Go Captain Obvious! I support you!
  7. We all deserve to have our voices heard...whether they are right or not. Let's have a rational discussion here...with respectful people, have your voices heard HERE...and let's find these answers together. This is just a welcoming message from Canada. I will open MANY topics, so keep an eye out, and join "THE CONVERSATION". For starters....this group will be marked as "Canada Ontario, Solutions Inc." If you are an ally of good virtuous men...this earth needs your participation. Just join, talk, and open your EYES/MIND. (No confrontation in online messaging, you will be more honest, therefore, do not attack others on their current world view...this is what we are solving.) Looking forward to seeing how many courageous souls will stand up for the right thing. See ya there! The Expendables.
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