I was having a discussion with a "progressive" friend of mine and he asked "if human societies can order themselves, why aren't we already in anarcho-libertopia?" To which I responded, "well, there's always been two competing survival strategies--the rape-and-pillage model and the cooperate-and-trade model, but the cooperating traders haven't yet realized they don't need to imbue the raping pillagers with an aura of divine right to gain their protection from other raping pillagers--rather, they can buy and sell protection like any other service.... etc."
He said "I don't think you can draw such a clear line between win-win, voluntary interactions and win-lose, coercive interactions. After all, sometimes people get ripped off or get the raw end of the deal in commercial transactions. There's a grey area that has to be balanced."
My response, of course, is, "I think there's a pretty clear line--after all, there's a difference between sleeping with someone voluntarily and regretting it later and being raped--that is, there's a big difference between buyer's remorse and theft."
But this got me thinking: in libertopia, we tend to think of fraud as a form of theft and often use the notion of fraud to defend our idea that commercial transactions are "win-win." That is, we anarchists tend to say, "if a voluntary transaction takes place then it must be win-win, at least from the perspective of those transacting at the time of the transaction, otherwise the transaction wouldn't occur." But we make an exception for fraud because the idea is that an interaction isn't voluntary if one party is being deceived about the nature of what he's getting. That is, we are basically saying, fraud=theft.
But let's say you borrow your rich friend's Ferrari and tell a girl at a bar that you're a big-shot with your own company, etc. when you're actually just barely making ends meet. She sleeps with you, thinking you're a big shot and later regrets it when she realizes you're not. Now I think the general culture today, as well as the legal system, would say, "that was immoral and that guy is a jerk, but it's not the same as rape, since she did ultimately choose to sleep with him voluntarily, even if she was deceived about who exactly he was." And, I would say, it makes sense in that outside of prostitution, sex is a personal interaction, not a commercial interaction.
But still, if we are going to use the example of rape vs. love-making to explain to people the clear-cut line between voluntary and non-voluntary, does this metaphor get us into trouble in that it might either lead us to the conclusion that under Libertarian morality, since sex under false pretenses is not rape, therefore fraud is not theft, therefore there is a grey area with regard to voluntary/win-win in commercial transactions OR alternatively, since fraud is theft, therefore sex under false pretenses is rape? (also not a conclusion I'm comfortable with--obviously, I think sex under false pretenses is immoral, but I'm also not comfortable saying it's the same as rape).