KyleC:
Have you talked to him about how the state is violent?
In the past, when I wasn't as eloquent in expressing these ideas, back when I was more of a minarchist, newly inspired by Ron Paul, Milton Friedman, and some others. I definitely think it's important to let your ideas stew for a bit so that your newfound exuberance doesn't undercut a difficult, nuanced argument you're trying to make. He'd been inspired by Ayn Rand in the past, before "growing up" and realizing that living life according to your values wasn't practical, was too painful to others and generally anti-social. But before I started entertaining some of the ideas espoused by Stef and FDR, I definitely modelled myself after him since he was (and still is) quite adept at living life according to his values, but still humors his boring parents every so often by coming home for family vacations and consistently having an extremely shitty time, as is to be expected. But while he's arguably better than (I bet) a lot of FDR listeners who haven't yet overcome social pressures to keep their relationships virtuous, strictly voluntary, non-hypocritical and guilt-free, he'd be extremely reluctant to tell others difficult truths the implications of which he doesn't think they'd be able to overcome, and he doubts heavily that a fringe philosophical group (e.g. FDR) would have the answers to a lot of the world's problems, and, similar to FA Hayek's approach to a lot of questions of social organization, he believes that we probably have limited knowledge as to how/why society has evolved over the years to what it is today, that we should temper our convictions to some degree and leave some room that there might be a very good, legitimate, desirable reason to keep some modicum of violence infused in the backbone of society.
We actually had an argument about these sorts of topics a year back (yes, probably around the time he started accepting unemployment). There was something about the way I posted on Facebook (and other venues) about these topics, something about how I just seemed so sure of myself, that he was immediately on his guard against a lot of what I had to say. I remember him saying something along the lines of, "Fantastic, you have this grand scheme of how things ought to work, but 1) you do realize that you're some young guy who diverges from 95% of older, Ph D intellectuals who spend their lives studying this shit, and 2) who the hell cares? Everyone knows politicians are evil, but why get wrapped up in all the bullshit? I for one have no problem living my life the way I want to and letting the politicians keep their loot and rule the world." I think he was ultimately suspicious that I merely enjoyed the seemingly contrarian argument in and of itself and the feeling of being right, but that considering things aren't going to change any time soon, why was I wasting my time trying to convince anyone about political shit?
I suppose it's been a while since I delved into this stuff with him, and I've certainly improved at being able to express my ideas. Probably time for another go? But I'm definitely glad I vetted my approach to the whole unemployment checks thing before I shot myself in the foot. That said, I'm still not entirely convinced at the seemingly unanimous FDR viewpoint that he's harming the state and somehow NOT contributing to the robbery, so...
RestoringGuy:
Just because the government sets up an elaborate system of sign-ups and accounting, doesn't seem to separate them morally from basic street robbery. And if they allow me to "sign up" to receive the money, so long as I don't aid or approve of violence, that seems like a stupidity on their part. The government "dropped their wallet" and nothing more.
There's also the issue that a major reason the state is still around is that so many people still think it is legitimate to keep society from dissolving. People see the gloomy statistics on poverty and think, "It sucks, but it'd be way worse without state subsidies." People see how many people are employed by the state and might think, "Ok, we could afford to rid ourselves of a few bureaucratic departments, but what are those state employees going to do once they're thrown on the streets?" Now, we all understand why these objections are bankrupt, but our job as truth spreaders becomes more difficult the more people are convinced that in the absence of the state, all the people that have come to depend on it (which, to the uninformed, will seem like anyone getting a paycheck from it) will be thrown out in the streets and have no social safety net. The statistics won't be able to distinguish between an intelligent capable dude who is very much intentionally poor (because he values his music more than material wealth) vs. someone whose parents were poor and uneducated and couldn't provide this someone with a reasonable degree of education and opportunity. These statistics, of course, make a good argument for why institutionalized, large-scale, state-managed charities are a bad idea, but to the masses that are still uninformed and state-leaning, it simply fortifies their conviction that we very much need a state, otherwise certain people would be completely fucked. It's up to us to change these people's minds, but the more we let (or condone, even) free-loaders to sign up for checks from the state, the harder we're needlessly letting our job become.
So, we want to end the state above all. One way for this to happen is for the state to crumble in on itself, and we can speed that along by signing up for payouts from the state (or taking up state jobs without us personally committing the violence ourselves). But, we also have to make sure that when the state crumbles, the ideas for freedom are reasonably pervasive so that we don't end up with something worse, and the more we make it seem that just about everyone depends on the state, the harder it is for us to spread these ideas. It's a balance, is it not?