Craig:
It was the following that really had me wondering, I mean, where does this 'dangerous children' imagery come from? He seems to have really hit the nail on the head in this statement even if he isn't aware of it...
Sam Harris:
Why do we have laws in the first place? To prevent adults from behaving
like dangerous children. All laws are coercive and take the following
form: do this, and don’t do that, or else. Or else what? Or else men with guns will arrive at your door and take you away to prison.
It comes from trauma. Years of suppression, erasure, and abuse of the child by cold, or brutal parents leaves the resulting adult filled to overflowing with the unexpressed rage of that child. The men with guns are every bit as much "dangerous children" as the man being taken away by them. We live in an entire society of "dangerous children". This is why the United States government is dropping bombs on brown people in foreign countries.
The *only* way out, is peaceful parenting. And that starts here, in this community. Nobody else, that I know of, has the strength or the self-awareness to even consider it, let alone succeed.
EDIT:
P.S. I offered this, in an email:
Sent: 2011 08 26
Re: "How To Lose Readers"
Mr. Harris,
I enjoyed reading your article. I would like to offer one bit of humble insight, if you're interested...
In your article, you are quoted as saying this:
"Why do we have laws in the first place? To prevent adults from behaving like dangerous children. All laws are coercive and take the following form: do this, and don’t do that, or else. Or else what? Or else men with guns will arrive at your door and take you away to prison."
What struck me as perplexing about this, is that I couldn't quite understand how the men with guns were not, themselves, also "dangerous children". Perhaps the most dangerous kind, too. Because they have the guns - and an implicit moral authority (whether truly justified or not) - to use them as they see fit.
The analogy of "dangerous children" is actually a pretty good one, when you look at the body of knowledge in medical science and child psychology. Child-rearing (at least in the United States) is very often brutal, and severely destructive to a child's psyche. Is it any wonder, that years of suppression, erasure, and even at times abuse, by cold, or overbearing, or even aggressive parents, should leave the resulting adult from that process full to the brim with the unexpressed rage of the original helpless child?
Seems to me, what we need is a lot more love for children, and what we'll get out of it is a lot less "necessary" laws.
Anyway, I hope this helps.
Regards,
Greg.
I don't expect a response, and I'm dubious that he'll even see the letter, let alone consciously realize what I'm suggesting, but as a thinking man, and someone who claims to be in search of the truth, I had to at least try to point it out.