I think nukes are a result of statism and when statism disapears, so will nukes.
I don't think they would have been created without the state. Ownership would look so different if statism was not around. Owning anything that would require anything more than some simple security to protect would be nearly impossible, in my opinion. It is principally the state that makes anything more than modest fortunes possible. So with that in mind, why would you ever need a nuke?
Even if you were an awful person set on taking over the world by force, with smaller tracts of ownership, a nuke would not be too useful or practical. As defense, perhaps, but it just seems like overkill, considering the size of what is owned. Nukes make sense when it is possible to "own" or be at war with a country. However, if the biggest thing you could hope to takeover was one person's property, it wouldn't make sense to have huge nuke, the expense alone wouldn't justify it.
Like, I don't think there are countries that currently say, "If you try to invade me, I will blow up the whole earth." They tend to have weapons big enough to take out their targets and not much else.
As the targets shrink, I think the weapons will too.
It is just unfortunate that they got as big as they did already.
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