The problem that I have with the example is that it places violence as
the primary response. This just furthers the belief that might makes
right.
Silly me, I thought it does. :-)
Keep in mind we are talking about fundamentally violent statist communities sharing the landscape with anarchist communities. Violence is going to be part of that picture, no matter what. Now I'm all for negotiating, but negotiation involves compromise, and you know where that goes - i.e. negotiating half your freedom away this time, and some more next time, etc. Also you have the problem, who are you going to negotiate with? Remember, there are no leaders in an anarchist community. Who can speak for every anarchist? There is no such person.
That's why I called the whole thing a bunch of "rules of thumb". That means it probably won't get negotiated; rather, it will work out naturally through self-interest or fear.
I don't know the book Snow Crash. I tried reading one of his books and couldn't get into it.
It seems to me that if we emphasize violence as a primary response to
minor infractions then we risk creating a situation were regions would
balkanize and inter-community violence would become the primary method
for setting disputes.
I don't really think so, because most people don't like to be involved with violence, and they do like to be involved trading with others. I just don't buy the "Leviathan" argument.
You also have to worry about the point expressed in this quote by John Dickenson:
"Indeed nations, in general, are not apt to think until they feel; and therefore nations in general have lost their liberty: For as violations of the rights of the governed, are commonly...but small at the beginning, they spread over the multitude in such a manner, as to touch individuals but slightly. Thus they are disregarded...They regularly increase the first injuries, till at length the inattentive people are compelled to perceive the heaviness of their burdens. They begin to complain and inquire - but too late. They find their oppressors so strengthened by success, and themselves so entangled in examples of express authority on the part of their rulers, and of tacit recognition on their own part, that they are quite confounded."
In other words, the time to stop problems is to nip them in the bud when they start, not when the abuse has become established. Let's face it, the world won't end if a few cops get shot for playing the bully. Might cause the rest of them to straighten right up and stop bothering people.
As to providing good examples, it is my expectation that life in Anarchyville will be so much better due to lack of the oppressive weight of the state, that people won't take long to gravitate to them after they have proven to them that anarchy actually can work, unlike what the propaganda says. So statist communities will simply depopulate. But I could be wrong there; there may be a significant segment of humanity that just needs rulers.