Nathan:
I think this is a better place to start.
I have felt frustrated and somewhat annoyed, as I have said, I asked how you felt and I'll take this as my answer.
I think it would be more helpful to talk about the anxiety you feel, before getting into intellectual discussions about logic. You are an incredibly intelligent guy, but like so many of us on the board including myself, that comes with incredibly strong intellectual defenses just given our histories.
So tell us more about the anxiety.
Having thought about this for a few days I think I have a good idea of what the anxiety is.
I think the anxiety was based around the types of responses I could get to my posts. In fact your post was partially the type of post I was anxious about. I saw it likely that one of the following types of situations would occur...
1. My arguments and responses were adressed and I was made aware of an error on my part.
2. My arguments were accepted.
3. My arguments and responses were not adressed and the thread died.
4. The discussion was turned from one about the points of the discussion to one about the emotional experiences of the thread.
If situations 1 or 2 had occured, I think the result would be been pretty much ideal for me, as that was the goal of me raising the question originally.
If situation 3 occured, that would leave me wondering why the thread tapered off. I would be unsure as to what I should do, because trying to continue the discussion with those that left the thread would seem to be going against their wishes, and I would be left wondering why the discussion stopped. I would probably think that the reason for the result would be either that I was correct but people did not want to face that for some reason, or that I was incorrect and seen as having some strong emotional defence going on or just some giant rational flaw that people thought the time investment in making me aware of that was not worth it. There may be others reasons but those two of course would be pretty bad from my perspective.
It seems situation 4 is occuring. I take it from your post that you are implying that I may have some strong defence going on, which could be true. If this were the case though, and someone wanted to help me see it, I think the only way for me to do that would be to address the argument though. This type of situation has happened for me a number of times in the past at FDR, where I disagree with something on logical grounds, it is assumed for whatever reason that I have a psychological defence, and then that is explored. This has not worked for me because if I cant see an error in my thinking (and people fail to explain it to me) then believing I have a defence is very difficult. In the past this has been quite frustrating and the issues were never resolved so I think that if I do have a defence but noone shows me where the error in my thinking is (and to be honest, the arguments are fairly simple, so this should not be difficult) then this would be a dead end too. Of course, it could be possible that there are defences at work, but they aren't mine too.
What do you think?
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