Maybe I don't understand what Gabor and Stef said, but based on what I got, I have some questions:
If we act the way we act based on our "programing", "hardware" and "inputs" (childhood traumas, earlier experiences etc.) and it's not our fault if we do something wrong, the same is for our parents and their parents, so isn't that determinism? It's a circle of violence, but no one's responsible. Where's morality, responsibility and free will in all of this?
I had some discussions with my brother about determinism lately and I really tried to understand the deterministic view of my brother, but couldn't get out of free will. So hearing this now, I'm even more confused.
English is not my native language.