I did not foresee this topic going like this.
Let's see, I think that "military" in a non state context is a historically a priori term, it's confusing because I don't know there has been a non state military which didn't perpetrate in the same way state military has. So perhaps the confusion is out of the concern of how it could be interpreted without clarification that the host of freedomainradio says "which is not to say that all military is bad" without clarifying that meant, "not that all military is bad, state military is bad" in front of random podcast and youtube listeners who may not come to the forum, and again, as I said, as far as I know I can't recall a non state free-market military so it's like saying "not that all sheep are bad" (genetically engineered/cloned sheep aren't bad) before there ever was a cloned sheep.
As for the other I agree with Stef on the fact that social ostracism is an effective way to shape the society we want. He has explained how false morality like fake money attempts having value whilst not having it. He has already spoken about the solace that comes from "prayer" which is delegating to the unconscious, and from the community that comes from being religious. The fact however is these are not based on reason. It's like having friendships which are not based on values. Now, Stef has said you can't be 100% rational and that would be unrealistic, but that doens't mean you don't try to be as rational as you can, but that unconsciously there are cognitive biases and mechanisms which we may not be aware of that might I don't know make us snap at someone we love. But that doesn't mean that you consciously go on not rejecting things which are not based on reason, it only means that when we speak about reason we approach it as a tendency towards an infinity of knowledge, a relation to reality in which no one can have all the answers, this is why there are doctors, scientists, etc.
So I think that the fact that irrational things like religion have not been discouraged and ostracized against, has made them an appealing incentive to consciously reject reason because it provides a benefit, like community or prayer or a sense of hope that is not based on any proof or evidence. This of course means a voluntary abandonment of reason, sure you can do that, but this implies no obligation for a rational person to want or have to talk to you, and considering the evils of religion and irrationality I think it's a good thing that progressively individuals see these irrationalities as socially unacceptable. That is make it hard for people to be religious by showing how they will lose valuable friendships due to that. Same with theft, etc, in a DRO society.
my two stefcents
"Feeling anger and inflicting it on others are two entirely different kettles of fish" - JamesP