Well im back, I havent had internet in a few weeks.
This was something me, Christina and Stef talked about while I was in Toronto.
I have a tattoo on my back and i HAD loop earrings in both of my ears.
I got the tattoo after going through a depressive bout when me and my first ex broke up, I was 18. I wish it was gone.
I took my earrings out a few weeks ago, and for the most part completely changed the way I dress.
This is why...
I was telling Stef how I kept attracting weird voodoo-ish girls. Wiccans, subjectivists, extremely broken girls, Intention Manifestationers... man the list goes on. The reason I was attracting such bad girls and company was because thats exactly what my looks were attracting!
The tattoo, the earrings, my dress style... all beacons for attracting emotionally scarred people, like i used to be. I just never changed my outward appearance when I began changing my inner.
It is weird I must note the change was uncomfortable at first, but I feel more in tune with my mind now, and the people I WANT in my life are now going to be a step closer to finding me, and me finding them this way.
Maybe that helps.