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&lt;p class="MsoTagline"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 11.15pt; color: black; line-height: 100%; font-family: Arial;"&gt;Powerful ideas for all lovers of personal and political freedom - Freedomain Radio is the largest and most popular philosophy show on the web, and was a Top 10 Finalist in the 2007, 2008 and 2009 Podcast Awards. Topics range from politics to philosophy to science to economics to relationships to atheism - and how to achieve real freedom in your life today. Passionate, articulate, funny and irreverent, Freedomain Radio shines a bold light on old topics, and invents a few new ones to boot!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; --&gt;</description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2008 (Build: 30417.1769)</generator><item><title>O Futuro da Liberdade é a Verdade do Passado</title><link>http://board.freedomainradio.com/blogs/freedomain/archive/2011/11/10/o-futuro-da-liberdade-233-a-verdade-do-passado.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2011 00:43:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">59c0a406-59fe-4f33-8532-f7cd028d5483:254248</guid><dc:creator>Stefan Molyneux</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><description>&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12pt;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Li&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es de Propaganda
pela Educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o Governamental&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Por
Stefan Molyneux, MA&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Apresentador
da Freedomain Radio, o maior e mais popular programa de filosofia no mundo.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.freedomainradio.com/"&gt;http://www.freedomainradio.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Uma educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o Estatal generalizada &amp;eacute; uma
mera inven&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o para moldar pessoas para serem exactamente iguais entre si; e
como o molde em que s&amp;atilde;o fundidas &amp;eacute; aquele que agrada ao poder dominante no
governo, seja um monarca, uma aristocracia, ou a maioria da gera&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o existente;
na propor&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o em que &amp;eacute; eficiente e bem sucedida, estabelece um despotismo sobre
a mente, que leva por tend&amp;ecirc;ncia natural a um sobre o corpo.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;John
Stuart Mill, &amp;ldquo;Sobre a Liberdade&amp;rdquo;, 1859&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;A
filosofia da sala de aula numa genera&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o ser&amp;aacute; a filosofia de governo na
seguinte.&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Abraham Lincoln&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Introdu&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Tenta
descobrir direc&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es atrav&amp;eacute;s de um &lt;i&gt;web site&lt;/i&gt; sem inserir um ponto de
partida. A p&amp;aacute;gina &lt;i&gt;web&lt;/i&gt; prontamente dir&amp;aacute; que &amp;eacute; imposs&amp;iacute;vel. Se est&amp;aacute;s
perdido no oceano, n&amp;atilde;o podes planear uma rota para o Tahiti.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Num famoso cap&amp;iacute;tulo por George Orwell em
&amp;ldquo;1984&amp;rdquo;, Winston Smith tenta perguntar a um velho como era a vida antes do socialismo,
mas s&amp;oacute; consegue extrair migalhas e cenas desbotadas das recorda&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es quebradas
do anci&amp;atilde;o.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;De forma a selar-te na escravatura, o teu
governo tem de fingir que nunca foste livre. Tem de despeda&amp;ccedil;ar a tua verdadeira
hist&amp;oacute;ria em propaganda f&amp;aacute;cil, em contos de fadas que repetem interminavelmente
a fantasia de que os teus l&amp;iacute;deres pol&amp;iacute;ticos resgataram-te do assustador caos da
liberdade.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;O homic&amp;iacute;dio da mem&amp;oacute;ria &amp;eacute; o primeiro crime do
Estado &amp;ndash; e a fonte e sustento de todos os seus outros crimes.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Porque acreditamos nesta propaganda, nestes
contos de fada?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Submeto que &amp;eacute; para evitarmos a compreens&amp;atilde;o da
nossa pr&amp;oacute;pria escraviza&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;As convic&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es da maioria das pessoas s&amp;atilde;o
justifica&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es &lt;i&gt;ex post facto&lt;/i&gt; para as sequelas do poder bruto. Quase
ningu&amp;eacute;m quer pagar impostos &amp;ndash; de outra maneira, porque for&amp;ccedil;&amp;aacute;-los? - mas somos
compelidos a faz&amp;ecirc;-lo, encontramos consolo fingindo que os nossos impostos fazem
grande e necess&amp;aacute;rio bem na sociedade &amp;ndash; e confortamo-nos com a mentira de que
sem impostos, a caridade, a benevol&amp;ecirc;ncia e a pr&amp;oacute;pria civiliza&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o colapsariam. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;O argumento Estatista mata-hist&amp;oacute;ria funciona
assim:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&amp;lsquo;X&amp;#39; &amp;eacute; necess&amp;aacute;rio&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Somos for&amp;ccedil;ados a fazer
&amp;lsquo;X&amp;#39; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Sem for&amp;ccedil;a, &amp;lsquo;X&amp;#39; n&amp;atilde;o
existiria&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Por
exemplo:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Os pobres precisam de
ajuda &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Somos for&amp;ccedil;ados a
ajudar os pobres&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se n&amp;atilde;o fossemos
for&amp;ccedil;ados a ajudar os pobres, os pobres n&amp;atilde;o seriam ajudados&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Podes
ligar todo o tipo de programas Estatistas a esta equa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o. Ajudar os pobres, os
idosos, os doentes, combater o uso das drogas e a iliteracia, proteger o
ambiente, entre outros &amp;ndash; todos servem.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;A verdadeira loucura desta equa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o &amp;eacute; f&amp;aacute;cil de
ver se ligarmos programas Estatistas defuntos como a escravatura:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Precisamos de comida&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Os escravos tem de ser
for&amp;ccedil;ados a cultivar alimentos &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Sem escravatura, n&amp;atilde;o
haver&amp;aacute; comida &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Ou:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Precisamos de fam&amp;iacute;lias&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;As pessoas t&amp;ecirc;m de ser
for&amp;ccedil;adas a casarem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Sem casamentos
for&amp;ccedil;ados, n&amp;atilde;o haveria fam&amp;iacute;lias&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Uma das utiliza&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es mais destrutivas deste
silogismo louco &amp;eacute; este:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;As crian&amp;ccedil;as precisam
de educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Temos de for&amp;ccedil;ar as
crian&amp;ccedil;as a frequentarem escolas governamentais, e for&amp;ccedil;ar toda a gente a pagar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se n&amp;atilde;o for&amp;ccedil;armos toda
a gente, as crian&amp;ccedil;as &amp;ndash; e em particular as crian&amp;ccedil;as pobres &amp;ndash; n&amp;atilde;o ser&amp;atilde;o educadas &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Para
sustentar este conto de fadas, o Estado tem de enterrar a verdadeira hist&amp;oacute;ria
da educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o livre e volunt&amp;aacute;ria &amp;ndash; o que inevitavelmente leva ao seguinte
silogismo:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;As crian&amp;ccedil;as agora s&amp;atilde;o
for&amp;ccedil;adas a frequentarem escolas Estatais, e toda a gente &amp;eacute; for&amp;ccedil;ada a pagar por
elas&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;No passado, as
crian&amp;ccedil;as n&amp;atilde;o eram for&amp;ccedil;adas a frequentarem escolas Estatais, e ningu&amp;eacute;m era
for&amp;ccedil;ado a pagar pela educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Portanto, a imposi&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o
de for&amp;ccedil;a no caso da educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o deve ter ocorrido porque no passado, &lt;i&gt;as
crian&amp;ccedil;as n&amp;atilde;o estavam a ser educadas.&lt;/i&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;O
falso corol&amp;aacute;rio disto &amp;eacute;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;As crian&amp;ccedil;as s&amp;oacute; podem
ser educadas atrav&amp;eacute;s de for&amp;ccedil;a governamental&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Portanto qualquer um
que se oponha &amp;agrave; for&amp;ccedil;a governamental op&amp;otilde;em-se &amp;agrave; educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o das crian&amp;ccedil;as&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Trata-se da mesma l&amp;oacute;gica de:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Os alimentos s&amp;oacute; podem
ser cultivados por escravos&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Portanto qualquer um
que se oponha &amp;agrave; escravatura deve querer a fome universal&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Esta fal&amp;aacute;cia &amp;eacute; mais que rid&amp;iacute;cula &amp;ndash; por isso
tem de ser tantas vezes repetida, porque afirma&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es absurdas s&amp;oacute; ganham
credibilidade atrav&amp;eacute;s da repeti&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o &amp;ndash; sendo f&amp;aacute;cil de ver assim que ligamos
outros argumentos na equa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Os escravos s&amp;atilde;o
for&amp;ccedil;ados a trabalhar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;No passado, os escravos
n&amp;atilde;o eram for&amp;ccedil;ados a trabalhar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Portanto, a
escravatura existe porque os escravos n&amp;atilde;o trabalhavam antes da escravatura&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Ou, no caso de um guerreiro que for&amp;ccedil;osamente
toma uma noiva:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Eu forcei esta mulher
a casar comigo&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Antes de a for&amp;ccedil;ar a
casar comigo, ela era solteira&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Portanto, se n&amp;atilde;o a
tivesse for&amp;ccedil;ado, ela nunca teria casado&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se o Destista Est&amp;aacute; a Furar, Deve Ter Havido
uma Cavidade!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
No reino da educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o, a fantasia geralmente aceite &amp;eacute; que as escolas Estatais
foram impostas para responderem a terr&amp;iacute;veis defici&amp;ecirc;ncias na instru&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o,
particularmente entre os pobres. Esta convic&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o &amp;eacute; t&amp;atilde;o tenaz que nenhuma
quantidade de genu&amp;iacute;no conhecimento parece ser capaz de a desalojar (como &amp;eacute;
frequentemente o caso com justifica&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es de S&amp;iacute;ndroma de Estocolmo). &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Por exemplo:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se disseres aos f&amp;atilde;s da
educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o Estatal que a literacia era maior &lt;i&gt;antes&lt;/i&gt; das escolas
governamentais serem infligidas &amp;ndash; e que tem declinado desde ent&amp;atilde;o &amp;ndash; v&amp;atilde;o
ignorar-te . &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se lhes disseres que
nem os pais nem as crian&amp;ccedil;as expressaram &lt;i&gt;qualquer insatisfa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o real&lt;/i&gt; com
as escolas volunt&amp;aacute;rias antes dos governos tomarem conta da educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o, v&amp;atilde;o
ignorar-te. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se lhes disseres que o
&lt;i&gt;objectivo declarado&lt;/i&gt; da educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o governamental era o controlo social,
econ&amp;oacute;mico e pol&amp;iacute;tico da popula&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o &amp;ndash; particularmente de minorias religiosas como
os Cat&amp;oacute;licos &amp;ndash; v&amp;atilde;o ignorar-te. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se lhes disseres que
inimigos amargos da liberdade como Marx, Hitler e Estaline continuamente
exigiram e alcan&amp;ccedil;aram mais e mais controlo Estatal sobre a educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o das
crian&amp;ccedil;as, v&amp;atilde;o ignorar-te. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se os relembrares que
um dos maiores defensores de leis de frequ&amp;ecirc;ncia compulsiva foi o Ku Klux Klan,
v&amp;atilde;o ignorar-te. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se os relembrares que
uma sociedade de mercado livre n&amp;atilde;o pode sobreviver durante muito tempo quando
as crian&amp;ccedil;as s&amp;atilde;o indoutrinadas num sistema educacional socialista, v&amp;atilde;o
ignorar-te. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;A
raz&amp;atilde;o para esta cegueira &amp;eacute; simples:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Quando
for&amp;ccedil;a universal &amp;eacute; usada para &amp;ldquo;resolver&amp;rdquo; um &amp;ldquo;problema&amp;rdquo;, o &amp;ldquo;problema&amp;rdquo; original &amp;ndash;
mesmo que inteiramente imagin&amp;aacute;rio &amp;ndash; cresce e cresce na imagina&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o das pessoas.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;O &amp;ldquo;racioc&amp;iacute;nio&amp;rdquo; &amp;eacute; algo como isto:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:12pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se viol&amp;ecirc;ncia
estatal universal foi a melhor e &amp;uacute;nica solu&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o poss&amp;iacute;vel, o problema original
deve ter sido verdadeiramente terr&amp;iacute;vel! Se foi necess&amp;aacute;ria a nacionaliza&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o
for&amp;ccedil;ada de uma ind&amp;uacute;stria inteira como a educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o, imagina qu&amp;atilde;o m&amp;aacute; teria que ser
a educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o para requerer um passo t&amp;atilde;o dr&amp;aacute;stico! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Isto ignora completamente a possibilidade de
que a tomada de controlo foi simplesmente um abuso expansionista do poder
Estatal. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Se
uma mulher &amp;eacute; selvaticamente espancada pelo marido, dir&amp;iacute;amos que ela devia ter
sido mesmo m&amp;aacute; para merecer tal castigo? Ou que os escravos eram incrivelmente
pregui&amp;ccedil;osos, porque tinham que ser violentamente for&amp;ccedil;ados a trabalhar? Ou que
devia estar a passar-se &lt;i&gt;alguma&lt;/i&gt; &lt;i&gt;coisa&lt;/i&gt; estranha com todas aquelas
bruxas em Salem, caso contr&amp;aacute;rio porque teriam sido queimadas na fogueira? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Claro que n&amp;atilde;o!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Este tipo de absurdo pode continuar para
sempre, como &amp;eacute; claro, e parece rid&amp;iacute;culo quanto passamos outros argumentos pela
equa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o padr&amp;atilde;o &amp;ndash; mas assim que compreendes a verdadeira hist&amp;oacute;ria da educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o
Americana, a propaganda actual parece igualmente disparatada.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;h2 style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;...E
isto, meus amigos, &amp;eacute; o que eles chamam de &amp;quot;solu&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o&amp;quot;...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
As escolas americanas foram for&amp;ccedil;osamente tomadas pelo Estado por volta de 1840
&amp;ndash; antes, nas &amp;aacute;reas populadas do Norte dos Estados Unidos &amp;ndash; bem como em toda a
Nova Inglaterra &amp;ndash; os n&amp;iacute;veis de literacia eram &lt;i&gt;entre 91 e 94%!&lt;/i&gt; (No
Canad&amp;aacute;, segundo relatos contempor&amp;acirc;neos, &amp;ldquo;por volta de 1867, a maioria das
pessoas... eram mais ou menos letradas,&amp;rdquo; e, &amp;ldquo;quase todas as cidades e vilas j&amp;aacute;
teriam a sua Escola de Gram&amp;aacute;tica.&amp;rdquo;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Este
grau de literacia tem firmemente ca&amp;iacute;do desde ent&amp;atilde;o&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;, apesar de aumentos espantosos no financiamento e
tecnologia, e diminui&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o significativa no tamanho das turmas.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Como &amp;eacute; que a educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o Estatal &amp;ldquo;resolveu&amp;rdquo; ou
&amp;ldquo;melhorou&amp;rdquo; esses historicamente altos graus de literacia?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;No mundo do governo, estas s&amp;atilde;o as chamadas
&amp;quot;melhorias&amp;quot;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;1 em cada 5 estudantes
actualmente leva uma arma para a escola &amp;ndash; 1 em 36 uma arma de fogo! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Quase metade de todos
os estudantes nas grandes cidades dos Estados Unidos abandonam a escola durante
o secund&amp;aacute;rio. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Todos os dias uma
m&amp;eacute;dia de 7.200 estudantes abandonam a escola &amp;ndash; isto s&amp;atilde;o 13 milh&amp;otilde;es de crian&amp;ccedil;as
que fogem das escolas Estatais todos os anos. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;No Canad&amp;aacute; &amp;ndash; muito semelhante
aos EUA - 7% dos abandonos em Ont&amp;aacute;rio eram estudantes de topo (classificados
com &amp;ldquo;A&amp;rdquo;), enquanto que 46% eram estudantes com notas altas (classificados com
&amp;ldquo;B&amp;rdquo;), e 45% explicam o abandono porque basicamente odeiam a escola.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Mais de 32 milh&amp;otilde;es de
adultos nos EUA - 14% da popula&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o &amp;ndash; t&amp;ecirc;m capacidades liter&amp;aacute;rias muito baixas.
Muitos n&amp;atilde;o conseguem ler algo mais desafiante que um simples livro para
crian&amp;ccedil;as com gravuras. (Naturalmente, n&amp;atilde;o h&amp;aacute; requisitos de literacia para
votar.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;42 milh&amp;otilde;es de adultos
Americanos nem sequer conseguem ler; 50 milh&amp;otilde;es s&amp;oacute; conseguem ler a um n&amp;iacute;vel de
quarto ou quinto ano. O n&amp;uacute;mero de adultos classificados como funcionalmente
iletrados aumenta cerca de 2,25 milh&amp;otilde;es todos os anos.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;20% de finalistas do
secund&amp;aacute;rio podem ser classificados como funcionalmente iletrados no dia da
gradua&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o &amp;ndash; depois de mais de 15.000 horas de &amp;quot;educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o&amp;quot; Estatal. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;75% dos adultos
desempregados tem dificuldades em ler e escrever a um n&amp;iacute;vel b&amp;aacute;sico. 7 em cada
10 adultos na pris&amp;atilde;o apresentam os n&amp;iacute;veis mais baixos de literacia. 85% de
todos os delinquentes juvenis s&amp;atilde;o funcionalmente ou marginalmente iletrados.
Quase todos foram for&amp;ccedil;ados a frequentar escolas governamentais durante muitos
anos. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin:5pt 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in;text-indent:-0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;middot;&lt;span style="font:7pt &amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;A percentagem de
crian&amp;ccedil;as Americanas que conseguem ler correctamente n&amp;atilde;o melhorou nos &amp;uacute;ltimos 25
anos, apesar de uma quase triplica&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o do financiamento educacional e uma
redu&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o significativa no tamanho das turmas. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;A
n&amp;atilde;o ser que as escolas do in&amp;iacute;cio do s&amp;eacute;culo XIX estivessem continuamente a
arder, ou submersas, ou cheias de gases nocivos, &amp;eacute; dif&amp;iacute;cil conceber como &amp;eacute; que
o descrito pode alguma vez ser chamado de &amp;ldquo;melhoria&amp;rdquo;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Quando
N&amp;atilde;o Sabes o Que N&amp;atilde;o Sabes...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Algumas pessoas
perguntam como &amp;eacute; que as institui&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es financeiras conseguem escapar depois de
terem enganado a popula&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o inteira atrav&amp;eacute;s de empr&amp;eacute;stimos predat&amp;oacute;rios e
incessantes resgates &amp;ndash; a resposta reside na quase completa iliteracia
financeira do Americano comum. De um artigo no &amp;ldquo;New Yorker&amp;rdquo;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&amp;quot;A profundidade da nossa ignor&amp;acirc;ncia
financeira &amp;eacute; alarmante. Em anos recentes, Annamaria Lusardi, uma economista em
Dartmouth e a presidente do Centro de Literacia Financeira (Financial Literacy
Center, no original), conduziu estudos extensivos sobre o que os Americanos
sabem de finan&amp;ccedil;a. &amp;Eacute; um trabalho depressivo. Quase metade dos inquiridos n&amp;atilde;o
conseguiam responder correctamente a duas perguntas sobre infla&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o e taxas de
juro, e t&amp;oacute;picos ligeiramente mais sofisticados desconcertavam a maioria. Muitas
pessoas sabem as cl&amp;aacute;usulas das suas hipotecas ou a taxa de juro que est&amp;atilde;o a
pagar. E, numa altura em que estamos a pedir mais empr&amp;eacute;stimos do que nunca, a
maioria dos Americanos n&amp;atilde;o conseguem explicar o que s&amp;atilde;o juros compostos.&amp;quot;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Ah, mas um pa&amp;iacute;s com 700 bases militares
ultramarinas est&amp;aacute; cheio de gente com um bom conhecimento de geografia, certo?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Nem por isso. Onze por cento dos jovens
Americanos n&amp;atilde;o conseguem localizar os EUA num mapa. Quase um ter&amp;ccedil;o n&amp;atilde;o tinha
ideia onde era o Oceano Pac&amp;iacute;fico; 58% n&amp;atilde;o conseguiam encontrar o Jap&amp;atilde;o, 65% n&amp;atilde;o
conseguiam encontrar a Fran&amp;ccedil;a, e 69% n&amp;atilde;o conseguiam localizar o Reino Unido.
Menos de 15% conseguiam encontrar Israel ou o Iraque.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Quase um ter&amp;ccedil;o insistiu que a popula&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o dos
Estados Unidos era entre um milhar e dois mil milh&amp;otilde;es, em vez de
aproximadamente 300 milh&amp;otilde;es.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Al&amp;eacute;m disso, apesar dos padr&amp;otilde;es educacionais
terem declinado desde que foram criadas escolas governamentais, actualmente
apenas um ter&amp;ccedil;o dos alunos do oitavo ano t&amp;ecirc;m notas iguais ou superiores ao
n&amp;iacute;vel de profici&amp;ecirc;ncia na Avalia&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o Nacional de Progresso Educativo (no original
National Assessment of Educational Progress &amp;ndash; NAEP) em Leitura (32%),
Matem&amp;aacute;tica (34%) ou Ci&amp;ecirc;ncia (29%). (Imagina dar-lhes um teste de gram&amp;aacute;tica ou
de matem&amp;aacute;tica anterior a 1840!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;A Secret&amp;aacute;ria da Educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o Arne Duncan admitiu
recentemente que 82% das escolas p&amp;uacute;blicas podiam ser rotuladas como &amp;ldquo;a falhar&amp;rdquo;
segundo especifica&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es do &amp;ldquo;Nenhuma Crian&amp;ccedil;a Deixada Para Tr&amp;aacute;s&amp;rdquo; (&amp;ldquo;No Child Left
Behind&amp;rdquo;, no original). Qual &amp;eacute; a solu&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o? Acabar com o programa e devolver o
dinheiro aos contribuintes, ou expandir o financiamento? S&amp;oacute; podes adivinhar um.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;O &amp;ldquo;Vantagem&amp;rdquo; (&amp;ldquo;Head Start&amp;rdquo;, no original)
custou $166 &lt;i&gt;mil milh&amp;otilde;es&lt;/i&gt; desde 1965, apesar de muitos estudos provarem
que a maior parte do dinheiro foi desperdi&amp;ccedil;ado, e n&amp;atilde;o ajudou mi&amp;uacute;dos pobres a
ganhar ou a manter quaisquer melhorias. Recentemente, o seu financiamento foi
aumentado por mais de $2 mil milh&amp;otilde;es.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;As pessoas respondem a incentivos &amp;ndash; quando se
paga &amp;agrave;s pessoas pelo fracasso, tende-se a ter mais fracasso.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;A
Am&amp;eacute;rica gasta mais de $150.000 por estudante entre o primeiro e o 12&amp;ordm; anos &amp;ndash;
quase 3 vezes mais do que gastava em 1970. Entre 1960 e 1985, a propor&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o de
estudantes por professor nas escolas p&amp;uacute;blicas diminuiu perto de 30%. Como &amp;eacute;
sempre o caso com programas governamentais, mais dinheiro, mais recursos e mais
pessoas significa mais e mais resultados catastr&amp;oacute;ficos.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;O economista Thomas Sowell nota que os
resultados do Teste de Sucesso Escolar (Scholastic Achievement Test, no
original) s&amp;atilde;o significativamente mais baixos hoje do que h&amp;aacute; 30 anos atr&amp;aacute;s, e
que o vocabul&amp;aacute;rio do estudante comum contem &lt;i&gt;metade&lt;/i&gt; das palavras que
continha em 1945.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Ser&amp;aacute; porque os professores s&amp;atilde;o mal pagos? N&amp;atilde;o
no Canad&amp;aacute;, onde os professores ganhavam 80% do sal&amp;aacute;rio de um oper&amp;aacute;rio em 1950,
e agora ganham 50% &lt;i&gt;mais&lt;/i&gt; que o sal&amp;aacute;rio b&amp;aacute;sico de um oper&amp;aacute;rio.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;h2 style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Desemprego&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Porque
&amp;eacute; que tanta gente est&amp;aacute; desempregada? Bem, o desemprego est&amp;aacute; estreitamente
ligado &amp;agrave; iliteracia. Mais de 40% dos Canadianos em idade activa t&amp;ecirc;m falhas nas
capacidades liter&amp;aacute;rias b&amp;aacute;sicas necess&amp;aacute;rias e requeridas para participarem com
sucesso no mercado de trabalho.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Nos EUA:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;middot; 43% das pessoas com as capacidades liter&amp;aacute;rias mais baixas vivem na pobreza.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;middot; 17% das pessoas com as capacidades liter&amp;aacute;rias mais baixas recebem senhas de
alimenta&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;middot; 70% das pessoas com as capacidades liter&amp;aacute;rias mais baixa n&amp;atilde;o t&amp;ecirc;m um trabalho
a tempo inteiro ou parcial.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Os n&amp;iacute;veis de literacia tamb&amp;eacute;m estagnaram ou
ca&amp;iacute;ram durante o per&amp;iacute;odo na hist&amp;oacute;ria em que os requisitos de empregabilidade
aumentaram. Uma das raz&amp;otilde;es para o emprego industrial ter desaparecido dos EUA &amp;eacute;
que em 1950, 60% do emprego industrial era n&amp;atilde;o qualificado &amp;ndash; um n&amp;uacute;mero que
mergulhou para 15% nas d&amp;eacute;cadas subsequentes.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;A Associa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o America de Gest&amp;atilde;o (American
Management Association, no original) relatou que mais de 40% dos candidatos a
emprego n&amp;atilde;o t&amp;ecirc;m as capacidades b&amp;aacute;sicas de leitura, escrita e matem&amp;aacute;tica
necess&amp;aacute;rias para concretizarem o trabalho industrial que pretendem. Num
inqu&amp;eacute;rito recente, 90% dos fabricantes dos EUA relatou uma escassez de
trabalhadores qualificados em pelo menos uma categoria de emprego.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Ap&amp;oacute;s mais de um s&amp;eacute;culo e meio de &amp;ldquo;educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o&amp;rdquo;
governamental controlada e obrigat&amp;oacute;ria, a situa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o tornou-se completamente
irrecuper&amp;aacute;vel.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Como o autor vencedor do pr&amp;eacute;mio Pulitzer Chris
Hedges notou no seu livro &amp;ldquo;Imp&amp;eacute;rio da Ilus&amp;atilde;o&amp;rdquo; (&amp;ldquo;Empire of Illusion&amp;rdquo;, no
original):&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Um ter&amp;ccedil;o dos graduados do secund&amp;aacute;rio nunca
l&amp;ecirc;em outro livro no resto das suas vidas, nem o fazem 42% dos diplomados
universit&amp;aacute;rios. Em 2007, 80% das fam&amp;iacute;lias nos Estados Unidos n&amp;atilde;o comprou ou leu
um livro... O Princeton Review analisou transcritos dos debates Gore-Bush de
2000, dos debates Clinton-Bush-Perot de 1992, do debate Kennedy-Nixon de 1960,
e dos debates Lincoln-Douglas de 1858. Reviu estes transcritos usando um teste
padr&amp;atilde;o de vocabul&amp;aacute;rio que indica o n&amp;iacute;vel educacional m&amp;iacute;nimo necess&amp;aacute;rio para um
leitor compreender o texto. Nos debates Lincoln-Douglas, Lincoln falou no n&amp;iacute;vel
educacional de um aluno do 11&amp;ordm; ano, e Douglas dirigiu-se &amp;agrave; multid&amp;atilde;o usando
vocabul&amp;aacute;rio adequado para um graduado do secund&amp;aacute;rio. No debate Kennedy-Nixon,
os candidatos falaram numa linguagem acess&amp;iacute;vel a alunos do 10&amp;ordm; ano. Nos debates
de 1992, Clinton falou ao n&amp;iacute;vel de um aluno do 7&amp;ordm; ano, enquanto Bush falou ao
n&amp;iacute;vel do 6&amp;ordm; ano, tal como fez Perot. Durante os debates de 2000, Bush falou ao
n&amp;iacute;vel do 6&amp;ordm; ano e Gore a um n&amp;iacute;vel avan&amp;ccedil;ado de 7&amp;ordm; ano.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Quanto tempo demorar&amp;aacute; at&amp;eacute; que os debates
Presidenciais sejam feitos com marionetas, cantorias e bolas saltitantes?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 style="margin:0in 0in 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Conclus&amp;atilde;o&lt;/span&gt;
&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;O
apodrecimento da mente e do esp&amp;iacute;rito que surge da compuls&amp;atilde;o universal &amp;eacute;
verdadeiramente a maior trag&amp;eacute;dia do Estatismo. N&amp;atilde;o &amp;eacute; tanto o facto dos nossos
corpos serem tributados, mas o lentamente recusarmos a tributar as nossas
mentes. &amp;Agrave; medida que os inevitavelmente terr&amp;iacute;veis resultados da compuls&amp;atilde;o
surgem em primeiro plano para todos excepto os mais deliberadamente cegos
verem, a juventude j&amp;aacute; n&amp;atilde;o acredita nos ideais da sua sociedade, guardam
desprezo pelos seus anci&amp;atilde;os e as suas hipocrisias aduladoras, e v&amp;ecirc;em com
cinismo insond&amp;aacute;vel as regras sociais que se espera que sigam.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&amp;Agrave; medida que a educa&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o, o rendimento e as
oportunidades para a juventude desaparecem, o mais antigo pacto social entre
gera&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es &amp;ndash; obedece aos teus anci&amp;atilde;os, e recebe benef&amp;iacute;cios &amp;ndash; igualmente se
desintegra. As gera&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es que se beneficiavam mutuamente &amp;ndash; a vitalidade e
criatividade da juventude combinada com as poupan&amp;ccedil;as e a sabedoria dos idosos &amp;ndash;
agora olham-se fixamente com olhos c&amp;iacute;nicos e desconfiados. &amp;ldquo;Porque haver&amp;iacute;amos
de pagar a tua reforma?&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;Porque haver&amp;iacute;amos de pagar a tua p&amp;oacute;s-gradua&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;A maior trag&amp;eacute;dia do Estatismo &amp;eacute; a destrui&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o
da confian&amp;ccedil;a comunal, e a ruptura da coopera&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o entre os que t&amp;ecirc;m diferen&amp;ccedil;as
ben&amp;eacute;ficas, como os velhos e os novos, ricos e pobres, l&amp;iacute;deres e seguidores.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Quando encarceramos os nossos jovens ano ap&amp;oacute;s
ano em perigosas pris&amp;otilde;es de indoutrina&amp;ccedil;&amp;atilde;o Estatal, e os vendemos para servid&amp;atilde;o
futura em troca do suborno pol&amp;iacute;tico do momento, ir&amp;atilde;o mesmo ouvir-nos quanto
lhes dizemos para serem bons, para adiarem gratifica&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es, para trabalharem
arduamente, quando n&amp;atilde;o restam recompensas para lhes oferecermos &amp;ndash; nem financeiras
nem espirituais?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Claro
que n&amp;atilde;o.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Temos de abandonar as nossas ilus&amp;otilde;es de
benevol&amp;ecirc;ncia Estatal&amp;ndash; n&amp;atilde;o para nos salvarmos do Estado, mas uns dos outros &amp;ndash;
dos ressentimentos e preda&amp;ccedil;&amp;otilde;es ulcerantes que inevitavelmente crescem entre
cidad&amp;atilde;os a arranhar e morder por migalhas da mesa pol&amp;iacute;tica.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;O futuro da liberdade &amp;eacute; o futuro da juventude,
e a liberdade da juventude depende dos idosos abandonarem as suas ilus&amp;otilde;es.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Deixo a &amp;uacute;ltima palavra ao grande poeta W.H.
Auden, na esperan&amp;ccedil;a que a sua profecia sobre o s&amp;eacute;culo XX se prove falsa no
s&amp;eacute;culo XXI:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;We would rather be ruined than changed;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
We would rather die in our dread&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Than climb the cross of the moment&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
And let our illusions die.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
(Preferir&amp;iacute;amos ser arruinados a mudar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Preferir&amp;iacute;amos
morrer no nosso terror&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;Que
trepar a cruz do momento&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:black;"&gt;E
deixar as nossas ilus&amp;otilde;es morrer.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://board.freedomainradio.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=254248" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>How Much Government Is Necessary? The Drexel University Debate</title><link>http://board.freedomainradio.com/blogs/freedomain/archive/2011/10/14/how-much-government-is-necessary-the-drexel-university-debate.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2011 20:22:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">59c0a406-59fe-4f33-8532-f7cd028d5483:251774</guid><dc:creator>Stefan Molyneux</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><description>&lt;p&gt;(Please visit the site to view this media)&lt;/p&gt;
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Hi everybody its Stefan Molyneux from Freedomain Radio.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This is a debate
that I had with Michael Badnarik the 2004 Libertarian Presidential candidate in
Philadelphia on Sunday, July 5, 2009.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;#39;m
afraid there have been a few audio problems the first few minutes are fairly
low quality but it does improve after that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Thank you for your patience as we have wrestled with the technical
difficulties to stitch this &amp;ldquo;Frankenfile&amp;rdquo; together and thank you so much to
Paul the expert sound engineer whose gentle spectrographic caresses has
resurrected this file to a fairly high level of quality and thank you so much
for your patience and to the organizers of the event at Drexel University and I
hope that you enjoyed the debate.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This
is Stefan Molyneux from Freedomain Radio and Michael Badnarik, constitutional
scholar, debating the proposition or the question: &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;How Much Government Is Necessary?
&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I want to welcome everybody today and
especially thank you for being here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
have been trying to light the fire for many years and introduce as I see things
turn around and moving in another direction and I want to thank you especially
for me here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean it&amp;hellip;when this shows
this much public interest and abstract and highly intellectual debate by
anarchy versus minarchy, it&amp;#39;s like&amp;hellip;wow, I mean they&amp;rsquo;re not like watching Jerry
Springer.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They here are today.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This is very good news and again, I want to
thank you for participation.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Any
discussion or debate obviously will lead to defining terms and I&amp;#39;m sure that
Stefan and I will be enhancing those definitions as we go on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;As a start, I would like to offer
that an anarchy is basically is an absence of government, 0% as opposed to say
perhaps a totalitarian dictatorship would be 100% government and so somewhere
in the middle, I would like to propose&amp;hellip;minarchy is at the low end, maybe 5-10%
at maximum, I&amp;#39;m not sure what that percentage would be and that currently today
we exist with&amp;hellip;95% of an&amp;hellip;we&amp;#39;re a complete totalitarian dictatorship, but you
know, I think that might be argued we&amp;rsquo;re moving in that direction.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, anarchy and minarchy are very close to
each other and most of you are familiar with what currently have which, you
know, is a plethora of government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Far
more than we need and so from the existing point of view, looking back down the
scale towards 0% and 5%, anarchy and minarchy are going to look and feel to be
very, very close to each other and Stefan and I will try to do our best
differentiate the two one them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;And as kind of a metaphor, I was a
chemist and as a high school chemist one of the things I found interesting was
distilling ethanol.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;#39;t know if
anybody else had that interest, but&amp;hellip;when you distil ethanol&amp;mdash;alcohol, the
maximum that you can get is 95.6% alcohol.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;That&amp;#39;s the maximum and 4.4% water, because you just can&amp;rsquo;t distill
anymore water out of the alcohol and, you know, so 191 proof is basically the
maximum you can get.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, we
usually call it ever clear and as far as I&amp;#39;m concerned, anarchy is that
theoretical absolute that we&amp;rsquo;re always trying for and we can try to distill as
much of the government out of it as possible, but we&amp;rsquo;ll always have just a
little bit of government and this is an issue that the founding fathers
certainly addressed.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;I consider myself the stepfather of
the Constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;James Madison was the
father of the Constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;He died in
1836.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Since then the Constitution has
been pretty much abandoned and orphaned and so I&amp;rsquo;ve adopted it, the
Constitution, and will protect it as if it were my very own.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So a father of the Constitution, James
Madison wrote, &amp;ldquo;It may be a reflection on human nature that such devices should
be necessary to control the abuses of government, but what is government itself
but the greatest of all reflections on human nature.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If men were angels, no government would be
necessary.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If angels were to govern men,
neither external nor internal controls on government would be necessary.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In framing the government which his to be
administered by men over men, the great difficulty lies in this, you must first
enable the government to control the government and then in the next place
oblige it to control itself.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The
dependence on the people is no doubt the primary control on the government, but
experience has taught mankind the necessity of auxiliary precautions.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So as much as I would like to
have&amp;hellip;anarchy, I don&amp;#39;t think that we can actually achieve it, because there are
some things that are necessary for anarchy to&amp;hellip;to exist and one would be
widespread intelligence and adherence to a high ethical standard.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;One that I try to achieve myself.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In the &amp;rsquo;50s and &amp;rsquo;60s, we have stories about
people leaving their doors unlocked, you know, leaving keys in the car because
neighbors were dependent each other and you just never expect anybody to walk
into your home or go take your car.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Today,
you know, we have people putting bars on their windows and locking everything
and even your laptop has to have cable in it these days.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Another thing that anarchy requires is
self-sufficiency and, you know, dependence on yourself.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Currently less than 10% of the families in
the United States living on farms and can produce their own food.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The general population is completely
oblivious as to where their utilities come from.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They assume a gas station, where they pay for
their gas and we have a black out.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Suddenly
we&amp;#39;re in the dark and a woman came rushing in and said, I can&amp;rsquo;t pump any gas.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I informed her that we&amp;rsquo;re in a black out.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;She goes, &amp;ldquo;But I have cash.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I said that had nothing to do with it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Being completely and totally
self-sufficient may be possible, but it means that you&amp;#39;re standard of living is
lower, because there&amp;#39;ll yet be responsible for everything yet do you know your
shelter, your own protection, your own food and your entire life becomes
devoted to keeping yourself alive and so even if we have people arrive on a
deserted island and the first thing that they do is they start to cooperate.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You go to find firewood I&amp;#39;ll build a hut and
you go look for fish and you have this mutual cooperation that will improve
everybody&amp;#39;s standard of living.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You know you go catch the fish and
we can cook the fish over the fire that I built the question that I suppose
really that amounts to does mutual cooperation equal government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How formalized does that cooperation have to
be before we give it the label of cooperation and finally in order to have
anarchy we have to have mutual trust in each other and again maybe just human
nature I don&amp;#39;t believe that we do have trust in each other.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most of the laws that are created are created
by our neighbors to control us and by us control our neighbors the general idea
is well of course I can carry a gun because I&amp;#39;m adult and responsible but I&amp;#39;m
worried about my next-door neighbor.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;I want the government to have
concealed carry permits to moderate my neighbors behavior because I don&amp;#39;t trust
my neighbor and the end result is the government creates a law for me against
my neighbor and creates a law for my neighbor against me and we keep creating
more and more laws against each other and we all basically lose.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So we all struggle to stay alive knowing that
eventually we&amp;#39;re going to lose that struggle and we will all eventually perish
but that doesn&amp;#39;t stop us from struggling to prolong our lives.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Liberty is something that we should always
continuously strive for knowing that even if we were lucky enough to achieve it
we would almost certainly start to lose it immediately and anarchy I would
equate to a utopia yes I am definitely trying to move away from the massive
government that we have too far far less in direction of anarchy and given
human nature I&amp;#39;m not quite sure that we can achieve it thank you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well thank you very much for the chance to
speak and thank you for the very kind introduction.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I will be speaking about a different kind of
anarchy than Mr. Badnarik was speaking about which seems to be similar to the
Stone Age.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;#39;t think that you need
self-sufficiency to be and an anarchist - I can&amp;#39;t find anything in the fridge
without my wife pointing it out - so I think we will be talking about a little
different kind of anarchy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I am what
would be technically known as an anarcho capitalist and that I try to profit
from anarchy it&amp;#39;s that I believe in I think what everybody here would believe
in witches property rights or absolute self ownership and property rights and
the non-initiation of fought is a moral absolute.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I&amp;#39;m sure that most libertarians most minarchist
would agree that property rights are double plus good and initiation of the use
of force is very bad.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;The question or the difference or
the divergence between an anarchist and minarchist I think would be along these
lines that an anarchist looks at the principal of property rights and the
non-initiation of use of force and says those principles are inviolable.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We are not willing take those principles over
our knee and bend them backwards until they break in order to achieve some
pragmatic objective.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The men are just in
general will say yes it would be great to have a utopia where everybody was
perfect and they believe that anarchist do not recognize the reality of human
corruption in human people and I would say the exact opposite is true.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;I believe that an anarchist
understands the reality of evil, the potential of evil and the human psychic
and it is because an anarchist recognizes reality of evil that we oppose the
creation of a monopoly of legal violence within society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;#39;s like circuit will have a propensity for
addiction to alcohol or drugs or whatever and an anarchist who recognizes that
metaphorically says well we&amp;#39;re not going to push a distillery in their living
room because they are drunkards or they are alcoholics and human beings, many
human beings, love to maximize their resources at the expense of others it&amp;#39;s a
mere net gain calculation.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What can I do
in my life that&amp;#39;s going to gain me the most resources in an amoral situation? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Most people are in biological
creatures that&amp;#39;s what we do we maximize resources from the government is a
terrible, powerful, ugly, and violate tool to maximize your resources at the
expense of others and since that&amp;#39;s what human beings like to do we can&amp;#39;t have
one.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Power corrupts human beings like to
get things for free and human beings like to have power over other human
beings, we are a tribal society, Darwinian evolution is why we are here today.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Which is gaining power over others and
gaining things in the amount of effort because human beings have that tendency
and the anarchist recognizes that we cannot have a government because that will
immediately be inhabited by immoral people would use it to their advantage at
the expense of the majority.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is my
view that minarchism is very dangerous philosophy and not because I don&amp;#39;t want
that government of course I do I want that government two point at nothing in
the same way that I don&amp;#39;t if I&amp;#39;m sick I don&amp;#39;t want less sickness I want no
sickness that&amp;#39;s my job.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But I think minarchism
is a very dangerous philosophy and I will tell you why.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Either the minarchist is going to
succeed or either the minarchist is going to fail.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If the minarchist fails then the philosophy
means nothing and the government continues to grow which you can say it&amp;#39;s
what&amp;#39;s been happening for the past say 10,000 years but if minarchist succeed
and I believe that they did succeed in 1776 I don&amp;#39;t think that you can come up
with a better Laboratory experiment for the success or failure of minarchism
than the creation of the American Republic.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;It is a beautiful theoretical laboratory proof of the possibility and
practicality of minarchist and what has happened since then we are all aware of
and that&amp;#39;s why we are here because we went from the very smallest government
which was about 1% or 2% or whatever it is, we went from the very smallest was
government in 1776 to the very largest, most powerful, most terrible most
destructive government the world has ever seen.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;The government with the power to
destroy the world many times over first time in history that has happened never
had a government that big and powerful before.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Is there a relationship between a small government at the beginning and
a big government at the end and I would say that there is because a small
government that respects to a large degree property rights and opposed
initiation of course 381 it creates a free market once you have a free market
you get staggering explosion and wealth once you get in a society a staggering
explosion of wealth more money is available for taxation and more money is
available for the military and more money is available for the endless or hoard
the social programs and social engineering that bureaucrats and politicians
love to do.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;When you get the smallest possible
government you create a free market which builds wealth, which builds wealth,
which builds power which then government swells to take over it becomes a gold
mine for those who want power over others.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;If a man makes $100 a year and you tax them at 50% he will revolt
because he can&amp;#39;t live on $50 a year but the man make $100,000 a year and you
tax them at 50% you won&amp;#39;t rebel which is why we are here and not in the streets
because we can survive on what&amp;#39;s left over because there is so much wealth in
society so when you start with a very small government you create the
conditions for a massive explosion in wealth that creates the greatest prize
that politicians can get a hold of which is the productive energies in wealth
of a free prospering industrious free-market society that&amp;#39;s why I think
monarchism is so dangerous.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;Another way to look at it, if you don&amp;#39;t mind
stepping into metaphor land and hopefully I won&amp;#39;t get too much of it on my
shoe, it&amp;#39;s a guy comes to a doctor, two doctors in a row.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Dr. Minarchist and Dr. Anarchist and yes that
would be a great super hero villain don&amp;#39;t you think and the guy comes in he&amp;#39;s
got some honking tumor hanging off the side and he says Dr. Minarchist can you
help me with this tumor he says it keeps growing and it keeps growing and I
have to get it cut and I have to go to chemotherapy and my hair all fallout and
it&amp;#39;s just terrible what happens and Dr. Minarchist says well I can cut it down
I can shave that thing down 80% maybe I can get it down and the guy is like but
that has happened 20 times before.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I got
my tumor shrunk down 80% it just grows back and I get sick and I have to go to
chemotherapy so what can you do it&amp;#39;s nothing best I can do he says well can&amp;#39;t
you just cut the tumor out completely and he was like oh my God no, that&amp;#39;s
utopia.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;#39;s crazy if I cut out your
tumor you are going to get spontaneous tattoos on your forehead, Mohawks,
you&amp;#39;re going to be riding around motorcycles with Mel Gibson and it&amp;#39;s going to
be chaos and anarchy and dogs living with cats and all kinds of horrible things.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Scare stories abound if I cut out
your tumor completely.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;He says: &amp;ldquo;But if
you cut it down it&amp;#39;s going to grow back!&amp;rdquo; he says to Dr. Minarchist.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Dr. Minarchist says, &amp;ldquo;Don&amp;#39;t worry I have a
plan.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;What is your plan?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;I&amp;#39;m going to cut your tumor down by
80% - but when I&amp;#39;m in there I&amp;#39;m going to take out a magic marker (magic being
the operative word) - I&amp;#39;ll lean over and I&amp;#39;m going to write on that tumor: &lt;i&gt;don&amp;#39;t grow&lt;/i&gt; - and I will call it &amp;ldquo;the
Constitution&amp;rdquo; because we all know tumors respect constitutions, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And then it just grows back.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Now this man goes to Dr. Anarchist and
Dr. Anarchist says: &amp;ldquo;Out it comes! It&amp;#39;s a tumor, it&amp;#39;s always going to re-grow,
it&amp;rsquo;s happened hundreds of times in the past, and it&amp;#39;s going to happen again, so
we are not failing to compromise, we are going to cut it out because I know
it&amp;#39;s going to re-grow!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;And that is the way that minarchism
looks to an anarchist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;It is a tumor. There are about 230-odd
countries in the world today, and not one of them has a government that is not
growing or has not grown considerably since it was designed especially to stay
small.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There have been hundreds and
hundreds more through our history from the ancient Egyptians to the ancient
Romans to the ancient Greeks to Magna Carta &amp;ndash; which was actually more rights to
the nobles - and you ended up with feudalism for another 500 years.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Every single culture, every single country,
has designed a government to serve the people and to be small and to protect
property to oppose violence every single time - we have 5-600 examples of this
and never once has worked &lt;i&gt;because it
breaks principle&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We say we oppose
violations of property and personhood and in order to achieve that we are going
to create an agency endowed with the special unique monopolistic ability to
violate persons and property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You cannot protect persons and
property by creating an agency with the monopolistic power to violate persons
and property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We all understand that
when a parent leans over a child and says, &amp;ldquo;Don&amp;#39;t hit your sister.&amp;rdquo; that that
is a contradiction.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;#39;s the same thing
you can create an agency with a monopoly of violence to oppose violence it
never works, it tracks the principal right up front and I think the very, very
important thing that I would suggest is that one of the most important virtues
and pursuit of wisdom and knowledge is humility.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I fully accept that the founding fathers were
stone geniuses whose intellects that we can all hope to maybe someday emulate
and some smallest manner and they genuinely were the cream of the crop of the
Enlightenment and some of them are brilliant men of the age and well-versed in
history and philosophy and political science and they did some amazing work to
come up with the best conceivable balance and powers and ways to keep
government small.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Separation of church and state,
brilliant and it has been tried many times the British revolution of the 18th
century was supposed to be there government small serving the people what
happened? It grew just as the American Empire did into the British Empire which
grew over the third of the globe.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Subjugated
hundreds and hundreds of millions of people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You may the government small and grows, the smaller the tumor starts the
larger and more quickly it grows.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Humility
is very important I do not believe for one split second that I had any kind of
capacity to create scribbles on a piece of paper that is going to stop evil
forever it doesn&amp;#39;t work.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It can never
work.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;How many of you would get a copy of
a law written on a piece of paper walking down an alley and some guy comes
running at you with a knife and you&amp;rsquo;re like stop.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What&amp;#39;s he going to do? It doesn&amp;#39;t work
because the Constitution do nothing they are pieces of paper.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah but the Constitution restricts the
government, no, the Constitution brings down a tree or two and uses up some ink.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Nobody goes into a shooting match saying look
I&amp;#39;m invulnerable right it&amp;#39;s just a piece of paper.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;#39;s not a solution to the problem of
violence and I do not imagine for a moment that I&amp;#39;m going to be smarter than
the 500,000 geniuses who try to solve a problem of violence in society by
creating a monopoly of violence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You can give me 1000 years and 8000
helpers to try and come up with magic spells and magic words on a piece of
paper that would stop violent people for ever from doing wrong with
institutionalized violence I would never be able to do it that is called
humility.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Can&amp;#39;t be done, recognizing
what&amp;#39;s impossible is the first step to wisdom.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And the last thing that I would say, what&amp;#39;s my time 1 min.? The last
thing that I would say which I will say very quickly is that the belief is an
constitutionality and Republicanism and limited government is that if you get
the right words on a piece of paper that evil people will no longer do evil and
they will come into government and go oh alright no evil okay no evil but if we
can come in with magic words on a piece of paper that will stop evil people
doing evil we don&amp;#39;t need a government because the goat the Mafia and say here
is a piece of paper that says don&amp;#39;t do evil to go oh okay okay I will stop
doing evil.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Or we go to murder and we
say okay you did kill but sign this piece of paper that says don&amp;#39;t do evil and
he goes okay I go free if I signed a piece of paper okay here you go.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;We all understand that that will not
stop the murder and it will not stop the thief from doing evil, the pieces of
paper will not stop people from doing evil things if we can come up with such
magic paper and such Harry Potter wonders we get everybody in society to sign
it and there will be no more evil we don&amp;#39;t need a government but we all
understand that that is not how the world works that evil people will find
anything you want in order to get away with it and that&amp;#39;s what will happen in
any on Minarchistic constitutional society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;If we can do something wonderful with a piece of paper or stock you will
permanently in its tracks we get everyone in society to sign it lo and behold
there is no evil and be don&amp;#39;t need a government but if we doubt that that will
work and how was it going to work with politicians.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is not work with the Mafia then how was he
going to work with an even more organized set of criminals called politicians
you understand we don&amp;#39;t stop the market in its tracks by getting them to sign a
piece of paper with rules on it if it&amp;#39;s not would work with the Mafia and it&amp;#39;s
not will work with the murder it is not going to work with politicians and
recognizing that basically reality is where the creativity of coming out with a
statement society but how a society works in the absence of government is all
about.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;#39;t like, you seen this
cartoon you know someone has got this equation on the board and then he comes
up with an answer and there is a cloud in the middle called then a miracle
occurs and then somehow it comes to the answer here and then some guy who comes
up and says you might want to slash that bit out of little because I&amp;#39;m not too clear
on that well to me it&amp;#39;s like we want a nonviolent society for a society that
opposes violence and support property rights and to me the Constitution and
monarchism is like then a miracle occurs and yes this be a wonderful society
that part doesn&amp;#39;t work and so we need to find another solution and of course my
podcast if you&amp;#39;re interested they&amp;#39;re all free you can look into that there are
lots of creative solutions about how we can have national defense police and
all the things that we need because there are bad people in society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;#39;s a lots of ways to do it that don&amp;#39;t
involve this magical Golden gun that&amp;#39;s going to turn and make everyone good and
is never going to attract that people trying to control it and I think it&amp;#39;s
that&amp;#39;s where to spend our creative energies rather than the standard feedback
that pieces of paper will stop bullets.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thank
you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, the second category is now beginning.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Which society would build the roads most
sufficiently or any public good for that matter, and Mr. Badnarik, if you would
like to take the question first.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;#39;t understand which society would build
the road.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I figured it would be pretty
much the same there&amp;#39;s no reason in having a Minarchist a small government
implies that there are a lot of things that the government doesn&amp;#39;t do so I
think it will be pretty much the same if you don&amp;#39;t allow the government to
build the roads in a Minarchist environment it would turn out to be the same
way in an anarchist, both ways it can be private and as I try to explain and
express in the beginning from our current point of view from where we sit now
with government monarchy and anarchy are going to be almost identical and it&amp;#39;s
going to be up to Stefan and I to really kind of distinguished how they are
different.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Are you all ready for a bad pun? Question of
the road because I consider myself a bit of a road scholar.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Hello is this thing on hello? Take a moment
to enjoy that joke shall we.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know
it&amp;#39;s funny the environmentalist who have a lot of good things to say are
strangely addicted to avoiding this topic of the fact that taxes pay for roads
is one of the worst things for the environment because people don&amp;#39;t have to pay
their driving in that sense right I mean yeah they pay for gas taxes but you
wouldn&amp;#39;t be able to drive if the government hadn&amp;rsquo;t built all the roads.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Roads are pretty simple I mean they existed
prior to the government it wasn&amp;#39;t like there were no roads before the
government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;There were private policies in the
18th century in America which all worked fine until the government took them
over.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If you want to go build a housing
development you&amp;#39;re never going to sell the houses unless there is a road to it
and the roads are pretty easy to solve and even if you don&amp;#39;t accept the
technology now where you can actually track where people drive and send them
the bill.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;When I used to have a real job
I went on a highway which was entirely private and I paid a toll and it was
beautiful I mean it was like an airport landing strip it was fantastic where of
course the public highway is stop and go choked up.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So absolutely rules will be much more better
much more efficient and those roads which are not supported by the traffic will
fall into disuse and there&amp;#39;ll be changes and people will drive less or work at
home one.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You end up with a much more
efficient use of resources without all these crazy government subsidies and
effect of course they don&amp;#39;t charge you for peak usage is crazy so you know that
way people all drive to work at nine o&amp;#39;clock and so much more efficient use of
resources and I think you would agree that that should be a private function
monarchy or not.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This next question is from Michael Badnarik
also remember that rebuttals are allowed after your allotted time.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Michael, Is individual freedom compatible
with government no matter how small it is?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Is individual&amp;#39;s freedom compatible with..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Compatible with government no matter how
small the government is.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yes it is compatible because we have
individual rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The basic premise of
my book and my Constitution class is the difference between rights and
privileges.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We the people have
unalienable and individual rights we don&amp;#39;t have to ask for permission a
privilege is something that someone allows you to do and they can revoke that
privilege at any time and most of us are not really clear on the concept that
we have individual rights and we give the government privileges, article 1
section 1 clause 1 says all legislative powers here in granted.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well when we are granted legislative powers
it implies that they are privileges and we can take those privileges away from
the government any time we are brave enough to do so and my supporting evidence
would be the declaration of independence which says that when any form of
government becomes destructive of your rights, the right of the people to alter
or abolish it and I think we can all agree that it is time to alter the
government and you know again we have the option if we want to to abolish it
and to establish a new you know and to provide new guards for our future
securities.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think it is important to remember that the
disparity of power between citizens and government now is very different than
it was in the 18th century and in the 18th century we had musket versus musket
I mean it was a relatively similarly armed opposing groups.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What&amp;#39;s that old Bill Cosby thing where they
loop the coin toss the British loop the coin toss and their handicap is that
they all have to march in a row with big x&amp;rsquo;s on them and the revolutionary
force can live in the woods dressed in tree branches and shoot from wherever
they want but back then it was relatively equal right because there were no
nuclear weapons, there were no spy satellites, there were no I don&amp;#39;t know brain
flying lasers from UFOs and stuff the amount of hardware and technology that is
available to a state dominated citizens now not to mention the computer,
deductions, the source of income tax, and so on it&amp;#39;s now all how much you can
be tracked and controlled because of the technology that was largely developed
under free-market is what I&amp;#39;m saying.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Small government means free-market
and free-market needs innovation and government takes over the innovation and
uses it to control citizenry you&amp;#39;re creating the weapons that are used to keep
you down and so in the future not everyone is going to have a nuclear weapon
obviously but the government will because usually Minarchist say government is
for national defense.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How are you
supposed to conceivably no matter how many six shooters you have how you
supposed to stand up to F-16s and M1 tanks and nuclear weapons and aircraft
carriers and spy satellites is simply impossible that&amp;#39;s why you can&amp;#39;t have a government
now because the disparity between average citizens strength of mite and the
state is simply far too great citizen never can control the government and the
government will always be that well armed that&amp;#39;s why we have to get rid of it
as an institution completely.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Stefan in the efforts of government law how
would you constitute that? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Hand to hand combat and that I think why this
is going to go in about 3 min.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;not yet
the conflict resolution of course it is essential I mean the reality is that
people are going to disagree, people are going to cheat, people are going to
steal, people are going to do bad things with good promises and that&amp;#39;s the
reality which of course why we can&amp;#39;t have government because people will also
warm to the government while they have monopoly of force.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;#39;s lots and lots of different ways of
coming into it something that&amp;#39;s really, really powerful in society is ostracism
right it&amp;#39;s a really, really powerful thing.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;I think Michael is completely right
interdependence is the key to wealth division of labor we all are so dependent
on each other.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean if I had to grow
my own food I would end up eating my feet which would be crazy right and I&amp;#39;m
not that flexible but we are so interconnected that if we are not allowed to
participate in economic life it is a complete catastrophe for us and so I have
a bunch of articles and podcasts and a book called practical anarchy which you
think is an oxymoron but I don&amp;#39;t which is available for free on the website
which I have these dispute resolution organizations I don&amp;#39;t know how it&amp;#39;s all
the work because I can&amp;#39;t find the future down to the last detail and no one can
but it&amp;#39;s a way it could work.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If Michael
and I enter into an agreement to do stuff together right if he sells me an iPod
I&amp;#39;m going to give him 100 bucks then we have insurance so than 2% of that goes
to the insurance and if he doesn&amp;#39;t ship me the iPod I get the hundred dollars
from the insurance company and if I don&amp;#39;t pay him and he ships me the iPod he
gets 100 bucks.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If we trust each other
we don&amp;#39;t have to have that and then we have no recourse and so on.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Any time you sign a contract we both
nominate an objective third-party who&amp;#39;s going to mediate the dispute and we
agree to abide by that ruling and if we don&amp;#39;t abide by that ruling we are no
longer to allow to participate in contracts these dispute resolution
organizations simply won&amp;#39;t allow it to continue in contracts until we deal with
the problem and then we face the problem ostracism and a society where to be
ostracized is to go to the Stone Age caricature of anarchy Mr. Badnarik
portrayed a little earlier.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The
interdependence of human beings means we have an enormous amount of power and
influence over each other without using violence this by saying I&amp;#39;m not going
to do business with you if you break a contract, that is a disaster for people
and of course right now contract conflict can&amp;#39;t resolve it all.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Anyone here ever tried to use the court
system to resolve a contract conflict? Anyone how did that go was it a
productive and quality use of your time was it efficient, was it positive, was
it useful.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So right now we have the best
of both worlds we don&amp;#39;t actually have an effective conflict resolution but
competition is band and if we can survive this we can sure as heck survive it
where competition flourishes in the productive resolution of disputes to the
benefit of the just party.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I agree if we have contract dispute we can go
to arbitration.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There is a saying that
in Texas he needed killing is about defense fortunately that&amp;#39;s not necessarily
true but that&amp;#39;s what it all boils down to I don&amp;#39;t know why and wish that it
were not true but in human nature you get enough people together you&amp;#39;re always
going to find somebody who is crazy or somebody who is evil and that&amp;#39;s what it
all really boils down so I&amp;#39;m not worried about the 98% of the people that kind
of go around and mind their own business we&amp;rsquo;re where we about the lunatics that
are going out to hurt others.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is a
necessary fact of life that at times you need to use violence to quell the
violence, you fight fire with fire and the question ultimately revolves around
where is that going to happen.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Now if you want to do anarchy and
have everybody resolve these violent things themselves I mean I would be happy,
let me wear my shoulder holster and I promise only to shoot the guilty people
and you know even my friends are going to go oh wow we want to let Badnarik do
that that would be a little bit extreme and so the purpose of having a
government a monarchy is to have a dispassionate use of force.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I am obviously emotionally involved in
whatever the issue is and it&amp;#39;s like you&amp;#39;re guilty kill him and the idea is we
go whoa Badnarik were going to calm this down we&amp;rsquo;re going to take it slow were
going to have a jury of our peers to evaluate this and if we finally decide
many years later that the person did commit murder then we can do a lethal
injection or electric chair or something like that and so this is where there
is no good answer.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would really like
to never have to kill anybody you know it&amp;#39;s like why can&amp;#39;t we all just get
along I don&amp;#39;t know because people are strange that way and so I am content to
have a very small government say okay were going to use force to protect your
property because most people won&amp;#39;t.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;John
Wayne in the shootist said most people will flinch or hesitate before they pull
the trigger he said I won&amp;#39;t.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;I went to front sight training and
you have all these guys out there dressed in camouflage with all the extra
ammunition hanging around there looking like little Junior rambos and I said
okay you look really impressive but you&amp;#39;re shooting at a paper target I mean do
you really do you really have the courage to pull the trigger and take another
human life and suddenly it got although quiet because they realize that in most
cases they don&amp;#39;t and certainly a vast majority of people won&amp;#39;t do that and they
need to be protected and they want an organization to do that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There is no piece of paper which is going to
be perfect, we were discussing this last night how can we write the
Constitution so that it is perfect, how can we write a piece of paper so that
this won&amp;#39;t happen any another 223 years and the answer is it&amp;#39;s not possible.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The cost of liberty is eternal vigilance it&amp;#39;s
up to us and again there is no good answer either I have to kill him or we have
to have a government do it and we&amp;#39;re going to keep on bouncing back and forth
between who is going to have that power and ultimately I know the government
will not protect me efficiently which is why I am a very strong second
amendment supporter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;My question is for both hypothesize what
might the world look like if the U.S.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Constitution
had never been ratified? Would the number of deaths throughout the world be
larger or smaller without the US government? We will start with Stefan first.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Good.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Nice
theoretical question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well if the US
Constitution had never been ratified there would want to go out on a limb and say
that there would be little to no federal government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Would that would mean is that the competition
among the states to keep their productive citizens would be very high because
originally there was 13 sovereign nations right like Germany and England. &lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;So what would happen if the Constitution was
not ratified there would be no federal government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There will be individual countries and those
countries would compete to have people stay and not move and not leave because
it&amp;#39;s really hard to control the movement of people in the 18th century right
and it wasn&amp;#39;t even any passports until the first world war because people would
sail away and come here and there was no electronic this that and the other and
you could just go wherever you want it for the most part so it would be that
aspect and that competition to keep people would mean that taxes would be
slower to rise because the left centralized things are and the easier it is to
move between things the more competition there is right because it&amp;#39;s like a bunch
of farmers with the cows can go wherever they want you have to provide them
with some good gravy in order to slaughter them later and attack metaphorical
sense right but there would be greater competition, oh now hungry, I will eat
later.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There will be greater competition
for livestock which I think will help things there could have been a civil war
that would have gone on but it really was nothing as bad and I doubt it would
have actually happen because I think as we all know not having going with the Schoolhouse
Rock version of history we know that the war was against the South in order to
extract further tax concessions and had nothing to do but slavery that would
have not occurred.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Slavery would have died out as it
did because they would eventually figure out that the slaves were not only
completely immoral but economically unproductive so slavery would have died out
just as it did in the rest of the world simply by governments no longer cashing
slaves.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;#39;s all you have to do to get
rid of slavery you don&amp;#39;t need a stupid Civil War as they did in Brazil the
government just said okay they&amp;#39;re not going to catch no slaves anymore because
they sally became too expensive to run off you own slaves all a time so slavery
just ends and the government stops enforcing it so it would have died out
relatively quickly because you wouldn&amp;#39;t have been able to compete with the
slave free societies who have more agricultural productivity.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You for sure wouldn&amp;#39;t have the first world
war because the first world war, America was involved in the first world war
which is a very strong argument that American involvement in the first world
war led directly to the second world war but Americans sent over huge numbers
of troops it tip the balance of power against Germany so much that Germany had
to had to agree to the Treaty of Versailles otherwise they were just fighting
to a standstill and they would have going home and there would have been no
Treaty of Versailles because Germany agreed to the Treaty of Versailles they had
to pay off all their debts which meant they printed money that Germany would
have originally been had been paying up into the 1980s from the first world war
if the treaty had been honored.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Because
they had to print so much money they ended it with hyperinflation which
destroyed the middle class radicalized the Germans who would then turn to
Hitler for salvation.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;There was hatred of the Jews because
the Jews were perceived as the international bankers striving to hyperinflation
so that hatred escalated and so if you didn&amp;#39;t get a first world war without the
federal government it&amp;#39;s very unlikely you would have had the second world war
or so I would say that the Constitution and a very obviously abstract
theoretical way the blood of millions seeped into its imparchment and without
that the history of the world I think would&amp;#39;ve been a much more peaceful and
benevolent place that&amp;#39;s not even to count the things like, do we really think
that Delaware would have invaded Iraq on its own of course not of course not you
have to have the federal government&amp;#39;s and the reason you had the federal
government it has the tax livestock which gives it the fee of currency power to
fund wars through preying on future generations right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So you would not have had the wars
in Iraq, you would have had Korea, you would have had Vietnam, you wouldn&amp;#39;t
have had all the proxy wars around the world, you would have extraordinary
renditions, you would have the torture camps of Guantanamo Bay, you wouldn&amp;#39;t
have Abdul Glade, there would be enormous amount of peace because the more you
give people the power.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What is the
slogan of government free evil that&amp;#39;s what it is.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You get to do evil and other people will pay
in cash and in blood and the more abstract that you are from those you rule the
more you would you can commit and that&amp;#39;s why if you&amp;#39;re going to have a tyranny
you want it right by your side not overhead in the sky dominating everything so
I think it has a seriously negative effect on world peace.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sorry that is a real sprint to history and
I&amp;#39;m not going to say you agreed with everything but that certainly is the
perspective that I would take.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I love a really good debate so I&amp;#39;m going to
agree with Stefan &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[laughing]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; either that or agree with the truth and again
anarchy and monarchy is going to be very, very close with one have to search
hard to find some of the differences I mean I teach a class on the Constitution
and the Constitution is far from perfect article 1 section 9 clause 1 you know
allows slavery to exist until 1808 I mean there is definitely problems with it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The colonies were trying to repay the
Revolutionary war debt.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The 13 colonies
were printing money like it was going out of style and with printing money you
get hyper insulation and the economy stops and so the people in the colonies
went wow we really love freedom but the economy sucks we want you to go to
Philadelphia and modify the articles of Confederation and that&amp;#39;s not what they
did.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They went they through the articles
in the trash and they came out with a more perfect union more perfect then the
articles of Confederation presumably and an established a more centralized
government Alexander Hamilton was a Minarchist he didn&amp;#39;t like King George the
third but but he thought that King George Washington would be a really great
idea and fortunately Washington rejected the idea.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Alexander Hamilton&amp;#39;s followers were
nationalist a one-to-one strong centralized government he knew they wouldn&amp;#39;t go
for that and so he labeled his team of supporters Federalist which is a lie and
Thomas Jefferson&amp;#39;s followers were Federalist they wanted a loosely distributed
or loosely organized government but that label Federalist had already been
taken and Hamilton said well we were Federalist and your the opposite of us you
must be anti-Federalist which make it sounds like so basically what Hamilton
did was switch the labels you know good guys and bad guys switch the labels in
order to get the Constitution ratified not a surprise that our politicians lie
to us the surprise really is that 200 some odd years later when we talk the
strong centralized government in Washington DC we don&amp;#39;t call it a national
government which is what it is we go oh that&amp;#39;s a federal government you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So Hamilton was such a good liar we&amp;rsquo;re
still follow for the lie to centuries later so if we had stayed with the
articles Confederation the articles required unanimous support the unanimous
vote of all the existing states and try to imagine 50 states united together
and getting a unanimous vote for 50 states how big you think the federal
government will be? It would be a trivia question okay for four tickets to the
local concert got to identify the city where the national government is and
they will go oh gosh I used to know that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So we would be better off, we want to make that government small and
again it is up to us to make sure that it stays small that&amp;#39;s what eternal
vigilance is all about.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You don&amp;#39;t go out and cut the lawn
and go wow I really got a well manicured lawn and this is the last time this
summer I&amp;#39;m going to have to cut the grass you know you get a good rain and you
know your neighbors are going to be complaining because the grass is a bit tall
the government is the same way.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thomas
Jefferson suggested that we need a little revolution about every 20 years and
then kind of trim back the government that has grown up the problem is it&amp;#39;s
like earthquakes in California in California we like earthquakes about every
six or 12 months because when you have earthquakes often everything vibrates
you go wow did you feel that that was pretty cool and nothing bad happens you
know it&amp;#39;s after five or 10 years when you haven&amp;#39;t had an earthquake and all
that pressure has built up now you get 6.2 on the Richter scale and you know
not down buildings and roads so I think we are at that place politically we
haven&amp;#39;t had enough revolution in a while and if we do in fact have one were
going to be knocking down some buildings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;[Silence] [0:49:53]-[0:50:11]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If what had been, if, oh socialism?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;[Silence] [0:50:15]-[0:50:25]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Short answer.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;No any questions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;[Laughter]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most Americans imagine this huge political
dichotomy between the Republicans and the Democrats either red or blue and that
is a false dichotomy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know the
Democrats want to control your life and the Republicans want to control your
life I me what the heck is the difference the real dichotomy is between
individualism and collectivism and any decision about your life easy you can
make a decision or the government can make the decision for you and anybody
with half a brain pretty much agrees that I&amp;#39;m smart enough to make my own
decisions without the government helping so.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Socialism and Communism are inherently evil as Stefan pointed out
private property very important it&amp;rsquo;s the number one answer in my Constitution
class.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know every question about the
Constitution openly derives you know the answer is property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Communism has 10 planks and the first thing
is to abolish private property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You have
no private property you have no rights and Socialism is just Communism is
little sister Socialism is the imperfect implementation of collectivist
principles.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Communism is presumably the
perfect implementation of those principles and I&amp;#39;m opposed to collectivism you
know I defend everybody&amp;#39;s individual life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The roads of defense and I agree with what
you are saying and it really is frustrating when you are a communicator about
freedom and liberty and antiwar and anti-violence and anti-torture and anti-the
great rooms of modern state is prison and so on and people say way yes there is
the blood of millions and there is the enslavement of millions and there is the
starvation of millions through statism but you know we can&amp;#39;t be free because
people need to drive places.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;#39;s such a
strange perspective that because we have problems with how we going to defend
the geographical area we must all be slaves and sheep and tax livestock and
herded around indoctrinated at schools and dangle a few coins in our old age
because these problems are so insoluble but they really not.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think national defense is something that
comes up oh if there&amp;#39;s no government is no such thing as national defense to
quick answers and there&amp;#39;s more and podcast and in books if you&amp;#39;re interested.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;First the foremost national defense the weird
thing about when you use violence and solve problems you freeze those solutions
in time think of public education we almost was went to public schools right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In 1860 or 1870s they were nationalized they
went from the free market to the state.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In
1860 you had a classroom with a teacher who had a piece of chalk and a
blackboard.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;150 years later with the Internet
with virtual reality with homeschooling with pen tablets with every kind of
communications transformation that you can conceive of and a few that you can
never conceive of what do we have 150 years later? We have a blackboard a piece
of chalk and a teacher right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It freezes
solutions in time when you wrap them in violence a freeze in time.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The problem with state is fundamentally is
that it&amp;#39;s a solution that&amp;#39;s old as human times it&amp;#39;s fundamentally tribalism on
a national scale.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So it&amp;#39;s at least
10,000 years old if you look back at 5000 years or 7000 years the ancient
Egyptians had governments, they had national defense, they had taxation, they
had inflation, they had currency, all of the staggering destructive sites that
statism represent.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We don&amp;#39;t use medical
technology from the ancient Egyptians, we don&amp;#39;t use popirus from the ancient
Egyptians, but still we supposed to use this concept called the government
which is so old.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;National defense has
been superseded by technological advances no country has owned even a single
nuclear device has ever been invaded ever.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;The four proxy wars right England
and Argentina in the Falklands we have Russia and America and Vietnam and Korea
and so on but no country that had a single nuclear weapon has been invaded why
is Europe at peace for the first time in 10,000 years because they had weapons
of mass instruction and the leaders, these brave political military leaders,
silly seem to find a lot of restraint when they are in the crosshairs right
when they had to send young people to be slaughtered but they themselves could
get hit with a nuke suddenly they seem to find a lot of restraint and the
capacity for peace.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So what you need to defend a
geographical area a couple of nukes what is that going to cost you? Hundred
million dollars a year it&amp;#39;s a buck or two per person per year to guarantee that
you&amp;#39;re not going to be invaded.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Anymore
you are going to start causing trouble overseas which get people flying planes
into your buildings so you don&amp;#39;t want any more than that you want as minimal a
possible defense completely easy in a free society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Second point which I will keep brief is that,
let&amp;#39;s use our moderators just very briefly, the guy in the suit is the status
society and the guy without the suit who should really be unshaven is the
anarchy society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I&amp;#39;m the evil
third-party dude who has a military and wants to invade right why is it that I
want to invade another country is it to sightsee? Of course not.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;#39;s because I want to take over the tax
structure of that society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;All right you could that society has
tax livestock to produce consistent money which I can then spend.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So if I go invade this guy then I can take
over his tax structure which is of course what every conqueror does they go
when they take over the government they continue to extract the taxes from the
population.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I can go and invade this
guy, this guy country out I would say, I go invade this guy country and I can
take over the tax structure of his state.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;But this crazy anarchy dude right his country has no tax structure.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There is no tax collection is the difference
between time to take over a really well organized farm that&amp;#39;s very productive
and wondering into a swamp no disrespect.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;He actually smells great.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;#39;m
going back for just one more but that&amp;#39;s the real difference if you have an
anarchy society there&amp;#39;s nothing to invade because there is nothing to take over
there is no tax structure.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There is no
Fort Knox that you go and create there is no national Army.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Why did Hitler going to Western
Czechoslovakia because of the Skoda ominent works which was created by the
state so we can take those over to get the hundred thousand soldiers to get the
20,000 tanks to get the artillery unit that&amp;#39;s why you went there.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If it was a stately society those things,
those fruits, those benefits would not be there to take.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So you don&amp;#39;t have to burst a couple nukes you
don&amp;#39;t have to worry about being invaded is your anarchistic society because
there is nothing to take.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;#39;re not
taken over a farm and getting the milk and the eggs and then just wondering
into a forest where there is nothing to take.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;There is no sane person ever going to invade an anarchic society plus of
course you don&amp;#39;t know who has what weapons which is a little different any
status society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Trying to invade a status
society particularly in Europe there is a population that is disarmed.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Even the greatest military in the world is
having a tough time standing up to our Iraqis who are arming themselves because
there is no disarmament of Iraqis because they are just bringing arms and from
other country.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So you simply going to
not worry about national defense is going to be a couple of bucks a year and
even that&amp;#39;s going to pay the way.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No one
is going to want to invade you because there&amp;#39;s nothing to take and they don&amp;#39;t know
who&amp;#39;s armed and you just are not going to have to worry about it but we still
think in the same old way as when that kind of statist solutions seems to be
essential for everyone it&amp;#39;s really not the case.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Technology and events and weapons of mass
destruction have overtaken that need.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;next question this is for both speakers.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Imran once wrote in a capitalism unknown
ideal that anarchy as a political concept is a na&amp;iuml;ve and distraction a society
without an organized government would be at the mercy of the first criminal
that came along and who would precipitate it into the chaos of gang warfare.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Stefan and Michael please argue for or
against Imran status society.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;First of all I just wanted to mention I am a
massive fan of Ian Ran &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[phonetic] [0:59:41]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; I think she is a stone genius
describing liatus &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[phonetic] [0:59:45]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; and without her I probably still be some
muttering Canadian socialist, Canadian anarchist isn&amp;#39;t that weird? Is like the
two words you would never expect to hear together like Finnish entrepreneur or
military intelligence or Something like that right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s just weird.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re an anarchist, you must be from Bolivia.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, Nicaragua, anyway.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I have huge, huge respect for Ian Ran, two
things that I disagree with her approach on ethics though of course I agree
with almost all of her conclusions.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Not
that that means anything.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It doesn&amp;rsquo;t
prove anything it just means that I do agree.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So just the hugest respect for Ian Ran, as one of the greatest philosophers
that ever lived.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think her stance on
anarchy is irrational.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I know she&amp;rsquo;s
going to come and haunt my dreams but she says that some gang is going to take
over society but what are, the question what are they going to take over? What
are they going to take over? There&amp;rsquo;s no tax structure in place.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s not this constant money spigot coming
out of the government control of citizens and if there is this incredible
desire for domination over other human begins, how does the existence of
government solve that problem? It&amp;rsquo;s a huge plumb prize for every evil person to
grab a hold of to control other human beings because it&amp;rsquo;s already in existence,
its already self funding.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;The military, the weapons, the
control, the police, the prisons, the prison guards, the truncheons, the court
system, everything, the indoctrination system through the children for the most
part, although though I know she wouldn&amp;rsquo;t agree with that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s already in place you just have to step
in and take the money but in a free society, a truly free society with no
state, those the apparatus for control and profit simply do not exist.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can&amp;rsquo;t just go around creating them.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I have a whole section in this book about say
some defense agency, you pay so defense agency, how they wouldn&amp;rsquo;t they just
become another government and it is complexly illogically impossible,
economically impossible.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I won&amp;rsquo;t go
through the whole argument because I&amp;rsquo;ve got my guy here keeping me on time but
have a look at it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s a really, really
strong argument how of course there is a danger of human domination.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s why we can&amp;rsquo;t have a free existing
structure that is expressedly designed for human domination hold the state.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If that&amp;rsquo;s not there, people will be bullies
in their private lives but they&amp;rsquo;re not going to take over the whole society of
hundreds of millions of people and take half their incomes at the point of a
gun because that gun simply won&amp;rsquo;t be there and you can&amp;rsquo;t just snap your fingers
and create it in a free society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I also want to say that I&amp;rsquo;m a huge fan of Ian
Ran.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think that logical thought is the
only way to come to any reasonable conclusion.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;In an early metaphor Stephen was talking about government as kind of
this cancer and you suggested that you don&amp;rsquo;t go into the doctor and ask him to
cut out 80% of the tumor, obviously you&amp;rsquo;d want to remove all of it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What that metaphor overlooks is that the
tumor had to rise spontaneously the first time.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;It would be presumed that it had to come from somewhere and I believe
that is true about government and again if we could eliminate all government
and again we haven&amp;rsquo;t actually defined what government is.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean I don&amp;rsquo;t know if we established that
mutual cooperation with nothing written down is anarchy and then it&amp;rsquo;s only when
you write stuff down that as soon as we start to have contracts, you know we
write contracts on paper because we presume the papers not going to change.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;If Stephen and I agree to something
verbally and shake hands and are really good friends and we come back a year
from now and I go you said, he goes no that&amp;rsquo;s not what I said and if we don&amp;rsquo;t
have anything written down you know we can end up arm wrestling or getting into
fist to fist to try to debate what was done.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;If we have it written down we can go ah here it is on paper, that&amp;rsquo;s what
we agreed to so and even that is not a perfect cure because you know those
contracts can also be misinterpreted or reinterpreted later.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But again one of the factors that makes
anarchy so wonderful but impossible is human nature.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Most of us, I&amp;rsquo;m going to just
roughly estimate you know 98% of us just want to be left alone, you know I
really, really like you but I have no desire to interfere in your life
whatsoever.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean I&amp;rsquo;m busy trying to
run my life and I&amp;rsquo;m not doing that real well so I don&amp;rsquo;t have enough time to try
to control yours but for whatever reason there are people in society who just
think that they know how to run your life better than you do.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;All you go to do is and they&amp;rsquo;re more than
happy to spend their part of the day doing things to control you and they can
formalize it and put in paper and you&amp;rsquo;ve got government and if you don&amp;rsquo;t nip it
in the bud there it&amp;rsquo;s going to grow bigger and bigger and eventually you will
have a huge organized system of plunder that you know somebody else could come
in and take over, at least you hope they can take over.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If its impervious then were in trouble
because we do have a very huge, powerful government right now that is
euphemistically known as the United States and if we the people don&amp;rsquo;t stand up,
it&amp;rsquo;s going, I mean it&amp;rsquo;s already out of control and it&amp;rsquo;s easy for it to get more
out of control.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In my constitution
classes I ask my students hypothetically if Chinese people have a right to life
and the answers obvious to me but they have to think about it awhile and go
yeah well they do have a right to life but they don&amp;rsquo;t have a constitution, they
don&amp;rsquo;t have a bill of rights and they also don&amp;rsquo;t have a government that respects
their right to life.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Not a piece of
paper that gives you your rights you know and what would happen if that 1.5
billion Chinese people, that&amp;rsquo;s 1,500 million compared to our 300 million here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What would happen if overnight one and a half
billion Chinese people just stood up and said, hey enough is enough you know,
communistic dictatorship.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;re not
going to do that anymore.&amp;rdquo; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;It would end you know we are in an
ideological war.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is a war of ideas
and the socialists and the communists are currently winning, you know they have
most of us convinced that they&amp;rsquo;re in charge and you know we need to follow
orders.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why does communism work in
China? Sadly because one and a half billion Chinese people think that&amp;rsquo;s the way
it&amp;rsquo;s supposed to be.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They accept it,
they allow it to happen.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The same
argument can be used here in the United States.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Three hundred million people allow this to happen.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;All we have to do is stand up tomorrow and go
freedom.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Enough is enough and we will be
able to take back this government and have a lot more liberty and a lot more freedom.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Three questions.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This is basically what I&amp;rsquo;d been alluding to,
one or two questions ago.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s all about
the unfortunate human condition that some people are evil.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Violence is going to happen and in many cases
the only way to stop that violence is with additional violence force.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean if you can throw a tarp over somebody
and subdue them without violence all the better, but somebody sadly, somebody
is going to have to use force and/or violence to stop the bad stuff from
happening and again if we want to have anarchy, just let me know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Ill strap on my .45 and you guys don&amp;rsquo;t have
to worry about my property, I&amp;rsquo;m willing to take care of myself and anybody
tries to take my property and I guarantee, that I will not hesitate when I pull
the trigger.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most of the people in the
world, specifically most of the people in the United States are not willing to
do that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They are not willing to engage
in violence, they are not willing to even use violence for self defense which
is a concept that boggles my mind but that defense needs to happen, most people
want to subcontract that out.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You know they want someone else to
you know take care of them or want it done responsibly and again that&amp;rsquo;s this
theoretical monarchy that which you know always protects, uses force to protect
your rights and never uses force to violate your rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t know how we get there when it&amp;rsquo;s like
flipping a coin and having it land edge on but that is the goal.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think that Stephen and I will agree that
what we have now is way too much government, you know let&amp;rsquo;s start cutting back
on government, minimizing it, making it smaller and smaller and smaller and
when we get to the 5% monarchy mark we can reanalyze it and think well maybe we
can go that last 5% and get anarchy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m
willing to learn but we&amp;rsquo;re never going to get to anarchy if we don&amp;rsquo;t get to
monarchy first.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is our
responsibility; it is your responsibility to take control of your government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stephen:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So 2% evil, we&amp;rsquo;re just trying figure out who
in this room is.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean, yeah there are
evil people in the world as I said in the beginning.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s no question of that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I have never heard a satisfactory answer
because of his point, amount how if there are 2% of evil people and the evil
people want two things; they want money for free and they want domination and
power of others.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That is the exact
definition of what a government does.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So
if there are only 2% of evil people in society, let&amp;rsquo;s say that&amp;rsquo;s true where are
they going to want to be? They&amp;rsquo;re going to want to be in the government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The government is a rocket propelled boost to
evil.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like giving evil that nitro
thing in the car movies you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It
just allows evil to go that much faster.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You can&amp;rsquo;t keep evil people out of government, you can&amp;rsquo;t do.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Everybody thinks there&amp;rsquo;s evil people
in the world so we need these shiny virtuous people to protect us from the evil
people, but I don&amp;rsquo;t want power over others, I&amp;rsquo;m not that ambitious for money
because I do this crazy thing for a living but I recognize that there are lots
of people out there who are hungry for power over others, who are hungry for
free money.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You have a government;
government is a monopoly of individuals with the legal right to initiate force,
frankly at will because the constitutions&amp;rsquo; got nothing.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In fact constitutions are dangerous because
you think that they will save you from evil people right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If you believe the lies of evil people you
are at their mercy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;A chamberlain goes
to Unic in 1938, from Hitler look he said he&amp;rsquo;s not going to invade any more
countries, they believed him and what happened? If you think that pieces of
paper will control evil you are setting yourself up to be dominated by the very
evil people who are the only people who want to have that kind of power over
you and the government is a readymade place for them to go where they have that
dominate capacity.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Of course if there
are no evil people in the society, we don&amp;rsquo;t need a government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If everyone&amp;rsquo;s evil no governments possible.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If a majority of people are evil then you
can&amp;rsquo;t have a democracy because they&amp;rsquo;ll just vote in evil people right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If a minority of evil people which I believe
is the case, then you can have a government because that&amp;rsquo;s exactly where it
will draw them like a black hole draws matter.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s exactly where they will go.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So this problem which, if you remember the question vauguely.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;The problem of who will watch the
watchers has never been solved and to me, saying how will arbitration and how
will conflict resolution be performed in a free society is like saying who will
determine the value of a good.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well the
competition, optimization and the efficiency of the free market determines the
price of the value of a good, no simple planning can do it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How do we find the best and most creative
ways to solve problems without institutionalized violence which leads to war,
inflation, eradiation and destruction? I don&amp;rsquo;t have all the answers, nobody
does but I know the answer is not institutionalized violence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I know the creative intelligence of human
beings which is compulsively restricted from solving these problems throughout
history.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We didn&amp;rsquo;t have a state created
from us; we inherited state from the original species like we inherit
superstition.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;We don&amp;rsquo;t any long say I need rain;
I&amp;rsquo;m going to do a rain dance because we understand I don&amp;rsquo;t have rhythm but we
inherited a state from the primeval ignorance of the species the same way that
we used to think that the moon was made of cheese and the sun was made of ping
pong balls or something but we now understand that slowly and painfully we have
gotten towards a more scientific and rational understanding of the world.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;We have to give the superstition of
statism, the fantasy that we can give a small group of people the power,
monopolistic power of initiating violence to make the world a better place, the
superstition that we inherited.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like
slavery, we inherited slavery from the origin species and we outgrew it and we
don&amp;rsquo;t sit there and sit there and say oh my god slavery&amp;rsquo;s about to come back
right because we all understand that its immoral, it&amp;rsquo;s not coming back.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So the same with statism, we inherited it
from the origin species.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is a
primitive, dumb, stupid, violent and ugly way to solve human problems because
it doesn&amp;rsquo;t solve human problems, it just makes them worse.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It rewards evil people at the expense of the
virtuous and I can&amp;rsquo;t spend my life running around saying is the government
getting any bigger? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;What stand am I going to take today
to make it smaller? I don&amp;rsquo;t want the life of eternal vigilance against the
growing power of evil.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I want to remove
the apparatus which feeds it which is the monopoly of statism.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The very fact is that people don&amp;rsquo;t want to
spend their whole life caged with a rabid tiger saying what they&amp;rsquo;re doing
today, how we&amp;rsquo;re going to make it smaller, how am I going to control it? No,
get the tiger out of the cage and live free.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You don&amp;rsquo;t have to circle around this thing called the state and try and
control it and make sure it doesn&amp;rsquo;t get any bigger because we can&amp;rsquo;t.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s never happened before it will never
happen in the future.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We just get rid of
the whole thing as a concept because it is an erroneous concept.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Calling people to government does not change
their moral nature, putting a guy in a uniform does not mean its moral for him
to kill.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Putting a guy in a funny hat
doesn&amp;rsquo;t mean that he can fly.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Calling
someone to government does not give them the moral right to initiate the use of
force, it is a logical and moral error to talk about a government at all and so
who will solve it? Free individuals voluntarily, not those with power and
coercion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Commentator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Next question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Michael, should an individual be able to
succeed from the government without repercussion?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, I certainly hope so.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Succession is a topic that comes up
frequently with a lot of my 27 states doing 10th Amendment proclamations these
days and we were discussion the war of northern aggression last night and there
is a miss, wide spread misconception in the United States that only Texas has
the right to succeed.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t know where
that came from.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Maybe because we&amp;rsquo;re just
really stubbornly independent in Texas but anybody, any state has the right to
succeed and again in our conversation recently, somebody tried to suggest that
the Civil War proves that States cannot succeed and I was like so you don&amp;rsquo;t
know or believe in or respect the declaration of independence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;They&amp;rsquo;ll go yeah that&amp;rsquo;s my favorite
document.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well the Declaration of
Independence was a succession document.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We
succeeded from England and basically the only difference is that presumably we
won the American Revolution and the southern states lost the battle for
southern independence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know you can
have an idea, again, this is an ideologic war and sometimes you have to stand
tall and defend your ideas.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You may or
may not win those ideas but yes I do believe that philosophically an individual
should, my parents are both alive, I love my parents, but at my age I don&amp;rsquo;t ask
mom and dad for advice.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I talk to them
frequently, they don&amp;rsquo;t try to tell me what to do if fact mom bemoans the fact
that Michael you&amp;rsquo;re just going to do whatever you want to do and I&amp;rsquo;m like yeah
that&amp;rsquo;s pretty much true, stubborn and independent.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So if I&amp;rsquo;m not going to allow my
parents to make decisions about my life, why on earth would I allow a
government to make decisions about my life.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So what we need is a lot more people standing up and being independent
and for whatever method you want for declaring a succession from the federal
government and you know we just need to have enough of us to make it stick.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If I go up against the federal government by
myself, I may be very valiant and I may be very courageous but I&amp;rsquo;m pretty much
going to end up looking like a pepperoni pizza.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;We need to have a majority of people holding these same ideas and
defending them.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If Stefan and I are
walking through the jungle, I&amp;rsquo;m guessing that Stefan and I both agree that
cannibalism is bad but if Stefan and I encounter cannibals in the jungle, I
don&amp;rsquo;t think it would be a really good procedure for us to stand on a soap box
and go well you know guys, this cannibalism is really, really bad because were
going to be the first ones in the pot.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So
you need to have enough people, you have to have a good idea to start with and
you have to have enough people supporting your idea to be able to defend it and
make it work.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know the constitution
I think is a, you know a really good idea, better than most, not perfect but
you know right now in the United States we don&amp;rsquo;t have enough people defending
it and government is way out of control.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I haven&amp;rsquo;t eaten enough today because when you
start talking about cannibalism, I just total Buggs Bunny moment.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know all I did was I just looked over and
I saw a drum stick in a suit, you know with the aromatic 19:36 and I&amp;rsquo;m going up
there.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You see the fade in and fade out.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But enough about me, well should an
individual be able to succeed from the government?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think it&amp;rsquo;s very important for us to be
precise and accurate in our own language.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m on a libertarian forum with Consuela, and Block and a couple other
people, quite a number of other people and we got into a very fierce fight and
there&amp;rsquo;s a whole video on this because they couldn&amp;rsquo;t quite understand the
concept because they&amp;rsquo;re trained in economics and their trained in political
science they&amp;rsquo;re not trained in philosophy, so it&amp;rsquo;s a bit of an educational
milestone because they&amp;rsquo;ve been saying the government this, the government that,
the government the other.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Should the government be able to do
this, should the government be able to do the other and that&amp;rsquo;s like asking
should unicorns be allowed to play soccer and really that is very real way of
looking at it because there is no such thing as a government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is a concept that does not exist.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right, we all say okay there&amp;rsquo;s a crowd here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You all brought your invisible friends which
is great.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But there&amp;rsquo;s a crowd here right
and if you all leave there&amp;rsquo;s no crowd and you can&amp;rsquo;t take a photograph of a
family with nobody in the picture because it&amp;rsquo;s just a conceptual thing, it
doesn&amp;rsquo;t exist in reality.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s no
such thing as government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What there is
is stuff written on paper, some very well oiled and quick to be pulled guns,
there are aircraft carriers, there are buildings, there are flags, those things
all exist.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There is no such thing as the
government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There are people with guns,
there are prisons, there are people who fear for their lives if they cross
their government or do not pay its extractions, but there&amp;rsquo;s on such thing as
the government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It doesn&amp;rsquo;t exist.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So to me saying should I be able to succeed
from the government is like should I be able to walk out of middle earth.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s a meaningless question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Do I have the right to live free of
others initiating violence against me? Absolutely.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Of course but do I have the right to succeed
from the government is a meaningless question because it presumes that the
government is a conceptual tag with any meaning what so ever when it&amp;rsquo;s not.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s just a bunch of people with guns, that&amp;rsquo;s
all they are.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No such thing as a
country, right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s Earth, there&amp;rsquo;s
trees, there&amp;rsquo;s air, but there&amp;rsquo;s not such thing as a country.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No such thing as a government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I can&amp;rsquo;t succeed from it because it doesn&amp;rsquo;t
exist.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I do reject divided by the people
to initiate violence against me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That
includes the people that call themselves the government but I can&amp;rsquo;t succeed
from that which does not exist.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;As long
as we continue to believe that it does exist, we think that we&amp;rsquo;re obeying
something other than people with guns but that&amp;rsquo;s really all that&amp;rsquo;s three, is
the people with guns.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s no such
thing and I cannot succeed from that which does not exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator: &lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;Okay, so for the final question, the United
States of America has been called an experiment.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What would be the hypothesis and what would
is your conclusion?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s a good question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I like the way that&amp;rsquo;s raised.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The experiment is self government for
countless centuries.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Governments across
the world were all controlled by a king, an emperor, some monarch that and I
don&amp;rsquo;t know how we got there, but everything was derived from the concept of the
divine right of kings.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You now without going
into a lot of detail, God comes down with his magic wand, smacks some guy in
the head and says you&amp;rsquo;re the king, you own everything.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You have all the rights and you can
distribute privileges to your subjects.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They
owe you their life; they owe you&amp;hellip;I mean you&amp;rsquo;re&amp;hellip; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Unless you can pick both feet up off
the ground at the same time, you&amp;rsquo;re standing on my land and you know basically
I own you and so we came to the North American continent and decided you know
this is really not a pretty good way and the declaration of independence
establishes the idea that we are going to be blessed with rights ordained by
our creator and so instead of God hitting the king in the head and we get
privileges second hand, now we are sovereign.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;We are kings and queens and my book is entitles Good to be king to
express that idea.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We have 300 million
kings and queens in the United States and we have rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We can own property, we don&amp;rsquo;t have to get our
privileges from someone else and this idea was so unusual, so unorthodox, so what&amp;rsquo;s
the word I&amp;rsquo;m looking for, revolutionary that you know most of the countries
around the world goes my god this isn&amp;rsquo;t going to last you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Twenty years tops and it&amp;rsquo;s all going
to fall apart and so okay we&amp;rsquo;ve got 223 years, it hasn&amp;rsquo;t been the best of times
but it certainly hasn&amp;rsquo;t been the worst of times either and by distributing the
power instead of having one person have that power, you know life has been
pretty good.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The standard of living in
the United States ahs exponentially increased, but we lost sight of the concept.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know the concept is individual rights and
personal responsibility.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Everybody wants
their rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You watch the news and
every other day you have somebody banging on the podium demanding their rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well if everybody wants their rights, how
come were struggling? How come we don&amp;rsquo;t have wall to wall liberty? Well it&amp;rsquo;s
because nobody wants the responsibility.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You know you own your body, you&amp;rsquo;re responsible for feeding yourself, you
know sheltering yourself and oh by the way, you are responsible for providing
for your own retirement.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Our parents and
grandparents were lied to, you know the government said, were bigger and
smarter than you, you give us your social security money and when you&amp;rsquo;re ready
to retire, you&amp;rsquo;re going to have more money than you know what to do with.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How many times have you heard the
conversation, &amp;ldquo;yep, mom and I are going on vacation again, we just can&amp;rsquo;t spend
that social security money fast enough.&amp;rdquo; Nobody on social security feels secure
and that&amp;rsquo;s because we have given the responsibility of our retirement to the
government which is a really, really sad thing so I think the experiment
started out real well but because we didn&amp;rsquo;t understand that the cost of liberty
is eternal vigilance, we didn&amp;rsquo;t realize that the founding fathers didn&amp;rsquo;t set it
up to run in perpetual motion, it is our job, our responsibility to provide for
ourselves and to protect each other&amp;rsquo;s rights and to keep the government small
and because we&amp;rsquo;ve allowed it, you know we&amp;rsquo;ve allowed the tiger out of the cage
and now we are in trouble.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;re trying
to figure out how to get it back in the cage so at this point the experiment
may be ready to go extinct which I think is very sad.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think that the difference is you want to
put the tiger back in the cage and I want the tiger skin head.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think that everybody recognize, sorry about
that image everyone.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Would you like to
take a moment to put your lunch back? I think that every person who studies and
thinks about these topics recognizes that America was on paper, a noble step
but what a great experiment in attempting to create a government by and for the
people to protect the rights of citizens, we create this government to secure
our liberties and I think that I certainly believe that it was a great and
noble experiment.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I can&amp;rsquo;t imagine that
the circumstances will be better.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Maybe
when we go and live on other worlds, you kind of need virgin territory to
create a new society because unfortunately there are so many people indebted
and depended upon state as large hand outs and teaches the postal workers to
retirees to welfare recipients to military industrial complexes to executives
to banks to now car companies you name it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;But you simply can&amp;rsquo;t pry that power out of people using politics so
maybe we can go to a new country or a new planet we can start something.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;As a new land mass arises we can
colonize it and start something new but I think there was a really unique set
of circumstances that gave rise to the possibility.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It was a conjunction of new land mass,
tyrannical government in Europe and other places around the world that caused
the best and the brightest to flee as they always do and you had the peak of
the enlightenment philosophy, you had the printing press which allowed for the
easy dissemination of amazing writers like Thomas Pain and other writers, John
Lock and all of these great philosophers.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So you had an incredible alignment of the planets to create the greatest
possibility for statism and let&amp;rsquo;s remember that the American Revolution was
still a statist revolution, it was not let&amp;rsquo;s get rid of government&amp;hellip;for a small
little bit that occurred.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think in
Pennsylvania which Mary Rockba &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[phonetic] [01:29:26]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; writes about but it was a
statist experiment.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I doubt ever there
will be a better set of circumstances to test the theory of statist but let&amp;rsquo;s
look at where it started and where it ended because there is a bit of a myth.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, did a lot of studying in history
and one of the things that you learn if you study history, especially at the
graduate school level is that the winners, sorry I&amp;rsquo;m going to walk in front of
you, the winners write the history.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The
victors write the history.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Obviously if
Hitler and won there would be a whole different set of history about the Second
World War and we do see the American Revolution and the American statist
experiments through the lens of you know I hate to say it but rich white land
owners.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They wrote the constitution,
they wrote the declaration of independence, they furthered the laws.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean there weren&amp;rsquo;t a lot of black women who
were on the federal court system in 1820.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And we forget by just looking at this small group of incredibly
privileged and brilliant and I think mostly honorable men that there&amp;rsquo;s a lot
that&amp;rsquo;s missing from our conception of how America started.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ll give you a small statistic.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In the 16th century the population, the
native population of the Americas, North and South America was estimated at
about 24 million soles.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;By the late 18th
century it was about 2 million.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;All right that is a greater than 90%
reduction.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Can we call it genocide? I
think at some levels we can because there were bounties put out by the federal
government and the local governments that if you killed Indians you got paid.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It was a professional mafia hit jobs of the
native population.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Was some of it
somewhat accidental, small pox blanket? Well yeah you could argue that it is
but it did start on the, America rests on the graves of those who were here and
that aspect of things also started the slavery.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ll do 30 more seconds if that&amp;rsquo;s alright, started the slavery and
started certain aspects of the genocide.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s where it started.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No
rights for women, no rights for children.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Slavery, genocide where did it end? The largest most powerful futile
government particularly oversees that the world has never seen the most
powerful and brutal empire and I think we can do better.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t think we have to stay within that
pyridine, that we start with genocide and end with empire, that there&amp;rsquo;s another
way.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So there&amp;rsquo;s no good answer of
government but we need to start asking different questions which is not what
kind of government we have but why do we need it at all now that we have the
technology, the communication, the wisdom, the knowledge that we have now.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We need to start asking smarter questions.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Not how do we tame the tiger but why do we
need the tiger?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No I don&amp;rsquo;t, I mean I know&amp;hellip;I&amp;rsquo;ve been
preacherifying and I&amp;rsquo;ll not go on because I really do want to get the audience
questions but there&amp;rsquo;s an old saying that if the powers that be can get you to
ask the wrong questions, they don&amp;rsquo;t care about the answer, that you&amp;rsquo;re just
completely in the wrong ballpark.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I do
believe that there&amp;rsquo;s two reasons why we do this fundamentally.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s pragmatism and there&amp;rsquo;s idealism.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So pragmatism is like I need to mow my lawn
right, or do a thing.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I could either get
a nice lawn mower or I can get some toenail cutters and if I use toenail
cutters to cut my lawn I&amp;rsquo;m not immoral, I&amp;rsquo;m not evil, I&amp;rsquo;m not, I&amp;rsquo;m just not
very productive right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So if we&amp;rsquo;re going to do things for
pragmatic reasons, then were going to do things for pragmatic reasons than
questions of morality and right and wrong, virtue and evil and good and bad,
they don&amp;rsquo;t come into it at all because we&amp;rsquo;re just about getting things done.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s, I believe that we want to do things
partially in questions of institutionalized violence and organization of
conflict resolution within society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Those
are all fundamental moral questions.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How
do we live in a virtuous, free, noble, peaceful society? How do we eliminate
war? How do we eliminate imprisonment? How do we eliminate torture? These are
all essential moral questions.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;When your
going to go from the realm of pragmatism into the realm of morality you can&amp;rsquo;t
erase your principals.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The whole reason
your there is because of the principals.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Mr. Badnarik and I, and minarchist and I would agree, cell phones, to
property rights to non-initiation of force are the moral principles that are
most sacred, the most important, the most vital.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would argue the most pragmatic principles
to hold, we can&amp;rsquo;t have a moral goal while the improvement of mankind, reduction
of violence and social war and murder and then say in our very first towards
that were going to break those moral principles and were going to create an
institution that has the right to do everything that we consider immoral.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If we want to build a bridge towards
virtuosity, we have to go in that direction.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;We don&amp;rsquo;t say it&amp;rsquo;s so important, it&amp;rsquo;s
so moral to go north the first thing I&amp;rsquo;m going to do is head south.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can&amp;rsquo;t break the principle in your very
first step.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Maybe toward the end when
things are really hellish but not at the very beginning and if you want a
peaceful society as we all do and you want a society that respects persons,
property, then you stick to those principles and you don&amp;rsquo;t break them the very
first time you step forward your solution and say yes, property rights are
important so let&amp;rsquo;s create new institution with the perfect power to destroy
them.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yes self ownership is so
importation so let&amp;rsquo;s create an organization with the power to own people
through taxation, through laws.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Yes the non-initiation of force is
the most important principle so let&amp;rsquo;s immediately create an institution which
its very definition is to break that principle.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s not sell out the first step.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Okay maybe the hundredth step when were offered a lot of money, but not
the first step and that&amp;rsquo;s the consistency that voluntarism or anarchism or a
dedication to nonviolence and to self ownership give you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You stick with your principle.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If you are going to abandon your principles,
why even bother being in the moral arena to begin with and so let&amp;rsquo;s not look to
a violent institution to solve the problems of violence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s not look to a monopoly of the
initiation of aggression to solve the problem of human conflict.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s not give up on our principles, the very
first time we utter our solution but let&amp;rsquo;s stick consistently with those
principles because not only are they true and not only are they moral but damn
it they work and this debate which is completely nonviolent and this audience
who is a perfectly delightful is a perfect example of that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Everywhere you look you see spontaneous
social organization without violence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
see it in the marriage market, you see it in the job market, you see it in the
educational market.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You see human begins
coming together to solve problems and as long as they&amp;rsquo;re in a peaceful manner
anarchy is what we live.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Statism is the
exception.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;People say well what&amp;rsquo;s proof
of anarchy? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;They say oh can you prove to me that
anarchy works? Look in the mirror.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;When
was the last time you used violence to get a job? I have never used violence to
get a job.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Postal workers accepted..&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;When was the last time you used violence to
get a date? I&amp;rsquo;ve never used violence to get a date so you negotiated.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You worked peacefully.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Does that mean everyone&amp;rsquo;s like that? No, of
course not but that&amp;rsquo;s why we can&amp;rsquo;t have a government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Do you think, people think it&amp;rsquo;s an argument
for the government; it&amp;rsquo;s the exact argument against the government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We work volunteeristically &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[phonetic]
[01:37:40]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;, peacefully in every aspect of our lives. &lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;If you want to look at anarchism look at
99.999% of everything that you do as voluntary and peaceful and cooperative.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah you&amp;rsquo;ll get disagreements, yeah you may
raise your voice, yeah you may get mad at people but you don&amp;rsquo;t pull out guns
and shoot people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s the vast majority of people
and I&amp;rsquo;m not going to give up my freedom because there a few evil people in the
world.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m not going to allow the few of
people who say you need a government to protect you from the evil people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t want to give up my freedom, my
daughter&amp;rsquo;s freedom, and my wife&amp;rsquo;s freedom.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t want to give yup that freedom because there are bad people in
the world.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Isn&amp;rsquo;t that surrendering
something essential of importance because there are bad people in the world, I
need to get into a cage called statism.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Doesn&amp;rsquo;t
that mean they win? That&amp;rsquo;s a shame.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
don&amp;rsquo;t want that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t think you want
that either.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We have to come up with
more creative solutions than I hear something in the bushes let me get into a
cage for the rest of my life.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m not
that scared of bad people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m really
not, to the point where I&amp;rsquo;m going to huddle in a cage.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know like a frightened Chihuahua because
there might be a beast out there in the bushes because every time I go out I
don&amp;rsquo;t see a beast and I see that het people who are telling me there&amp;rsquo;s a beast
are the ones who are the actual predators.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Alright, say well you&amp;rsquo;ve got to get into the cage because the government
is so, because there are predators out there but the only guns I see are the governments.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They&amp;rsquo;re not protecting me from someone else.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They are the people who are threatening me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I will take my chances that what&amp;rsquo;s in the
bushes is a squirrel rather than hide in a cage because I&amp;rsquo;m afraid of bad
people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t want to surrender my
liberties to the mere potentiality of evil and I don&amp;rsquo;t think you should either.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Capitalism usually gets a bad rap.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We look at the economy; we&amp;rsquo;ve had a trillion
dollar bailout, a mutli-trillion dollar stimulus package being planned.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know we&amp;rsquo;ve got like a triple trillion
dollar budget planned for next year as if anything with 12 zeros left of the
decimal point can accurately be called a budget and you have to say see
capitalism doesn&amp;rsquo;t work.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well we don&amp;rsquo;t
have capitalism in the United States, not really.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean we have an economy that is almost
universally controlled by the government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You know we just lose that
interstate commerce clause and the general welfare clause and we have a
population that doesn&amp;rsquo;t understand the constitution and they can pretty much
get anything by it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like you know
we&amp;rsquo;ve got a president whose handsome and articulate and promises change and
people are standing ovations, applause, applause and it&amp;rsquo;s like you wonder why
were having problems.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;When I give my
presentations I will ask for a show of hands, how many people are patriotic
Americans? Not surprisingly it&amp;rsquo;s unanimous.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Everybody&amp;rsquo;s a good patriotic American.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Like okay, show of hands how many people know how many articles are in
the constitution? Rarely, rarely does anybody have any clue and then my
question is like, what constitutes a good patriotic American? You know how to
dress yourself in the morning? That&amp;rsquo;s the criteria you know you got your shirt
buttoned correctly so that makes you a good patriotic American.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think the standard needs to be a lot higher
than that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know we have a lot of
criticism about the constitution but the constitution doesn&amp;rsquo;t work, well no not
if you don&amp;rsquo;t use it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Most people have no idea what the
constitution says so they wouldn&amp;rsquo;t recognize unconstitutional government when
it falls on them.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now if most of what my
government does is unconstitutional, I find that unconscionable and totally
unacceptable and with the last breath I ever take I&amp;rsquo;m going to do my best to
restore a constitutional republic to protect your individual rights, to protect
your private property and to limit the abuse that government has monopolized on
it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It may not be the perfect answer but
we have government because a wide vast majority of people really don&amp;rsquo;t want
anarchy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ve already discussed one
topic is the conscious abhorrence of violence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You know like I don&amp;rsquo;t want to hurt
anybody in fact a lot of people I know they don&amp;rsquo;t even like verbal
confrontation.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean I enjoy talking
with Stefan and getting into all of this.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You know my favorite thing is philosophical debate.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I love it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You know arguing back and forth.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know examining the ideas.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most people, a
lot of the people that I know don&amp;rsquo;t even like to do that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like oh, oh your raising your voice,
just can&amp;rsquo;t handle confrontation, I want everybody to just hug and love each
other.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well you can want it but it&amp;rsquo;s not
likely going to happen, not in the universe.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So you know most of you will not accept anarchy because it&amp;rsquo;s going to
require you in some circumstances to perform violence and most of you are not
willing to pull the trigger to kill somebody that&amp;rsquo;s trying to kill you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The other thing is that we do, as Stefan said
earlier, we like property and we like the easiest way to accumulate it and
instead of working for it, if I can take yours, that&amp;rsquo;s just a whole lot better.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I let you go out and work in the field and
grow all the corn and I&amp;rsquo;ll just show up at the end and you know walk away with
the wagon.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Most people do not understand the
difference between rights and privileges and it boils down to you can do
anything you want with your property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
can do nothing at all justifiably with my property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s my property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I was speaking to a college audience and one
young lady raised her hand.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I was the
presidential candidate and she wanted to know what I was going to do about
Medicare and Medicaid.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I said there
theft, they&amp;rsquo;re gone and she was like horrified.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You know apparently I didn&amp;rsquo;t understand the situation, she had to let me
know that her mother was elderly and ill and had all of these medications that
she needed to buy and I said well do you love your mother? Well yes of course.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Would you help your mother buy her
medications and she doesn&amp;rsquo;t say yes or no she immediately tries to divert the
questions.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;She goes but what about that
SOB up on the hill, yeah that guy, you know the guy with the big motor home in
the driveway with more money than he knows what to do with and the first thing
I did was question her, how do you know that he has more money than he knows
what to do with? Apparently he knows exactly what to do with his money, that&amp;rsquo;s
why he&amp;rsquo;s got the motor home in the driveway but ultimately I said okay your
mother needs these prescription drugs which we all acknowledge are expensive.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Are you going to take a gun and go up there
and take that persons money? No I&amp;rsquo;m not going to do that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why not? Because that would be theft.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I said oh I get it you want me to go up
there and take that persons money and give it to you for your mother&amp;rsquo;s
prescriptions so you don&amp;rsquo;t have to risk lead poisoning.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You want the booty but you don&amp;rsquo;t want to take
the risk.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You want other people&amp;rsquo;s property and
you want the government to do it for you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I am opposed to theft of any kind.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I am opposed to individual theft and I&amp;rsquo;m opposed to government sponsored
theft.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We have individual rights, their
all based on private property and I think that liberty does have a chance
because the basic idea is private property and even a two year old understands
the importance of private property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What&amp;rsquo;s
a two year olds favorite word? Mine.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Mine,
I want it to be mine so I can be in control.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Well a two year old doesn&amp;rsquo;t understand the concept of yours, and we&amp;rsquo;ve
got to convince them that no you&amp;rsquo;re not allowed to play with Tommy&amp;rsquo;s toys
unless you get permission.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Our government is currently acting
more like a two year old.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They want to
take your property and go mine.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We call
it eminent domain.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know in Texas we
have the Trans-Texas corridor, Texas government was planning to steal 584
thousand acres of private land to build some monstrosity highway.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now I&amp;rsquo;m not a, you know, Luddite.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t want to like keep really low on
technology.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I travel in a real fast car.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I like highways.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I want them to be smooth and straight but I
don&amp;rsquo;t want the government steal property and then allow a Spanish company to
monopolize the profit from that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, no
that&amp;rsquo;s not going to happen.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Not in Texas.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So anarchy is again, I believe
anarchy is a wonderful ideal, kind of like you know absolute, 100% alcohol.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Unfortunately the laws of physics don&amp;rsquo;t allow
you to have 100% alcohol and I think that human nature prevents us from getting
to anarchy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know one you don&amp;rsquo;t want
it because it puts too much responsibility on your plate and two because
there&amp;rsquo;s always somebody sadly who thinks they know how to run your life better
than you do and so I don&amp;rsquo;t think that we can avoid government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You know you can&amp;rsquo;t make an omelet
without breaking a couple of eggs.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
don&amp;rsquo;t think you can have active society without somebody kind of putting down
some formal rules and we just have to make user that those rules do not
subjugate one part of the population for another.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Again there are no easy answers but that&amp;rsquo;s our
challenge.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That is our challenge to be
intelligent enough, to be moral enough, to find and identify what the ideal,
what the perfection would be and move in that direction as often as we can and
maybe, maybe we&amp;rsquo;ll get to it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Maybe
we&amp;rsquo;ll achieve anarchy someday but at the moment I don&amp;rsquo;t think that anybody
knows which direction anarchy is.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You know, if you&amp;rsquo;ve never memorized
the Bill of Rights, you don&amp;rsquo;t know how many articles are in the Constitution
and so I&amp;rsquo;m doing my part to educate the population, you know tell them, teach
them the difference between right and privileges and hopefully and I believe it
is true.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I believe people are waking up
and I believe that people are more and more prepared to take responsibility for
their own life because you know frankly, the government is screwing it up so
bad, you know nobody likes to get this style of government that we currently
have and so I want to thank Stefan, I want to thank Drexel University and I
want to thank the audience again for being so patient and being so intelligent
to be here and listen to us discuss this high level intellectual concept.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thank you very much.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Commentator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Alright, were going to hand off the
microphone back to Adam and were going to come around and get your questions
and hopefully keep them in order going around the room.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m going to give them the other microphone
that they can&amp;hellip;so they don&amp;rsquo;t have to pass back and forth.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;First of all I just wanted to remind
everyone, we are accepting donations in the back of the room so please take
what this event was wroth to you and please give that back if you could.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Were paying for this out of pocket so we&amp;rsquo;d
really appreciate that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This question is for Stefan.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think one of the road blocks in trying to
explain the conflict of anarchy and how it can sort of triumph over the limited
government approach is dispute resolution and how you would get compensation if
someone broke a contract and to use the extreme example, if someone murders
your son or something and in your example you would say this person would be
ostracized from the society, they would have a hard time having an economic
transactions and just having a life style and I would contrast that approach
with the Hoffa&amp;rsquo;s and you would say&amp;mdash;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;All right, what?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m sorry, Han Sunman Hoffa&amp;rsquo;s approach, I&amp;rsquo;m
sure you&amp;rsquo;ve read.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I haven&amp;rsquo;t read a huge amount of Sunman
Hoffa&amp;rsquo;s; I&amp;rsquo;ve just read some stuff on national defense so feel free to expand.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well he basically says you have an insurance
company and the insurance company can sort of seek compensation if it&amp;#39;s
justified and I think just taking the approach of this individual would be
ostracized from society, it&amp;rsquo;s kind of difficult for people to grasp because if
someone has this huge bank roll or whatever and they&amp;rsquo;re able to be ostracized
and are okay with that, what&amp;rsquo;s to stop that person from breaking your contract
or committing acts of violence and I&amp;rsquo;m wondering why you don&amp;rsquo;t take that approach
on discussing how you would compensate people, I suppose for&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;All right, an excellent question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The state of solutions to the problem of
violence, if this kind of rape, of murder, or assault, the state of solution is
very, very tempting of course because it seems like it&amp;rsquo;s a real solution right,
but of course if theft is so bad then property rights are absolute then we
can&amp;rsquo;t have taxation because it&amp;rsquo;s a violation of the principle of front so I&amp;rsquo;ve
sort of reject that as a solution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It
means that we then have to go to more creative places to solve that problem.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m in no way, shape or form even remotely
intelligent enough to attempt to reproduce the creative intelligence of
millions of people to solve this problem so the solutions going to be
infinitely better than anything I come up with as people compete to try and
solve this.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The first question if your
thinking about an anarchic solution or a status solution to a problem like that
is what would satisfy me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So let&amp;rsquo;s say,
I&amp;rsquo;m really going to ask that question but what is it that if you were looking
at someone to protect you from murder or protect those around you from murder,
what would you want them to do if let&amp;rsquo;s say your wife or your girlfriend, let&amp;rsquo;s
say your wife was killed, murdered by some dude, we&amp;rsquo;ll call him Bob because Bob
is our usual guy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If Bob killed your guy
what would you want as your ideal solution to that? If solution is the wrong
word, restitution or how would it best be handled for you as a potential
consumer of someone who would provide services in this area?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;All right well my approach would be to try to
prevent that from ever happening.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Agreed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And the approach that I think needs to be
taken is that the person knows that there is going to be extreme retribution or
compensation in that event so just by taking that approach off the bat you
would kind of avoid that situation.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The
situation could still occur and I don&amp;rsquo;t, you know I don&amp;rsquo;t personally know just
like you said many millions of billions of people are going to have better
solutions to this but I would definitely&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sorry but what would, let&amp;rsquo;s say, sorry I&amp;rsquo;ll
keep this short.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s say I&amp;rsquo;m a hero
and I&amp;rsquo;m trying to sell you my protection services right so I&amp;rsquo;m doing a show and
tell, dog and pony show.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What of this
would be the most appealing to you as the solution to violence committed
against you or someone like you? Would you want that person killed? Would you
want money from that person? Would you want them to be incarcerated or
imprisoned for 30 years and pay you half the money they made at forced labor? I
mean what is it that would be, nobody says this is great, but what would be the
most beneficial thing that I could offer you to get your business as a dispute
resolution company?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would want, you know I would want
everything back that was taken from me and if it was impossible&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah that&amp;rsquo;s impossible because we&amp;#39;re talking
about murder right. &lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;I mean what is it
that, like this is how it would work in a free society is that we would as a
dispute resolution organization I would be going around saying how can I make
this right for you? What it the best possible solution? So, I know it&amp;rsquo;s hard to
talk about, let&amp;rsquo;s just talk about maybe she gets knocked on the head or
something.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s not go with like&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No that&amp;rsquo;s fine.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay so you want to go with the murder.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah because you&amp;rsquo;ve got to explore the
extreme possibilities.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Go with the extremes, absolutely so your wife
gets murdered.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What would be the best,
weird way to put it but what would be the best possible outcome of that for you
as a potential consumer of protection service?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would want some sort of monetary
contribution but I think you know it would be different for everybody.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Maybe I&amp;rsquo;d want the person committing the act
of murder&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is different for everybody and that&amp;rsquo;s why
we need competition right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is
different for everybody.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah and me personally I might want that
person to conduct many hours of community service you know or something
nonviolent that wouldn&amp;rsquo;t, I just don&amp;rsquo;t want them to go into a jail cell and
rot, it&amp;rsquo;s not good for anybody.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right, and then when they come out they&amp;rsquo;re
crazy, right? I mean jail is a terrible solution right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Even for evil people, jail is a terrible
solution right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like jail is a terrible
solution for drug addicts and it&amp;rsquo;s a terrible solution for people to do evil
because they just come out and do more evil right and then the repetition rates
for criminal in a status prison system is 80-90%.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s ridiculous right so you want a better
solution than that right. &lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;And you said
that you want to, you said that the best thing you could do for your wife&amp;rsquo;s
memory if she was killed was to get money to replace the income that would be
lost in the support that would be lost and you know so your kids could get a
good education and you can pay off your house.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;d want that kind of money right because it&amp;rsquo;s a significant loss of
income to look at it at a coldly calculated economic level, forget the
emotional stuff that can&amp;rsquo;t be fixed.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;d
want money back and you&amp;rsquo;d also want to be damn sure that this wasn&amp;rsquo;t going to
happen again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Now a status society is never going to provide you either of those
things.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re never going to get money
from the criminal and 80-90% is going to be a re-commission of offence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So my original question was why, how come you
opt to say that this person would be ostracized from society and not be able to
conduct commerce&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;instead of saying that&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sorry, sorry.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s not just that you can&amp;rsquo;t, were going to go to a complete abstract
here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ll try and keep this short but
there&amp;rsquo;s more about this in practical anarchy but very briefly, you can&amp;rsquo;t rent
an apartment, you can&amp;rsquo;t buy food, you can&amp;rsquo;t travel on anyone&amp;rsquo;s property because
everything&amp;rsquo;s privately owned.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can&amp;rsquo;t
go to a restaurant, you can&amp;rsquo;t even use someone&amp;rsquo;s drinking fountain, and you
can&amp;rsquo;t participate at all economically in the society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That is what I guarantee you; all of the
protection agencies are going to work with.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So this guys either going to have to
go out and live in the wilderness and gnaw on tree bark and rabbit legs and
stuff that he&amp;rsquo;s not going to do right or he&amp;rsquo;s going to have to submit in order
to regain his status as being able to participate in society, he&amp;rsquo;s going to
have to submit some punishment, in order to regain his status as an economic
actor in society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So he&amp;rsquo;s either going
to go out and live in the wilderness and be nowhere near anyone in which case
you don&amp;rsquo;t get any money but at least he&amp;rsquo;s not killing people or he&amp;rsquo;s going to
have to submit to some sort of punishment and hopefully cure or whatever ails
him and so he&amp;rsquo;s, the punishment is going to be you have to work at some job, you
get half of his salary, 40% of his salary goes to imprison him and 10% goes to
the profit of the DRO or whatever, he&amp;rsquo;s going to go through anger management,
he&amp;rsquo;s going to go through psychological counseling, he&amp;rsquo;s gong to go through
whatever it is to try and get the evil out of his heart so he doesn&amp;rsquo;t do it
again, he&amp;rsquo;s never going to be released until people can figure out as best they
can, give the inexactness of the science.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So it&amp;rsquo;s not just you know you can&amp;rsquo;t
get a job, I mean you actually can&amp;rsquo;t function in society if people don&amp;rsquo;t want
to do business with you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We have
computers and the internet so you walk into a store and try even to use cash,
they&amp;rsquo;re going to be like murderer, murderer, murderer and if they give you a
meal and you&amp;rsquo;re a murderer they also, the restaurant will get pulled from the
system right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So it&amp;rsquo;s the best, I mean
is it the perfect solution? I don&amp;rsquo;t know but it certainly is a viable and
potential one and it&amp;rsquo;s a lot better than what the state is going to do for you
right now.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;All right, thank you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Can I respond to that? My name is Don Colion &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[phonetic]
[01:59:05]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; and I&amp;rsquo;m so glad that there&amp;rsquo;s no government and I&amp;rsquo;d like
to offer another solution to your problem.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That is where I was going to go&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I will personally make sure that the family
is wiped out.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;All you have to do is kiss
my ring and promise me a favor in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That was right where my question was going to
go.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If DRO, if I&amp;rsquo;m shopping around for
DRO, this man just killed my wife.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
want his family dead, I want his house, I want his bank accounts, and I want
him dead.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I want him dead; I want him
buried upside down on a pike.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now if you
the DRO won&amp;rsquo;t do that I&amp;rsquo;m going to look for a DRO that will.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How did this jive with the non-initiation of
force in an anachronistic society?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You are actually saying that you want his
family dead.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Not really, I bet that is
what you just want, you think I would be just?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You are talking to somebody who just had his
wife killed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sure.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No,
I mean&amp;hellip;I understand.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;#39;m just saying I
don&amp;#39;t think a DRO is going to be&amp;hellip;I am going to take out the gene pool.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right, I am going to drop a bomb on the city
where the guy&amp;hellip;no, they are not going to do that right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They are going to say &amp;ldquo;Yes, that&amp;rsquo;s an extreme
response and that is a shame, but we are not going to do that, sorry.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So how do you feel go after somebody who
might do something close to that, you know or whatever?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right, okay, let us put things&amp;hellip;yes, you can
come up with some crazy guy wants to wipe out the whole family.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How does the free-society handle that?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, first of all by not making him a god
damn president, right?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Those guys do exist; maybe you&amp;rsquo;re one of them who wanted to nuke the
gene pool right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But okay, let&amp;rsquo;s not
give him the nuclear weapons, air craft carriers and B52s right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, there is going to be a punishment for the
evil people but let&amp;rsquo;s keep the problem in perspective, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The murder rate in the Wild West when the
government was very small and remote was absolutely tiny, you could go five,
ten years in a town without a single murder. &lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;Some towns went as long as 20 or 30 years
without a single murder.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay, so yes,
is there a challenge dealing with the problems of murder in a
free-society?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Absolutely.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Will murders be fewer in far
between?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Absolutely right, because there
won&amp;rsquo;t be cops who would go nuts, they won&amp;rsquo;t be better in returning the battle
stars and PTSD, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And there won&amp;rsquo;t
be that kind of violence in the home from those kinds of situation which leads
to further violence down the road.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There
won&amp;rsquo;t be prison guards who become dehumanized in beating up and controlling the
prisoners, there won&amp;rsquo;t be prisoners who are in jail who are getting beaten up
and raped and shivved who are then released back out in the streets, because it
will be a different society where we don&amp;rsquo;t use the initiation of force to try
to solve these complex and psychological and difficult problem.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So we are talking about in an average town,
you know, where a murder or two every 5 years.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And will the society find
some way to provide restitution for that?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Absolutely.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Will everybody want
to wipe out the whole gene pool?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, of
course not, they will be angry in the moment and the DROs will provide
counseling and grief management would get them through that difficult time.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But the alternative to this as solution is,
that the state gets an army, the state gets prisoners and the state gets to use
whatever force it wants at will against anybody, anytime, anyhow, anywhere.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So it is important to put these problems in perspective.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Do we want maybe one out of ten people having
excessive response to murder every 5 years, which means we face this problem in
every town once in every 50 years or do we want the CIA and the FBI and the US
military with 700 bases of receives to poke and sticks and perpetually causing
the murders of 100&amp;rsquo;s of 1000&amp;rsquo;s of people?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Right, so again will anarchy solve everything?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Of course not.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There are human problems which will be
impractical, some people will go on a rampage and shoot the whole&amp;mdash;absolutely.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But given that potential exists, the last
thing we is a centralized military and police force and prison system.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would like to make a little&amp;hellip;sorry, a little
side note here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Essentially with the DRO
as you mentioned, it wouldn&amp;rsquo;t be lucrative for them to go around and kill the
whole family, you do that and well, then maybe you would get repercussions from
maybe the family&amp;rsquo;s DRO and what no, but on a side note, what we actually want
to talk about is that the two of you are very concerned with rights one from
the objectivist&amp;rsquo;s moral point and the other from the constitution, where do you
all think these rights come from? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t believe in rights at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Good Man!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No I don&amp;rsquo;t believe in rights.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Alright!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;To me these&amp;mdash;you know what rights are?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This is rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Please don&amp;#39;t hurt me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That is all it is.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is a quest for those in power, that&amp;rsquo;s all
the right is.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I too believe in the
objective universal absolute morality and I have a crushingly boring book
available for free called Universally Preferable Behavior which if you ever
have trouble sleeping put it on the low murmur, a little Barry White in the
background the trouble then is waking up not getting to sleep.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, I don&amp;rsquo;t believe in rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t believe that they are imbued within
us, you know, I don&amp;rsquo;t believe that they are weak atomic forces that cling right
to the inners that are, I think they are properties, we don&amp;rsquo;t have rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We have properties like we are ambulatory for
the most parts, we breathe oxygen, we are carbon based, we are the rational
animals&amp;hellip;sometimes.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right so we have
properties and those properties biologically universal which is how we&amp;rsquo;re
classified as homo-sapiens so we don&amp;rsquo;t get ourselves confused with sea anomies.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;We have properties that are
universal and I think those should be respected as biological and physical
facts, but we do not have rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No
government can take away the fact that I have mass, no government can take away
the fact that I have scalp, no government can take away the fact that I have
breathe oxygen and am carbon based.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So those are just facts and properties of
human beings, but the governments can take away the rights and the rights are
just purely illusory, and of course begging people to leave you alone never
works, because they are like, &amp;ldquo;Oh you want freedom?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Great, then I&amp;rsquo;ll start taking it away so that
you&amp;rsquo;ll give me stuff because that is what you really want.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like saying thanks to a torturer, &amp;ldquo;You
know, it really hurts when you do this.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Well, what does a torturer want to do?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Bam, bam, bam!&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I don&amp;rsquo;t believe
in rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think that you have a
different approach, certainly you do, but I don&amp;rsquo;t think they exist anymore than
fairies do.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;A difference!&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;We discovered a difference!&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;When
Stefan was down on his knees begging, he wasn&amp;rsquo;t begging for rights, he was
begging for privileges, you know?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Rights&amp;hellip;..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Rights are not, &amp;ldquo;Please don&amp;rsquo;t hurt me.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Rights are, &amp;ldquo;You will not hurt me.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thomas Jefferson said, &amp;ldquo;You only have the
rights you are willing to, you know, fight for.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I have the freedom of speech not because they
wrote the&amp;hellip;and ratified the first amendment in 1791; I have freedom of speech,
because I have never met anybody big enough to shut me up.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So we spoke at the Independence Hall
yesterday and I mean of all the places in the United States, Independence Hall,
4th of July, I mean it was the best 4th of July, the best Independence Day I
have ever had.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, to be looking
at Independence Hall, then I discovered that as I am speaking on this little
podium, there is this little concrete square which was a free speech zone.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;re celebrating independence and the
government is going to allow me my opinion on this concrete pad?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Are you kidding?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Anywhere I happened to be standing is a free
speech zone.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The government doesn&amp;rsquo;t tell
me what I can or cannot say.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The
government doesn&amp;rsquo;t tell me where I can or cannot say it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So rights do exist!&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You cannot&amp;hellip;you cannot take somebody&amp;rsquo;s rights
away.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, you can take their life,
but you can&amp;rsquo;t take their right to life, and, you know, if rights don&amp;rsquo;t exist
then I am not sure exactly what the philosophical discussion is about.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What is it that we are trying to
protect?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, life, liberty and
private property that are the whole point of having written the constitution at
all.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Imagine&amp;hellip;imagine a hypothetical
conversation between Thomas Jefferson and Patrick Henry, the sky is shining&amp;mdash;the
sun is shining, the birds are flying and, you know, butterflies, the crops are
growing, the children are laughing and giggling.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean it is pretty much heaven on earth.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Can you imagine a conversation that said,
&amp;ldquo;You know, what we need is a government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;A government that is going to oppress us,
raise our taxes; I mean everything is like too perfect, I mean we just get
bored.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If we at least had a government
to oppress us then we&amp;rsquo;d have a reason to wake up in the morning.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It would keep us like, you know&amp;hellip;&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I can&amp;rsquo;t even imagine that as a concept.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;More to my reality is that, you know, life is
nearly perfect, almost heaven on earth, and they said, &amp;ldquo;You know, what we
need?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We need a system to protect it
just the way it is so that we can maintain this type of perfection, this type
of heaven on earth, to secure the blessings of liberty for ourselves and our
posterity.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s a goal, a laudable
goal, we may never achieve it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We
certainly have, you know, gotten further from it today than we used to be but
we really do, we need to continue working on it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s a constant process, you know,
philosophy, you are constantly everyday learning new philosophy, honing it,
making it, you know, better, eliminating any contradictions that you have.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think the same thing is true with
governments, it may never be perfect, it may be okay today, but we have to keep
monitoring it and constantly making it better and not letting it, you know,
grow without supervision.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;John, Thank you, pardon me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Stefan and Michael, great presentation today.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Stefan, I want to direct a couple comments
towards you and then ask you a quick question if I could.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;First one of your statements, I used the
scare tactics to say that we do not have the ability to fight our governments,
our large arsenal of bombs, arms, weapons and super-duper through down weapons
to stop us, but at the same time you said, &amp;ldquo;Well we can&amp;rsquo;t even stop the
insurgents overseas.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I find that
pretty fascinating that a bunch of people who live if you will in clay houses
can stopped the most tyrannical governments in the world.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So certainly we as a people have the ability
to go ahead and change our destiny no matter how big our military force and
this government is.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And secondly the
second comment that I want to bring up was an anarchy society that does not
have the tax basis, not one that is going to be desirable from a tyrant&amp;rsquo;s point
of view and I will argue that point by saying that if I were looking to take
over at this organized society that did not have a tax base, that would be a no
brainer because I would march right in there, take over their rights, probably
tax them whether they have a proper tax base or not and then probably through
them into servitude.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So whether they
have a tax base or not does not make them undesirable for a tyrant.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now, I will ask you one more thing on the
DRO, and that is any time you give some one more responsibility or more power
than the people have, they themselves will become tyrannical just as the
government does.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So the question I have
for you is, is you giving these people to be judge, jury and hangman at the
same time, how do you keep their powers to a minimum without&amp;mdash;so they do not
overstep your boundaries.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That is the
bottom line, pretty much instituted government at that point.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, I am not saying that I convince you, I
am not saying that I closed the case.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
am just saying that there is a possibility that it may not be as bad as you
think and that&amp;rsquo;s as far as I can get.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
want to be disrespectful to other people&amp;#39;s questions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thank you very much!&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;About the government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thank you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The wonderful topic of the day.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;One thing that I haven&amp;rsquo;t seen come up yet,
thank you everybody who is here cause it&amp;#39;s great for people to have an open
mind not matter what philosophy, we won&amp;rsquo;t know what we know until we hear it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So it&amp;#39;s good to hear all different sides,
whether we agree with or not, to find out whether we do agree with it, cause
hearsay you don&amp;rsquo;t know what you are getting.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I heard I needed garlic or something to come near you because you were
a, you&amp;rsquo;re going to bite.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You don&amp;rsquo;t
really bite do you?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t even chew.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Alright.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;One thing I haven&amp;rsquo;t heard come up yet is&amp;hellip;is something to do with the
world.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The world is going to follow our
anarchist form of non-government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What
would happen if, I don&amp;rsquo;t know, South Korea decides they&amp;rsquo;re going to nuke Hawaii
and we don&amp;rsquo;t&amp;mdash;if I understanding right, we have no government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We have nobody in power, we have nobody to
make the decision for our landmass.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How
does that work cause we are not going to lay down and roll over it and take it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, that is a great question, I guess the
first question I would have is why does South Korea want to nuke Hawaii
now?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Or why are they threatening to do
so?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why are they threatening to nuke
Hawaii and not Switzerland? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, it is not because of why they are
threatening to nuke Hawaii rather than China or some other country local to the
Far East where they can actually get their rockets?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Cause they can maybe?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, the reason that they are threatening&amp;mdash;the
reason that Al-Qaeda, the reason that these are the countries threaten the
United States is, and I am certainly not defending the retaliatory use of force
in these situations which is going to be almost certainly against defenseless
civilians, but the reason is that the American government is using&amp;mdash;deploying
massive amounts of force overseas.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right,
that they are&amp;hellip;they have black ops, they these 700 plot military bases overseas,
they have funded&amp;mdash;the US government the largest arms seller in the world, so it
is like having a police protection agency that is actively taking your money to
arm criminals who they claim to be defending you against.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And so, because the United States is taking
you tax money cause it&amp;#39;s the government and going and doing all these terrible
things overseas, funding dictatorships, arming dictatorships, funding
oppressors, overthrowing governments, invading, conquering and undermining
societies around the world, there is a hatred of America and they can&amp;rsquo;t strike
at the American government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;They strike at the American people
which I don&amp;rsquo;t agree with of course, but the reason that we don&amp;rsquo;t need a
government to protect us from North Korea, North Korea is only threatening us
because of our government and I use the word &amp;ldquo;our&amp;rdquo; to be Canadian.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But you know what I mean right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The solution to statism is not more statism.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The problems by statism should not be why we
rely on statism, we should really try to solve the problems at the core, you
know, rather than say, &amp;ldquo;Oh, Al Qaeda hates us because we were free.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, Americans were hell of a lot more free
100 years ago and Al Qaeda&amp;rsquo;s missiles didn&amp;rsquo;t touch us at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But if it happened.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But it&amp;rsquo;s not going to happen if you don&amp;rsquo;t
have a government.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No one is ever going to aggress against us
ever?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What if it happens?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What do you mean what if it happens?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Could it happen?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, it&amp;rsquo;s not going to happen because no
country has ever&amp;mdash;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We have force field around us now cause we&amp;rsquo;re
anarchist?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, because as I said earlier, you have the
two part solution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;One is that no one is
going to want to nuke you for the hell of it, because you have nukes and can
nuke them back.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So it just&amp;hellip;it&amp;rsquo;s the&amp;hellip;it&amp;rsquo;s
what&amp;mdash;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Who is in charge of the nukes though&amp;mdash;on our
part to nuke them back?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, you would have defend agencies who
would compete among people to provide them the cheapest and the most effective
deterrents to invasion, but you would not have as you currently have massive
forced, feared currency funding of aggression overseas, because nobody would
want&amp;hellip;I mean the people are for the Iraq war, well, it&amp;rsquo;s well, you take the bill,
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Don&amp;rsquo;t send me the bill if I am
against it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So people would not be
funding aggression overseas.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They would
be funding the cheapest and most effective form of deterrents to avoid an
invasion and that could take many, many different forms, but I don&amp;rsquo;t believe
that some madman would just suddenly up and want to come and nuke people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That just doesn&amp;rsquo;t happen in history.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There are very specific circumstances that
lead to that kind of anger and aggression toward the US government.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This question is for both Stefan and Michael.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You both express approval of privatization of
roads and other currently public or what I consider to be the commons&amp;hellip;common
territories.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What would the effects be
on the individual?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Individual rights or
step on of sorts privileges.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s look
at a road for example, if a road were privatized, could there not be
constrictions on the individual to say that you must have a license, you must
have two headlights present on your car, and you must have a good moral account
in your local town.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean all of these
different precautions so to speak or&amp;hellip;liens could be put on the individual.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How do we address that in the effect that, I
mean take it one step further when&amp;hellip;when entire towns are privatized, in order
to live there you would have to relinquish your rights of free speech or your
right to religion.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;These are real
contradictions to a free society in which you have to deal with privatization;
I&amp;hellip;I&amp;hellip;I would like to hear both the speakers&amp;#39; responses.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Does everybody realize that Saddam Hussein
started out as president of a Home Owners Association and kind of like worked
his way up to tyrant?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;[Laughter]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t deny that, you know, society needs
rules.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean we are social people, we
all have, you know, different opinions, different values, different ethics and,
you know, we need to figure out a methodology of co-existing in the same
relatively, you know, small space without killing each other.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, that&amp;#39;s&amp;hellip;and in the study of any
philosophy that would be in the political level.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, you have your personal ethics and
you exist in a society with other people whose ethics are different from yours
and again we need to co-exist.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So there
need to be certain accepted rules, there is no right reason that the government
has to establish those rules.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know,
speed limit, most people don&amp;rsquo;t follow the speed limit.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, everybody kind of&amp;hellip;I think the
general rule is what?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Ten miles per hour
over, you can probably do that for a long time without getting a speeding
ticket.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;But, you know, there is another
traffic rule that says you don&amp;rsquo;t drive on the left side of the yellow line, you
know, and I don&amp;rsquo;t know many people that violate that rule, not because there is
a squad car around every corner, but probably because if you drive on the left
side of the yellow line, probably going to end your life here real soon.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;again, there&amp;rsquo;s not always going to be an
easy answer, the answer is always property, but when you get to water and air,
okay?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;ve agreed that I own this piece
of land and has a stream going through my land.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Okay, what water do I own?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This
is my water, its moving it&amp;rsquo;s moving oh gosh!&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Okay, so I own Stefan&amp;rsquo;s water and it&amp;rsquo;s moving, you know it&amp;rsquo;s a difficult
process but just because it is difficult doesn&amp;rsquo;t mean that we don&amp;rsquo;t need to
come up with the answer.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;As far as
private roads, most roads were private.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, I have some store or facility, I want customers to get there, I build the
road to make it easier for you to, you know, get to my store.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The government under the constitution is
allowed to build post offices and post roads, the reason for the roads was to
get the mail from one spot to another.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Everything
else was kind of like naked trail.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There
were all sorts of historical examples of private investments, you know, working.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;The Eerie canal was supposed to
connect&amp;hellip;like New York city with the rest of the country west of the
Appalachians and so they privatized it completely, you know, private investments,
they dug this canal 100 miles or something like that and it was making a profit
for the investors before it even opened.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So, you know, we need to have some organization, we need to have some
rules, it doesn&amp;rsquo;t have to be government and people say, &amp;ldquo;Well, yeah, that&amp;rsquo;s
true, but we have to government in control of the police.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No you don&amp;rsquo;t.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Well, yeah, how would you do it?&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;How about Beverly Hills?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You pay
to have your own security guards.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, I am sure that the Beverly Hills police drive around in their cars, but
if you have got enough money; you pay to have your own security guard.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;My own personal police officer sitting there
at the front gate, you know, to check people coming in and out of my property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, if you are poor, you can&amp;rsquo;t afford a
security guard at the front gate so you go out and buy a Saturday night special.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What&amp;rsquo;s a Saturday night special?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, it was any gun that you could afford.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, people who lived in the ghetto are
the ones most likely to need self-defense and so the government basically says,
&amp;ldquo;Well, okay, you can have any gun that you want except the one that you can&amp;rsquo;t
afford.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Saturday night special is just
some arbitrary label, you know, on inexpensive pistols that make it socially
unacceptable for poor people to defend themselves.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, you know, there are lots of different
solutions and again it&amp;rsquo;s your life, you have the responsibility of feeding
yourself and protecting yourself&amp;hellip;and we need to come up with other solutions
other than big government. &lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I have a sort of unique experience to bring
to bear in these kinds of political questions, I have had a pretty varied
career, I&amp;#39;ve been an entrepreneur and when you are an entrepreneur and when you
want to create business and almost all the business need investment, you go to
investors and you have to&amp;hellip;it is crazy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
have to prepare so much stuff and you have to do your market research and you
have to talk to potential customers and figure out exactly what they want, you
have to research the competition and you have to create all these really boring
charts that say where you land on the X-Y of various competition and features
Yes, we&amp;rsquo;re more expensive, but people really want these features and here&amp;rsquo;s the
demographic we&amp;rsquo;re going to appeal to and that is how you get investors.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And investors will see, right, let&amp;rsquo;s say that
you&amp;rsquo;re going to build roads right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Investors will be specialized in investing in road companies and let&amp;rsquo;s
say that we need to build a road from this podium to this podium, the
investment community will literally have a dozen companies come through saying,
&amp;ldquo;Give us $100 million to build this road.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And the investors will ask&amp;mdash;oh it&amp;rsquo;s horrible, it really is, it&amp;rsquo;s like swinging
light bulbs when they ask you every single conceivable question under the sun
to figure out if you have really done your homework and your research to please
your customers better than everyone else that is presenting to them, that day,
that week, that month, that year.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s a
really grueling process.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This is exactly
how it will work in a free-society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Every
rule that you apply to a road overhead that someone has to pay for.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So if you say that you have got to
have both your headlights, then you have got to verify that, you have to have
people checking it out, you have to have punishments, and you have to block
people from coming on to your road or give them some DRO.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s got to be overhead to it and so when
you go to the investors and you say, &amp;ldquo;I want two lights on every car.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They are going to say, &amp;ldquo;How much is that
going to cost.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And you are going to say, &amp;ldquo;Well, it is going
to cost me an extra $200,000 a year,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;Well why would people pay that?&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They are going to say.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Well, because it cuts the accidents by 20%
and we&amp;rsquo;ve done the market research, we&amp;rsquo;ve talked to 500 or 1000 potential
clients and they&amp;rsquo;ve all said I will pay $5 more a month happily to get 20%
reduction in my possibilities of accidents.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Alright, that&amp;rsquo;s how things work in a free-society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s hard for us to remember that, I mean for
must&amp;mdash;unless you have been in that situation you wouldn&amp;rsquo;t know much about it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I am sorry, that is knowingly contradicting,
and I really do apologize but it was a shock to me when I first went through
that whole process a couple of times.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So
every time you want to impose a rule on whatever it is that you are building in
a free-society, everything from collective defense to roads to healthcare, you
have to prove to incredibly annoying, hard bitten, skeptical investors why your
solution is something that customers will want more than every other thing that
they could conceivably invest in that year.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So you have to do such a staggering amount of homework, you have to
build your case, you have to have done all the research and so when the road
finally comes into existence, the rules are never arbitrary, they are designed
to be as effective as human possible based on the greatest value it will
provide to consumers that you have verified by actually asking them.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right, so&amp;hellip;that&amp;rsquo;s a long answer, but it is
really, really important.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Things just
don&amp;rsquo;t pop onto existence in a free-society; they go through an incredibly
grueling process of ensuring that the maximum value at the cheapest price has
been created for every single consumer.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;It will be the case with defense
DROs, it will be the case with healthcare, insurance, property protection.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Everyone has to go through this annoying,
horrible; you know, it&amp;rsquo;s like it makes a frat initiation look like a tea party,
but you have to go through to get people to invest in you in a free market.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I guarantee you through that process which
you never get from the government you get quite the opposite, through that
process you will end up with the roads and the hospitals and the schools, and
everything will be incredibly tuned and re-tuned and re-tuned to meet exactly
what gives people the most value at the cheapest price.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And that is the inevitable process of trying
to get funding and trying to get customers in a truly free and competitive
market and it&amp;rsquo;s so hard for us to understand when we look at government
monopolies what is possible in terms of tuning yourself your market, but there
will be the exact right amount of rules and if people stop wanting two light
then you will go to one light and you will drop their rate by $5 a month
because that&amp;rsquo;s what they expressed a preference for.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Does that make any sense at all?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;[Pause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, I am sorry, legal and moral code, I
mean we were talking about roads right so the legal and moral code is a whole
other issue and maybe we can talk about that afterwards cause I want to make
sure we get to other questions if that is alright, but I was really talking
about just two lights on a highway kind of thing.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Another question?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Who&amp;rsquo;s got the mic?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, mic?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Yes, you had a question for a while?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thank you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;My question is actually for you Mr. Badnarik, earlier you mentioned that
the reason that we needed government to protect people in issues of like
disputes is because nobody wanted to initiate, force themselves, people cringe
at the idea of initiating violence and I wonder if you disagree that part of
that is actually a symptom of the collectivist society we have like there&amp;rsquo;s
been social experiments to show that when someone collapse on a subway, if
there is a bunch of people, nobody helps.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;If there is one person, you feel like they are more dependent upon you,
you are more likely to help.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So you
think that&amp;rsquo;s possible as the reason people&amp;hellip;don&amp;rsquo;t want to take on the&amp;hellip;like you said
you would be willing to, you know, arm yourself and defend your property, but
most people wouldn&amp;rsquo;t.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Do you think that
it is a symptom of the fact that we have been ideologically or socially
conditioned to believe that that&amp;rsquo;s not our responsibility, that&amp;rsquo;s the
government or the police force?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I do think that the collectivist tendency in
the world is because people don&amp;rsquo;t want the responsibility themselves.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, we want&amp;hellip;and I think it stems
fundamentally from our origins in family.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;When you are 5 years old, you don&amp;rsquo;t make your own decisions, mom and dad
make those decisions for you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They feed
you, they shelter you and, you know, life is really good because you are
protected and you have no responsibilities.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You know, the epitome of that is when you get to college, you know, gosh
life is really good, you get to make your own decisions, you get to decide when
to go to bed at night, you get to decide what you watch on TV, how much alcohol
you drink, and wow, this is really great.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;But you know, car insurance is due and then you go, &amp;ldquo;Dad, I need a check
for my car insurance, I need a check for my tuition.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, you know, college is utopia, because you
have all the benefits and none of the responsibilities, you know, and so I
think that having done that, we, you know, mom and dad finally go, &amp;ldquo;Thanks,
you&amp;rsquo;re out of college, our responsibility is done, you know, get your own
apartment.&amp;rdquo; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;You know, and, you know, we go, &amp;ldquo;Wow, life
used to be a whole lot better when I had somebody taking care of me,&amp;rdquo; and I
think we have the identity to want the government do that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t know if it is true, but I&amp;rsquo;ve always
believed that Winston Churchill&amp;ndash;I&amp;rsquo;ve always heard the quote attributed to him;
if it&amp;rsquo;s not him, I apologize, but the quote is that, &amp;ldquo;If you are 20 years old
and you are not a socialist, you have no heart and if you are 40 years old and
you are still a socialist, you have no brain.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And, you know, the back on that is that, you know, socialism has such
great marketing.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like, everybody&amp;rsquo;s
going to have everything.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re going
to have food, you&amp;rsquo;re going to have shelter, you&amp;rsquo;re going to have education, and
you&amp;rsquo;re going to have health care.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Life
is going to be wonderful.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, it&amp;rsquo;s
just kind of like, you know &amp;ndash; that the marketing is great.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Who wouldn&amp;rsquo;t want that?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like, &amp;ldquo;Yeah&amp;rdquo;, I mean, that sounds like
heaven on earth.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I want that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But then you realize that, &amp;ldquo;Oh, wait a
minute,&amp;rdquo; you&amp;rsquo;ve got a job and all of a sudden, the government is taking taxes
out of your pay check that you work so hard for.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And, you know, you can&amp;rsquo;t buy the stuff that
you wanted because taxes are so high because you&amp;rsquo;re paying for other people&amp;rsquo;s
health care &amp;ndash; other people&amp;rsquo;s education &amp;ndash; other people&amp;rsquo;s stuff.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And you go, &amp;ldquo;Oh, wow!&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean, that&amp;hellip;you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You reach maturity and you go, &amp;ldquo;Wow, this
pretty much sucks.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s a
redistribution of wealth.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And so, you
know, the &amp;ndash; socialism is really wonderful, but the problem is that you
eventually run out of other people&amp;rsquo;s money.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Mr. Badnarik?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yes.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I appreciate you trying to inject liberty
into a political process, as it seems to be against liberty.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You mentioned &amp;ldquo;eternal vigilance&amp;rdquo; several
times, to protect that liberty.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The only
option I see is to spend my life trying to convince one hundred and fifty
million, plus one, to my way of thinking.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;That level of eternal vigilance isn&amp;rsquo;t free.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It sounds like being enslaved to freedom.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, you did say I am free.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If I&amp;rsquo;m free to do what I want with my property,
I should be able to look through a brochure and decide what government serves
my needs the best and who gets access to my property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I know that it is anarchy, but I do not want
to spend my life creating or chasing after different government packages.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Millions of people with good ideas routinely
success, selling their products and services in the free market.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You spoke of monarchism as a possible path to
anarchy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I ask whether your ideal
government would allow and work with competing institutions for what you define
government functions to be.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, I mean&amp;hellip;the price of liberty is eternal
vigilance.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean, I don&amp;rsquo;t like it
anymore than you do.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean, we&amp;rsquo;re
supposed to be able to pursue life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And, you know, I mean, I&amp;rsquo;m happy to do it but
that&amp;rsquo;s not my pursuit of happiness.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m
a sky diving instructor, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
want to jump out of perfectly good airplanes, you know, drink beer and chase
attractive women &amp;ndash; that&amp;rsquo;s the way I pursue happiness, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I can&amp;rsquo;t do that, you know, because my
government is taking&amp;hellip;when I lived in California, my federal, state and FICA
taxes, totaled 48 percent.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;And I don&amp;rsquo;t know where you guys went
to school but when I was growing up, that was half, and there was absolutely no
way I am going to give half of my productive output to the government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No way!&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re going to have to come and take it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, because, you know, previous generations
have allowed the Government to get this far out of control.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean, it&amp;rsquo;s not my fault, I didn&amp;rsquo;t allow,
you know, the new deal.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I didn&amp;rsquo;t, you
know, encourage Vietnam, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s
like, I just looked around it was like, this is the hand I&amp;rsquo;ve been dealt; this
is the government that is here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I
can sit and, you know, complain about it a lot, but that&amp;rsquo;s not going to solve
the problem.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, I&amp;rsquo;m destined to travel
across the country, teaching people the difference between rights and
privileges, and, you know, hopefully with my eight-hour class, motivate people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You suggested that I have to, you
know, convince one hundred and fifty million, plus one people, to my way of
thinking.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yes, that&amp;rsquo;s what I mean when
we say that this is an ideological war.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This
is a war of ideas and I am promoting the idea of individual rights and private
property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And the sooner three-hundred
million people in the United States adopt that idea, the sooner I can, you
know, like pack my suitcase and go back to the airport and jump out of
perfectly good airplanes.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And right now,
I am vastly &amp;ndash; vastly out-numbered.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most
of the people in the United States are socialists; they don&amp;rsquo;t know it but they
like the government handout, you know.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, assuming you could get that one hundred
and fifty-million and one, and then your ideal anarchist society, would you
allow free competition against government services?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yes, absolutely.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The&amp;ndash;and we&amp;rsquo;ve already got a demonstration of
that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The post office&amp;hellip;I mean, most of
you aren&amp;rsquo;t even old enough to know the post offices that I went to.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s kind of like the witches house in Hansel
and Gretel.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean, they were dark and
dirty and, you know, kind of like a scary place to go.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Mom would say, you know, &amp;ldquo;Michael, I&amp;rsquo;d like
you to go buy some stamps&amp;rdquo; it was like, &amp;ldquo;No, please,&amp;rdquo; you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now, post offices are pretty clean; they&amp;rsquo;re
fairly modern.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;ve got the, you know,
new blue logos.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It didn&amp;rsquo;t always used to
be like that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The post office had to
literally clean up its act when Federal Express started being, you know &amp;ndash; if
you absolutely, positively, have to get it there overnight, use Federal Express
and people did.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It was expensive but it
worked.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;True Story&amp;hellip;went into a post
office and there must have been forty people waiting ahead of me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And you got to take that little number like
you&amp;rsquo;re at the meat counter, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And
I sat down and I&amp;rsquo;m&amp;hellip;they actually have park benches in the post office because
they know you&amp;rsquo;re going to be there.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
mean, you may as well take a book.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And
now, you know, when I get frustrated, I also get a little bit devilish and
devious.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And so, I was sitting on a
bench next to some guy and we were just sitting there and I kind of looked at
my little slip and I said, &amp;ldquo;Mine says Tuesday, what does your say?&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And he looked at his slip; he thought he was
going to have to come back tomorrow.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;[Laughter]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And the sad thing is the post office is the
most efficient Federal agency we have.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Would the post office be a function of your
ideal anarchist government? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The post office is one of the things
specifically listed in the constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;That doesn&amp;rsquo;t mean we can&amp;rsquo;t get rid of it, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You want to come up with a privatized
solution &amp;ndash; hey, I&amp;rsquo;m all in favor of it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
mean, newspapers are going away.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean,
most of your newspapers are having trouble just, you know, staying funded
because&amp;hellip;like, who wants to, you know, pay for all that chopped up tree?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most of us&amp;hellip;many, many more of us are now
getting our information, you know, from the internet.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, we&amp;rsquo;ve got&amp;hellip;I thought I saw an iBook
here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, everything is
electronic; we&amp;rsquo;re going away from paper, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And the people who are newspaper editors, you
know, may feel a little bit threatened by that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;But, I&amp;rsquo;m sure that the people who operated the delivery stable for years
and years, you know, for generations, felt a little bit threatened when, you
know, Henry Ford came up with this like motorized little buggy, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Progress happens; deal with it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, no, I have the mic up here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This question is for both.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ve really enjoyed the back and forth of
this&amp;hellip;how much government is necessary.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But
I don&amp;rsquo;t think we&amp;rsquo;ve ever really defined what government is.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean, it isn&amp;rsquo;t&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Government is that which is unnecessary.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sorry, just kidding.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;[Laughter]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, in response&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In response to Karen&amp;rsquo;s question about Korea
or any country nuking us, you said that the Defense agency would be responsible
for any retaliation.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If that&amp;rsquo;s not
government, what is it?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The government, technically, and I think that
we would agree on this &amp;ndash; that the government is the conceptual label for a
group of individuals for whatever time period, who have the legal right to
initiate the use of force within a given geographical area.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;AM Okay.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Can I stop you there, and just ask you&amp;hellip;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You certainly can.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;hellip;a question?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Okay.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If I, as an individual,
have the right to use force in defense of myself, when does it become a
government, okay?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Because I can use
force to defend myself.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If I group with
one other person, we&amp;rsquo;re walking down the street and we see five people with
their weapons drawn coming towards us.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Obviously,
we both, together, have the right to use force in order&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It depends.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;hellip;to protect ourselves.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Absolutely.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I think&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;hellip;I see where you&amp;rsquo;re going with this.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, when does it become government?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How many people are necessary&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, no&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;hellip;to join together&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;hellip;that story, there&amp;rsquo;s two functional
characteristics of government, right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s just that it&amp;hellip;fundamentally, that it
initiates the use of force and it does that for two reasons &amp;ndash; to prevent
competition and to take money.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean,
there&amp;rsquo;s other things like regulations and so on.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But, the fundamental thing is that you can
set up a competing police agency in the current system.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can set up a &amp;ndash; you can set up a competing
post office if they let you, though I think that you still can&amp;rsquo;t charge less
than the post of office, which is heavily subsidized.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You don&amp;rsquo;t have the right to initiate the use
of force as an individual or any number of groups.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You have the right of self defense, which is
universal to all people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, you&amp;rsquo;re just answering the question
under our basic current system, okay.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re
not answering it in a more general sense.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay, sorry, what am I not answering?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I must have missed it&amp;hellip;I apologize.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;When does&amp;hellip;how many people acting together
does it require to become defined as government? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;None.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay, so&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Anybody who claims the right to initiate
force is wrong and a criminal if they act upon that premise.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No matter how many people get together &amp;ndash; they
can call themselves the government &amp;ndash; it is just the mafia, by another name.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Because that which is moral or immoral for
the individual, does not change depending on how many people get together,
which I&amp;rsquo;m sure we all agree on.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, it never becomes valid.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now, the mafia that wins will call itself the
government, will indoctrinate the children to worship it, will bribe all the
people in the world, with all the productive people&amp;rsquo;s money to gain allegiance.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;ll start wars, we&amp;rsquo;ll do all of these
terrible things and they&amp;rsquo;ll call themselves &amp;ldquo;the government&amp;rdquo; but that just
means best mafia; mafia that won.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would agree with that, okay.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But still, we haven&amp;rsquo;t defined what government
is, as far as&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, we have.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Huh?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We have.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That was&amp;hellip;the agency assigning the right&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We said it&amp;rsquo;s the legal right initiate use of
force in a given geographical area.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well,
I had the &amp;ndash; I didn&amp;rsquo;t make&amp;hellip;I had the right to initiate force if I feel that
someone&amp;hellip;if somebody has a gun pointed to my head&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s not the initiation.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s self defense.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yes, I mean, they used to initiate force to
prevent competition and to take money.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Alright,
that&amp;rsquo;s the definition of it, and they obviously claimed a legal or moral right
to have to have all pomp and circumstances, because you can&amp;rsquo;t&amp;hellip;I mean, they had
to put the gun in velvet, right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Because
you see the gun and you&amp;rsquo;re like, &amp;ldquo;Oh, I&amp;rsquo;m a slave,&amp;rdquo; right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And so they have to put all this nonsense and
drape the flag and parades and blah-blah-blah, right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Because nobody wants to see this, right &amp;ndash;
because that makes you feel humiliated and you might want to change.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But, so, yeah, there&amp;rsquo;s no group of people who
would inevitably gain that moral right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But
there is a group that claims and acts upon that moral right to initiate force,
usually within a geographical area.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, I said at the very beginning in my
opening thing, we need to define, you know, establish definitions and those
definitions may change as we go along.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, my question was, does mutual cooperation, you know, constitute
government?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In your hypothetical, as I
understood it, you know &amp;ndash; you&amp;rsquo;re walking along all by yourself with a gun, for
self defense.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I think your question
was, &amp;ldquo;How many of you standing shoulder to shoulder in a row, constitute
government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, if you&amp;rsquo;re all there
independently, with your own gun for self defense&amp;hellip;I mean, I don&amp;rsquo;t think that it
does constitute government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;My premise earlier, is that it&amp;rsquo;s a
hypothetical, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I would
certainly be happy to carry a gun to defend myself, but most people won&amp;rsquo;t.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And so, you get a lot of people who say, you
know, &amp;ldquo;I don&amp;rsquo;t want to carry a gun.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m
afraid of guns, I don&amp;rsquo;t know how to use guns.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I want someone else to do my protection for me.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And so, we&amp;rsquo;re going to hire the security
guard to stand out at the front gate, to presumably, shoot the bad guys.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, the question is when &amp;ndash; I mean, how
big of a security force do you have to have.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And I agree with Stefan, the initiation of force is never legitimate.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean, bench &amp;ndash; George Washington said that
government is not reason.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Government is
not eloquence, it is force.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And like
fire, it is a dangerous servant and a fearful master.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;We create this government to protect
us, but we&amp;rsquo;ve got to kind of watch it so that it doesn&amp;rsquo;t, you know, outgrow,
you know, the original purposes.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, the government that is supposed to protect you, can grow big enough to
threaten you and become, you know, a greater threat than, you know, the
problems that you were worried about, originally.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;I mean, I&amp;rsquo;m curious as to what your
definition of government is.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If Stefan
and I, you know, get a voluntary cooperation, I&amp;rsquo;ll help him protect his
property; he helps me protect my property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Do we actually have to write something on paper for it to be a
government?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, if we create a
one-page, you know, contract and we go, &amp;ldquo;Okay, this looks pretty good&amp;rdquo; and you
know, &amp;ldquo;If I see anybody taking your stuff, I&amp;rsquo;ll shoot them&amp;rdquo; and we both sign
the contract &amp;ndash; does that constitute government?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I mean, I don&amp;rsquo;t know what &amp;ndash; and we would have&amp;hellip;well, I don&amp;rsquo;t know how
many people we have in the audience but I&amp;rsquo;m sure we can come up with, you know,
probably a dozen or more different definitions of what constitutes government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well,
I guess my question is what would those agencies be called if not government?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, it would be called a company, right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It would be a&amp;hellip; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, what&amp;rsquo;s the difference? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It would be a company.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It would be a company with a tank.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Then what is the difference in its force?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It does not have the right to initiate or to
abstract money from a disarmed population and it doesn&amp;rsquo;t have the ability to
initiate costs to prevent competition.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But
the government, by definition&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re assuming that&amp;hellip;I didn&amp;rsquo;t agree with that
all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yes, of course it doesn&amp;rsquo;t actually have, if
we use the word right &amp;ndash; locally, it doesn&amp;rsquo;t have that right but it exercises
that right as a&amp;hellip;I&amp;rsquo;d say where as a DRO agency would not because free market,
volunteerism and you would obviously, I mean a DRO would say, &amp;ldquo;Look, if I ever
have one bullet more than I&amp;rsquo;m supposed to, I&amp;rsquo;ll pay every one of my subscribers
ten thousand dollars, and they&amp;rsquo;ll be an independent audit,&amp;rdquo; and all the
safeguards and checks and balances, which never worked with government really
do work in the free market.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m sorry
we&amp;hellip;let&amp;rsquo;s continue this if you want, after, but let&amp;rsquo;s make sure we get the other
questions in because&amp;hellip;no, not you, Jean.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No,
I&amp;rsquo;m just kidding, just kidding, go on.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;[Laughter]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;A tough question&amp;hellip;is anyone after me?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;First, thank you both for coming.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ve really enjoyed this discussion today.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;My question is for Michael, and I know we&amp;rsquo;re
sort of struggling with the definition of government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I think a lot of what we&amp;rsquo;re &amp;ldquo;disagreeing&amp;rdquo;
about here, it maybe a matter of semantics.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;What I wanted to ask you, Michael, is if we &amp;ndash; if you&amp;rsquo;re saying we need
to have a government&amp;hellip;a minimal government, what are those minimum government
functions that are essential to have a government for, that could not be
provided better under free market system?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And I&amp;rsquo;m not talking about a collective defense because that&amp;rsquo;s not a
government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think the&amp;hellip;when we say, you
know, government, we are talking about initiation of force.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, in that context, what would be these
essential government services be? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, the purpose the constitution and the
government we&amp;rsquo;re supposed to have, is to protect our life, liberty and property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s the goal &amp;ndash; how we go about it is
basically a procedure and you know, if this procedure is not working, you know,
when any form of government becomes destructive of your rights, we can
establish a new one.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And again, I mean,
I like the individual responsibility thing.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I mean, I don&amp;rsquo;t want to have to pay for your education and I don&amp;rsquo;t need
you to do my defense.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I am perfectly
happy doing it all by myself, but most people aren&amp;rsquo;t.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And so, the things that are basically
necessary are to provide services for the people who don&amp;rsquo;t want to provide
them, themselves.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean, I have a right
to communicate with you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But
Philadelphia is a little bit long distance from Dallas and I don&amp;rsquo;t want to have
to get in the car and travel twenty-seven hours every time I want to hand you
envelope, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, there is a
system available where I can, you know, scribble an address on the envelope,
drop it into a box and somebody else will pick it up and, you know, do the
traveling for me, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would like
that; it saves me a lot of time, having to come back and forth &amp;ndash; I mean, I love
Philadelphia, and I come back frequently.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;But, you know, it would just be inefficient in my life.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And so, it&amp;rsquo;s partially, Division of Labor.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;All of us have a higher standard of
living.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You don&amp;rsquo;t have to do everything
for yourself.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, you get really,
really good at one thing and then you pay for other people&amp;rsquo;s services who are
really better at &amp;ndash; about those things than you are.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There are certain things that we don&amp;rsquo;t want
to do, and I give self defense as one of them.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I mean, there are probably others.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So, you know, if we had people who were smart enough and responsible
enough to want to do everything for themselves and just do everything on a, you
know, voluntary interactive basis, it would be like, &amp;ldquo;Wow, this is
wonderful.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But, people are not that
smart.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;People are not that ethical and
people are not that responsible, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So, that&amp;rsquo;s the direction I want to move, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, at this point and time, you know, the
founding fathers did their best to say, okay, most of the government is going
to be at the local level so that you can go down to the, you know, City Hall
and, you know, like smack your representative upside the head.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, the State government is going to
handle most of the things.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Murder is a
state issue; it&amp;rsquo;s not a federal issue &amp;ndash; and the Federal government is supposed
to be really, really small, you know, to handle the things that are just not
practical, you know, for each State to get into.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, it&amp;rsquo;s a commodity of scale.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;re going to have one Army, you know, that
will defend all fifty states.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;We can have a really good Army and,
you know, that way, we don&amp;rsquo;t have to have competition.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most of you are probably not old enough to
remember ATT was the only company and it gave really great service.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And then the government tried to help us and
broke then down into smaller baby Bell companies.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And, you know, it&amp;rsquo;s like it took a long while
before we&amp;hellip;but we still have people going, &amp;ldquo;Well, you know, Verizon and
AT&amp;amp;T&amp;rdquo; and these different companies, you know, it is, you know, the free
market.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;hellip;you know, some people have
better service than others, depends on what area you live in.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But, you know, and it may not have all the
advantages that, like one phone system network might have had.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, I mean, I really don&amp;rsquo;t care; society will
figure out those things.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And, you know,
as soon as everybody grows and be responsible enough to do their own thing &amp;ndash;
yeah, then we can probably get rid of government.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t have anything to add to that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You guys have any, see any tired arms?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You might have a better view than I do.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh yeah, there&amp;rsquo;s a gentleman and the lady in
red&amp;hellip;No, the guy here, right in front of you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Red? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Just a follow-up to that response from
Michael.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You mentioned that we wouldn&amp;rsquo;t
be very productive as people if we all had to do everything that we needed,
ourselves; and you mentioned the Division of Labor.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;My question is, how come we can&amp;rsquo;t just let
other people fulfill our need for self defense in an open market?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why&amp;hellip;it sounded like to answer his question,
you wanted to give the government a monopoly on self defense.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t believe that&amp;rsquo;s what I said.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If that&amp;rsquo;s what it sounded like, I certainly
didn&amp;rsquo;t intend that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Again, I&amp;rsquo;m happy to
do, you know, defense on the open market, and I gave an example of Beverly
Hills is where people do that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s an
open market &amp;ndash; you&amp;rsquo;ve got the police.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;ve
got the public Hollywood Police Department out there with their black and white
cars.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And, well, you know, for rich
people, that&amp;rsquo;s not good enough and so they hire private security.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If you&amp;rsquo;re really rich, you can hire a body
guard that will follow you around and, you know, presumably beat up anybody
that tries to hurt you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, I
don&amp;rsquo;t need a body guard, don&amp;rsquo;t want a body guard, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would really like &amp;ndash; one of my issues is the
second amendment, and I would like to be able to carry a gun.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean, for the most part, nobody messes with
me anyway, just because of the attitude that I carry.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But, you know, my attitude would sure like to
be backed up by, you know, a .45 underneath my shoulder, I&amp;rsquo;d be happy to do
that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And, you know, people are really,
really polite.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s a saying that &amp;ldquo;an
armed society is a polite society.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And
if you&amp;rsquo;ve never gone to a gun show&amp;hellip;I mean, you know, everybody at the gun show
&amp;ndash; I mean, you&amp;rsquo;re walking down the tables and you&amp;rsquo;re looking at the different
things and you bump into somebody and it&amp;rsquo;s immediately, &amp;ldquo;Oh, excuse me,
sorry.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, just trying to walk
around; everybody&amp;rsquo;s like, you know, they don&amp;rsquo;t want you to think that I was,
like, trying to violate your space or anything.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You know, in my personal experience, the people that I really like &amp;ndash; the
people that I&amp;rsquo;d like to have around closest to me &amp;ndash; not always &amp;ndash; but usually
turn out to be gun owners.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like
they are the people who are, you know, calm and confident.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They have nothing to prove, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;And on the other end of that
spectrum, I have a personal friend &amp;ndash; really good friend &amp;ndash; I love this guy and
we co-exist as friends because we&amp;rsquo;ve got a mutual agreement not to talk about
politics.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, we, that&amp;rsquo;s the one
issue that we don&amp;rsquo;t talk about because, I mean, I can&amp;rsquo;t&amp;hellip;my arm doesn&amp;rsquo;t reach
far enough to the left.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, my car was
in the shop, he picked me up for work about four days in a row, and during
those four days, it&amp;rsquo;s like, you know, I think twice &amp;ndash; three times he came, you
know, picked me up and he&amp;rsquo;s just seething in the morning, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like, &amp;ldquo;Good morning.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;He goes, &amp;ldquo;Man, I almost called you last
night.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Really, what for?&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;He goes, &amp;ldquo;I was so pissed I wanted to come
and borrow your gun and blow some son of a bitch away.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I go, &amp;ldquo;Oh, no wonder you&amp;rsquo;re afraid of
everybody having a gun because you think everybody thinks the way you do.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, if you think that you want to go
out and blow people away and you assume everybody else, then yeah, it would be
pretty much a blood shed alley.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most gun
owners are not like that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, I am
not a violent guy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;d much rather give
you a hug, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Just, you know,
don&amp;rsquo;t try to hurt me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I want to put
a real good guarantee on that by, you know, carrying my shoulder holster.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I have a question for Mr. Badnarik.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;ve talked about the constitution and, I
guess, the original intent was to have an indirect tax to fund the government&amp;rsquo;s
operations.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Could you talk a little bit
about how the government would fund its operations.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What you&amp;rsquo;ve perceived in going in the future,
of how this would work.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And (b), would
you be able to, as a citizen, opt out of funding a government?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This is like one of the most common questions
I heard when I was running for president of the United States.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, it&amp;rsquo;s like, my statement as a
libertarian was that we&amp;rsquo;re going to&amp;hellip;I mean, we&amp;rsquo;re not going to lower taxes &amp;ndash;
we&amp;rsquo;re going to eliminate the IRS, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And when people like recover from the shock and, you know, like would
catch their breath, and go, &amp;ldquo;Well, how are we going to pay for all this
government if we get rid of the IRS?&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And it&amp;rsquo;s a trick question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It
presumes an answer, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If I ask
you, &amp;ldquo;Do you still beat your wife?&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The
question presumes that, you know, either you did beat her and you&amp;rsquo;ve stopped,
or you are continuing to beat her; but, either way, at one point in the past,
you did beat her.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, if you ask me
that question, I&amp;rsquo;m sorry, I can&amp;rsquo;t answer the question because I&amp;rsquo;ve never been
married.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, when you ask the question,
&amp;ldquo;How are we going to pay for this government?&amp;rdquo; it presumes that this government
is legitimate and should be paid for.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The
real question is, &amp;ldquo;What is it that we should be paying for in the first
place?&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We signed the Declaration of
Independence in 1776.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The IRS and income
taxes didn&amp;rsquo;t happen until 1913, so by my arithmetic, that was well over one
hundred years where we had no income tax, no IRS and the United States
government had more money than it knew what to do with.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;How did that happen?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, at least for the beginning part of our
country, government was limited by Article 1, Section 8, and congress wasn&amp;rsquo;t
doing anything outside of that list.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And
so because the federal government was really small, there really wasn&amp;rsquo;t a whole
lot to pay for, and so the founding fathers paid for that very limited
government, using excises.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And it wasn&amp;rsquo;t
like, well we like your country, so you&amp;rsquo;re only going get five percent excised;
but you know, this country over here doesn&amp;rsquo;t play ball with us, so we&amp;rsquo;re going
to raise it to, you know, like a 50 percent import tax.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, it was just kind of&amp;hellip;I don&amp;rsquo;t know
what the percentage was but just hypothetically, five percent for any country
or foreign company that wanted to sell here &amp;ndash; you know, you&amp;rsquo;re not collecting a
lot of money, but you also don&amp;rsquo;t have a whole lot of federal government to pay
for.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay, so what you&amp;rsquo;re saying is that there
would be some kind of sales tax if products were being imported.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But again, the question is, what if I don&amp;rsquo;t
want to pay the sales tax?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, the constitution identifies two types
of taxes &amp;ndash; direct taxes and indirect taxes.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Direct tax is basically one that you cannot avoid, sometimes called a
capitation tax.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This is the tax and you
can either mail it in or we&amp;rsquo;ll come and get it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;The other type of tax is an indirect tax, which is very much like a tax
on gasoline and your choice is, &amp;ldquo;I don&amp;rsquo;t want to pay the tax on gasoline.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay, ride a bicycle.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay, so, the capitation tax &amp;ndash; are you going
to collect it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The capitation tax?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Again, there was&amp;hellip;the way the constitution is
supposed to work &amp;ndash; Congress sits down and decides we&amp;rsquo;ve got Project X, you
know, whatever it is.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And again,
hypothetically, we&amp;rsquo;ve got good, honest politicians representing us, you know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And we really need something &amp;ndash; something that
the people would actually want.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And Project
X is going to cost a million dollars.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Article
1, Section 2, Clause 3 says that representatives and direct taxes shall be
apportioned to the several states.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So
that&amp;hellip;okay, how do we know how many representatives in the House, each state
gets?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, my God, we&amp;rsquo;re going to have to
count everybody in the country?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So,
California has ten percent of the people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So they get, you know, 10% of the representation in Congress and, you
know, that would&amp;ndash;we got 435 members, you know, 10% of that would be, you know,
43-1/2 and unfortunately they don&amp;rsquo;t let me cut a represent in half, so
California gets 44, okay?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What would
prevent California from just like, you know, buggering up the census numbers
and let&amp;rsquo;s say they manage to double the number of people who actually live in
California?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What would prevent them from
doing that?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, the founding fathers
understood checks and balances and it says, &amp;ldquo;Representatives and direct taxes
shall be apportioned.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So when Congress,
you know, approves project X for $1 million, Washington D.C.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;would then a send a bill for $100,000 or 10%
of that to Sacramento and so Sacramento decides how they&amp;rsquo;re going to pay it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If they&amp;rsquo;ve got $100,000 in the treasury, they
write a check, mail it to Washington D.C.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;and the people of California, you know, I don&amp;rsquo;t know, I don&amp;rsquo;t care.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, Sacramento could also send out a
postcard, you know, to the I think 30 million people in California and say, you
know, &amp;ldquo;Write us a check for $0.25, you know, mail it in with a $0.45 stamp, you
know, and we&amp;rsquo;ll pay it.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think&amp;hellip;I think&amp;hellip;I hear what you&amp;rsquo;re saying.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The question I&amp;rsquo;m asking is once you decide
what to tax is going to be, don&amp;rsquo;t you need an enforcement arm to collect the
tax whether you call it the IRS or you call it whatever.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Don&amp;rsquo;t you need an enforcement arm?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, yeah.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;hellip;to force compliance?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But&amp;hellip;but presumably, again, this is a
completely hypothetical situation, we have representatives that are only
collecting taxes for things that we want.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So there&amp;rsquo;s not going to be a real big problem with enforcement.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most people are going to be voluntary sending
it in and&amp;hellip;and yes, you&amp;ndash;that would be a legitimate tax.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Article 168 clause 1 says that Congress has
the power to lay and collect taxes, duties, impose and excises for three
reasons.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It doesn&amp;rsquo;t give, you know, for
like every April 15th or any damn thing they way.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, again, I mean I have no problem with
people say, &amp;ldquo;Well, I don&amp;rsquo;t want&amp;hellip;I don&amp;rsquo;t mind paying taxes, I just want to pay
the lowest amount of tax that I can.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
want to like make it real cheap.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I
say, &amp;ldquo;I don&amp;rsquo;t mind paying taxes either to a constitutionally justified
government.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But that&amp;rsquo;s not what we&amp;rsquo;ve
got.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;As soon as you get the government
to start following the constitution, I&amp;rsquo;ll be, you know, a lot less upset about
having to fill out at 1040 form.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[Indiscernible] [03:02:47 &amp;ndash; 03:03:02]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, again, whatever the project was for.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean it would be probably pretty rare.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean whatever the federal government is
doing, they would be funding it using the&amp;hellip;these excised taxes.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, you know, it&amp;rsquo;s kind of catch-22 question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, it&amp;rsquo;s like God can do everything.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Really?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Can God make a rock so big that even he can&amp;rsquo;t pick it up?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like I don&amp;rsquo;t know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean&amp;hellip;and I&amp;rsquo;m happy to sit down and discuss
these things, but, you know, whenever you get into the position like this,
people are always, you know, creating questions that are like well, it&amp;rsquo;s
hypothetical.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t know what would
happen to be there, but&amp;hellip;you know, if you want&amp;ndash;if it&amp;rsquo;s a legitimate thing, the
tax is going to be really low and I think that most people would, you know,
voluntarily pay it and if, you know, you&amp;rsquo;re one of those hold outs that doesn&amp;rsquo;t
want to give anything, eh, don&amp;rsquo;t arrest him, I&amp;rsquo;m pay it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, we&amp;rsquo;ve got a&amp;hellip;a free&amp;hellip;a free market, a
capitalist society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m making so much
money, I got you covered, don&amp;rsquo;t sweat it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Next?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Speaker 5:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, we have about twenty minutes left in
our official schedule.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;you know,
we&amp;rsquo;ll do that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, we&amp;rsquo;ll scheduled
to end at 5:30, but&amp;hellip;if our debaters would like to stick around, if you have the
availability, I don&amp;rsquo;t want&amp;ndash;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I view this an extremely pleasurable,
brilliant questions, great audience.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So
I&amp;rsquo;m happy to stay as long as people want to stay.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;let&amp;rsquo;s get the next question.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Great, fun.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Sure.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You guys?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You want to point out the questions from now
on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, you had one.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;hellip;commi&amp;rsquo;s not cool, dude.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There has to be at least one guy at every
libertarian meeting who&amp;rsquo;s beard is longer than his hair.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That is a fact of life and it&amp;rsquo;s good to see
that you&amp;rsquo;ve filled that niche.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thank
you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;My question is actually for Michael, I
support you a lot.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I got your book right
here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Basically, like every question, I
have a couple questions, but basically everything that&amp;rsquo;s been directed towards
you, you&amp;rsquo;ve been no government, no government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Shouldn&amp;rsquo;t you be anarchist then?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I mean everything you&amp;rsquo;ve been saying has been no government
and&amp;hellip;also&amp;hellip;what exactly do you propose would be government and how exactly would
you pay for it like?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like Pat Buchan
says, &amp;ldquo;Oh, this country tear us not our country.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But aren&amp;rsquo;t they individuals?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Shouldn&amp;rsquo;t they not be forced to pay things
also?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Aren&amp;rsquo;t&amp;hellip;everyone&amp;rsquo;s an individual so
just not our country, and also&amp;hellip;our founding fathers, what gave them the right
to write a document over me?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Did I give
them permission for that?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Which document?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The Declaration? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The Constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I didn&amp;rsquo;t give permission to anyone to write a
document over me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Founding fathers or
not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, nobody&amp;hellip;nobody gave the founding fathers
permission to write the Declaration of Independence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They just did it and I&amp;rsquo;ve already said that
the Constitution, they didn&amp;rsquo;t have the authority to write the Constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They were sent to Philadelphia to modify the
Articles of Confederation.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They closed
the doors and they basically shit canned the Articles of Confederation which I
think would have been better in many cases.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I mean not as good in others&amp;hellip;and they came out, you know, I
mean&amp;hellip;everybody knows that it&amp;rsquo;s easier to get forgiveness than permission, you
know? And I don&amp;rsquo;t know exactly how it went, but it was probably, you know,
Benjamin Franklin spilled his beer, you know, on the Articles Confederation,
the ink smeared, we couldn&amp;rsquo;t read it, and you know, so we just kind of wrote down
and, you know, set this&amp;hellip;sat down and wrote this Constitution and we know it&amp;rsquo;s
not what you asked us to do, but all you have to do is ratify the Constitution
and all will be forgiven.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know,
well, it wasn&amp;rsquo;t by the numbers, but, you know, eventually all thirteen states
did ratify the constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;One of the
things that my students in my class usually stun&amp;hellip;to discover is that, you know,
if you want to burn the Constitution, if you want to shred the Bill of Rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t care.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You go but the Constitution says.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I said, &amp;ldquo;Well, I don&amp;rsquo;t care.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Don&amp;rsquo;t
tell me what the Constitution says.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Most of the time they&amp;rsquo;re telling me what some state statue says.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, Michael, you&amp;rsquo;re telling me you got
a right to keep and bear arms, but they&amp;rsquo;ve got these laws.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They&amp;rsquo;ve got these 23,000 gun laws that say&amp;ndash;I
don&amp;rsquo;t care.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t care what it says.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;After Kilo&amp;hellip;or not Kilo.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Heller versus Washington D.C., a Supreme
Court decision&amp;ndash;first Supreme Court decision about the second amendment in I
don&amp;rsquo;t know how many years&amp;hellip;I got like a dozen phone calls that morning.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, Michael, Michael, I want to be the first
one to tell you about Heller.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know,
the Supreme Court voted five to four in favor of Heller.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Well, we thought you would be excited.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Why would I be excited?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well,
because the Supreme Court identified the second amendment, the right to keep
and bear arms, as an individual right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So,
I didn&amp;rsquo;t know that before?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Do I need a
Supreme Court vote of five to four to let me know that I have a right to life?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Exactly, but why do you need government to
tell you anything then?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why not let that
be up to you and every example that&amp;rsquo;s come up to you, you have non-government
solution to it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So why not just be
non-government?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Alright.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Let me say this again.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would be
happy with anarchy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You want to get all
the government away and make it go away?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m fine.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m happy to
mutually&amp;ndash;but&amp;hellip;but that&amp;rsquo;s not going to happen, because most of you out there
don&amp;rsquo;t have the courage to pull the trigger and defend yourself.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You won&amp;rsquo;t kill somebody else who&amp;rsquo;s trying to
kill you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You want somebody to do the
job for you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You don&amp;rsquo;t want to take the
time to learn all that science, to learn all that math so that you can exercise
your responsibility to teach your children.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So you&amp;rsquo;re going to go&amp;ndash;and I mean I&amp;rsquo;m not the one that&amp;rsquo;s been sending my
kids to a government controlled schools for over fifty years.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Parents&amp;hellip;parents have the responsibility to
teach their children all the skills and values that child needs to be a
functioning adult.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Parents will send
their Johnny and Susie off to college, let the government and let the teachers
do the reading, writing, arithmetic.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now
a days&amp;ndash;I mean in 1953, Americans were number one in math and science.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We are now twenty-ninth in math and science.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So even the department of education was
constitutional, and it&amp;rsquo;s not, we should stop doing that because we&amp;rsquo;re going in
the wrong direction and so parents, the children are graduating from high
school, they are functionally illiterate, they can&amp;rsquo;t read the diploma that you
just handed them and mommy and daddy have the audacity to complain that well,
my child just hasn&amp;rsquo;t learned the values I wanted them to learn.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why the hell not?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Because you gave that responsibility away to
the government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So don&amp;rsquo;t blame me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m a skydiving instructor.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Who do you think packs my parachute?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I do.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But&amp;ndash;but it&amp;rsquo;s also&amp;hellip;it&amp;rsquo;s also a thing of
principle.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Just because&amp;hellip;the war in the
Middle East isn&amp;rsquo;t going to go away, do I have to support it just cause it&amp;rsquo;s not
going away?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, if it&amp;rsquo;s government, I&amp;rsquo;m
not going to support it regardless and I&amp;rsquo;m going&amp;hellip;I&amp;rsquo;m going to speak on that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Just not because, oh, it&amp;rsquo;s not going away so
I&amp;rsquo;m going to support why this should work.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;No.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If&amp;hellip;if&amp;hellip;if the war in the
Middle East isn&amp;rsquo;t going away, I&amp;rsquo;m not going to find a way to support it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m still going to be against it just like
government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s&amp;hellip;you can say it&amp;rsquo;s not
going to go away, but you can still speak out against it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I am&amp;hellip;I am trying to eliminate as much
government as possible.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t know,
you know, who else is running around talking about these things.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t know, you know, we have people here,
you know, disagreeing on whether or not anybody has any rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m pretty clear that I do and will
physically defend those rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, most people&amp;ndash;when I teach my class, you know, I ask why do we have any
government at all?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why not anarchy?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s just get rid of all&amp;hellip;and they all go
into seizure.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like&amp;hellip;oh my God.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We can&amp;rsquo;t do that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like why not?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Well, you know, and then they come up with all these reasons why they
don&amp;rsquo;t want it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, okay, if we have to
have government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why did the founding
fathers pick a constitutional republic?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Why not socialism?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why not
communism?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And basically, again, the
purpose of the government that they designed was to protect your life, your
liberty and your property.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, it&amp;rsquo;s
not doing that anymore.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, it&amp;rsquo;s not
the constitution&amp;rsquo;s fault.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know,
again, capitalism gets a bad name because we&amp;rsquo;ve got a really lousy economy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, we&amp;rsquo;ve got the really lousy economy
because we&amp;rsquo;re not using capitalism.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, the constitution is getting a bad rap, it&amp;rsquo;s like oh my God, look how
terrible.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We got all this, you know,
evil, corrupt government, well, it&amp;rsquo;s not the constitution&amp;rsquo;s fault.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Not the constitution&amp;rsquo;s job to protect you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s your job to protect the constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You know, you only have the rights
that you are willing to defend and, you know, most people are not willing to
take the responsibility.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, we
were talking about moral decisions before.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Well, you can only make a moral decision if you&amp;rsquo;re intelligent enough to
know what is moral and, you know, excuse me, but those of you that are watching
Dancing with Stars and Jerry Springer and, you know, American Idol and Lost and
all these other &amp;ldquo;reality&amp;rdquo; television programs, it&amp;rsquo;s like excuse me, you know,
like go to a museum, pick up a book.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, I just cannot&amp;hellip;I can&amp;rsquo;t feel a whole lot of sympathy for people that, you
know, I mean I had people order&amp;hellip;order copies of my book, copies of my DVD and I
look at this stuff, the order blank and everything is in lower case.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, it&amp;rsquo;s like you never learned
grammar?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You never learned how to
spell?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, no wonder you can&amp;rsquo;t
read the constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So we need to&amp;hellip;you
know, we need to remove the government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, there is no education system.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s
an indoctrination system in this country, you know, and we&amp;rsquo;ve got like a whole
lot of government to get rid of before we can talk about whether we can get rid
of all of it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;hellip;this question is for Michael.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This is obviously a debate on how much
government is necessary.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I&amp;rsquo;m going to
assume, even though I haven&amp;rsquo;t read your book, that you&amp;rsquo;re going to bring your
most powerful point to bear today.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now,
what I&amp;rsquo;ve heard is that&amp;hellip;and country to Stefan, that we need people because
people are not willing to&amp;hellip;are not comfortable defending themselves.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I will possibly bet that everyone here is
more than willing to defend their family violently with extreme force if they
have to right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Isn&amp;rsquo;t that&amp;ndash;no one here
would not defend their family right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Also&amp;hellip;I am quite happy with the fact that everyone here would be
uncomfortable using a gun.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That makes
anyone here who raises their hand and is happy killing somebody or is
comfortable; I don&amp;rsquo;t want them by me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So
I think that&amp;rsquo;s amazing that most people are not comfortable doing that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now&amp;hellip;with regards to, and the other point was
that we&amp;rsquo;re not&amp;ndash;that the vast majority of people are not intelligent enough&amp;hellip;or
not educated enough to&amp;hellip;to have an anarchistic society based on the free market,
but you are traveling the country trying to educate these stupid people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The thing is though, is that&amp;hellip;are you trying
to raise an army or are you trying to educate people to be happy?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Do you want people to stand up against the
government and die or do you want them to be happy in the here and now?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would love to have people happy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most people aren&amp;rsquo;t, you know, most people
don&amp;rsquo;t even know what they need or want in order to be happy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know&amp;hellip;having this free and open society is
an ideal and there are just people&amp;hellip;I mean&amp;hellip;I don&amp;rsquo;t know how to answer the
question without alienating certain groups.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I mean&amp;hellip;you need&amp;ndash;I mean if you go into the ghettos, I mean there are
people in the ghettos that they don&amp;rsquo;t have very much, you know, they&amp;rsquo;ve lived
four generations with this welfare state, they have come to believe the sincere
belief that, you know, we owe them a living.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;The government is obligated to&amp;hellip;to give them food and&amp;hellip;and, you know,
education and all that stuff.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, I
mean you can want my property all you want, but you know, you&amp;rsquo;re not going to
get it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Not if I can stop you and, you
know, I&amp;rsquo;m happy that people think that they would be willing to defend
themselves.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If somebody comes up and
starts choking you, I don&amp;rsquo;t think that anybody could just stand there and let
it happen.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;People will claim that
they&amp;rsquo;re like non-violent, but&amp;hellip;you know, self preservation is going to kick and
when you start gasping for air, you&amp;rsquo;re going to start at least squirming.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re going to make it difficult for
somebody to hold on to you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know,
maybe start scratching their eyes and just doing something to make the other
person go away.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It may be very, very
bold and make everybody feel good to say that, &amp;ldquo;Oh, sure, I would use deadly
force to protect myself.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, I was
out at Front Sight gun training.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;These
are the people who are, you know, just all Rambo, you know, these are the
people who I think are most likely to physically defend themselves and I&amp;rsquo;m
telling you, they won&amp;rsquo;t.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, when
it&amp;rsquo;s only a paper target, you know, they can be real macho and &amp;ldquo;Yeah, you know,
I scored all these head shots.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But, you
know, it&amp;rsquo;s really difficult to think that, you know, you&amp;rsquo;d have to take
somebody&amp;rsquo;s life and I think that it would disturb you for a long time.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Most people don&amp;rsquo;t like the reality the fact
that in our society, that maybe necessary.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I think the NRA reports that there are 2.5 million times a year that
somebody uses a gun to defend themselves or their children.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Fortunately, 90% of the time, they do that
without pulling the trigger.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know,
just merely displaying the gun makes the bad guy go away.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, I&amp;rsquo;m not going to get into a great big
long second amendment discussion, but&amp;hellip;you know, if you think that you would
defend yourself, oh, okay, I&amp;rsquo;m happy to let you think so, but it&amp;rsquo;s not as easy
as you might think.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;My
question&amp;ndash;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, no.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Sorry, I don&amp;rsquo;t know where you are all living, but you might want to move.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This is like, you know, choking and people
with guns.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The most aggression I ever
faced is politicians tell the media to say bad things about me.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s&amp;hellip;that&amp;rsquo;s all I face, but sorry.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You had a question in the back?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It
seems like&amp;hellip;we just woke up in this socialistic nightmare and we have twenty
years before the only way out is going to be a collapse and I was just curious
what your comments are on that idea.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
know Louis Von Nevis &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[phonetic] [03:18:41]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; said that, actually
mentioned it a lot, at the very end of his book on the book of socialism and I
was just wondering, I heard some of Stef&amp;rsquo;s podcast where he makes the comment
where, you know, you&amp;rsquo;re chains will magically dissolve and everything will go
forward.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s going to be dramatic, but
blah, blah, blah.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m sorry, but what did I say?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You changed the&amp;ndash;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Your chains&amp;ndash;your chains will dissolve.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You make this argument that philosophically
if you present these ideas to people they will understand them and then we&amp;rsquo;ll
no longer be tax slaves and it just doesn&amp;rsquo;t seem like it&amp;rsquo;s going to happen that
way.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It seems like&amp;hellip;it seems like in this
socialist nightmare that we&amp;rsquo;re a part of the only way out of this thing is to
let the system collapse and then move forward from there, and I guess what I am
asking is there anything you can do to&amp;hellip;prepare yourself.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Ron made an argument that the best defense is
to surround yourself with like minds, she also makes arguments that that&amp;rsquo;s even
more powerful than surrounding yourself with guns&amp;hellip;and I guess, I&amp;rsquo;m just sort of
opening up and asking&amp;hellip;you know, suppose the scenario happens, the only way out
of this collective socialist nightmare is a form of collapse.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Let the system collapse, is there anything
you guys are doing for yourselves personally beyond what you&amp;rsquo;re currently doing
trying to make people aware to go through this stage of what&amp;rsquo;s probably going
to be very dramatic?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, I mean the collapse is inevitable.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean anything which mathematically cannot
continue, will not continue.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean
that&amp;rsquo;s just the basic facts right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s no fuel in the plane, we don&amp;rsquo;t know when it&amp;rsquo;s going to hit the
ground, but it&amp;rsquo;s not going to stay up.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;this
is very, very crucial and critical time which is why&amp;hellip;I mean for my, you know,
like I can&amp;rsquo;t get that interested in another software release relative to I
think trying to do some real good in the world in these kinds of topics.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The collapse is going to happen and it&amp;rsquo;s too
late.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We hit the iceberg like two
generations ago.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The ship is going down,
but I think that what we really want to do is to get people to understand why
the collapse occurred.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We want to get
people to understand that the reason that the collapse is occurring is because
of violence, because of institutionalized, organized, status predatory
violence, ugly and evil coercion, because people are constantly told that
volunteerism is calling all our problems.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Greed of the bankers, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s
stupid.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The bankers were as greedy fifty
years ago as they are now.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why now?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like blaming a plane crash on gravity.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I think it&amp;rsquo;s really, really important to
keep hammering on people and I know this sounds like an ugly way of doing it,
but keep repeating to people as positively and emphatically as possible that
the problems in the world stem from violence, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Stem from the initiation of force and fraud
and so on, and that way when things go wrong and Iran is&amp;hellip;is&amp;hellip;is getting a remarkable&amp;ndash;well,
not that remarkable resurgence in her popularity, because &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[indiscernible] [00:21:24]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; predicted
all of this stuff with pretty eerie&amp;ndash;well, not eerie, stunning accuracy like
fifty plus years ago.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I think you
want to be right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, that&amp;rsquo;s
really, really important obviously and you want to make the reasonable
predictions.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You want to remind people
that the world is going downhill rapidly, because of increases in violence and
the violence occurs in many, many ways be it currency, income tax&amp;hellip;debt.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We all know it, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Keep telling people there&amp;rsquo;s a gun in the room.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s a gun in the room.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s a gun in the room.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Society is run on blood.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Society is run violence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;State-ism is forced.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There is a gun in the room cause if people
can&amp;rsquo;t see the gun in the room, then there&amp;rsquo;s people just falling over that don&amp;rsquo;t
know why.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh my God, it&amp;rsquo;s a microbe.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, they fainted, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s a gun in the room that&amp;rsquo;s being
pointed at the human race, at the human face and if we keep point it out and we
keep&amp;ndash;cause people are already accepted violence doesn&amp;rsquo;t solve problems because
they don&amp;rsquo;t go for a job interview and take the guy hostage to get the job.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;They already understand in their own
lives that violence will not solve their problems.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If we get them to understand that society
runs on this kind of violence and they understand&amp;ndash;they can make that
connection, well, it doesn&amp;rsquo;t work in my life, it&amp;rsquo;s not going to work in society
as a whole.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We get them to make that
connection then when things go bad, they&amp;rsquo;ll stop looking for the bankers and
they&amp;rsquo;ll stop looking for the capitalist and they&amp;rsquo;ll stop looking for the
multi-nationals and they&amp;rsquo;ll start to look at where the violence really is which
is the initiation of force represented by the state. &lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s the first place they&amp;rsquo;ll look.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s not the only problem in the world of
course, but when you look at societal collapse or societal problems, people
have got to start seeing and drawing the conclusions between the violence that
never works in their own lives and the violence that cannot work socially, but
until they see that violence and have it repeatedly, patiently and positively
pointed out to them there will be a great mystery and then bad people will say,
&amp;ldquo;Freedom has failed.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But freedom never
fails.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Violence fails and we keep
reminding people of that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Then when the
crash occurs, they&amp;rsquo;ll know why and we can start to build something better out
of what comes after.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I agree that the economy is going to fail,
the structure is going to collapse and it will always be replaced by something.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, I said a number of times that we are in
an ideological war and what I&amp;rsquo;m trying to do is I&amp;rsquo;m trying to win what we
replace, you know, after the collapse.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, I want people moving in the right direction.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I want them moving in&amp;hellip;in the direction of
protecting private property and they can&amp;rsquo;t do that if they think that the
government is the answer.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, the
government is not the answer, it&amp;rsquo;s the problem and so&amp;hellip;I&amp;rsquo;m doing my best to&amp;hellip;to
change the way that people think and to get them to, you know, acknowledge the
individual rights of everybody and take the personal responsibility that it&amp;rsquo;s
going to require to make it happen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Alright, my question is for Michael.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;As a former presidential candidate, obviously
you wanted the job.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So let&amp;rsquo;s just assume
that you won.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, let&amp;rsquo;s not assume that I won.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, if you did win.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What president&amp;ndash;what services would you want
the government to provide ideally in your utopian society? Would it be
none?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Would it be just defense?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Would it be roads?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What&amp;rsquo;s the base line?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Article 1 Section 8, you know, when people
were talking to me, it&amp;rsquo;s like well, you know, what was&amp;hellip;you know, assuming you
get elected, what&amp;rsquo;s the first thing that you would do?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, I would eliminate the Federal Reserve,
eliminate the IRS, you know, send executive orders to the IRS telling them to
come to work, make a pot of coffee, start dusting off your resume, because you
guys are going to be out there.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Send a letter&amp;ndash;an executive order to
the&amp;hellip;alcohol&amp;hellip;alcohol, tobacco and firearms, which really should be a convenient
store and not a government agency.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, and let them know that if they take a gun away from anybody that is not
at that moment committing murder or robbing a bank, that I will personally, you
know, see to it that they are prosecuted for violating somebody&amp;rsquo;s individual
rights and I gave&amp;hellip;I did an actual book signing at a book store.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It was kind of impressive and I answered all
these questions and, you know, one lady says, &amp;ldquo;You know, okay, so what are you
going to do like after the second two weeks?&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I said, &amp;ldquo;Well, play golf I guess.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like, &amp;ldquo;Well what do you mean?&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I said, &amp;ldquo;My job is to keep the government really small and after we get
this list of things, there&amp;rsquo;s not really going to be a whole lot for me to do
and I don&amp;rsquo;t know, probably go out and play golf.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, do photo ops.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You know, as president of the United
States I don&amp;rsquo;t have the authority to go around and send troops to anywhere I
want.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;and again, to address that
first statement, no I didn&amp;rsquo;t want the job.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;The only question that I resented as a candidate, was well, you&amp;rsquo;re not
going to win so who are you going to vote for?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like would you ask George Bush who he was going to vote for?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, I&amp;rsquo;m not doing this because I want
to be president.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m doing this because
I don&amp;rsquo;t want the democrats and republicans to be president.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t like their idea, you know, of that
job.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, I cannot vote for the
democrats and republics and respect myself in the morning.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So if you don&amp;rsquo;t like the way the other guy is
doing the job, you just got to do it yourself.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ve got time for about one more question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think I have&amp;hellip;I actually have to head back
to Texas and&amp;hellip;my ride is going to be leaving here very soon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Does anyone have a question specifically for
Mr. Badnarik?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay, great.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;ve made it very clear you&amp;rsquo;re a minimalist
and you don&amp;rsquo;t believe anarchy works realistically.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I guess my questions is that well, it goes
throughout history it seems that people progressed and we&amp;rsquo;ve gotten less like
totalitarian governments like&amp;hellip;we&amp;rsquo;ve had like kings and emperors and dictators
and it seems as we&amp;rsquo;ve considered life getting better, we&amp;rsquo;ve moved from absolute
monarchies to constitutional to democracies and republics.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We don&amp;rsquo;t have a constitutional democracy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can&amp;rsquo;t find the work democracy in the
Declaration, Constitution or the Bill of Rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We are a republic and there&amp;rsquo;s a significant
difference.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Alright, but&amp;hellip;it appears though as we&amp;rsquo;ve moved
to a&amp;hellip;like people have more say in their government, life&amp;rsquo;s gotten better so
what I&amp;rsquo;m saying is maybe it&amp;rsquo;s less government that&amp;rsquo;s made life better and made
it possible to advance.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So why not just
shed government entirely and just argue for that rather than just trying to
keep it minimal when it seems to be the problem?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Anarchy is just not possible because most
people don&amp;rsquo;t want it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;People&amp;hellip;my original
metaphor was alcohol meaning you can only distil alcohol so far and you always
get a little bit of water in it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, I think the standard of living goes down if you don&amp;rsquo;t have any government
at all.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think that there&amp;hellip;I mean it&amp;rsquo;s a
necessary evil.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, it&amp;hellip;in&amp;hellip;the
convention in Atlanta, I said that, you know, fire&amp;rsquo;s a dangerous servant and a
fearful master.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We need fire to survive.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We need it to warm the house.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You need it to cook your food, but anytime
the fire gets outside the fireplace, you know, it&amp;rsquo;s a bad fire cause it could
burn the house down, and I suggest that the founding fathers understood that a
little bit of government is necessary just to kind of, you know, keep everything,
you know, organized rather than doing the mafia thing and let the mafia decide,
you know, how to resolve the murder of your&amp;hellip;your loved one.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;you know, the founding fathers understood
that a little bit of government was necessary, but it&amp;rsquo;s got to be a place for
it and they wrote the constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Any government that is within the
constitution is a good government.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Any
government that&amp;rsquo;s outside the constitution, you know, is a bad government and
needs to be stomped down.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So again, I&amp;rsquo;m
trying to whittle the government down to the size of the constitution,
specifically Article 1 Section 8.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, once we get government, you know, actually controlled and the
Constitution, the piece of paper is not going to do it, you know, I love
Stefan&amp;rsquo;s metaphor.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, I hold up
that piece of paper like, you know, it&amp;rsquo;s only a piece of paper.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, it&amp;rsquo;s only a collection of ideas and
those ideas are only going to triumph if most of the people here share those
ideas, but unfortunately most people think that they can just vote for the
candidate that&amp;rsquo;s going to give them the most free benefits and when we operate
as a republic or as a democracy instead of a republic and, you know, people
don&amp;rsquo;t have the ideas.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They&amp;rsquo;re ready&amp;hellip;the
girl who&amp;rsquo;s mother needed prescription drugs, you know, she was happy to have me
become president and steal money from somebody else and, you know, give that
money to her for her mom&amp;rsquo;s drugs.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
know, people live in contradictions all the time.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, I&amp;rsquo;m trying to, you know, protect my
own life, liberty and property and in the process of doing that, you know, I&amp;rsquo;m
accidently fighting for your life, liberty, and property too.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, kind of a fringe benefit.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I can&amp;rsquo;t help it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay, could we have a round of applause please.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Michael Badnarik.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Michael Badnarik:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;hellip;I really want to thank everybody.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;hellip;I&amp;hellip;I&amp;hellip;I want to echo Stefan&amp;rsquo;s comments.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I love this kind of stuff.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I just eat it up.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I could sit here.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I tell my students that I can answer
questions about the constitution longer than they can ask and they almost beat
me to it last Saturday.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We stayed up
till about 1:30 in the morning talking about the constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;My website is constitutionpreservation.org.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;My email address is there if you would like
to send me a question about the constitution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s kind of like one of my favorite things to do out of my 200 email a
day.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Those are the ones I answer first.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So again, thank you for your interest and
actually being willing&amp;ndash;whether you agree with me or with Stefan, just being
here to listen to the debate.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thank you
for giving me hope for the future that anybody even cares.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;ll pick up one or two more if anybody&amp;hellip;you
know, you can stay or leave but we had one or two more questions that I will
attempt and then we&amp;rsquo;ll stop talking all about Michael.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Go ahead.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You can leave.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sorry&amp;hellip;and I&amp;rsquo;m
sorry.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ll try and imitate him if I
can.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ll sit over here.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Speaking about all of us being in this room
caring today, actually caring about what happens with our life&amp;hellip;what&amp;hellip;what are
things that we can do to combat apathy in so many people that we encounter
every day?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, what people most want&amp;ndash;and it&amp;rsquo;s an old
argument, goes way back to Greek philosophy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;What people really want is happiness.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I mean it&amp;rsquo;s the one thing that we&amp;hellip;we try to get for its own sake,
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like we get on a bus to go
somewhere, we&amp;rsquo;re buying a car to drive something, but happiness we don&amp;rsquo;t do for
something else.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We do it for itself.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The most motivating thing in the world is joy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s happiness.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s enthusiasm and that is infectious.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now, not everybody want to be happy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Some people look at a happy person and they
get all kind of&amp;hellip;you know, that bad Iran characters, you know, just they hate it
or whatever, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But for those people
who really do like being happy and feel inspired at joy, I believe that the
equation is something like this, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Reason equals virtue equals happiness.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Right, you have to think and you have to non-contradictory ideas.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You have to have rational ideas.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You have to put those into practice as best
you can and nobody&amp;rsquo;s perfect, but you have to do that and what comes out the
other end is happiness and the best way to get people I think interested in
philosophy is to live your values as rationally, as consistently, as joyfully
as possible and then people will see, dang, she&amp;rsquo;s happy, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And if you&amp;rsquo;re happy, people want to know like
if you live in a world of really overweight people and you&amp;rsquo;re relatively
slender, some people will go&amp;hellip;I hate those thin people, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But some people will go, I like some of that
and they&amp;rsquo;ll say how did she get&amp;ndash;like if you want sell people a diet, and so if
you want to get people interested in&amp;hellip;in reason and evidence and philosophy and
thinking, you have to live the values to the point where you&amp;rsquo;ve become really
happy yourself and then people will be interested in how you get there and I
think that&amp;rsquo;s how cause you know people don&amp;rsquo;t like the Fed, and we&amp;rsquo;ll get rid of
the Fed and we&amp;rsquo;ll, you know, if you have currency and that&amp;rsquo;s stuff very
interesting.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s fascinating, right,
but it&amp;rsquo;s not what people get up in the morning really wanting to do is to study
the Fed or get up and read a book by Thomas Woods or Ron Paul or whatever.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Great though they are and interesting though
they are, what they want is to be happy, to be connected, to be in love, to be
enthusiastic, to be joyful about their lives.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;The more you live your rational values, the happier you will become and
then for those people who want to be happy, who still have that spark of
enthusiasm to want to go out and get that joy in life, they&amp;rsquo;ll want to know how
you did it and you&amp;rsquo;ll say, &amp;ldquo;Stef told me.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;No, you&amp;rsquo;ll say&amp;hellip;you&amp;rsquo;ll say, &amp;ldquo;I&amp;hellip;I&amp;rsquo;ve been thinking.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ve been really thinking and reading and
I&amp;rsquo;ve lived my values and these are the values that I live and I consistently
apply them and that results in happiness.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And that&amp;rsquo;s I think the best thing we can do is be happy and enthusiastic
to show people empirically what the results of rational and happy values are
and those who want to become happy will really want to do that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I know that&amp;rsquo;s a real hippy-dippy answer in a
way, but does that make any sense at all?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member: &lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;Yeah, it makes a lot of sense actually.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And we can control that.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&amp;hellip;advertisement.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, you know, I can&amp;rsquo;t&amp;hellip;I can&amp;rsquo;t control
whether there&amp;rsquo;s a Fed or not, but I can control whether I live my own values consistently
and if I&amp;rsquo;m not happy, I should look back and say, &amp;ldquo;Okay, well, what did I do
that&amp;hellip;what part of my wife&amp;rsquo;s commandments did I disobey that I&amp;rsquo;ve ended up not
happy?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why am I cold?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I didn&amp;rsquo;t take a jacket when she tells me
to.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right, but you want to be happy and
enthused&amp;ndash;not fake, you know?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know,
like some of those damn Christian pictures with the family that looks like&amp;hellip;you
know, but genuinely happy and people will really become interested and then if
you talk about things like the Fed or the economy, Austrian stuff, this, that
and the other, people will say, &amp;ldquo;Well, she&amp;rsquo;s happy and that&amp;rsquo;s good.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So other things she say have
credibility.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But a lot of libertarians
are like&amp;hellip;they&amp;rsquo;re like golem.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;you know,
they are like&amp;hellip;you know, evil, evil and so people are like, &amp;ldquo;Well, they might be
right, but&amp;hellip;but I don&amp;rsquo;t want to be that.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Right, so&amp;hellip;so&amp;hellip;so I think you want to try and be a person that people
have&amp;hellip;you have something of real value to offer called happiness and&amp;hellip;and&amp;hellip;and
then they will be interested in how you got there and that&amp;rsquo;s I think the best
way to&amp;hellip;to&amp;hellip;I certainly am doing a lot better since I really began to live my
values which took entirely too long.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Then
before where I was right, but only in a really abstract way.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You want to really personify I think rational
happiness and then people will want to get there, because you can control that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can&amp;rsquo;t control the Fed, right?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, that makes me so happy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now, I&amp;rsquo;m more right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You haven&amp;rsquo;t had your question yet.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That was the other guy right?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Hi, Stef.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I had a question for you I think&amp;hellip;I had a question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think somebody asked you about the American
Experiment.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You said it was a great
stride philosophically for the founders to set up this republic or democracy or
whatever.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I know someone else also
mentioned Han Copy &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[phonetic] [03:37:38]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; he also has another book
called Democracy, The God that Failed.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
don&amp;rsquo;t know if you read it or not.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;His
basically&amp;ndash;he points out that most people regard democracy as a procession up
the ladder of civilization like a good thing, whereas you would argue that
monarchy had meaning redeeming qualities over democracy such as&amp;hellip;like in
democracy there is every war is total war.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;People say we&amp;rsquo;re invading Iraq.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;re
not. &lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;People are calling themselves &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[indiscernible]
[03:38:06]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Monarchy doesn&amp;rsquo;t
have a case.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;People would like go up to
the castles walls and watch the people battling and have popcorn and things
like that and&amp;hellip;I was just wondering&amp;hellip;what you thought about this.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The idea that a monarchy is they own the
country right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So democracy nobody owns
anything and everybody can prey on everyone now, but in a monarchy, the
aristocratic families, they actually own the peasants, they own the land and so
they have an investment in continuing that value which in democracy that you
just don&amp;rsquo;t have and&amp;hellip;and the other point, which in case you didn&amp;rsquo;t hear is that
in a democracy, the war is total war, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;In the aristocracy it was like a couple hundred inbred idiots whacking
each other with swords while everybody sat around and watched.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;War&amp;hellip;wars were you&amp;rsquo;d never have more than a
couple of thousand people, but it was the democracies that started the ten
million plus genocide of the first world war and the forty million plus of the
second world war.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I mean I think
those are great arguments.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The problem
that I have with that, and I&amp;rsquo;m not claiming to be any expert on&amp;hellip;on&amp;hellip;his
argument, but the problem I have with that is that it certainly is true
that&amp;hellip;war has become total, but I would argue it&amp;rsquo;s more a function of technology
than democracy versus aristocracy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
mean if you had bombs and planes and machines guns and this, that and the other
in the 15th century, they would have just borrowed and done that and killed
more people that way.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think the other
problem that that argument ahs is that when the aristocracy did not&amp;hellip;almost
inevitably did not raise the wealth of the average serf.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean you look from, you know, the fall of
Rome, sort of 400-500 AD till&amp;hellip;you know, 1400 AD, you know, you got&amp;ndash;that&amp;rsquo;s all
aristocracy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No democracies in Europe at
all there, and living standard are, you know, a complete catastrophe that whole
time period.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;When you do start to get
some of the liberalization of the economy which went to some degree hand in
hand with democracy, what happened was you started to see a rise in living
standards, because the serfs are affixed to the land like a tree, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Whereas workers can move around and there&amp;rsquo;s
some competition for them.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So living standards
under a democracy generally tend to go up and&amp;hellip;living standards under a monarchy
tend to be flat, if not declining.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So is
it the additional wealth of democracy that makes it possible to wage more total
war?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So is it the technology that comes
out of the free market that comes from a democracy?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think that&amp;rsquo;s arguable, but I don&amp;rsquo;t
think&amp;ndash;obviously, he&amp;rsquo;s not saying that monarchy is the solution.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;He&amp;rsquo;s saying that there is a kind of private
ownership, but I don&amp;rsquo;t it translates to any benefits for those in the middle or
the bottom which in democracy it tends to if that makes any sense.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think that just might be a function of
there happens not to be any free markets under anarchy&amp;ndash;not anarchy, but
monarchy sorry, but&amp;hellip;if there were free markets under monarchy, I could&amp;ndash;I mean I
think Hop would argue that we would be better off cause kings also have less
incentives to tax, cause they don&amp;rsquo;t want to have rebellion cause it&amp;rsquo;s really
easy to just kill a king, you know, and set a new one.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right, I mean if someone wanted to kill Obama
they wouldn&amp;rsquo;t accomplish anything, because then Biden would just move right in
and he doesn&amp;rsquo;t, you know, but&amp;hellip;I also wanted to add&amp;ndash;sorry, I also wanted to add
that&amp;hellip;even if they did have, you know, like&amp;hellip;air jets and things like that and
weapons of mass destruction, the kings had more of an incentive not to involve
the populous, because the populous did according to Hop anyway, you know, they
viewed the king as more something they had to tolerate and not some, you know,
the king had his own business.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;He took
care of his own affairs and things like that and they just kind of paid their
due or whatever.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean so I&amp;rsquo;m not sure
what you have to say about that.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;One of the beautiful things about being an anarchistic
is you can&amp;rsquo;t answer questions like how should things be funded, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;With all due respect to Michael, it was not a
clear answer right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, it is forced,
but you don&amp;rsquo;t actually have to pay them because I&amp;rsquo;ll cover the guy who can&amp;rsquo;t
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So you don&amp;rsquo;t end up in that kind
of muddy stuff.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The other thing you
don&amp;rsquo;t have to do as an anarchist, is you don&amp;rsquo;t have to say which of these
lesser of two evils would you prefer, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Democracy or monarchy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Which is
better?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s like, well, they both suck.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They may suck in different ways to different
degrees, but as an anarchist, you just have to say I don&amp;rsquo;t want to be shot
either kneecap, thank you very much.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If
you make me chose, I guess I&amp;rsquo;ll chose one or the other based on whatever
criteria I prefer.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, do I want
to live the life of a drudge, you know, like the Monty Python guy?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, he must be a king, he hasn&amp;rsquo;t got
shit all over him, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You want to
live the life of that drudgy slave but have a less of a chance of being killed
in a war or do you maybe want to have a chance for a better life with an
increased income, with a greater chance of being killed in a world war?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Those are like&amp;hellip;I&amp;rsquo;d love to have a society
where neither of those choices exist and that really is the state of society in
my opinion.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I think they are
interesting questions, but you know, to me that&amp;rsquo;s like which shit pile do you
want to wallow in?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I say let&amp;rsquo;s go
forward where we don&amp;rsquo;t have them and not worry about which one was better or
worse under which circumstances, but I think they are very interesting
theoretical arguments for sure.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yes, hello, check, okay.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Hi.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;My
question has to do with for lack of a better term, international relations and
how&amp;hellip;an anarchist territory can&amp;rsquo;t be the world initially, it has to be part of
some land mass and that there&amp;rsquo;s going to be disagreeing peoples at some kind of
a porous border that disagree and they&amp;rsquo;re going to&amp;hellip;like let&amp;rsquo;s just say it was
the territory of America&amp;hellip;that there would be some point where people said, &amp;ldquo;Oh,
I&amp;rsquo;d rather be part of the nation of Canada or I&amp;rsquo;d rather be part of the nation
of Mexico.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;For whatever reason&amp;ndash;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sorry, in which country is anarchist in this?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;America.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;America is anarchistic.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay, no, that&amp;rsquo;s fine.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ll come there.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ll come here if that&amp;rsquo;s the case.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;my question is&amp;hellip;also in relation to that
like how the United Nations or other countries will sometimes they say don&amp;rsquo;t
legitimately recognize a nation like if they have a new government and they
say, &amp;ldquo;Oh, we don&amp;rsquo;t recognize that nation.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;We aren&amp;rsquo;t trading with them.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;What I was wondering is, obviously there isn&amp;rsquo;t a government so if people
were trying to trade internationally, they would be trading with private
companies or individuals in that there wouldn&amp;rsquo;t be any governments trading&amp;ndash;or
would governments outside this territory trade with individuals or&amp;ndash;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, remember governments&amp;ndash;sorry, governments
don&amp;rsquo;t trade with anyone just to be precise, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s companies that trade with other
companies and so&amp;ndash;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, so would that dynamic and stuff
like&amp;hellip;how would an anarchist country&amp;hellip;deal with like if governments that passed
laws that said private companies can&amp;rsquo;t do business with an anarchist nation or
like all these kind of questions.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m
new to this stuff so I have explored it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, no, that&amp;rsquo;s a great question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s an old economic argument maybe you&amp;rsquo;ve
heard of, maybe you haven&amp;rsquo;t which is to say America and Japan, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s a question of do we, you know, you
always see trade wars&amp;ndash;tariff wars right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So you&amp;rsquo;re Japan and I&amp;rsquo;m America and you say, &amp;ldquo;You can&amp;rsquo;t import
wheat.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I can&amp;rsquo;t export wheat to Japan
and then I say, &amp;ldquo;Well, you can&amp;rsquo;t export rice to America.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right, and we get into this escalating war.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s completely ridiculous right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And I&amp;rsquo;ll give you an example.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s say, I as America, come up with a cure
for cancer and you as Japan come up with a cure for AIDS, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And you say, &amp;ldquo;America you can&amp;rsquo;t sell your
cure for cancer in Japan.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And then
would it be rational for me to say, &amp;ldquo;It&amp;rsquo;s better for my population who already
have this access to this cure for cancer, if I block you from selling your cure
for AIDs to my population.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;It would not be adventitious
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So the fact that one country is
imposing trade barriers on another country in no way, shape or form implies
that that country should then retaliate.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;It just means that unfortunately, the people who want to sell wheat to
you are kind of out, they have to sell it somewhere else or switch crops or
something and so if a foreign government says you can&amp;rsquo;t export your stuff&amp;ndash;no
government is going to say reasonably&amp;ndash;they&amp;rsquo;re going to say to their own
citizens, you can&amp;rsquo;t sell to the anarchy country, because how would they know in
a way right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean there&amp;rsquo;s no border
that we would take care of as an anarchy country and so&amp;hellip;you would lose out to
some degree not being able to trade into a status society, but you would still
be way better off letting the status society trade with you and just trade
internally for the things that you weren&amp;rsquo;t allowed to export.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It would still be vastly beneficial to the
anarchy society, but not reliant on the foreign government to allow us to trade
outside.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean we still get the
advantage of them trading with us.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If
that makes any sense.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The last question
maybe or are we completely&amp;hellip;did we completely run dry?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, does the camera person have a
question?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Why is your forehead so shiny?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I just have a&amp;hellip;a general question I guess.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In your definition, what is an anarchist?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;A bad person, right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Evil.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Again,
I get the reptile head right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well, an
anarchist, obviously there&amp;rsquo;s many, many different definitions of it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s why I sort of said the
anarchocapitalist variety.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
certainly&amp;ndash;and I think the basic requirements of an anarchist is to recognize
the legitimatacy of the state and I think that most anarchists would not
recognize the&amp;hellip;the political or moral legitimaticy of the state.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Anarchists certainly do&amp;hellip;respect authority.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;As Buchan said and somebody has this on my
forum, he said, &amp;ldquo;What does it mean to say I reject all authority when it comes
to dealing with a shoemaker?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I respect
his authority with regard to the shoes.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So it&amp;rsquo;s not a rejection of authority, it is a rejection of the moral
authority of organizational violence.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now,
there&amp;rsquo;s a lot of complicated nonsense about anarchy like people say, &amp;ldquo;Well, we
shouldn&amp;rsquo;t have property, and you know, we&amp;rsquo;re an anarchosocialist and so
on.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t like any of that stuff
fundamentally, because it seems to me that if you want to be an
anarchosocialist, an anarchocapitalist is your best friend, because you don&amp;rsquo;t
have to exercise property rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s
optional, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If somebody steals my
car, I don&amp;rsquo;t even have to report it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I
can just say, &amp;ldquo;Hey, it went to the collective good and who ever needs it can
use it and fantastic.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;In a free
society, if you want to set up some hippy-dippy, flesh pit, bong smoking
whatever house of infinite carnal knowledge, you can do all of that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can all get together and have group hugs
and spread whatever bacteria you want back and forth, but you can have that
collective ownership.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You cannot
exercise property rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can collectively
work the land.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can, you know, raise
naked children, whatever you want, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And there&amp;rsquo;s no way that free society, I mean maybe you should get
involved with the protection of children maybe, but it is not going to say you
have to exercise your property rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;An
anarchosocialist society to me could only exist if it specifically opposes the
exercise of property rights.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now, what
agency is going to propose&amp;ndash;is going to oppose the exercise of property
rights?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It would have to be an agency
that has some sort of compulsion, right, i.e.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I want to keep this, no, you can&amp;rsquo;t, because you&amp;rsquo;re not allowed to keep
anything, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And so you simply have
a big contradiction there, right, because you have to have&amp;ndash;you&amp;rsquo;re suppose to
have no authority, but in order to enforce nobody exercising property rights,
you have to have some authority.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So I think that whole system just
doesn&amp;rsquo;t work at all.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think one of the
reasons why anarchosocialists don&amp;rsquo;t like anarchocapitalism is that they know in
a free society, very few people are going to end up in their hippy-dippy, you
know, commune farm nonsense right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Cause
people are going to go like, &amp;ldquo;Man, I got to get something done with my life.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I got to go do something and be in society
and maybe gather together some capital and air conditioning is nice and I like
my food irradiated perhaps.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I like
fluoride, I like to be able to visit a dentist.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like all those kinds of things right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like the second generation Amish, you know,
it thins out a little bit and I think they know that if they&amp;rsquo;re in a free
society and they have to in a sense compete with a private property society,
that they&amp;rsquo;re just not going to be able to sustain themselves and that&amp;rsquo;s why I
think they want to create this&amp;hellip;you know, the whole country is a hippy commune
or whatever, and I&amp;rsquo;m being a little disrespectful to the views, but I think
that&amp;rsquo;s the major differences.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You have
to reject the institutional authority of violence and after that, I would say
you have to logically sustain property rights, but not everyone agrees.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Alright.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;We can do two more.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Moderator:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Two
more, okay, two more questions.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Coming
all the way over here.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, we said two.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can&amp;rsquo;t see behind can you?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, no, sorry.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;re going to take this lady&amp;rsquo;s.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Just teasing you, go, okay, no go.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sorry, go ahead.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, no, not you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Look it&amp;rsquo;s chaos, it&amp;rsquo;s anarchy right now.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Just curious, in an anarchist society, how
would you think to deal with child abuse?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I mean a child obviously can&amp;rsquo;t go to an independent agency and say my,
you know, my rights are being taken away from me by my parents.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;No, I mean that&amp;rsquo;s&amp;ndash;I think that really is and we always wait to the end
to be essential questions, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Because you cannot have a peaceful and free society where a significant
proportion of children are mistreated and unfortunately, a significant
proportion of children are mistreated even in the current society and we have
one of the more enlightened societies with regards to the protection of
children.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So you simply can&amp;rsquo;t have a
free society if a lot of people are coming in are hyper aggressive, damaged,
unable to concentrate and so on from difficult households.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think that&amp;hellip;parents are going to want to
have legal protections for their children&amp;rsquo;s actions.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think that&amp;rsquo;s going to be pretty basic
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Cause if your child goes and I
don&amp;rsquo;t know, throws a rock through someone&amp;rsquo;s window, you&amp;rsquo;re going to want to
have some kind of protection.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re
also going to need to have medical&amp;hellip;insurance or some kind of medical protection
for your child.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If you send your child
to school, which most people will in a free society cause school&amp;ndash;I mean
homeschooling is a desperate measure based on how bad the schools are,
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But in a free society, schools
will be incredibly well tuned towards the maximum capacity of teaching children.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So if you want to go to school, you&amp;rsquo;re going
to need to have some sort of immuno protection for your child, immunizations,
whatever it is it&amp;rsquo;s going to be.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So
children won&amp;rsquo;t make the contracts themselves, but children cannot
escape&amp;ndash;parents can&amp;rsquo;t escape the necessity of having their children in some kind
of social net of&amp;hellip;of&amp;hellip;of contracts and obligations.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Now, DROs are going to want to
minimize as much as possible, how expensive it&amp;rsquo;s going to be to insure
children, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like everyone
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like if you&amp;rsquo;re a nonsmoker, you
get better rates from the insurance company and so DROs are going to say,
&amp;ldquo;Look, if you want to save as much as humanly possible on your child&amp;rsquo;s
insurance which you&amp;rsquo;re going to need to have your children function in society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We&amp;rsquo;ve done all the research, we&amp;rsquo;ve compared
all the possible parenting methods, you know, pay us $200 for a parenting class
or $2000 for a parenting class and you will save, you know, $300 a month on
your child&amp;rsquo;s insurance, because we know that people who parent this, this,
this, and this way and we&amp;rsquo;ve got the evidence and it&amp;rsquo;s empirical and it&amp;rsquo;s
scientific and it&amp;rsquo;s proven, that this is the best way to parent children so
that they&amp;rsquo;re peaceful, they&amp;rsquo;re nonviolent, they&amp;rsquo;re not, you know, poking other
kids with sticks and so on and they&amp;rsquo;re less stressful, they&amp;rsquo;re less likely to
get sick and so on.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;And so you have agency which is the
state which has nothing but status, especially no interest in protecting the
rights of children other than of course some dedicated individuals like the
super heroes of the child service agency, but with DROs who want to&amp;hellip;to&amp;hellip;to make
it as cheap as humanly possible to insure the health and safety of children,
they&amp;rsquo;re going to do the research to figure out what kind of parenting best
keeps children peaceful and best allows them to accelerate their education,
gives them the best social schools, produces the fewest bullies and so on, and
so they will offer huge incentives for parents to get involved in the styles of
parenting that are most effective and they may be different for different
cultures and different for different types of children and so on, but there
will be very, very strong efforts minimize the cost&amp;ndash;the destructive cost
children have in society, because of course children who go wrong, I mean not
only are very expensive when they&amp;rsquo;re young, but I mean the social cost is huge.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Now, at the moment it&amp;rsquo;s borne by tax payers
who can&amp;rsquo;t do anything about it, but you can also say as a DRO, you know, when
your kid turns eighteen, if you followed this particular plan, we will also
insure them at half price and so it&amp;rsquo;s a huge net savings.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Is it going to be perfect?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Of course not, there&amp;rsquo;s going to be people
living the woods who beat their kids and that&amp;rsquo;s terrible, but you know, we&amp;rsquo;re
trying to put a system in place where things can be as productive and positive
as possible and I think&amp;ndash;that&amp;rsquo;s a real rough sketch.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s more about that in the book, but does
that make any sense about how I think it could be more proactively handled?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Yeah, but are you saying then that you would
force people to get insurance for their children?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, no, no.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s not forcing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s not forced, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like so for instance, I mean I know there&amp;rsquo;s
debate about immunizations, but we got Isabella immunized and we want to send
her to a private school because public schools suck and I&amp;rsquo;m not going to try to
reinvent educating children.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;At least&amp;ndash;I
mean some people do and I just don&amp;rsquo;t think it&amp;rsquo;s right for me, and they have
said, &amp;ldquo;You know, we want her immunization records in order to attend&amp;ndash;when she
comes to attend the school.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They&amp;rsquo;re not
forcing me to get her immunized, but if I want to send her there, then I have
to get her immunized and they have every right to request that, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So, nobody&amp;rsquo;s forcing parents to do anything,
right, but what they are saying is that if you want us to extend protection to
your child for damage, for health care, for whatever, then you need to&amp;ndash;then you
can pay full price and you don&amp;rsquo;t have to take any parenting courses, right, but
if you want to save half price or 75% then&amp;hellip;take these parenting courses and it
will be a good investment for you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s
like, you know, go for your driver&amp;rsquo;s license, if you&amp;rsquo;ve taken particular
courses, you can get reductions on your insurance and if you haven&amp;rsquo;t pay full
price.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So it&amp;rsquo;s not forcing anyone.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s just valences of incentives if that
makes sense.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I think there was&amp;hellip;there was
a gentleman at the back and then maybe&amp;ndash;he seemed quite eager.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That was a great question though by the way.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m sorry.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Very important.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I have a&amp;hellip;one big question to ask.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t quite understand how you would be
able to maintain anarchy, because I kind of really think that you&amp;rsquo;d always have
your&amp;hellip;your getting back to Michael Corelone &lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color:red;"&gt;[phonetic] [03:56:40]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; idea that there will be
groups that will pop up and they will try to control other groups of people
violently and these groups can spread, they can get funding from other
countries&amp;hellip;they could take on&amp;ndash;they can get&amp;hellip;they can be self sufficient, have
their own corporations and just expand and be a government that, you know, that
minimalistic government that, you know, Michael was talking about.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Well&amp;hellip;sorry, were you here?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Cause this question came up once before.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Was it that my answer sucked for you or you
weren&amp;rsquo;t here?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean either one is fine,
I&amp;rsquo;m just wondering which one it was.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Audience Member:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I may have missed it&amp;hellip;but I may have not
understood, you know, your answer.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There
was a question about, you know, what constitutes a government and I&amp;ndash;maybe I
didn&amp;rsquo;t quite get a clear answer to that&amp;hellip;but I do&amp;ndash;I totally can see how a group
of people can come in and start a gang&amp;ndash;a gang or just like how&amp;rsquo;s the
government&amp;rsquo;s a gang itself.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;They would
start their&amp;hellip;their own gang and try to control people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, right now we have gangs because of,
you know, drugs are illegal, but&amp;hellip;but if drugs weren&amp;rsquo;t illegal, there would be
no gangs, but there would still also be the&amp;hellip;the trafficking of people in one
way or the other making them work as serfs if you will.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;How do you prevent, you know, this from
happening.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re talking about these&amp;hellip;these
organizations, these insurance companies if you will&amp;hellip;kind of&amp;hellip;making you work in
society in a particular way that&amp;rsquo;s constructive to everybody, but I also think
that&amp;hellip;at some point, if I do something bad and I get turned away from all these
insurance companies, there&amp;rsquo;s always going to be another insurance company.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You know, I don&amp;rsquo;t care what you did in the
past, you know, come on in, you know, you can order food here.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sure, now let me just take that last scenario.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I did answer the first one earlier.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You can look at the book and again you may
not agree with everything I&amp;rsquo;m saying.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m
sure you won&amp;rsquo;t, right, cause you&amp;rsquo;re a thinking person and I&amp;rsquo;m certainly not
going to say I&amp;rsquo;ve got everything right, but let me just deal with that last point
and then if you&amp;rsquo;re not satisfied with what&amp;rsquo;s in Practical Anarchy just give me
a shout or, you know, come by the Sunday show and we&amp;rsquo;ll talk more.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So the issue and it&amp;rsquo;s a great, great, great
point that you raise.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The issue is some
guy gets kicked out of a DRO because he&amp;rsquo;s a total jerk or something,
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;He&amp;rsquo;s just a nasty guy that
doesn&amp;rsquo;t keep his contract and so there&amp;rsquo;s going to be some other lower tier, you
know, trailer park DRO who&amp;rsquo;s going to come forth and say, &amp;ldquo;It doesn&amp;rsquo;t matter
what you&amp;rsquo;ve done, right, I mean I&amp;rsquo;ll insure you no problem.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And there will be that aspect of things for
sure, but remember DROs are only valuable to the degree with which other DROs
will work with the, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I can
print my own currency nobody cares right, because no&amp;hellip;no store will accept it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right, I could come up with a credit card
that one model railroad store in Nunivak accepts and nobody&amp;rsquo;s going to&amp;hellip;cause
it&amp;rsquo;s only useful in one store, you might as well use cash, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;so&amp;hellip;so it&amp;rsquo;s the interoperability of a
cooperation of the DROs that makes it&amp;hellip;that makes them valuable and so if I have
some low rent DRO that sidles up to criminals and says, &amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;ll represent you,&amp;rdquo;
no other DRO was going to want to business with me, why?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Cause there&amp;rsquo;s no point having the punishment
called ostracism if you then cooperate with the DROs who pick the ostracized
people.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Then it&amp;rsquo;s not punishment at all
and I would not be able to sell that to my customers saying, &amp;ldquo;Don&amp;rsquo;t worry
ostracize people who&amp;hellip;who don&amp;rsquo;t&amp;hellip;fulfill their contracts and then now do
it.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;People would just stop using me as
a DRO and I would go out of business.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So
I have to have some standards of behavior and interoperability and all DROs
would have the same incentive and so if you have some DRO that will pick up
criminals or whatever and try to insure them, the problem is no other DROs will
deal with them and so they&amp;rsquo;re kind of useful and they would just have to be
enormously expensive, because no other DROs&amp;ndash;so they would have to duplicate
everything that all the other DROs were doing.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So I don&amp;rsquo;t see how that could practically work just because you have to
have that interoperability for DROs to work.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I have to be able to take my DRO money from&amp;hellip;Philadelphia and go to
Scranton or to Columbus or whatever and use it there too.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If those DROs don&amp;rsquo;t recognize that DRO, it&amp;rsquo;s
not really worth anything to me, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;So there has to be this interoperability for them to be a value at all
and those criminals who&amp;hellip;who&amp;hellip;who are ostracized, the DROs who pick them up will
themselves be ostracized and therefore won&amp;rsquo;t have any value to the people that
they&amp;rsquo;re representing.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Does that make any
sense?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It is a good answer.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;One, yay!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I did my personal best today.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;One good answer, beautiful.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I should stop now.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, wait you had one more.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Here, I&amp;rsquo;ll just give you the mic.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Speaker 1:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thank you&amp;hellip;personally, I&amp;rsquo;d like to say your
patience for our questions or sometimes not questions is awesome.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So as an anarchist trying to live my
principles&amp;hellip;sometimes I find it overwhelm&amp;hellip;I feel overwhelmed by the fact I&amp;rsquo;m
living in a world that&amp;rsquo;s so embedded with bedizen and our economic and social
realms and here&amp;hellip;just turned college grad and trying to move out of the house
and&amp;hellip;having a trouble getting a job, the only job I could get was a for a
company that has lots of government contracts and I mean I&amp;rsquo;m trying to switch
so an environment that&amp;rsquo;s better suited for me, et cetera, et cetera.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sometimes I feel a little guilty about this
company that I work for.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;What advice do
you offer for&amp;hellip;how you draw the line or for what you find acceptable or what you
resist?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thank you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Speaker 1:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s good.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;An easy question at the end.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s
great.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Young anarchist.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Oh, you&amp;rsquo;re so screwed.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Wait until you can get a podcast and then
come out as an anarchist.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, I&amp;rsquo;m
kidding.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, that&amp;rsquo;s a great question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So the question is you graduated from school,
look I took government contracts when I was an entrepreneur and I was already a
staunch objectivitist and anarchist and this and that.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;you did not create the world that you live
it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right, obviously if you&amp;rsquo;d had the
choice, you would not had the status creditations infesting and infecting the
society that you live in.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You have to
make your way in the world as it is, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;We can&amp;rsquo;t live in the future, we can&amp;rsquo;t crawl into the books of an
anarchic blueprint and live there.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Fun
though as it would be to try.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Right, so you have inherited the
world from people who unfortunately just have not done the work necessary to
clarify and work to eliminate the violence that is inherent in the society that
we live in.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s not your fault.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Obviously, right, it&amp;rsquo;s not your fault that
you have inherited this society where you can&amp;rsquo;t be a purist right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I can&amp;rsquo;t&amp;ndash;I mean people come to me and they say
you&amp;rsquo;re so&amp;hellip;and you against the government and you have a podcast.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, you partnered with the Department of
Defense in &amp;rsquo;60s.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Yeah, okay, so what?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m suppose to just like not breathe air
because&amp;hellip;you know, the government defined the standards for air conditioning or
something?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m not going to be that kind
of purist, because that is to take on the sins of the whole world and say, &amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;m
completely responsible for them and I can&amp;rsquo;t breathe and I can&amp;rsquo;t live and I
can&amp;rsquo;t eat food, because government farmers&amp;ndash;or because farmers get government
subsidies and I can&amp;rsquo;t drive on the road because the government has produced the
road and the busses and stuff.&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like you
can&amp;rsquo;t&amp;ndash;you couldn&amp;rsquo;t do anything.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Anything
in life and that to me&amp;hellip;that can&amp;rsquo;t be right.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You know, like I&amp;rsquo;m not sure exactly
all the reasonings why, but just standing there not consuming oxygen until you
die can&amp;rsquo;t be the only way to live morally in society.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s self destruct&amp;ndash;and what kind of world
would that leave to people if we don&amp;rsquo;t have enough to eat and we don&amp;rsquo;t have a
way of getting access to the internet or buying books, of learning, of reaching
out to other people, of&amp;hellip;of washing, you know?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m an anarchist, you know, I haven&amp;rsquo;t bathed in four months because the
government supplies the water.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s
like&amp;hellip;you could be right, but I don&amp;rsquo;t want to find out right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, you got to shave, you got to, you know,
whatever right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean you&amp;rsquo;ve got to
live in&amp;hellip;in&amp;hellip;in the society that you find yourself in.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like a, you know, if we&amp;rsquo;re born doctors and
it&amp;rsquo;s a time of plaque, we just do what we can.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I mean, yeah, we risk&amp;ndash;we take risks and&amp;hellip;and&amp;hellip;and so on.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;I would say very much this is what I
found with my professional life, I made lots of mistakes this way and hopefully
a few of my scars will give you some useful tips.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I would not&amp;hellip;I would not bring&amp;hellip;political,
voluntary anarchism into my conversations about government contracts at work.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s just&amp;hellip;you can do it, right, but&amp;hellip;you
know&amp;hellip;it&amp;rsquo;s going to be really, really tough and I think that that&amp;rsquo;s not
productive.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like I think you need to
eat, you need to educate yourself, you need to live a happy life within the
confines of the society that you live in.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;I think that you need to dedicate
yourself not to the sort of fruitless opposition of abstract thing that you
can&amp;rsquo;t control, but really focusing on living as many of your values as possible
within your own sphere of influence, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Within your own personal relationships.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Professional relationships, you&amp;rsquo;re not paid to be an anarchist at work,
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You are paid to be&amp;hellip;alright, so
you do help desk at work, fantastic.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So
they&amp;rsquo;re paying you for help desk.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Anarchy
not translated to help desk.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So&amp;hellip;it&amp;rsquo;s not
like now that I&amp;rsquo;ve solved your software problem, let me tell you about the
society that you live in&amp;ndash;there&amp;rsquo;s another guy in the room.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Like&amp;hellip;but they&amp;rsquo;re paying you&amp;ndash;that was my first
podcast, I never published it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;But they&amp;rsquo;re paying you for your help
desk right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So you provide the help desk
service and they&amp;rsquo;re not paying you for anarchism.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If you can find a job per tell that&amp;rsquo;s
advertising about anarchism, fantastic, go to town.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s a hard road, but it&amp;rsquo;s well worth it if you can work towards that,
but be professional in your job and do that which you&amp;rsquo;re paid for, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I mean if my doctor was against the healthcare
system, I&amp;rsquo;d still want them to write me a prescription, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t want them to lecture me about the
healthcare system and send me out with my infection intact right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I want them to do their job and their job is
not to talk to me about anarchism and neither is your job at work&amp;hellip;yeah, some of
your paycheck is going to come from government, but there&amp;rsquo;s no way to escape
that unless you want to go live buried out in the woods.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;In which case we abandon the world to the bad
people, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If all the good people
say, well, I have to be so pure that I can&amp;rsquo;t function in society, we just leave
the future, the children and the world to the worst people in the world who
don&amp;rsquo;t give a crap about integrity and virtue, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So we fight the tough, ambiguous fight.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s a certain amount of what you
can live with that no one can tell you right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;I mean there maybe some government contract that comes up where you&amp;rsquo;re
just like oh, man, I can&amp;rsquo;t do it and no one can tell you whether or when that
occurs and I don&amp;rsquo;t think there&amp;rsquo;s any objective line, I really don&amp;rsquo;t.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Okay, maybe&amp;hellip;front line culture&amp;hellip;I don&amp;rsquo;t know,
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But&amp;hellip;but&amp;hellip;you just have to be
sensitive to how your processing stuff.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Right,
there&amp;rsquo;s only a certain amount of stuff we can watch before we just go&amp;hellip;you know,
you just can&amp;rsquo;t do it anymore, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But
I would certainly not create some abstract rule that says I can&amp;rsquo;t do any job
whether it&amp;rsquo;s government money ever involved cause then you can&amp;rsquo;t have any job
at all, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If you&amp;rsquo;re a whaler, some
guy might be an IRS agent, but you don&amp;rsquo;t know.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;You then become paranoid, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So I wouldn&amp;rsquo;t&amp;hellip;I would say it&amp;rsquo;s more
of a guy sense and a gut feel, but I think the thing&amp;ndash;the thing as I was saying
to the lady before&amp;hellip;who didn&amp;rsquo;t leave, but nats?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Was that right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No, I&amp;rsquo;m just
kidding.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sorry, just looked like you
were, &amp;ldquo;Huh?&amp;rdquo;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But so as I was saying
before, you know, don&amp;rsquo;t&amp;hellip;don&amp;rsquo;t let the evils of the world and institutionalized
violence of society bring down your spirit, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Because it is in the indomitable will and joy
of our spirit that we are going to lead human beings to a higher place.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You know, if we&amp;rsquo;re going to be those
kind of lighthouse leaders who like help people in from the far seas of
state-ism, we have to have that kind of joyful, happy integrity.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Don&amp;rsquo;t let the evils that have accumulated
through history, that you&amp;rsquo;re not all responsible for, crack and break down your
joyful spirit and your pursuit of a better world and an elevated species,
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That stuff doesn&amp;rsquo;t matter.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;It doesn&amp;rsquo;t matter that bad people made shitty
decisions in the past, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That
doesn&amp;rsquo;t cling to us.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;That doesn&amp;rsquo;t cling
to our souls.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We stand as tall and as
firm and as proud as we can without taking responsibility for the sins of the
past, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;State-ism is Catholicism,
right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You just have to reject it.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s no original sin that way, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;We struggle to do the very best that
we can for the sake of joy not for the sake of changing the world, because you
can&amp;rsquo;t change the world without joy.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;You
aim at changing the world, you get frustrated and miserable and don&amp;rsquo;t change
anything except your own level of happiness for the worst, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I would stand tall with the joy and
integrity of&amp;hellip;of the true and the virtue that you have.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Don&amp;rsquo;t let the slings and crap of state-ism
that you didn&amp;rsquo;t event and not responsible for stick to you.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Be sensitive to what you can take emotionally
and be aware of where it just becomes too unpleasant and, you know, work to
figure out that within yourself and change what you need to be, but the whole
purpose of&amp;hellip;of evil is to make good people feel guilty for breathing, right, and
I just don&amp;rsquo;t think we have to feel that way at all.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We have an incredible gift to bring to the
world, the gift of truth and of reason and of evidence and of virtue and of
happiness and of peace, right?&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And we
have the key that unlocks a really golden and beautiful future and if we feel
stained by the sins of the past to the point where we become ashamed of being
the most reasonable and I believe the most virtuous people around, we&amp;rsquo;re just
surrendering to the darkness a light that we just don&amp;rsquo;t have to.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So I hope that gives you some&amp;hellip;sense of at
least how I approach it and that was a great, great question.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Speaker 2:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Alright, thank you very much, Stefan, for
coming out here to Philadelphia.&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;We
greatly appreciate it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Stefan Molyneux:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Thank you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Speaker 2:&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Just another reminder, thank you everyone for
coming and also, just please, please if you can donate I really ask that you
would&amp;hellip;I appreciate it and thanks for coming.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;text-align:justify;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;color:red;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Times New Roman&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://board.freedomainradio.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=251774" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>Thank You from the Future! Stefan Molyneux speaks at the 2011 Porcupine Freedom Festival</title><link>http://board.freedomainradio.com/blogs/freedomain/archive/2011/07/05/thank-you-from-the-future-stefan-molyneux-speaks-at-the-2011-porcupine-freedom-festival.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2011 17:39:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">59c0a406-59fe-4f33-8532-f7cd028d5483:239042</guid><dc:creator>Stefan Molyneux</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><description>&lt;p&gt;(Please visit the site to view this media)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Do you guys want a short speech? I
mean I know it&amp;#39;s kind of late, I can either do it tonight or I can do it for
the closing ceremony...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[crowd: &amp;quot;speech, speech&amp;rdquo;]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Speech? Speech? OK, all right... I
feel loose, babies!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;All right - so one of the things that
I&amp;rsquo;ve felt my whole life is that - gratitude from the culture that we live in
can sometimes be a little &amp;ndash; short, you know, and one of the things that I think
is that we are all philosophers. Everybody who works from first principles,
everyone who talks about nonviolence, we all are philosophers - and the one
thing that&amp;#39;s very true about philosophers is that they don&amp;rsquo;t get a lot of
&amp;#39;sugar,&amp;#39; they don&amp;#39;t get a lot of love in their own time. [woman yells] It&amp;rsquo;s
true - well OK, except for you, absolutely &amp;ndash; you&amp;rsquo;re handing it out like candy
and that&amp;#39;s nice!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;But we don&amp;#39;t get a lot of that juice,
don&amp;#39;t get a lot of that love. Socrates got some hemlock, Spinoza was kicked out
of his &amp;ndash; everywhere&amp;hellip; I mean - Ayn Rand, even now after being right for sixty
years in a row, she still gets spat on by the main culture, so it is hard!
Wouldn&amp;rsquo;t you say? I mean look, we&amp;#39;ve all faced it, you&amp;rsquo;ve all had difficulties
at work, you&amp;rsquo;ve had difficulties in your relationships because of your
commitment to ideals. That&amp;rsquo;s a hard thing to live with.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So &amp;ndash; the one place that I go, when I
sort of need to feel replenished and strengthened &amp;ndash; I mean we have each other,
for those of you who have people around (this is the beautiful thing about
what&amp;#39;s happening here) - but I kind of go into the future in my mind, because I
think the world are trying to build, the world that we want to create, the
world that we&amp;rsquo;re laying the foundations for that we may never live to see&amp;hellip; I
mean, I don&amp;#39;t think that we&amp;rsquo;ll live to see it, maybe those of you who had great
sex last night, there&amp;rsquo;s an egg and a sperm in there who may live to see it - maybe
- but I don&amp;#39;t think we&amp;rsquo;re going to live to see exactly the kind of world that
we want - a world of statelessness, a world without war, a world without
incarceration, a world without violence&amp;hellip; I don&amp;#39;t think we&amp;rsquo;re going to live to
see it &amp;ndash; but that&amp;#39;s all the more heroic I think for us to &lt;i&gt;try&lt;/i&gt; to build it even though we&amp;rsquo;re not going to live to see it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So I go to the future. I think - I am
so happy to live in a world without slavery in the way that it used to exist &amp;ndash;
I&amp;rsquo;m so happy to live in that world - and the first people who started talking
about there being no slavery, were like us&amp;hellip; And the first people who started
talking about &amp;ldquo;women should be equal to men&amp;rdquo; were kind of like us, and they
faced a lot of opposition, they faced a lot of skepticism &amp;ndash; I mean the first
guy who came up and said, &amp;ldquo;Blacks should be equal to whites,&amp;rdquo; was not a popular
man or woman, and he faced a lot of opposition from everyone around him and the
general culture spat on him a lot, and people thought he was crazy or mad or evil
or bad - but we all take that stuff for granted now, and it&amp;#39;s so impossible -
you know - like moral change in the world, you stand below it and it looks like
a cliff, it&amp;rsquo;s so high, a mountain so high that you can&amp;#39;t get over it, you can
get through it, you feel like you&amp;rsquo;re going to beat your head against the wall
for the rest of your life and never make a dent&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;But then a weird thing happens when
the change occurs &amp;ndash; when people get over that wall or they walk &lt;i&gt;through&lt;/i&gt; that wall and then they look
back, and it&amp;rsquo;s like there&amp;rsquo;s nothing &lt;i&gt;there&lt;/i&gt;!
It&amp;rsquo;s really strange&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Before the end of slavery, people said
(and we&amp;rsquo;ve all heard these arguments before, right?) - people said: &amp;ldquo;You know,
there&amp;rsquo;s never been a society without slavery, so&amp;hellip; You point to &lt;i&gt;me&lt;/i&gt; a society without slavery - you can&amp;#39;t
do it! You point to &lt;i&gt;me&lt;/i&gt; a society where
there&amp;rsquo;s equality for women, you can do it! You point to &lt;i&gt;me&lt;/i&gt; a society where there is no &lt;i&gt;government&lt;/i&gt;,
and you can&amp;rsquo;t do it!&amp;rdquo; That&amp;rsquo;s all we hear!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Well because we can see it, it &lt;i&gt;will be here! It will be here!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Because the vision is &lt;i&gt;everything&lt;/i&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Without the vision there is no moral growth.
We can&amp;#39;t get over that mountain unless we see it so passionately and so powerfully
that we can walk through that wall as if it is not even there &amp;ndash; and then people
will see that it isn&amp;rsquo;t there &amp;ndash; that the barrier is only in the &lt;i&gt;mind&lt;/i&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So if you go to the future - which is
where I go to - I think of the people, 100 years, 150 years from now, and
they&amp;rsquo;re going to look back at this gathering&amp;hellip; Can you imagine how they&amp;rsquo;re going
to look back at this gathering?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;So those crazy motherf*ckers, what
the hell were they thinking? I mean - they have couple of hundred people and a
microphone&amp;hellip; Some drinks&amp;hellip; And what are they looking at? They&amp;rsquo;re looking at nuclear
weapons and prison systems and aircraft carriers and police and military&amp;hellip; What are
they &lt;i&gt;thinking&lt;/i&gt;? What are they thinking,
those crazy brave motherf*ckers &amp;ndash; what are they &lt;i&gt;thinking&lt;/i&gt;? How can they &lt;i&gt;imagine&lt;/i&gt;
taking it on? How could they &lt;i&gt;imagine&lt;/i&gt;
taking it on?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;But the imagination is everything&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;And they look back to us, and they&amp;#39;re
gonna say - and this is what you need to hear, and this is what you need to
remember, coming down from the future:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;THANK YOU!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;This is what we need to remember every
morning when it gets hard, when we get &lt;i&gt;tired&lt;/i&gt;,
when we read the newspaper, and it&amp;rsquo;s like: nothing is f*cking changing&amp;hellip; We need
to remember that rolling down from the future, from the people who will live in
the world that we&amp;rsquo;re only beginning to build - they are saying (as we say to
everyone who came before &lt;i&gt;us&lt;/i&gt; who built
the world that &lt;i&gt;we&lt;/i&gt; love to live in):&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;THANK YOU, EVERYBODY!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[interruption from host]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;You want me to keep going, or should I
stop?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;All right. So I&amp;rsquo;m going to tell you
what I think they&amp;rsquo;re going to thank you for &amp;ndash; and you need to remember this,
because this is what I see... They&amp;rsquo;re going to thank you - the future is going
to thank you - for your courage! Your courage &amp;ndash; it is hard, hard, hard work &amp;ndash;
raising the moral standards of mankind is a hard f*cking slog, and it takes a
lot of courage! It takes a lot of courage, because there&amp;#39;s a lot of criticism,
there&amp;#39;s a lot of misunderstanding, there&amp;#39;s a lot of fear that we face in those
around us. When we shake the foundations of the moral universe that people live
in, they &lt;i&gt;freak out&lt;/i&gt;! They get
frightened, they attack - and it takes a lot of courage, you know &amp;ndash; we are all
wired for social approval. We all want social approval, because if you didn&amp;#39;t
have social approval in the Stone Age, you couldn&amp;#39;t even survive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Studies have shown, you know, that
people who experience social disapproval, it&amp;#39;s almost indistinguishable from
physical pain, within the brain.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;That&amp;#39;s what I mean by courage: that we
have to fight against the natural conformity of our biological natures, to go
against the tribe, against our immediate short-term interests for the sake of a
beautiful world to come. That takes courage, and people are going to say,
looking down through the lens of time, to this few, we few, we happy f*cking
few:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;THANK YOU FOR YOUR COURAGE! EVERYBODY
WHO STANDS WITH US! THANK YOU FOR BUILDING THIS WORLD THAT WE LOVE!!&amp;quot;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;They&amp;#39;re gonna say - I think, they&amp;#39;re
gonna say, &amp;quot;Thank you, for your love. For your love.&amp;quot;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Because, you know, there&amp;#39;s a cheap
kind of love in the world... And the cheap kind of love is like - welfare from
the government. &amp;quot;Oh, there&amp;#39;s poor people! Let&amp;#39;s shovel some money at
them&amp;quot;, &amp;quot;Oh, there&amp;#39;s some people we think should be better educated,
let&amp;#39;s shovel some schools at them.&amp;quot; That&amp;#39;s cheap love. That is
pseudo-love. That is fake love.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;The REAL love, is to stand for
principles of non-violence, voluntary cooperation, and to love humanity enough,
to KNOW, that if we set humanity free, the world can be BEAUTIFUL, the world
can be a paradise, the world can be utopia!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;WE DON&amp;#39;T &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;NEED&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; THE F*CKING GUNS TO
MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE! THE GUNS WILL MAKE IT WORSE, ALWAYS!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;People think that if you stop pointing
guns at people, everything gets worse. But we know; we have a love of humanity,
a trust in the soul and nature of man, that if we put down the guns, humanity&amp;hellip; &lt;i&gt;rises&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;People think you put down the guns,
humanity attacks. No! You put down the guns, people are liberated. They come
up. They flower! Into beautiful, peaceful, wonderful communities.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Like this &amp;ndash; like this!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So, they will say, &amp;quot;Thank you,
for your true love of humanity enough to trust that if you put down the
weapons, everybody will be beautiful.&amp;quot;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;It&amp;#39;s true! They will thank us for our
integrity. They will thank you for your integrity. That even though it&amp;#39;s hard, that
even though you face criticisms, even though people will REJECT you for what it
is you&amp;#39;re doing, that you&amp;#39;re still holding true to the ideals of the north
star... of non-aggression!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So simple! So simple! Stop using
violence to get things done. It&amp;#39;s so simple and so hard! They will thank us for
our integrity!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;Because - what we&amp;#39;re doing, is &lt;i&gt;brick by brick&lt;/i&gt;. So like brick by brick,
we&amp;#39;re just puttin&amp;#39; down these bricks. And the bricks are every time we have a
conversation, every time we send someone to material that is valuable, every
time we stand up to a bully, every time we stand up to an abuser, every time we
help somebody who&amp;#39;s been ground down - help them rediscover their humanity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;These are little &amp;ldquo;brick-by-bricks.&amp;rdquo;
It&amp;#39;s hard to see the whole cathedral of the future, that we&amp;#39;re building. But it
is a beautiful place that we are building. And, I would love - wouldn&amp;#39;t you
love - to just go forward 150 years, or a 100 years, and just SEE; SEE this
world?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;I see it in my mind&amp;#39;s eye, it&amp;#39;s so
clear, I really do. I really do. A world - ah, dammit! A world without WAR! The
eternal dream of humanity! Without WAR! Because we KNOW - we KNOW FOR A FACT -
those of us who understand all of this (and everybody in this room is in that
number) &amp;ndash; we know that when you have no state, you have no war.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;A world without prisons. A world
without prisons! A world where people can interact in a peaceful way without
fear of jail. A world where you can just walk up to a f*ckin&amp;#39; plane... and &lt;i&gt;get on it&lt;/i&gt;! A plane!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;A world where the money in your pocket
today, is gonna be the money in your pocket tomorrow, and not some f*ckin&amp;#39;
toilet paper you&amp;#39;re embarrassed about!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So, I just wanted to point that out.
This is something that I use. Because people sort of say to me, &amp;quot;Well, how
can you remain so optimistic?&amp;quot; And, it&amp;#39;s because I don&amp;#39;t view the world
around me as the standard of value that I&amp;#39;m bringing to the world. Because
people, they don&amp;#39;t want to be confronted with this stuff. Even if society
slides into an ultimate shit-hole, they still don&amp;#39;t want to be reminded of this
stuff. It&amp;#39;s like everyone would rather just go into that shit-hole, rather than
wake up and see the basic reality of the society that they live in!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;But I go - and I hope that you&amp;#39;ll
think about doing it too - I go to the future. And I think of everyone that I
look back at, and admire, who has helped to build a world where what we&amp;#39;re
doing is even POSSIBLE! That&amp;#39;s an incredible advancement, that what we&amp;#39;re doing
is even possible!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;And so, think about the people in the
future. The people whose peaceful, sunlit, happy, STATELESS, GUNLESS WORLD -
and I mean &amp;quot;gunless&amp;quot; in terms of the STATIST guns - the world that
we&amp;#39;re building for these people, which we won&amp;#39;t get to LIVE in, but is gonna be
the most beautiful thing in the world, and it will never, ever go back! It will
NEVER go back! We&amp;#39;re not gonna have slavery back in the way that it used to be!
Women are never gonna be subjugated in the way that they used to be, and once
we get rid of the STATE, IT&amp;#39;S DONE!! FOREVER!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;This shit is not going to regrow! It
is not going to come back! That&amp;#39;s how IMPORTANT what it is we&amp;#39;re doing! We&amp;#39;re
putting a NAIL in the COFFIN, a STAKE in the HEART of the greatest vampiric
predator the world has ever known! That TAKES GUTS, AND WE&amp;#39;VE GOT IT!!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;And, this fight has been fought for
thousands of years. But it is not gonna be thousands of years to come, because
we&amp;#39;re all together, we all know each other, we can all communicate with each
other, the information can go out in a way that has &lt;i&gt;never&lt;/i&gt; occurred before.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;It took thousands of years to get
here, but it&amp;#39;s only dozens more to go. I genuinely believe that. And, for those
of us who have kids, we know how important it is that we build a world that
they can live in without the fears that we all grew up with; the fears of
nuclear war, the fears of environmental depredations, so funded and driven by
the state.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;And this has been going on for a long
time, this battle. We have an incredible propulsion mechanism in the communities,
and the communications technology that we have at the moment, which is an
incredible gift for us, as liberty activists.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;I&amp;#39;m just gonna finish up by reminding
you to visit the future, and to get the accolades that roll down from the
future to us. They will! They will! Everybody in this room is gonna have a f*ckin&amp;#39;
FREE PRIVATE SCHOOL NAMED AFTER THEM IN THE FUTURE!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;So, I&amp;#39;m going to just end up by saying
that - yeah, this battle&amp;#39;s been going on for a long time. And it is a battle of
good versus evil, there&amp;#39;s no doubt about it. And - I&amp;#39;m going to close with a
line from one of my favorite speeches in a movie - Morpheus:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;quot;It has been a long time coming,
but we are going to win. Because WE ARE STILL HERE!!!!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:0.0001pt;line-height:normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;#39;Arial&amp;#39;,&amp;#39;sans-serif&amp;#39;;"&gt;[cheers, applause]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://board.freedomainradio.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=239042" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>Against the Gods?</title><link>http://board.freedomainradio.com/blogs/freedomain/archive/2011/06/29/against-the-gods.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2011 02:32:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">59c0a406-59fe-4f33-8532-f7cd028d5483:238685</guid><dc:creator>Stefan Molyneux</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><description>&lt;p&gt;


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&lt;div style="border:none;border-bottom:solid #4F81BD 1.0pt;padding:0cm 0cm 4.0pt 0cm;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoTitle" style="text-align:center;" align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:28pt;"&gt;Against the Gods?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:center;" align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;By Stefan Molyneux, MA&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:center;" align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Host, Freedomain Radio&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Introduction&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;While strolling
through the sunny woods one day, you spy a man slithering through the
undergrowth, heavily camouflaged and gripping a bow and arrow.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;What are
you hunting?&amp;rdquo; you ask.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Dragons!&amp;rdquo; hisses
the man proudly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;You frown. &amp;ldquo;Dragons?
But dragons don&amp;rsquo;t exist!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The man nods
emphatically. &amp;ldquo;I completely agree with you! There ain&amp;rsquo;t &lt;i&gt;no such thing&lt;/i&gt; as
dragons. And I&amp;rsquo;m a-gonna &lt;i&gt;shoot&lt;/i&gt; me one!&amp;rdquo; He raises his bow and arrow, narrows
his eyes and glares through the trees, hungry to target the non-existent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;At this
point, you would surely take a series of slow and steady steps backwards, aiming
to put some safer distance between you and a deranged man wielding a bow and
arrow.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This is one
of the many, many challenges of atheism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Atheism&amp;rdquo; is
a terrible word on many levels.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The Oxford
English Dictionary, Second Edition, defines atheism as:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Disbelief
in, or denial of, the existence of a god.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;To any modern,
rational thinker, this is an entirely unsatisfactory definition &amp;ndash; which is
exactly what you expect from a word originally defined by theists.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;First of
all, the OED definition implies that there is something &lt;i&gt;personal&lt;/i&gt; in the
rational rejection of a god. &amp;ldquo;Denial&amp;rdquo; is a word associated with defensive
rejections of reality, such as Holocaust denier, climate change denier &amp;ndash; or the
generic avoidance of unpalatable emotional truths: &amp;ldquo;He&amp;rsquo;s in denial about her
drinking.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Compare the
above definition to this one:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Atheism:
The acceptance of the non-existence of imaginary entities such as Santa Claus,
the Easter Bunny and Bronze Age sky ghosts.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The
difference should be clear.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Also, why is
the phrase &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;a&lt;/i&gt; god&amp;rdquo; used? If I say that supernatural beings such as leprechauns
do not exist, why would anyone imagine that I only disbelieved in a single
leprechaun named &amp;ldquo;Bob&amp;rdquo;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Rational
thinkers have nothing against any &lt;i&gt;particular&lt;/i&gt; deity &amp;ndash; any more than a
mathematician dislikes in &lt;i&gt;particular&lt;/i&gt; the proposition that two and two
make five. If such a mathematician existed, and loudly proclaimed his
opposition to that particular equation, and founded a society called &amp;ldquo;against
two and two making five,&amp;rdquo; he would be considered beyond eccentric, and it would
be generally understood that he had utterly failed to grasp the most basic
principles of mathematics.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A thinker
cannot logically differentiate the nonexistence of a &lt;i&gt;deity&lt;/i&gt; from the
nonexistence of any other thing which does not exist. Principles by definition
apply in &lt;i&gt;general&lt;/i&gt;, rather than in particular, just as a method of long
division cannot only apply to one particular combination of numbers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The criteria
for existence versus nonexistence is a &lt;i&gt;general&lt;/i&gt; standard, which applies equally
to rocks, electricity, electrons, ghosts, dreams, square circles, concepts and
unicorns. It cannot rationally focus its energies on only &lt;i&gt;one&lt;/i&gt; entity &amp;ndash;
or even one category &amp;ndash; otherwise it becomes mere prejudice, rather than the
dispassionate application of a general principle.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Defining
&amp;ldquo;atheism&amp;rdquo; as being &amp;ldquo;against the gods&amp;rdquo; is thus a misnomer, since it takes a merely
accidental subset of a larger set of principles and turns it into an arbitrary
principle itself. There is no such thing as being &amp;ldquo;against the existence of
gods,&amp;rdquo; any more than there is such a thing as being &amp;ldquo;anti-leprechaun.&amp;rdquo; In fact,
to say that you are against one leprechaun &lt;i&gt;in particular&lt;/i&gt; is to imply
that you &lt;i&gt;believe&lt;/i&gt; in leprechauns overall, but find one of them in
particular somehow offensive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We cannot
rationally be &amp;ldquo;against gods,&amp;rdquo; just as we cannot be &amp;ldquo;against&amp;rdquo; square circles, or
hostile to the idea of gravity in the absence of mass, or offended by the idea
that human beings can live unaided on the surface of the sun. These
propositions are simply false, according to reason and evidence, and to create
a second category of particular offense &amp;ldquo;against the gods&amp;rdquo; is irrational &amp;ndash; and,
fittingly enough, offensive, due to the implied prejudice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Rational
thinkers accept standards of existence that at least involve logical
consistency &amp;ndash; and with any luck, empirical evidence. It is the first standard
that beliefs in gods fail and &amp;ndash; as a result, there is little point looking for
the second.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The word &amp;ldquo;atheist&amp;rdquo;
also indicates that belief in gods is the standard, and atheism is the
exception &amp;ndash; just as &amp;ldquo;sane&amp;rdquo; is the standard, and &amp;ldquo;insane&amp;rdquo; is the exception. This
is a mere scrap of sophistic propaganda, since all theists are almost complete
atheists, in that they do not believe in the vast majority of man&amp;rsquo;s gods. The
rejection of gods is the default position; the acceptance of a deity remains
extremely rare, though not as rare as atheists would like.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The Existence of Gods&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Two main errors
are generally made when examining the existence of gods.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The first is
to ignore the basic fact that gods cannot logically exist, and the second is to
accept such logical impossibilities, but to create some imaginary realm where gods
&lt;i&gt;may&lt;/i&gt; exist. Broadly speaking, the first error is made by theists, who
argue that gods do exist, and the second by agnostics, who argue that they may
exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the first
instance, gods are viewed as similar to unicorns. If we define a unicorn as a
horse with a horn on its head, we cannot logically say that such a creature can
never exist. There may be such a being on some other planet, or in some
undiscovered place in this world, or perhaps a mutation may arise at some point
in the future which pushes a horn out of the forehead of a standard-issue
horse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The concept
of a horse with a horn on its head is not logically self-contradictory &amp;ndash; and
thus such a being may exist, and it would be foolish to state otherwise.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the same way,
life forms based on silicon rather than carbon may exist somewhere in the
universe &amp;ndash; such beings are not logically self-contradictory, and so their
existence cannot be rationally eliminated.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;However, if
I define a unicorn as a horse with a horn on its head that can fly through
interstellar space, go backwards through time powered by its magical rainbow
tail, and which existed prior to the universe &amp;ndash; well, then we have moved into
another category of assertion entirely.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A horse
cannot live in space, since there is no oxygen, or air pressure, or water &amp;ndash; and
about a thousand other reasons. The properties and necessities of carbon-based
life forms &lt;i&gt;completely eliminate&lt;/i&gt; such a possibility.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A being
which does not contradict the properties of existence may exist &amp;ndash; a proposed being
which does, may not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Bertrand
Russell argued for agnosticism by saying that there may be a little teapot
orbiting somewhere in the solar system, but he considered it highly unlikely.
This argument &amp;ndash; with all due respect to Dr. Russell&amp;#39;s genius &amp;ndash; is incorrect. A
teapot is &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; a self-contradictory entity. If I could communicate with
Dr. Russell in his current state of nonexistence, I would ask him whether he
would consider it possible that an eternal living horse was floating somewhere
in deep space &amp;ndash; and I respect his knowledge of biology enough to be sure that he
would answer in the negative.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Gods are not
like little teapots, or horses with horns, or very small Irishman with pots of
gold &amp;ndash; gods are entirely self-contradictory entities, the supernatural
equivalent of square circles.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We do not
have to hunt the entire universe to know that a square circle cannot exist,
because it is a self-contradictory concept. We do not have to examine every
rock on every planet to know that a rock cannot fall up and down at the same
time. We do not have to count every object in the universe to know that two and
two make four, not five. There is no possibility that self-contradictory
entities can exist anywhere in the universe. We know that an object cannot be a
teacup and an armchair and a horse with a horn at the same time. The
Aristotelian laws of identity and non-contradiction deny us the luxury of
believing that self-contradictory entities exist anywhere except in our own
unreliable imaginations.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Why Are Gods
Self-Contradictory?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;At the very
minimum, a god is defined as an eternal being which exists independent of
material form and detectable energy, and which usually possesses the rather
enviable attributes of omniscience and omnipotence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;First of
all, we know from biology that even if an eternal being &lt;i&gt;could &lt;/i&gt;exist, it
would be the simplest being conceivable. An eternal being could never have
evolved, since it does not die and reproduce, and therefore biological evolution
could never have layered levels of increasing complexity over its initial simplicity.
We all understand that the human eye did not pop into existence without any
prior development; and the human eye is infinitely less complex than an
omniscient and omnipotent god. Since gods are portrayed as the most complex
beings imaginable, they may well be many things, but eternal cannot be one of
them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Secondly, we
also know that consciousness is an &lt;i&gt;effect&lt;/i&gt; of matter &amp;ndash; specifically biological
matter, in the form of a brain. Believing that consciousness can exist in the
absence of matter is like believing that gravity can be present in the absence
of mass, or that light can exist in the absence of a light source, or that
electricity can exist in the absence of energy. Consciousness is an effect of
matter, and thus to postulate the existence of consciousness without matter is
to create an insurmountable paradox, which only proves the nonexistence of what
is being proposed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If you doubt
this, try telling your friends that that no woman can bear your company &amp;ndash; and
that you have a girlfriend. Having a girlfriend is an &lt;i&gt;effect&lt;/i&gt; of female company,
just as consciousness is an effect of brain matter. Alternatively, try speaking
to someone without making a sound or a movement. Speaking is an effect of
movement, either in the vocal chords or somewhere else, and therefore it cannot
exist in the absence of motion. (If someone insists that consciousness can
exist without a brain, ask them to demonstrate the proposition without using his
brain.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Thirdly,
omniscience cannot coexist with omnipotence, since if a god knows what will happen
tomorrow, said god will be unable to change it without invalidating its
knowledge. If this god retains the power to change what will happen tomorrow,
then it cannot know with exact certainty what will happen tomorrow.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The usual response
from theists &amp;ndash; it is impossible to use the word &amp;lsquo;answer&amp;rsquo; &amp;ndash; is to place their
god &amp;ldquo;outside of time,&amp;rdquo; but this is pure nonsense. When an entity is proven to
be self-contradictory, creating a realm wherein self-contradictions are valid &lt;i&gt;does
not solve the problem&lt;/i&gt;. If you tell me that a square circle cannot exist,
and I then create an imaginary realm called &amp;ldquo;square circles can exist,&amp;rdquo; we are
not at an impasse; I have just abandoned reality, rationality and quite
possibly my sanity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Theists who
try this particular con should at least be consistent, and not pay their taxes,
and then, when said taxes are demanded, say to the tax collector that they have
created a universe called &amp;ldquo;I paid my taxes,&amp;rdquo; and slam the door in his face.
(Alternatively, if theists make a mistake on a history test, and claim that the
American Revolution was in 1676, they should fight the resulting bad mark by
claiming that their answer exists &amp;ldquo;outside of time.&amp;rdquo;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The fourth
objection to the existence of deities is that an object can only rationally be
defined as existing when it can be detected in some manner, either directly, in
the form of matter and/or energy, or indirectly, based upon its effects on the
objects around it, such as a black hole.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;That which
can be detected is that which exists, as anyone who has tried walking through a
glass door can painfully tell you. Such a door is deemed to be open &amp;ndash; or nonexistent
&amp;ndash; when we can walk through it without detecting the glass with our soon-to-be-bloody
nose. It would be epistemological madness to argue that an open door is
synonymous with a closed door. If someone argues that existence is equal to
nonexistence, challenge them to walk through a wall rather than an archway. (The
fact that the wall might be an archway in another dimension will scarcely help
their passage in this one.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Differentiating
between existence and nonexistence was something that my daughter was able to
manage before she was 6 months old; we can only hope that modern philosophical
thinkers are able to circle back and someday achieve her prodigious feats of knowledge.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A god &amp;ndash; or at
least any god that has been historically proposed or accepted &amp;ndash; is that which
cannot be detected by any material means, either directly or indirectly. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Ah, but what
about the future? Might we find gods orbiting Betelgeuse in the 25&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt;
century? Well, while it is true that at some point we may come across some
seemingly magical being somewhere in the universe that may appear somewhat
godlike to us, no one who has proposed the existence of gods in the past has
ever met such a being, which we can tell because no test for existence has ever
been proposed or accepted.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Since &amp;ldquo;god&amp;rdquo;
means &amp;ldquo;that which is undetectable, either directly or indirectly,&amp;rdquo; then the
statement &amp;ldquo;gods exist&amp;rdquo; rationally breaks down to:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;That which
does not exist, exists.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Thus not
only is the concept of gods entirely self-contradictory, but even the
proposition that they exist is self-contradictory.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Other Dimensions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Theists
claim that gods exist, atheists accept that they do not; agnostics say that
gods are unlikely, but not impossible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;How do they
manage this?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Many
agnostics understand that gods do not &amp;ndash; and cannot &amp;ndash; exist in physical reality,
so they create &amp;ldquo;Dimension X,&amp;rdquo; and place the possibility of gods existing
somewhere &amp;ldquo;out there.&amp;rdquo; Inevitably, when a rational thinker points out that this
does not solve the problem, the agnostic replies with grating haughtiness that
the rational thinker is being closed-minded, and sniffs that to claim the
nonexistence of any particular entity is short-sighted and unimaginative. &amp;ldquo;Surely,&amp;rdquo;
he says, &amp;ldquo;if you were to tell a medieval man that human beings would one day be
able to talk instantaneously around the world, he would say that such a feat
was utterly impossible &amp;ndash; but he would be only exposing the limitations of his
more primitive mind, not making any objective truth statement.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In other
words, any and all certainty is primitive superstition.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This
wonderful piece of sophistry is a patently ridiculous form of &lt;i&gt;ad hominem&lt;/i&gt;,
which goes something like this:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Just as
Newtonian physics gave way to Einsteinian physics, and Einsteinian physics was
in some ways surpassed by quantum mechanics, making absolute truth statements
about all forms of future knowledge shows a deep ignorance of the flexible and
progressive nature of the scientific method, and the endless potential for
human thought.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This is a
very strange notion, in which the scientific method is used to pave the way not
&lt;i&gt;away&lt;/i&gt; from ghosts, demons and a generally haunted universe, but rather &lt;i&gt;towards&lt;/i&gt;
it. The science of medicine has attempted to escape the primitive foolishness
of witch doctors and the superstitions of demonic possession &amp;ndash; to say that true
medicine leads us towards such primitive fantasies, rather than helping us
escape them, entirely misunderstands the purpose of science, reason and
medicine.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Of course it
is true that Newtonian physics gave way to Einsteinian physics, and Einsteinian
physics may well be surpassed by some other approach &amp;ndash; to say so is boringly
obvious. However, reason and evidence is a &lt;i&gt;process&lt;/i&gt;, it is not any
specific &lt;i&gt;content&lt;/i&gt;. Science is a &lt;i&gt;method&lt;/i&gt;, not a specific theory or
proposition. It is only reason and evidence that &lt;i&gt;reveals&lt;/i&gt; the superiority
of more accurate and comprehensive theories. The scientific method rejects self-contradictory
theories as either erroneous or inconclusive, just as mathematics rejects the
results of any equation that starts with the proposition that two and two make
five. Science has been man&amp;#39;s most successful attempt to flee what Carl Sagan
called &amp;ldquo;the demon haunted world&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; science &lt;i&gt;cannot&lt;/i&gt; be used to pave the
way back to such primitive madness.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I suppose we
can accept it as a compliment to science that agnostics and theists are using
it to attempt to resurrect the primitive fantasies inherited from the infancy
of our species, but the powerful electricity of modern thought cannot be used
to resurrect the Frankenstein of superstitious falsehoods.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s look at
the &amp;ldquo;Dimension X&amp;rdquo; argument in more detail.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Concepts and Instances&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A central
tenet of rational thinking is to recognize that an &lt;i&gt;instance&lt;/i&gt; is not a &lt;i&gt;concept&lt;/i&gt;.
A mathematical process such as multiplication is a concept that applies to any
general arrangement of numbers; it cannot be called a concept if it only
applies to one particular calculation. You need an &amp;ldquo;x&amp;rdquo; to have an equation;
16/4=4 is not an equation, but an instance, a particular application of a
general process called division.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the same
way, alternate dimensions cannot be invented that only contain gods, but rather
must be a general concept that encompasses everything. The true argument put
forward by agnosticism is not that &amp;ldquo;Dimension X may contain gods,&amp;rdquo; but rather
that &amp;ldquo;nothing true can be said about our reality, because another reality may
exist where truth equals falsehood.&amp;rdquo; In other words, the agnostic position is
that &lt;i&gt;any&lt;/i&gt; positive statement &lt;i&gt;must be&lt;/i&gt; instantly negated by the
possibility of an &amp;ldquo;opposite dimension.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This
proposition falls apart at every conceivable level &amp;ndash; and even at some that
cannot be conceived!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;First of all,
saying that we cannot make any absolute positive claims about truth is itself
an absolute positive claim about truth &amp;ndash; i.e. that truth is impossible. If we
say that certainty is impossible, then we have to instantly retract that
statement, since we are making a certain statement. It very quickly becomes
obvious that nothing of any merit or weight can ever be said if the truth is
impossible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In other
words, when the agnostic says that we cannot make any absolute claims because
the opposite might be true in another universe, the agnostic cannot put forward
this claim, because the opposite might be true in another universe.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;All con
artists operate by affirming a general rule, and then creating an exception for
themselves. A thief wants everyone to respect property rights except him; a
counterfeiter wants everyone to accept the value of money except him &amp;ndash; and a
philosophical con man wants everyone to reject truth except for his own
propositions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Don&amp;#39;t fall
for it, not for a minute!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The moment
an agnostic says, &amp;quot;Gods may exist in another dimension,&amp;rdquo; immediately
identify the principle behind his statement, which is that no truth can be
stated, and apply it to his own statement, thus rendering it invalid.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The Second
Self-Contradiction&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The moment
that we say, &amp;ldquo;gods may exist in another universe,&amp;rdquo; we are instantly
contradicting ourselves, because the word &amp;ldquo;gods&amp;rdquo; contains specific knowledge
claims &amp;ndash; intelligence, omnipotence, immateriality etc. &amp;ndash; which &lt;i&gt;cannot&lt;/i&gt; be
applied to a dimension about which we know nothing! To analogize this, imagine
that I tell you that I&amp;#39;m going to play you a video of incomprehensible static &amp;ndash;
and then I insist that I can clearly see the lyrics to &amp;ldquo;Woolly Bully&amp;rdquo; scrolling
across the screen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Only one of
these claims can be true &amp;ndash; if the video is incomprehensible static, then lyrics
cannot scroll across the screen &amp;ndash; if the lyrics are scrolling across the
screen, the video cannot be incomprehensible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the same
way, if I create Dimension X, and say that we can know nothing about its
contents, I then cannot say that gods may exist there, because I am then saying
that I know something about the unknowable contents of Dimension X.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I cannot say
that I &lt;i&gt;know&lt;/i&gt; nothing about a particular entity, but that I also know it is
green and furry &amp;ndash; only one of these statements can be true.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The moment
that I say &amp;ldquo;gods may exist in another dimension,&amp;rdquo; I am making specific knowledge
claims about the contents and processes of this other dimension &amp;ndash; i.e. that
certain entities with specific characteristics may meet the criteria of
existence in another dimension of which I admit I know absolutely nothing at
all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The truth of
the matter is that we can say &lt;i&gt;absolutely nothing&lt;/i&gt; about this other dimension;
even if we accept that it may exist, which is problematic enough. We cannot
claim to have any knowledge about what may or may not constitute existence in
this other realm, or what entities may be possible, or what laws of physics may
operate, or anything of the sort. Even the existence of this other realm, let
alone its contents, cannot be spoken of &amp;ndash; all we can propose is that existence
may be the same as nonexistence, and invent an imaginary place where this may
be possible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;However,
even this argument runs into insurmountable logical contradictions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;It would be
ridiculous for me to mail you a letter arguing that mail never gets delivered.
If I genuinely believe that mail never gets delivered, it would be illogical
for me to write you a letter. If I do write you a letter, my argument that mail
never gets delivered is instantly invalidated the moment that you receive it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the same
way, all human communication relies on physical matter of some kind, either
text on paper or on a screen, or sound waves in the ear, or touch for Braille,
or some other form of physical manipulation. Silence is the absence of sound
waves &amp;ndash; or at least of a medium such as air or water to carry them. I cannot
deny the existence of a medium while using that medium to carry my argument. I
cannot rationally yell in your ear that sound does not exist, because I&amp;#39;m
relying on the existence of sound to carry my argument.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the same
way, I cannot rationally put forward the argument that all language is
meaningless, because I must use language to communicate my argument. If my
proposition that language is meaningless is true, then using language to
communicate that proposition would be ridiculous &amp;ndash; if my argument that language
has no meaning is heard and understood &amp;ndash; to any degree &amp;ndash; then it is automatically
invalidated.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;To rely on
existence to communicate the possibility that existence equals nonexistence is
equally foolish. The objective existence of air and air pressure and ears and
life and minds is required to speak and hear the argument that existence may
equal nonexistence. Furthermore, the rational and predictable properties of all
that exists in order to communicate an argument are presumed to be objective,
since any communication between human beings requires an acceptance of the
objective properties of matter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;For example,
if you tell me that gods exist, and I reply, &amp;ldquo;Yes, I agree that gods do not
exist,&amp;rdquo; you will doubtless correct my erroneous feedback on your position. This
is only possible if the words have at least some objective meaning, and sound
waves do not magically mutate from voice to ears, and so on. For words to be
formed, spoken and heard, both existence and nonexistence must be accepted,
since all sound waves have peaks and valleys. Text as well must have the
presence and absence of somewhat contrasting colours, otherwise only one colour
is seen, which is not an argument.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;All human
communication thus relies on the difference between existence and nonexistence,
presence and absence, and accepts as axiomatic the objective behavior of matter
and energy, and at least tolerable objectivity in language.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;When we
understand all this, we understand that using strict and objective differences
between existence and nonexistence &amp;ndash; as well as accepting the objective
behavior of matter and energy &amp;ndash; to argue that there may be &lt;i&gt;no differences&lt;/i&gt;
between existence and nonexistence, and that matter and energy may exhibit no
objective behavior, is exactly the same as sending a letter claiming that
letters are never delivered.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Ah, but
perhaps I have misunderstood something! Perhaps I am sending a letter telling
you that letters are only &lt;i&gt;sometimes&lt;/i&gt; not delivered, in which case my
argument may be somewhat weakened, but it is not entirely self-contradictory.
The agnostic, after all, does not claim that gods &lt;i&gt;do&lt;/i&gt; exist in another
universe, but rather only that they &lt;i&gt;may&lt;/i&gt; exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;However, this
is looking at the wrong side of the agnostic argument. The agnostic is making
the absolute claim that absolute claims are invalid. &amp;ldquo;You &lt;i&gt;cannot&lt;/i&gt; say
that gods do not exist, because they may exist in another dimension.&amp;rdquo; This is
not a relativistic or sliding scale, but rather an absolute negation. &amp;ldquo;You
cannot say,&amp;rdquo; is the equivalent of &amp;ldquo;mail is never delivered.&amp;rdquo; It is not the
possibility of error that the agnostic is affirming, but rather the
impossibility of absolute knowledge claims of any kind. This is an absolute
statement that rejects absolutism, which of course renders it invalid.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnosticism
is one of the rare examples of a truly cosmic fail.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnosticism and Principles&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Let&amp;#39;s look
at another argument against agnosticism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Perhaps you
think I am overstating the case &amp;ndash; but the agnostic argument is so pervasive,
and so ridiculous, that I do not think we can drive enough stakes into its hollow
heart.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The agnostic
claim that no truth statement can be valid because of a possible opposite
universe cannot only apply to gods, but rather must apply to every object in
the universe &amp;ndash; and every argument as well! Thus, when the agnostic says &amp;ldquo;gods
may exist in another dimension,&amp;rdquo; the &amp;ldquo;opposite possibility principle&amp;rdquo; applies &lt;i&gt;even
to his own words&lt;/i&gt;, which can then be rationally reinterpreted, according to
his own principles, as the &lt;i&gt;exact opposite&lt;/i&gt; of what he is saying, i.e. &amp;ldquo;there
can be no other dimensions, and gods cannot exist.&amp;rdquo; If the agnostic protests
that this was not his meaning, he can be told that he cannot affirm his meaning
in any way, because in this other dimension, his words may have the exact
opposite meaning. It is the same principle that he is applying to the atheist,
and so he cannot reasonably complain when it boomerangs back and knocks over
the foolish house of cards he is pretending to build.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The moment
that the agnostic asserts that it is impossible to state with certainty that
gods &lt;i&gt;cannot&lt;/i&gt; exist, due to this possible alternate dimension, then his
statement is automatically invalidated as well, since in this alternate
dimension, gods may not exist either, or his words may mean the opposite of
what he thinks they mean in this dimension, and so on. No sane person can use
this other dimension to affirm or deny &lt;i&gt;any&lt;/i&gt; truth statement in this
dimension &amp;ndash; and so the agnostic merely takes himself out of the bounds of
civilized and rational debate.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The moment
an agnostic hears this argument, he will doubtless say, &amp;ldquo;But...&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;However, I
merely interrupt him to reply, &amp;ldquo;You cannot use the word &amp;lsquo;but,&amp;rsquo; since the word
&amp;lsquo;but&amp;rsquo; might have the exact opposite meaning in some alternate dimension.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I would
continue this process with every word he spoke after that, until he either
dropped his position, or my company, which would be a relief either way.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This is what
I mean when I say that all con artists wish to create a general rule, with a
magical exception for themselves &amp;ndash; the agnostic wishes to cast universal doubt
on truth statements, except all the ones that &lt;i&gt;he&lt;/i&gt; happens to make.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnosticism and Consistency&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Since
agnosticism is fundamentally an epistemological position, it cannot be confined
to the existence of gods, but rather must be fundamental to all forms of human knowledge.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;However, I
have yet to hear an agnostic argue that we must abolish prisons, since a
criminal&amp;rsquo;s guilt can never be established with certainty, since in another
dimension, he might not have committed the crime. In Western legal systems, crimes
must be proven &amp;ldquo;beyond a reasonable doubt,&amp;rdquo; but in the agnostic formulation of
truth, no such standard can ever be achieved.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This kind of
exceptionalism is dully inevitable when dealing with religion. It never applies
anywhere else.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;To take
another example, it is illegal to sell bogus cures for real illnesses &amp;ndash;
however, not only is Christianity&amp;rsquo;s &amp;ldquo;cure&amp;rdquo; utterly unproven, but even the &amp;ldquo;illness&amp;rdquo;
itself &amp;ndash; sin &amp;ndash; is completely invented. Can we imagine a priest being hauled
before a court for fraud, for selling a nonsense cure to an invented disease?
If not, why not?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We also have
laws against hate speech, or the incitement of hatred against particular
groups. However, the Bible commands believers to kill gays, atheists,
sorcerers, heretics, disobedient children and witches and just about everyone
else who draws breath. A comic in Canada was recently hauled before the human
rights commission for making a joke about homosexuals &amp;ndash; can we imagine the
printers and distributors of the Bible being charged in such a manner? If not,
why not?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Gods and Non-Existence?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Even if we
accept the opposite-planet Bizarro world of the agnostic position &amp;ndash; and even if
we accept that knowledge claims can be made about an unknowable realm, the
agnostic position still falls flat.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;There are only
two possibilities for our future relationship with Dimension X &amp;ndash; either we will
&lt;i&gt;never&lt;/i&gt; interact with it in any way, or we will find some way to penetrate
its mysteries. In the first case, Dimension X will never be discovered, in
which case it is merely &amp;ldquo;nonexistence&amp;rdquo; with a silly alias, and cannot be used
to reject any knowledge claims. Since it remains a mere synonym for
nonexistence, it cannot be used to reject nonexistence. In this case, an
agnostic cannot say, &amp;ldquo;I reject that gods cannot exist by defining nonexistence
as synonymous with existence &amp;ndash; just calling it &amp;lsquo;Dimension X&amp;rsquo; for funsies.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Ah, but
perhaps someday we will find a way to send a probe into Dimension X, and record
some of its properties. In this case, we will be translating Dimension X into
something that exists here, in our universe, just as a spectrograph translates
light into waves. In other words, Dimension X will have to show up somewhere,
somehow in our universe to confirm its existence, and can no longer be used as
a synonym for nonexistence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Alternatively,
if Zeus is currently doing cartwheels in Dimension X, he might trip and stick
his finger through the time-space continuum and poke a hole in our moon. In
this case, we would have objective and empirical evidence for this event, which
would constitute proof that something rather extraordinary had occurred.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In other
words, the properties and characteristics of Dimension X will have to be
translated into something that exists in &lt;i&gt;this&lt;/i&gt; universe in order to
confirm its existence and record its properties. If Dimension X never has any
impact on our universe, then it is completely synonymous with nonexistence, and
can never be used to reject nonexistence. Using the standard of nonexistence to
reject nonexistence is entirely self-contradictory, the equivalent of saying &amp;ldquo;I
reject the nonexistence of X by accepting that it does not exist, but using a
different word.&amp;rdquo; If a surgeon said that a dead patient still lived because he
used the word &amp;ldquo;gool&amp;rdquo; to mean &amp;ldquo;dead,&amp;rdquo; we would not accept his argument as
particularly rational. The agnostic claim that gods cannot be said to not exist
because one can use the phrase &amp;ldquo;dimension x&amp;rdquo; as a synonym for nonexistence is
equally foolish and irrational.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Gods and the Supernatural&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;That which
is self-contradictory cannot exist. Gods are self-contradictory entities.
Therefore gods cannot exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;What if a
god is invented which does not possess self-contradictory characteristics?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Ah, then it
is not a god.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We can
imagine that 21st century man would appear godlike to our Stone Age ancestors &amp;ndash;
however, the sane among us do not believe that we have become gods due to our
advanced technology.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the same
way, we may meet among the stars fantastically advanced beings &amp;ndash; however they
will not be gods, but rather just highly evolved life forms. We may meet
telepathic beings who can travel through time and have made themselves
immortal, but we will never meet carbon-based lifeforms that can live on the
surface of the sun, or Oompa-Loompas who live in a square circle, are composed
of both fire and ice, and can go North and South at the same time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Thus it is
axiomatic that gods cannot exist &amp;ndash; if they are gods, then they cannot exist; if
they exist, then they are not gods.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Accidental Knowledge?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Imagine that
archaeologists come across some squiggly prehistoric cave painting that, when
viewed at a certain angle, has vague similarities to the equation &amp;ldquo;E=mc&lt;sup&gt;2&lt;/sup&gt;&amp;rdquo;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Would this overthrow
our entire sense of causality and the evolution of knowledge? Would we imagine
that a primitive caveman largely incapable of language or mathematics had
somehow discovered one of the most complex and challenging equations of modern
physics?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Of course
not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We would
smile at the strange coincidence, but would no more imagine a Stone Age genius
physicist then we would grant a doctorate to the wind, should it happen to blow
a series of sand dunes into a similar equation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In other
words, the effects of knowledge cannot exist prior to that knowledge. I could
probably teach my infant daughter to scratch out &amp;ldquo;E=mc&lt;sup&gt;2&lt;/sup&gt;,&amp;rdquo; but I
would not imagine that she understood any of its reasoning, evidence or
contents. A sick animal might break into a pharmacy and eat the pills that
coincidently happened to treat its illness, but we would not call such an
animal a pharmacist or a doctor.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Almost all
of our conceptions of deities have come down to us from the past &amp;ndash; and generally
the pre-scientific past. When we consider the 10,000 or so gods that human
beings have believed in at one time or another, we clearly understand that the
development and depiction of these gods was not based on any scientific or
rational understanding of the universe. Even if the impossible actually
occurred, and some being were found somewhere in the universe that closely
matched the description of some ancient deity, this would not be proof that
such a god existed in the past, and was the source of that knowledge. Either
this would be mere coincidence, or we would have to accept the reality that
such a being visited our ancestors, who recorded his actual presence, which is
not proof of the existence of a god, but rather a tourist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Any historical
knowledge claim about deities existed prior to any empirical evidence or proof,
and thus remains in the realm of pure fantasy. Even if evidence were to
accumulate at some point in the future, this does not grant prescience to the
accidental imaginings of past ages. In other words, the hope that some theists
and agnostics have that proofs for gods will be found in the future does not
validate any &lt;i&gt;existing&lt;/i&gt; claims about the natures and properties of
deities. All prior and existing claims of knowledge about gods are false,
regardless of what shows up in the future, in this or any other dimension.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Deities Before Time?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Some theists
&amp;ndash; and even agnostics &amp;ndash; use the same &amp;ldquo;Dimension X&amp;rdquo; argument examined above, but
place the alternate universe in a time &lt;i&gt;before&lt;/i&gt; our own, rather than
parallel to it in some manner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This does
not fundamentally change any of the arguments &amp;ndash; either this universe before our
own will never have any impact on us, in which case it is just another word for
nonexistence, or it will, in which case it will be empirically measurable
within our own universe, and subject to all the same laws of physics as
everything else we examine. In other words, once it enters into our universe,
it cannot contain self-contradictory properties, and therefore cannot be a god.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Quantum Physics&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Quantum
physics is the latest in a long line of scientific bags that people like to
dump their crazy, pseudo-scientific ideas in to. The admitted strangeness and
apparent self-contradictory behavior of subatomic particles is sometimes
enlisted as yet another &amp;ldquo;alternate realm&amp;rdquo; wherein gods might exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The frank
reality of quantum effects is that they have no impact whatsoever upon sense
perception, since any and all quantum effects cancel each other out long before
the aggregation of particles is perceptible by our unaided senses. This is why
an electron may seem to be in two places at the same time, but a table never
is.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Clearly,
life cannot exist at a subatomic level, which is why we never think of a proton
as alive, even if it is contained within a living being. Since a deity must be
alive &amp;ndash; at least in some sense of the word &amp;ndash; it cannot exist at the subatomic
level, since even the simplest form of life is a highly complex aggregation of
cells and energy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Furthermore,
since the individual subatomic particles examined by quantum physics can never
have any effect on objects perceivable by our senses, this invalidates all
historical &amp;ndash; i.e. prior to quantum physics &amp;ndash; conceptions of deities. Finding &lt;i&gt;ex
post facto&lt;/i&gt; homes for gods in quantum physics, when all concepts of deities evolved
&lt;i&gt;prior&lt;/i&gt; to any knowledge of quantum physics &amp;ndash; is a ridiculous and
desperate attempt to rescue the irrational through an appeal to the scientific.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Harm to Children?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;It has long
been accepted by rational thinkers that religion occupies a magically
aggressive place in the pantheon of human thought, remaining strangely
impervious to the rational standards that have long since felled other
superstitions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;As Richard
Dawkins has pointed out, every religious person is virtually a complete
atheist, in that he rejects the existence of every other God but the one he
worships.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;To
understand this more clearly, imagine a mathematics tutor named Bob who refused
to teach any strict methodology for solving problems.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If you were
to hire Bob, and your child were to correctly answer the problem of 3x3, Bob would
have to reply that it was impossible to say that three times three make nine, because
in an alternate universe they might make the opposite of nine. Bob would
further instruct your child not to answer any question with any certainty, and
always to include this caveat with regards to any and all forms of knowledge.
Bob would also say that none of his instructions &amp;ndash; even that one &amp;ndash; can be
accepted as true, because they might be false in another universe.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Thus, when
responding to a roll call at school, your son cannot say that he is present,
because in another universe, he might be absent. Furthermore, he cannot
actually go to school, because in another universe, the school might be located
in the opposite direction from his house. He cannot go to bed, because in
another universe, it might be an alligator. He cannot eat vegetables, because
in another universe, they might be poison &amp;ndash; and so on&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Surely we
would view such a tutor as a sworn enemy to the mental health of our child, and
would be horrified at the inevitable results of his bizarre philosophy, and
would have to spend a good deal of time unravelling the Gordian knot of
impossible contradictions he had tied our child&amp;rsquo;s mind into.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Principles
which claim universality, but which cannot conceivably be universalized, are self-contradictory
and false by definition.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnosticism and Religion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;While agnosticism generally refrains from attacking specific positive
claims about the nature of deities (other than to say that they may exist in
another dimension defined as synonymous with nonexistence), religions are
entirely founded on making positive and universal claims about the nature,
intentions, personalities, morals and properties of deities.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;An agnostic will say that an invisible man might live in the
boarded-up house next door; a priest will tell you everything that the
invisible man thinks and wants and is capable of.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnosticism and religion both require the substitution of
socially-acceptable synonyms for falsehood in order to affirm their invalid
positions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnostics substitute &amp;ldquo;other dimensions&amp;rdquo; for &amp;ldquo;nonexistence,&amp;rdquo;
while theists substitute &amp;ldquo;faith&amp;rdquo; for &amp;ldquo;falsehood.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Why is faith false?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Well, as the Latin phrase has it &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;Credo quia absurdum&lt;/i&gt;
(&amp;ldquo;I believe because it is absurd&amp;rdquo;). A square circle is an impossible entity,
and therefore cannot exist. We do not have to hunt the entire universe from
edge to edge to know that a square circle does not exist; it is not an act of
will to accept that a square circle does not exist, it is simply a recognition
of reality and the nature of existence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A square circle is an absurd concept &amp;ndash; or rather, to be more
accurate, it is an &lt;i&gt;anti&lt;/i&gt;-concept, in that it takes two valid but
incompatible concepts and crashes them together to create a crazy mishmash of
impossibility.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Take any property or ethic of the Christian God &amp;ndash; to just
pick on one absurd anti-concept &amp;ndash; and the contradictory nature is clear.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-top:12.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;-&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;That which
exists must have been created, but God, who exists, was never created.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-top:12.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;-&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;God is
all-knowing and all-powerful, which are both impossible.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-top:12.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;-&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;God punishes a
man for actions which are predetermined.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-top:12.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;-&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;God punishes
rebellious angels, although their rebellion was completely predetermined.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-top:12.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;-&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;God claims to be
morally perfect, although God fails the test of most of his 10 Commandments.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-top:12.0pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;-&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;For any religion that involves prayer or supplication to be
valid, the following steps must all be rationally validated and empirically
proven:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-top:12.0pt;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:10.0pt;margin-left:38.05pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;1.&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A deity must exist
(call him &amp;ldquo;Jeb&amp;rdquo;).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-top:12.0pt;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:10.0pt;margin-left:38.05pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;2.&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Jeb must have the
interest and power to interfere in the universe.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-top:12.0pt;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:10.0pt;margin-left:38.05pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;3.&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Jeb must have the
interest and willingness to interfere in human affairs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-top:12.0pt;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:10.0pt;margin-left:38.05pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;4.&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Jeb must listen
to prayers, rather than just read minds.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-top:12.0pt;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:10.0pt;margin-left:38.05pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;5.&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Jeb must only
listen to prayers from the members of a particular sect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-top:12.0pt;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:10.0pt;margin-left:38.05pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;6.&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Jeb must monitor
and record good and bad behavior.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-top:12.0pt;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:10.0pt;margin-left:38.05pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;7.&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Ideally, Jeb must
punish the members of alternate sects, or those who pray in an incorrect or
inconsistent fashion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-top:12.0pt;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:10.0pt;margin-left:38.05pt;text-indent:-18.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;8.&lt;span style="font:7.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Jeb must also not
reward those who do not give money to his priests &amp;ndash; and ideally, punish said
folks.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;As we can see, since even the existence of a deity is
conceptually ridiculous, not even the first domino in this increasingly absurd
row falls down.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top:12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In other words, the propositions of religion do not &amp;ldquo;require faith,&amp;rdquo;
but rather are simply &lt;i&gt;false&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; and as a result, since they command
obedience and money, they are exploitative, abusive and destructive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Religion as Child Abuse?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In his
recent book &amp;ldquo;God Is Not Great,&amp;rdquo; Christopher Hitchens asked whether religion was
child abuse, but in my view did not provide a very satisfactory answer. The
question can be easily resolved through the philosophical approach of &lt;i&gt;universalization&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;It is
generally accepted in society that children are mentally deficient &amp;ndash; and in
some ways, of course, they are, in language acquisition and the processing of
consequences to actions and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;It is
generally considered acceptable in a religious society to teach children that
God will reward them for obedience to their elders, and punish them for
disobedience.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;However, we
cannot put only &lt;i&gt;children&lt;/i&gt; into the category of &amp;ldquo;mentally deficient,&amp;rdquo;
since there are those with impaired mental faculties either due to a physical
brain problem or injury, or due to age- or illness-related deterioration.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Let us take
the example of mentally challenged individuals with Down&amp;rsquo;s syndrome.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Imagine that
a home for such individuals existed, run by a man named Bob. Every morning, Bob
reminds his bewildered and mentally challenged wards that the air is full of
invisible demons who will attack their brains, eyes, teeth and tongues if they &lt;i&gt;ever&lt;/i&gt;
disobey one of Bob&amp;rsquo;s Commandments. Even if they are slow to obey, these demons will
attack them in their dreams, and suck out their life essence, and spit it into
a lake of fire, where it will burn for eternity. Every morning, they must get
on their knees and plead for Bob&amp;#39;s good opinion, otherwise he might butcher all
of them by drowning them in toilets, as he did once before when he was offended&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We could go
on and on, but I think that we all understand that this would be verbal and
emotional abuse of the very worst and most destructive kind. The traumatized mentally
challenged victims of such a nightmare environment would not be able to
differentiate Bob&amp;#39;s terrifying tales from actual reality, and would live in
abject terror, and we would consider it a staggeringly evil abuse of power for
Bob to verbally attack and mentally infect his victims in such a manner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;It&amp;#39;s hard to
imagine that we would judge the situation any differently if Bob ran a home for
elderly adults with dementia, and terrified old ladies in the same manner. In
either case, we would view Bob as a deranged sadist, lacking any shred of human
compassion for his victims, and our hearts would go out to the suffering that
he was inflicting through the vengeful power of his demonic language.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;(As a minor
tangent, this argument is exactly the same for spanking &amp;ndash; would we accept it as
morally valid to spank the elderly for their forgetfulness?)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Is religion
child abuse?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Yes, if it
is false. As it is.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Mentally
challenged individuals with Down&amp;#39;s Syndrome &amp;ndash; as well as most elderly people &amp;ndash;
are nowhere near as vulnerable as children, since most of them have adults
taking a significant interest in their long-term well-being.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;However,
when parents inflict demonic and terrifying tales of religious superstition on
the tender, trusting and dependent minds of their children, who will intervene to
save them?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Sadly, only
real philosophers, for the rest of the intellectual classes are too busy
inventing hiding places for the gods to intervene and save the children.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Power or Virtue? A Love
Story&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Almost all
deities are objects of worship, but it is hard to know with any certainty exactly
what is being worshiped. Certainly gods are very powerful &amp;ndash; infinitely powerful,
in most formulations &amp;ndash; but I have never met a religious person who worships
only the power of his God. No, it is always the &lt;i&gt;virtue&lt;/i&gt; of God that is
worshiped; the power is merely incidental.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;However, the
virtue of a deity is problematic on many levels.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If human
beings only ever wanted to eat the food that was best for them, we would have no
need for the science of nutrition. Our desire for fats and sugars drives the
need for nutritional information and discipline, just as our desire for energy
conservation drives the need for information about exercise. If we could all automatically
do any mathematical calculation in our heads, we would not need to be taught
mathematics, and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;All human
disciplines thus arise to counter desires which run against our best long-term interests.
The balancing of long and short-term interests is the very essence of wisdom &amp;ndash; the
short-term hit of a cigarette versus the long-term risk of lung cancer, the
short-term emotional relief of verbal abuse versus the long-term harm to our
relationships, to name just two examples.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The
discipline of &lt;i&gt;ethics&lt;/i&gt; is no different.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The need for
virtue in humanity arises out of mortality, and weakness, and temptation, and
relative powerlessness &amp;ndash; none of which concerns God in any way. Would God need
to be courageous, if He was all-powerful? It&amp;rsquo;s hard to see how. Would He need
to remind himself to be honest, if He could suffer no negative consequences for
his honesty? Would He find it challenging to resist the temptations of peer
pressure? He is peerless, of course!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In many
video games, there is a secret &amp;ldquo;god mode,&amp;rdquo; which allows players to stroll
through the game without taking any damage from enemies, usually with infinite
ammunition and pixel-shredding weapons. I can&amp;#39;t imagine thinking that a player
was really good if he completed a game in &amp;ldquo;God mode&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; in fact, I can&amp;#39;t imagine
why he would bother. In the same vein, if Mike Tyson in his prime were to jump
into a boxing ring with a five-year-old girl, and beat her senseless, it would
be hard to admire his athletic prowess.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Can we
admire the virtue of a being who has no need for virtue? That would be like
admiring someone for not smoking, though he had never been exposed to
cigarettes, or praising the sensible fish-based diet followed by a man marooned
on a desert island.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Worshiping a
God for His virtue is like admiring a man in a coma for refraining from
alcoholism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;God and Virtue?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Even if we
put all of this aside, the question still remains: how do we know that God is
virtuous?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If we are at
all interested in efficiency &amp;ndash; and as mortal beings it must have some interest
to us &amp;ndash; the first place we look for virtue is &lt;i&gt;consistency with stated
principles&lt;/i&gt;. This does not automatically prove virtue, since those stated
principles might be immoral &amp;ndash; but it does mean that we can at least check for
hypocrisy before venturing further.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Thus
integrity is a necessary &amp;ndash; but not sufficient &amp;ndash; criterion for virtue.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If we want
to lose weight, and go to a bookstore, and see 50 diet books on the shelf, how
likely are we to choose the diet book written by a fat author? Would such a
book not more properly belong in the comedy section? &amp;ldquo;Ah,&amp;rdquo; you may say, &amp;ldquo;but
the fact that an author is fat does not automatically invalidate his diet.&amp;rdquo;
That is certainly true, but so what? Life is short, decisions are endless, and
we cannot investigate every conceivable claim. It is enough to know that a fat
dietitian either &lt;i&gt;is&lt;/i&gt; following his own diet, in which case it will be
unlikely to help us lose weight, or he is promoting a diet that he himself does
not follow, which calls his judgment into question, to say the least. Either
way, we move on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The same
principle applies to ethics.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If a man constantly
preaches the virtue of helping others in need, and then steps over a man
bleeding to death in a gutter, we cannot reasonably praise his integrity. While
we may agree with him that helping others in need is morally good, his actions
inform us that &lt;i&gt;he&lt;/i&gt; does not agree with his own moral arguments.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Most
religions explicitly state that helping others in need is morally good &amp;ndash; think of
the parable of the Good Samaritan in the New Testament. However, since gods do
not exist, and so cannot intervene, religions have the rather challenging task
of explaining why their &amp;ldquo;moral&amp;rdquo; God does not help those in need. If it is
immoral for travelers on the road to ignore a bleeding man, when it will cost
them both time and resources to help him, is it not infinitely more immoral for
God to refrain from helping, when it will cost God neither time nor resources,
since He has an infinity of both?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We could go
on &lt;i&gt;ad nauseum&lt;/i&gt; with these examples, such as the genocidal habits of the
Old Testament deity, contrasted with His commandment &amp;ldquo;Thou Shalt Not Kill,&amp;rdquo; but
I&amp;#39;m sure you get the general point.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If we are
wise, we do not take a man&amp;rsquo;s claim that he is virtuous at face value, but will ask
first about the &lt;i&gt;contents&lt;/i&gt; of his moral beliefs, and then about his
practical consistency with those values. A man can only be considered virtuous
when he has good values, and strives for and achieves reasonable consistency
with those values. If he has bad values, clearly he cannot be virtuous, just as
if he has good values but does not act on them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Gods command
men to fight evil, but gods allow evil in the world. Gods prohibit killing, but
gods kill. Gods command their followers not to judge others, but gods judge. Gods
punish the predetermined actions of people, which shows about as much maturity
and wisdom as jailing a cell phone. Gods continually act in direct
contradiction to their own stated moral values, which is a hallmark of great &lt;i&gt;immorality&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A man raised
by wolves who has no conception of ethics may be forgiven for stealing; a man
who preaches respect for property is fully responsible if he steals, because he
has already displayed his knowledge of ethics. We would not fault a waiter for
failing to perform an emergency tracheotomy; a doctor would far more
responsible, since he possesses the necessary knowledge to help.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Thus it is hard
to understand exactly what is being worshiped when a God is being praised. Is
it power? But power is morally neutral at best, and while it may elicit awe or
deference, it cannot be morally worshiped in and of itself. Is it virtue? But
we have only the God&amp;#39;s &lt;i&gt;word&lt;/i&gt; that He is virtuous, which is exactly what
would we would expect from a hypocritical con artist bent on praising himself only
to arouse admiration and obedience in us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The whole
question of virtue gets buried under the contradictory kaleidoscope of
justifications for religion. Theists are faced with the impossible task of
attempting to justify primitive and brutal superstitions according to modern
moral and scientific sensibilities. The more intelligent among them know that
this is impossible, so they create a bewildering miasma of contradictions,
foggy stall tactics, bizarre combinations of moral relativism for adults (&amp;ldquo;this
passage is metaphorical&amp;rdquo;) and abusive absolutism for children (&amp;ldquo;Jesus died for
your sins!&amp;rdquo;).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The Costs of False Ethics&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Our
acceptance of these tactics &amp;ndash; which would be laughed out of the room in any
other human discipline &amp;ndash; has come at a truly catastrophic cost to our moral
development and understanding as a species.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Over the
past 2,500 years, we have advanced in almost every human discipline &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;except&lt;/i&gt;
ethics.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Despite our
staggering advances in technology, medicine, physics, biology, engineering &amp;ndash;
and almost any other field you would care to name &amp;ndash; our progress in moral
philosophy has not changed since the days &amp;ndash; and death &amp;ndash; of Socrates.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We still
have wars, and torture, and child abuse, and national debts, and the forced
indoctrination of the young &amp;ndash; and we cannot come to any moral standards that
can be generally accepted by reasonably intelligent people the world over. We
despise theft, and then accept taxes &amp;ndash; we despise murder, and praise soldiers &amp;ndash;
we tell our children not to use force, and then we use government force to &amp;lsquo;educate&amp;rsquo;
them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The original
formulation of ethics was to create a set of rules, to encourage people to
follow those rules &amp;ndash; even if they did not understand them &amp;ndash; and to punish
transgressors with imprisonment and fines in the here and now, and eternal
damnation in the hereafter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The threat
of secular retribution from the state, combined with the hope for internal
guilt and self attack from religion, was the best that could be achieved when
humanity was still convinced that the Earth was flat, trees had souls and the
world rested on an infinity of giant turtles.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Nothing has
changed in any fundamental way since the dawn of thought. We still encourage
people to be &amp;ldquo;good&amp;rdquo; by following social standards and mostly arbitrary laws,
and then violently attack them when they break the obviously arbitrary rules
that have been invented.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;To take a
simple example, to kill a man in the street is a great moral crime; to kill a
man on a battlefield is a great moral virtue. &amp;ldquo;No green costume&amp;rdquo; equals moral
evil &amp;ndash; &amp;ldquo;green costume&amp;rdquo; equals moral heroism. If one man tells you to murder, you
get a jail cell &amp;ndash; if another man tells you to murder, you get medals and a
pension.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Alternatively,
the initiation of force against a peaceful individual for the purpose of
removing his property is clearly theft when done in a dark alley; the taxation
policies of a great nation are, as the saying goes, &amp;ldquo;the price we pay to live
in a civilized society.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I cannot
lock my neighbor in my basement for making too much noise, but I can call the
police to lock him in jail if he grows certain vegetables in his basement,
which has far less effect on me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If I am
poor, and I steal food, I go to jail &amp;ndash; however, if I vote for politicians to
forcibly transfer other people&amp;#39;s wealth to me through the welfare state, I am
an engaged citizen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;These are
all paradoxes that every reasonably intelligent person has mulled over at one
time or another, but they have remained essentially unchanged for thousands of
years, and I would argue that this is largely due to religion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A false
answer &amp;ndash; particularly when it is highly profitable to liars &amp;ndash; is the ultimate
barrier to progress in human thought. Religion is the worst possible answer to
the question of ethics, since it is not an answer at all, but merely a threat
based on falsehoods.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;One of the
reasons that medieval economics remained so primitive and unproductive was the
Guild system, which required many years of poorly paid labor to learn even the
most simple and menial of tasks. Those who had already passed through the
system made more money individually than they would have if the system had been
suddenly abandoned, and free competition had opened up. The older and wealthier
members of society thus continued to block free competition from the young, and
while they may have maintained their own income in the short run, they killed economic
growth in the long run, which was to their own detriment, and the detriment of
their children of course.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The threat
was punishment from the state, the lie was that seven years of apprenticeship
were necessary to become, say, a bricklayer &amp;ndash; and so society stagnated at near
starvation levels for almost a thousand years, until the shortage of labor that
arose from the Black Death began to unravel the Guild system.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the same
way, the &amp;ldquo;moral teaching&amp;rdquo; of religion is only a threat &amp;ndash; secular punishment from
the state, eternal punishment from God &amp;ndash; based on a series of lies, i.e. that
gods exist, are moral, and must be obeyed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The
institutionalization and profitable exploitation of this system has effectively
barred philosophers from examining morality from a rational and secular
standpoint. Either philosophers are religious (or afraid of the religious), in
which case they tend to avoid attacking fundamental moral problems, for fear of
arousing attack &amp;ndash; or philosophers are statists (or afraid of the government),
in which case they tend to avoid attacking fundamental moral problems, for fear
of arousing attack.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Those who
work for churches would view any rational system of secular ethics as a direct
threat to their income and position, the same goes for those who work for the
state.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Thus &amp;ldquo;right-wingers&amp;rdquo;
tend to be more in favor of a smaller state, but are very religious; &amp;ldquo;left-wingers&amp;rdquo;
tend to be more skeptical of religion and secular in nature, but tend to be
more in favor of a larger state.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Choose your
poison&amp;rdquo; seems to be our only approach to solving moral problems.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Any society which
relies on false and contradictory morality &amp;ndash; and all societies currently fall
into this category &amp;ndash; &amp;nbsp;must substitute aggression for argument in the
instruction of children. A child who asks why a soldier gets a medal for
killing in a war, when he would be thrown in jail in peacetime, can receive no
sane and rational answer, for none exists. Parents, priests and teachers seem
to be fundamentally averse to saying that they do not know the answer to this
question, or any of the other hundreds of ethical questions posed by children.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Because we
do not know the answer to these questions, we must threaten children in order
to throw them off the scent, so to speak. This may be overt, or more subtle,
through exasperated sighs, rolling one&amp;#39;s eyes, and rolling out the tired old
bromide that the child will understand when he gets older.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;False moral
principles are the foundation for the greatest edifices of human society &amp;ndash; the state,
the military, the police, the church, public schools and so on. Since these
enormous and powerful institutions rest on ridiculous and indefensible moral
contradictions, to persist in questioning these principles is to take an axe to
the base of the tree of the world. The entire profit and sense of human society
sits like an enormous inverted pyramid on a few shaky and trembling &amp;ndash; and false
&amp;ndash; ethical axioms.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Our lack of
progress in solving moral problems without using aggression is entirely
attributable to the confusing infections of religiosity. Just as it took a
secular mind to solve the problem of biological evolution, it will take a
secular mind to solve the problem of secular, rational and scientific ethics.
However, any theory that defers to religion must inevitably create a central
vortex of wild irrationality that it must skip around, distorting and ruining the
theory as a whole.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the same
way, any theory that defers to statism, taxation and war creates exactly the
same vortex, since it cannot ban the initiation of force to solve social
problems, yet it must ban the initiation of force to solve personal problems,
and so mealy-mouthed madness can only follow from such dismal and initial
compromises. &amp;ldquo;The initiation of force through taxation is moral, but the
initiation of force through theft is immoral&amp;hellip;&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;The initiation of force in war
is moral, the initiation of force without war is immoral&amp;hellip;&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;Public violence is
good, private violence is bad&amp;hellip;&amp;rdquo; etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This is why
the modern coterie of secular atheists will never be able to solve the problem
of ethics, since they remain wedded to the state &amp;ndash; to the initiation of force &amp;ndash;
as a central moral axiom within society. Thus Sam Harris says that we need to
solve the problem of war by creating a world government, while Richard Dawkins
remains fundamentally unable to criticize the state, since he is fundamentally
an employee of the state, while Christopher Hitchens is still recovering from
his totalitarian Marxist impulses, and continues to praise the obviously unjust
and immoral Iraq war (though in charity we can safely assume that results more
from his family military history than any objective judgement).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;It seems
enormously difficult to overcome our own prejudices, and the historical errors
that seem almost to have been embedded into our very DNA. It may be too much to
ask for true originality in solving these problems, but we should at the very
least ask for an avoidance of the false answers that have so repetitively failed
for the past 2,500 years.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We may not
yet know the right way to go, but we should at least stop going in the wrong
direction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Why Gods?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;It is
helpful, but not essential, for atheism to explain why the concept of gods is
so widespread and prevalent among mankind. The 10,000 or so gods that lie
scattered across the past and present cultures of our species must represent
some form of universal content or meaning for this fantasy to be so widespread.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In general,
religion has gone through four major phases &amp;ndash; the first was &lt;i&gt;animism&lt;/i&gt;, or
the idea that every rock and leaf and tree was imbued with a spiritual force.
In this approach, a farmer would profusely apologize to a rock before moving it
out of the way of his plow. It is fairly easy to understand that this arose
from a fundamental confusion between what is living and what is not, or what
has consciousness, and what does not. A man who thinks that a rock deserves an
apology lives in an extremely primitive state of mind, wherein the division
between his own consciousness and inanimate matter has not yet been
established. My 18 month old daughter is losing the habit of saying hello to
the toilet, and her bath, and her toes, which gives you a sense of how
primitive this phase is.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the
second phase of religion, the distinction between living and not living becomes
established, and a multiplicity of deities that are specifically and thoroughly
anthropomorphic take refuge somewhere above the clouds, or on the peak of a mountain,
sucking up in their wake all of the projected consciousness that formerly
resided in rocks and trees and rivers. This is a vast improvement in accuracy &amp;ndash;
not to mention sanity &amp;ndash; in that the differentiation between conscious and
unconscious becomes established in a much wider sphere.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the third
phase, the warring multiplicity of gods is in a sense hunted down, rounded up
and herded into one big squirming bag of pseudo-monotheism. The former glorious
ribaldry of the ancient Greek religions becomes diluted and caged into a
tyrannical hierarchy of a single, inhuman and utterly abstract God. This phase
contains a variety of insurmountable tensions, which inevitably fragment the
new monotheism into an even more bizarre version of the older polytheism, such
as the Holy Trinity and the thousands of saints.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the
fourth phase, religion becomes a set of more or less convincing fairy tales,
wherein obedience to a complete text is not required, but followers can pick
and choose what they like, according to their own personal preferences and
tastes, and God is turned into a sort of ideological lapdog, which trails after
the prejudices of the believer, imbuing his own personal bigotries with a vague
glow of eternal approval.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In all these
phases, there is a deep and consistent sense of a vast and powerful
consciousness that lies outside the range of our conscious ego, which contains
deep and mysterious elements of eternity; which existed before us, and will
continue to exist after us, which informs and guides many if not most of our
decisions, reveals its purposes and intentions through visions and dreams,
frustrates our vices and supports our virtues, and responds indirectly and metaphorically
to abasement and supplication.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;It is scarcely
a novel insight to point out that our minds are divided between our conscious
ego and our subconscious. Our conscious ego needs little explanation; it is the
self aware part of us that responds to willpower, focus, attention, and has direct
access to the memories that we have accumulated in our lifetimes. It is a
precise and astoundingly powerful tool that in a very real sense can be called
the most mortal part of ourselves, since it grows and develops with us, and
will certainly die with us, as will all of our personal memories.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;However,
there exists below consciousness, or surrounding consciousness, the &lt;i&gt;subconscious&lt;/i&gt;,
whose processing power dwarfs the puny efforts of our conscious mind, and which
also contains an element of eternity within itself. Our conscious memories are
specific to our own lives, as are our more conscious choices and plans. I may
dream at night of something I experienced that day, but the capacity for the
experience of dreaming is not something that I have chosen, but rather
something that my subconscious mind has developed and inherited and refined
over millions of years.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The subconscious
mind, which controls everything from our heart rate to our breathing to the
increasing uneasiness we experience when in a dangerous situation we have not
yet noticed consciously, is like an eternal guardian angel &amp;ndash; or avenging devil
if we have done evil &amp;ndash; which is constantly prodding us with interfering
emotions and sensations, discouraging us with fear and guilt, spurring us on
with desire and pleasure, lecturing us about our choices in nightly dreams,
whipping us on with short-term lust while simultaneously cautioning us with
fears about the long-term stability of our sexual partners &amp;ndash; to name just a
few.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;When we
think of religion, we think of a puny consciousness &amp;ndash; that of man &amp;ndash; embedded in
an eternal, infinite and seemingly omniscient consciousness which never shows
itself directly, but which takes an enormous interest in us, and evaluates our
choices and preferences, and rewards us and punishes us, and responds in
maddeningly oblique ways to our direct and painful supplications.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Gods are
also experienced as existing before us, and living on after us, which directly
relates to the quasi-eternal nature of the subconscious, which existed prior to
our conscious mind and memories even in the individual, and which is the
ancient foundation upon which the temple of our ego was built.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The mind of
God is also considered to be vastly superior to that of man &amp;ndash; is this not also
an exact description of the subconscious, whose processing power has been
estimated as 7,000 times that of the conscious mind?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Man is
considered to be a creation of God, and God is a deep and eternal consciousness
that has existed forever &amp;ndash; is this not an exact description of the relationship
between the conscious ego and the subconscious? As a species, and in our own
lives, our ego evolves out of our subconscious, which is why we cannot remember
our very early years. I have an arm which I can call my arm in a sense, but it
is not really my arm, because it existed before I experienced an &amp;ldquo;I.&amp;rdquo; My arm
preceded me, since it developed in the womb &amp;ndash; and my ego had no part in its
planning or creation, but rather my ego grew out of my body, many years later.
My arm, my body and my subconscious existed before me, and certainly my body
will exist after me, though my ego will not be around to watch it decompose.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Thus when we
say that man is created by God, what we really mean is that the ego is created
by the body, which precedes the ego both individually and collectively. My arm
preceded my consciousness by years, and human arms in general preceded my
particular arm by millions of years. It is in this sense that we are in fact
created by an eternal pattern that precedes us, however primitively we may have
anthropomorphized this basic truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The subconscious
&amp;ndash; like monotheism &amp;ndash; also resists the imposition of a singular identity, no
matter how fervently desired. The subconscious contains a vast multiplicity of
alter egos, various aspects of the conscious mind designed to fit into whatever
hierarchy wraps around us in the moment &amp;ndash; as well as the multiple alter egos of
those around us, those who raised us and taught us and, perhaps, harmed and
abused us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;To take an
obvious example, when I was a child I had a teacher who was a bully, and this
teacher would immediately become servile when the principal came into the
classroom &amp;ndash; I have within my subconscious not only this teacher as an
individual, but this teacher as a personality with multiple alter egos. I have
my own alter egos, as well at the alter egos of thousands of other people I
have met over the course of my life, which is why, since religion is merely a
superstitious description of our subconscious, monotheism can never hold.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Things which
do not work generally do not last, which is why few of us indulge in rain
dances anymore when we really want a downpour. There is something in religion,
though, which &lt;i&gt;does&lt;/i&gt; work, despite its obvious falsehoods, and my argument
is that what works is the act of asking a superior intelligence for guidance
and wisdom. The simple fact is that people who pray often &lt;i&gt;do&lt;/i&gt; experience
a response, and the obvious and empirical answer is that they are asking for
wisdom from their own subconscious, which responds in its usual oblique yet
amazingly accurate fashion. A man who asks God for an answer is asking his subconscious
for advice, and anyone who has spent any significant time on the couch of a
good therapist, examining his dreams and his feelings and his impulses, sooner
or later understands the power, fertility and objectivity of the subconscious &amp;ndash;
and once this is understood, the accuracy and utility of religion is revealed.
The clarity and precision of the conscious mind requires no explanation, since
we experience it countless times every day &amp;ndash; the wisdom and astounding parallel
processing power of the subconscious is largely only available to those who
approach it on bended knee, with humility and patience and bottomless
curiosity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This is not
to say, however, that religion is a form of self-knowledge, or that grandiose
superstitions are somehow equivalent to humble introspection. It is certainly
true that among those already predisposed to gentleness, virtue and courage,
the impulses returned from the subconscious can truly aid them in achieving and
maintaining these admirable virtues &amp;ndash; but as we all know, these are not the
only kinds of people in the world. I get many messages from religious people
who tell me that although I am not a believer, their God loves me. While I
certainly do appreciate these warm sentiments, I cannot afford to take them
very seriously, because what would I say if they wrote to tell me that their
God hated me for my unbelief, as the Bible says? If I accept irrational love, I
cannot very well reject irrational hatred. There is an enormous difference between
humbly consulting wise but hard to access aspects of myself, and believing that
I am receiving divine commandments from a perfect and all-powerful intelligence
outside myself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The essence
of self-knowledge is &lt;i&gt;negotiation&lt;/i&gt;, the recognition that every aspect of
the self has a valid seat at the table, and deserves to be heard, but that none
shall rule. Some people think of this as a democracy of the self, but I think
that is a tragically inaccurate and destructive way to look at it, because in a
democracy, the government always has the final say, and enforces its will
through the force of law. It is infinitely more accurate and healthy to say
that what is required is a stateless state of mind, or the anarchy of the self,
where all is negotiation, and no final arbiter can enforce decisions. The
discomfort generated by refusing to promote an inner dictator &amp;ndash; even temporarily
&amp;ndash; to a position of final authority can be extreme, particularly since we are
raised in such horribly authoritarian structures &amp;ndash; school, church, so often the
family &amp;ndash; yet it is necessary for us to progress as a species to a more peaceful
world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The closest current
analogy to the anarchy of self is the voluntarism of free-market, without
government, where wealth and authority may ebb and flow, but all is negotiation
and peaceful interaction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Religion
supports the promotion of the subconscious to a position of ultimate and final
authority, since it worships the subconscious as a God, which is extremely
dangerous, since no aspect of the self should ever be a tyrant in the mind of a
healthy man, just as no single muscle in the body should dominate all other
muscles. We require a highly complex interplay of hundreds of muscles even to
walk &amp;ndash; when one muscle becomes dominant, we call that a cramp, and consider it
an extremely uncomfortable situation that needs to be alleviated at once.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In more
extreme cases, a man who prays to an imaginary being will hear voices in his
head telling him what to do, and religion supports the idea that these voices
come from a god, not a horribly damaged part of his own psyche, with all the
resulting disasters that can occur from such a tragic misapprehension. It is
true that the more gentle among the religious reject the theological validity
of those who claim to hear voices coming from God, yet they are on a slippery
slope when they take such a noble stand, since if they perceive their contemporaries
to be mentally ill for hearing voices and believing in gods, what are they to
make of those who wrote their holy texts? Few modern Christians would kneel
before a man claiming to be the reincarnation of Jesus Christ, but rather would
suggest that he would benefit from the services of a mental health practitioner
&amp;ndash; would they say the same to Jesus himself? Most Christians would say that
Jesus performed miracles, but there is no evidence for this of course, other
than the hearsay of other people who were doubtless equally mentally ill. If I
said that Christians should worship a friend of mine because he performed
miracles that only I could see, would they agree? It is impossible to imagine
that they would.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The
religious also believe that gods watch and judge us, and this seems entirely in
accordance with the subconscious reality of a conscience. A conscience is
nothing terribly complex; it is simply the extrapolation of our stated
principles into universals, followed by the comparison of our actions to these
universals. If I hit my daughter while telling her not to hit others, this
basic contradiction &amp;ndash; or perhaps more accurately revolting hypocrisy &amp;ndash; is instantly
noted and retained by my subconscious. I will as a result distinctly feel that
there is something wrong with what I am doing, which will either propel me to
examine my own hypocrisy, or redouble my attacks upon my daughter for her
imagined transgressions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If I act on
impulse, and then invent endless &lt;i&gt;ex post facto &lt;/i&gt;justifications for my
actions, with reference to universal principles, then I become a bewildering,
dangerous and annoying hypocrite to those around me. I cannot act with any
integrity, because I have erected high and thorny walls between the various
aspects of myself that need to come together so that I can act with reasonable consistency.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Unfortunately,
philosophy emerged from religion in much the same way that mankind evolved from
fetid swamp dwellers, with the result that principles were invented to excuse
evil and elevate hypocrisy to the status of virtue. For instance, the Bible
commands believers to refrain from murder, but the god considered to be all
virtuous kills virtually the entire world in a fit of rage. This kind of
staggering hypocrisy requires a vast amount of verbal fencing and befogging to avoid.
Rationalizing the irrational was the original basis of philosophy, which is why
to create a philosophy based on reason and evidence is such a radical project.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnosticism and Cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I have often
argued that agnostics are cowards, and I would like to make that case here.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;First of all,
I do not consider the position &lt;i&gt;itself&lt;/i&gt; to be cowardly, but rather if
superior and irrefutable strong atheist arguments are consistently rejected in
favor of the mental fog of agnosticism, I consider that cowardly and enormously
destructive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We cannot be
reasonably criticized for not adhering to knowledge we have yet to learn. Was
an 18th-century physician negligent for failing to prescribe a cure that had
not yet been invented? Of course not &amp;ndash; but we would condemn a 21st-century physician
for such malpractice. I would not criticize my 18 month old daughter for
deliberately pouring juice on the carpet, an act I would consider wilfully
aggressive on the part of an adult guest.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Thus if you
are an agnostic, but have not yet heard the arguments in this book, please do
not think that I am calling you a coward &amp;ndash; if that even means anything to you &amp;ndash;
but after you have heard these arguments, if you cannot refute them, and still
cling to your irrational position, then that is certainly the label I will
apply to you, since you will have earned it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The basic
tenet of agnosticism is that no positive statements about truth can be made
because some contradictory evidence may exist in this or some other universe.
There is so much that is wrong with this position that it is hard to know even where
to start, so let&amp;#39;s start with something quite simple, and then work up to the
more complex objections.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;First of
all, agnosticism is always and forever specific only to the existence of
deities. I have never once heard an agnostic argue that we cannot call rape
wrong because it might be right in some other universe. I recently had a debate
on agnosticism with a staunch antigovernment libertarian, who argued that we
could not say there were no gods because gods might exist in some other
universe. I then asked him how he could assert that governments were immoral,
because they might be moral in some other universe? He replied that governments
have specific properties, which I did not particularly understand, and I
replied that gods also have specific properties, which is why we use the word &amp;ldquo;gods&amp;rdquo;
rather than &amp;ldquo;spoon,&amp;rdquo; or &amp;ldquo;aglet,&amp;rdquo; or &amp;ldquo;spork,&amp;rdquo; or &amp;ldquo;tine.&amp;rdquo; He did not respond to
this, but I think the point is very clear. If the possible existence of
alternate universes where truth equals falsehood invalidates any positive
declaration of truth, then this applies &lt;i&gt;universally&lt;/i&gt;, and not
specifically only to gods. I have never heard an agnostic argue for the
potential existence of Santa Claus in some other universe, or leprechauns, or
square circles, or two and two making five. I have never seen a scientist
rejecting the claim that the world is round because in another universe, it
might be shaped like a banana.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We can all
imagine how offensive it would be for a man to argue that we cannot call rape
immoral, or attempt to prevent and punish it, because it might be virtuous in
some other dimension &amp;ndash; such a man would be obviously attempting to deal with
his own psychological problems by creating some nonsensical and fogging
philosophical junkyard of confusion. Have you ever heard an agnostic argue that
child molesting priests should not be punished, or morally criticized, because
child rape might be beneficial to kids in some other universe? We would view
such ghastly equivocation as the sign of a bad conscience, and quite possibly a
mental illness.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnosticism
also faces the problem of the &amp;ldquo;null comparison.&amp;rdquo; In computer languages,
variables can be created called &amp;ldquo;variants,&amp;rdquo; which can contain any type of data,
from pictures to videos to numbers &amp;ndash; the memory clipboard on your computer,
used for copying and pasting just about anything, is an example of this. If you
ask a computer to tell you whether the number two is equivalent to a &amp;ldquo;variant,&amp;rdquo;
the computer will tell you that this cannot be done, because you cannot be sure
that the variant is in fact a number. If I ask you whether the number two is
equal to &amp;ldquo;X,&amp;rdquo; where &amp;ldquo;X&amp;rdquo; can be anything in the universe &amp;ndash; or nothing at all &amp;ndash;
you will tell me that this fundamentally does not compute, and might wonder
what kind of bizarre game I was up to.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Is Susie an
&amp;lsquo;X&amp;rsquo;?&amp;rdquo; There is no way to know &amp;ndash; if &amp;ldquo;X&amp;rdquo; equals &amp;ldquo;female&amp;rdquo; then yes. If X. equals &amp;ldquo;asteroid&amp;rdquo;
then the answer is quite likely no. The question as it stands cannot be
answered. This does not mean that Susie can be anything &amp;ndash; this does not mean
that Susie might be an asteroid as well as a female human being as well as a
magical unicorn, a square circle and the pot of gold at the end of a
leprechaun&amp;rsquo;s rainbow.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;You cannot
compare anything to an unknown &amp;ldquo;X&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; particularly something with known
properties. The concept &amp;ldquo;deity&amp;rdquo; has specific properties, and cannot rationally
be compared to some unknown alternate universe, about which we know nothing at
all &amp;ndash; the ultimate &amp;ldquo;X.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Thus the
statement that gods might exist in an alternate universe is completely invalid,
and entirely self-contradictory, since we are claiming to have some knowledge
of existence and the specific properties of gods in some alternate universe
about which we fully admit we know absolutely nothing, not even whether it
exists. (Even the statement &amp;ldquo;an alternate universe may exist&amp;rdquo; is completely
invalid, because existence is a property of &lt;i&gt;our&lt;/i&gt; universe, and since we
know nothing about an alternate universe, we cannot use the term &amp;ldquo;existence&amp;rdquo; to
refer to anything about it.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Closing the Open Door&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Imagine that
you drive over to a friend&amp;rsquo;s house to pick him up to go to a movie. You knock
on the door, and he opens it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Let&amp;#39;s go,&amp;rdquo;
you say.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;He
hesitates. &amp;ldquo;I can&amp;#39;t go through that door,&amp;rdquo; he says.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Why not?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;He purses
his lips and shakes his head. &amp;ldquo;Because it might be closed in some alternate
universe...&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Would you
accept this as a rational and healthy statement on the part of your friend?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Of course
not. You would try to get him some professional help. You would be particularly
concerned that he opened the door in the first place &amp;ndash; thus indicating specific
knowledge about its status &amp;ndash; and only then got all foggy about whether it was
opened or closed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;But this is &lt;i&gt;exactly
&lt;/i&gt;the position of agnostics! They open the door of reason and evidence in
order to nullify reason and evidence. They use a rational argument to say that
reason is invalid. They create evidence out of thin air which is the opposite
of existence and essentially say that no conclusions can be made because
existence might equal the opposite of existence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Why is this
so cowardly?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If the
agnostic position is valid, and if agnostics genuinely believe that no positive
conclusions can ever be achieved and maintained, then surely they have far more
important things to achieve in this world, relative to their values, then
haggling over possible sky ghosts in another universe.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Surely
agnostics should be virulently opposed to the existing justice system, which
puts a man in jail for life based on a videotape of him stabbing his wife to
death. This is a far more immediate reality than whether Zeus might exist in
Dimension X &amp;ndash; yet I have &lt;i&gt;never&lt;/i&gt; heard an agnostic say that we should
never send anyone to jail, because even if this man undoubtedly murdered his
wife in this dimension, he might not have murdered her in another dimension,
and so we cannot say for sure that he is guilty.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I have never
heard an agnostic refuse to go to a funeral, arguing that the deceased might
still be alive in another universe.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I have never
heard an agnostic refuse medical treatment, on the grounds that he might be
perfectly healthy in Dimension X, or that what cures him here might kill him &amp;ldquo;over
there.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I have never
borrowed money from an agnostic, and have him accept my argument that I do not
have to pay him back in this universe, since I might have already paid him back
in another universe, and so he cannot say for sure that he has not been repaid.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I have never
heard an agnostic tell a victim of abuse that she has no right to be upset,
because in another universe, she might not have been abused, or abuse might be
the opposite of abuse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;No,
agnostics never ever advocate these or a hundred million other absurd,
offensive and insane positions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Why not?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Why would
agnostics &lt;i&gt;only&lt;/i&gt; apply this kaleidoscopic and fogging &amp;ldquo;alternate universe&amp;rdquo;
theory to the most distant and incomprehensible of human conceptions &amp;ndash; that of
a deity &amp;ndash; and not to the far more egregious, immediate and important concerns
of human society?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The answer
is obvious &amp;ndash; because agnosticism would be revealed as absurd, offensive and
ridiculous if it were applied even remotely consistently.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;So the
question still remains &amp;ndash; why is the door left open only for gods, and nothing
else?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The answer
is equally obvious &amp;ndash; because agnostics are cowards.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnosticism and Fear&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The magic
fog machine of agnosticism only pumps its noxious gases into the religious
realm &amp;ndash; it&amp;rsquo;s like a cloud that miraculously wraps itself only around priestly
garments. The reason, of course, for the astounding specificity of the &amp;ldquo;alternate
universe&amp;rdquo; argument is that religious people tend to get upset, offended,
ostracizing and angry when told that God does not exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This has
little to do with the non-existence of God, but rather triggers all the
volatile emotions surrounding family, culture and community.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;When a
religious person is told that there is no God, what he hears is, &amp;ldquo;My parents
lied to me.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A man who is
told that there is no God no longer sees in the mirror a being with a glowing
soul, but a cramped sub-species of superstitiously (and surreptitiously) indoctrinated
livestock &amp;ndash; lied to, bullied and controlled for the sake of material money in
the here and now. He is revealed not as a free man, basking in the glory of the
divine, but a mere slave to the lies of the priests, fed crippling falsehoods and
fattened for the feast.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;People do
not really believe in gods, that is a basic reality of life &amp;ndash; they &lt;i&gt;say&lt;/i&gt;
that they believe in gods because they are afraid of being attacked by others
for expressing doubt, or thought. Religions are the ultimate case of the
emperor&amp;#39;s new clothes, an old fairy tale where thieving weavers pretend to make
a suit for the King, claiming that anyone who is unfit to his position will be
unable to see it. Naturally, everyone pretends to see the suit, and marvels at
its fine colors, until a boy on the street innocently asks why the King is
walking around naked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If you walk
up to a man and tell him that his parents lied to him about everything that is
true and good and right in the world, and sold his hide to thieving priests
because they were afraid to stand up for truth and virtue, naturally he will be
very, very upset.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Clearly,
this is why agnostics do their n-dimensional somersaults &amp;ndash; to avoid the anger,
offense and potential retaliation from the religious.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I have no
particular issue with people who do not want to step into the boxing ring of
philosophy &amp;ndash; not everyone is suited for these kinds of conflicts, and certainly
battling superstition is not a strict moral requirement. It can be
extraordinarily uncomfortable to experience the disorientation, bitter anger
and caustic ostracism shooting up from the deep well of discontent when you
shine down the light of reason and evidence. It is not for everyone, it is not
necessary, and one can live a virtuous and happy life without taking on this
kind of combat.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The world is
filled with countless wrongs that I do nothing to prevent or avenge &amp;ndash; I do
nothing to feed starving children in North Korea, and while I am unhappy that
they are starving, I recognize that I have chosen not to help them. I think
that I am doing my own part to advance the cause of truth, reason, virtue,
evidence and philosophy in the world, and I am very proud of my achievements in
these areas, but of course there are millions of wrongs I do nothing about, and
I recognize the reality of that, and do not seek to make excuses about my
choices.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Imagine that
immediately after I said that I was doing nothing to help the starving children
of North Korea, I immediately said, &amp;ldquo;But there is no reason to believe that
they are actually starving, because in some alternate universe, they might not
be hungry at all!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Would this
not be a rather bewildering statement for me to make? Why on earth would I need
to create an alternate universe in which North Korean children were not
starving?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Again, the
answer is blatantly obvious &amp;ndash; I need to create an alternate universe where
North Korean children are not starving because I am &lt;i&gt;extremely&lt;/i&gt; uncomfortable
with not feeding them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If I were at
peace with my decision, I would not need to create an alternate universe wherein
that decision would be unnecessary. It does not require a high level of
psychological sophistication to understand that if I am unfaithful to my wife,
and then I obsess over an alternate universe wherein I remain faithful to my
wife, that my obsession is driven by guilt and shame and a tortured desire to
have chosen differently in the past. It also is not the summit of psychological
insight to understand that I have a need to create an alternate universe
wherein I am faithful to my wife because I am fairly sure that I will be
unfaithful to her again in the future, and am preparing the way for another
transgression.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I do not
have conclusive empirical evidence for this, but I have certainly experienced
it during my many years of debating these issues, with friends and strangers
alike, but my strong belief is that agnostics are secular-minded people who
come from religious parents. Deep down, they fear &amp;ndash; and I would imagine not
unreasonably &amp;ndash; that their parents will choose God over them, if faced with such
a choice. This is a truly tragic situation, which I have not had to face
directly myself, and my heart goes out to people caught in this supernatural
trap. Agnostics and theists are caught in the endless and stagnant
merry-go-round of &amp;ldquo;let&amp;#39;s agree to disagree.&amp;rdquo; Agnosticism is a way of fencing
off a topic emotionally with a big cloudy fog bank upon which is inscribed the
blurry letters, &amp;ldquo;Don&amp;#39;t go there!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The fact
that agnostics only invoke alternate universes for gods indicates not that &lt;i&gt;I&lt;/i&gt;
think that agnostics are cowardly, but rather that they themselves are of this
opinion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I wish to
reiterate that I do not think that it is cowardly to avoid confrontation with
the religious &amp;ndash; I can perfectly well understand why someone who has a
reasonably good relationship with religious parents might wish to avoid
confrontations about the nonexistence of gods. However, honesty is the first
virtue, and the most important honesty is honesty with the self &amp;ndash; if that is
absent, everything that follows is false. The true reality for agnostics is
that they do not wish to anger or upset religious people &amp;ndash; I can understand
that, but that needs to be admitted. Failing that admission, agnostics need to
apply their &amp;ldquo;alternate universe&amp;rdquo; theories to everything, since it is a
principle of epistemology, or fundamental knowledge.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;To create a
singular exception to a universal rule for that which makes you uncomfortable,
rather than just admitting your discomfort, is dishonest and cowardly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If an
agnostic can honestly admit that he is afraid of confronting religious people,
then he does not need to continue slithering through the foggy gymnastics of
alternate universes and the certain knowledge of the uncertainty of knowledge.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Cowardice is
the avoidance of honesty, not danger. A man who says he did not join an army
because he was afraid of dying is being honest. A man who claims an imaginary
illness &amp;ndash; even to himself &amp;ndash; is a liar, who is obviously uncomfortable with his
own choices, and chooses to bewilder and confuse others rather than be honest
at least with himself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnosticism and Religion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Many
agnostics will claim courage because they ridicule and attack organized religion.
The fact that we cannot prove or disprove the existence of God, they say, has
profound implications for human theology, rendering any specifics about gods or
their properties utterly imaginary and foolish.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This,
however, does not hold logically. The alternate universe theory, as discussed
above, cannot be specific only to gods, but is a universal principle that
applies to everything. When the agnostic says, &amp;ldquo;We cannot disprove the
existence of gods,&amp;rdquo; he is really saying, &amp;ldquo;We cannot disprove the validity of
any statement.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This is the
fundamental crux of the matter. Agnosticism cannot be a principle if it only
applies to gods, and there is no logical reason why it should only apply to
gods, and so &lt;i&gt;no human statement or belief or perspective or prejudice or
bigotry can ever be proven or disproven&lt;/i&gt;, according to agnosticism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;For an
agnostic to say that organized religion is foolish runs entirely against the basic
principles of agnosticism. If I believe that my God is an invisible spider that
squats in my eardrum and whispers the truths of the universe only to me, how
can this possibly be contradicted according to agnosticism? In an alternate
universe, this could be exactly the case. The agnostic cannot say that this is
definitively false, for the moment that definitive falsehoods can be
identified, the alternate universe theory collapses.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This is what
is so tragic about agnosticism: agnostics often think that they are undermining
religious certainty, but the exact opposite is true. By saying that every
conceivable human perspective could be valid in some alternate universe,
agnostics raise rank subjectivism to the status of scientific objectivity, and
madness to rational skepticism. An agnostic cannot say to a racist that he is
wrong, because in some other universe, the despised race might in fact be
inferior! This failure to identify and apply objective and consistent
principles &amp;ndash; the very essence of philosophy &amp;ndash; not only drops any and all
rational defenses against subjective bigotries, but rather spurs them on, and
elevates them to the very heights of philosophical wisdom.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Finally,
agnosticism is a snake that eats itself. If we say that no human statement of
truth can ever be proven or disproven, what are we to make of that statement
itself? Isn&amp;rsquo;t this just another example of one of the oldest philosophical
piles of sophist nonsense, the statement: &amp;ldquo;Nothing is true.&amp;rdquo; Of course, if
nothing is true, the statement that nothing is true is false, which is a self-detonating
position.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the same
way that agnosticism creates this magical exception for the existence of gods,
it must also by the very logic of its principles create a magic exception for
its own arguments. The moment that we hear the word &amp;ldquo;except&amp;rdquo; in a philosophical
statement, we know that we are in the presence of Grade A nonsense. &amp;ldquo;Nothing is
true &amp;ndash; except this statement!&amp;rdquo; Meh, that isn&amp;#39;t even philosophy, that is just a
Mobius strip fortune cookie.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In the same
way, when agnostics affirm that no statement can be proven or disproven, are they
creating a magical exception for that statement? If so, on what basis do they
create this magical exception? If not, then do they recognize the
ridiculousness of their position?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The Misuses of History&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;When you are
inventing a new idea, using the word that describes its exact opposite is a
very bad idea. If I want to sell a dessert, I do not describe it as an
appetizer, a mountain or a virus. If I want to sell a map, I do not describe it
as a mystery novel, or switch North with South, East with West.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;A man who
wants to sell you something new, while describing it as something very old, is
very likely a con man, looking to pass off a new table as an antique, or a cheap
replica as the original.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnosticism
is a relatively modern phenomenon; avoiding the question of God&amp;#39;s existence is nothing
new, of course, but agnosticism attempts to hook into a lot of science,
particularly quantum physics, string theory and other multidimensional theoretical
models.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This is
little more than a transparent and obvious con.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Historically,
the word &amp;ldquo;God&amp;rdquo; has never meant, &amp;ldquo;things that may exist in other dimensions of
the multiverse, as described by modern physics.&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;God&amp;rdquo; has never referred to
some unknowable X factor,&amp;nbsp; Schr&amp;ouml;dinger&amp;#39;s cat, the unified field theory, the
cosmic craps player so derided by Einstein, or any of the other trappings of
modern science.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;No, let&amp;#39;s
not empty the word &amp;ldquo;God&amp;rdquo; of its true and original meaning, which was a cosmic
and spiritual father who created the universe, breathed life into mankind,
burns the wicked and saves the innocent, and so on. This meaty and monstrous superman,
this thunderbolt-hurling patriarch of our dim and brutal histories, this
frustrated and enraged slaughterer of rebels and sceptics &amp;ndash; this fearful and
omnipotent beast should not be reduced to some pale and conceptual ghost hiding
out in the dim theoretical alleys between the atoms.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Using the
word &amp;ldquo;God&amp;rdquo; to refer to some theoretical possibility of mind-bending modern
physics is to take a word steeped in the superstitious blood of our earliest
collective histories, and attempt to propel it like some time-bending slingshot
forward into the future &amp;ndash; an exercise in futility, since this old and very
brittle word cracks and collapses in the face of such insane velocity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;When it was
first discovered that the world was round and not flat, the word &amp;ldquo;flat&amp;rdquo; was not
enlisted to describe the newly discovered roundness. When ancient
mathematicians first invented the concept &amp;ldquo;zero,&amp;rdquo; they did not attempt to reuse
the number one to describe it &amp;ndash; for the simple and obvious reason that if you
attempt to use the same word to describe something very different, you will
spend the rest of your life trying to slice and dice peoples comprehension of
your meaning. &amp;ldquo;Wait, do you mean the word &amp;lsquo;one&amp;rsquo; to mean the old number one, or
the new symbol for zero?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;It is so
obviously inefficient to use the same word for opposite things &amp;ndash; or even
different things &amp;ndash; that we should be immediately suspicious when this problem
arises. A man who proposes calling his wife his mother, and his mother his
wife, is complicating not only his relationships, but also his psyche. A cab
driver who tries to start using the word &amp;ldquo;uptown&amp;rdquo; to mean &amp;ldquo;downtown&amp;rdquo; will
simply annoy his customers and lose his job.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The passionate,
visceral, crazed and dangerous deities of the ancient world were called &amp;ldquo;gods.&amp;rdquo;
The word refers to Stone Age superstitions, not modern theoretical definitions
of physics. &amp;ldquo;God&amp;rdquo; refers to not only a pre-scientific period, but an anti-scientific
and anti-rationalist stage of our development, if development is even the right
word. To the Egyptians of 6,000 years ago, the gods were living beings that you
prayed to, feared, obeyed, and slaughtered virgins for. They joined you in war,
contemplated healing you in sickness, cursed your enemies and strengthened your
offspring. They did not hide in some possible alternate universe, waiting for
almost 6,000 years for some scribbles on a mathematicians paper to reveal their
potential hiding place.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;We do not
see agnostics attempting to rehabilitate the phrase &amp;ldquo;human sacrifice&amp;rdquo; by
referring to it as a synonym for benevolence, because the strangeness,
irrationality and quite frankly psychological problems that would be revealed
by such a goal would be far too obvious.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Agnostics do
not strenuously advocate for the legalization of rape, arguing that it might be
moral in some other universe &amp;ndash; yet they strenuously oppose atheists who deny
the existence of God. This is a most strange position to see &amp;ndash; surely if evil
might equal good in some other universe, then violently banning evil in this
universe is utterly unjust! If certainty is impossible in this universe, then
surely we should start by opposing violently enforced certainties &amp;ndash; such as physical
self-defense &amp;ndash; rather than merely strongly worded opinions, such as the fact
that gods do not exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Yet oddly
enough agnostics slither right past violently enforced views such as the evils
of rape, murder, theft, parking in a handicapped zone, the non-payment of
property taxes, failing to come to a proper stop at a stop sign, speeding and
everything else. All these legally enforced perspectives are utterly ignored, although
they are inflicted with infinitely greater absolutism than a mere philosophical
argument &amp;ndash; and the agnostic reaches with open fingers for the throat of the mere
atheist!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;In other
words, the violent &lt;i&gt;enforcement &lt;/i&gt;of certain perspectives is perfectly
acceptable to the agnostic, but mere &lt;i&gt;arguments&lt;/i&gt; for other perspectives
must be aggressively and endlessly opposed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;This is why
I call agnosticism cowardice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;And if you
are still an agnostic, after reading and failing to rebut these arguments, you
have well earned the label.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:16.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;Conclusion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;The first
virtue is always honesty, and the first honesty is always with the self.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;I do not for
a moment imagine that agnostics have reached their conclusions by
dispassionately looking at the available arguments and evidence. Agnosticism &amp;ndash;
like determinism and other forms of self-detonating superstition, arises from a
fear of social attack, and a staunch denial of self-knowledge.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If you do
not have the stomach to encourage the potentially rational, expose the
irrational and condemn the anti-rational, you have nothing to be ashamed of. I
feel queasy at the sight of blood; I&amp;rsquo;d make a terrible surgeon &amp;ndash; but I know and
accept this fact, so I don&amp;rsquo;t need to recast my queasiness as other-dimensional
courage.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;If you are
afraid of sticking your neck out in this highly unprofitable realm, that&amp;rsquo;s
completely fine. If you&amp;rsquo;re scared of how others may react to the truth, that&amp;rsquo;s
natural, normal and healthy. Just &amp;ndash; accept that. We don&amp;rsquo;t all have to be good
at everything. Leave this heavy lifting to others. I don&amp;rsquo;t drill my own
cavities, and you can leave the perilous advancement of reason to the
philosophers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:12.0pt;line-height:115%;"&gt;All that we
ask is that you get out of the way.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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Hey - seriously - congratulations on your new political post! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
If you are reading this, it means that you have ascended to
the highest levels of government, so it&amp;#39;s really, really important that you don&amp;#39;t
do or say anything stupid, and screw things up for the rest of us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The first thing to remember is that you are a figurehead,
about as relevant to the direction of the state as a hood ornament is to the
direction of a car - but you are a very important distraction, the &amp;quot;smiling face&amp;quot;
of the fist of power. So hold your nose, kiss the babies, and just think how
good you would look on a stamp. A stamp, for mail... No, not email, &lt;i&gt;mail&lt;/i&gt;. Never mind, we&amp;#39;ll explain later.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Now, before we go into your media responsibilities, you must
understand the true history of political power, so you don&amp;#39;t accidentally act on
the na&amp;iuml;ve idealism you are required to project to the general public.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;Human Livestock - A History of Tax Farming&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
The reality of political power is very simple: bad farmers
own crops and livestock - good farmers own &lt;i&gt;human
beings&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This is not nearly as simple as it sounds, hence the need
for this manual.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The very first thing to remember is that you are a &lt;i&gt;mammal&lt;/i&gt;, an animal, and like all animals,
you want to maximize consumption while minimizing effort. By far the most
effective way to do this is to take from other people, just as a farmer takes
milk and meat from cows.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In the dawn of history, this predation occurred in the most
base manner, through brute cannibalism. While this may have proven effective in
the short run, it fell prey to the problem of consuming your seed crop, in that
it provided only a few meals, whilst re-growing more human livestock took over
a decade.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
And, it was pretty gross. Sometimes, even after you washed
your food, it was too smelly to eat. (Interesting fact: deodorant was first
invented as &lt;i&gt;marinade&lt;/i&gt;.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The husbandry of human ownership took a giant leap forward
with the invention of &lt;i&gt;slavery&lt;/i&gt;, which was
a step up from cannibalism because instead of using people &lt;i&gt;as&lt;/i&gt; food, it used people to &lt;i&gt;grow&lt;/i&gt;
food, which was a much more sustainable model, to say the least. And far less
smelly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Slavery was an improvement to be sure, but it limited the
growth of the ruling class because it could not solve the problem of &lt;i&gt;motivation&lt;/i&gt;. Turns out, if you treat
people like a machine, they end up with the motivation of a machine, which is
to break two days after the warranty ends, haha.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Anyhoo, the basic reality of human ownership is this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
1.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
First, you must first subdue the masses through
force&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
2.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
Then, you maintain that subjugation through the
psychological power of &lt;i&gt;ethics&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
People think that &lt;i&gt;ethics&lt;/i&gt;
were invented to make people good, but that&amp;#39;s like saying that chastity belts
were invented to spread STDs. No, no - ethics were invented to bind the &lt;i&gt;minds&lt;/i&gt; of the slaves, and to create the
only true shackles we rulers need: guilt, self-attack and a fear of the tyranny
of ethics. Whoever teaches ethics rules the herd, because everyone is afraid of
bad opinions, mostly from themselves. If you do it right, no judgment will be
as evil or endless as the one coming from the mirror.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This is all fairly straightforward - however, the ethics
required to control slaves requires the creation of a paradise after death that
they can look forward to, if only they continue to obey their masters. This
harvests the &lt;i&gt;muscles&lt;/i&gt; of the slaves,
but not their &lt;i&gt;minds&lt;/i&gt;, which remain
depressed and alienated and otherworldly and, well, economically fairly useless.
Basically, you&amp;#39;re saying &amp;quot;Hey, let&amp;#39;s double down, shall we? I&amp;#39;ll trade you
pretty much everything in this life for everything in the afterlife, mmmkay?&amp;quot;
It really only takes a moment&amp;#39;s thought to realize that anyone making that deal
has no belief in the afterlife - I mean, look at the gold palaces of the Pope,
for heaven&amp;#39;s sake! - but frankly, a moment&amp;#39;s thought appears to be a moment too
long for most people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Tragically, slavery had its limits. Slaves have to be
treated as apes that can be verbally commanded, which provides the ruling
classes sophisticated control over their &lt;i&gt;muscles&lt;/i&gt;,
but permanently breaks the most valuable resource of the human crop - their &lt;i&gt;minds&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The Roman Empire perfected the slave-owning model, but inevitably
ended up creating too many dependent slaves, which triggered the slow economic collapse
of the entire system. (For more on this, see the section on current conditions
below.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
After the Dark Ages, when the ruling classes had to suffer
the indignity of retreating into the dank attics of the Church, the feudal
model emerged.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The feudal approach improved on the direct slave-owning model
by granting the human livestock (&amp;quot;serfs&amp;quot;) nominal ownership over land, while
taking a portion of their productivity through taxes, military conscription, user
fees for grinding grain and so on. So instead of owning folks directly, we just
let them sweat themselves into puddles on their little ancestral plots, then
took whatever we wanted from the proceeds -- all the while telling them, of
course, that God Himself appointed us as masters over them, and that their
highest virtue was meek subservience to their anointed masters, blah blah.
Again, you might be thinking that, historically, God seems to have had a very
soft spot for the most violent, entitled and warlike of His flock - and if meek
submission was a virtue, why was it not practiced by the rulers, and so on, but
don&amp;#39;t worry; you need to just put these entirely natural thoughts right out of
your head, because once the people become enslaved, basic reasoning just
short-circuits in their tiny minds, so that they do not see the cramped horrors
of their little lives. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Anyway, the evolution of medieval serfdom split society into
four basic groups:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
1.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
The ruling class (aristocracy);&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
2.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
The church (propaganda);&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
3.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
The army (enforcement) - and;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
4.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
The serfs (livestock).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The aristocracy - of which you
are now a proud member - reaped the rewards; the Church controlled the slaves
through ethics; the Army attacked those not subjugated through ethics, and the Serfs
paid for the whole show. (The modern equivalents are: the political masters,
the media, the police and the taxpayers.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Since they had partial custodianship of the land, medieval
serfs had at least &lt;i&gt;some&lt;/i&gt; incentive to
optimize their agricultural productivity, and so starting from about the 12th
century, significant increases in farm production created the excess food
required for the development of cities, the natural home of the ruling classes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The economic development of cities remained dependent upon
the rediscovered Roman law, which was not a free market/private property legal
system, and so economic productivity remained relatively stagnant, at least
compared to the 18th century to the present.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Medieval guilds were ridiculously inefficient, forcing
father-to-son transmission of livelihoods, requiring ridiculously lengthy
apprenticeships designed to raise barriers to entry, denying advertising and
marketing opportunities, and so on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Furthermore, the Catholic Church had banned usury, or the
lending of money for interest, which prevented investment in economic
improvements. (This was largely due to the fact that the Church, and the
Aristocracy it served, did not want to pay interest on its debts.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
(All of these early economic inefficiencies hindered the
development of democracy, which requires enormous reserves of capital, used as
collateral to bribe voters in the present with the money of the future.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The splintering of Christendom into warring factions during
the Reformation created new opportunities for capital accumulation and loans,
and the economic warfare that resulted was really a conflict between medieval
capital inefficiencies and the new investment efficiencies available under
Protestantism - and Judaism to some degree. Naturally, the religion that was
able to borrow the most won, and lending money for interest became an
established practice throughout society, thus paving the way for the Industrial
Revolution.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Also, after hundreds of years of bloody religious warfare
where priests were effectively trying to gain control of the military might of
the state, in order to impose their doctrines on everyone else, the separation
of church and state became a matter of base survival. Prying religious
doctrines away from government policies meant that some vaguely rational
approaches to property rights and trade could be achieved, which gave rise to
arguments for free trade, notably by Ricardo and Adam Smith.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
When you stop trading in God, you can start trading in
goods.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Starting in the 17th century, the agricultural productivity
that the cities depended on began to falter. Serf landholdings were willed to
sons, which created increasing fragmentation of properties, and inevitable
inefficiencies in sowing and plowing. The ruling classes, eager to remain in
the cities rather than go back to the damp and dirty countryside, forced the
enclosure movement on the peasants, consolidating landholdings and driving
hundreds of thousands of serfs off their ancestral lands. This almost
immediately increased agricultural productivity, saving the cities - while creating
a massive army of cheap labor which, having no land to farm anymore, inevitably
ended up looking for work in towns.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The conditions were thus ripe for the Industrial Revolution
- capital freedom, a mass of cheap labor, some free trade, excess food, and the
growing religious skepticism which resulted from the wonderful advances of the
scientific method, followed since the 16&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; century.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
It was at some point during this period that the greatest
leap forward in human ownership came to pass, which was &lt;i&gt;the simple genius of allowing the livestock to choose their own
occupations&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
At one fell swoop, the problem of livestock motivation was largely
solved - at least until the present. Rather than eat the human livestock, or
own them directly, or force them into specific occupations, a free market was
created for the &lt;i&gt;source&lt;/i&gt; of wealth,
while the enslavement aspect was shifted to the &lt;i&gt;effects&lt;/i&gt; of wealth, i.e. wages and capital.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Labor was free, wages were taxed - this was the greatest
leap forward in human farming history! All prior ruling classes were revealed
as incompetent parasites, compared to the brilliant manipulations of the modern
human harvester!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The economic predations of the ruling classes still remained,
but became largely invisible. Tariffs and duties were buried in the prices paid
by consumers, who had no comparison prices to see their effects. The softening
of the visible whip to a kind of leeching fog gave the livestock the &lt;i&gt;perception&lt;/i&gt; of freedom - and they all
stampeded to work, to wealth, and to fatten our tables in a way we had never
dreamed possible!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The trapped entrepreneurial energies of the human herd were thus
unleashed for the first time in history, producing a staggering superabundance
of wealth and products and services, portions of which were hoovered up to the
ruling classes to a degree never before experienced!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The benefits were clear, the productivity increases
astounding - but the complications of managing this semi-free horde of human
livestock rose exponentially as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The first and greatest danger was the shift from &lt;i&gt;aristocracy&lt;/i&gt; to &lt;i&gt;meritocracy&lt;/i&gt;, or the reality that greater wealth could be
accumulated through trade and creativity rather than tax pillaging and the control
of state violence. (This was same danger faced by the Church in the shift from
superstition to science.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The rising entrepreneurial class created an uncomfortable
split within society, in which the benefits of the aristocracy began to be
openly questioned. Societies like America were founded without any aristocracy
at all - and aristocracies across Europe faced mounting rebellions, and
sometimes outright extinction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The aristocracy did not want to crush the entrepreneurial
class - since it was so wonderfully productive - but it could not allow itself
to be eclipsed by these entrepreneurs, and so another unnamed genius came up
with a delightfully playful solution called &lt;i&gt;incorporation&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The entrepreneurial classes wanted to maximize their
profits, of course, and sometimes this came at the expense of the workers. In
the early 19th century, citizens had access to a common law legal system that
allowed them to bring suit against their employers for death, mutilation,
pollution and so on. The capitalists wanted to avoid these legal attacks of
course, but no one wanted to explicitly strip the workers of these rights,
otherwise they would become aware of their enslavement, and would lose their
motivation, and we would be right back to the Middle Ages again, which no one
wanted at all!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Across the Western world, government after government
introduced the concept of &lt;i&gt;incorporation&lt;/i&gt;,
a brilliant stroke in the annals of human ownership! Incorporation created a
legal fiction called a &lt;i&gt;corporation&lt;/i&gt;
which shielded entrepreneurs, capitalists, managers and owners from most legal
repercussions for their misdeeds - and even losses within their businesses!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Entrepreneurs could now take money out of this &amp;quot;corporation&amp;quot;
and keep it for themselves, while if any legal action succeeded against them, or
their businesses lost money or went into debt, it was now the &amp;quot;corporation&amp;quot; and
&amp;quot;shareholders&amp;quot; and employees that paid the price, and no one could ever come
after their personal assets. It was like a casino where you kept your winnings,
and strangers paid your losses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In return for extending this legal shield to the capitalists,
our political class took a cut in the form of corporate taxes - most of which
came from dividends and wages of course. This effectively trapped the
entrepreneurs in the service of the state, ensuring that they would &lt;i&gt;never&lt;/i&gt; seek to eclipse or make redundant
the political class, since they were now dependent upon State power for the
maintenance of their legal shield and one-way economic privileges.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;The 19th Century&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
The 19th Century was a wildly creative time in the history
of human livestock ownership. The amazing productivity unleashed by the
privatization of labor, and the partial socialization of wages, created such prosperity
that the necessity of the ruling classes itself was called into question.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Furthermore, the increased education and economic initiatives
of the working classes threatened the economic value of the managerial classes.
The workers achieved almost complete literacy, and possessed excellent work
ethics, legal knowledge and social networks, including the so-called Friendly
Societies, which shielded the poor from destitution through any of life&amp;#39;s many
accidents.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The supply of those able to &lt;i&gt;manage&lt;/i&gt; thus increased, which drove down the price of management -
which was not exactly welcomed by the existing capitalists.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The traditional solution to increased competition from the
poor was to ban books and education, inflict religious guilt about materialism,
or start a war - none of which were politically or economically advantageous at
the time. Openly banning education for the children of the poor would have
reintroduced the &amp;quot;OMG I&amp;#39;m a total slave!&amp;quot; demotivation problem; religious
belief was waning, while war would have destroyed all the new capital that the
ruling and entrepreneurial classes were enjoying.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In a brilliant stroke, the ruling classes and the Church
conspired to create a false educational &amp;quot;emergency.&amp;quot; In conjunction with a
large number of resentful and underperforming teachers, public school education
was introduced with the stated goal of improving the skills, abilities and
intelligence of the poor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Naturally, the true goal was the exact opposite. Rather than
focusing on practical, economic and entrepreneurial knowledge, government
schools quickly shifted the educational focus towards patriotic history, rote
memorization and recitation, Latin and Greek, and an endless plethora of other
useless and boring trivia. This was the sports equivalent of forcing your
competition to take naps instead of training, resulting in a truly delightful
absence of competition for medals. Government schools created dull, resentful
drones only fit for taking orders, so the threat to the managerial class was
averted. (All this started in Prussia, which was medieval, mystical and militaristic,
which should have been something of a clue for everyone, but again, thought
hurts, apparently.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
One of the four pillars of the human farm, the Church, faced
mounting challenges in the 19th century, as the increased secularism of the
Industrial Revolution and the growth in the empirical value of the scientific
method undermined the superstitious terrors of the Middle Ages.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Sensing that the power of their God was on the decline, the
clergy began casting about for a new home. Their expertise was in sophistic
ethics, remember, rather than political power, and so they came up with a
wonderful idea that allowed them to bring their brilliant historical lies into
politics, but without having to enter into the sordid knuckle fights of base democratic
electioneering.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In a word: &lt;i&gt;socialism&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Socialism, or communism as it is sometimes called, is merely
a secular religion, where the State becomes a god. It has its good and evil,
its creation myths, its eventual heaven where the State withers away, its
ruling class of ethical liars, and so on. Priest as Plato, you get the picture...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Suddenly, instead of heaven existing in the afterlife, it
was promised in this life, as soon as government programs succeeded. (The
afterlife is far more likely!) The new Socialist clergy promised an end to
poverty, injustice, illiteracy, shortness, baldness - any word they could get
their grubby hands on - and of course anyone who disagreed with these fantasies
was immediately portrayed as pro poverty, injustice, illiteracy etc. Of course,
just as the moral guilt of religion can never create virtue, government
programs can never create paradise, and so a perpetual motion machine of social
control was started, where the supposed &amp;quot;solutions&amp;quot; just created more of the
same problems.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;Religion and Kiddies&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
Religion has always been used to support and extend the
power of the State, through a number of powerful psychological mechanisms,
always inflicted on children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
First of all, in religion, success is guilt, and failure is
legitimate need. Creating guilt among economically successful people plants a
seed that flowers into a guilty parting with their property for the sake of &amp;quot;helping
the poor.&amp;quot; (Notably, priests never seem to get round to attacking their own
successful head priests, or the successful political systems they support and
enrich.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Secondly, religion excels at creating nonexistent entities,
and then promoting a class of specialized liars who claim to speak for those
entities. Thus you have a &amp;quot;god,&amp;quot; and a priest who speaks &amp;quot;for that god.&amp;quot; In
socialism, you have the poor, and you have those who speak &amp;quot;for the poor.&amp;quot; (Notably,
it doesn&amp;#39;t really matter that socialists almost never come from &amp;quot;the poor,&amp;quot;
such as Marx and Engels, two unemployed rich kids who claimed to have
earthshaking insights into the poverty-stricken working classes, who were
actually getting richer.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Thirdly priests, like politicians, promote arbitrary but
universal ethics, while excluding themselves from the moral rules they impose,
which is the most fundamental attribute of any ruling class, as we will see
below.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Fourthly religion - again, like the State - promotes wonderful
traps in the form of false dichotomies. For example, if you don&amp;#39;t want to the State
to steal your income in order to &amp;quot;help the poor,&amp;quot; then according to religion
you must hate the poor. This is like saying that if you object to getting raped,
you must hate lovemaking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
We could go on with this, but since religion has been so
thoroughly absorbed into the State in the form of socialism, there&amp;#39;s little
point in examining its medieval corpse.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;The Modern World&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
In the past, society was so poor that the aristocracy had to
be hereditary in order to maintain its economic wealth - this is no longer the
case, due to the massive productivity increases of the relatively free market.
Now, a successful politician can easily gather enough wealth to last several
generations - or forever if handled wisely - in just a few terms. This has
allowed for the development of the illusion that the tax livestock control something
we call &amp;quot;democracy.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Because we can steal so much wealth in such a short amount
of time, the ruling classes have agreed to rotate in and out of power, in order
to maintain the illusion that there is no ruling class. This rotation is
essential to maintaining the optimism of the livestock by giving them the
belief - almost always false - that they too can join the ruling class. This
means that the ruling class is no longer directly exclusive, but rather
somewhat permeable, at least at the fringes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
(The modern democratic system has the advantage of
transferring literally trillions of dollars from the workers to the rulers - a plunder
unprecedented in human history - but the logic of our system is inherently
self-destructive, which is why it is important for you, as a new political
leader, to make sure that you extract as much money as possible before the whole
house of cards comes crashing down. We will tell you how to do this later.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The democratic system only really came into its own with the
abandonment of the gold standard, and the introduction of merely paper
currency. Governments in the 19th century - and before - were limited in the
amount they could bribe supporters and dependents by the amount of gold they
had in their vaults. Gold cannot be created by printing presses, and so
abandoning the gold standard (the capacity for citizens to redeem paper money
for gold) allowed the printing presses of government bribery to work overtime,
creating a good deal of the so-called &amp;quot;wealth&amp;quot; of the post Second World War
period.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Democratic governments - like all governments - are all
about the forced transfer of wealth from the productive to the unproductive. When
the creation of money was limited by actual gold, it was more or less a
zero-sum game. When you stole from one group to give to another - always taking
your cut - it was a direct reduction and increase of wealth in the present,
which was not only highly evident, but also gave the group being stolen from a
good deal of incentive to fight the theft.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
With the introduction of fiat currency, this all changed.
The unimaginative ascribed this to the advent of Keynesianism, but the truth is
that fiat currencies predated Keynesianism, and Keynesianism was merely the
intellectual cover for the greatest intergenerational theft in history.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
When governments can print their own money, politicians can
sell future generations off to bribe supporters in the present - and shaft the
poor at the same time! If the government adds 5% to the currency in
circulation, those closest to the government get to spend that money first - at
the prior valuation, before inflation hits - and then, as the additional money
spreads through the economy, the price of everything rises, since you have more
money relative to goods than you had before, and those at the bottom and the outskirts
of the economy - generally the poor, and those on fixed incomes - get hit the
hardest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Thus printing money serves two major purposes - first, it
gives free cash to politicians to bribe their supporters; second, it creates
and exacerbates poverty on the outskirts of the economy, thus giving an excuse
for politicians to raise taxes, create more government programs (and thus more
supporters and dependents) and print more money, thus closing the circle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Fiat currency also allows for luxurious indulgences in
social engineering - you can create &amp;quot;wars&amp;quot; on everything (since war is the
health of the State, just as the State is the health of war) - drugs, poverty,
prostitution, gambling, illiteracy, sickness - whatever. This creates more and
more people dependent on State payouts, and scares everyone through terrifying
attacks on ordinary human vices. It also changes the kinds of people who want
to become enforcers - sorry, &amp;quot;cops&amp;quot; - but again, more on that later.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Unfortunately, the relationship between increases in the
money supply and inflation has been too well established and understood to be
of much use anymore. Capital markets are always on the lookout for the overprinting
of money, and punish governments by increasing the price of their bonds, or
downgrading their credit ratings. This is just another reason why we are
approaching the end of the current cycle of human ownership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The second trick that governments can use to bribe those
around them is to refrain from pumping money directly into the economy, but
rather to create imaginary money, and use it to buy their own government bonds.
All this does is push the liability of the repayment of bonds - both interest
and principal - into the future. It is a mere accounting trick, like just about
everything else the government does, but fools more than enough people to keep
the game going just a little bit longer.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;Democracy and Bribery - But I Repeat Myself...&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
Every politician must promise, say, three dollars in benefits
for every dollar taken in taxes. This is utterly impossible, of course, since
the government has no money of its own, and is ridiculously inefficient at
everything it tries - so it is only through borrowing or printing money that politicians
are able to bribe voters into imagining that the government produces wealth.
The introduction of fiat currency, and the modern banking system, protected by
government-controlled cartels - as well as the legal shield called the &amp;quot;corporation&amp;quot;
- has been a godsend to modern politicians, since it allows the costs of
present day bribery to be pushed off decades or even generations into the
future. This has been a complete no-brainer for everyone involved - free bribe money,
paid for by strangers who haven&amp;#39;t even been born yet, is a temptation too
lucrative and consequence-free to even &lt;i&gt;imagine&lt;/i&gt;
resisting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Technically, democracy is a money-drug addiction that wages
war on drugs far less addictive and destructive.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;This is the End...&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
Unfortunately - and you will see this as an inevitable
pattern of the ruling classes&amp;#39; use of violence - this unsustainable system is nearing
the end of its current cycle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The problem is that the consequences of these inevitable
national debts are producing medieval conditions once again. First of all, the
economic engine of the productive classes - access to capital - is failing,
because governments are stealing all the capital in order to bribe voters. It&amp;#39;s
true that voters then often buy stuff, but that&amp;#39;s not quite the same as driving
new entrepreneurial development, since voters don&amp;#39;t invest in new businesses,
but rather buy products from existing businesses - which is yet another reason
why existing businesses are big fans of the government!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Secondly, and perhaps more importantly, the issue of livestock
de-motivation is raising its ugly head once more. Young people now
instinctively grasp the economic catastrophes ahead, and this blunts their
ambition and creativity to the point where fewer and fewer new entrepreneurs
are creating wealth for the ruling classes.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;Birthrates&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
To rulers, the most fundamental capital is not money, but &lt;i&gt;people&lt;/i&gt; (or, more accurately, &lt;i&gt;children&lt;/i&gt;, but we will get to that below.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Reasonably intelligent human beings do not breed well in
captivity, which is why the birthrates of modern Western nations have crashed so
catastrophically. Those of us in the ruling class obviously want human
livestock intelligent enough to create wealth for us - but unfortunately that
kind of intelligence is also easily high enough to do a rational calculation on
the benefits and costs of modern parenthood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In the current system, most parents have to work outside the
home in order to sustain even a middle-class existence, because of enormously
high taxation, regulation, inflation, debt and economic controls. So parents
don&amp;#39;t get to spend days with their children, but instead get them for the
evenings, night times and mornings, which are in general the least enjoyable times
for parenting, particularly when you have to rush kids out of the house to
daycare or school. Parents work a full day, get stuck on the terrible roads we
built for them, stressed out because they don&amp;#39;t want to be late picking up their
kids, then bring their kids home, and cook and feed and bathe them, and then
try and get them to bed - with precious little playtime. Mom and dad then fall
into an exhausted, sexless bed, praying that their children don&amp;#39;t wake up at
night - and then have to rouse them at an artificial time, get them fed and
clothed and out the door on a strict schedule - all of which is anathema to
children - and then pay a significant amount of their after-tax income for
strangers to take care of the children they so rarely see!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
It doesn&amp;#39;t take a genius to realize that this is a pretty raw
deal for parents, and this is the most fundamental reason why birthrates among our
tax cattle are so low - except among the poor, who we pay to breed, so that we
can use them to guilt the better-off into surrendering their money to us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Thus we have de-motivated young people, who spend forever
draining wealth - their own and others&amp;#39; - in school and university; fewer
babies and children, and a massive bulge of baby boomers heading into
retirement, where a completely empty cupboard awaits them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Citizens can easily understand how impossible this all is,
but they shy away from confronting it, or demanding that we change it - or even
admitting it - because they&amp;#39;re all so guilty at having accepted bribes their
whole life, and because parents so rarely want to admit to their kids that they
have royally screwed them out of a future, and sold them off to strangers for
cut-rate park admissions. These aging citizens need the next generation to pay
for their own retirement, but are leaving them with a cratered economy, growing
state power and massive national debts, and so to admit guilt would mean - at
any reasonable moral level - withdrawing their demands for retirement funding.
If a man steals a woman&amp;#39;s car, any real apology requires that he give it back -
but this is never going to happen with the national debt, or the trillions in
unfunded liabilities, and so no one with any real influence is ever going to
demand that we deal with this impossible situation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Democracy is all about the guilty and shameful pillaging of
the helpless and unborn; it corrupts moral responsibility to the point where
almost everyone is far too guilty and entitled to take a moral stand for
accountability.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Get a man to take stolen goods, and he will never complain
about theft. This is the essence of democracy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
So - no worries there.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;The Dependent Classes&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
A key foundation of livestock management is &lt;i&gt;bribery&lt;/i&gt;, which has an obvious benefit -
and a subtle one. The obvious benefit is that, say, artists and intellectuals
who receive government money will never be fundamentally critical of government
taxes and redistribution, for reasons too obvious to mention here. The more
subtle benefit is that when you create an entire class of people dependent on
government handouts, you divide the livestock into warring factions. Those
whose money is being stolen have a strong incentive to reduce State theft,
while those who receive stolen money have a strong incentive to increase State
theft.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
It is absolutely, absolutely essential that you create and
maintain conditions which foster slave on slave aggression. If rulers smack
down the slaves directly, the livestock immediately become aware of their enslavement,
which reintroduces the motivation problem. Efficient human masters thus ensure
that the slaves attack each other - the benefits of this are almost too
numerous to count, but a few will be mentioned below.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Human beings, as interdependent tribal mammals, have evolved
to be terrified of horizontal social attack, ostracism and rejection. This is a
core emotional vulnerability which can never be eliminated, and will always
serve you well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Prehistoric man could not live without the support of the
tribe, and so the need for social acceptance was programmed into the very base
of his brain, as a core survival mechanism. The philosophers who serve power -
mostly priests and academics - have layered onto this basic mechanism the additional
power of ethics.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Ethics is a claim to a universal principle of preferred
behavior, which has the enormous benefit of being easily internalized by the
slave classes. If you can get slaves to attack themselves for daring to
question the existing social structure, you will not have to lift a finger to
keep them in their chains - they will in fact attack anyone holding a key!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
As a backup, you must always have a group of slaves willing
to attack anyone who mentally frees himself from your false ethics. This
enforcement will always come from two main areas: the family and the media.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;The Slave Family&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
Deep down, slaves always know that they&amp;#39;re slaves, and their
only real enslavement is resisting this knowledge. Prior ruling classes did not
trust this basic mechanism, and so were hesitant to substitute horizontal
social control for vertical political violence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Now, we know better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
All commonly accepted cultural myths are created by the
ruling class, are essential lubricants for the wheels of power.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The most common cultural myth is that your family is
everything, the most important relationship, the most essential intimacy, the
most fundamental social unit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This helps the ruling class in countless ways - not least of
which is that it establishes and extends the principle that an accident of
birth creates a fundamental and eternal moral obligation; &amp;quot;family&amp;quot; thus equals &amp;quot;country.&amp;quot;
(Also: &amp;quot;sports team,&amp;quot; which is one reason why we fund them.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Once you have enslaved one generation, most parents will
almost inevitably resist the freedom of the next generation, out of guilt and
shame about their own surrender.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
We tell people to stay close to their families, because
their families will so often attack them for even thinking about leaving the
cages of collective history.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Let&amp;#39;s look at the sequence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
A man surrenders his liberty for petty cash and the illusion
of security. He then becomes a father. His son questions his father&amp;#39;s moral
courage and integrity, and the father then attacks the son, chaining them in a
cage they both rot in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
For this cycle to be maintained, we must forever tell the
son that his family is the most important thing in the world - more important
than reason, evidence, truth, integrity, morality - you name it! If he believes
us, and if his family is not committed to his freedom, we (and they) will own
him forever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This is the basic deal we offer to parents, just like
priests: &lt;i&gt;give us your kids, and we&amp;#39;ll
teach them to honor and obey you no matter what, so you don&amp;#39;t actually have to
be a good person and earn their respect.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
(True, not all parents take this unholy deal, but we just
get the media to mock the homeschooled kids and all is well.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Furthermore, given the billions of people ensnared in the
dependent classes the world over, it is a near-certainty that at least one or
more close family members will be dependent upon the existing system, and will then
violently attack anyone who questions the morality and practicality of
predatory democracy. Want to privatize education? Say hi to your teacher Aunt
Mamie, and let the fun begin!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;The Media&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
A few people, however, will retain the strength to emerge
from the slave class, and - particularly given the communications opportunities
of the Internet - may start broadcasting their message to a wider audience - in
which case, it&amp;#39;s important to pull the emergency backup attack switch called
the &amp;quot;mainstream media.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
How do you create slave on slave violence through the
mainstream media?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Again, subtlety and trust in the inevitability of human
psychology is the key.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
First of all, you must never directly censor and control the
media, or its inhabitants may rebel against your authority, and reveal your
naked aggression. Once the knowledge of slavery becomes inescapable, society
inevitably and immediately changes - and hiding this knowledge is the entire
art and science of human ownership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Thus you need to create a slow and increasing economic
dependence in the media, rather than arresting and imprisoning its members.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
You do this by making reporters more and more dependent upon
information from the government. It is much, much cheaper to simply rewrite a
governmental press release than it is to spend weeks or months going
undercover, interviewing subjects, verifying sources, and exposing yourself to
legal complications in order to break a story outside the normal channels of
communication.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Furthermore, as State power grows, more and more people
become more and more interested in what the government says and does, since
they are investors or business people whose fortunes rise and fall on the whims
of the ruling class.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This process can be a little risky at first, but you only need
a decade or two in order for it to become almost universal and irreversible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Remember - it takes a pretty empty person to rewrite
government press releases for a living, and fairly delusionary managers to
pretend that they are not the mere amplifiers of the whispers of power. Once
these managers assume their positions, they will inevitably reject any
energetic truth seekers, and instinctively seek out and employ other empty
rewriters of State edicts. The collective delusion that they&amp;#39;re still producing
&amp;quot;news&amp;quot; becomes progressively stronger, to the point where they will rail
against and attack anyone who actually tries to publish something that is true,
particularly if it threatens the government contacts who supply their
disinformation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Access to government thus becomes the foundation of any
media organization - therefore no fundamental criticisms of government can be
produced. You can criticize a tax, but not taxation itself. You can criticize a
party, but not the State. You can criticize a vote, but not voting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
As usual, it is both depressing and exciting to see the tiny
price that people are willing to sell themselves for - their name in print, a
meager expense account, a few parties, and they are yours.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The physical abuse required to keep the sheep in line is
doled out by the police - the verbal abuse is doled out by the media.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The media has been trained to attack anyone who questions
the foundations of violent power. The equation is really very simple - so
simple that it is always overlooked. If a man says that coercive wealth
transfers - &lt;i&gt;theft&lt;/i&gt;, in the vernacular
- are wrong, then the media instantly attacks him for not caring about whoever
is receiving the stolen money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
For instance, if a man questions the morality and
practicality of the welfare state, he will be immediately attacked for not
caring about the poor. If he argues against government schools, then he &lt;i&gt;clearly&lt;/i&gt; hates the fact that children get
educated. If he defends free-trade, he is an immoral advocate for bloodsucking
corporations; if he criticizes military budgets, he is a cowardly appeaser who
wishes to surrender Fort Knox to Al Qaeda; if he holds people morally
accountable for their actions, he is punishing them for their past mistakes and
&amp;quot;playing the blame game&amp;quot;; if he refuses to forgive unrepentant wrongdoers, he
is nursing a grudge and so on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
If he argues that adult relationships are voluntary, then he
is viciously anti-community; if he says that abuse should not be tolerated in
relationships, then he is an intolerant absolutist bent on destroying all
relationships...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This list can go on and on and on - and Lord knows it does,
every day - but you get the point.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The wonderful thing is that you won&amp;#39;t ever have to tell the
media to do this - it just happens of its own accord, because people who are
expert verbal abusers always rise to the top of the media pyramid, because they
are so useful to those of us in power, so we always give them access and
exclusivity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
You only need a few verbal abusers in charge, and everyone
else will fall in line, because anyone who tries to stand up against them will
be immediately smacked down, and will face the horrifying spectacle of watching
all of their colleagues either take cowardly steps back, or joining in the
verbal assaults.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
(I should probably have mentioned that priests - the best
verbal abusers in history - left the church for socialism &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; the media, which is why the media tends to be so left-wing.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The reason the media performs this service for us is very
simple - we own their livelihoods through licensing, legal regulation and
access to information. If we decide to cut anyone off, his career is over. If
anyone displeases us, we can threaten to pull the license of the entire
organization, because the rules are so Byzantine that we can nail someone for
something at any time - much like tax code, it is a form of soft
totalitarianism that we have perfected over the generations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The purpose of regulation is to control through rational
anxiety rather than dictatorial terror. Prior dictatorships would shoot people,
arrest and imprison them arbitrarily - this controlled people&amp;#39;s bodies very
effectively, but destroyed their entrepreneurial energies and motivations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
It is far more effective to regulate and license and tax -
and this is true for all industries - because potential dissidents then face
their own foggy walls of vague anxiety - in which they will not face arrest and
imprisonment, but rather lengthy legal complications, which they may eventually
win, but which drain much of the joy out of living while they go on, month
after month, year after year.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This is true for public-sector unions as well - we don&amp;#39;t
make it &lt;i&gt;illegal&lt;/i&gt; for a manager to fire
a unionized employee, because that would expose the system for the economic
joke that it is - we just make it really, really lengthy and complicated and
emotionally draining and confrontational and exhausting - that is the true
perfection of soft totalitarianism. People will surrender to anxiety and still
vaguely feel free - if you terrorize them directly, they tend to just collapse
intellectually and emotionally.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
If the media were directly owned by the government, the
propaganda would be clear; the indirect &amp;quot;ownership&amp;quot; of licensing and access to
information is far more effective and powerful, because it maintains the veneer
of independence and critical thinking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This form of indirect ownership is the essence of modern
democratic tax farming.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
It is a central truism of human nature that people always
attack what they avoid - if a reporter imagines that he is some sort of
freethinking iconoclast, he is in complete denial about the reality of his
enslavement. This denial always manifests itself in hysterical attacks against
anyone who dares to point it out, or who is actually a freethinker.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
To sum up - if we attack the slaves, we lose - if the slaves
attack each other, which is so easy to orchestrate - we win, at least for a
time.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;Children: The Greatest Resource&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
When we say that human beings are the greatest resource, it&amp;#39;s
important to be precise about what we mean.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Human beings are naturally born with two characteristics - the
first is a resistance to arbitrary authority, and the second is a natural
susceptibility to obeying universal ethics.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Anyone who doubts the first characteristic has never tried
to parent a two-year-old, and anyone who doubts the second has never triggered or
experienced moral guilt.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Domesticating the human animal does not mean that everyone
needs to turn out the same - in fact, it would be quite a disaster for us if
they did.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
To most efficiently control the human farm, you need a
majority of broken, self-attacking, insecure, shallow, vain and ambitious
sheep, forever consumed by inconsequentialities like weight, abs and
celebrities - and a minority of volatile, angry and dominant sheepdogs, which
you can dress up in either a green or a blue costume, and use to threaten and manage
the herd.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Ruling classes have always had to separate children from
their parents, otherwise it is almost impossible to substitute weird
abstractions like &amp;quot;the state&amp;quot; or &amp;quot;a god&amp;quot; for the parent-child bond. Human
children, like ducklings, will bond with whatever person or institution raises
them, which is why we always need to get children - hopefully as young as possible
- to bond with the State through government daycare and... &amp;quot;education&amp;quot; I guess is
the closest word.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In the distant past, rulers made the error of forcibly
removing children from their parents, which exposed their enslavement, and so
destroyed their motivation. In the late Middle Ages, children were farmed out to
wet-nurses, destroying the parent-child bond. In more recent times, the
boarding school system separated children from their parents, destroying
empathy and creating wonderfully brutal administrators and enforcers for a
variety of European empires. (See: &lt;i&gt;George
Orwell&lt;/i&gt;.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In our constant quest to perfect human ownership, we have
found a far better way to break these family bonds, and substitute allegiance
to ourselves, in the form of patriotism and/or religiosity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
It&amp;#39;s one of those beautiful win-win situations that come
along so rarely - first, we raised taxes to the point where it became very
difficult to maintain a reasonable lifestyle if one parent stayed home with the
children. We also funded feminist groups to the tune of billions of dollars -
one of the greatest investments we ever made - to encourage women to abandon their
children and enter the workforce.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Not only did this help break the parent-child bond, but it
also moved women&amp;#39;s labor from nontaxable to taxable - a delightful coincidence
of self-interest and practicality for us!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
With both parents working, all we had to do was create a few
scares about the quality of child care, allowing us to move in to control and
regulate that industry, remaking it to serve us best.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In some countries, like the United States, children are
effectively removed from parental care by the state within a few weeks or
months after birth - in other countries, parents receive direct subsidies to
stay at home, which is quite funny when you think about it (and there is precious
little room for humor in much of this). We take money by force from the parents,
keep a large portion for ourselves, use another portion to run up debts that their
children will somehow have to pay off - and then dribble a few pennies down to
the mother, who then feels that we are somehow doing her a great favor by
allowing her to stay at home!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
It is a delicious irony that everyone remains so totally
blind to reality that they run to us to protect their children from all kinds
of harm, while we are the ones selling off their children&amp;#39;s future through
national debts! It really is like hiring a thief to guard your property, and
the amazing thing is that this is all so completely obvious, and never, ever
spoken about!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Sometimes, it would be tempting to feel bad about ruling
people, but really, they are so very stupid that it seems almost helpful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Parenting has generally improved over the centuries, which
also poses a grave threat to us, because if children are raised without
aggression, they will both immediately see, and never accept, the reality of
human ownership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
As parenting has improved, it has become more important for
us to intervene earlier and earlier. In the 19th century, it was okay to wait
until the tax kittens were five or six before we started propagandizing them in
government schools. However, as parenting has improved - particularly in the
post-Second World War period, we have had to start intervening earlier and
earlier, which is why we try and get at kids so soon after birth now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
When kids were raised fairly well in the post-war period, it
produced the disasters of the rebellious 1960s, which almost finished us, and
so we began funding radical feminism, controlling teachers more and snatching
the kids earlier and earlier to fix all that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
So - we need some parents to create the sheep, and other
parents to create the wolves, or the sociopaths who can be relied upon to
attack whoever we point to. These sociopaths can be divided into those who
guard the ruling class (the police and soldiers and prison guards and so on) -
and the criminals that we always wave around to frighten people into running
back to our &amp;quot;protection.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Again, the amount of doublethink required to maintain the
delusion that the ruling class is not invested in crime - when even by our
rules, we are all criminals - is really quite astounding! Governments control
almost the entire environment of the poor, from public housing to food stamps
to welfare checks to public schools - and it is this environment that produces the
majority of criminals! For instance, governments require that children spend
about 15,000 hours being educated in state schools, and yet when they emerge
from this massive investment as illiterate and violent criminals, no one &lt;i&gt;ever&lt;/i&gt; takes us to task!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Never, ever underestimate the degree to which people will
scatter themselves into a deep fog in order to avoid seeing the basic realities
of their own cages.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The strongest lock on the prison is always avoidance, not
force.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;Never-Never Land&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
Imagine a world in which almost all children were raised
peacefully - there would be no criminals, no police, no soldiers, no
politicians (or others with a bottomless lust for power) - no bullying in the
workplace, no white-collar predations on the general wealth, no assault, no
rape, no murder, no theft, no drug abuse, no smoking, no alcoholism, no eating
disorders, no pedophilia, far fewer mental and physical health issues, very
little divorce, promiscuity or infidelity - since all of these dysfunctions can
be directly traced back to early childhood traumas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
What need would such a world have for rulers?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;i&gt;That&lt;/i&gt; is the world
we can never allow to come into existence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Anything we can do to traumatize children serves the
hierarchical violence of our power.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Getting kids into daycare is a great start, since daycare
makes children continually ill, exposes them to the wild aggressions of dozens
of other children, destroys the one-on-one time that children need for bonding
and emotional maturity. Daycare kids remain insecure, unbonded with a consistent
caregiver (since teacher turnover is so high), and end up inevitably placing
more emphasis on peer relationships than they do on adult caregiver
relationships - including their parents.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
These peer relationships among kids inevitably devolve to
the lowest common denominator, with bullies and manipulators and the physically
attractive rising to the top, and the sensitive and intelligent and empathetic
hiding under tables. Children quickly perceive that adult attention is almost
always negative - in other words that they &lt;i&gt;themselves&lt;/i&gt;
are negative - serving only to increase the stress of their caregivers. Due to
the shortage of time and resources, conflicts between children are rarely
resolved in a just manner, but merely with separation and mutual punishment,
which breaks the child&amp;#39;s natural desire for integrity and virtue, and places
all the power in the fists of those empty and dangerous children who do not
fear retribution.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
When the stressed-out parent comes to pick up the child from
daycare, the child feels further devalued, knowing that he is just another
source of aggravation for his parent (&amp;quot;Just get in the car!&amp;quot;). The practical
necessities of child raising are then compressed into a very short and taxing
time, which no one really enjoys. Parents are short-tempered and impatient,
children are stressed and unhappy, and then the whole thing starts all over again
when the alarm bells go off the next morning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Children have to feel herded and controlled by impatient
adult caregivers long before we get a hold of them in schools, otherwise our
whole system will fall apart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Children have to feel that they are inconvenient impositions
on all-powerful authorities long before they become adults - or even
schoolchildren - otherwise we will have no control over them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Children have to feel grateful for whatever crumbs of
attention and consideration fall their way, and learn to live on very little,
otherwise they will never grow up with the desperate hunger that can only be
filled by conformity, patriotism, sports addictions, religions and other superstitions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
We plant children; we grow power.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;Rule by Adjective&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
The violence of the government can create nothing, so all we
can do is manipulate language. This is called the &amp;quot;rule by adjective,&amp;quot; or RBA.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
RBA essentially consists of the creation of noble sounding
phrases that completely disintegrate under the slightest rational or empirical
examination. The goal is to use wording that sounds like the tagline of a
B-grade action movie, but with flags.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
A few examples we are particularly proud of:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;quot;Building a bridge to the 21st century.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;quot;[Insert country here] has a date with destiny.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;quot;No dream is beyond our reach.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;quot;We&amp;#39;re one people bound together by a common set
of ideas.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;quot;Let&amp;#39;s celebrate our diversity.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In crafting political language, it&amp;#39;s essential to play upon
personal relationships, and pretend that the farmers and the sheep are all one
big happy family, and that anyone who expresses skepticism or disagreements is
not a &amp;quot;team player,&amp;quot; and does not want to achieve anything noble or great or
good or unselfish. For example:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&amp;quot;There may be naysayers among us who say that we
cannot achieve these great things together, but I say that history will prove
them wrong, that the spirit of creativity and unity still lives within our
people, and that the final chapter of our civilization has yet to be written!&amp;quot;
etc etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Notice that no substantial criticism is ever addressed -
rather, sly slander is continually layered over the objection until whoever
objects is just kind of disliked. (This trick is continually reinforced in
movies, where all the bad guys are unlikable, and all the good guys likable,
which as anyone who has ever read Socrates knows, is almost always the complete
opposite of the truth.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Now that you have achieved the summit of political power, it
is also essential that you project calm, confidence, serenity, and all the
other characteristics that are completely inappropriate to the imminent disasters
awaiting the tax cattle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The way that you do this is very easy - know that you will
now be taken care of for the rest of your life, and your children will never
have to work, and their children will never have to work, and you will never
face any significant legal problems or disciplinary action or face arrest for
anything you have done, even if it means starting unjust wars, murdering people
by the hundreds of thousands, imprisoning non-criminals by the millions,
running up trillions in debt, authorizing torture, you name it, it&amp;#39;s OK.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Consequences are for sheep, not farmers. A citizen cannot be
caught speeding without consequences - but you are above all that now, no
matter what hells you unleash on the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
People want political power because they want something for
nothing, and they want to escape the consequences of their evil actions - we
want to assure you that you have now &lt;i&gt;fully&lt;/i&gt;
achieved these goals. You will never have to worry about losing your house,
your job, your money, your freedom - and with this kind of immunity from
political, legal and economic reality, you can project all the serene
confidence of a sea captain being helicoptered to safety while his ship slowly sinks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
We can also guarantee you that you will never face &lt;i&gt;any&lt;/i&gt; tough questions from the media.
Anyone who gets to interview you will be so thrilled at the opportunity, and so
excited to be advancing his career, that he will only lob you softball setups.
It&amp;#39;s true that a single question might be asked, such as, &amp;quot;do you think that X
was a mistake?&amp;quot; but we can assure you with perfect equanimity that whatever you
answer will be accepted, and no follow-up questions will be asked. You will
always have the final say, and if anyone does dare to ask you a follow-up
question, all you have to do is act mildly irritated, and insist that you have
already answered that question.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
If anyone persists, not to worry, his career will be over,
because about 10,000 empty-headed pundits will take to the airwaves claiming to
be shocked and appalled at the way that you were browbeaten and harangued, and
demanding to know what your problem is, and who you think you are, and so on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
We know, we know - it sounds impossible, but it&amp;#39;s a
guaranteed fix, every single time. It&amp;#39;s as predictable as hungry dogs chasing a
dead rabbit on a string.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;Ethics&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
There are two kinds of ethics that you need to be aware of -
it is very likely that you are already aware of them, since you are where you
are, but it&amp;#39;s worth going over them one more time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
When slaves evaluate masters, relativism and deference and
working together and respecting differences of opinion are key.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
When masters evaluate other masters, bipartisanship and
putting aside differences and working together and respecting differences of
opinion are also key.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This falls into the old category of &amp;quot;turn the other cheek.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
When masters evaluate &lt;i&gt;slaves&lt;/i&gt;,
however, it&amp;#39;s total &amp;quot;eye for an eye&amp;quot; time!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
For instance, if you propose health care legislation that
will force people to do stuff, it&amp;#39;s very important that you respect the other parties&amp;#39;
right to disagree with your proposal. However, once it becomes law, no mere &lt;i&gt;citizen&lt;/i&gt; is ever allowed to act on his or
her disagreement with &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Debates are for the masters, enforcement is for the slaves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
You are allowed to debate whether or not to go to war, citizens
are not allowed to choose whether or not they fund the war, or are drafted to
get killed in it. You are allowed to debate whether to subsidize some group,
citizens are never allowed to choose whether &lt;i&gt;they&lt;/i&gt; subsidize that group.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Free will is for the masters - slaves get the determinism of
their masters&amp;#39; whims.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In case you have any concern that someone will point out the
ridiculousness of all this, do not fear! The moment that anyone argues that we
don&amp;#39;t need violent masters - that such masters are in fact hellishly
destructive - all the slaves in the &lt;i&gt;world&lt;/i&gt;
will gang up on such an exposed truth-teller, saying, in effect, &amp;quot;We are not
slaves if you don&amp;#39;t point out our masters!&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This reaction is all based on propaganda that is carefully
layered in throughout government education - and all education is government
education, because we regulate and control private schools and universities as
well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The propaganda is, like all propaganda, completely insane,
but through calm repetition and attacking dissenters, it quickly gets accepted
as an obvious truth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The propaganda is this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;i&gt;1.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;The government provides service X.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;i&gt;2.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;If the government does not provide service
X, service X will never be provided.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;i&gt;3.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;Therefore, anyone arguing against the
government providing service X is arguing against the necessity or value of
service X.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
It seems almost embarrassing to point out the foolishness of
these arguments, but in the highly unlikely event you ever get a question on
this, it&amp;#39;s good to have an &amp;quot;answer.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
According to the democratic model, governments only do what
the majority of citizens want them to do. &amp;quot;The will of the majority,&amp;quot; is one of
our central gods, which cannot speak for itself, of course, and therefore kindly
allows us to, um, speak for it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Democratic governments only help the poor, then, because &lt;i&gt;the majority of citizens want them to&lt;/i&gt;.
If governments reflect the will of the people, then whatever governments do is
entirely unnecessary, because the majority want to do it anyway.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The more that people get attacked for not caring about the
poor, the less the government needs to do anything about the poor, because &lt;i&gt;the attacks reflect a general preference to
help the poor&lt;/i&gt;. The only practical argument for the continuance of a
government program would be if everybody had a strong desire to get rid of it,
because then, it could be argued, they did not care about its recipients. If
someone said, &amp;quot;Let&amp;#39;s get rid of the welfare state,&amp;quot; and everyone cheered and
joined in, we might very well have some concern about the fate of the poor -
the fact that everyone &lt;i&gt;defends&lt;/i&gt; the
welfare state means that the poor will be perfectly well taken care of in a
free society.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Ah, the weariness of these ridiculous arguments! We do
sometimes wish that people would become just a little bit smarter, so we could
all eventually become free, but we are as trapped by the livestock&amp;#39;s illusions
as they are.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;Exploitation&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
There are two classes of parasites on the productive classes
- the poor and the political. In the old days, Marxists used to blather on
about the exploitation of the poor by capitalists, which was utter nonsense.
When the capitalists were &amp;quot;exploiting&amp;quot; the workers in the mid 19&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt;
century, their real wages &lt;i&gt;doubled&lt;/i&gt; -
we democratic masters have had our real claws on them for the past 40 years,
and real wages have not only stagnated and fallen, but educational standards
have collapsed, incarceration rates have skyrocketed, living conditions have
deteriorated - and the remaining social services we provide (bribes) are all
going to collapse because we have sold everyone off piecemeal under the guise
of &amp;quot;national debt&amp;quot; (because the real term - &lt;i&gt;serfdom&lt;/i&gt;
- is just too accurate to be accepted).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The old-style capitalists &amp;quot;exploited&amp;quot; the poor by paying
them ever-higher wages - we exploit them by selling both them and their kids
off to whoever will shove a thin dime in our direction - dropping a penny in
the hollow plates of the poor, keeping eight cents for ourselves, and using the
last penny as collateral to borrow ten more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
But the merchant class is very useful to us, in more ways
than as tax cattle, tax collectors, and productive livestock - they also shield
us from popular anger at the inevitable results of our predations. When we pay
ourselves with the monopoly money (literally) of their futures, prices go up.
Who does the public get angry at? Us? Ha ha, get real, we don&amp;#39;t teach them a
damn thing about &lt;i&gt;real&lt;/i&gt; economics - no,
they get angry at the checkout girl at the local convenience store for high
prices - and of course we always promise to &amp;quot;investigate&amp;quot; the source of such
shocking inflation. It&amp;#39;s pretty easy to pretend to investigate a mirror.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The strange thing as well is that we educate their kids, and
then they expect these lost souls to be somehow objective about us! Imagine if
a kid went to a school run by a government Post Office - would you expect him
to learn any form of critical thinking about the Post Office? Of course not -
he would get endless lessons on how wonderful, benevolent and friendly Post Office
workers were, and how before the Post Office became a government monopoly,
private mail carriers stole checks from starving widows, abused their workers
and overcharged their helpless customers. You wouldn&amp;#39;t expect even a sliver of
truth to fall through the cracks of propaganda, but all this - and more, since
the Post Office can&amp;#39;t start wars - is inflicted on the helpless kids held
prisoner in state &amp;quot;schools.&amp;quot; So people arrive at adulthood worshipping the
State that stole from their parents, crushed their minds under forced
indoctrination, sold them into serfdom for the rest of their lives, and
programmed them for endless obedience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Imagine if we said that Goldman Sachs should run all the
government schools - just picture the howls of indignation that would arise,
shrill shrieks of the dangers of bias, indoctrination and programming! Ah, but
give the children to the State, and everyone smiles benignly, certain that
objectivity, reason and a well-tempered love of children and learning will
reign supreme.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Ahhh, it does turn the stomach so at times! Everyone knows
that teachers don&amp;#39;t give even &lt;i&gt;half&lt;/i&gt; a
rat&amp;#39;s ass about the kids - and the test is so pitifully easy that everyone
knows what it is. Just remind the teachers that kids don&amp;#39;t benefit from having
over two months off in the summer - and it&amp;#39;s hell for parents as well of course
- and cite the statistics about how well kids do when they&amp;#39;re in school year
round, and don&amp;#39;t forget everything over the summer. How will the teachers
react? Meh, to ask the question is to answer it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;Childhood &amp;lt;&amp;gt; Personhood&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
The key to tyranny is to treat kids as somewhere between
pets and hobos. If a child never thinks of himself as a full person, he will
never aspire to be more than a &amp;quot;citizen&amp;quot; - i.e. to be owned, and sold, and
ordered around. (People take pride in being &amp;lsquo;citizens,&amp;#39; which is completely
mad, since &amp;lsquo;citizenship&amp;#39; means that they have been granted the &amp;lsquo;right&amp;#39; to work,
travel and live, which are all supposed to be &amp;lsquo;inalienable&amp;#39; anyway...)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
For example - imagine, as Murray Rothbard once wrote, that
the government should take over magazines and books, and limit readership by
local geography, and hire, fire and control all writers, editors and reporters,
and force people to pay for them even if they never read them - what an unholy
outcry would arise! Cries of &amp;lsquo;censorship&amp;#39; and &amp;lsquo;tyranny&amp;#39; would echo in tinny
indignation from bosom to heaving bosom! Ah, but inflict far &lt;i&gt;worse&lt;/i&gt; controls on children - force them
into local schools, control all the teachers and curriculum (even for &amp;lsquo;private&amp;#39;
schools) and not only are the voices of protest silent, but are only raised &lt;i&gt;against&lt;/i&gt; anyone who dares to suggest that
the free minds of helpless children are far more important than the
recreational reading tastes of adults...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
You&amp;#39;ll get a kick out of this one too - ok - use government
power to force everyone to pay for the indoctrination of children, force the
kids to sit in dusty, still rows, barely allowed to blink - and then drug the
living crap out of them if they get bored and restless - and keep them trapped
there, year after year - and then tell them that their masters won the war that
set them free, against National Socialism and communism! Can you imagine
telling children in an entirely communist environment - public schools - that
communism is the enemy? Of course, they&amp;#39;ll just write it down and regurgitate
it whenever you want, because they&amp;#39;re terrified of being drugged - and then you
have to tell them, of course, that communist dictatorships used the lie called
&amp;quot;mental illness&amp;quot; to drug anyone who didn&amp;#39;t fit in and obey the rulers!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Freedom is for the adults - communism is for the children.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;Science&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
We have a complicated relationship with science - we need
it, for weapons and tax livestock management (imagine how hard it would be to
collect taxes without computers) - so we need science to flourish, but we also
need to control it. The way we do this is to continually program the population
to view science as a productive but dangerous force that will destroy the world
if not tightly controlled. This is utterly absurd, of course, since it was our
control of science through the Manhattan Project that created weapons that
actually &lt;i&gt;could&lt;/i&gt; destroy the world, but
then we just tell the sheeple that, yanno, worse things would have happened if
we didn&amp;#39;t make nukes, and they all baa and agree and eat the leftover grass we
shovel into their troughs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
So we do this sort of &amp;quot;Sorcerer&amp;#39;s Apprentice&amp;quot; thing, where
science is great to begin with, but then grows and grows and gets out of
control and needs to be shut down in an extremity of CGI adventure. Naturally,
we&amp;#39;re &lt;i&gt;really &lt;/i&gt;talking about ourselves,
the government itself, but no one wants to think about that, so they imagine
that it&amp;#39;s all about robots and computers and carbon footprints and machines
that make hot dogs in the sky...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
People will always choose a thousand fairy tales over one
basic fact.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Except us, perhaps. Our understanding of - and immunity to -
sentimentality is our greatest power. We are the lions who hunt with
sentimental pictures of little kittens.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;From Here...&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
At this point, it does pain me to tell you that you will
soon have the rather unenviable task of informing the livestock that they are
pretty much screwed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
There is no way in god&amp;#39;s green earth that our system will
last even another few years, which means that you will have dust off and start
playing the good old &amp;lsquo;sacrifice violin.&amp;#39;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Now this traditional instrument may sound screechy and
ridiculous to your ears but trust us, just keep playing and everyone will dance
in a line for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Just tell them that biiiig hardships are coming, that we as
a nation are being &amp;lsquo;tested,&amp;#39; and that we all need to &amp;lsquo;pull together&amp;#39; and
shoulder our common burdens, and look out for the most vulnerable among us, and
that to achieve a new dawn, sacrifices need to be made, and hint strongly that
bad forces outside your control - or before your time - have robbed the people,
and will be held accountable, but that we all need to look to the future, and remember
that we as a people can do anything we set our minds and wills to, and we
defeated the prior tyrannies etc etc etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
For some reason, people always take a dark masochistic delight
in struggling through trying times where they all have to &amp;quot;pull together&amp;quot; and &amp;quot;make
sacrifices&amp;quot; and strive to achieve the best in tragic times and so on. Probably
boredom and self-contempt for their own hypocrisy, but who knows, and who
cares? The important thing is that government schools and all the endless lies
about past wars and depressions - that the best in people comes out in the
worst of times and so on - have all programmed citizens to react with dark and
lascivious glee when we demand that they spend a generation eating shit for our
mistakes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Of course, people love to punish themselves for their own
hypocrisies and various other sins, and Lord knows the average state-sucking
slut voter has more than enough to feel guilty about, trying to wheedle
something for nothing out of the government, the future, their own &lt;i&gt;children&lt;/i&gt; for heaven&amp;#39;s sake! So when
sacrifice is called for, most people feel secretly relieved, since all these
trials, tribulations and common burdens effectively squelch any substantial
social, economic or political criticisms.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;quot;Pull together&amp;quot; unleashes the most savage social censorship
imaginable. During the coming time of crisis, if the young people justly point
fingers at the greed and hypocrisy of their elders, they will be sternly told
that we all have to &lt;i&gt;pull together&lt;/i&gt;,
and there&amp;#39;s no point playing the &amp;quot;blame game&amp;quot; now. If the young point out that &lt;i&gt;they&lt;/i&gt; were never allowed such a
mealy-mouthed avoidance strategy when they were growing up, they will be told
that they are quibbling and refusing to let go of the past and so on. Ha ha,
imagine a teenager trying those strategies about failing to take out the
garbage, and you will instantly see how much these cowardly redirects stink!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
So - self-flagellation for past crimes and avoidance of just
accusations from past victims - these motives will trigger such hellish attacks
on freethinkers that only the truly crazed will continue to raise these issues...
(If you want to know more about this phenomenon, just remember how few
Europeans criticized the ruling classes for two World Wars in two generations,
but rather took pride in &amp;lsquo;winning&amp;#39; a bloodbath that cost over 50 million lives
- and contrast that with how they treat a waiter who forgets their &lt;i&gt;food order&lt;/i&gt;.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
So the plan is always the same - we pillage, plunder and
bribe - then demand sacrifices from our victims. To get the general idea, picture
a rapist demanding a drive home from his victim.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Anyone who does not play along with this insanity will just
be branded a malcontent, not a &amp;quot;team player&amp;quot; - and mocked and ostracized.
Fortunately, we have bred our livestock to be so dependent on social approval
that most everyone will find this unbearable, and slink back into the single
file line to the graveyard, pushing their bewildered and resentful children
ahead of them...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;Conclusion&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
So remember - you&amp;#39;re going to be taken care of, that&amp;#39;s the
first thing to really understand. You can&amp;#39;t go broke, you can&amp;#39;t go hungry, you
can&amp;#39;t lose your house, you can&amp;#39;t really be fired, and people will pay hundreds
of thousands of dollars to hear you speak every day for the rest of your life.
You will get libraries named after you, receive multimillion dollar book deals,
and a guaranteed gold-plated pension with free health care for the rest of your
life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
You have absolutely nothing to worry about. You have the
softest seat on the biggest lifeboat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This is, to a large degree, the source of your weird
confidence, which separates you from the herd, and which they imagine is why
you are their leader.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The reality is that they have endless worries that you don&amp;#39;t
have, and so you can just join us, floating above the petty fears of the
masses, serene and secure like the ancient gods we have always been.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
So go out among the crowds and make pretty noises with your
velvet throat. Distract these fools with your eloquence while we finish
pillaging their pockets. Empty out the remainder of your soul driving the
sheeple off a cliff - it may haunt the remnants of your integrity, but don&amp;#39;t
worry: we do still have that stamp just waiting for your smiling face.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://board.freedomainradio.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=237085" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>The Story of Your Enslavement - Freedomain Radio</title><link>http://board.freedomainradio.com/blogs/freedomain/archive/2010/04/15/the-story-of-your-enslavement-freedomain-radio.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 03:15:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">59c0a406-59fe-4f33-8532-f7cd028d5483:196144</guid><dc:creator>Stefan Molyneux</dc:creator><slash:comments>7</slash:comments><description>&lt;p&gt;
This is the story of your enslavement; how it came to be,
and you can finally be free.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Like all animals, human beings want to dominate and exploit
the resources around them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
At first, we mostly hunted and fished and ate off the land -
but then something magical and terrible happened to our minds.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
We became, alone among the animals, afraid of death, and of
future loss.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
And this was the start of a great tragedy, and an even
greater possibility...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
You see, when we became afraid of death, of injury, and
imprisonment, we became &lt;i&gt;controllable&lt;/i&gt;
-- and so &lt;i&gt;valuable&lt;/i&gt; -- in a way that
no other resource could ever be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The greatest resource for any human being to control is not
natural resources, or tools, or animals or land -- but &lt;i&gt;other human beings&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
You can frighten an animal, because animals are afraid of
pain in the moment, but you cannot frighten an animal with a loss of liberty,
or with torture or imprisonment in the future, because animals have very little
sense of tomorrow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
You cannot threaten a cow with torture, or a sheep with
death. You cannot swing a sword at a tree and scream at it to produce more
fruit, or hold a burning torch to a field and demand more wheat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
You cannot get more eggs by threatening a hen - but you can get
a man to give you his eggs by threatening him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Human farming has been the most profitable -- and
destructive -- occupation throughout history, and it is now reaching its
destructive climax.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Human society cannot be rationally understood until it is
seen for what it is: a series of farms where human farmers own human livestock.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Some people get confused because governments provide
healthcare and water and education and roads, and thus imagine that there is
some benevolence at work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Nothing could be further from reality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Farmers provide healthcare and irrigation and training to
their livestock.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Some people get confused because we are allowed certain
liberties, and thus imagine that our government protects our freedoms.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
But farmers plant their crops a certain distance apart to
increase their yields -- and will allow certain animals larger stalls or fields
if it means they will produce more meat and milk.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In your country, your tax farm, your farmer grants you certain
freedoms not because he cares about your liberties, but because he wants to increase
his profits.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Are you beginning to see the nature of the cage you were
born into?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
There have been four major phases of human farming.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The first phase, in ancient Egypt, was direct and brutal
human compulsion. Human bodies were controlled, but the creative productivity
of the human mind remained outside the reach of the whip and the brand and the
shackles. Slaves remained woefully underproductive, and required enormous
resources to control.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The second phase was the Roman model, wherein slaves were
granted some capacity for freedom, ingenuity and creativity, which raised their
productivity. This increased the wealth of Rome, and thus the tax income of the
Roman government - and with this additional wealth, Rome became an empire,
destroying the economic freedoms that fed its power, and collapsed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
I&amp;#39;m sure that this does not seem entirely unfamiliar.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
After the collapse of Rome, the feudal model introduced the
concept of livestock ownership and taxation. Instead of being directly owned, peasants
farmed land that they could retain as long as they paid off the local warlords.
This model broke down due to the continual subdivision of productive land, and
was destroyed during the Enclosure movement, when land was consolidated, and
hundreds of thousands of peasants were kicked off their ancestral lands,
because new farming techniques made larger farms more productive with fewer
people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The increased productivity of the late Middle Ages created
the excess food required for the expansion of towns and cities, which in turn gave
rise to the modern Democratic model of human ownership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
As displaced peasants flooded into the cities, a huge stock
of cheap human capital became available to the rising industrialists - and the
ruling class of human farmers quickly realized that they could make more money
by letting their livestock choose their own occupations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Under the Democratic model, direct slave ownership has been
replaced by the Mafia model. The Mafia rarely owns businesses directly, but
rather sends thugs around once a month to steal from the business &amp;quot;owners.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
You are now allowed to choose your own occupation, which
raises your productivity - and thus the taxes you can pay to your masters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Your few freedoms are preserved because they are profitable
to your owners.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The great challenge of the Democratic model is that
increases in wealth and freedom threaten the farmers. The ruling classes
initially profit from a relatively free market in capital and labor, but as
their livestock become more used to their freedoms and growing wealth, they
begin to question why they need rulers at all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Ah well. Nobody ever said that human farming was easy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Keeping the tax livestock securely in the compounds of the
ruling classes is a three phase process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The first is to indoctrinate the young through government &amp;quot;education.&amp;quot;
As the wealth of democratic countries grew, government schools were universally
inflicted in order to control the thoughts and souls of the livestock.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The second is to turn citizens against each other through
the creation of dependent livestock.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
It is very difficult to rule human beings directly through
force -- and where it can be achieved, it remains cripplingly underproductive,
as can be seen in North Korea. Human beings do not breed well or produce
efficiently in direct captivity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
If human beings believe that they are free, then they will
produce much more for their farmers. The best way to maintain this illusion of
freedom is to put some of the livestock on the payroll of the farmer. Those
cows that become dependent on the existing hierarchy will then attack any other
cows who point out the violence, hypocrisy and immorality of human ownership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Freedom is slavery, and slavery is freedom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
If you can get the cows to attack each other whenever
anybody brings up the reality of their situation, then you don&amp;#39;t have to spend
nearly as much controlling them directly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Those cows who become dependent upon the stolen largess of
the farmer will violently oppose any questioning of the virtue of human
ownership -- and the intellectual and artistic classes, always and forever
dependent upon the farmers -- will say, to anyone who demands freedom from
ownership: &amp;quot;You will harm your fellow cows.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The livestock are kept enclosed by shifting the moral
responsibility for the destructiveness of a violent system to those who demand
real freedom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The third phase is to invent continual external threats, so
that the frightened livestock cling to the &amp;quot;protection&amp;quot; of the farmers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This system of human farming is now nearing its end.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The terrible tragedy of the modern American system has
occurred not in spite of, but because of past economic freedoms.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The massive increases in American wealth throughout the 19th
century resulted from economic freedom -- and it was this very increase in
wealth that fed the size and power of the state.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Whenever the livestock become exponentially more productive,
you get a corresponding increase in the number of farmers and their dependents.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The growth of the state is always proportional to the
preceding economic freedoms.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Economic freedoms create wealth, and the wealth attracts
more thieves and political parasites, whose greed then destroys the economic
freedoms.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In other words, freedom metastasizes the cancer of the
state.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The government that starts off the smallest will always end
up the largest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
This is why there can be no viable and sustainable
alternative to a truly free and peaceful society.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
A society without political rulers, without human ownership,
without the violence of taxation and statism...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
To be truly free is both very easy, and very hard.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
We avoid the horror of our enslavement because it is painful
to see it directly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
We dance around the violence of our dying system because we
fear the attacks of our fellow livestock.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
But we can only be kept in the cages we refuse to see.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wake up...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;The word terrorism is notoriously hard to define, for reasons which will become clear in a few minutes.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The term &amp;quot;terrorism&amp;quot; comes from Latin &lt;i&gt;terrere&lt;/i&gt;, &amp;quot;to frighten.&amp;quot; A dictionary definition is:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;the
act of terrorizing; use of force or threats to demoralize, intimidate,
and subjugate, esp. such use as a political weapon or policy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;the demoralization and intimidation produced in this way&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Terrorism Law Definition&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;&amp;quot;The
threat or actual use of violence in order to intimidate or create
panic, especially when utilized as a means of attempting to influence
political conduct.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Chapter 113B of
Part I of Title 18 of the United States Code defines terrorism and
lists the crimes associated with terrorism.[24] In Section 2331 of
Chapter 113b, terrorism is defined as:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;&amp;quot;&amp;hellip;activities
that involve violent&amp;hellip; or life-threatening acts&amp;hellip; that&amp;hellip; appear to be
intended... to intimidate or coerce a civilian population;&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;International Terrorism&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Edward Peck, former U.S. Chief of Mission in Iraq under Jimmy Carter:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;&amp;quot;In
1985, when I was the Deputy Director of the Reagan White House Task
Force on Terrorism, they asked us... to come up with a definition of
terrorism that could be used throughout the government. We produced
about six, and each and every case, they were rejected, because careful
reading would indicate that our own country had been involved in some
of those activities. [&amp;hellip;] After the task force concluded its work,
Congress got into it, and you can Google into U.S. Code Title 18,
Section 2331, and read the US definition of terrorism. And one of them
in here says &amp;mdash; one of the terms, &amp;#39;international terrorism,&amp;#39; means
&amp;#39;activities that,&amp;#39; I quote, &amp;#39;appear to be intended to affect the
conduct of a government by mass destruction, assassination or
kidnapping.&amp;#39; [&amp;hellip;] Yes, well, certainly, you can think of a number of
countries that have been involved in such activities. Ours is one of
them. Israel is another. And so, the terrorist, of course, is in the
eye of the beholder.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;For instance,
in 2000 Hans Von Sponeck, the head UNICEF official in Iraq from 1998 to
2000, placed the death toll from the 1990s US-led Iraq sanctions at
1.26 million, including 500,000 children under the age of five.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;That would be the equivalent of almost 13 million American deaths, including 5 million helpless children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Imagine
how hard it would be for Tony Soprano to create universal and objective
moral definitions condemning racketeering, blackmail, extortion and
intimidation that did not include his own activities...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Most
skeptics, particularly on the left, are deeply aware of the violence
and intimidation that the US government has used throughout its
history...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;The death count for US imperialism has been conservatively estimated at almost 30,000,000 souls.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Three
times the body count of World War I. 10,000 times 9/11. Imagine a 9/11
attack every single day, somewhere in the US, for over 25 years
straight...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;However, all this almost completely misses the point and true definition of terrorism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;the
act of terrorizing; use of force or threats to demoralize, intimidate,
and subjugate, esp. such use as a political weapon or policy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;the demoralization and intimidation produced in this way&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;The
use or threat of violence against foreigners is only possible and
profitable because of the use or threat of violence against domestic
citizens.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Against &amp;ndash; you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Donald
Rumsfeld, George Bush, Paul Wolfowitz, Dick Cheney -- and all of the
war profiteers -- do not pay for the wars they start.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;If they did, there would be no wars.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;You pay for these wars.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;The blood is on their hands.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;The bill is in yours, and your children&amp;#39;s.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Why do you pay for the wars?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Well, for the same reason that you would pay off Tony Soprano.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Because the government &amp;quot;uses force or threats to demoralize, intimidate, and subjugate&amp;quot; you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;If
you do not pay your taxes &amp;ndash; your extortion - you will get a letter, and
then another letter, and then a court date, and then an extortion
notice for back taxes, interest and penalties.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;If you do not pay off this extortion, armed thugs in costume will come to your house and drag you off to jail.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;If
you resist, you will be brutally subdued &amp;ndash; if you raise a gun to defend
yourself against this home invasion, you will be slaughtered like
livestock in a hail of bullets.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;In
jail, you will be brutalized, tortured, raped, for months and years.
You may be released, eventually, like Winston Smith, a broken and
shattered soul.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;This is the reality of human farming.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Violence,
kidnapping, torture and institutionalized &amp;quot;rape rooms&amp;quot; &amp;ndash; these are all
threats designed to &amp;quot;demoralize, intimidate and subjugate&amp;quot; for the
political goals of regime change.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;War is an effect of taxation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Taxation is terrorism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;And that is only the beginning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Domestic Terrorism&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;It is always hard to truly see the terrorism involved in advancing causes we believe are good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Do
you like the idea of giving money to the poor, of reducing addiction to
hard drugs, of providing healthcare to the needy sick, and sustenance
to the aged?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;I think that these are all goals that we would accept as good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;How are these goals pursued in a statist society?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h1&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;The War on Drugs&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;First, terrorism is used to extract money from the general population.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Next, some of that money is used to pay for additional terrorism against people suspected or accused of drug use.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Next,
more money is used to pay for kidnapping and imprisonment. The torture
is shared between the guards and the fellow prisoners.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Remember: terrorism is:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;&amp;quot;The
act of terrorizing; use of force or threats to demoralize, intimidate,
and subjugate, esp. such use as a political weapon or policy.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Every policy the government has is a political policy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;The only fundamental weapon any government has is the legal initiation of the use of force.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;The initiation of violence in order to achieve a political policy is terrorism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;The war on drugs is a political policy which is entirely dependent upon the initiation of violence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Public school education is a political policy which is entirely dependent upon the initiation of violence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;The welfare state is a political policy which is entirely dependent upon the initiation of violence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Every goal the government pursues is a political policy which is entirely dependent upon the initiation of violence.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;This is why terrorism is so impossible to define.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;Statism is terrorism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;We are educated by terrorists.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;We are controlled, kidnapped, imprisoned and bribed by terrorists.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;And when we see it, and feel it, and speak it clearly, it will end.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="OLE_LINK1"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse:collapse;color:#000000;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;font-weight:normal;letter-spacing:normal;line-height:14px;orphans:2;text-indent:0px;text-transform:none;white-space:normal;widows:2;word-spacing:0px;font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-converted-space"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;List of US imperialist deaths: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/statism-6"&gt;http://tinyurl.com/statism-6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://board.freedomainradio.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=147394" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://board.freedomainradio.com/blogs/freedomain/archive/tags/_2600_quot_3B00_freedomain+radio_2600_quot_3B00_+terrorism+statism+chomsky+imperialism+libertarian+_2600_quot_3B00_ron+paul_2600_quot_3B00_/default.aspx">&amp;quot;freedomain radio&amp;quot; terrorism statism chomsky imperialism libertarian &amp;quot;ron paul&amp;quot;</category></item><item><title>Freedom, Reason and Cults - the transcript...</title><link>http://board.freedomainradio.com/blogs/freedomain/archive/2008/12/06/freedom-reason-and-cults-the-transcript.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 00:29:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">59c0a406-59fe-4f33-8532-f7cd028d5483:147024</guid><dc:creator>Stefan Molyneux</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(Please visit the site to view this media)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Friedrich Nietzsche -&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;The individual has always
had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try
it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is
too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The
word &amp;quot;cult&amp;quot; has always been used as an empty ad hominem attack against
unsettling truths. Let us take a look at this word &amp;quot;cult,&amp;quot; and use it
with real precision about existing social institutions.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For authoritative British usage, the Compact Oxford English Dictionary of Current English defines &amp;quot;cult&amp;quot; and &amp;quot;sect&amp;quot; as:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;Cult:&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1 a system of religious worship directed towards a particular figure or object.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2 a small religious group regarded as strange or as imposing excessive control over members.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;Sect:&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1
a group of people with different religious beliefs (typically regarded
as heretical) from those of a larger group to which they belong.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2 a group with extreme or dangerous philosophical or political ideas.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Studies
of religious, political, and other cults have identified a number of
key steps in a type of coercive persuasion:[23] 1. People are put in
physically or emotionally distressing situations; 2. their problems are
reduced to one simple explanation, which is repeatedly emphasized; 3.
they receive unconditional love, acceptance, and attention from the
leader; 4. they get a new identity based on the group; 5. they are
subject to entrapment and their access to information is severely
controlled.[24]&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Ovid once said:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;Treason doth never prosper: what&amp;#39;s the reason? Why if it prosper, none dare call it treason.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If a man successfully overthrows the King, no one calls him treasonous, because he now has the power to execute others.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We could equally say:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;Cults never prosper: what&amp;#39;s the reason? Why if they prosper, none dare call them cults.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Let&amp;#39;s look at a few institutions that &lt;em&gt;truly&lt;/em&gt; fit the definition of a cult.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;The Army&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Funded through violence against citizens, commits murder/genocide.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1. People are put in physically or emotionally distressing situations (boot camp, combat)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2. Their problems are reduced to one simple explanation, which is repeatedly emphasized (obey orders)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;3. They receive unconditional love, acceptance, and attention from the leader (&amp;quot;You are heroes!&amp;quot;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;4. They get a new identity based on the group (uniforms, medals, rank)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;5.
They are subject to entrapment and their access to information is
severely controlled. (Stop-loss, unilateral contract changes, lies
about joining up, military censorship)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A cult or sect is &amp;quot;A group with extreme or dangerous philosophical or political ideas.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;It
is heroic and highly moral to rob citizens in order to pay people in
costume to murder by the thousands any group you point at...&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Would you consider that a dangerous philosophical or political idea?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;Religion&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Prospers
by lying to and bullying utterly dependent children, commits emotional
and verbal abuse against the helpless - and all too often pedophilia -
denies condoms to AIDS-ridden countries, justifies and supports wars
and so on.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1. People are put in physically or emotionally
distressing situations (hellfire, damnation, social ostracism,
circumcision, original sin...)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2. Their problems are reduced to one simple explanation, which is repeatedly emphasized (Obey the priest, give money)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;3. They receive unconditional love, acceptance, and attention from the leader (&amp;quot;God loves you!&amp;quot;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;4. They get a new identity based on the group (&amp;quot;Muslim! Christian! Jew! Born-again!&amp;quot;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;5.
They are subject to entrapment and their access to information is
severely controlled. (How many people have read the entire Bible? What
happens to a family if the father begins to doubt the existence of gods
and the virtue of superstition?)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;State Schools&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Funded
through threats of violence against parents, denies choice, traps
children for years, makes kids slothful, resentful, frightened, bored,
aggressive -- and significantly impairs their cognitive development. A
truly coercive form of kidnapping.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1. Children are put in
physically or emotionally distressing situations (confinement, fear,
boredom, rote repetition, mockery, humiliation, punishment...)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2.
Their problems are reduced to one simple explanation, which is
repeatedly emphasized (obey the teacher, get good marks, the state
solves all problems)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;3. They receive unconditional love,
acceptance, and attention from the leader (praise for obedience and
dumb regurgitation, punishment for disobedience and original thinking)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;4. They get a new identity based on the group (&amp;quot;Patriotism is a virtue! You are a citizen!&amp;quot;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;5.
They are subject to entrapment and their access to information is
severely controlled. (parents cannot choose state schools, children are
not allowed to leave, must complete assigned reading and regurgitate
statist propaganda, and their parents will be violently aggressed
against if they do not pay for this brutal indoctrination of their
children.)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Cults never prosper, you see &amp;ndash; because if they &lt;em&gt;do&lt;/em&gt; prosper, they become governments, and armies, and religions - they become &amp;quot;culture.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Friedrich Nietzsche&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;Insanity in individuals is something rare - but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Think of the absurd cultural beliefs that people somehow think are really true...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;The Military&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;Hit men who murder for money are stone evil, unless they put on a green costume, and then they become moral heroes...&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;The Government&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;The government must use the threat of violence to steal half your income, in order to protect you from violence and theft.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;Christianity&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;The
belief that a cosmic Jewish Zombie who was his own father can make you
live forever if you symbolically eat his flesh and telepathically tell
him you accept him as your master, so he can remove an evil force from
your soul that is present in humanity because a rib-woman was convinced
by a talking snake to eat from a magical tree...&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;Gases expand when heated&amp;quot; &amp;ndash; this is not a statement of culture, but of science.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mathematics is not cultural, but rational.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Einstein&amp;#39;s theory of relativity is not cultural, but factual.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Logic and science are not local cultural customs, but objective and rational methodologies.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My goal is to move philosophy from culture to truth, by reasoning from first principles, with reference to empirical evidence.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Culture is that which &lt;em&gt;is not true&lt;/em&gt;,
but is believed to be true. Religion, patriotism, militarism, political
allegiance, all the supposed virtues of accidental geography.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Reasoning
from first principles is dangerous to &amp;quot;culture,&amp;quot; since culture is
always revealed by philosophy as irrational prejudice, indoctrinated
through propaganda and the threat of violence.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Culture is the opposite of philosophy, and truth, just as superstition is the opposite of science, and proof.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Culture is only the first syllable.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Cult&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://board.freedomainradio.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=147024" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>True News 13: Statism is Dead - Part 3 - The Matrix</title><link>http://board.freedomainradio.com/blogs/freedomain/archive/2008/11/26/true-news-13-statism-is-dead-part-3-the-matrix.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2008 17:35:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">59c0a406-59fe-4f33-8532-f7cd028d5483:145642</guid><dc:creator>Stefan Molyneux</dc:creator><slash:comments>7</slash:comments><description>&lt;p&gt;(Please visit the site to view this media)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Matrix is one of the greatest metaphors
ever. Machines invented to make human life easier end up enslaving humanity -
this is the most common theme in dystopian science fiction.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why is this fear so universal - so compelling?
Is it because we really believe that our toaster and our notebook will end up as
our mechanical overlords?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Of course not.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is not a future that we fear, but a
past that we are already living.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Supposedly, governments were invented to
make human life easier and safer, but governments always end up enslaving
humanity.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That which we create to &amp;quot;serve&amp;quot; us ends up
ruling us.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The US government &amp;quot;by and for the people&amp;quot;
now imprisons millions, takes half the national income by force,
over-regulates, punishes, tortures, slaughters foreigners, invades countries,
overthrows governments, imposes 700 imperialistic bases overseas, inflates the
currency, and crushes future generations with massive debts.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That which we create to &amp;quot;serve&amp;quot; us ends up
ruling us.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The problem with the &amp;quot;state as servant&amp;quot;
thesis is that it is historically completely false, both empirically and
logically.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The idea that states were voluntarily invented
by citizens to enhance their own security is utterly untrue.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Before governments, in tribal times, human
beings could only produce what they consumed -- there was no excess production
of food or other resources. Thus, there was no point owning slaves, because the
slave could not produce any excess that could be stolen by the master.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If a horse pulling a plow can only produce
enough additional food to feed the horse, there is no point hunting, capturing
and breaking in a horse.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;However, when agricultural improvements
allowed for the creation of excess crops, suddenly it became highly
advantageous to own human beings.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When cows began to provide excess milk and
meat, owning cows became worthwhile.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The earliest governments and empires were
in fact a ruling class of slave hunters, who understood that because human
beings could produce more than they consumed, they were worth hunting, capturing,
breaking in - and owning.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The earliest Egyptian and Chinese empires
were in reality human farms, where people were hunted, captured, domesticated and
owned like any other form of livestock. Due to technological and methodological
improvements, the slaves produced enough excess that the labor involved in
capturing and keeping them represented only a small subset of their total
productivity. The ruling class - the &lt;i&gt;farmers&lt;/i&gt;
- kept a large portion of that excess, while handing out gifts and payments to
the brutalizing class - the police, slave hunters, and general sadists - and
the propagandizing class - the priests, intellectuals, and artists.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This situation continued for thousands of
years, until the 16-17th centuries, when again massive improvements in
agricultural organization and technology created the second wave of excess
productivity. The enclosure movement re-organized and consolidated farmland,
resulting in 5-10 times more crops, creating a new class of industrial workers,
displaced from the country and huddling in the new cities.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This enormous agricultural excess was the
basis of the capital that drove the industrial revolution.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Industrial Revolution did not arise
because the ruling class wanted to free their serfs, but rather because they
realized how additional &amp;quot;liberties&amp;quot; could make their livestock astoundingly more
productive.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When cows are placed in very confining
stalls, they beat their heads against the walls, resulting in injuries and
infections. Thus farmers now give them more room -- not because they want to
set their cows free, but rather because they want greater productivity and
lower costs.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The next stop after &amp;quot;free range&amp;quot; is not
&amp;quot;freedom.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The rise of state capitalism in the 19&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt;
century was actually the rise of &amp;quot;free range serfdom.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Additional liberties were granted to the
human livestock not with the goal of setting them free, but rather with the
goal of increasing their productivity.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Of course, intellectuals, artists and
priests were - and are - well paid to conceal this reality.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The great problem of modern human livestock
ownership is the challenge of &amp;quot;enthusiasm.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;State capitalism only works when the
entrepreneurial spirit drives creativity and productivity in the economy.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;However, excess productivity always creates
a larger state, and swells the ruling classes and their dependents, which eats
into the motivation for additional productivity. Taxes and regulations rise,
state debt (future farming) increases, and living standards slow and decay.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Depression and despair began to spread, as
the reality of being owned sets in for the general population.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The solution to this is additional
propaganda, antidepressant medications, superstition, wars, moral campaigns of
every kind, the creation of &amp;quot;enemies,&amp;quot; the inculcation of patriotism,
collective fears, paranoia about &amp;quot;outsiders&amp;quot; and &amp;quot;immigrants,&amp;quot; and so on.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It is essential to understand the reality
of the world.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When you look at a map of the world, you
are not looking at countries, but &lt;i&gt;farms&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You are allowed certain liberties - limited
property ownership, movement rights, freedom of association and occupation -
not because your government approves of these rights in principle - since it
constantly violates them - but rather because &amp;quot;free range livestock&amp;quot; is so much
cheaper to own and so more productive.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It is important to understand the reality
of ideologies.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;State capitalism, socialism, communism,
fascism, democracy - these are all livestock management approaches.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Some work well for long periods - state capitalism
- and some work very badly - communism.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;They all fail eventually, because it is immoral
and irrational to treat human beings as livestock.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The recent growth of &amp;quot;freedom&amp;quot; in China,
India and Asia is occurring because the local state farmers have upgraded their
livestock management practices. They have recognized that putting the cows in a
larger stall provides the rulers more milk and meat.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Rulers have also recognized that if they
prevent you from fleeing the farm, you will become depressed, inert and
unproductive. A serf is the most productive when he imagines he is free. Thus
your rulers must provide you the illusion of freedom in order to harvest you
most effectively.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thus you are &amp;quot;allowed&amp;quot; to leave - but never
to real freedom, only to another farm, because the whole world is a farm. They
will prevent you from taking a lot of money, they will bury you in endless
paperwork, they will restrict your right to work -- but you are &amp;quot;free&amp;quot; to
leave. Due to these difficulties, very few people do leave, but the illusion of
mobility is maintained. If only 1 out of 1,000 cows escapes, but the illusion
of escaping significantly raises the productivity of the remaining 999, it remains
a net gain for the farmer.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You are also kept on the farm through
licensing. The most productive livestock are the professionals, so the rulers
fit them with an electronic dog collar called a &amp;quot;license,&amp;quot; which only allows
them to practice their trade on their own farm.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To further create the illusion of freedom,
in certain farms, the livestock are allowed to choose between a few farmers
that the investors present. At best, they are given minor choices in how they
are managed. They are never given the choice to shut down the farm, and be truly
free.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Government schools are indoctrination pens
for livestock. They train children to &amp;quot;love&amp;quot; the farm, and to fear true freedom
and independence, and to attack anyone who questions the brutal reality of human
ownership. Furthermore, they create jobs for the intellectuals that state
propaganda so relies on.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The ridiculous contradictions of statism --
like religion -- can only be sustained through endless propaganda inflicted
upon helpless children.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The idea that democracy and some sort of
&amp;quot;social contract&amp;quot; justifies the brutal exercise of violent power over billions
is patently ridiculous.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you say to a slave that his ancestors
&amp;quot;chose&amp;quot; slavery, and therefore he is bound by their decisions, he will simply
say:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;If slavery is a choice, then I choose not
to be a slave.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is the most frightening statement for
the ruling classes, which is why they train their slaves to attack anyone who dares
speak it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Statism is not a philosophy.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Statism does not originate from historical evidence
or rational principles.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Statism is an &lt;i&gt;ex post facto&lt;/i&gt; justification for human ownership.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Statism is an excuse for violence.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Statism is an ideology, and all ideologies
are variations on human livestock management practices.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Religion is pimped-out superstition,
designed to drug children with fears that they will endlessly pay to have &amp;quot;alleviated.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Nationalism is pimped-out bigotry, designed
to provoke a Stockholm Syndrome in the livestock.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The opposite of superstition is not another
superstition, but the truth.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The opposite of ideology is not a different
ideology, but clear evidence and rational principles.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The opposite of superstition and ideology -
of statism - is philosophy.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Reason and courage will set us free.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You do not have to be livestock.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Take the red pill.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Wake up.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://board.freedomainradio.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=145642" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>Real-Time Relationships - The Book</title><link>http://board.freedomainradio.com/blogs/freedomain/archive/2008/11/14/real-time-relationships-the-book.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 13:34:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">59c0a406-59fe-4f33-8532-f7cd028d5483:144001</guid><dc:creator>Stefan Molyneux</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><description>&lt;p&gt;



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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105618"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633250"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Real-Time Relationships:&lt;br /&gt;The Logic of Love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;ome of the greatest movies of the past ten years explored what it is like to live in an illusion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. &amp;ldquo;The Sixth Sense,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;Fight Club&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; and, greatest of all, &amp;ldquo;The Matrix.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s start with a spoiler or two, shall we?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In &amp;ldquo;The Matrix,&amp;rdquo; a young man is awakened from a computer-generated imaginary world to find that he is enslaved by robots who are paralyzing him with the illusion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of life in order to harvest his electrical energy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is a wonderful metaphor on many levels, and tells us an enormous amount about our &amp;ldquo;relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; with truth and reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the movie, the robots that were originally invented to serve mankind end up ruling mankind and spinning an illusory &amp;ldquo;reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; which keeps their former masters entombed in the mere appearance of a life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My take on this metaphor is that it is really describing &lt;i&gt;propaganda&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For instance, the &lt;i&gt;government&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is an institution that was originally designed to serve citizens&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; &amp;ldquo;government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by and for the people.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, as we have seen countless times, what we create to &lt;i&gt;serve&lt;/i&gt; us ends up &lt;i&gt;ruling&lt;/i&gt; us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Governments that were supposedly created to keep our property safe from thieves now steal upwards of 50% of our income under the guise of &amp;ldquo;taxation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Governments were supposedly created to give us participation in the &amp;ldquo;democratic process&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; yet if we do not agree with whatever those in the government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;decree, we are threatened with violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and imprisonment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Through the endless infliction of pro-state propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;schools, we grow up believing in mad illusions such as &amp;ldquo;countries,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;virtuous violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;participative democracy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;voluntary taxation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;murder&amp;rdquo; in the form of &amp;ldquo;armies&amp;rdquo; and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In our churches, we are taught as children to believe that deranged fairy tales&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;represent objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and absolute truth. We are expected to believe with all seriousness that we are evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because a woman made from the rib of a man listened to a talking snake&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. We are asked to swallow the proposition that an invisible being who drowned almost everyone in the world is the very paragon of virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In our families&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we are taught that our relations are virtuous and have value simply because they share some of our DNA &amp;ndash; while at the same time being told that racism is evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In our relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we are taught that &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; can be willed, that others owe us affection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and respect, and that bullying&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the same as being assertive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Standing at the border of a country, we see that the land does not change color, as indicated on maps. Gravity does not change as we step across this imaginary line; reason, physics and morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;remain utterly constant.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We believe &amp;ndash; or rather, the belief is inflicted upon us &amp;ndash; that we owe allegiance to imaginary lines, imaginary gods, and the imaginary virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of our tribe.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Awakening from these mad dreams is a disorienting, frightening and wonderful experience.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Philosophy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the tool that we use to undo our illusions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Philosophy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;reveals to us the simple truths that are self-evident to toddlers, yearned for by teenagers &amp;ndash; and attacked and dismissed by most adults.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Philosophy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is in its essence about &lt;i&gt;relationships&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ndash; the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;between a statement and its truth-value; the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;between logic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and empiricism, &amp;ldquo;self&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;other,&amp;rdquo; choice and virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and happiness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; the mind and reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, most importantly, philosophy is about our relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with each other.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Philosophy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; like all knowledge &amp;ndash; is a communal endeavour, since it cannot exist without the collective and accumulated values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of language, prior thought &amp;ndash; and our shared capacity to process sensory reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A man born alone on a desert island cannot practice medicine, or science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; or philosophy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Philosophy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;reveals the truth to us about our relations with each other, with reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and with truth itself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we are free, philosophy will strengthen our wings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we are enslaved, philosophy will weaken our chains&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;ost books about relationships will talk about your spouse, your parents, your siblings, your friends, your children and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We will address all these in this book, but I have also included an analysis of your relationship to your &lt;i&gt;society&lt;/i&gt; in terms of religion, politics and culture.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t believe that it&amp;rsquo;s possible to effectively analyze and improve our interactions with others without taking into account the larger social or philosophical context that we inhabit. If we are to achieve our goals of honesty, integrity and true personal freedom, the values that were inflicted upon us as children by culture must be rigorously examined.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The directions that a passerby gives us will do us little good if our overall map is wrong.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, this book will touch on your social, cultural and political relationships and the impact they have on your personal relationships. Since your emotional reactions to these issues can be as strong as anything you feel about your personal relationships, excluding them from a book designed to give you happiness and peace of mind would leave the world at best half unexamined.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;s I discussed in my two previous books &amp;ndash; &amp;ldquo;On Truth: The Tyranny of Illusion,&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;Universally Preferable Behaviour: A Rational Proof of Secular Ethics,&amp;rdquo; mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the opposite of truth, since it provides the &lt;i&gt;illusion&lt;/i&gt; of truth and so prevents further exploration.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this book I will argue that truth is a necessary prerequisite for intimacy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;On Truth&amp;rdquo; was primarily about our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the past. &amp;ldquo;Universally Preferable Behaviour&amp;rdquo; was primarily about our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with truth, reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the present.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This book is primarily about our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with ourselves and others in the &lt;i&gt;future&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is a book about honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the most challenging and rewarding kind: honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with &amp;ndash; and about &amp;ndash; yourself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Most times in life, we do not even know that we are lying. We do not know that we are failing to process reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; both inner and outer &amp;ndash; correctly because we are addicted to mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or making up stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;which drug us with the &lt;i&gt;illusion&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of truth, rather than humbly pursuing truth in reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In our collective past, mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;dominated our thinking &amp;ndash; particularly in the realms of ethics, society and reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. In the realm of ethics, we constructed vast imaginary entities such as gods, nations, states, classes and so on, all of which inevitably caused us to surrender our autonomy and sense of personal control to the tall tales of madmen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;With regards to society &amp;ndash; particularly family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; we substituted blood and accidental proximity for virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. We were &amp;ndash; and are &amp;ndash; trained by those who accidentally rule us biologically to submit to those who accidentally rule us geographically.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;With regards to reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we imagined that lurid, corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and insane tales about gods, devils&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and talking snakes could provide us some sort of truth about the material world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The humility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;required to subject our wild and narcissistic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;imaginings to the twin disciplines of logic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and evidence has been sorely lacking throughout human history, and it is not hard to see the effects of this lack of humility in the realms of science in the past&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and ethics in the present.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the realm of our &lt;i&gt;relationships&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, however, we remain positively medieval.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the Middle Ages, when an eclipse was observed a myth was invented to &amp;ldquo;explain&amp;rdquo; the event. God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;was angry, a witch is among us, sinners abound and so on. Some senseless and brutal sacrifice was made, some hellish amalgam of torture and murder was inflicted on some hapless epileptic or imbecile, and &amp;ldquo;order&amp;rdquo; was restored &amp;ndash; and anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;reduced &amp;ndash; to the temporary relief of all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, in our personal relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, when discomforts arise, we create stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to &amp;ldquo;explain away&amp;rdquo; our emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a man causes us anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then he is &amp;ldquo;aggressive.&amp;rdquo; If a woman rejects us, then she is &amp;ldquo;cold.&amp;rdquo; If our child criticizes us, then he is &amp;ldquo;ungrateful.&amp;rdquo; If we get fired, our boss is &amp;ldquo;vindictive.&amp;rdquo; If our wife leaves us, women are &amp;ldquo;selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;n the religious approach to &amp;ldquo;truth,&amp;rdquo; the priest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;makes a prediction &amp;ndash; &amp;ldquo;worship my God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and your harvest will be good&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; and then invents &amp;ldquo;sinners&amp;rdquo; to take the blame if his prediction fails to materialize. In this way, the possibility of disproof &amp;ndash; of personal responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the priest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; is eliminated.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;All too often this is our default position in relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We enter into relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;based on our predictions of how they will turn out. Who but a masochist&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;would continue dating a woman if he knew &lt;i&gt;for certain&lt;/i&gt; she would break his heart within six months? Would you marry a woman and have children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with her if you knew that she would divorce you and take you for everything you had?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We make predictions about relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and then, when those predictions fail to come true, we invent &amp;ldquo;sinners&amp;rdquo; to take the blame.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We embark upon our relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with the highest hopes and ambitions and then, when they crash in flames or peter out into nothing, we begin mythologizing the reasons why.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Compared to medieval priests, we are often more sophisticated in our defences nowadays. We provide quasi-enlightened reasons as to why our relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;fail, which on the surface seem to contain some aspects of personal responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but which are really the same old mythologies dressed up in new psychological garb.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For instance, if my marriage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;fails because I work too hard and ignore my wife and children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, I may openly confess that I worked too hard &amp;ndash; but then, inevitably, self-pitying justifications will creep into my explanation&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;My wife left me because I worked most Saturdays and spent two or three days a week on the road. I definitely should have spent more time at home, but then of course she really &lt;i&gt;liked&lt;/i&gt; the vacations on the French Riviera, and the children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;apparently really &lt;i&gt;needed&lt;/i&gt; their ski lessons, and she &lt;i&gt;did&lt;/i&gt; install that kiln in our basement for her pottery. I should have put my foot down earlier and forced her to make a decision, and not just let her desire for more and more stuff keep driving me back to the office!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Implicit in this kind of mealy-mouthed &amp;ldquo;explanation&amp;rdquo; is the basic premise that, &amp;ldquo;My wife is a greedy materialist who wanted to have her cake and eat it too. She wanted all this great stuff, she wanted all the status that came with the big house and a nice car, but she also wanted me to be home to take care of her as well!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You often hear the same complaint with regards to sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. For instance, a man may say:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;m not allowed to have an affair, because I am married &amp;ndash; yet my wife refuses to have sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with me, so I&amp;rsquo;m totally stuck. She holds a monopoly veto on our sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;life, which she uses &lt;i&gt;constantly&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; yet I am not allowed to look outside the marriage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Wives have similar complaints about their husbands:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;He says that he wants to help me around the house, but then he does everything so badly that I am forced to run around fixing everything up after him, so that it turns out to be more work than it&amp;rsquo;s worth!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Or:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;He always complains that I nag him too much, but I wouldn&amp;rsquo;t have to repeat myself if he only listened to me in the first place! If he just took the garbage out when I asked him to, I wouldn&amp;rsquo;t have to keep asking him!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Or:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;He thinks that having sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will make us close. I keep telling him that I can only have sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with him if I feel close &lt;i&gt;already&lt;/i&gt;. That just makes him angry &amp;ndash; and then he expects me to want to have sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with him because he&amp;rsquo;ll get pouty if I &lt;i&gt;don&amp;rsquo;t&lt;/i&gt;!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105622"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633254"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Positioning&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As we can see, conflicts in relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;so often escalate into subtle put-down exercises, wherein a frantic and insistent kind of &lt;i&gt;positioning&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;occurs: &amp;ldquo;I am right and you are wrong&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; or, more accurately: &amp;ldquo;I am good and you are bad.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How many times do we hear people complain about their relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, basically saying, &amp;ldquo;If my partner only did the right thing, everything would be great!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is a mad kind of mythological fantasy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; not to mention completely paralyzing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When things go wrong we have a great tendency to avoid the pain of responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by making up stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that blame others, or circumstances, or fate, or God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Responsibility can be very painful, and mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;provides an instant relief for this pain. In particular, &lt;i&gt;blame &lt;/i&gt;is a very addictive form of self-medication&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;which helps us avoid the pain of responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; but also traps us in negative, difficult or even dangerous situations.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105623"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633255"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Arc of a Relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.0pt;"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;typical dysfunctional romantic relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;tends to have distinct phases.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105624"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633256"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Caution&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When two people meet and are romantically interested in each other, there tends to be a phase of initial caution in which they examine each other for potential compatibility.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We will call this man &amp;ldquo;Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; and this woman &amp;ldquo;Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The more functional the individuals, the longer this phase lasts. If an insecure woman is looking for an insecure man, this phase tends to be very short. When they first meet, she looks for &amp;ldquo;markers&amp;rdquo; indicating low levels of self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. These can include a lack of eye contact, a nervous laugh, tattoos, drug use, compulsive joke-telling, underachievement, pomposity, or a kind of baseless arrogance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Once Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;establishes that Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is either genuinely low or artificially &amp;ldquo;high,&amp;rdquo; she immediately feels more comfortable with him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has low self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because she believes things that are not true about herself and others. She remains insecure because she is actively preferring short-term gains to long-term gains. For instance, if she has an abusive father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but stays in touch with him, then she is choosing continued abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;(long-term pain) in order to avoid the anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of confrontation (short-term pain).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has developed an &amp;ldquo;avoidance mechanism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; for dealing with her anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, inviting a man of true moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;into her life would be a disaster for her illusions. Such a man would immediately see that she was being abused by her father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and would care enough about her to encourage her to either improve her relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with her father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or get him out of her life. (A wiser and more experienced man would know that she cannot improve her &amp;ldquo;relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; with her abusive father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which would be even more anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;provoking for her.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;chose to continue her relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with her father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, a moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;man would realize that she is habitually sacrificing ethics, virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the sake of immediate anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;avoidance. This means that throughout her life, abusive people will forever control her behaviour, and she will continually sacrifice the good people around her for the sake of appeasing the evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;None of us can sustain any moral decision in the absence of at least the appearance of an ethical justification. If a man of self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;confronts a woman who enables abusers, she will be inevitably drawn to defend her appeasement on &amp;ldquo;moral&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;grounds. &amp;ldquo;Family is an innate value.&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;I think it&amp;rsquo;s important to be a good daughter.&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;Forgiveness is a virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the woman is not just amoral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but rather &lt;i&gt;anti&lt;/i&gt;-moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because she just makes up &amp;ldquo;moral&amp;rdquo; justifications for her cowardly actions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No man of genuine self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;could stay in a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with such a corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;woman, since she uses virtuous definitions to enable her own subjugation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. In particular, no moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;man would ever have children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with such a woman, who would inevitably raise them as frightened and obedient or rebellious slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since all of this is well-known unconsciously, a woman of low self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is inevitably bound to end up dating a man of low self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. We can think of this relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as essentially a mutual covenant to maintain corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;falsehoods. &amp;ldquo;Let me believe my lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and I&amp;rsquo;ll let you believe yours.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, like all corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;falsehoods, it cannot last.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105625"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633257"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;After the self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;issue has been established, the dating aspect of the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can begin.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the case of insecure individuals, sexuality always makes a premature entrance. Since a woman of low self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;does not have any genuine virtues to offer a man, such as courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, nobility and so on, she must &lt;i&gt;create&lt;/i&gt; value in some other manner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Typically, the &amp;ldquo;value&amp;rdquo; that this type of woman brings to the early part of a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is sexual availability.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105626"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633258"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Love Bomb&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In many cults, such as Christianity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, potential recruits are subjected to what is often called a &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;bomb,&amp;rdquo; wherein massive amounts of artificial affection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are injected into a mostly-empty soul. This tends to wash away any lingering sense of personal boundaries&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and judgment, triggering what psychologists call &amp;ldquo;fusion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; or the uncritical elevation of an individual to a status of near-deific perfection.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The introduction of a highly-sexualized interaction produces a biochemical form of euphoria, which typically lasts from three to six months. During this time, ego boundaries&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;tend to dissolve, there are few if any difficult decisions to be made, there tends to be an isolation from both friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and the cycle of sexual tension, desire and release tends to consume the mind and body.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105627"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633259"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Plateau&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;At the highest point of this interaction, the couple&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;tends to make decisions about their long-term futures.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is akin to deciding whether or not you can fly while high on PCP.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is when couples decide to commit in some significant manner, such as moving in together, or getting engaged, or simply planning a permanent future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105628"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633260"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Hiccup&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Shortly after the commitment is made, the couple&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;begins to re-enter the world, and the sexual euphoria begins to wear off. At the same time, they begin to deal with the mundane practicalities of negotiating their living arrangements and/or potential nuptials, as well as entering as a couple&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;into a more complex social world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As they begin to re-enter the world, interactions with friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;begin to influence the couple&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;begins to see what Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is &lt;i&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; like around her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Sheila begins to notice that Bruce&amp;rsquo;s brother drinks to excess, and Bruce says nothing. He sees how shrill she becomes around her friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;; she sees how susceptible he is to peer pressure.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105629"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633261"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Descent&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;begin to make decisions about their lives together, they notice that their lack of boundaries&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is beginning to cause real friction in their negotiations. Also, since they have spent so much time having sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;instead of learning how to actually communicate with each other, they find that their level of commitment is far ahead of their ability to negotiate. They have bonded out of euphoria, neediness, relief and hyper-sexuality, rather than mutual respect and regard for one another.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;At this point, the woman generally becomes less sexually available.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason for this is the underlying low self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that caused the hyper-sexuality in the first place.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since she had little intrinsic value to offer Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;initially, Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;substituted sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for self-worth. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As their relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;progresses, however, and the sexual euphoria wears off, she begins to feel resentment towards sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;One way to understand this transition is to picture a rich and insecure man who dazzles his dates with extravagant outings. He flies them to Paris, takes them out on his yacht, buys them jewellery, and drapes them in fur. Naturally, they respond with &amp;ldquo;devotion&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;ardour.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;develops, however, he begins to resent the need for constant extravagance. &amp;ldquo;Would she really love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;me if I didn&amp;rsquo;t buy her things?&amp;rdquo; he wonders. In order to find this out, he becomes increasingly irritable towards her desire for gifts. When she suggests a weekend away on the French Riviera, he rolls his eyes and snaps at her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The same insecurity about his own intrinsic value that caused him to lavish gifts on her now causes him to withdraw his &amp;ldquo;generosity.&amp;rdquo; The same insecurity that prevented him from offering himself to her without &amp;ldquo;extras&amp;rdquo; now causes him to withdraw those extras, in the mad hope that she will find him valuable without gifts&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, after buying her, he hopes that she is not in it for the money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is how it works with female sexuality after the initial phase of euphoria.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Lots of sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the beginning means a whole lot less sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;later on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105630"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633262"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Lying&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As negotiations about mutual living arrangements, sexuality and social life become more and more difficult, it also becomes more and more difficult for Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to retrace their steps and figure out where they went wrong at the beginning.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For instance, as Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s resentment towards sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;begins to rise, she will tend to make up excuses as to why she doesn&amp;rsquo;t want sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and those excuses are not designed to fool Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but rather to fool &lt;i&gt;herself&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;She will claim that she is tired, or that she has to get up early. She will snap that he is only ever interested in &amp;ldquo;one thing,&amp;rdquo; or that she doesn&amp;rsquo;t feel &amp;ldquo;close enough&amp;rdquo; to have sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or that he is doing a million and one things wrong, which is killing her sexual desire, and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The truth of the matter is that she is making up stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; inventing &amp;ldquo;sinners&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; in order to avoid the truth about her own growing repugnance towards sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;were to speak with total honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, she would say something like this:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, I had a lot of sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with you early on because I don&amp;rsquo;t feel like I&amp;rsquo;m worth much of anything. The fact that you were willing to have sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with me despite the fact that I was manipulating you tells me everything that I need to know about your level of integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and capacity to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If you really loved me, you would not pressure me to have sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when I feel depressed. If I were really lovable, I would not have used sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to create artificial value.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The end result of this kind of conversation, of course, is the termination of the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; which is why it is so studiously avoided, and a million distractions are invented in order to avoid that core reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105631"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633263"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Entombment&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As conflicts begin to rise, Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;enter the phase of &amp;ldquo;slow entombment.&amp;rdquo; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this phase, conflicts which cannot be resolved generally start to be avoided. If Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;does not like Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and it upsets her when he talks about them, the &amp;ldquo;solution&amp;rdquo; becomes to simply &lt;i&gt;not talk about her parents&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Similarly, if Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;dislikes Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s drinking, and it upsets him when she brings it up, they &amp;ldquo;solve&amp;rdquo; the problem either by her refraining from bringing it up, or by him beginning to drink in secret.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This process continues unabated. Bit by bit, unresolved conflicts create localized minefields that prohibit free movement and spontaneity. &amp;ldquo;Don&amp;rsquo;t go there&amp;rdquo; becomes a near-constant mantra.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since the solution to anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is to control the other person&amp;rsquo;s behaviour which &amp;ldquo;causes&amp;rdquo; the anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;turns into a kind of &amp;ldquo;soft tyranny.&amp;rdquo; Since it is considered &amp;ldquo;wrong&amp;rdquo; to cause the other person anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, any behaviour which results in anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must be banned as immoral.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Over the next few months or years a creeping paralysis enters into the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, as more and more topics become &amp;ldquo;off limits.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As spontaneity and authenticity become less and less possible and the endless regulations of behaviour pile up, inevitable resentments begin to creep in. Both Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;feel over-controlled, and their interactions become more and more rigid and empty. The cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;at the root of controlling each other in order to manage their own anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;becomes more and more evident as time goes on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Generally, there are two possibilities for this kind of endless increase in the bureaucratic hyper-regulation of the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If neither party takes a &amp;ldquo;stand,&amp;rdquo; then the abusive &amp;ldquo;rules&amp;rdquo; continue to pile up until one or both parties wake up one day completely unable to breathe. An overwhelming rush of frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; or perhaps a full-fledged panic attack &amp;ndash; takes hold, and there is a sudden and savage breakup.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The second possibility is for the &amp;ldquo;fronts&amp;rdquo; in this subterranean war to harden. This is analogous to a guerrilla conflict&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;turning into the frozen hell of First World War trench warfare.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this second scenario, each party picks one or a few fixed positions and just continues to pound their partner on the basis of those. For Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, it might be the lack of sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. For Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, it might be the lack of emotional participation in the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or help around the house, or some such topic.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Unconsciously, this represents a desperate attempt to stop the endless proliferation of petty rules, since both Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;instinctively understand the inevitable result of &lt;i&gt;that &lt;/i&gt;process. Rather than moving on from each prior conflict&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, thus generating new conflicts which must be avoided by the creation of new &amp;ldquo;rules,&amp;rdquo; Sheila and Bruce start to repetitively attack each other on the grounds of just a few particular issues. This prevents the creation of new rules &amp;ndash; thus staving off the end of the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; at the price of remaining trapped in endless circling conflicts&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In fact, Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;remain drawn to these few particular conflicts and cannot leave them alone. An unconscious &amp;ldquo;contract&amp;rdquo; is created, wherein any frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;about new problems is channeled into a replay of some agreed-upon existing conflict&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. This is just another way of avoiding the inevitable end of the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that would result from &amp;ldquo;dealing&amp;rdquo; with new problems.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This second scenario is the route most often taken by couples with children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Since the stakes of ending a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are far higher for parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, they tend to revert to this &amp;ldquo;broken record&amp;rdquo; form of problem avoidance rather than allow the escalation of new problems to destroy their relationship.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105632"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633264"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Aftermath&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Earlier, we talked about how the religious approach to &amp;ldquo;truth&amp;rdquo; is to make predictions, and then invent &amp;ldquo;sinners&amp;rdquo; to take the blame when those predictions fail to come true. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;After Bruce and Sheila break up, they will invariably begin the process of inventing scapegoats or &amp;ldquo;sinners&amp;rdquo; to take the blame for the failure of their relationship. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;This failure was not primarily the relationship itself, but rather &lt;i&gt;their own predictions about the relationship&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;They entered into a relationship with each other based on the prediction that they would stay together and be happy. Early on, they openly praised each other to the skies, to themselves and their friends and family. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;How, then, can they explain the dismal failure of the relationship and eventual distaste for each other?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, there is really only one way to explain it &amp;ndash; see if this seems familiar.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sheila will say: &amp;ldquo;He just ended up being a real bastard &amp;ndash; and there was no way to predict that at the beginning.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Bruce will say: &amp;ldquo;She seemed like a really nice girl, at first &amp;ndash; but as it turns out, she had some real issues that she wasn&amp;rsquo;t willing to address.&amp;rdquo; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the &amp;ldquo;one-two&amp;rdquo; punch that is designed to bring down the truth. &amp;ldquo;I was correct when I praised her early on, and I am now also correct when I condemn her at the end.&amp;rdquo; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;This mythology provides relief from anxiety in the short-term (&amp;ldquo;How could I have been so careless with my heart?&amp;rdquo;) while creating far greater anxiety in the long-term. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a group of villagers live at the base of a volcano, and they ascribe the eruption of the volcano to the anger of the fire god, they will inevitably end up performing various rituals to &amp;ldquo;appease&amp;rdquo; this anger. Since these rituals have in fact nothing to do with the eruptions, the villagers end up staying near the mountain, imagining that they are creating some form of safety or predictability. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Imaginary answers create perpetual danger.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;The moment that the villagers accept that they cannot predict or control the eruption of the volcano, they will move, thus creating real safety and predictability.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;When our predictions fail to come true, we can either attempt to determine why we made such a mistake, or we can make up an imaginary answer &amp;ndash; thus guaranteeing a repetition of the mistake. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;When a relationship fails, we can either attempt to understand the dangerous clues that were embedded in our interactions from the very beginning &amp;ndash; which doubtless existed &amp;ndash; or we can just blame the other person for mysteriously &amp;ldquo;changing.&amp;rdquo; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we take the route of blaming the other person, we certainly let ourselves off the hook &amp;ndash; but we also guarantee that we will remain blind to cues that we really need to see in the future. By blaming the other person, all we do essentially is say that there is no way to predict the outcome of a relationship based on early interactions. In other words, when it comes to relationships, all we can do is cross our fingers and hope for the best. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is why it keeps happening.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105633"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633265"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Win/Lose&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why do these conflicts continually escalate in this manner?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;One central tragedy of our lives is that we are so often raised in win/lose relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;get offended, we are punished. If our teacher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;gets angry, we get detention. If we want something, someone else must give up something.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This same pattern repeats itself in all of our adult relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Most lovers only know how to &amp;ldquo;get their way&amp;rdquo; through either overt aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or passive aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;(in general, the male and female tools, respectively).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Men say: &amp;ldquo;If I don&amp;rsquo;t get what I want, I will be angry.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Women say: &amp;ldquo;If I don&amp;rsquo;t get what I want, I will be sad.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;These strategies generally result from a fundamentally narcissistic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;approach to the world. The possibility of a win-win negotiation is never considered, because it has never been taught or demonstrated.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s take a more concrete example.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My wife Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;really enjoys watching a television show called &amp;ldquo;Dancing with the Stars.&amp;rdquo; I do like watching the dance routines, but have a tough time making it through all the filler and commercials. Last night, I went upstairs to get a DVD for us to watch and then when I came downstairs saw that Christina had found the show on TV and was settling in to watch it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I would have preferred it if she had not found the show &amp;ndash; so that we could watch the DVD &amp;ndash; but that was sort of out of my hands at this point.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Many couples would look upon this as a win/lose situation &amp;ndash; that Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;would watch the show and I would suffer through the filler and commercials, or that Christina would not get to watch her show, and watch the DVD I chose instead. Or, perhaps, that Christina would tape the show and watch it on her own, or some other solution.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, although I would have preferred to watch the DVD, I sat down and happily watched the dancing show.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How is that possible?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, quite simply it is possible because I take an enormous amount of pleasure in my wife&amp;rsquo;s pleasure. (Shoe shopping excepted, of course &amp;ndash; I am only a mortal man!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;watching the play of delight on my wife&amp;rsquo;s face and the intensity of her enjoyment. To take pleasure in the pleasure of another human being is foundational to a loving relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. It certainly is true that I would have received 100% pleasure from watching the DVD, and 90% pleasure from watching my wife&amp;rsquo;s enjoyment of the dancing show, but I can scarcely claim to be hard done by because I had to choose between 100% pleasure and 90% pleasure!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you cannot take pleasure in your partner&amp;rsquo;s pleasure, then win-win negotiations become impossible. If I got &lt;b&gt;+&lt;/b&gt;100% pleasure from watching my DVD, and &lt;b&gt;-&lt;/b&gt;100% pleasure from watching the dancing show &amp;ndash; and if my wife faced the reverse proposition &amp;ndash; then one of us would have to win, and the other would have to lose.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This concept of the &amp;ldquo;minor sacrifice&amp;rdquo; is something that every couple&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;should openly discuss and work on. I very much want my wife to be happy in our marriage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because if she is not happy then I cannot be happy either. If I get exactly what I want every single time, no matter what her preferences, then it is impossible &amp;ndash; according to the principles of Universally Preferable Behaviour &amp;ndash; for her to remain happy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since my happiness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;depends on remaining married to her, my happiness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can never in general exceed hers in the long run.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105634"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633266"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Trust&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;ur resistance to this kind of openhearted generosity arises out of our fear of exploitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We say to ourselves: &amp;ldquo;If I give her what she wants every single time, I will never get what I want. She will take advantage of my generosity, and I will end up a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to her every whim, and never get my needs met!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My response to this is:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="center" style="text-align:center;border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;If that is true, then you should know it &lt;span style="text-decoration:underline;"&gt;before&lt;/span&gt; you get involved!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I was younger, I went out with a woman who openly said that she expected me to pay for our outings. &amp;ldquo;A man&amp;rsquo;s generosity is financial; a woman&amp;rsquo;s generosity is composed of&amp;hellip; other things,&amp;rdquo; she said seductively.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I was somewhat alarmed by her perspective, but I decided to give it a shot. I did pay for our outings, without complaint, and then waited for reciprocity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It never came, and the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ended. I was sad, but never looked back.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105635"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633267"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Closure and Self&amp;ndash;Trust&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To achieve true happiness and peace of mind, we must come to a &lt;i&gt;resolution&lt;/i&gt; about each relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in our lives &amp;ndash; what is commonly called &amp;ldquo;closure.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Closure&amp;rdquo; is the achievement of &lt;i&gt;self-trust in our own judgment&lt;/i&gt;. Fundamentally, we never really trust others, but rather only ourselves. It was not this woman that I needed to trust, but my own judgment about her proposition.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we doubt, generosity always provides certainty.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In my 20s, I was involved in a long-term relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with a woman who wanted to get into the filmmaking business. After watching her struggle for some time, I decided to write and fund a movie for her. We did end up making the movie, which did quite well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A month or two after we had finished making the movie, I asked her to reread an unpublished novel of mine that she had criticized, and give me suggestions for improvements. She half-heartedly agreed to do so, but week after week went by and she never picked up the manuscript.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Eventually I confronted her on this, and explained my hurt feelings and mistrust of her capacity for reciprocity. She replied that the reason she had not read my novel was because I had not &amp;ldquo;motivated&amp;rdquo; her to do so. Naturally, I responded that she had not &amp;ldquo;motivated&amp;rdquo; me to spend a small fortune making a film to further her career, but rather I had done so out of a desire to help her!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;also did not last for very long after this interaction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I am by nature more cautious than generous, and I do find trusting others a challenge. In the above cases, though, generosity was the most liberating approach I could have conceivably taken. If I had hedged my bets in either of these relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and given 1% more while waiting for 1% more reciprocity, I would never have achieved certainty.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; particularly romantic relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;generosity creates certainty&lt;/i&gt;. Giving 150% of yourself &amp;ndash; even beyond your own &amp;ldquo;comfort zone&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; quickly highlights any deficiencies in reciprocity from your partner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I first met my wife Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, her capacity for love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and devotion far outstripped my own. I had been somewhat scarred in the romantic trenches of my youth, and it took some time for my own heart to open up to match her generosity. I did openly talk about my difficulties in this area with her, however, which helped alleviate her concerns. &amp;ldquo;I am trying to open my heart as quickly as possible,&amp;rdquo; I said, &amp;ldquo;because you certainly deserve my full affections, but I am having trouble matching your openness.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, if I owe monetary debt, but am temporarily unable to pay it, I am morally bound to inform my creditor of the situation, reaffirm my commitment to pay, and work like hell to get hold of the money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105636"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633268"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Hedging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Couples get continually stuck in the tug-of-war of conditional reciprocity &amp;ndash; &amp;ldquo;I gave you a back rub, now you owe me sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;!&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; which always creates more and more resentment. Not only is such &amp;ldquo;generosity&amp;rdquo; totally undercut through the expectation of reciprocity (&amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;ll take out the garbage if you do the dishes&amp;rdquo;) but the degree of mistrust that is communicated by this sort of &amp;ldquo;grudging giving&amp;rdquo; is overwhelmingly insulting at its root.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I told you that you were my best friend, and you asked me to lend you $5,000, and I said to you: &amp;ldquo;Let&amp;rsquo;s just start with $5, and see where it goes from there,&amp;rdquo; would you feel elevated by my response?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course not. You would be insulted. &amp;ldquo;How can you call me your best friend, and not trust me with any sum larger than five dollars?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Well,&amp;rdquo; I might reply, &amp;ldquo;some people in my past never paid me back.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Here we run into a fundamental problem, which is at the root of countless relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;discords.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105637"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633269"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Baggage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;e all arrive with scars, and that is not a bad thing. A boxer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;without scars has never fought an equal, and a lover without baggage has never risked his heart. To some degree we do learn through pain, and being on the receiving end of falsehoods and betrayal can do wonders to sharpen our criteria for trustworthiness.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, we do run into a fundamental problem when we mistrust our lover.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Either she really &lt;i&gt;is&lt;/i&gt; untrustworthy &amp;ndash; in which case we chose to enter into an intimate and lengthy relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with an untrustworthy woman &amp;ndash; or, she &lt;i&gt;is&lt;/i&gt; trustworthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but we have a hard time trusting because we have been betrayed in the past.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we have been betrayed in the past, though, we have either learned who to trust or we have not. If we &lt;i&gt;have&lt;/i&gt; learned who to trust &amp;ndash; primarily ourselves &amp;ndash; then we cannot reasonably call our current partner untrustworthy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we have &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; learned to trust, then we cannot &lt;i&gt;blame&lt;/i&gt; our current partner for being untrustworthy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To explain what I mean by this, let us return to our &amp;ldquo;loan&amp;rdquo; example.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;First I tell you that you are my best friend, and then I refuse to lend you any money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because I have lent and lost money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the past.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Well,&amp;rdquo; you say, &amp;ldquo;are you still &amp;lsquo;best friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo; with those who ran off with your money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Of course not!&amp;rdquo; I reply indignantly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Thus you find untrustworthiness to be a trait unworthy of someone you call a best friend?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Yes.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Thus anyone you call your best friend must be the opposite of the people who harmed you in the past.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Yes.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Thus if you tell me that you are afraid that I will not pay you back&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then you are telling me that I am untrustworthy. However, since you have rejected those who failed to pay you back in the past &lt;i&gt;because&lt;/i&gt; they were untrustworthy, but you claim that I am your best friend, then you are in the illogical position of claiming that I am both trustworthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and untrustworthy at the same time. If I am trustworthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then I surely have earned the title &amp;lsquo;best friend,&amp;rsquo; and you should lend the money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to me. If I am untrustworthy, then it is unjust to call me your &amp;lsquo;best friend,&amp;rsquo; since you find untrustworthiness such a vile character trait.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus keeping people in our lives who exhibit traits we call negative utterly prohibits us from blaming them for exhibiting those traits. If we act in opposition to our beliefs, we cannot reasonably blame other people for the results.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, when the fateful words &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you&amp;rdquo; escape our lips, they cannot be reasonably construed as a recipe, but rather as a fully digested meal. We cannot reasonably say, &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you, but I do not trust you.&amp;rdquo; We cannot reasonably say, &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you, but I expect you to think and act completely differently in the future.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;But of course we use the words &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you&amp;rdquo; for almost every purpose except what they actually mean.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105638"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633270"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Love&amp;rdquo; is a word that is subjected to such fantastical delusions that reclaiming its right meaning seems a near-impossible task. The word is flung around to mean anything from fetishistic attachment to co-dependency to &amp;ldquo;loyalty&amp;rdquo; towards rabid delusions such as gods and countries.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There are some things, however, that we must be able to agree on if we are to come to some reasonable understanding about how to improve the quality of our relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105639"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633271"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love and Objectivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;First of all, love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must be a state that has at least some objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;qualities. If love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is a completely subjective state, then the concept of &amp;ldquo;quality&amp;rdquo; does not exist at all &amp;ndash; and thus neither does &amp;ldquo;improvement.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, saying to someone &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you&amp;rdquo; is a meaningless statement if the phrase merely represents purely internal or subjective preferences. We can say &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;jazz,&amp;rdquo; but jazz is not a conscious entity and can flow from a CD. To proclaim love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for another human being, however, is to say that our &lt;i&gt;internal state is elicited by another person&lt;/i&gt;. In other words, the &amp;ldquo;you&amp;rdquo; in &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you&amp;rdquo; involves objectivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, since we experience each other through the medium of empirical reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If another person elicits our internal state, then some objectivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must be accepted.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Secondly, we must also accept that the word &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; represents something other than a merely &lt;i&gt;chosen&lt;/i&gt; preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. We cannot pick a woman out of a crowd and command ourselves to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;her. In other words, love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must be somehow related to the actions of another person, and not simply willed. None of us would feel particularly flattered if someone told us they &amp;ldquo;loved&amp;rdquo; us while knowing nothing about us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; must be in its essence a reaction to the objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;actions of another human being.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thirdly, the feelings of affection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that are elicited by the actions of another person cannot be entirely contradictory. My wife cannot tell me that she loves me because I am honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and that she also loves my brother because he is dishonest. I cannot love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;a person because of his loyalty, and then claim to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;another person equally because of her disloyalty.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105640"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633272"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love &amp;ndash; Compared to What?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;One of the most fundamental questions in philosophy &amp;ndash; and psychology &amp;ndash; is the question: &amp;ldquo;Compared to what?&amp;rdquo; When I say that a proposition is &amp;ldquo;true,&amp;rdquo; then I mean that it is true compared to something else &amp;ndash; falsehood, or inconsistency with internal logic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or empirical validation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Similarly, when we look at the question of love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, clearly love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is an expression of a preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Naturally, we must then ask, &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;A preference&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; compared to what?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I say that I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then clearly I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;it compared to dishonesty. If I say that I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then clearly I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;compared to vice or corruption.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, since we can only determine the traits of another human being through empirical observation, our experience of &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; must involve the actions of another (said actions can include words, of course). Just as our conception of &amp;ldquo;tall&amp;rdquo; is derived from the objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;(i.e. measurable) characteristics of a man &amp;ndash; and &amp;ldquo;tall&amp;rdquo; is valid relative to the average height of a human male &amp;ndash; just so is our experience of &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; derived from the objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;characteristics (words and actions) of another human being.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; must be valid relative to an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and external standard, which we shall work to define shortly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105641"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633273"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Internal State, or External Fact?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The question then arises: to what degree is love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;valid relative to an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and external standard?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love cannot be completely and utterly defined by an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and external standard, since that would mean that everyone must love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;the &lt;i&gt;one person in the world &lt;/i&gt;who most completely conforms to that standard, which would be absurd. If we said that love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;was valid relative to height, then everyone in the world must love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;the tallest person, which flies in the face of the obvious variety of personal preferences the world over.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I say that I like ice cream, then clearly I &lt;i&gt;prefer&lt;/i&gt; ice cream to other foods that I relatively dislike. This is a largely subjective matter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On the other hand, if I say that I prefer good health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then clearly I am expressing a desire for something that can be measured at least to some degree objectively. I cannot reasonably say that I prefer good health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and that I also prefer dying of cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is also important to differentiate between standards that can be achieved, and standards that cannot be achieved. If I say that I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;good health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and then define &amp;ldquo;good health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; as never getting a cold, sleeping lightly or having a headache, then clearly what I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is unattainable, and my &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; can only be measured relative to varying degrees of disappointment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105642"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633274"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love and Pleasure&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It scarcely seems required, but it is worth noting that love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;must be considered a pleasurable experience&lt;/i&gt;. This does not mean that love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;always entails pleasure &amp;ndash; any more than physical health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;means never experiencing any pain at all &amp;ndash; but it must be a positive experience in general.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the positive aspects of &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; must vastly outweigh the negative aspects, just as the positive aspects of &amp;ldquo;health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; must vastly outweigh the negative aspects, such as eating well and exercising.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A decent rule of thumb is to expect a positive relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to be composed of 9/10 good things, to 1/10 bad things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To put this together, we can say that love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has the following characteristics:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol style="margin-top:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It has elements of objectivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is elicited by the behaviour of another person.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is a favouring of certain characteristics relative to their opposites, or deficiencies thereof.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is pleasurable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105643"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633275"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love: A Tentative Definition&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m going to put forward a tentative definition of love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which conforms to the above requirements. We shall examine this proposition in more detail below.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="center" style="text-align:center;border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love is our involuntary response to virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Science has elements of objectivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, insofar as it relies to some degree on personal inspiration, but must be validated through reason and evidence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love also has elements of objectivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, insofar as it relies to some degree on personal preferences, but must be validated through reason and evidence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, the idea of &amp;ldquo;validating&amp;rdquo; love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;offends our sensibilities to some degree, since love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is so often considered to be a form of divine madness or inspiration. What, then, is meant by &amp;ldquo;validating love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, in the realm of romantic relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we are motivated to a considerable degree by biological attraction, or raw sexual desire. In the same way, we may feel an irrational exuberance of greed when we see an overturned Brinks truck spilling banknotes into the wind. We may even seize some of these banknotes, before shaking our heads and returning our ill-gotten gains.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Philosophy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is required because our instincts can lead us astray, as in the case of eating and certain phobias. We may be sexually attracted to certain characteristics such as large breasts or bald heads, but those desires lie squarely in the realm of animal reproduction, rather than what would properly be called &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo; Teenagers may get a fairly strenuous degree of sexual satisfaction from their hand, but this would scarcely be called love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The world looks flat, but in truth it is round. Some people are sexually attractive, but that does not mean they are lovable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has elements of objectivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;elements of love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must be tied to universal values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the existence of which I proved in my previous book on Universally Preferable Behaviour.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Again, this does not mean that all love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is identical. The concept of &amp;ldquo;health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; has elements of objectivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but is also measurable relative to a variety of standards. A &amp;ldquo;healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; AIDS patient is quite different from a healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;athlete. The &amp;ldquo;healthiest&amp;rdquo; person in a cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ward is not healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;relative to the majority of people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, we can assume that there is one person in the world who is the very best person for you to be with. Does that mean that you could never be happy with anyone else?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As with all disciplines, we have to weigh the pros and cons of perfection versus attainability. There is also only one &amp;ldquo;perfect&amp;rdquo; job in the world for us as well, but we can quite easily starve to death looking for it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we look at something like &amp;ldquo;honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; as a behavioural trait that elicits admiration, it is true that everyone has differing degrees of commitment to &amp;ndash; and execution of &amp;ndash; honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but there is still an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;difference between honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and dishonesty.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I value honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and I am honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;myself &amp;ndash; then I will value somebody who is honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;99% of the time more than somebody who is honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;90% of the time. (100% honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can be considered an unrealistic goal, like 100% health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or being &amp;ldquo;perfectly reasonable.&amp;rdquo;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Naturally, I would prefer to be with someone who is as honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as possible, but I will likely have to &amp;ldquo;settle&amp;rdquo; for the most honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;person that I can find. The fact that I am willing to compromise my standards with regards to honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; partly borne of a reasonable humility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;regarding my own capacity for honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; does not mean that I will value a liar. If I am a mathematician, some of my proofs will doubtless fail &amp;ndash; but that does not mean that failing to achieve perfect consistency is exactly the same as starting out to commit a fraud&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105644"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633276"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love as a Response&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I stand in front of a mirror weighing 300 pounds and smoking my 40&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; cigarette of the morning and say &amp;ldquo;I am healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; have I affected my health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in any objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;manner?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course not. I have merely chosen to say the words &amp;ldquo;I am healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; rather than achieve actual health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;through consistent actions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My words have not affected reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;at all. I have merely put the cart before the horse. If I lose weight and quit smoking, I can reasonably stand in front of the mirror and say &amp;ldquo;I am healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; (or at least &amp;ldquo;I am healthier&amp;rdquo;). My words thus become an accurate identification of an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;state &amp;ndash; a state which has &lt;i&gt;preceded&lt;/i&gt; my words and in a sense &lt;i&gt;provokes &lt;/i&gt;them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My words are thus a &lt;i&gt;response&lt;/i&gt; to my empirical behaviour, measured in objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;terms (weight loss, smoking cessation).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Similarly, if I stand in front of you and say &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you,&amp;rdquo; this statement only has validity if it is a &lt;i&gt;response&lt;/i&gt; to your behaviour. I can stand in front of the most evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and hateful human being on the planet and also say the words &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you,&amp;rdquo; but my preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;does not make that person any more lovable &amp;ndash; any more than telling myself that I am healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;unclogs my arteries.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As I talked about in my book &amp;ldquo;On Truth,&amp;rdquo; people in general prefer &amp;ndash; or find it far easier in the short term &amp;ndash; to do whatever they please in the moment, and then redefine their actions as &amp;ldquo;universally virtuous.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is equally true that people in general prefer &amp;ndash; or find it far easier in the short run &amp;ndash; to date whomever they desire, and then redefine their partner as &amp;ldquo;lovable.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ask most young women what they are looking for in a man and you will hear various variations on the theme of tall, dark and handsome &amp;ndash; or, if they are slightly younger, &amp;ldquo;cute and funny.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I have asked this question of many people, and I have never heard the word &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; mentioned once.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105645"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633277"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love and Virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Does love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;have anything to do with virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Yes, yes and &lt;i&gt;yes&lt;/i&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105646"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633278"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love and Honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is impossible to imagine genuine love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the absence of honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. For love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to be genuine, it must be an accurate assessment of particular traits within another human being. If the person that we claim to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; constantly lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to us or falsifies his actions, then whatever perception we have of that person that causes us to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;him are incorrect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since that which causes us to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is incorrect, our &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; must thus be invalid.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To analogize this, imagine that you work for me and I pay you in cash. However, when you try to spend your earnings, you discover that I have paid you with counterfeit&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;bills. As a result, I have received value through your work, but you have not received value through my payment. My dishonesty has thus generated a false value for you, because if you knew that I was going to pay you with counterfeit&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you would not have worked for me to begin with.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since the truth would have produced an opposite action in you &amp;ndash; a rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of employment, rather than an acceptance of it &amp;ndash; your diligent behaviour was as unjustified as your interpretation of my honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, if I tell you that I am courageous, and virtuous, yet hide sordid aspects of my life from you, drink in secret and so on &amp;ndash; and you believe me &amp;ndash; then you will feel more positive towards me than if I told you the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since our emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are so directly dependent upon our perceptions and are so foundational to our experience of the world, someone who lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to us is fundamentally manipulating our experience of the world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since our emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;also alter our bodies biochemically, a liar who gets close to us manipulates our biochemistry as surely as if he were drugging us directly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus our own emotional stability, which is a key part of a peaceful and happy life, requires as a bare minimum general honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;from those around us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105647"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633279"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love and Courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Fundamentally, courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is not bravery with regards to another human being, but rather with regards to moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ideals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My wife, though wonderfully courageous in many areas, has a certain weakness when it comes to social gatherings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For instance, she has an ex-friend who is involved in a highly dysfunctional relationship.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;Recently, when we were at a party, we were told that this woman had gotten married to her boyfriend. Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;exclaimed: &amp;ldquo;Oh, that&amp;rsquo;s &lt;i&gt;great&lt;/i&gt;!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I was somewhat surprised, to say the least, and really put my foot in it by saying to her in front of everyone: &amp;ldquo;Really? I didn&amp;rsquo;t think you were such a big fan of their relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;(It&amp;rsquo;s always good to have something to talk about during the drive home.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, I was not particularly concerned with Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s disavowal of her true feelings in company &amp;ndash; particularly since the woman in question showed up at the party later on. I was more concerned with the fact that she placed the perceptions of others above the truth of her own feelings &amp;ndash; feelings which were accurate and valid. I was most concerned, however, with the fact that she did not seem &lt;i&gt;conscious&lt;/i&gt; of her reversal of values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If she had expressed approval with her friend standing right behind her, I would have understood her caution &amp;ndash; however, there was no compelling and immediate reason to express approval of something she did not in fact approve of.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that this troubled me, of course, was that I really didn&amp;rsquo;t like the idea that Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;could betray her values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; even in this minor manner &amp;ndash; for the sake of the possible disapproval&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the people we were talking to, who we see maybe once every year or two.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This also made me feel insecure, since Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and I both hold trusting our own feelings as a high value &amp;ndash; as well as honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of course. I really disliked the idea that the virtues we believed in and practiced were sort of a &amp;ldquo;private world&amp;rdquo; that had nothing to do with the &amp;ldquo;real world&amp;rdquo; of everyone else.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You know that feeling you get if you are dating a woman who never wants to introduce you to her friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;? You get this uneasy sensation that you are kind of &amp;ldquo;below the radar,&amp;rdquo; or something to be hidden relative to her life as a whole. You are, in fact, a sort of embarrassment, in that she obviously feels that she must be &amp;ldquo;slumming&amp;rdquo; in some manner. If she felt that you would enhance her status with her friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, she would drag you to see them against your will if she had to.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I was 17, I worked in a day-care centre teaching a room full of kids. I became friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with a woman who was slightly older, and was just going through a divorce. Over dinner one evening, she told me about her psychic abilities. Because I was 17, my hormones and I listened attentively.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Over a departmental lunch the next day, I mentioned her psychic abilities as part of a more general conversation. She became completely red-faced, and chastised me afterwards for bringing that up.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So many of us have this kind of &amp;ldquo;private world&amp;rdquo; that we openly disavow, scorn and reject when we are in the company of others. This is a form of cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, since we abandon what is precious to us for fear of the disapproval&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, we reject ourselves rather than be rejected by others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This avoids the pain of humiliation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but also keeps us trapped in an underworld of people we know will humiliate us if we are honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that this habit is so hard to respect or love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is because it involves so many contradictions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a certain belief or habit is truly valuable, it does not lose its value in the presence of others. Real money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;does not lose its value in the presence of counterfeit&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;currency &amp;ndash; quite the opposite is true in fact.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Conversely, if the opinions of others is the best methodology for determining our values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then those values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;cannot exist except through the opinions of others &amp;ndash; thus there should be nothing to hide in the presence of others, since no values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;have been accepted or practised without their prior approval.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is hard to respect someone who wants to &amp;ldquo;have his cake and eat it too&amp;rdquo; by holding private virtues that he consistently disavows in public. We tend to shy away from these sorts of people not only because of their hypocrisy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but also because these sorts of contradictory values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;make raising children enormously difficult.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you ask a woman to evaluate a particular situation and she openly says, &amp;ldquo;Oh, I have no idea, I&amp;rsquo;ll have to check with all my friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; then there is no possibility of equality in her relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with her friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If all her friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;hold the same values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then they will be empty echoes of endless cross-referencing, with no ideas or opinions being generated at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;At least one of her friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must be able to generate opinions, which everyone else then references.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus she both prefers and dislikes opinions &amp;ndash; she dislikes having her own for fear of disapproval&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and so she must prefer that other people create her opinions for her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, you never &lt;i&gt;do &lt;/i&gt;meet people who openly tell you that they have no opinions, but must always ask their friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and that is why these cowardly evasions are so odious. People always claim that their opinions are both virtuous and true, that they have integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and are willing to stand up for what they believe in, and then they generally fold at the slightest sign of pressure or disapproval&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The fact that they fold &amp;ndash; as we all do at times &amp;ndash; does not warn them that they are not actually living their values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and must more closely examine their companions. Since everyone has a general access to the self-medicating madness of instant mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, all that people do when they act in a cowardly manner is redefine their actions as virtuous in some manner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus a woman may say: &amp;ldquo;I know that I said that, but I didn&amp;rsquo;t want to offend people (&lt;i&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m nice&lt;/i&gt;), and besides, people don&amp;rsquo;t change (&lt;i&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m practical&lt;/i&gt;), and we were enjoying their hospitality (&lt;i&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m not ungrateful&lt;/i&gt;), and the person in question was going to show up (&lt;i&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m prudent&lt;/i&gt;) &amp;ndash; and besides, yesterday you said X, Y and Z (&lt;i&gt;you&amp;rsquo;re hypocritical&lt;/i&gt;).&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is why a lack of integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;tends to make us uneasy &amp;ndash; because it always ends up being an attack on truth in general and our integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in particular.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Not too relaxing&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105648"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633280"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love and Sustainability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We do not call a tire &amp;ldquo;good&amp;rdquo; if it ruptures right after being installed. &amp;ldquo;Quality&amp;rdquo; has a lot to do with sustainability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. A bridge is not of high quality if it collapses six minutes after being built.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In many ways, virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is fundamentally about &lt;i&gt;sustainable behaviour&lt;/i&gt;. Clearly, lying is not very sustainable behaviour &amp;ndash; particularly in a long-term relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; because reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is always opposing the words of the liar. As &amp;ldquo;intimacy&amp;rdquo; grows in a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and more and more people get involved in the couple&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s interactions, lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;become less and less sustainable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Similarly, cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is also unsustainable in a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, since cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is always supported by justifications (lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;) which reframe cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as &amp;ldquo;courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo; This creates an unstable situation where cowardly behaviour is both condemned and praised, resulting in highly inconsistent behaviour.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Integrity, of course, is all about sustainable behaviour &amp;ndash; its opposite, conformity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, is all about seeking the approval of others, which produces highly inconsistent behaviour. People inflict a need for conformity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;on us as children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by attacking us for independent thought and evaluation, because any such thought reveals their hypocrisy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Thus conformist habits always stem from the desire of those who hold power over us to blind us to their inconsistent and hypocritical actions. This is why conformity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are so fundamentally opposed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;certain characteristics or virtues, then clearly our love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will stabilize and increase to the degree to which those characteristics or virtues are stable, and increase.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105649"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633281"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love and Security&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Security&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is an essential ingredient for intimacy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Security results from a feeling of predictability and safety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which in turn arises from consistent benevolence on the part of others. If we are randomly attacked by our lover, we can never feel safe or secure. If we have to use a rickety old footbridge to cross a chasm, each wobbly step will be a fearful nightmare.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why do we stay in relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;where we do not feel safe and secure? One central reason is that we have a habit of listening to people&amp;rsquo;s &lt;i&gt;words&lt;/i&gt;, rather than regarding their &lt;i&gt;actions&lt;/i&gt;. The old adage &amp;ldquo;actions speak louder than words&amp;rdquo; has fallen out of favour in our modern age, but it is essential for evaluating potential relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of any kind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Abusive&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;behaviour always results from a lack of integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If, on a first date, a woman tells you openly that she will attack you whenever she feels insecure, angry or vulnerable &amp;ndash; and promises to blame you when you get upset about being attacked &amp;ndash; you would be very unlikely to continue dating her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No, people always tell you that they are acting virtuously, even if their actions completely contradict their stated values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If a woman has a habit of attacking others when she feels anxious, that behaviour can only be maintained &lt;i&gt;if she redefines her abuse&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as virtuous in some manner&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;. She will say that she is only defending herself, or that she has been patient for a long time but &amp;ldquo;enough is enough,&amp;rdquo; or that the other party started the conflict&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If her culpability can be proved beyond a shadow of a doubt, she then reverts to the secondary defence of abusers, which is to say that it is ignoble to point fingers and play &amp;ldquo;the blame game,&amp;rdquo; that &amp;ldquo;forgiveness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is a virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;we need to move on now.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, she will openly state that unjustly attacking others is wrong, and then will unjustly attack others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This lack of integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ensures that no one around her will ever feel a consistent sense of security or safety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. (In fact, that is exactly what it is &lt;i&gt;designed&lt;/i&gt; to do, since destabilizing people is an essential prerequisite for controlling them.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105650"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633282"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Security&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we accept that integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;creates security &amp;ndash; and that security is a necessary prerequisite for love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; then we can understand why it is so important to have &lt;i&gt;values&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that both parties can refer to&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If an agreement can be reached that raised voices and name-calling are inappropriate to a loving relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then if one person yells or name-calls, the other person can object to that behaviour based on values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that both parties have accepted.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is impossible to have security &amp;ndash; or integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; without shared and objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I hand you $1,000 and think it is a loan, but you see it as a gift, then I will not perceive you to be acting with integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;if you never pay the &amp;ldquo;loan&amp;rdquo; back &amp;ndash; just as you will never perceive me to be acting with integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;if I demand my &amp;ldquo;gift&amp;rdquo; back.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Similarly, if a woman holds &amp;ldquo;keeping others happy&amp;rdquo; as a core &amp;ldquo;value,&amp;rdquo; then she will view any emotional confrontation or uncomfortable honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as &amp;ldquo;rude.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On the other hand, if she holds &amp;ldquo;honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; as a core value, then she will view a consistent avoidance of necessary confrontations or honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as &amp;ldquo;cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a man believes that verbal abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is &amp;ldquo;assertiveness,&amp;rdquo; then asking him to refrain from verbal abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the same as asking him to be a coward &amp;ndash; which will never happen, since few if any people will ever voluntarily pursue an action they define as immoral or ignoble.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a woman believes that nagging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is necessary to get what she wants, then asking her to give up nagging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;would be like asking her to give up having any needs or preferences, which will never happen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Following our above methodology, when considering integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we must next ask: &amp;ldquo;Integrity &lt;i&gt;to what?&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105651"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633283"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Objective Integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;aving integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is acting in accordance with rational values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. This is an enormously hard thing to achieve, both because most of the &amp;ldquo;values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; we were given &amp;ndash; or rather which were &lt;i&gt;inflicted&lt;/i&gt; upon us &amp;ndash; are so ridiculously self-contradictory, and also because living with integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;actively eliminates a goodly number of people from your life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Women often say that they dislike nagging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but don&amp;rsquo;t know any other way to get their needs met.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is a prime example of &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; living with integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my wife has to nag me to meet her needs, then she is basically telling me that I do not care about her, and that I will never lift a finger to meet her needs unless she constantly complains that I am not meeting her needs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the movie &amp;ldquo;The Breakup,&amp;rdquo; Jennifer Aniston tells Vince Vaughn that she wants him to &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; to do the dishes with her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What she means by this is that she wants him to want to help her, to make the job of entertaining easier, and to place her needs above his own, at least temporarily.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that this kind of behaviour is so corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is that it is so fundamentally self-contradictory.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If Jennifer has to constantly nag Vince to meet her needs, then clearly she believes that he does not voluntarily want to meet her needs in the first place. He does not respect what she wants, or does not care that she wants it &amp;ndash; either way, he is treating her entirely disrespectfully.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;She feels frustrated because she does not feel &lt;i&gt;visible&lt;/i&gt; to him &amp;ndash; as women so often say: &amp;ldquo;If he only &lt;i&gt;knew&lt;/i&gt; how important this was to me, he would not &lt;i&gt;hesitate&lt;/i&gt; to provide it.&amp;rdquo; Thus Jennifer gets stuck in a &amp;ldquo;broken record&amp;rdquo; loop of attempting to become visible to Vince, so that he will give her what she wants.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Fundamentally, then, she is nagging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;him because she feels invisible to him &amp;ndash; because she feels that he is rejecting who she really is.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is entirely hypocritical.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Obviously, what Vince wants is to &lt;i&gt;not be nagged&lt;/i&gt;. Over and over, he complains that she keeps nagging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;him. He also does not seem to enjoy entertaining &amp;ndash; and Jennifer&amp;rsquo;s obsessive perfectionism appears particularly odious to him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is thus ridiculous for Jennifer to chastise him for not meeting her needs, when by that very chastisement &lt;i&gt;she&lt;/i&gt; is failing to meet his need, which is &lt;i&gt;to not be chastised&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The tragic irony is that Jennifer feels rejected, and so rejects the man &lt;i&gt;that she chose&lt;/i&gt; because he is rejecting her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is exactly like saying: &amp;ldquo;I need a form of transportation,&amp;rdquo; then spending years testing various makes of cars and researching all the alternatives, and then finally purchasing a car &amp;ndash; and then, when you get it home, standing in front of it and exclaiming: &amp;ldquo;Excellent, now I&amp;rsquo;m going to turn this thing into a &lt;i&gt;boat&lt;/i&gt;!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Men always resist being turned into &amp;ldquo;boats&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; while women experience men&amp;rsquo;s resistance at being transformed into something they are not as a rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of &lt;i&gt;themselves&lt;/i&gt;. They will openly say to a man they have chosen: &amp;ldquo;Change!&amp;rdquo; and then feel genuinely rejected when he does not change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, asking someone to change is rejecting him, at least as he is. To choose a man, and then reject a man, and then complain that &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; feel rejected, is quite mad.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the innocent car in the woman&amp;rsquo;s garage could speak, surely it would say: &lt;i&gt;&amp;ldquo;&lt;b&gt;If you wanted a boat, why on earth did you buy a car?&lt;/b&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105652"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633284"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why did you choose me if you don&amp;rsquo;t even &lt;i&gt;like &lt;/i&gt;me?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;he reason that couples so strenuously avoid this elemental conversation is that if you have bought a car when you really want a boat, the point is not to nag the car into becoming a boat, but to take the car back and get a boat instead.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You cannot claim to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;someone, and then want him to change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you&amp;rsquo;re looking for a painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and spend years finding just the right one&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you don&amp;rsquo;t then bring it home and start painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;over&lt;/i&gt; it &amp;ndash; particularly if you&amp;rsquo;re not even a painter!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, since no one is forcing you to go looking for a painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you should just buy the &lt;i&gt;right&lt;/i&gt; painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and be content with what you have.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you are not a mental health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;professional or a well-versed philosopher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then when you try to change people, you are like someone who has no idea how to paint attempting to &amp;ldquo;improve&amp;rdquo; a painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you &lt;i&gt;are&lt;/i&gt; a mental health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;professional or a philosopher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then you are wise enough to know that people do not change, and so you will never buy a painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that you have to &amp;ldquo;paint over.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Most economists accept that any attempt by a coercive monopoly such as the state to interfere with the natural flow of voluntary trade will create ever-growing distortions in the marketplace.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, any attempt to interfere with a person&amp;rsquo;s natural personality through any kind of aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will create ever-growing distortions in his character. Nagging, for example, leads to an excess of fear, irritation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and passive aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which in turn leads to increased nagging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105653"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633285"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Fixing&amp;rdquo; the Painting&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we attempt to &amp;ldquo;correct&amp;rdquo; a painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because just a small part of it is &amp;ldquo;wrong,&amp;rdquo; we will inexpertly daub a blob of paint and then stand back to review our handiwork.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Naturally, because we lack knowledge and skill, we will have inevitably made the painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;less &lt;/i&gt;pleasing than it was before.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Logically, we should then sigh and say: &amp;ldquo;Well, since I am obviously not a painter, I will now stop trying to &amp;lsquo;fix&amp;rsquo; this painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and the fact that I have now made the painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;less&lt;/i&gt; attractive will serve as my perpetual warning about trying to &amp;lsquo;fix&amp;rsquo; paintings again in the future.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Surely, if the painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;were sentient, we should also apologize to it for making it uglier.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ahh, if only we were that logical!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sadly, what people actually do is continue to try and &amp;ldquo;fix&amp;rdquo; the painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, making it uglier and uglier, and less and less suited to their purposes.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As things get worse and worse they get more and more angry, and throw more and more paint at the painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and get more and more frustrated, and blame the painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and blame the paint, and blame the paintbrush &amp;ndash; everything but themselves!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And we all know where that leads in the end.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;At some point, they stand back from the painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; now completely unrecognizable from what they originally bought &amp;ndash; which lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;buried and unrecoverable under mountains of ugly and clashing colors.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;They stare at that mess and say to themselves: &amp;ldquo;I really can&amp;rsquo;t believe that I ever liked this painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; it is the ugliest thing I have ever seen, and I&amp;rsquo;m going to throw it out!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Then, they go shopping for a new painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that they can take home and &amp;ldquo;improve,&amp;rdquo; and the whole cycle begins again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The final tragedy is that if people genuinely accepted that they cannot &amp;ldquo;improve&amp;rdquo; a painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, they would be far more careful about the paintings they bought, and would not accept imperfections or ugliness, knowing that they cannot improve it after they get it home.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the final ugliness of the painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is actually brought about by believing that the painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can be made &lt;i&gt;less ugly&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Without the fantasy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that a painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can be made more beautiful, true beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;could in fact be achieved.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The belief that we can reshape the personalities of other people creates a deep and inescapable polarization within a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which is captured for comic effect in the statement: &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you, you&amp;rsquo;re perfect, now change!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105654"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633286"&gt;&lt;span&gt;But &amp;ndash; we can&amp;rsquo;t change people at all?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In our minds, we all generally know the basic principle that we cannot change others &amp;ndash; but this does not seem to fit with the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that we expect to improve within a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If two human beings do not change at all in proximity to each other, then what is the point of a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;? When we go to university, we have a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of sorts with our professors, and we expect to change based on that relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. We expect to grow in knowledge and wisdom, or technical skill, or mental agility, based on having them as professors.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, if we sign up at a dojo to learn jujitsu, we expect to change &amp;ndash; to improve &amp;ndash; based on our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with our instructor.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is our involuntary response to virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then if a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;results in an increase in virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then surely it will result in an increase in love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; something to be ardently desired, it would seem.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How can this seeming paradox be resolved &amp;ndash; that we must not strive to change people, but that the best relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;result in improvements for both participants?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let us return to our painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;metaphor to see if we cannot unravel this knot.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Imagine that you and I are not &lt;i&gt;consumers &lt;/i&gt;of art, but &lt;i&gt;creators &lt;/i&gt;of art.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Both our paintings are accepted by a gallery, and when we show up to have a look at them, we are immediately drawn to the beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of each other&amp;rsquo;s work.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;While conversing with each other, we find that we have very similar goals as artists &amp;ndash; to ennoble people by drawing their attention to the beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the world they live in.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As reasonable artists, we know that objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;feedback on our own work will help us achieve our goals. Thus the next time I am working on a painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, I call you when I am halfway through and ask you to have a look and let me know what you think.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You arrive, look over my painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with great attention, ask me what it is that I am trying to achieve, and then give me objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and valuable feedback on how to shape the light, colour and composition to more completely achieve my objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This process goes back and forth for several months &amp;ndash; and then, since our mutual feedback is truly helping us achieve our artistic goals, and bringing us even greater joy as artists, we decide to rent a studio together and paint in the same room.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As we work together, our paintings become more and more beautiful and our trust in our own and each other&amp;rsquo;s artistic judgment grows. I learn from your feedback and you learn from mine &amp;ndash; we internalize the principles that we provide each other, and then as we improve, we help each other surmount the new obstacles that always arise from increased excellence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We have our disagreements, of course &amp;ndash; but sometimes it seems that we learn even more from our disagreements! Our conflicts are resolved patiently, positively and productively, thus affirming the strength of our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and allowing our mutual trust to grow even stronger.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We can all understand that this kind of relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is mutually beneficial, and results in great improvements in both skill and joy for both parties.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How is this different from a desire to change someone?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, the difference is that we are both helping each other achieve noble goals that we arrived at the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;already committed to pursuing&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I am not trying to turn you from a plumber into a painter, and you are not trying to turn me from a painter into an accountant. If you want to paint beautiful portraits, I am not trying to turn you into Jackson Pollock. If you enjoy dribbling paint in semi-random patterns, I am not trying to turn you into Jean Auguste Dominique Ingres. If you want to make a living as a painter, I do not try to downgrade your ambitions and turn you into a hobbyist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The difference is that I am not setting your goals &amp;ndash; which really means, in essence, that &lt;i&gt;I am not attempting to alter your values&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but rather help you achieve them&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the above example of the conflict&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;between Jennifer and Vince, we can see that Jennifer&amp;rsquo;s fundamental error &amp;ndash; the mistake that makes the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;inevitably doomed &amp;ndash; is that she is attempting to alter his values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;I want you to &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; to help me do the dishes!&amp;rdquo; she exclaims in frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; thus revealing that what she really wants is for his values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to be the opposite of what they are. Clearly, he &lt;i&gt;doesn&amp;rsquo;t&lt;/i&gt; want to help her do the dishes &amp;ndash; what she demands from him is the complete opposite of that existing desire.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This would be like me approaching you as you regard your painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in an art gallery, &lt;i&gt;and attempting to turn you into the opposite of a painter&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We can surely picture the absurdity of an Olympic coach&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;marching up to some overweight chain-smoking stranger lounging on a park bench and snarling at him to become more motivated, dammit, to get his ass off that park bench and start taking his training &lt;i&gt;seriously&lt;/i&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The smoker would doubtless stare up in bewilderment, wondering what on earth could motivate someone to march up to him out of nowhere, and expect him to act in complete opposition to his clearly-expressed existing preferences.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On the other hand, if I desperately want to win an Olympic medal, and I have the ability and drive to train and diet endlessly, then a coach&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is essential to help me achieve my goal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the first example, the coach&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is not attempting to facilitate the goals of the chain-smoking stranger, but rather to set his goals &lt;i&gt;in direct opposition to all available evidence!&lt;/i&gt; (Also known as: &lt;i&gt;imposing your own goals on others&lt;/i&gt;.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the second example, the coach&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is not attempting to set goals for the motivated athlete, but rather facilitate the achievement of those goals &lt;i&gt;in accordance with all available evidence&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we treat people as &lt;i&gt;objects to be fixed&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; like paintings we can paint over &amp;ndash; it is not about them, but about us. When we attempt to &amp;ldquo;correct&amp;rdquo; a painting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we are fundamentally the only person in the room.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we treat people not as objects, but as complementary souls &amp;ndash; not as paintings, but &lt;i&gt;painters&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; we can truly merge our lives in trust, love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because there are in fact two people in the room.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the difference between &lt;i&gt;changing &lt;/i&gt;people and &lt;i&gt;helping &lt;/i&gt;people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the difference between control and love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, this is the difference between dismal failure and joyous success.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105655"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633287"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Acceptance and Rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Acceptance is the opposite of rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. It is logically impossible to both accept and reject something at the same time, just as it is impossible for a rock to fall both up and down at the same time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why, then, are we so drawn to attempt to &amp;ldquo;improve&amp;rdquo; the people that we claim to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, because it is far less uncomfortable to attempt to improve others than to actually improve &lt;i&gt;ourselves&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How can we justify the fundamental contradiction that we both love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;someone and want her to change in significant ways?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The first thing to understand is that we don&amp;rsquo;t actually want to change someone else.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This may sound startling, but it is easily provable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I spend years shopping for a home, and then finally buy a small condominium, and then demand that, in order to complete the sale, the condo must be converted into a four bedroom house, my real estate agent would regard me as largely insane.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;If you &lt;i&gt;want &lt;/i&gt;a four bedroom house, then you should shop for a four bedroom house!&amp;rdquo; she would say &amp;ndash; and quite rightly too!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I buy the condominium, and move in, and then constantly complain to everyone that my condominium is &lt;i&gt;not &lt;/i&gt;a four bedroom house, then clearly I have bought the condominium not because I want a four bedroom house, but rather because &lt;i&gt;I want to complain about not having a four bedroom house&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is a very important distinction, which Edward Albee writes about in &amp;ldquo;Who&amp;rsquo;s Afraid of Virginia Woolf&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo; George and Martha have a demonically abusive marriage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and George complains about it endlessly, until Martha finally screams at him that he married her &lt;i&gt;in order to be abused&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why on earth would somebody enter into a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in order to complain about that relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It does seem rather counterintuitive, but it makes sense logically when you look at the root causes.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105656"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633288"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Reversing Virtue and Vice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;f I act in a cowardly manner, but I redefine my cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as &amp;ldquo;courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; then I am turning morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;completely upside down by converting a vice into a &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I am a doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and redefine &amp;ldquo;cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; as &amp;ldquo;health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; (and vice versa), then everything that I do will be the opposite of good medicine. I will inject cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;cells into healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;people, tell them to smoke and refrain from using sunscreen, and I will attempt to hasten the progress of cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in sick people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;By redefining that which is unhealthy as that which is healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, I have reversed the cause and effect in everything I do.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I have in fact &lt;i&gt;become &lt;/i&gt;a kind of cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, if I redefine my cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as a virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; a cowardly action in and of itself &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;then I reverse the cause and effect of all my relationships&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let us say that I fear my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because they are abusive, either overtly or covertly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is not cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to openly admit that I am afraid of my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is also not cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to submit to my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo; will as long as I openly admit my fear. If they want me to come to dinner and I go, I am not necessarily a coward.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How can that be possible &amp;ndash; to submit to bullying&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;without being cowardly?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105657"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633289"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Virtue and Honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The first prerequisite for virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. With honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;comes at least the possibility of integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which can survive a temporary surrender to bullying&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, just as your liver can survive a glass of wine or two.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I openly say to my wife: &amp;ldquo;We must go to my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo; house for Sunday dinner, although I hate and fear them, because I am too afraid to either confront or avoid them,&amp;rdquo; then my wife has at least an accurate understanding of the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the situation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;She clearly understands that my true desire is &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; to go to my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo; house, and that my barrier is my fear of my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Armed with that knowledge, my wife can then help me to get what I really want by talking me through the fear that blocks me from achieving it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is analogous to one painter helping another painter overcome his fear of submitting his work to a gallery &amp;ndash; something that he desperately and openly desires.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On the other hand, if I claim that I &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when I really hate and fear them&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then an inevitable and terrible sequence of events is set into motion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105658"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633290"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Virtue and Obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I say that I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then I must define obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to their wishes as obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This may sound confusing, so let us look at it in a little more detail.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I say that I completely respect my doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to his instructions is obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to the objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principles of health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If I say that I completely trust my financial advisor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to his wishes is obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to sound principles of financial management.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, if I say that I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then they must be good and virtuous people, and so naturally it follows that they must also love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;me &amp;ndash; since if I were not a good person, I would not be able to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;them for their virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;each other, then obviously we take pleasure in each other&amp;rsquo;s company and have each other&amp;rsquo;s best interests at heart, and contact can only enhance the pleasure, integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of our lives.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I trust my doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and contact with my doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;always enhances my health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then anyone who tells me to avoid my doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must &lt;i&gt;ipso facto&lt;/i&gt; have the goal of harming my health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If my financial advisor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is always right, then only a corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;con man would tell me to fire my financial advisor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus if I reframe my fear and hatred of my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; anyone who tells me to avoid my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must be an evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;person who only wishes me harm.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see the horrors that we set in motion when we lie about virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo; wishes is also obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; when my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ask me to come over for an intermittent Sunday dinner, refusing to attend is the equivalent of refusing to be virtuous &amp;ndash; in fact, committing a moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;crime.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This reversal of values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;creates endless catastrophes in our relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we have redefined our cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as a virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then we will inevitably perceive certain traits in those around us as dangerous and negative.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I my stockbroker&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is corrupt and is busily robbing me blind, then any competent stockbroker who comes across me will see that immediately, and say:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;This stockbroker&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that you think is very good is actually corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and is violating most if not all professional ethics, and is taking you to the cleaners, and will leave you penniless. For instance, the degree of &amp;lsquo;churning&amp;rsquo; that he is performing on your account is utterly unsustainable &amp;ndash; you would require returns of 20-30% to break even, given the commissions he is generating for himself by buying and selling stocks in your account&amp;hellip;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This competent stockbroker&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;would then give you objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;reasons as to why you should no longer trust your existing stockbroker&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but rather fire him immediately.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Naturally, if you have defined obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to your corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;stockbroker as obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to financial responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, having this obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;revealed as conformity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to financial &lt;i&gt;irresponsibility&lt;/i&gt; would create enormous anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;within you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you claim that you want to be healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and genuinely &lt;i&gt;do &lt;/i&gt;want to be healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and you take up chain-smoking as a result of the advice of a corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, hearing your doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;debunked will make you very upset.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Realizing that we have conned ourselves puts us in a state of excruciating vulnerability, since it reveals so much about our own family histories, and how we were exploited and rendered &amp;ldquo;easy prey&amp;rdquo; by our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Some people, of course, are able to handle this upset if they are in fact dedicated to being healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. They will survive their own shame, humiliation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, fire their corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and reform their habits.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, the majority of people will simply shoot the messenger.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, people who redefine their vices as virtues have already demonstrated their preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for avoiding their own anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by making up stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since the best predictor of future behaviour is relevant past behaviour, what do you think that these people&amp;rsquo;s response will be to a situation that increases their anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why, they&amp;rsquo;re just going to make up another angry story to &amp;ldquo;explain away&amp;rdquo; their &amp;ldquo;mistake.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105659"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633291"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Inevitable Counterattack&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Health is not a &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;attribute, and so the preceding medical analogies are far less emotionally charged than the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of redefining vices as virtues.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to their wishes&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to corruption or evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In essence, if I obey corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principles, I am in fact corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Nothing is more emotionally volatile than labeling someone &amp;ldquo;corrupt&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or &amp;ldquo;evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Evil&amp;rdquo; is obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principles or evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Corruption&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; is redefining that evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as &amp;ldquo;the good.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No sane human being can look in the mirror and say: &amp;ldquo;I am evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo; Even a monster such as Hitler portrayed himself &lt;i&gt;to himself &lt;/i&gt;as the saviour of Germany, the liberator of the Aryan race, and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The moment that a human being looks in the mirror and says, &amp;ldquo;I am evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; he must change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is a central reason why people would rather redefine &amp;ldquo;evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; as &amp;ldquo;the good&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; since if they cannot, they are revealed as evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and must immediately start to change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus if I invert rational values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and redefine my cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, I must inevitably banish everyone from my life who has even a hint of the following characteristics:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Genuine courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Moral perceptiveness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Empathy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A true capacity to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Curiosity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;hellip;and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105660"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633292"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Counterfeiting Virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;f I am a counterfeiter&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, I need to keep people away from me who can easily detect false currency. If I am a drug dealer, I am unlikely to befriend &amp;ldquo;drug enforcement&amp;rdquo; agents. If I am a liar, people with a strong ability to detect falsehoods &amp;ndash; and the courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to confront liars &amp;ndash; will be anathema to me. If I am a con man, I must prey upon the weak and gullible. Strong and perceptive souls will always be safe from me, since I will avoid them like the plague.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, when I pervert rational values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by redefining my vices as virtues, I am inevitably drawn to reject and revile strong and virtuous people &amp;ndash; and inevitably drawn towards weak and corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;people who will not challenge my own corruption.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, reversing &lt;i&gt;virtue &lt;/i&gt;reverses &lt;i&gt;love&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Instead of being drawn towards virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the sake of happiness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you are drawn towards vice for the sake of avoiding pain.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Claiming that you are virtuous when you are not inevitably draws you to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; people who are unlovable&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; yourself for your vices, you will inevitably be drawn to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; others for their vices &amp;ndash; and, as inevitably, to hate and fear other people for their virtues, just as you hate and fear true virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in yourself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105661"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633293"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Polarization&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;n this way, we are drawn to bond with people that we fundamentally dislike. We are drawn to them by the inescapable logic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of our own premises &amp;ndash; however, the hypocritical falsehoods of those premises also causes us to recoil from those we desire.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This form of attachment is basically a kind of self-destructive addiction rather than any form of benevolent love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. A man who has redefined his vices as virtues has the same relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with those that he claims to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; that a heroin addict has to his heroin in the later stages of his addiction. He needs it because it relieves his anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but he hates it because it is destroying his life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, my partner is a mirror of myself &amp;ndash; her virtues are my virtues, her vices are my vices.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Her capacity for honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is my capacity for honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Her integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is my integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To take a minor example of how this looks in practice, imagine a woman who has gained a few pounds struggling into her clothing, which has just returned from the dry cleaners. A mature person will first go and weigh herself, to see if she has gained any weight. An immature person will blame the dry cleaners for shrinking her clothing, or, if she finds out that she has gained weight, will blame her boyfriend for buying potato chips, or not telling her that she has gained weight, or society as a whole for &amp;ldquo;demanding&amp;rdquo; that women remain thin.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105662"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633294"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Projection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, if I know that I am a coward but redefine my cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as &amp;ldquo;courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; I do not eliminate my knowledge of my cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If I am fat and redefine fat as &amp;ldquo;healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; I do not eliminate my knowledge of my obesity. If I steal a car, I do not suddenly believe that I actually &lt;i&gt;bought &lt;/i&gt;it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How, then, can I evade or ignore my knowledge of my own cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, the most common mechanism is a devilish psychological defence called &amp;ldquo;projection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Projection is the habit of ascribing our own negative qualities to other people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The most common example of this is &lt;i&gt;passive aggression&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let us return to our troubled couple&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Bruce.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is frustrated but does not, cannot or will not openly express his frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then he will begin to cause problems for other people: either through tangential complaints, snappy comments, stony silence, or surly stomping.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will then ask him: &amp;ldquo;What&amp;rsquo;s wrong?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Naturally, Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will reply: &amp;ldquo;Nothing!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;knows that this is not the case, and will ask him again. Again and again, Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will deny that anything is wrong, thus causing her intense frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is in this manner that the frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;passes from Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;becomes increasingly frustrated by Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s provocation and subsequent stonewalling, Bruce begins to express increasing exasperation towards her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He claims to be irritated by her persistent questioning &amp;ndash; which allows him to unload his original frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but blame it on &lt;i&gt;her actions&lt;/i&gt; instead of &lt;i&gt;his own thinking&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105663"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633295"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Zooming Out&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;o a far greater degree, we can see the same mechanism at work in the realm of geopolitics.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let us take a little spin back to 2001.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;George Bush&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;wants to invade Iraq&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but he cannot openly express that he wants to invade Iraq &amp;ndash; so he must make up reasons that place the ownership for his decision squarely on the shoulders of Saddam Hussein&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Thus he can &amp;ldquo;legitimately&amp;rdquo; turn from an initiator to a reactor, from an aggressor to a leader acting in &amp;ldquo;self-defence.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus he continually repeats the mantra that Saddam Hussein&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is an aggressor who wants to attack the United States&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; thus &amp;ldquo;legitimizing&amp;rdquo; his own aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which is the true source of the conflict&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will often tell us that we are &amp;ldquo;selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; for not wanting to drop by for another boring or unsettling Sunday dinner. &amp;ldquo;You are selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; they will say, &amp;ldquo;because you are ignoring the feelings and needs of other people, and only thinking of what &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; want!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, it is clear that they are failing their own definition of &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; by ignoring &lt;i&gt;our&lt;/i&gt; desire not to attend Sunday dinner, and only thinking of what &lt;i&gt;they&lt;/i&gt; want. They selfishly want us to be there despite the fact that it goes against our desires &amp;ndash; but then they get angry at us for not wanting to be there because it goes against &lt;i&gt;their &lt;/i&gt;desires.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Madness!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus we can see that &lt;i&gt;projection&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;is a mechanism for self-avoidance, or for actively rejecting knowledge of our own motivations.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we are angry at our wife, but provoke &lt;i&gt;her&lt;/i&gt; into anger instead of expressing our own anger and then release our anger based on the fact that &lt;i&gt;she&lt;/i&gt; is angry, all that we have done is set an elaborate trap which allows us to abusively &amp;ldquo;release&amp;rdquo; our feelings without ever learning their cause.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, the reason that we do not want to learn the cause of our actions is that we know deep down that our actions are unjustified &amp;ndash; and most likely cravenly aggressive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I buy a stereo from a guy in a van, I will be reluctant to ask for a receipt, since I will want to avoid the knowledge that it is stolen. It is not the receipt that I am avoiding, but rather the knowledge that I am profiting from crime, and thus enabling criminals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;t would almost seem that, as a species, we are utterly addicted to changing others&amp;rsquo; behaviour rather than examining our own.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is something so elementally seductive about playing the &amp;ldquo;know it all&amp;rdquo; card and lecturing others on their deficiencies. When problems arise, for all too many people this is the default position.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If they have a near-miss in a car, their first impulse is to blame other drivers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If they become irritated with someone, their starting position is always that the other person&amp;rsquo;s deficiencies are &lt;i&gt;causing &lt;/i&gt;that irritation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If their children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;misbehave or develop bad habits, it is always the selfishness of the child, the influence of the peer group, or the tyranny of the media that is to blame.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why is it that we are so drawn to blaming others&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and inevitably and endlessly attempting to correct &lt;i&gt;them&lt;/i&gt;, rather than examining our own motives and ideas for the causes of our problems?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The obvious answer is that we prefer the short-term gain of self-righteousness to the long-term gain of actual growth and improvement in our habits &amp;ndash; yet that does not explain very much, since we diet, exercise, go to work and see our dentists&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and do all other sorts of things which sacrifice short-term gains for long-term gains.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus we can see that human beings certainly &lt;i&gt;do&lt;/i&gt; have the capacity to defer immediate gratification&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the sake of long-term advantage. Why is this so rarely the case in one of the most important aspects of our lives &amp;ndash; our personal relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;irst of all, other people can be manipulated in a way that, say, our teeth cannot. We can convince another person that he alone is to blame for the problems in our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but we cannot &amp;ldquo;convince&amp;rdquo; a tooth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that it is not infected when it is. We can bully&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;another person into believing that he is responsible for our overeating; we cannot bully&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;the fat off our bellies.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Secondly, the general lack of integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in those around us positively enables the kind of &amp;ldquo;blame game&amp;rdquo; that goes on in relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. People who are raised badly, who end up with weak wills, weak characters and manipulative habits, can be easily blamed and controlled.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we could only achieve the kind of integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that, say, a tooth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has, we would do an enormous service to the mental health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and happiness of the world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105666"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633298"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Enabling and the Vengeance of the Slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Allowing other people to treat us badly is a subtle form of aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;against them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It arises from a fairly primitive time in our species, when slavery and hyper-control dominated our interactions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;hates his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; as deep down he surely does &amp;ndash; but cannot retaliate against him in any violent or assertive manner, what are his options?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, when you want somebody dead, but you cannot kill him openly, &lt;i&gt;your best option is to exacerbate his unhealthy habits&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can eventually take vengeance on his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by continually bringing him a drink, sitting with him while he drinks, and endlessly offering to refill his glass.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On a psychological level, the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can effectively re-create his own misery in the mind of his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by &lt;i&gt;both provoking and submitting to bullying&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Every time the master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;beats the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the misery and self-loathing of the master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;increases. Every time the master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;screams at the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the soul of the master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;dies a little more. Every whip of the lash kills the master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s capacity for love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, contentment and peace of mind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This, of course, is Nietzsche&amp;rsquo;s &amp;ldquo;slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; in which the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;takes a form of masochistic satisfaction and dark glee in the spiritual destruction of his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. The passive-aggressive &amp;ldquo;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;superiority&amp;rdquo; of the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the only satisfaction that such a beaten-down creature can hope for.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The problem, however, is that by continually pursuing the insidious satisfaction of passive-aggressive masochism, the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;often becomes dangerously addicted to this form of vengeance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, &lt;i&gt;the slave&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;becomes addicted to having a master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and finds life without this form of underhanded revenge entirely lacking in stimulation and satisfaction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105667"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633299"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s not entirely in the past&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, since most of us are raised as virtual slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;within our families&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and schools, it is all too common for us to become addicted to having masters &amp;ndash; and thus attempting to &amp;ldquo;master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; our rulers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;through self-pitying moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;superiority and the enabling, or supporting, of self-destructive behaviours on the part of those who command us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If left unexamined, this drive to destroy those who control us inevitably leads us to seek out those who will control us, and then endlessly attempt to destroy them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As mentioned earlier, the weapon of the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is &amp;ldquo;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;superiority,&amp;rdquo; or beatific self-righteousness. To &lt;i&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; undo his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must set up a standard of &amp;ldquo;forgiveness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;unconditional love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; by which he tortures the infected conscience of his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The way that this paradigm translates itself into modern relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; particularly romantic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but also parental &amp;ndash; is that both parties intermittently take on the roles of master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or persecutor and persecuted, or &amp;ldquo;unjust attacker&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;self-righteous victim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo; Since their lives are based on attack, condemnation, self-righteous vengeance and frustrated control, they remain in a continual state of provocation, attack, withdrawal and moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;pomposity, creating an endless closed loop of ever-increasing frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, bitterness, fear and resentment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On a more overt level, we can see this kind of interaction occurring in the typical cycle of an abusive marriage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Let&amp;rsquo;s be stereotypical and talk about the husband as the abuser&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Over a few weeks, Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;becomes increasingly tense and snappy. In turn, Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;responds to his growing aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;through provocation, either in the form of complete obsequience &amp;ndash; which irritates him &amp;ndash; or endless questions and nagging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;defiance, which inflames him. Bruce then asserts his dominance and releases his tension by attacking Sheila in a titanic blow-up either physical or verbal in nature.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, since Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has asserted his dominance in such a hysterical and abusive manner, the power in the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;now passes from Bruce to Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has acted so obviously unjustly, Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;now gains control of the moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;narrative of their relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and uses it to bully&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;Bruce.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;After his attack, she threatens to leave him. He comes crawling back, apologizing and begging for forgiveness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; now playing the part of the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;instead of the master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;withholds her &amp;ldquo;forgiveness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; enjoying the new power that she has over him, and abusing him in turn, both by torturing him morally and staying in the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we disapprove of someone morally but remain in an intimate and supporting relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with him, we are acting entirely immorally ourselves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I work for a corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;boss, and am fully aware that he is stealing from his customers but continue to work for him, I am enabling his corruption as surely as if I were performing it myself. I may attempt to assuage my conscience by nagging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;at my boss to be a &amp;ldquo;better&amp;rdquo; man, or tentatively bringing up my &amp;ldquo;objections&amp;rdquo; in meetings, but as time goes on, and I do not quit, everyone understands that my nagging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is just a ritual designed to enable me to continue to take money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;from a corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;person or organization while continuing to pretend to myself that I am moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;By continuing to work for this corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;man &amp;ndash; while professing my own devotion to moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principles &amp;ndash; I am clearly communicating to him that morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is simply a tool for self-deception, and that ethical exhortation is merely self-medicating hypocrisy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. This &amp;ldquo;enables&amp;rdquo; his corruption even more so than the customers he steals from, who would doubtless flee his predation if they discovered it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus remaining in relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with immoral people while complaining that they are immoral is one of the most subtle forms of abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the world. It is revoltingly hypocritical, insofar as it uses ethics to enable and justify corruption.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the difference between the mugger who steals from you because he wants to buy a drink, and the socialist who steals from you because she wants to &amp;ldquo;help the poor.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you look closely for this kind of interaction in the relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of those around you &amp;ndash; or your own relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, for that matter &amp;ndash; it becomes blindingly obvious and virtually omnipresent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A man &amp;ldquo;persecutes&amp;rdquo; his wife for her lack of sexual desire, and then plays the victim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when he is criticized for not helping around the house. When the woman is attacked for her lack of sexual interest, she responds with a passive aggressive &amp;ldquo;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; argument: &amp;ldquo;I do not feel like having sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because you are not emotionally available, or we are not close enough, or you yelled at me yesterday, or I am worried about finances, or I am stressed out because I have too much housework, or you don&amp;rsquo;t help enough with the kids etc etc etc.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we break down the man&amp;rsquo;s moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;argument, he is basically saying: &amp;ldquo;I agreed to pursue a monogamous relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with you, giving up sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with all other women. This creates an implicit obligation on your part to have sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with me since you hold a monopoly on sexual interactions. By continually refusing to have sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with me, you are setting a terrible and unjust trap wherein I will be tempted to pursue an affair, which will result in my personal and financial destruction. Since you are using sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to punish and control me in our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but I am not allowed to pursue sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;outside of this relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you are putting me up against the wall, which is a most hateful and unloving thing to do.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;His wife, on the other hand, is saying something like: &amp;ldquo;I do not feel close to you, because you are not emotionally available, which is a failure of your duties as a husband. You also yelled at me yesterday, which is abusive, and also a failure on your part as a husband. I complain about finances because you do not make enough money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. I&amp;rsquo;m stressed about housework because you do not help enough. The kids are driving me crazy because I always have to be the disciplinarian, while you get to be the &amp;lsquo;fun&amp;rsquo; dad who just plays with them. Thus, you are cold, lazy, unambitious and abusive. In fact, asking for sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when you know that I feel this way is further evidence of your coldness and abusive tendencies!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As we can see, if we look closely, what is really going on here is a not-too-subtle tug of war over the &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;narrative&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; of the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which is essentially a revolving slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;-to-master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;interaction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Deep down, we all know that if we can get someone to admit that a certain behaviour is morally wrong, he can in no way continue to defend that behaviour, and must change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As I have argued from the very beginning of my podcast series, morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the most powerful tool in the arsenal of mankind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Whoever controls &amp;ldquo;morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; controls the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We all understand this instinctively, and so continually use stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and mythologies to attempt to gain control of the moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;narrative of a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that we never fully succeed is that we are perpetually creating &amp;ldquo;rules&amp;rdquo; for our partner that we do not follow ourselves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are all perfectly aware of this kind of hypocrisy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in others when we read about priests who molest children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, anti-homosexual Congressman who solicit gay sex&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in bathroom stalls, or people like Oprah who continually talk about feminism and &amp;ldquo;woman power&amp;rdquo; while simultaneously presenting an endless cavalcade of fear-mongering stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;about attacks on women. Dr. Phil is another example of this kind of phenomenon. He continually attacks those who use violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to resolve their problems while praising soldiers to the skies.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There are several common mythologies at work in romantic relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which we would be wise to learn by heart.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105668"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633300"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;You Lack Empathy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The first and most common moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; particularly for women &amp;ndash; is the essential criticism: &amp;ldquo;You lack empathy.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The criticism of &amp;ldquo;selfishness&amp;rdquo; is so common that it can be hard to hear after a while.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Many, many women truly believe that if their husbands were genuinely empathetic, their marriages would be enormously improved, and their needs would be met.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The simple truth of the fact, though, is that most people are happy to talk about what they think and feel if they meet with genuine acceptance and respect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What women are really saying when they complain that their husbands &amp;ldquo;lack empathy&amp;rdquo; is that their husbands are not thinking and feeling what their wives &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; them to think and feel.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s look at a common example.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105669"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633301"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The horror of chores&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A fairly constant complaint from women is that their husbands seem supernaturally resistant to initiating chores&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Why oh why is it that I have to ask him a dozen times to take out the garbage? It&amp;rsquo;s not like garbage day magically changes from week to week! Why can he not get it through his head that I don&amp;rsquo;t want to have to manage him like some sort of mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;? And if he&amp;rsquo;s &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; going to take out&lt;i&gt; &lt;/i&gt;the garbage, why doesn&amp;rsquo;t he just &lt;i&gt;tell&lt;/i&gt; me so I can do it &lt;i&gt;myself&lt;/i&gt;, instead of just continually promising that he&amp;rsquo;s going to do it &amp;lsquo;in a few minutes&amp;rsquo;?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is a clear example of &amp;ldquo;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;positioning&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo; Here is a translation of the subtext:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;You&amp;rsquo;re sooo not going to get laid!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Or, alternatively:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;He does not respect my needs, he is not pulling his weight in this household, he is just manipulating me by appeasing me in the moment, while having no intention of doing what I ask. He is passive-aggressively frustrating me &amp;ndash; he is selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and lazy, and is turning me into a nag, so that &lt;i&gt;I&lt;/i&gt; end up looking like the bad person when &lt;i&gt;he&amp;rsquo;s&lt;/i&gt; the one who&amp;rsquo;s not doing his chores&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On the surface, this seems like a seductively appealing narrative. Who could fail to sympathize with such a hard done by and put upon woman, struggling to maintain a household while her husband lazes and obfuscates on the couch?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sadly, it is all pure nonsense.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;By attempting to control his behaviour through nagging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;repetition, this woman is bypassing the most important question she needs to ask about &lt;i&gt;why he is doing what he is doing&lt;/i&gt; (or not doing).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, she claims that he is not being empathetic towards &lt;i&gt;her&lt;/i&gt; needs, while at the same time she is not being at all empathetic towards &lt;i&gt;his &lt;/i&gt;needs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, by not taking out the garbage, he is communicating to her that he does not want to take out the garbage.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;By making up a story that portrays him as lazy and negligent, his wife is &lt;i&gt;creating a mythology&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;about his motivation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; rather than honestly attempting to understand it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is not science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or logic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or empiricism or common sense or intimacy, but &lt;i&gt;religion&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Remember, when bad things happen in the world of religion, &amp;ldquo;sinners&amp;rdquo; are invented to take the blame.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this case, the &amp;ldquo;sinner&amp;rdquo; is laziness &amp;ndash; or the husband in general.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We may as well say, when striving to understand the cause of an illness, &amp;ldquo;Satan made me sick!&amp;rdquo; Sure, it&amp;rsquo;s a comforting story with a protagonist and antagonist and a satisfyingly vindictive moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;theme.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sadly, it just has nothing to do with reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;whatsoever.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I am genuinely &amp;ldquo;lazy,&amp;rdquo; I may possess that trait for any one of a myriad number of reasons. I may be depressed or lonely, or feel over-controlled, or sense that my life is going in the wrong direction, or have any variety of medical deficiencies or ailments, or I may believe that my life lacks meaning and purpose, or I may be worried about possible moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;transgressions on my part, or I may feel that I am embedded in a corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or compromising work environment, or my children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;may be going through a certain phase that reminds me of sad times in my own childhood, or I may be worried that I no longer love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;my wife&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There can be 10,000 or more reasons underlying my &amp;ldquo;lack of motivation.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A wife who does not sit down with sensitivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and empathy to ask her husband why he is unmotivated is just a bully&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and has no moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;right whatsoever to criticize her husband for &lt;i&gt;his &lt;/i&gt;lack of sensitivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and empathy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105670"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633302"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Nagging and Humiliation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;She is also humiliating him in a way that can be hard to see.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we are married to someone, we must certainly claim to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and respect him above all others. If we treat him, however, as if he is a &amp;ldquo;defective household chore robot,&amp;rdquo; then we are implicitly denigrating him in truly terrible ways.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When a wife marches up to her husband, demands that he take out the garbage, and implies that he is lazy and selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, she is clearly communicating the following:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;I know that I promised to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and respect you for all eternity, but right now getting the garbage outside the house is infinitely more important to me than understanding your soul. In fact, I&amp;rsquo;m perfectly willing to attack your nature, ethics and initiative in order to get you to take the trash out. On my scale of values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, moving the trash is an infinite plus. Understanding your soul &lt;i&gt;is not even on my list!&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To see that your true personality and being is not even on the list of your wife&amp;rsquo;s priorities &amp;ndash; and that you have been displaced by empty and trivial tasks &amp;ndash; is unbearably humiliating.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If this humiliation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;were truly &lt;i&gt;felt&lt;/i&gt; by all the spouses in the world, it would be like a neutron bomb in the world of marriage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Marriages, like buildings, would be left standing &amp;ndash; there would just be no people in them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105671"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633303"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Abuse of Assumptions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As I talked about in my book &amp;ldquo;On Truth,&amp;rdquo; morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is almost always used as a weapon of control and dominance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When your wife marches up to you and demands in a shrill and exasperated tone for you to &amp;ldquo;PLEASE take out the &lt;i&gt;garbage&lt;/i&gt;!&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; implying that you are lazy and selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; there are really only two possibilities.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105672"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633304"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You are in fact lazy and selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;..?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Naturally, if you &lt;i&gt;are&lt;/i&gt; lazy and selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and we assume that these pejorative terms accurately represent the entire sum of your personality &amp;ndash; then attacking you for being lazy and selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;after voluntarily choosing you as a life partner is patently ridiculous.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my wife could have married any man with any accent in the world, but chose me, it would seem rather strange for her to attack me for having a British accent, claiming that every man with a British accent &amp;ndash; who is not currently residing in England &amp;ndash; is a pretentious phony.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I &lt;i&gt;am&lt;/i&gt; a pretentious phony, then it is quite silly for my wife to attack me for &lt;i&gt;being&lt;/i&gt; a pretentious phony. If I am not a pretentious phony, then my wife would only use that abusive term to hurt me &amp;ndash; and she would only be able to hurt me with it if I was not in fact a pretentious phony, or disliked pretentious phonies myself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I were a pretentious phony, then clearly I would have developed that personality trait because I lacked self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and so felt a need to portray myself as wiser or smarter than I actually was in order to gain the good approval of others. (In other words, as a self-defensive &amp;ldquo;initial strike&amp;rdquo; against potential attacks.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, I would only have developed this low self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and dependence upon the approval of others if I had been persistently attacked and condemned by my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when I was a child.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If, when expressing my authentic opinions, I had been dismissed as an ignorant philistine, I would then be sorely tempted to manufacture more &amp;ldquo;sophisticated&amp;rdquo; opinions in order to avoid being attacked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, I would be &amp;ldquo;pretentious&amp;rdquo; as an adult because I had been verbally abused as a child.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is, then, &lt;i&gt;entirely abusive&lt;/i&gt; for my wife to verbally abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;me for traits that have resulted from a history of having been verbally abused.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you are &amp;ldquo;lazy,&amp;rdquo; it is generally because you feel a significant disconnect between your choices, your actions, and the effect you can have on your environment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In psychological studies, when chickens or rats are given random punishments and rewards, they tend to become inert, because they cannot create any sense of rational cause and effect between their choices, their actions and their environment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Personal energy and initiative, in other words, generally arise from a feeling of &lt;i&gt;efficacy&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Depressed or inert people feel that their &amp;ldquo;locus of control&amp;rdquo; resides somewhere outside themselves. A micromanaged child will not easily develop a sense of personal initiative since his entire being is dedicated towards satisfying the endless and contradictory demands of other people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s tough to plan your future when you&amp;rsquo;re dodging bullets.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I knew a woman who, when making toast, had to suffer through her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;hovering over her and constantly correcting everything she was doing. She should have brushed the breadcrumbs off the bread before putting them into the toaster, the heat was on just a little bit too high, she should not turn away from the toaster while it was in operation, in case something caught fire &amp;ndash; and when all was said and done, she did not clean the toaster nearly well enough!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The amount of stress involved in heating two slices of bread was ridiculous. This woman had virtually no chance to develop her own methodology of thinking, of testing cause and effect, of deciding &lt;i&gt;for herself&lt;/i&gt; how even minor goals could be best achieved.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Inevitably, she found herself largely paralyzed in the realm of major life decisions, and tended to navigate from moment to moment, based on the approval or disapproval&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of those around her. She wanted to achieve great things with her career, but ended up working as a secretary despite a very good education, because she had simply not developed the capacity to identify and pursue goals on her own accord, and according to own judgment &amp;ndash; and, of course, remained hypersensitive to criticism, which crippled her ability to negotiate, and so progress in any career.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sadly, her paralysis also invited micromanagement from others. She would proclaim her desire to achieve a certain goal, but then would take no steps towards it, while continually complaining about the difficulties of achieving it. This would invite an endless stream of people into her life who would help her set up action plans, alternative approaches, proactive time management goals and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I never did see anyone actually ask what she felt when she sat down to attempt to achieve her goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If that question had been asked, and an honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;answer had been provided, real progress could have been made.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Unfortunately, by telling her how to achieve her goals, people were in fact stepping into the role of her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, since when we tell people what to do, we automatically denigrate their existing abilities. If I met you on the street and explained to you in great detail how to put your left foot forward, and then your right foot forward in order to walk, you would scarcely feel elevated by my opinion of your existing ability to walk.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, when a wife denigrates her husband for failing to initiate and complete chores&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;without instruction, she is actually abusing him, denigrating him, and re-creating exactly the same circumstances &amp;ndash; and exactly the same abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; that prompted his inertia to begin with.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And yet, if you listen to her surface story, you will likely walk away entirely convinced that &lt;i&gt;she &lt;/i&gt;is the victim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the interaction with her husband.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On the other hand, if you are not lazy, but your wife tells you that you are, then clearly she is using the pejorative to manipulate you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Keep your eyes peeled. Do not be fooled.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105673"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633305"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The War of Narrative&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.0pt;"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;s mentioned earlier, most relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are founded on a &lt;i&gt;war of narratives&lt;/i&gt; in which competing mythologies jockey for the dominant position.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105674"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633306"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love and Mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How many times in relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;do we have the following interaction:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul style="margin-top:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Hey, that really hurt me, what you just said.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;I had no desire to hurt you, you must be oversensitive, or must have misunderstood me. I&amp;rsquo;m sorry that you are so upset.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The first statement is a statement of fact, the second statement is a statement of &lt;i&gt;mythology&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For about six months, Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and I had lengthy conversations about what I called &amp;ldquo;zinging.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;would say something that hurt me, and I would express my surprise and upset. With total sincerity, she would apologize for the fact that I got hurt, claiming that she had no intention to hurt me, that she had no idea that it would be hurtful, and so on. To her endless credit, she did not say or imply that I was oversensitive or paranoid.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I replied that I completely believed that she did not consciously want to hurt me &amp;ndash; since that would be sadistic, and thus would be a complete deal-breaker as far as the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;went.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This was very confusing for her, of course, and was a great challenge to her sense of her own virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and benevolence. As we continued to work on this problem of, &amp;ldquo;Stef gets hurt despite the fact that Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has no desire to hurt him,&amp;rdquo; we did slowly get to the point where Christina was willing to explore her own history, and how she was never really apologized to in her own childhood, after she was hurt.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Eventually, we got to the point where we understood that Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;had been treated callously or cruelly at times in her childhood, and then when she expressed hurt everyone told her that no one had any intention to hurt her, that she was oversensitive, and so must have misunderstood the intentions of those around her. If she continued to express her upset, she was punished. When she was spanked, her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;would snap: &amp;ldquo;Why are you crying?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The ironic thing about this all-too-typical interaction is that Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;was in fact ignoring her &lt;i&gt;own&lt;/i&gt; hurt feelings rather than mine &amp;ndash; and those hurt feelings existed in &lt;i&gt;her &lt;/i&gt;past, not in &lt;i&gt;my&lt;/i&gt; present.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Human beings are in essence pattern-making machines. In her childhood, Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s hurt feelings were endlessly minimized and ignored by others, and so a pattern was set up within her own mind, which was: &amp;ldquo;hurt = minimize.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When her parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;hurt her, and she expressed pain, her parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;then experienced pain themselves &amp;ndash; since no one really wants to hurt someone they claim to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. (Certainly when Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;finally understood that she was in fact causing me pain through her stinging comments, it was very painful to her &amp;ndash; both because she did not want to cause me pain in the present, and because she then re-experienced her own childhood pain.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;did not want to experience the pain and anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of having caused their child pain, they blamed &lt;i&gt;her&lt;/i&gt; sensitivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and paranoia for causing her pain &amp;ndash; and so, by extension, their pain.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, it was fundamentally &lt;i&gt;their own pain&lt;/i&gt; that they were minimizing &amp;ndash; their dismissal of Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s criticisms was an effect of their own self rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;They rejected Christina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because they rejected themselves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105675"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633307"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Feel the Burn!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;td align="left" style="padding-top:0cm;padding-right:0cm;padding-bottom:0cm;padding-left:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:52.0pt;"&gt;O&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;ne of the problems that arises from this habitual interaction is the &lt;i&gt;lack of feedback&lt;/i&gt; it creates.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In fact, it could be said that the entire point of this book is to convince you that you &lt;i&gt;need to feel pain&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Pain is healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, pain is good &amp;ndash; pain is essential to the healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;functioning of mind and body.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we could will away the agony of a toothache, we would become very ill and possibly die. If we did not walk gingerly on a sprained ankle, we could create chronic bone problems. If we did not reduce our use of a pulled muscle, we could tear it irretrievably.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We understand the value of pain in the physical sense &amp;ndash; however, in the emotional realm we have access to a numbing drug called &amp;ldquo;blame&amp;rdquo; that seductively promises to eliminate our anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, guilt, shame and remorse in the moment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we understand our use of blame as a classic addiction, it becomes far easier to comprehend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We can look at an addiction as any habit that reduces anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or pain in the moment at the cost of failing to address (and probably exacerbating) the underlying cause.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I take a mood-enhancing drug because I feel sad, I am not dealing with my sadness, but just &amp;ldquo;nuking&amp;rdquo; the symptom. If I take sleeping pills because I am too stressed to sleep, I am only solving the problem of being awake, not of being stressed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, it can be highly beneficial to minimize discomfort while dealing with the real underlying issue &amp;ndash; i.e. to use Novocain during a root canal, or take antidepressants while going to therapy &amp;ndash; as long as the underlying issue is in fact being addressed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, there are many ways that we can approach each other&amp;rsquo;s irrationalities which minimize defensive reactions and upsets. What is not productive, however, is temporarily eliminating anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by permanently ignoring the problem.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The most common way of eliminating discomfort in the moment is to create a story which eliminates responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105676"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633308"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Eliminating Responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;One continual pattern in life is that people will drive around for years looking for a suitable cliff, take a running leap over the edge, and then spend decades complaining that they were unjustly pushed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A woman will spend years dating and choosing a man, and then months or years in a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and then months engaged, and then get married &amp;ndash; and then with a completely straight face complain about her husband, saying with all sincerity that she had &amp;ldquo;no idea&amp;rdquo; about his true nature.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105677"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633309"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No Idea?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There are really only three possibilities when a woman says that she had &amp;ldquo;no idea&amp;rdquo; that her husband was X, Y or Z &amp;ndash; despite having &lt;i&gt;years &lt;/i&gt;to get to know him before marrying him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If she is genuinely clueless about her husband, then either she is functionally retarded in her ability to judge people, or he is a truly cunning sociopath who can mask his true nature for years, with no clues whatsoever about his dangerous or dysfunctional nature &amp;ndash; or she is lying about her ignorance of his nature.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the first case, she may well complain about her husband, but it could be easily said that he has far more to complain about her, in that she has a negative ability to judge people and very likely needs help tying her shoes. She thought that her boyfriend was the best guy for her, and he turns out to be problematic in significant areas. That is not just a misjudgment, but rather an &lt;i&gt;anti&lt;/i&gt;-judgment. It&amp;rsquo;s not like taking a shortcut that doesn&amp;rsquo;t work out as efficiently as you hoped: it is more like continually driving the completely wrong way while checking the map and stopping to ask for directions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the woman really is that foolish, then she would be too vapid to actually blame her husband for what he does, since her understanding of cause and effect would be so absent that she would be more likely to blame her unhappiness on the motion of the moon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If she &lt;i&gt;can &lt;/i&gt;correctly identify her husband&amp;rsquo;s dysfunctional behaviour as the &amp;ldquo;cause&amp;rdquo; of her unhappiness, then she is intelligent enough to have perceived his true nature long before they even became boyfriend and girlfriend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If she then says that her husband is truly a cunning sociopath who fooled everyone for years, then we know that she is lying. There is no possibility that a sociopath can be so cunning that he can fool everyone for years about his true nature. If this were possible, then there would never be such a diagnosis as &amp;ldquo;sociopathic,&amp;rdquo; because such creatures would be able to avoid or mask their symptoms in all possible scenarios and tests.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus it can never be possible that a wife can complain first and foremost about the actions of her partner. This would be equivalent to a dermatologist blaming the sun for his sunburn.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105678"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633310"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Common Stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:52.0pt;"&gt;S&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;tories are characterized by a number of common traits. The first and most obvious is the use of the words &amp;ldquo;always&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;never.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For instance, a husband may say to his wife, &amp;ldquo;You &lt;i&gt;never&lt;/i&gt; support me!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;His wife may retort: &amp;ldquo;You &lt;i&gt;always&lt;/i&gt; accuse me of that!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Other common stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;include:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul style="margin-top:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;I have to do everything around here.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;You never take responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for your actions.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;Why don&amp;rsquo;t you ever just sit down and really talk to me?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;You never lift a finger around here unless I tell you what to do.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;You&amp;rsquo;re just so passive.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;You never take initiative.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;You&amp;rsquo;re just lazy.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;You&amp;rsquo;re so vain.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;It&amp;rsquo;s like you&amp;rsquo;re &lt;i&gt;married&lt;/i&gt; to that computer!&amp;rdquo; (Sorry, my voice recognition software was running when my wife came into the room&amp;hellip;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105679"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633311"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You never support me&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let&amp;rsquo;s take a look at this statement and see how we know that it is a story.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I tell you that you never support me, then that is either true or it is abusive. In other words, any time I tell you something negative about yourself &amp;ndash; particularly if it is an absolute statement &amp;ndash; then either I am telling you the truth about yourself or I am lying to you in order to hurt you. (For more on this, see my book: &amp;ldquo;On Truth: The Tyranny of Illusion.&amp;rdquo;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If it is &lt;i&gt;true&lt;/i&gt; that you have never supported me, then either you lack the capacity to support anyone, or you have the capacity to support others but choose not to support me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you lack the capacity to support anyone, ever, in any way whatsoever, then criticizing you for this lack is the direct equivalent of criticizing a man with no arms for his inability to play basketball, or calling a non-Greek speaker &amp;ldquo;stupid&amp;rdquo; for not being able to speak Greek.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, when we criticize someone, we can only do so with justice if he is capable of correcting his behaviour. This is why no person with any sensitivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;calls a mentally retarded person &amp;ldquo;stupid,&amp;rdquo; a woman in traction &amp;ldquo;lazy,&amp;rdquo; or a man with Tourette&amp;rsquo;s syndrome &amp;ldquo;rude.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the behaviour cannot be corrected, then criticizing it is abusive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105680"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633312"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Assuming you can&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Assuming that you are capable of supporting me, if I tell you that you never support me then either you &lt;i&gt;have&lt;/i&gt; a desire to support me &amp;ndash; but choose not to &amp;ndash; or you do &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; have a desire to support me at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you know &lt;i&gt;how &lt;/i&gt;to support someone, but do not have a desire to support me at all, then clearly you believe that I am not worthy of being supported. In other words, there are people in your life that you &lt;i&gt;do &lt;/i&gt;want to support &amp;ndash; and do support &amp;ndash; but I am not one of them. This must be because I am behaving poorly relative to those other people that you support, since supporting someone is an act of love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my bad behaviour is causing you to refrain from supporting me, even though you could, then if I attack you for your lack of support, this will only make you &lt;i&gt;less &lt;/i&gt;likely to want to support me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is ridiculous for me to criticize your behaviour in such a way that I reinforce that behaviour. This is exactly like a woman giving her husband money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to gamble, going with him to the casino and cheering him on, and then laying into him about his gambling habit. It certainly happens, of course, but it is quite ridiculous.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, supporting someone must involve believing in his better nature or potential and helping him to achieve it in a positive manner. If I roundly criticize you for failing to support me, then I am saying that it would be better or nobler for you to support me. However, I am not at all helping you to achieve that &amp;ldquo;better&amp;rdquo; state in a positive manner, but rather just attacking you for failing to achieve it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, attacking you for failing to support me is the exact opposite of being supportive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this way, I am modeling the exact same behaviour that I condemn as unjust and unworthy in you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Is it any wonder, then, that you hesitate to support me?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I attack you for failing to support me, it is exactly the same as if I were a chronic liar proclaiming my honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and demanding that you tell me the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Yuck.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105681"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633313"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Lacking Knowledge?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On the other hand, if you have a desire to support me, but do not, then clearly what you lack is the &lt;i&gt;knowledge&lt;/i&gt; of how to support me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the only thing that you lack is a knowledge of how to support me, then the only way that I can practically get you to support me is to give you that knowledge.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I am Chinese, and I want you to be able to talk to my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, who do not speak English, then I would respectfully ask that you learn Mandarin.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you agree to learn Mandarin, then the question is whether I or someone else will teach you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I will teach you, then obviously I must be able to speak Mandarin in order to be able to teach you. If I do not speak Mandarin, then it would be highly hypocritical of me to criticize you for &lt;i&gt;your &lt;/i&gt;inability to speak Mandarin.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Also, at a very practical level, I would be unable to teach you the language.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I told you that it was of great value to be able to speak to my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in Mandarin, but I did not speak Mandarin myself, then clearly the solution would be for both of us to take classes in Mandarin.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I did speak Mandarin and I offered to teach you the language, it would only make sense to accept my offer if I was in fact a good teacher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my &amp;ldquo;courses&amp;rdquo; in Mandarin consisted of me yelling at you that you just aren&amp;rsquo;t getting the language &amp;ndash; in an incomprehensible foreign language no less &amp;ndash; then clearly I in fact have no interest whatsoever in actually teaching you Mandarin.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Instead, I am using my knowledge of Mandarin to humiliate you, by setting up a standard called &amp;ldquo;learn Mandarin,&amp;rdquo; and then making it completely impossible for you to learn that language.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If, at some point, you found out that the incomprehensible foreign language that I was yelling at you in was not in fact Mandarin, but some sort of gibberish, and that I did not know Mandarin at all, then you would very likely become completely enraged at my hypocrisy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, condescension, and manipulation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What are the odds that you would ever respect me as a teacher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, friend or companion again?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Such are the perils of manipulative storytelling.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105682"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633314"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What on Earth?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What on earth could be the motivations for such a dysfunctional interaction? Why would I want to attack someone for not supporting me &amp;ndash; distinctly unsupportive behaviour &amp;ndash; when I actually &lt;i&gt;could &lt;/i&gt;be supported if I modeled better behaviour, or chose a better partner?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, if I so greatly fear being unsupported, why would I create conditions which will inevitably result in me being unsupported?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105683"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633315"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Boxer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.0pt;"&gt;W&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hy is it that we are so inevitably drawn to re-create that which we most fear?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To understand that, let us look at the parable of a boxer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;named Simon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As a child, Simon is subjected to physical abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. He is slapped, pushed, punched and beaten.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since he is a child, he is helpless to resist these attacks. How, then, can he survive them?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, since clearly he cannot master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;his environment, or those who are abusing him, that leaves only one choice for poor Simon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Simon must master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;himself&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He cannot master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;his attackers &amp;ndash; or their attacks &amp;ndash; he can only master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;his &lt;i&gt;reaction&lt;/i&gt; to their attacks.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He has no control over the external world &amp;ndash; he can only have control over his &lt;i&gt;internal world&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;All children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;take pleasure in exercising increasing levels of control over their environment. If control over their &lt;i&gt;external&lt;/i&gt; environment is impossible, however, they have no choice but to start exercising increasing control over their &lt;i&gt;internal&lt;/i&gt; environment: their thoughts and feelings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is all quite logical, and something that we would all wish for, as the best way to survive an impossible situation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we cannot get rid of the &lt;i&gt;source&lt;/i&gt; of our pain, what we most desire is to get rid of the pain &lt;i&gt;itself&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105684"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633316"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Relief of Self-Control&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus Simon grows up gaining a sense of efficacy and power &lt;i&gt;by controlling his own pain, fear and hatred&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The pleasure that most children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;get out of mastering external tasks such as tying their shoelaces, catching a ball and learning to skate, Simon gets out of &amp;ldquo;rising above&amp;rdquo; and controlling his terrifying emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Can we blame Simon for this? If anaesthetic is readily available, would we want to scream through an appendectomy without it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When Simon is young, his self-control remains relatively stable. As he gets older, though, his parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;slowly begin to reduce the amount of physical abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;they inflict on him. This is particularly true during and after puberty, when he is becoming old enough to tell others about the abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and also because his increasing size makes it less and less possible to dominate him physically.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How does Simon &lt;i&gt;feel &lt;/i&gt;about these decreasing physical attacks?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Two words: &lt;i&gt;terrified&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;disoriented&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Simon&amp;rsquo;s entire sense of power and efficacy &amp;ndash; his very &lt;i&gt;identity&lt;/i&gt; even &amp;ndash; has been defined by his ability to master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and control his own emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the face of terrifying abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, in the absence of abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, he has no sense of control, efficacy or power.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In addition to being taught all the &lt;i&gt;wrong&lt;/i&gt; things, Simon has also been taught almost none of the &lt;i&gt;right&lt;/i&gt; things. He does not know how to negotiate, he does not know how to express his emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, he has not been taught empathy, he has not been taught sensitivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, he has not been taught win-win interactions &amp;ndash; the words that are missing from Simon&amp;rsquo;s social vocabulary could fill a shelf of dictionaries.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, in the absence of violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, not only does Simon feel powerless &amp;ndash; since his sense of &amp;ldquo;power&amp;rdquo; arose primarily as the result of his ability to &lt;i&gt;survive&lt;/i&gt; violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; but he is also increasingly thrust into a world of &lt;i&gt;voluntarism&lt;/i&gt;, where sophisticated skills of self-expression and negotiation are required for success.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As he enters into his teenage years, for the first time since he was very young Simon feels excruciatingly powerless &amp;ndash; and &lt;i&gt;vulnerable&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since &lt;i&gt;vulnerability&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;was the original state he was in before he began to repress and control his emotional responses to those around him, he unconsciously feels that he is in enormous danger. (This arises from the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that he &lt;i&gt;was &lt;/i&gt;in enormous danger when he was a child, but he is only now feeling it for the first time.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that he disowned his emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the first place was because he felt fear and hatred in the face of physical attacks. It was the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of his vulnerability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that provoked the self-defence of dissociation and &amp;ldquo;self-mastery.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus for Simon, vulnerability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is always followed by excruciating and self-annihilating attacks.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Having spent years mastering his responses to these attacks, he has not learned how to deal with vulnerability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in a positive and self-expressed manner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As he becomes an adult, however, Simon no longer needs to defend himself against attacks &amp;ndash; thus undermining his sense of control &amp;ndash; and he also moves faster and faster into a world of voluntary interactions for which he is utterly unprepared.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Simon also unconsciously knows that learning the skills necessary to flourish in this voluntary world &amp;ndash; if that is even possible for him anymore &amp;ndash; will take years of excruciating labour.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105685"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633317"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Fleeing the future for the past&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Simon has access to a drug that can instantly make all of his anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;go away. This drug can restore his sense of control, eliminate his bottomless terror of voluntary interactions, and place him right back in familiar territory where he feels efficacious, powerful and in control.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That drug, of course, is violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Simon finds that when he leaves the world of voluntary interactions and re-enters the world of violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, his anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;vanishes. His sense of efficacy and control returns, and he feels mastery over his own world again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Like an army that does not want to be disbanded, in the absence of external enemies, Simon must create them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;After realizing the relative joy and serenity that he feels after getting involved in physical fights, Simon goes down to his local gym and puts on some boxing gloves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He finds that he is very good in the ring, because where other people feel fear and caution, he, due to his years of self-mastery, feels power and control. When he is in the ring he does not feel anxious, he does not feel afraid &amp;ndash; he does not even feel angry &amp;ndash; he simply feels the satisfaction of being in a situation that he can control.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The endorphins released in Simon&amp;rsquo;s system by violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;quickly become addictive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;True addiction requires both a highly positive reaction from taking a drug and a highly negative reaction from abstaining from it. For Simon, boxing not only restores his sense of control, but it also eliminates the crippling anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;he feels in the absence of violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sadly, familiarity breeds content&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the psychological story of a boxer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, of course, but it can equally apply to criminals, soldiers, policemen, and others drawn to dangerous situations.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Simon was utterly terrified of violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when he was a child, so how can we understand his pursuit of boxing as a career when he becomes an adult?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we become addicted to controlling our fears, we can no longer live without either control or fear.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Simon became addicted to controlling his responses to abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;thus he can no longer function in the absence of abuse&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Addiction also worsens when every step down the road of repetition makes it that much harder to turn around.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This applies to Simon in many, many terrible ways.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Every time he uses the defences he developed in his childhood, he reinforces the value of violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in his adult life. Every time he avoids the anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of voluntary and positive interactions through the use of violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, he takes yet another step away from learning how to negotiate in a positive manner with kind and worthwhile people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, every time he &amp;ldquo;uses&amp;rdquo; the drug of violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, he makes the next &amp;ldquo;use&amp;rdquo; of violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that much more likely &amp;ndash; and resisting the drug that much harder.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this way, we can truly understand how a man can be drawn to endlessly repeat that which terrified him the most as a child.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In hopefully less extreme ways, Simon&amp;rsquo;s story can also help us understand why we are so drawn to repeat that which we fear the most.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Were you rejected as a child? Beware your desire for rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Were you verbally abused as a child? Watch out for verbally abusive people: they will inject you with addictive endorphins.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Were you sexually abused as a child? Watch out for predators: they will tempt you with the self-medication&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of surviving them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105686"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633318"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Sadist&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;he above analogy can help us understand how someone can end up spending his whole life attempting to &amp;ldquo;master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, at least Simon is getting into the ring with an equal. How can we understand a parent who ends up abusing his or her child?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A basic fact of human nature is that it is impossible for anyone to do anything that involves a moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;choice without moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;justification. George Bush&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;could not invade Iraq&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;without claiming that it was an act of &amp;ldquo;self-defence,&amp;rdquo; or &amp;ldquo;just punishment.&amp;rdquo; When parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;talk about screaming at or hitting their children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, they always justify their actions by claiming that, &amp;ldquo;We have tried everything else and gotten nowhere.&amp;rdquo; Or, they claim that their exasperated responses are generated by the misbehaviour of their children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;: &amp;ldquo;He just doesn&amp;rsquo;t listen; he doesn&amp;rsquo;t show us the proper respect,&amp;rdquo; etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is impossible to imagine a parent standing in front of a mirror and saying: &amp;ldquo;I am abusing my innocent child.&amp;rdquo; Any parent capable of making such a statement would have recoiled in horror the first time that he yelled at or struck his child, and sought the necessary help.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Continued abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;requires continual &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;justifications&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;. In fact, the very worst aspects of the abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that a child receives are not so much the physical fear and pain, but rather the &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;corruption&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; of the lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that are told to justify the abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For a child, being beaten is terrible, but being repeatedly told that the beating is a &lt;i&gt;just response to his &amp;ldquo;bad&amp;rdquo; actions&lt;/i&gt; is worse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So &amp;ndash; how could this possibly come about?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105687"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633319"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Child Abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For the sake of this example, let us assume that the parent was abused in her own childhood, as is so often the case.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We will take the example of a mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;named Wendy, who ends up verbally abusing her daughter Sally.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Wendy was verbally abused when she was a child. She was told that she was bad, disrespectful, disobedient, ungrateful, selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;From Wendy&amp;rsquo;s childhood perspective, her own mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;loomed like a titan in her little world. One of the amazing things about the differences in perspective between parent and child is that the parent screams and hits because the parent feels helpless. However, to the child, the parent seems virtually omnipotent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We can assume that the Christian God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because He felt helpless to reform its inhabitants. However, from the standpoint of the city-dwellers burning alive in a sea of flames, God&amp;rsquo;s complaint that He felt helpless would be utterly incomprehensible. If God is all-powerful, as He claims, how can he claim frustrated helplessness as his motivation? If an all-powerful deity cannot reform individuals, how can those individuals, with infinitely &lt;i&gt;less&lt;/i&gt; power, be expected to reform themselves?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;knew how large they loomed in their child&amp;rsquo;s world, they would use a far, far lighter touch in their discipline. When you are around somebody whose hearing is preternaturally sensitive, you only need to whisper; yelling is both unnecessary and abusive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When Wendy was a child, her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s verbal abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;was utterly overwhelming. The stress of having someone five times your size, who has complete and utter power over you, yelling at you, putting you down, denigrating you, or abusing you in some other manner causes a fundamental short-circuit in a child&amp;rsquo;s neurological system. It is the equivalent of taking a man terrified of heights and constantly dangling him out the open door of an airplane. He may &amp;ldquo;acclimatize&amp;rdquo; himself to the repetitively awful stimulation, but only through extreme dissociation from his environment, which comes at a terrible personal cost. Victims of repetitive torture undergo the same &amp;ldquo;out of body&amp;rdquo; experience wherein they cease to feel, and in many ways cease to live, at least emotionally.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When a child is abused, she experiences her life as a series of fundamentally impossible situations. The capacity to abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;arises out of a lack of bonding, a lack of empathy, an absence of sensitivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;towards the feelings of the child.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A child&amp;rsquo;s only security is her &lt;i&gt;bond&lt;/i&gt; with her parent. Abuse is a deliberate severing of that bond &amp;ndash; a &amp;ldquo;strangling with the umbilical.&amp;rdquo; Abusing a child requires that you eliminate your capacity to empathize with her. If a child perceives that she cannot rely on her bond with her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; which is to say that her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s capacity to empathize with her comes and goes at best &amp;ndash; then the child feels fundamentally insecure, because positive and empathetic treatment cannot be relied on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you are under the total power of someone who can treat you badly whenever she feels like it, you are placed into an impossible situation because that person will inevitably command you to show &amp;ldquo;respect&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; towards her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your abusive mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;detects that you fear her, for instance, she will generally react with aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If at a dinner party your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;raises her hand and you cower in fear and beg her not to hit you, she will get very angry.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus you must pretend on the outside the opposite of what you feel on the inside. You must show &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; and/or &amp;ldquo;respect&amp;rdquo; despite feeling fear and hatred.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, when Wendy&amp;rsquo;s mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;verbally abused her, Wendy could not react with fear or hatred, because that would only increase her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s attacks. (&amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;ll give you something to cry about!&amp;rdquo;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus Wendy had to disown and repress her own authentic emotional responses and mimic their exact opposite. All her fear and pain had to be &amp;ldquo;magically&amp;rdquo; transformed into &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;respect.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This form of the &amp;ldquo;Stockholm Syndrome&amp;rdquo; has disastrous effects on a child&amp;rsquo;s long-term emotional development and integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Instead of learning how to interact in a rational manner with reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the child ends up forced into a situation of eternal hyper-vigilance wherein she constantly scans the behaviour of those around her, endlessly alert for any signs of an impending attack.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you are driving a car and suddenly notice a number of wasps in the car with you, it will become very hard to concentrate on the road. In addition, imagine that you had to keep driving under increasingly difficult conditions, while the number of buzzing wasps in your car kept multiplying &amp;ndash; all the while knowing that you were allergic to wasp venom &amp;ndash; this is the endless livid terror of all too many childhoods.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This kind of terrible &amp;ldquo;split focus&amp;rdquo; (&amp;ldquo;I must keep driving / I must not get stung&amp;rdquo;) empties out the spontaneity and richness of the child&amp;rsquo;s inner life. Just as we cannot daydream while being pushed out of a plane, we cannot develop an internal discourse with ourselves if we are in a constant state of hyper-vigilance with regards to our surroundings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a child in an abusive environment stops scanning for danger, the pain of being attacked is then combined with the shock of surprise, and the inevitable self-flagellation for lowering one&amp;rsquo;s guard. Daydreaming, or self-conversation, thus becomes a form of &amp;ldquo;self abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; insofar as it increases the risk and agony of being attacked &amp;ndash; it becomes as dangerous as a tightrope-walker losing his concentration and risking falling to his death.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This terrible equation &amp;ndash; &amp;ldquo;relaxation = danger&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; keeps the child in a constant state of high alert, of hyper-vigilance, and effectively prevents her from ever coming to a true understanding of her situation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In a nation, a state of war creates the panic, haste and hysteria that prevents people from effectively questioning their government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Just so does hyper-vigilance in childhood prevent children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;from rationally evaluating their parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo; behaviour.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, with all this in place, when Wendy becomes an adult and gives birth to Sally, an awful series of events is set into motion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105688"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633320"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Child Unafraid&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To understand how parental cruelty comes into being, the first and most important fact to remember is that &lt;i&gt;children&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;enter this world in an un-abused state&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;. They are not afraid, they are not hyper-vigilant, they are not twisted, they have not become enemies to themselves or others &amp;ndash; they are curious, perceptive, engaged and benevolent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Remember &amp;ndash; as a child, Wendy learned that relaxation was danger. Thus when Sally is born, Sally is fundamentally &lt;i&gt;relaxed&lt;/i&gt; in a way that Wendy has no conscious memory of.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since for Wendy relaxation is followed by attack, Sally&amp;rsquo;s relaxation creates great anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because she associates it with an impending attack. In the same way, if Sally were crawling towards a set of steep stairs, Wendy would feel great anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and a compulsion to snatch Sally away from the impending danger &amp;ndash; very aggressively if need be.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For Wendy, then, when Sally in all innocence engages in actions that in Wendy&amp;rsquo;s world would have triggered a terrible attack, it reawakens all of the repressed pain, fear and hatred in Wendy&amp;rsquo;s heart. When this occurs again and again, Wendy genuinely feels that Sally is &lt;i&gt;creating&lt;/i&gt; or &lt;i&gt;causing&lt;/i&gt; terrible attacks of pain, fear and hatred in her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, the last time that someone else created pain and fear in Wendy, it was her own mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;attacking her when she was a child. For Wendy, then, any sudden eruption of pain and fear is associated with a direct attack. Thus for Wendy, Sally&amp;rsquo;s innocent anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;-provoking behaviour &lt;i&gt;is the direct emotional equivalent of her parents&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo; abusive attacks&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, the only way that Wendy could create any sense of security and control as a child was to brutally repress her own emotional responses. In other words, &amp;ldquo;that which causes anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must be brutally repressed&amp;rdquo; is the law of her emotional land.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, when Wendy was a child she could not brutally repress her own parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because that created further attacks &amp;ndash; thus she had to brutally repress her &lt;i&gt;own&lt;/i&gt; anxieties.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The difference with her own child, however, is that she now has the power to repress Sally, which she did not have with her own parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when &lt;i&gt;she&lt;/i&gt; was a child.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is in this way that she makes the transformation from victim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to abuser&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since she experiences Sally&amp;rsquo;s actions as attacks upon herself, Wendy feels justified in controlling Sally&amp;rsquo;s behaviour so that these attacks do not occur.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If our child continually kicks us in the shins, we consider it good parenting to prevent this child from acting in such an abusive manner. We must do whatever it takes, we say to ourselves, to prevent our child from hurting others. &lt;i&gt;What will happen&lt;/i&gt;, we think, &lt;i&gt;if we allow our child to act in such a horrible manner?&lt;/i&gt; A life of brutality, loneliness and rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;seems inevitable, and we could scarcely call ourselves good parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;if we allowed &lt;i&gt;that &lt;/i&gt;to happen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Many parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;start off with relatively calm and patient lectures, but the absolute of &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;thou shalt not&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo; remains determinedly hovering, in the not-too-distant background.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;It upsets Mommy when you act like that,&amp;rdquo; we may say gently &amp;ndash; however, like the initially polite letters from the IRS, a not too subtle threat is always visible between the lines. We talk about &amp;ldquo;politeness,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;niceness&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;consideration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the feelings of others,&amp;rdquo; and so on, but what we are really saying is: &amp;ldquo;It makes me angry when you make me anxious, so you&amp;rsquo;d better stop!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Children, due to their amazingly perceptive natures, find it hard to take these lectures seriously, because they sense the contradiction and narcissism at the root of such speeches. Thus they generally tend to continue to do what comes naturally to them, despite the anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that their actions cause other people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since the children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;remain in an un-brutalized state, they do not themselves directly feel the anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that their actions provoke in their brutalized parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. In the same way, if I do not have a migraine, playing loud music will bring me pleasure. If I do have a migraine, obviously it will not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;continue to do what comes naturally to them, and since their actions continue to provoke anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, pain and rage in their parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, their parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;feel a growing sense of helplessness and frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and an increasing loss of control over their own emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The basic lesson that Wendy learned in her own terrible childhood was that when someone does something that makes you feel bad, the solution is to stop the other person from doing that thing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, when Sally&amp;rsquo;s actions provoke awful feelings in Wendy, Wendy&amp;rsquo;s inevitable reaction is to prevent Sally from performing those actions, so that Wendy does not have to feel those terrible emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To be a &amp;ldquo;good&amp;rdquo; daughter, Sally must stop doing whatever causes Wendy anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If Sally continues to act in a way that causes her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, Wendy will be inevitably driven to the &amp;ldquo;conclusion&amp;rdquo; that Sally &lt;i&gt;wants&lt;/i&gt; to cause her pain &amp;ndash; or, at best, is utterly indifferent to the pain that her actions cause.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this way, Wendy can frame a perception of her daughter that includes the pejoratives &amp;ldquo;cruel&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, the battle lines are truly becoming drawn.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we say to our child: &amp;ldquo;Stop doing &amp;lsquo;X,&amp;rsquo; because it makes me feel bad,&amp;rdquo; surely the solution is simply for the child to stop doing &amp;lsquo;X,&amp;rsquo; right?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sadly, no.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105689"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633321"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Escalation&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The true nature of Sally&amp;rsquo;s &amp;ldquo;offense&amp;rdquo; towards Wendy is that Sally is &lt;i&gt;unafraid&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Remember that in Wendy&amp;rsquo;s childhood, being unafraid always invited attack &amp;ndash; or made the inevitable attack even worse. Thus Sally&amp;rsquo;s state of calm or self-possession creates an overwhelming sense of &amp;ldquo;impending doom&amp;rdquo; for Wendy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When Wendy was a child, spontaneous self-expression invited attack. Now that she is a mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, when Sally sits and sings to herself, this causes increasing anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in Wendy, and at some point she will express disapproval&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to Sally.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;At this point, perhaps Sally stops singing. However, five minutes later, Sally states that she wants to go for a walk.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In Wendy&amp;rsquo;s world, expressing an open desire always invited attack &amp;ndash; thus when Sally says that she wants to go for a walk, Wendy also feels anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and once more snaps at Sally.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As we can imagine, this process can go on and on virtually &lt;i&gt;ad infinitum&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is no end to the escalation of &amp;ldquo;little rules&amp;rdquo; that end up snaking around Sally, like an infinity of tiny spider webs that eventually leave her bound and immobile.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, even if Sally were to obey every single one of her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s &amp;ldquo;rules,&amp;rdquo; she would &lt;i&gt;still &lt;/i&gt;not be safe.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As Sally becomes more and more inhibited and more and more fearful, Wendy begins to feel guiltier and guiltier. Sadly, Wendy also interprets this as some sort of &amp;ldquo;manipulative aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; on Sally&amp;rsquo;s part and so is inevitably drawn to accuse Sally of &amp;ldquo;playing the victim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; &lt;i&gt;in order to make Wendy feel bad&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this way, there is no possibility whatsoever that Sally can ever satisfy her mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If Sally acts in a natural, independent manner, she provokes an attack. If she acts in an unnatural, obedient manner, she provokes an attack. Since she can neither be spontaneous nor obedient, neither act nor refrain from acting, there is nothing that she can do to avoid being attacked or criticized in some manner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105690"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633322"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Evil At The Core&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The central problem is that Wendy is &lt;i&gt;attempting to manage her own anxiety&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by controlling Sally.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, since Sally is &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; the actual source of Wendy&amp;rsquo;s anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, controlling Sally&amp;rsquo;s behaviour will only temporarily alleviate Wendy&amp;rsquo;s anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; while making it worse deep down, since she is acting unjustly and blaming Sally for her own feelings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105691"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633323"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Controlling the Bed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To understand this madness more fully, imagine that you are bedridden in a hospital and I am standing by the controls of the bed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Can you raise the head of my bed so that I can eat?&amp;rdquo; you ask.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I push a button, but nothing happens. I push another button and your head goes down.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;No, no!&amp;rdquo; you cry. &amp;ldquo;Up, I want my head to come up!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I push another button, and both your legs and head start to rise, causing you pain.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Ow! Not that way, just my &lt;i&gt;head&lt;/i&gt;!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As you can well imagine, this process will generate an extraordinary amount of frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and tension in both of us. You would be panicking and yelling at me, and I would be frantically stabbing at the buttons trying to control or reverse whatever motion was giving you such discomfort.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now imagine further that at some point, we discover that I am actually pressing the controls of a bed in another room, and the reason that your bed is moving &amp;ldquo;randomly&amp;rdquo; is that you are in fact sitting on the controls for your own bed, and your shifting around is what is causing the uncomfortable movements.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, the first thing that you would do is apologize to me for blaming me for your discomfort, and for railing against my &amp;ldquo;incompetence.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the typical experience of someone who finally understands that using other people to manage his anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;only makes his anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;worse, causing him to further attempt to control and manipulate others, when the whole time he is &amp;ldquo;sitting on the controls&amp;rdquo; that only &lt;i&gt;he&lt;/i&gt; can reach.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105692"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633324"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why is this so important?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;he reason that we are spending all this time focusing on how abusive tendencies come about is because it is essential to understand the genesis of the mythologies that separate us from each other.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we look at the interaction between Wendy and Sally, we can understand that Wendy&amp;rsquo;s bad behaviour &lt;i&gt;predated her justifications for that bad behaviour&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Due to her rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of her own history, Wendy ended up attacking her daughter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This shameful action produced a great stress in Wendy, because she wants to be &amp;ndash; and believes herself to be &amp;ndash; a good, fair and just person.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, continually snapping at a child, or verbally abusing her in some other manner scarcely sits well with a benevolent and virtuous self-image.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105693"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633325"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Self&amp;ndash;Mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we perform actions that we cannot justify to ourselves, we have one of two choices. We can either recognize that we have a significant moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;flaw and go through the painful work of starting to correct it, or we can say that our actions resulted from a significant moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;flaw in someone &lt;i&gt;else&lt;/i&gt;, and go through the far &lt;i&gt;less&lt;/i&gt; painful work of starting to &amp;ldquo;correct&amp;rdquo; the &lt;i&gt;other &lt;/i&gt;person&amp;rsquo;s flaws.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, if I am angry at you, and I cannot believe that I am unjustly or abusively angry at you &amp;ndash; which would be the case if you did nothing to provoke my anger &amp;ndash; then I must convince myself that my anger is a &lt;i&gt;just &lt;/i&gt;response to injustice or abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;from &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As mentioned earlier, this shifting of moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;blame is called &lt;i&gt;projection&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which is a wonderful word on many levels &amp;ndash; not only does it connote the shining of an image onto a blank surface, but it also invokes a &amp;ldquo;movie&amp;rdquo; metaphor, which includes the artistic fiction that it so often actually represents.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105694"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633326"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Crossroads&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When Wendy stands over her child, her voice hoarse and her hands shaking, looking down into Sally&amp;rsquo;s bewildered and frightened eyes, it is a moment of truth for her very soul.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If Wendy recognizes that she has just attacked a helpless and dependent child &amp;ndash; which can never be justified in any terms &amp;ndash; then she can begin to take the necessary and humbling steps of learning how to control her temper and hopefully, over time, win back the trust of her child.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, the majority of parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;feel the terror and vulnerability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;within their own hearts when looking into the horrified eyes of their children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and then take the terrible step of inventing a fiction wherein the &lt;i&gt;children&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;are the perpetrators &amp;ndash; and they, the parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, are the &lt;i&gt;victims&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Remember, in the religious approach we are always taught to create sinners to blame for our mistakes &amp;ndash; and the more immoral our errors, the worse the sinner must be.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;Look what you made me do!&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo; is the brutal and vengeful cry that erupts from the tortured souls of the parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;Only a bad child would turn me into &lt;b&gt;this&lt;/b&gt;!&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105695"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633327"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Religion and Mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why is it that we are so invariably drawn to making up self-justifying stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, rather than accepting the truth about our own capacity for doing harm?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Child abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is just one of the many, many destructive fallouts that result from our addiction to the superstitions of religion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Religion completely externalizes the moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and immoral &amp;ndash; decisions of mankind. &amp;ldquo;Virtue&amp;rdquo; is obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to the whimsical dictates of a self-contradictory deity, while &amp;ldquo;vice&amp;rdquo; is surrender to the whimsical temptations of a self-contradictory devil.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;The devil made me do it,&amp;rdquo; (often supplemented with &amp;ldquo;I was weak!&amp;rdquo;) is a constant cry among the religious &amp;ndash; while these cultists often believe that they have the choice to reject temptation, the devil is very strong, and human flesh is invariably weak.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are not only born un-abused, they are also born fundamentally anti-religious. (If you doubt this, try taking away a four-year-old&amp;rsquo;s Halloween candy and saying he will get 100 times more candy after he is dead!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Children are empirical, secular, rational and fundamentally scientific. In fact, the progression of competence in a child&amp;rsquo;s mind directly follows the scientific method&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. For instance, in the first few years a child develops the recognition of causality, by tracking an object with his eyes or turning his head at a sound, followed by &amp;ldquo;object permanence,&amp;rdquo; such as recognizing that a ball placed under a blanket still exists, which then develops into basic problem solving with these objects. As the child continues to develop, these basic problem solving skills are refined by more formal use of logic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in every aspect of life: identity, language, values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Just as it takes an enormous amount of statist propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to turn a child into a dogmatic Soviet Marxist, it takes an endless amount of &lt;i&gt;religious &lt;/i&gt;propaganda to turn a child into a dazed &amp;ldquo;worshiper&amp;rdquo; of imaginary ghosts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Children are not even naturally agnostic. To test this proposition, simply give a child an empty box as a birthday present and tell him that there &lt;i&gt;may&lt;/i&gt; be an iPod in it, but there&amp;rsquo;s just no way to know for sure, so he cannot really tell you that there is &lt;i&gt;no&lt;/i&gt; iPod in there!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;See if he thanks you for this &amp;ldquo;gift&amp;rdquo; or not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, the subjugation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in terms of religion is based on the subjugation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to &lt;i&gt;stories&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; exploitive, abusive, ghastly, disorienting and manipulative &lt;i&gt;stories&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, of course, it is impossible for a child to obey the Bible or the Koran or the Torah, because they are simply dead books with no capacity to reward or punish.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No, the subjugation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is fundamentally the enslavement of children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to storytellers &amp;ndash; their obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to the whims of others, presented as absolute moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and metaphysical &lt;i&gt;facts&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Enslavement to the idea that the stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of others are absolute facts is a crushing blow to a child&amp;rsquo;s capacity to process objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and, to the great benefit of those in authority, to criticize or question the errors of those who &amp;ldquo;teach&amp;rdquo; them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, since children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are trained to automatically obey &amp;ldquo;stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; when an abusive parent aggressively tells a new &amp;ldquo;story,&amp;rdquo; which is that the aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the parent was directly caused by the actions of the child, the child can only nod numbly and blame himself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For a more detailed explanation of this, listen to podcast 70 at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:8.0pt;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.freedomainradio.com/Traffic_Jams/how_to_control_a_human_soul.mp3"&gt;http://www.freedomainradio.com/Traffic_Jams/how_to_control_a_human_soul.mp3&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p style="border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoTitle"&gt;&lt;span class="MsoBookTitle"&gt;&lt;span style="text-transform:none;"&gt;VIRTUE AND LOVE&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105696"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633328"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the First Virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;onesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the first virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in every relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and most importantly our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with our self.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Mythology is the &lt;i&gt;opposite&lt;/i&gt; of honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;provides the &lt;i&gt;appearance&lt;/i&gt; of truth, which prevents us from actively continuing to &lt;i&gt;pursue &lt;/i&gt;the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this section I will put forward the thesis that our existing relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are not primarily with each other, but with our own mythologies, with our own &lt;i&gt;stories&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;about our interactions with each other.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Mother Theresa used to say that she was not administering to the poor, but rather to &lt;i&gt;Christ in the poor&lt;/i&gt;, which is a very different thing. Since Christ &amp;ldquo;the man-god who strolled the waves and came back from the dead&amp;rdquo; is a mere fantasy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, Mother Theresa did not have a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with the poor as individuals, but rather with her own projected fantasy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of &amp;ldquo;service&amp;rdquo; to a nonexistent deity. This is a form of spiritual &amp;ldquo;stalking.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I may as well say that I do not have a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with my girlfriend, but rather with the &amp;ldquo;leprechaun in my girlfriend.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, if I say that, I am openly admitting that I do not have a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with anyone or anything &amp;ndash; outside my own fantasies of course.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105697"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633329"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Not Even Wrong&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the world of science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the worst judgment that can be passed upon a theory is that it is &amp;ldquo;not even wrong&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; in other words, it is so incomprehensible or self-contradictory that nothing can be even learned from its mistakes.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;2 + 2 = 5&amp;rdquo; is wrong; &amp;ldquo;2 + blue = unicorn&amp;rdquo; is &amp;ldquo;not even wrong.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I am patriotic, then clearly I am not in love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with &amp;ldquo;the land&amp;rdquo; itself, since that is just earth and rock. I am not in love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with the grass, or the trees, or the mountains or the clouds. I can say that I am in love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with the &lt;i&gt;ideals&lt;/i&gt; of the country that I live in, or its best and most virtuous principles &amp;ndash; but clearly, those &amp;ldquo;ideals&amp;rdquo; exist &lt;i&gt;only as ideas within the minds of those around me&lt;/i&gt;. If I say that I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;America,&amp;rdquo; I am really saying that I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;my fellow Americans&lt;/i&gt;, since &amp;ldquo;America&amp;rdquo; is a concept, and has no real existence in the objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since &amp;ldquo;America&amp;rdquo; does not exist, I cannot love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;it, any more than I can marry a leprechaun or send the concept of &amp;ldquo;children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;&amp;rdquo; to school. Thus if I claim to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;my fellow &amp;ldquo;Americans,&amp;rdquo; I am not claiming to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;any particular individual for his specific virtues, but rather a general group in relation to a concept that does not exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, a &amp;ldquo;general group&amp;rdquo; is also a concept that does not exist in reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and so when I claim to be patriotic, I am in fact expressing affection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with regards to a generalized and abstract &amp;ldquo;group&amp;rdquo; (which does not in fact exist) in relation to a &amp;ldquo;country&amp;rdquo; (which does not in fact exist).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Patriotism&amp;rdquo; is thus a mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;which separates us as individuals, because the primary relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the patriot is to a projected abstraction, rather than to any individuals in particular. The patriot &amp;ldquo;loves&amp;rdquo; his fellow countrymen in the same way that Mother Teresa &amp;ldquo;loves&amp;rdquo; the poor &amp;ndash; it is a narcissistic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;projection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, not a mature acceptance of another individual soul.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The sad thing about this is that we cannot in fact have any relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to our mythologies, any more than we can soul-kiss our reflection in the mirror, or sit down with &amp;ldquo;the country&amp;rdquo; for nice cup of coffee and a chat.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Mythology always isolates &amp;ndash; we can only meet in &lt;i&gt;reality&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;o be &amp;ldquo;related&amp;rdquo; to someone &amp;ndash; to have intimacy &amp;ndash; clearly requires that both parties feel free to speak their minds, commit to listening, and strive to understand each other.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are fundamentally defined by &lt;i&gt;reciprocity&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, you and I do not have a &amp;ldquo;relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; if you forbid me to provide any feedback about anything you say or do. If I am not allowed to change my facial expression, open my mouth and say anything, or provide any response or feedback to your words or actions, then clearly I cannot be said to be having a &lt;i&gt;relationship&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with you in any way at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, any intimate relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;also requires that both parties respect each other&amp;rsquo;s thoughts, emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and opinions. I cannot say that you and I are &amp;ldquo;close,&amp;rdquo; while at the same time disagreeing with everything that you say, and criticizing everything that you do.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Similarly, intimacy requires feedback that is objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. If you show me a portrait you have painted and I tell you that it is terrible because I am jealous of how good it is, clearly the feedback that I&amp;rsquo;m giving you is not objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. This is equally true if I tell you that your portrait is wonderful when it is not because I am afraid of hurting your feelings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This requirement for objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;feedback does not exist only in relation to external objects.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I am angry with you, and you ask me how I am feeling, and I tell you that I am &amp;ldquo;fine,&amp;rdquo; then I am not giving you objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;feedback. Expecting any relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to flourish when you mislead your partner is like expecting a doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to cure the pain in your arm after you tell him that your leg is hurting. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus if you and I have an intimate relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, it must be true that we are giving each other objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and authentic feedback. We cannot be &amp;ldquo;close&amp;rdquo; if everything I say to you is a lie, or if every emotion that I claim to feel is manufactured &amp;ndash; or, of course, if I only tell you what I think you &amp;ldquo;want to hear,&amp;rdquo; or keep silent out of fear, or actively mislead you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Similarly, intimacy cannot coexist with any sort of &amp;ldquo;third-party validation&amp;rdquo; of each other&amp;rsquo;s value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I date you only because you &amp;ldquo;look good on my arm,&amp;rdquo; then it is not because I find particular value in you, but rather because I imagine that other people will find &amp;ldquo;value&amp;rdquo; in your appearance. If a woman marries a doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because she primarily desires the prestige of being a doctor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s wife, then the value of the man she is marrying is defined by the possible judgments of other people &amp;ndash; not the man in and of himself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;An actor who befriends an agent in the hopes of gaining representation cannot claim to be &amp;ldquo;close&amp;rdquo; to that agent, but rather is using him as a means to an end. This is not always bad, of course &amp;ndash; economically, I &amp;ldquo;use&amp;rdquo; my grocer as a means to the end of getting food, just as he &amp;ldquo;uses&amp;rdquo; me as a means to the end of getting money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; but I would certainly not claim that I am &amp;ldquo;close&amp;rdquo; to my grocer!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Without reciprocity, relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are empty, manipulative, meaningless &amp;ndash; and somewhat delusional.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We would not look at a ventriloquist who said &amp;ldquo;I have a close relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with my dummy,&amp;rdquo; as particularly sane or healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because his dummy, being functionally inert, clearly cannot provide any objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;reciprocity in such a &amp;ldquo;relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Also, if the primary &amp;ldquo;reciprocity&amp;rdquo; in a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is based on &lt;i&gt;third-party validation&lt;/i&gt;, then clearly individual, or one-on-one reciprocity, is not particularly present.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a woman dates a man because he is &amp;ldquo;so cute that her friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will be envious,&amp;rdquo; then obviously her primary relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is with her friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, not with the cute man. He is merely a means to an end, which is the envy of her friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Thus the primary reciprocity she experiences is not with him, but with others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, a man who dates a woman because he fears solitude does not have a positive relationship with her, but rather a &amp;ldquo;negative&amp;rdquo; relationship with his own fears. She is an anxiety-avoidance mechanism, and only has &amp;ldquo;value&amp;rdquo; as a human shield against his own low self-esteem. He has the same motives as a bank robber who grabs a hostage in order to avoid capture.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;s we take a step back from our detailed brickwork, and look at the shape of the house we are constructing, we can begin to see what it looks like as a whole.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love requires honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, both because these traits are admirable, and also because they foster predictability and security in intimate relations.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love does not require perfection, but honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; particularly in relation to mistakes, since perfection creates impossible standards and inevitable frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is fundamentally about sustainable pleasure, just as nutrition and exercise are fundamentally about sustainable health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and well-being.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love requires two parties that are drawn together by an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;standard &amp;ndash; virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; just as science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;requires two parties that are drawn together by an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;standard &amp;ndash; the scientific method&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and economic interactions require two parties that are drawn together by an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;standard &amp;ndash; the voluntary exchange of economic value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;True intimacy is driven by a delight in gaining knowledge about the other person, just as scientific knowledge is driven by a delight in gaining knowledge about the material world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Intimacy is the natural process and result of &lt;i&gt;pleasurable curiosity&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A man who loves history will enjoy learning all about history.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A woman who loves a man will enjoy learning all about him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a man claims to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; history, but scorns and rejects the study of history, we would not take his claim very seriously. If a man claims to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; exercise, but never gets off the couch, and constantly mocks athletes on television, then we know that his professions of &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; are mere narcissistic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;foolishness.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, active hostility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is not required to repudiate claims of &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo; Mere indifference is an effective argument against protestations of affection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a man says: &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;yoga,&amp;rdquo; but never takes a class, watches a video, or practices, then clearly he does not love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;yoga, but rather is indifferent to yoga. What he &amp;ldquo;loves&amp;rdquo; is &lt;i&gt;saying&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;yoga,&amp;rdquo; rather than yoga itself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, many people say that they like classical music, although when you hunt around their music collection, there&amp;rsquo;s not a whole lot of classical there. The reason that they say they like classical music is that they like being &lt;i&gt;perceived&lt;/i&gt; as someone who likes classical music, because it makes them appear cultured and refined.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, they do not &amp;ldquo;like&amp;rdquo; classical music, but rather &amp;ldquo;like&amp;rdquo; lying, thus confirming that they are not cultured and refined &amp;ndash; at least in this area &amp;ndash; but rather shallow, insecure and manipulative.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105702"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633334"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I Want!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love is a statement: &amp;ldquo;I want.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; to get to know you better, I &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; to spend time with you, I &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; to share myself with you, I &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; to see how you will react to this or that. I &lt;i&gt;want &lt;/i&gt;to know your thoughts and feelings&lt;i&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; to run downstairs and greet you with open arms when you come home.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; to take care of you when you&amp;rsquo;re feeling unwell.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; your happiness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I &lt;i&gt;want&lt;/i&gt; you to feel safe, protected, loved and cherished.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The list goes on and on, of course &amp;ndash; the essential aspect of &amp;ldquo;I want&amp;rdquo; is: &lt;i&gt;compared to what?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;All desires are limitless; all resources are limited. This fundamental principle of economics applies equally to questions of preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and prioritization.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I can say: &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;squash,&amp;rdquo; but that does not mean that I want to play it 18 hours a day, since that would leave me injured and unable to play squash.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I can say: &amp;ldquo;I want to lose weight,&amp;rdquo; but that does not mean that I &lt;i&gt;really &lt;/i&gt;want to lose weight, if my following statement: &amp;ldquo;I want another piece of cheesecake,&amp;rdquo; takes precedence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I can say: &amp;ldquo;I want to be a millionaire,&amp;rdquo; but that does not mean that I&amp;rsquo;m willing to sacrifice my leisure in order to achieve that goal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus preferences must always be measured relative to each other.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the example of Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;at the beginning of this book, we can see their initial meeting was characterized by a form of &amp;ldquo;fusion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; wherein they developed a kind of one-dimensional &amp;ldquo;intimacy&amp;rdquo; by isolating themselves from the world, thus largely rejecting the ecosystem of competing demands. In this way, they really did not get the chance to see how they really &amp;ldquo;competed&amp;rdquo; with other priorities, which did not give them an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;way to really determine each other&amp;rsquo;s value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I used to work as a software executive, and traveled fairly regularly. I would say to my wife: &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;spending time with you,&amp;rdquo; but that did not mean that the only thing I ever wanted to do was to spend time with her. I certainly preferred spending time with her to going to work, or on a business trip, but it was in order to retain my pleasure in her company that I felt it incumbent upon me to contribute to the household income.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Life is a balance of competing pleasures, as we all know. I have to get up early, but I want to finish watching a midnight movie. My wife is calling me for dinner, but I am right in the middle of a video game. I want to continue working on this book, but a Freedomain Radio listener has an important question.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the absence of outright evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and corruption, there are no particularly objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;right&amp;rdquo; answers. Should I continue working on this book, or take a call from a listener with a problem? There is no totally objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;way to answer this. We do not receive medals in the afterlife for the actions we take in the here and now. No one is &amp;ldquo;taking score,&amp;rdquo; or giving us marks for right or wrong behaviours (except our conscience of course). We do not answer to an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and conscious &amp;ldquo;higher power.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We do have an inbuilt desire and drive for the truth, since we live in objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;material reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which consistently reinforces the objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and rational principles that define the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We do have an inbuilt desire and drive for moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;justifications, because all human beings feel a fundamental need to be virtuous.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We always have the choice, of course, to either be virtuous or to just define whatever we&amp;rsquo;re doing as &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; and thus corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;both ourselves and the world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, we always have the choice to either love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;honourably, or to just define whatever we&amp;rsquo;re doing as &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; and thus corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;both ourselves and the world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105703"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633335"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love is a Verb&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Love,&amp;rdquo; like &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; is &lt;i&gt;derived from actions, not defined by words&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A man who claims to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; a woman, but scorns and denigrates her &amp;ndash; even on occasion &amp;ndash; not only does not &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; her, but rather hates her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, a man who claims to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; his country, and then puts on a costume and points a gun at whoever his leaders tell him to &amp;ndash; foreign and domestic &amp;ndash; clearly does not &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; his country, but rather &amp;ldquo;loves&amp;rdquo; violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; which is the opposite of love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A superstitious man does not &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but rather &amp;ldquo;loves&amp;rdquo; controlling others through morally poisonous fantasies.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A statist man does not &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or his fellow citizens&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but rather &amp;ldquo;loves&amp;rdquo; controlling others through morally poisonous fantasies.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the example above, Wendy does not &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; her daughter, but rather &amp;ldquo;loves&amp;rdquo; managing her own anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by controlling her daughter&amp;rsquo;s behaviour.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Similarly, Bruce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;does not &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; Sheila&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; or vice versa &amp;ndash; they just &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; managing their own anxieties by manipulating each others&amp;rsquo; behaviour.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In my first book, &amp;ldquo;On Truth: The Tyranny of Illusion,&amp;rdquo; I argued that authority figures use morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to control us, thus affirming the power of morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and our desire as children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to be good &amp;ndash; and then use that power to corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;us and &amp;ldquo;justify&amp;rdquo; their own actions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, any person who uses the word &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; to manipulate other people is acting in a highly corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;manner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The word &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; is used in many contexts, both within our personal relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and in our &amp;ldquo;larger&amp;rdquo; relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to state, church and &amp;ldquo;morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Before discussing how we can begin to undo these destructive fantasies in our own lives using the Real-Time Relationship, let us look at how these pious lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;have corrupted our social, religious and political environments, so that we can understand the difficulties that we will face when we finally begin to really speak the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105704"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633336"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Social Lies: Love, Power and Manipulation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;n the absence of nutritional knowledge, human beings tend to eat what tastes good in the moment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the absence of philosophical wisdom, human beings tend to become mere &amp;ldquo;anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;avoidance machines.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let us look at a few examples of this in various fields, before we see the enormously destructive impact this has on people&amp;rsquo;s personal relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105705"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633337"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Religion and Anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Religious mysticism, or superstition, is almost always driven by a fear of the unknown.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we look at the example of epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we can see that the incomprehensible foaming and thrashing behaviour exhibited by epileptics during an attack can create great anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in others. &lt;i&gt;What on earth is happening? Why is it happening? Could this happen to &lt;b&gt;me&lt;/b&gt;?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Whenever we are confronted by something that we do not understand, we can either roll up our sleeves and begin the hard work of striving to understand it &amp;ndash; a work that will doubtless remain uncompleted in our lifetime &amp;ndash; or we can simply make up an explanation that gets rid not of our ignorance, but of our &lt;i&gt;anxiety&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, sacrificing a goat in no way affects whether or not the rains will come. However, if you can &lt;i&gt;convince &lt;/i&gt;yourself that sacrificing a goat can indeed control the rain, the brutal ritual allows you to live with less anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because you have &amp;ldquo;done something&amp;rdquo; to control your environment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105706"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633338"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Pitfalls of Mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Unfortunately, every moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;illusion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;we create for the sake of immediate anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;avoidance tends to harden into cultish dogmatism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we end up convincing ourselves that slaughtering the goat controls the rains, we are usually the one who slaughters the goat. All too often, our ability to spin comforting fantasies and kill animals becomes our profession. Our livelihood then becomes based on lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When this occurs &amp;ndash; when the priestly class emerges &amp;ndash; our greatest enemy then becomes scepticism and rational curiosity. Since we make our living by lying, anyone who starts objectively looking for the truth threatens our livelihood, our sense of virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and our position in the community.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If it becomes revealed that we have just made up our answers to prey upon others &amp;ndash; and that we have provided only the &lt;i&gt;illusion&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of security and control, to the great detriment of the community &amp;ndash; then we are also likely to be attacked in retaliation, or banished from our community as liars and con men. We will be revealed to our children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as shallow and manipulative thieves, and will be cast out into the wilderness, subject to all the whims of nature, beasts and men.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is why mythologizing is so elementally destructive. Whenever you create a group of people who profit from lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; the church and the state, respectively &amp;ndash; you create a hardened caste whose self-interest can only be maintained through brutality and a willingness to attack virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Mythology always becomes cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105707"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633339"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Mythology and the Appearance of Control&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Mythologizing, then, masks anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by creating the &lt;i&gt;appearance&lt;/i&gt; of control.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Like any drug, this temporarily reduces anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the moment, while continually escalating it in the long run.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Mythologizing is in essence the creation of an &lt;i&gt;unsubstantiated link between cause and effect&lt;/i&gt;. Why does Bob have epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;? Why, because he is &lt;i&gt;possessed by a demon!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Naturally, since this supposed &amp;ldquo;cause and effect&amp;rdquo; is entirely illusory, it cannot rest on its own empirical merits, but must be aggressively inflicted and defended through propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and force.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is no &amp;ldquo;Church of Gravity,&amp;rdquo; which drags young children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;into Sunday school to repeat to them over and over that gravity exists, that gravity is real, that gravity has an effect on matter &amp;ndash; and that the children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will be sent to hell for disbelieving in gravity. Similarly, there are no &amp;ldquo;Temples of the Hot Stoves&amp;rdquo; which strive over and over to inculcate the belief in children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that a hot stove will burn them if they touch it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason for this, of course, is that children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;have direct empirical perceptions of gravity and heat &amp;ndash; the cause-and-effect is very immediate, very testable, very powerful, perfectly consistent, and so perfectly real.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is only when the cause-and-effect is &lt;i&gt;imaginary&lt;/i&gt; that moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and physical aggression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;need to be deployed against anyone who questions it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105708"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633340"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Statism and Anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;around &amp;ldquo;the state&amp;rdquo; in many ways exceeds &amp;ndash; particularly in the modern world &amp;ndash; the mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that surrounds superstitious religiosity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The question: &lt;i&gt;how can human society be organized?&lt;/i&gt; is not answered by the state, any more than the question &lt;i&gt;where did the world come from?&lt;/i&gt; is answered by religion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a man says, &amp;ldquo;My wife loves me,&amp;rdquo; and then locks her in the basement and threatens to shoot her if she tries to escape, do we believe him?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A &amp;ldquo;theory&amp;rdquo; cannot be considered &amp;ldquo;proven&amp;rdquo; if all it does is shoot anyone who disagrees with it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In fact, any theory which requires violent defense is by any rational standard of proof utterly wrong or false to begin with.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus the thesis that &amp;ldquo;a state is required to organize society,&amp;rdquo; is demonstrably false, because it is not in fact a thesis at all, but rather a &lt;i&gt;violently aggressive dogma&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Shooting those who disagree with you does not make you right, but rather proves that your position is wrong, corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105709"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633341"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The State and Society&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since the state uses compulsion to &amp;ldquo;organize&amp;rdquo; society, it repudiates the very concept of &amp;ldquo;society,&amp;rdquo; just as rape repudiates the very concept of &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;making,&amp;rdquo; and robbery repudiates the concept of &amp;ldquo;property.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Using &amp;ldquo;the state&amp;rdquo; to answer the question of how society should be organized is morally identical to using kidnapping and imprisonment to answer the question of how to get someone to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is the mere &lt;i&gt;illusion&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;of an answer, rather than a real answer &amp;ndash; and like all illusory answers, not only is it brutal in the extreme, but it also actively prevents the pursuit of true answers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105710"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633342"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The False Answers of Statism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When people ask, &amp;ldquo;How should children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;be educated?&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; the answer, inevitably, is: &lt;i&gt;we should educate them through the state&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is not an answer at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We may as well answer the question &lt;i&gt;how should people get married?&lt;/i&gt; with the answer: &lt;i&gt;we should force them to cohabitate at gunpoint&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, the moment that force is used, voluntary descriptions must be abandoned.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I steal your wallet at gunpoint, I cannot logically call the transfer of money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;charity.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we force people to get &amp;ldquo;married,&amp;rdquo; it is not &lt;i&gt;marriage&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but rather &lt;i&gt;institutionalized rape&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we force children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to get &amp;ldquo;educated,&amp;rdquo; it is not &lt;i&gt;education&lt;/i&gt; but rather &lt;i&gt;institutionalized indoctrination&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, if we bully&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, force, manipulate or threaten children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to get them to believe in God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, what results is not &lt;i&gt;belief&lt;/i&gt;, but frightened conformity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which can also be termed brain-rape or brainwashing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And the same is true of love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105711"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633343"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love and Anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;rue knowledge reduces our anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because true knowledge allows us to predict consequences, accurately manage cause-and-effect, and thus gain some objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;measure of control in our lives.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, when we correctly view epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as a neurological disorder, we can predict that attacks will occur in the future, we can examine the causes of these attacks and develop medications to prevent recurrence &amp;ndash; or at least manage the symptoms.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Even if we cannot control epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, understanding that it is a neurological disorder at least reduces our anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with regards to the unknown. Even if we cannot turn on the light, once we understand that the &amp;ldquo;giant skeletal hand&amp;rdquo; scratching at our window is in fact a tree branch, our terror is sharply reduced.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On the other hand, if we believe that epileptic attacks are the result of demonic possession or invasion, then we will take the epileptic to a priest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, who will sprinkle water and chant words, which have absolutely no effect on the cause of the attack, and prevent rather than provide understanding.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105712"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633344"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Trial by Fire&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the Middle Ages, there was a ritual known as &amp;ldquo;trial by fire,&amp;rdquo; wherein a person accused of a serious crime would be forced to reach into a fire and pull out a metal bar &amp;ndash; being terribly burned in the process. If the burns became infected, then the person&amp;rsquo;s guilt was considered established, since infection was a sign of moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;corruption, inflicted by God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;only upon the guilty.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, the presence or absence of infection has nothing whatsoever to do with a person&amp;rsquo;s guilt or innocence, but is mere random chance. Inherent in the &amp;ldquo;trial by fire&amp;rdquo; was a complete understanding of this, insofar as the person had to be burned in order for the infection to possibly occur &amp;ndash; in other words, they did not wait for a spontaneous infection to afflict a healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;person.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We may feel that we are far above this primitive brutality, but of course we are not. Governments the world over &amp;ndash; including the United States&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and other &amp;ldquo;civilized&amp;rdquo; Western nations &amp;ndash; regularly torture &amp;ldquo;confessions&amp;rdquo; out of people. This can occur through &amp;ldquo;extraordinary rendition&amp;rdquo; programs, wherein people are kidnapped, flown to Egypt or Syria, and tortured or murdered &amp;ndash; but it also happens countless times daily, when people are offered reduced sentences or plea bargains, in return for &amp;ldquo;confessions.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;During the Salem witch trials, women were tortured into &amp;ldquo;confessing&amp;rdquo; that they were witches&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and then they were offered a quick death if they would name other witches&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in their &amp;ldquo;coven.&amp;rdquo; Dazed, bleeding, broken, mutilated, they coughed up the names of anyone they could think of, in order to gain the sweet release of death.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In our times, such &amp;ldquo;confessions&amp;rdquo; are also extracted through the threat of torture &amp;ndash; since modern prisons in every country are certainly torture pits of brutality and rape &amp;ndash; in return for &amp;ldquo;testimony&amp;rdquo; against others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This &amp;ldquo;testimony&amp;rdquo; usually results from a person facing years or decades in prison naming whoever he can in order to reduce his sentence, and has nothing to do with establishing any sort of reasonable innocence or guilt. These &amp;ldquo;named&amp;rdquo; people are then picked up, and the process continues.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The only difference is that in the medieval &amp;ldquo;trial by fire,&amp;rdquo; at least you had a chance of &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; developing an infection.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Through this process, the number of crimes that are genuinely prevented is far outstripped by the number of crimes certainly committed, through the sending of innocent and terrified people to the brutal rape rooms of modern prisons.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, since the government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can invent any number of &amp;ldquo;crimes&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;criminals,&amp;rdquo; this sick and evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;process both allows the government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to claim that it is really &lt;i&gt;good &lt;/i&gt;at catching criminals, and also terrifies the population through the invention of a &amp;ldquo;criminal underclass&amp;rdquo; that citizens&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;believe they need the government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to protect them from.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105713"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633345"&gt;&lt;span&gt;False Knowledge and Crime&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This whole process is a vicious example of how &amp;ldquo;false knowledge&amp;rdquo; (i.e. &lt;i&gt;you have committed this &amp;ldquo;crime&amp;rdquo;&lt;/i&gt;) both enables and exacerbates real crimes. By creating &amp;ldquo;facts&amp;rdquo; through the threat of multiyear torture, only the &lt;i&gt;appearance&lt;/i&gt; of guilt is established.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We may as well imagine that the Salem trials were really about finding witches&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. While many women certainly did &amp;ldquo;confess&amp;rdquo; to being witches&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, that was only because they preferred a relatively quick death to the endless tortures inflicted on them by superstitious fanatics.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We can see countless other examples as we look across our intellectual landscape, from the bitchy and greedy fear-mongering of &amp;ldquo;global warming&amp;rdquo; to the filthy and viciously corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;fear-mongering of the &amp;ldquo;War on Terror&amp;rdquo; to the exhausted and numbly-repeated fear-mongering of the &amp;ldquo;War on Drugs,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;War on Poverty,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;War on Illiteracy,&amp;rdquo; etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Whenever a disaster strikes a statist or religious society, the brutalized mob&amp;rsquo;s first instinct is not to find the root cause, but rather to identify a scapegoat.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105714"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633346"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;New York&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, 2001&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;F&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;or example, in the case of the attacks on New York in 2001, everybody&amp;rsquo;s first desire was for vengeance, not knowledge.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is exactly the same reaction as the superstitious desire to &amp;ldquo;attack&amp;rdquo; the demon that is causing epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, rather than struggling to understand the root causes of epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and working to alleviate them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we refuse to understand the root causes of epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but rather just attack the epileptics, anyone suffering from epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will do anything he can to shield knowledge of his symptoms from everyone else. In the same way, the president of Iran&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can, with a straight face, say, &amp;ldquo;We have no homosexuals in our country.&amp;rdquo; Given that homosexuals are regularly tortured and killed in Iran, it hardly seems surprising that they would be a challenge to find.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When epileptics are attacked, and then the symptoms of epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;mysteriously &amp;ldquo;vanish,&amp;rdquo; the attackers generally raise a cheer and toast their own effectiveness.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, all these monsters have done is to make the study of epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;highly dangerous. They have eliminated the &amp;ldquo;symptoms,&amp;rdquo; but their definition of epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as an &amp;ldquo;evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;possession&amp;rdquo; simply makes anyone who strives to understand it scientifically &amp;ldquo;evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; as well, and thus subject to attack.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this way, not only do they merely eliminate the symptoms of epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but they ensure that epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will continue &amp;ndash; and likely increase &amp;ndash; by attacking anyone who displays the symptoms, as well as anyone who investigates those symptoms scientifically.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Just as refusing to investigate the aetiology of epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;causes one to act in a way that does nothing to alleviate the problem of epilepsy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, refusing to understand the root causes of &amp;ldquo;terrorist&amp;rdquo; attacks does nothing to alleviate the problems of violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If fact, it only makes those problems worse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105715"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633347"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Empathizing with Vengeance&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we are attacked, it is generally very easy to understand why.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are attacked for exactly the same reasons that we want to attack others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we want to go and bomb Afghanistan after 9/11, we fully understand the mindset of the &amp;ldquo;terrorists&amp;rdquo; already.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To understand why people would want to fly planes into buildings, all we need to do is understand why we want to bomb Afghanistan.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since we want to bomb Afghanistan because we have been attacked, we can then easily surmise that planes must have been flown into our buildings because we have attacked others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s really not that complicated, and it takes an enormous amount of effort to avoid this simple and basic understanding.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Golden Rule &amp;ndash; do unto others as you would have them do unto you &amp;ndash; serves us well here. &amp;ldquo;Others are doing to us as we have done to them.&amp;rdquo; (I use the word &amp;ldquo;we&amp;rdquo; here very loosely of course, referring rather to the foreign policy of the US government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Also, please note that I use the word &amp;ldquo;policy&amp;rdquo; here equally loosely, referring rather to its terrorist attacks on foreigners.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To understand the &amp;ldquo;terrorism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; of foreigners, all we have to do is understand our own response to &amp;ldquo;terrorism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When &amp;ldquo;terrorism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; is inflicted upon us &amp;ndash; paramilitary attacks without a declaration of war &amp;ndash; we have a desire to lash out and murder others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus since we wish to attack when we are murdered, &lt;i&gt;we must have been attacked because we have murdered&lt;/i&gt;, since Muslims do not belong to another species, and human beings have similar reactions to similar stimuli.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How long does this take to figure out? Not very long at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A few minutes on the Internet will reveal a massive bombing campaign throughout Iraq&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the 1990s, conducted by the British and American military, which resulted in the economic decimation of the middle class and the physical destruction through malnutrition and illness of upwards of half a million Iraqis.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Going further, it does not take very long to find out that the United States&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has tens of thousands of troops stationed in Saudi Arabia &amp;ndash; and it also does not take an enormous leap of imagination to understand how this must make certain Saudis feel, given that many Americans would doubtless find it highly objectionable to have Muslim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;nuclear weapons stationed outside Washington, pointed at the White House.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Also, the US still occupies Japan, more than a half-century after conquering it, and has 700+ military bases throughout the world, and extracts billions of dollars from foreign governments to pay for these occupations &amp;ndash; like any other criminal shakedown.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Going just a little bit further, it does not take very long to find out that America subsidizes the Israeli military to the tune of several billion dollars a year. Regardless of how one views the division down the Gaza Strip and the creation of the occupied territories, it certainly is the case that America finances the oppression of Muslims through the Israeli occupation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Given that America was founded through the violent overthrow of a foreign &amp;ldquo;dictatorship,&amp;rdquo; it should not be hard for Americans to figure out that when you cause the deaths of those in another group by the hundreds of thousands &amp;ndash; particularly children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and when you station &amp;ldquo;infidel&amp;rdquo; troops on the &amp;ldquo;holy land&amp;rdquo; of a highly volatile and superstitious gang of oil-rich thugs &amp;ndash; and finally, when you subsidize a group that is viciously oppressing members of the same volatile gang &amp;ndash; that reprisals, or &amp;ldquo;blowback,&amp;rdquo; will be inevitable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Americans make up stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;about how the Muslims &amp;ldquo;hate us for our freedoms&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; and then condemn Islamic societies for their lack of freedoms. When I ask Americans if they hate Islamic dictatorships &amp;ndash; and they say, &amp;ldquo;yes&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; when I then ask them why they are not out committing acts of terrorism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;against those Islamic dictatorships, they just stare at me blankly, as if I were insane.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the blatant conflict&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;between, &amp;ldquo;They attack us because they hate us in the abstract,&amp;rdquo; and, &amp;ldquo;I hate them in the abstract, but I would never attack them,&amp;rdquo; must be repressed, like all mythologies.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105716"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633348"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Hellish Reciprocity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If they come to kill us, and then we want to kill them, then logically &lt;i&gt;they must have come to kill us because we have already been killing them&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If Americans stare around in bewilderment, asking &amp;ldquo;Why do they hate us?&amp;rdquo; the first person to ask, of course, is the person who attacked them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I sit minding my own business in a restaurant and a man comes up and slaps me across the face, my first question would be: &amp;ldquo;Why did you slap me?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the man says, &amp;ldquo;Because &lt;i&gt;here&lt;/i&gt; are the pictures of you sleeping with my wife!&amp;rdquo; then I cannot claim to be ignorant of why he has hit me. I may oppose his use of force or consider it an unjust response to my actions, but I cannot claim to be ignorant of his motives.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On the other hand, if the man says: &amp;ldquo;I slapped you because you killed my entire family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; then any vengeance that I would take would seem wildly unjust to everyone else, since the wrong I had done this man far outstripped the wrong he had done me in return.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;People always ignore, repress or bypass questions for which they already have answers that they do not like, or which do not serve their needs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the man in the restaurant slaps me, I can only take vengeance upon him if I claim that I have never done anything to harm him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If he claims that his slap was a retaliation for my far more grievous attack upon his family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then I must not respond to that accusation in any way &amp;ndash; neither to deny nor affirm &amp;ndash; but must continue to protest my complete ignorance as to his motives for attacking me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Only by ignoring &lt;i&gt;his&lt;/i&gt; motives can I justify &lt;i&gt;my &lt;/i&gt;vengeance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the case of the September attacks, this &amp;ldquo;bewilderment&amp;rdquo; reached truly ridiculous proportions. The man who claimed to be behind the attacks openly stated that his three reasons for attacking America were exactly those described above &amp;ndash; the US occupation of Saudi Arabia, the funding of Israel, and the blockade of Iraq&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He repeated over and over that his attack was a retaliation for the far more egregious American attacks upon his fellow Muslims.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Yet still Americans claimed that they had &amp;ldquo;no idea&amp;rdquo; why they were so hated &amp;ndash; or, that they were hated for their &amp;ldquo;virtues&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; which is even more offensive and provocative.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a man rapes a woman and then claims that she is fabricating charges against him, because he is just so &amp;ldquo;wonderful and loving,&amp;rdquo; then he is egregiously and provocatively adding insult to injury. By claiming that she is reacting in rage and hatred to his benevolence, love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, he is not only rejecting the fact that he brutalized her sexually, but he is also claiming that she is emotionally corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and viciously anti-virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105717"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633349"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Backup Lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, after the mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of &amp;ldquo;we have no idea why we were attacked&amp;rdquo; is invented, a secondary mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must also be created, in order to protect the first.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As described earlier, false cause-and-effect &amp;ldquo;relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; such as &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;sacrificing a goat = good rains&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo; must always be defended through the use of emotional and/or physical brutality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;After the September attacks, the backup mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; the &amp;ldquo;thug&amp;rdquo; story &amp;ndash; was that any attempt to understand the root causes of the attacks could only be motivated by sympathy for the attackers, and a desire to justify their murders.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is all pure, vicious nonsense &amp;ndash; the direct equivalent of accusing an oncologist who studies how to prevent a recurrence of cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of being a big fan of the cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you already have.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, someone who wishes to get to the root causes of an affliction cannot &amp;ldquo;cure&amp;rdquo; those who already &lt;i&gt;have&lt;/i&gt; that affliction, any more than an anti-smoking campaign can reverse lung cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is precisely &lt;i&gt;because&lt;/i&gt; lung cancer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is largely irreversible that prevention is far more valuable than attempting a &amp;ldquo;cure.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105718"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633350"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Love and Ego Identification&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.0pt;"&gt;W&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hy is it that the average American would be so resistant to discovering the truth about the September attacks?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What would it cost him emotionally if he discovered that those who claim to represent &amp;ldquo;his government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; had done unspeakably evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;things, which had brought about unspeakably evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;retaliations?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the average American reads about a Mafia hit-man who gets &amp;ldquo;whacked&amp;rdquo; in return, or some gang banger found shot dead in a gutter, does he immediately rush to the defence of the Mafia, or the gang?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a mugger gets shot, the average American most likely shrugs and says, &amp;ldquo;Well, don&amp;rsquo;t mug people!&amp;rdquo; If a hit-man gets whacked, we often feel a grim, unpleasant but generally-inevitable sense of justice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ah, the average American might say, but in the case of the September attacks, the people who were killed were &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; the people responsible for the decisions of the leaders.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is very true, of course &amp;ndash; but it is equally true for the Iraqis, who starved and died under an embargo that supposedly resulted directly from the decisions of &lt;i&gt;their&lt;/i&gt; leader &amp;ndash; Saddam Hussein&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, the Iraqis who died had no chance whatsoever to change their leader or to affect their political system in any way, shape or form. The people who died in the World Trade Center were educated, affluent, well-spoken and old enough to vote. This does not mean that they brought about their own deaths, of course, but it &lt;i&gt;does&lt;/i&gt; mean that if the standard is brought forward that people should not be killed for the actions of their leaders, then we must have more sympathy for the helpless Iraqis, who lived in a dictatorship, than the adults of New York, who lived in a democracy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, it was the Iraqi &lt;i&gt;children&lt;/i&gt; who suffered and died the most under the UK/US blockade. Should we primarily blame &lt;i&gt;children&lt;/i&gt; for the actions of a dictator? Would it have been &lt;i&gt;worse&lt;/i&gt; for the Muslim hijackers to target Disneyland?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Finally, what is the average Muslim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to make of the simple and brutal reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that, even after the &amp;ldquo;reasons&amp;rdquo; given for the invasion of Iraq&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in 2003 turned out to be totally fraudulent, the sitting President was returned to office with a clear majority of the popular vote? What could it mean that, &lt;i&gt;after&lt;/i&gt; committing a genocide against Muslims, Bush won the Presidency &lt;i&gt;more decisively&lt;/i&gt; in 2004 than he did in 2000?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Are those who vote responsible for the decisions of their leaders?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105719"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633351"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The &amp;ldquo;Stockholm Syndrome&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The only way to truly unravel this unholy knot is to understand that the average American feels a very strong ego identification with &amp;ldquo;his&amp;rdquo; leader, &amp;ldquo;his&amp;rdquo; government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and the political ruling class as a whole.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why is that?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, of course it is partly due to the endless propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that every citizen of every country is endlessly subjected to, particularly in government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;schools.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, there is a far more central reason that we rush to the defence of our leaders, which has great ramifications for our own personal relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105720"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633352"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sympathy and Integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What would it mean to have sympathy for the victims of our own governments?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What would it mean to dispassionately survey the political and military landscape of the past generation or so, and realize the degree to which our own governments have committed unspeakable crimes and genocides throughout the world?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What would it mean?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that we avoid knowing evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is not because we wish to avoid that knowledge, but rather because we wish to avoid another knowledge which is far more dangerous to us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Imagine a prisoner who wakes up to a silent and empty prison, with the door of his cell very slightly ajar.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He calls out, but no guards come.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He rattles the bars of his cage, but no other prisoners respond, and no other sound can be heard.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Everyone has left. He is alone in an empty prison.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we imagine that we are this prisoner, can we picture how terrifying it would be for us to &lt;i&gt;actually try to open the door of our cell&lt;/i&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the door &lt;i&gt;opens&lt;/i&gt;, we at least have the chance to escape.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the door is locked, however &amp;ndash; ah, then we will suffer the agonies of thirst and starvation for days, and die a terrible death, alone in our locked cell.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;With the stakes so high, how would we &lt;i&gt;feel &lt;/i&gt;about actually trying to &lt;i&gt;open&lt;/i&gt; the door of our cell?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that we would avoid trying to open the door of our cage is not because we were afraid of the door being locked, but rather that we were afraid of dying of thirst and starvation, over days, agonizingly slowly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;By avoiding the door, we are avoiding the knowledge of our death.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And &amp;ndash; the more certain that we are that the door is locked &amp;ndash; and thus that we will die - the more terrified we are of trying to open it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, we flock to defend our leaders, because if we objectively survey their actions and realize the violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that they have committed, we are led to some terrifying and terrible conclusions about the world that we &lt;i&gt;actually &lt;/i&gt;live in.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105721"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633353"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Democracy?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;td align="left" style="padding-top:0cm;padding-right:0cm;padding-bottom:0cm;padding-left:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;he vast majority of people in the world did not want America to invade Iraq&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and even the majority of people in America did not want the invasion, or if they did it was only because of propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Yet still, the invasion occurred &amp;ndash; even though Saddam Hussein&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;had nothing to do with the September attacks, had no contacts with Al Qaeda, and did not possess weapons of mass destruction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What does this say about the true nature of the society that we live in?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If our leaders are capable of ordering a blockade that results in the deaths of half a million Iraqis, what does that say about their capacity for ethical action?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What does that say about their capacity for empathy?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What does that say about their moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What are we avoiding when we do not ask these questions?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, if our leaders perform these unspeakably evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;actions and then profess &amp;ldquo;bewilderment&amp;rdquo; when their victims strike back, then clearly our leaders fully understand the ethics of &amp;ldquo;virtuous self-defence.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus they cannot be mad &amp;ndash; or at least, not &lt;i&gt;morally&lt;/i&gt; mad.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If they are not morally mad, but perform evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;actions, then they are truly evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And these are the people that we give our children to, to become &amp;ldquo;educated.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In a democracy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, if the leaders are evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, it is either because the people are evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or because it is not really a democracy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we live in a true democracy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and the majority of people elect evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;sociopaths as their leaders, then clearly &lt;i&gt;the majority of people are evil&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the majority of people are evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and their leaders are also evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then the attacks of September become understandable &amp;ndash; it is just one Mafia gang attacking another in retaliation for a previous attack. There is no honor, no reasonable self-righteousness &amp;ndash; it is just one more dirty murder following another dirty murder.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this case, retaliation becomes impossible to justify in moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;terms &amp;ndash; and so the cycle is broken.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If, however, the people are &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but their leaders &lt;i&gt;are&lt;/i&gt; evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; as surely they are &amp;ndash; then clearly the leaders do not represent the will of the people, and thus society cannot be called a &amp;ldquo;democracy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the majority of the people are good, but the leaders are evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then clearly it is immoral to have any sort of allegiance to this corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and exploitive gang of political thugs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we saw innocent bystanders being gunned down in a drive-by gangland shooting, would we rush to the defence of the shooters?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If this type of murder occurs in a neighbourhood &amp;ndash; dozens of people being cut down in gangland shootouts &amp;ndash; we would tend to get angry at the gang that &lt;i&gt;provoked&lt;/i&gt; the retaliation, not flock to their support, grab weapons and continue to escalate the war.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, we would identify with the &lt;i&gt;victims&lt;/i&gt;, not with the &lt;i&gt;perpetrators&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, in the case of the September attacks, the average American did not identify with the &lt;i&gt;victims&lt;/i&gt; but rather with the &lt;i&gt;leaders&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Again, &lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105722"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633354"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Morality and Victimhood&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To start, let&amp;rsquo;s trace what happens when the average American begins to apply objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;judgments to the actions of those involved in Christian/Muslim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;/Jewish violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, ordering the death of another is immoral. Equally clearly, in terms of ordering the deaths of other religious groups, the &lt;i&gt;Christians&lt;/i&gt; started the cycle of violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, at least in the 20&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; century. There were no Muslim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;attacks on America in the 19&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; century even though America was far freer in many ways in those days.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Christian attacks on the Muslim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;world continued throughout the 20&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; century through the creation of Iraq&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by the British out of the ashes of the Ottoman Empire after WWI, and escalating in the American arming of Iraq against Iran&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the 1980s, followed by the sanctions against Iraq in the 1990s.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus in terms of &amp;ldquo;who started it,&amp;rdquo; clearly it was the Christians &amp;ndash; initially the British, and to a smaller degree the French, and most recently the Americans.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since ordering the deaths of other people is evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then clearly this evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;was first committed by the Western Christian leaders.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since Westerners pride themselves on their &amp;ldquo;democratic institutions&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; particularly as opposed to the dictatorial Islamic theocracies &amp;ndash; clearly the Western citizens&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of those democracies have a far greater capacity to control the actions of their leaders, relative to the average Muslim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since in a democracy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;the actions of the leaders must represent the will of the people, if those leaders perform evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;actions, then the people are to some degree at least responsible for that evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I give a gun to a murderer knowing that he is about to kill someone, cheer him on when he does kill that person, and then give him more bullets right afterwards, then clearly I am complicit in his crimes.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, if the attacks of September 2001 were evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; as doubtless they were &amp;ndash; but we apply an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;standard, then clearly our own leaders are far more evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;than the leaders of the attackers, since they have been responsible for hundreds of times more murders than the attackers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If our own leaders are evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then we must attempt to prevent them from performing their evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;actions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we live in a true democracy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then we should easily be able to prevent our leaders from performing evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;actions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the door to our cage should be &lt;i&gt;unlocked&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Yet &amp;ndash; we do not try to prevent our leaders from performing evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;actions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Even after the manipulations and falsehoods of George W. Bush were fully exposed &amp;ndash; even in the mainstream media &amp;ndash; he still won the popular vote with a margin of several million.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since he had started a war based on false information, why was he not voted out?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105723"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633355"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Knowledge We Avoid&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He was not voted out because the people did not want to see that the war would continue.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The average American does not want to find out that no matter who he puts in government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the evils of the state will continue.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The average American does not want to find out that his cell door is truly and irrevocably locked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The average American &amp;ndash; like all of us &amp;ndash; knows deep in his heart that he has absolutely no control over his government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Deep down, we all know that the rapes, murders, tortures, predations, corruptions, thefts and brutality committed in the name of &amp;ldquo;the state&amp;rdquo; will continue as long as &amp;ldquo;the state&amp;rdquo; does.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We can sooner alter the orbit of the moon with our minds than control the actions of our leaders.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is not knowledge of &lt;i&gt;evil&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that we are avoiding, but knowledge of our own &lt;i&gt;subjugation&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; of our own helplessness, of our own enslavement.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The moment that we actually emotionally understand, accept and truly &lt;i&gt;feel&lt;/i&gt; the nature of our enslavement, we will find ourselves compelled to action.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And it is &lt;i&gt;that action&lt;/i&gt; that we fear &amp;ndash; not because it involves violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or physical danger, but rather because we know it will trigger the undoing of our entire world as we know it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That is what is truly called &amp;ldquo;taking the red pill.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105724"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633356"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Implosion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;he moment that we begin applying objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to our own life &amp;ndash; and to the actions of those around us &amp;ndash; we immediately step into another kind of world &amp;ndash; or rather, step out of a prison &lt;i&gt;that is only visible from the outside&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So when we question the murderous desire for retribution after the September attacks, we begin to understand that we are surrounded by people who &lt;i&gt;attack anyone who speaks the truth&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we are surrounded by people who attack the truth, then we are in fact surrounded by corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and brutal individuals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we are surrounded by corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;individuals, then the corruption of our leaders becomes more understandable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The corruption of our leaders becomes more understandable when we realize that we are living in a world of pious, frightened and brutal liars.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this way, the &amp;ldquo;country&amp;rdquo; that we formerly claimed to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; is revealed as a frightened, tyrannical and abusive &amp;ldquo;family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; that showers empty goodies on blank conformists and &lt;i&gt;attacks anyone who asks rational and moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;questions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the moment that we speak the truth, we find out that we were only &amp;ldquo;loved&amp;rdquo; because we were silent, stupid, obedient &amp;ndash; and productive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We find out that we were only &amp;ldquo;tolerated&amp;rdquo; as a means to an end, in the same way that a farmer &amp;ldquo;tolerates&amp;rdquo; his cows, because he wants milk &amp;ndash; and meat.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105725"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633357"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Humiliation of Knowledge&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;This knowledge is exquisitely and almost unbearably humiliating.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we emerge from the &amp;ldquo;matrix&amp;rdquo; of mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we look back and see&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;hellip;that we licked the boots of those who kicked us. That we sang the praises of those who harvested us. That we were slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;who cheered the virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of being owned.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And &amp;ndash; the most terrifying realization of all...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;That we are far more afraid of our fellow slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;than we are of our masters.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Once this realization sinks in, we are temporarily lost in a fog of limbo&amp;hellip; We cannot be masters, but are no longer slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. We cannot sup at the bloody tables of the elites, but neither are we welcome any more in the cages of the slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, to fight over scraps and call it &amp;ldquo;plenty.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the land between the stars, between the past and the present, where the fertility of the future takes root.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And it can be a very, very lonely place to be.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And it is this exile, this knowledge, that we are avoiding at all times.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The truth does set us free &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;at the cost of revealing to us that we are all slaves&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And &amp;ndash; that our fellow slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;hate us most of all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105726"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633358"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Anxiety Avoidance and Relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.0pt;"&gt;W&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hat does the above analysis have to do with our personal relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It has been my experience that it is far easier to get people to understand personal topics in an abstract context first.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As the long-time listeners at Freedomain Radio well know, I began my series on personal and political liberty with long discussions of anarchistic models of social organization, as well as abstract economic, theological and political analyses. It was only after 70 or so podcasts that I began to dip into personal topics, and only in the late 100s did I really begin to zero in on personal liberty, particularly with the series 180 to 183 &amp;ndash; &amp;ldquo;Freedom&amp;rdquo; Parts 1-4.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Most people who are interested in political liberty know that some rather terrible things have occurred since the attacks on New York. Some have gone as far as saying that these attacks were an &amp;ldquo;inside job,&amp;rdquo; which I do not believe, but you do not need to go that far in order to understand that those who wield political, military or mercantilist economic power only stand to gain when a nation is &amp;ldquo;attacked,&amp;rdquo; particularly when a nightmarish Orwellian &amp;ldquo;endless war&amp;rdquo; can be invented.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, if you really want to hurt yourself, you do not need to stab yourself: you simply need to keep poking a bear with a stick.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Most of my writing and thinking as a philosopher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has been focused on answering two fundamental questions:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol style="margin-top:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why has libertarianism failed so consistently throughout history?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Given that we can have no practical effect on a nuclear-armed state, how can we best work to bring about political liberty without compromising our personal liberty?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The answer to the first question has been the subject of many podcasts on the family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;; the entire answer to the second question is obviously beyond the scope of this book, but I will say that once you understand the principles of the Real-Time Relationship, you will have taken an enormous leap forward in understanding how to free yourself personally, and how it can be applied politically as well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we distil our analysis of the September attacks as described earlier, we can come to some very valuable conclusions, which can really help us understand the nature and challenges of our personal relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; as well as why we spend so much time and energy avoiding the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;div style="border:none;border-bottom:solid #943634 1.5pt;padding:0cm 0cm 1.0pt 0cm;"&gt;
&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105727"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633359"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Principles of Intimacy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;F&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;irst of all, I can guarantee you that examining your personal relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the light of what is being discussed in this book will be enormously costly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you continue, and move beyond the theoretical stage and actually understand these principles &lt;i&gt;personally &lt;/i&gt;&amp;ndash; whether you end up putting them into practice or not &amp;ndash; it is likely that very few of your existing relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will survive this transition.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I just think that you should know that up front.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Philosophy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is not a toy &amp;ndash; and in particular, &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;philosophy is the most powerful force on the planet.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you are going to bring this amazing power to bear on your relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then very few of them will actually survive. I can tell you that those that do survive will be greater than anything you can imagine at the moment. In other words, there is a light at the end of the tunnel, or &amp;ldquo;hope&amp;rdquo; at the bottom of this Pandora&amp;rsquo;s Box.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105728"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633360"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Realities&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;First of all, I fully accept and believe you when you say that every relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that you are involved in at the moment is based on virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;None of us get up in the morning, brush our teeth, look in the mirror and say: &amp;ldquo;my wife/parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;/friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;etc. are &lt;i&gt;evil&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We may get angry at them from time to time, but we do not truly or consistently believe that they are full of malevolent intent, hell bent on our destruction, and selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to the core.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If people in our lives behave in a manner that cannot possibly be construed as virtuous or benevolent, we have an endless stream of clich&amp;eacute;s at our disposal with which to wish away our wounds and knowledge of corruption:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul style="margin-top:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;He did the best he could!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;His heart is in the right place!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;She comes from a different generation, that&amp;rsquo;s just all she knows&amp;hellip;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;I guess I&amp;rsquo;m just a bit oversensitive.&amp;rdquo; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;That&amp;rsquo;s just his way!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Oh, that&amp;rsquo;s more prevalent in &lt;i&gt;his &lt;/i&gt;culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;He never acts with any ill intent, he&amp;rsquo;s just&amp;hellip; brusque.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;She&amp;rsquo;s under a lot of stress right now.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, we explain away non-virtuous actions with self-medicating &lt;i&gt;stories&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. We accept immoral behaviour by redefining it as &amp;ldquo;well-intentioned imperfection,&amp;rdquo; and then proudly wear the medal of &amp;ldquo;virtuous tolerance.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, as described in Part 1, we redefine our cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as &amp;ldquo;courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is very similar to the way that people view their government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. While getting upset and frustrated at some evidence of incompetent, scandalous or immoral behaviour, the &amp;ldquo;value&amp;rdquo; of government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;in the abstract&lt;/i&gt;, or &lt;i&gt;as an institution&lt;/i&gt; remains not just unquestioned &amp;ndash; but &lt;i&gt;unquestionable&lt;/i&gt;. &amp;ldquo;A few bad apples don&amp;rsquo;t spoil the barrel,&amp;rdquo; we say, or, &amp;ldquo;Don&amp;rsquo;t throw the baby out with the bathwater.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus we have a seemingly ineradicable habit of believing that those people we have relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with are virtuous or have our best interests at heart, &lt;i&gt;but we will do almost anything to avoid applying rational moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principles to their actions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, theologians claim to have &amp;ldquo;knowledge&amp;rdquo; of the existence and will of some sort of deity. This &amp;ldquo;knowledge&amp;rdquo; is always presented as objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; as differentiated from their &lt;i&gt;opinions&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; however, when any sort of objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principles are applied to this knowledge, it completely evaporates, and is revealed as, after all, a mere &lt;i&gt;opinion&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is an example of a meal that this book will take off your personal &amp;ldquo;myth menu&amp;rdquo; forever: &lt;i&gt;having your cake and eating it too&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;eople always claim that their relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; with their parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, governments and gods &amp;ndash; are based on &lt;i&gt;virtue.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;However, when you attempt to ask them &lt;i&gt;how&lt;/i&gt; they know this and what principles they have applied to derive such objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;knowledge &amp;ndash; since virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is surely not just an opinion &amp;ndash; they immediately and instantaneously shy away, or become aggressive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I claim to have created a medicine that will prevent the spread of HIV &amp;ndash; a pronouncement greeted with cheers of gratitude &amp;ndash; and then, when a population takes this medicine, what results is &lt;i&gt;the greatest HIV plague that the world has ever seen&lt;/i&gt;, will people&amp;rsquo;s gratitude for my medicine continue unabated?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, patriots say: &amp;ldquo;I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;my country because my country is the &lt;i&gt;best!&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Best&amp;rdquo; in this case always means &lt;i&gt;most moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Americans talk about the Constitution, the Bill of Rights, the separation of powers and so on. In other words, they talk about how the American system &lt;i&gt;limits&lt;/i&gt; the power of government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and how right it was for the United States&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to break away from England in the 18&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; century.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you then ask these patriots how it is reasonably possible to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;a system that was designed to limit the power of government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that has produced the most powerful government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, with the greatest and most destructive military, that the world has &lt;i&gt;ever known&lt;/i&gt;, they just shy away or become aggressive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, if it was right to fight against the British state in the 18&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; century, when it was imposing minor taxes and duties, and threatening to impose a fiat currency, how can it be possible to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;the American state in the 21&lt;sup&gt;st&lt;/sup&gt; century, with its crushing tax burdens, ridiculously overinflated fiat currency, massive national debt, monstrously imperialistic foreign policy and so on? That&amp;rsquo;s like saying that you hugely respect the virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of a woman who leaves her husband because he doesn&amp;rsquo;t take out the garbage, but that a woman should stay with a husband who half-strangles her to death every other week.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Also, if Americans love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;their country because the Bill of Rights and the Constitution limit the power of government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then surely they must love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;their country less and less, as government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;power grows greater and greater.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;sobriety and hate alcoholism, and when I married my wife she rarely drank, surely I will love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;her less when she becomes a raging alcoholic, hiding gin in the Listerine bottle for her morning &amp;ldquo;gargle.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I say that I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;sobriety and hate alcoholism, but claim that I love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;my wife equally after she transitions from teetotaler to raging alcoholic, then clearly I am just making up criteria by which I claim to &amp;ldquo;love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105730"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633362"&gt;&lt;span&gt;God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is Good?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, when you talk to Christians &amp;ndash; or any religious people &amp;ndash; and hear from them that God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is good, it is reasonable to ask them: &amp;ldquo;How do you know?&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; particularly because most theologies include a deceptive devil as well, and apparently it&amp;rsquo;s always good to know the difference, to avoid being fooled into worshipping the wrong deity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If they say: &amp;ldquo;God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is good because that is written in the Bible,&amp;rdquo; then it&amp;rsquo;s worth asking them whether they believe that the Bible is the Word of God. Naturally, they will say yes.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this case, we basically have an autobiography in which the writer claims to be virtuous. In other words, a &amp;ldquo;claim to virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; is the equivalent of virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;itself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If &amp;ldquo;crazy eyes&amp;rdquo; Charles Manson scratches &amp;ldquo;I am virtuous&amp;rdquo; on his prison wall using the tooth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of another prisoner, does that make Charles Manson virtuous?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There were many &amp;ldquo;authorized&amp;rdquo; Soviet biographies of Joseph Stalin that claimed he was the greatest and most virtuous man who ever lived. In &amp;ldquo;Mein Kampf,&amp;rdquo; Hitler also makes great claims about his own virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and divine mission, and piety, and obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, a self-proclamation of virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;does not prove virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;any more than repeating the words &amp;ldquo;I am rich&amp;rdquo; magically creates gold in your hand.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus the &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; of a supernatural being cannot result from its own self-proclamation, but must exist relative to some other objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;standard.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A scientific theory is not &amp;ldquo;proven&amp;rdquo; because its author says so, but rather relative to the objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;standard of the scientific method&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which is to say relative to empirical reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. A compass measures &amp;ldquo;North,&amp;rdquo; not just me yelling the word &amp;ldquo;North!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this way, the &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; of a supernatural being must be determined relative to an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;standard of virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;What, then,&amp;rdquo; I always ask the superstitious at this point, &amp;ldquo;is the objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;standard by which you measure the virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of your deity?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the response comes back: &amp;ldquo;The 10 Commandments,&amp;rdquo; then clearly, since one of them is: &amp;ldquo;Thou shalt not kill,&amp;rdquo; I always ask if this supernatural being has ever willfully caused the death of a human being.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Naturally, any honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;Bible reader has to answer in the affirmative.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We can go through the same process with other commonly-accepted moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;propositions, such as &amp;ldquo;rape is evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;slavery is immoral,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;child abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is unacceptable,&amp;rdquo; and so on. If we find that the &amp;ldquo;holy&amp;rdquo; words of this supernatural being approve of &amp;ndash; or even excuse &amp;ndash; evils such as rape, slavery and child abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then clearly either these things are moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or the deity is not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Inevitably, the superstitious cultist you are talking to will find other, more pressing matters to attend to, rather than examining the &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; of his own fantasy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;sky ghost.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I myself would not be able to find any topic more important, more essential for my own virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, well-being and happiness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, than establishing the moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;rightness of a being that I loved and worshiped &amp;ndash; particularly if my theological model included the existence of an evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and deceptive counter-deity, such as Satan.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you heard on the news that the medicine you were taking for a minor ailment had a 50% chance of containing a fatal poison, would you shrug and continue to take that medicine, and claim that you had more pressing matters to attend to than figuring out whether it would &lt;i&gt;kill you or not&lt;/i&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When the superstitious claim that they have &amp;ldquo;more important matters to attend to&amp;rdquo; than determining the virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the being they worship, clearly they have no interest in virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, either in themselves or others &amp;ndash; or in their deity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Not having any real interest in virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is not in itself particularly problematic &amp;ndash; oysters doubtless do not ponder ethical abstractions, yet we would not call them evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; however, understanding the value and beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to the degree that you attempt to pass off your own beliefs as &lt;i&gt;virtuous&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; and then scamper away in fear or anger whenever the topic of moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principles arises &amp;ndash; this behaviour is morally vile, and utterly corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105731"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633363"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ethics in the Service of Evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;n the earlier example of the New York attacks, we understood that the &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;stance of victimization&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; was essential to enable &lt;i&gt;the victimization of others&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Americans &amp;ndash; and in particular the American government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; had to propagate the mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that the attacks were utterly unprovoked, stimulated only by the malevolent evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the attackers, and were directed at America solely as a result of America&amp;rsquo;s &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;America&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s capacity to sustain this mad fiction was a truly staggering &amp;ldquo;achievement.&amp;rdquo; The leader of the attackers &lt;i&gt;clearly stated, in factual terms, the crimes that America had committed in terms of foreign policy&lt;/i&gt;. No sane human being could deny that American troops were stationed in Saudi Arabia, or that the Anglo-American sanctions against Iraq&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;had resulted in the deaths of hundreds of thousands of children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or that billions of dollars of aid were not flowing from Washington to Tel Aviv.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;These were all &lt;i&gt;facts&lt;/i&gt;, which were not even mentioned, let alone discussed or repudiated.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This does not mean that we must necessarily &lt;i&gt;agree&lt;/i&gt; that the actions of the American government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;justified the attacks on New York. It does mean, however, that the mantra &amp;ldquo;we have no idea why they attacked us&amp;rdquo; is a complete falsehood. We may violently disagree with the moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;justifications for the attacks, but the attackers were very clear as to &lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt; they attacked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that these simple explanations went instantly and irrevocably down the &amp;ldquo;memory hole&amp;rdquo; is that they threatened to bring the question of &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principles&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; to bear on the interaction, in a simple one-two punch:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol style="margin-top:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If their attacks on us are unjustified, then our far more egregious attacks on them were also unjustified. (If &lt;i&gt;they&lt;/i&gt; are evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we are &lt;i&gt;far more&lt;/i&gt; evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If our egregious attacks on them were justified, then their muted response against us is even &lt;i&gt;more&lt;/i&gt; justified (If &lt;i&gt;we&lt;/i&gt; are good, they are &lt;i&gt;more&lt;/i&gt; good.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The only way that the second premise could be justified is if excessive murder is considered &amp;ldquo;better&amp;rdquo; than a muted response &amp;ndash; in other words, they are less moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;than us &lt;i&gt;only because they murdered fewer of us than we did of them&lt;/i&gt;. (This would be a difficult moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;premise to argue for without openly bursting into sulphurous flames.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hus, we can see that as a species we have a very strong tendency &amp;ndash; I would say due to how we are raised, rather than what we are &amp;ndash; to justify our immoral actions through appeals to morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which is the mind-bending corruption that always threatens to drown the world in blood.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Also, as we can see in the above example, in essence &lt;i&gt;we justify our actions according to moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principles because we want to commit &lt;b&gt;immoral &lt;/b&gt;actions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Because&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; we want to attack Afghanistan and Iraq&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we must pretend that we are the innocent victims of an unprovoked attack.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the &lt;i&gt;end&lt;/i&gt; is evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;; the &lt;i&gt;means&lt;/i&gt; is false ethical &amp;ldquo;justifications.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this way, the power of morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is enslaved to the service of evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Morality thus has such astounding power not only because it creates our capacity for virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&lt;i&gt; but also because it creates our capacity for evil&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It truly is a double-edged sword. Evil is impossible without moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;justification. This is why endless propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is heaped upon the breaking minds of children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by the state in terms of education, by religion in terms of indoctrination, and by families&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in terms of hypocritical moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;instruction.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that philosophy is so essential is that if we don&amp;rsquo;t use it, it is used against us in the service of evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to enable the murder and enslavement &amp;ndash; literally &amp;ndash; of billions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is a gun in the room called &amp;ldquo;ethics,&amp;rdquo; and either we take it up and fight for our freedom, or we surrender it to evildoers and remain their prisoners forever.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105733"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633365"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Warning Signs&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;One of the greatest warning signs of an impending attack is hearing a compelling &amp;ldquo;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; spilling out from someone&amp;rsquo;s lips.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For instance, it is impossible to listen to Hitler&amp;rsquo;s ranting oratory about the evils of the Slavic and Jewish races, and the need for defence of the Fatherland without understanding that these &amp;ldquo;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; theories were the real weapons that he wielded &amp;ndash; the true motive power of the war machine he launched across Europe, North Africa and Russia.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, when you hear Americans saying: &amp;ldquo;Here we were, as a country, minding our own business, when out of the blue, these goddamn Muslims attacked us for &lt;i&gt;no reason!&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo; you know that these words are mere preludes to evil.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;These kinds of fantasy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;tales are what truly slips the &amp;ldquo;safety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; off on the revolver. The immortal line from Hanns Johst&amp;#39;s play &lt;i&gt;Schlageter&lt;/i&gt; (first performed for Hitler&amp;#39;s birthday in 1933): &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;Wenn ich Kultur h&amp;ouml;re ... entsichere ich meinen Browning!&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo; (&amp;lsquo;When I hear &amp;ldquo;culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; I release the safety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;catch on my Browning [revolver pistol]!&amp;rsquo;) &amp;ndash; resonates because it contains a fundamental truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Culture&amp;rdquo; is a &lt;b&gt;necessary prerequisite for violence&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; particularly institutional violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;requires&lt;/i&gt; false moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;justifications &amp;ndash; that culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is, in its essence, a set of &lt;i&gt;ethical mythologies&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105734"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633366"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ethical Mythologies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ethical mythologies are moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;fairy tales&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;created and inflicted through repetition, social praise and attacks, which are useful to those in power because they justify the extension of their power over the individual.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The table below lists some common social mythologies of the Western world, and the translation of those theories into practice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Myth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Result&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;The Great Depression was the result of free-market capitalism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Without government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;control of the economy, massive disasters result.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Increased government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;control over the economy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;The free market system was only saved by the start of World War II.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;The free market profits from the murder of millions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Increased government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;control over the economy &amp;ndash; particularly the &amp;ldquo;evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;corporations.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Without government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;schools, children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; particularly poor children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; would remain uneducated.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Societies as a whole &amp;ndash; particularly parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; care nothing about poor children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; only the government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;does.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Near-total control over the indoctrination of children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;for almost 15 formative years.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Democracy is the ideal political system.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;You control the government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;The government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;controls you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;The Civil War in the United States&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;was fought to free the slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Private citizens&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;and the free market profited from slavery; only the government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;could free the slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Massive increases in the power of the federal government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;If Western governments had not fought Nazism, we&amp;rsquo;d all be speaking German right now.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Governments are essential for protecting freedom.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Governments destroy freedom.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Governments must control the money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;supply; otherwise there would be wild economic instability.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;The government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;has your best interests at heart; voluntary private interactions are exploitive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:33.34%;border:none;background:silver;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Wild economic instability, massive national debts and endless inflation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Governments must intervene to provide medical care for their citizens&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/td&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Doctors will rob you blind. You will die of disease in the gutter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Massive increases in the price of health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;care, utter dependence upon the State in medical matters.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As we can see, all of these cultural mythologies are put forward prior to massive expansions of state power &amp;ndash; in fact, the net increase in violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that results from expanded state power is only possible &lt;i&gt;because&lt;/i&gt; these moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;justifications&amp;rdquo; are put forward.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you examine culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in its essence, it is an endless series of false and destructive moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;positions inflicted upon children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;through repetition, social ostracism, and teacher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, peer and parental hostility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Culture is a form of slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;programming wherein knee-jerk emotional defences are inflicted upon the natural personality, which cause people to automatically cough up moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;justifications for their enslavement &amp;ndash; without thought, without evidence, without rationality, without basis &amp;ndash; and to their endless detriment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105735"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633367"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Cultural Programming and Predictability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you bring up the coercive nature of government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to your fellow citizens&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the responses that you will receive are &lt;i&gt;utterly predictable&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Taxation is force,&amp;rdquo; you say &amp;ndash; and hear the exact same arguments back, every single time:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul style="margin-top:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s not force because we get to vote!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s not force because we have the choice to leave!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s not force because no one has ever pointed a gun in &lt;b&gt;my&lt;/b&gt; face!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s not force because I&amp;rsquo;m happy to pay! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ndash; etc&lt;i&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Culture is nothing more &amp;ndash; or less &amp;ndash; than a series of moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;told to children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the purpose of which is to get them to happily lick the boots of their oppressors.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;perceive themselves as the equals of their masters, the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;becomes simply one of physical dominance &amp;ndash; which the masters can never win, since by definition they must be greatly outnumbered by their slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;(otherwise, being a master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;would scarcely be economically productive!).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since the masters are so outnumbered by the slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, they cannot rule by force alone &amp;ndash; this was even truer in the past, before weapons of mass destruction, when a knight could never stand against ten determined peasants, and a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;-owner had to sleep at some point.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus physical dominance alone cannot be used to create and maintain a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;population. Certainly, the threat of physical violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is always &lt;i&gt;required&lt;/i&gt;, but it must be &lt;i&gt;approved of by the slaves&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in order to remain economically efficient and effective.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Culture is an economically-convenient set of ethical fictions that lower the total cost of ownership for using force against innocent individuals. It is, fundamentally, what &lt;i&gt;creates and enables&lt;/i&gt; hegemonic and hierarchical power structures.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus you must get the slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to &lt;i&gt;believe amongst themselves&lt;/i&gt; that slavery is:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol style="margin-top:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Not in fact slavery.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For their own good.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ideal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And that all possibilities &lt;i&gt;other than slavery&lt;/i&gt; would result in endless evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and destruction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Such is the power of morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that if you can program children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to revere slavery as a moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ideal, they will never even &lt;i&gt;think&lt;/i&gt; of becoming free.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Define freedom as &amp;ldquo;slavery,&amp;rdquo; and slavery as &amp;ldquo;freedom,&amp;rdquo; and not only will your slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;never even think of becoming free, but they &lt;i&gt;will in fact attack any other slave&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for even &lt;b&gt;talking&lt;/b&gt; about freedom&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is the base tragedy of our species that the power of morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is only truly understood by those who use it in the service of evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105736"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633368"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slave-on-Slave Violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Owning slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;only works if you do not have to bother yourself too much about controlling your slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; since that is time-consuming, expensive, and threatens the profits.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No, slavery is far more profitable &amp;ndash; in fact, it only &lt;i&gt;can&lt;/i&gt; be profitable &amp;ndash; if, instead of having to expend time and energy attacking your slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, &lt;i&gt;you can program the slaves&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to attack each other&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And &lt;i&gt;this&lt;/i&gt; is the purpose of &amp;ldquo;culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105737"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633369"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Culture and Objectivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;efore looking into how we slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are programmed to attack each other, rather than question our masters, let us compare &amp;ldquo;culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; to truly objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;disciplines.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105738"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633370"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Culture and Science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;One of the reasons that biologists chose Latin to describe species was that Latin was an international language, at least in the 17&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; and 18&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; centuries. Because the scientific method&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; post-Bacon &amp;ndash; took as its most fundamental methodology the validation of human reasoning according to measurable and empirical reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, it was fundamentally cross-cultural in nature.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What is considered &amp;ldquo;good&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;proper&amp;rdquo; is very different in India than in America. The nature of a carbon atom, however, remains identical &amp;ndash; as do the properties of gravity, magnetism, light, sound and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The only thing that separates an Indian physicist from an American physicist is &lt;i&gt;form&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; i.e. language &amp;ndash; not &lt;i&gt;content&lt;/i&gt;, i.e. science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is distinct from their separate cultures, in which both &lt;i&gt;form&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;content&lt;/i&gt; wildly diverge.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The same is true for mathematicians &amp;ndash; the only thing that separates Chinese and British mathematicians is the form of notation they use. The underlying principles and logic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;remain identical.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Musicians, too, through their manipulation of objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;sound waves, also use an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;framework and produce exactly the same notes when reading the same notation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Farmers also very easily work over cross-cultural &amp;ldquo;boundaries&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; since an ear of corn does not suddenly become a &lt;i&gt;nunchuck&lt;/i&gt; when crossing the border from Pakistan to Afghanistan.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Financial transactions are also cross-cultural &amp;ndash; with the difference, of course, that they are subject to wild predations in the form of state coercion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. An objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;exchange rate exists between the rupee and the yen, which allows purchasing power to objectively cross cultural or geographical boundaries&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We could continue in this vein for some time, but let us at least at this point understand that there are numerous human disciplines that are rational and objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; but &lt;i&gt;culture&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is not one of them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105739"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633371"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Culture and Objectivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is not objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, it must be subjective, at least to some degree.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To the degree that culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is subjective, it cannot make reference to any objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;facts or realities. For instance, if I say, &amp;ldquo;I like vanilla ice cream,&amp;rdquo; I am expressing a subjective preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; quite distinct from saying, &amp;ldquo;Objectively, vanilla is the best flavour of ice cream.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, if I say not only that vanilla ice cream is the best flavour objectively, but also that it is &lt;i&gt;immoral&lt;/i&gt; to prefer any other flavour, and &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to prefer vanilla, then clearly I am going far beyond the bounds of rationality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Not only am I claiming that vanilla is objectively &amp;ldquo;best,&amp;rdquo; but also that it is the &lt;i&gt;only moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ideal&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and that any preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for any other flavour is &lt;i&gt;immoral&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The elevation of a subjective preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ideal &amp;ndash; especially when it involves ethics &amp;ndash; is simply called &lt;i&gt;bigotry&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus &lt;i&gt;culture&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, by elevating subjective preferences for local customs to objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and often &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; ideals, is merely a species of petty, self-righteous, pompous, false, prejudicial and ugly &lt;i&gt;bigotry&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Culture is the most dangerous lie in the world, because false moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ideals are always required for the execution of evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, what is &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must be &lt;i&gt;enforced&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; thus by turning subjective preferences into &amp;ldquo;objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;opens wide the hellish gates of violent control.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, by turning violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;into virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;not only &lt;i&gt;excuses&lt;/i&gt; violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;creates&lt;/i&gt; violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105740"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633372"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What Slaves Really Fear&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Culture can thus be accurately viewed as &lt;i&gt;a set of moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;mythologies that are used to create, justify and extend violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;against the majority of individuals&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What is it, then, that prevents us from shrugging off these choking and enslaving falsehoods?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, who are you most afraid of?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you start to speak the truth about culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, exploitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, whose response frightens you the most?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you openly speak about the simple reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that the state is violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, are you afraid that black-suited SWAT teams will burst through your windows and drag you off to Guantanamo Bay?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you say that religious superstition is an exploitive lie, that the New York attacks were an unjust retaliation to far more unjust American attacks upon Muslims, that soldiers are merely men paid to kill others, like any hit-men &amp;ndash; whose response do you fear the most?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is a reason that we do not say these things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is a reason that we smile and nod and wave our flags and cheer our leaders and refuse to speak the simple truths that would inevitably set us free.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That reason is not that we are afraid of our leaders, or their thugs, or their jails, or their tortures.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that we bite our tongues is that we are afraid &lt;i&gt;of each other&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105741"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633373"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why We Are Talking About Culture&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;he reason that we are talking about culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and statism and religion &amp;ndash; rather than only your personal relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; is this:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;The moment that you begin to speak the truth &amp;ndash; a prerequisite for any form of intimacy &amp;ndash; you will be attacked by your fellow slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The question, then, since no one likes to be attacked, is: why bother speaking the truth at all?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, we speak the truth because we want the future to be different from the present &amp;ndash; our own personal future, in terms of having honor, honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in our personal relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and the future of the &lt;i&gt;world&lt;/i&gt;, which yearns and deserves to be free.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you truly take on the concepts in this book &amp;ndash; if you speak openly and honestly about the truth &amp;ndash; you will be endlessly attacked, your life will become very difficult in countless ways, and very few of your existing relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; if any &amp;ndash; will survive your new honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, I could tell you that somewhere beyond the darkness that you will be cast into, lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;a golden land of beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, intimacy, love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, laughter and true and deep friendship.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, I cannot tell you that.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I cannot tell you that, because I cannot guarantee that.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You may be for various reasons stuck in a small town full of patriotic bigots and religious cultists.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You may be 15 years old, and remain dependent upon your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for years to come.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You may be old, and dependent upon your children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You may be the only sane rationalist in an Islamic village.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You may find that, if the truth destroys your marriage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; or rather reveals its prior destruction &amp;ndash; that you may never get married again, or have a satisfying romantic relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You may find that, when you speak the truth to your adult children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, they won&amp;rsquo;t want to have anything to do with you anymore.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I want to be clear about the dangers that always follow honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are not enslaved because we are cowards.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are enslaved because we are objectively in danger.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We should take some relief in the enormous difficulties faced by those who speak the truth &amp;ndash; because, if speaking the truth were easy, the state of the world, its bottomless and exploitive lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, would make absolutely no sense at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No, speaking the truth is incredibly difficult, and very dangerous &amp;ndash; and not because of prisons, and not because of our masters, but &lt;i&gt;because of the endless attacks from our fellow slaves&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you sit around your family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;table at Christmas or Thanksgiving, it is worth taking a moment to let this basic reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;seep into your very &lt;i&gt;bones&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you look at the ruddy, smiling faces around the table, it is essential to truly and finally understand that, in reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&lt;i&gt; these people are your masters&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is not the whips of our owners that keep us down, but the frowns and snarls of our fellow slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is not the jails of our masters that keep us huddled and frozen in fear, but the disapproval&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of our fellow slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The &amp;ldquo;state&amp;rdquo; is not in Washington, or Rome, or Madrid, or Ottawa, or Baghdad.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The &amp;ldquo;state&amp;rdquo; is not the guns of the police, the truncheons of the prison guards, the huts of the gulags, the cells of the prisons, the grenades of the troops, or the jostling darkness of the paddy wagons.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;These are merely the &lt;i&gt;effects&lt;/i&gt;, not the cause.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The &amp;ldquo;state&amp;rdquo; is not far away from you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is not distant.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is not political.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is not economic.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is not military.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The &amp;ldquo;state&amp;rdquo; &lt;i&gt;is your fellow slaves&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105742"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633374"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Costs of the Truth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hen you sit with your family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;at dinner, and you begin to speak the truth, no SWAT team will come through your windows. No policeman will pound down your door. No trap door will open beneath your chair and suck you into the maw of some Syrian gulag.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The &lt;i&gt;political &lt;/i&gt;state will not lift a finger against you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Yet still &amp;ndash; you are terrified to speak.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Simply because you know what will happen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You know that you will not be attacked by the state.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;You know you will be attacked by your family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You will not be abused by your masters.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;You will be abused by those around you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You will not be humiliated by physical torture in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;You will be humiliated by emotional torture in the present.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your masters will not try to control you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And that is why masters exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;is&lt;/b&gt; the state.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is merely an &lt;i&gt;effect of the family&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105743"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633375"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So &amp;ndash; Why Speak?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I am telling you all of this for three main reasons.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;First, so that you truly understand what you are getting into.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Second, so that you have a greater appreciation of why you have not spoken the truth in the past &amp;ndash; so that you can be more gentle with yourself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If speaking the truth were easy, and everyone still lied, then the world could not be saved. However, because speaking the truth can be almost unbearably difficult, the world &lt;i&gt;can &lt;/i&gt;be saved, because people are not just cowards, but rather are frightened for very good reasons.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thirdly, I am telling you this so that you can understand the essential service that you are providing the world by speaking the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The world will not be saved by the violent lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of culture&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but by the rational light of truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Idealists who disregard the real danger of their ideals tend to become masochists, or nihilists.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The future will not be improved by masochists, but by idealists.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I do not want you to embark upon this amazing journey in order to feel pain.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It certainly is true that you &lt;i&gt;will &lt;/i&gt;feel pain during this journey, but you need to understand &amp;ndash; if you are to succeed &amp;ndash; the enormous virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and value of what you are doing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reasons for refraining from speaking the truth are self-evident &amp;ndash; we feel them all the time, every single day &amp;ndash; the reasons for &lt;i&gt;speaking&lt;/i&gt; the truth, however, are far from evident and can at times seem purely imaginary.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As we move into the final section of this book &amp;ndash; how to implement the principles of the Real-Time Relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in your own life &amp;ndash; your anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will rise precipitously. You will feel clammy, your hands will sweat, you may shake, your sleep will decrease, your stomach will flip and your tension will mount.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That is how much, deep down, we so desperately want to be free.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And how much we fear our fellow slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;During this process, you will feel strong urges to fling this &amp;ldquo;evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; book across the room, and get back into the comfortable little box of social conformity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Fling away &amp;ndash; be my guest, I can take it!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Then, take a deep breath, walk across the room, and pick this book up again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This book is not about me, or my ideas, but you, and your freedom.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105744"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633376"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Goal&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;peaking the truth can sometimes feel like self-abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but I will share with you one thought, one vision that keeps me going, when the path is darkest.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In my mind&amp;rsquo;s eye, I see a world where people can be honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;without fear &amp;ndash; where the desperate terror that truth tellers feel now will only be felt by a few liars and cheats.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I see a world where relaxed and benevolent intimacy is the natural state of human relations.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I see a world without masters &amp;ndash; not without a hierarchy, since ambitions and talents vary &amp;ndash; but without coercive, exploitive and destructive monopolies like church, state and the cult of the family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I desperately want to live in that world, but I know that I cannot, since what we are talking about here is a multi-generational project at best.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I desperately want to live in that world, but since I cannot, the best that I can hope for is to do my part to help create that world for the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I cannot live in a free world. I can barely see it from where I am. I squint at it though, like a man at the bottom of a well searching for a star in the distant circle of night sky above him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I wish with all my heart that I lived in that world &amp;ndash; and, if I did live in that world, I would feel such enormous gratitude for the brave souls who did everything they could to bring that wonderful world into being. I would admire their courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, to sacrifice immediate personal comfort for the sake of creating this wondrous world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I feel that gratitude flowing down the steps of time from the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I feel the joy of those who live in a free world that we can only begin to create.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I feel them looking back in time to we poor struggling courageous souls, and thanking us for making their world so beautiful.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is &lt;i&gt;their&lt;/i&gt; gratitude that picks me up when I fall.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is also the near-infinite sorrow that I would feel if I knew that such a world were to never come into being.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Imagining an eternity of human experience that is little better than what we have today &amp;ndash; where good people cower like beaten dogs, while evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;braggarts strut and rule &amp;ndash; would make the story of our species an infinite tragedy &amp;ndash; especially given our wondrous potential for truth and beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Evil &lt;i&gt;will&lt;/i&gt; fade from this world, if we act with integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;now.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Evil &lt;i&gt;will&lt;/i&gt; fade from this world, but we must give up many seemingly-pleasant things in order to end it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Surely we are glad that the early pioneers of science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;did not bow to the difficulties of their struggle, but persevered against torture and oppression, giving us a world of technology, medicine and wonder that they did not live to see.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We do not live in their world of medieval ignorance only because they were willing to imagine our world of science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and knowledge, and work to create it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The world &lt;i&gt;we &lt;/i&gt;will create will be as wondrous to those who live in it as ours would be to the medieval mind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I just wanted to remind you of the world we are in fact creating, because the beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the goal &amp;ndash; even though we shall never live to see it &amp;ndash; makes the difficulties of the journey all worthwhile.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let us now turn to the task of putting all that we have learned and discussed in the previous pages into action.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Real-Time Relationship (RTR&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;) is based on two core principles, designed to liberate both you and others in your communication with each other:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thoughts precede emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;requires that we communicate our &lt;i&gt;thoughts&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;feelings&lt;/i&gt;, not our &lt;i&gt;conclusions&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105745"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633377"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thoughts Precede Emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;he first thing to understand about emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is that they are not objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;responses to the outside world, but rather objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;responses to our internal premises &amp;ndash; i.e. standardized responses to subjective stimuli.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To picture this in reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, think of our two good friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;Bob and Doug sitting on a couch watching a hockey game, where Canada is playing the United States&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Bob the Canadian cheers every time Canada scores a goal; Doug the American cheers every time the United States&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;scores a goal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Here we have an example of an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;event occurring &amp;ndash; a hockey puck bouncing into a net &amp;ndash; which causes one man elation, and the other despair.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, these emotional responses cannot be directly caused by the movement of the puck, since the same action is producing opposite emotional results.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, earlier I defined &amp;ldquo;love&amp;rdquo; as our involuntary response to virtue &amp;ndash; here I would like to append a qualifier, which is that love is our involuntary response to virtue &lt;i&gt;if we are virtuous&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Bob is a fan of Team Canada, and so he cheers on that team &amp;ndash; if we are a fan of Team Virtue, we cheer on &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt; team. If we are a fan of Team-Not-So-Much-With-The-Virtue, we will cheer on the team with darker jerseys instead.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, emotions are distinct from sensations, insofar as sensations are neurobiological stimuli that occur independent of our thoughts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Happiness&amp;rdquo; is an &lt;i&gt;emotion&lt;/i&gt;; physical pain is a &lt;i&gt;sensation&lt;/i&gt;. While Bob and Doug might have opposite emotional reactions to the movement of a puck, they would not have opposite sensations if that puck happened to hit them in the face at high speed &amp;ndash; both would feel blinding agony.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Similarly, what is called &amp;ldquo;runner&amp;rsquo;s high,&amp;rdquo; or the euphoria that results from the release of endorphins during strenuous exercise, is a &lt;i&gt;sensation&lt;/i&gt;, as is the giddy joy that results from taking heroin.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since physical sensations do not depend upon our thoughts, philosophy can do very little to aid us in controlling or managing them. No syllogism can eliminate a toothache &amp;ndash; the alleviation of physical pain is a medical matter; philosophy is for the soul.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus we shall focus in this section on the thoughts that precede emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, so that we can better understand how to change our thoughts &amp;ndash; and thus change our emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105746"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633378"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Emotions and Control&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;veryone who has absorbed even the basic principles of psychological self-awareness and self-knowledge understands that it is impossible to directly control other people. We can only control our own thoughts and our own behaviours &amp;ndash; we cannot control other people&amp;rsquo;s thoughts, behaviours or emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, it is also important to understand that we cannot control our own &lt;i&gt;emotions&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;either.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we stand at the edge of a cliff and hurl a stone with all our might into the ocean below, our only choice is whether to throw the stone or not &amp;ndash; once the stone has left our hand, it is utterly out of our control.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, once we believe certain premises within our own minds, the emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that will result from those premises &lt;i&gt;are utterly out of our control&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105747"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633379"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Expectations: An Example&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I am working on a book, I plan to spend a certain number of hours a day writing. On many days, however, my plans get interrupted, because something else comes up which takes a higher priority. Perhaps there is a problem with the Freedomain Radio website, or a podcast I uploaded got cut off, or is mislabelled, or a listener wants to have a conversation about an immediate issue, or an employee calls with an urgent question and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;At times, I find myself getting irritated if a seemingly-endless stream of minor interruptions prevents me from getting to my &amp;ldquo;real&amp;rdquo; task. I set myself up to begin writing, get my coffee, reread what I&amp;rsquo;ve previously written, raise my hands to type &amp;ndash; and then receive a message which prevents me from getting started.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my thought is:&lt;i&gt; I must write&lt;/i&gt;, then naturally every &amp;ldquo;interruption&amp;rdquo; moves me further back from achieving that goal. I then feel acute frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, just as if I were trying to juggle and people were tossing squash balls at my head.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My temptation on these days is to externalize and trivialize the cause of these &amp;ldquo;interruptions.&amp;rdquo; What I basically say to myself is: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;Jesus Christ! I&amp;rsquo;ve been trying to get down to writing for the past three hours, and everybody wants a piece of me, and I just can&amp;rsquo;t get down to what I &lt;b&gt;need&lt;/b&gt; to get done! If I don&amp;rsquo;t get this book finished, then I won&amp;rsquo;t have enough money&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to advertise in two to three months, because book income is more steady than donations! And why is it that everybody picks &lt;b&gt;today&lt;/b&gt; to need something from me &amp;ndash; can&amp;rsquo;t they manage things themselves for once, just for today?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And so on, and so on. We all know this mantra, which is: &amp;ldquo;I am the hard-done-by victim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;just trying to get something &lt;i&gt;done&lt;/i&gt;, while every incompetent on the planet keeps interrupting me when they could take two seconds to figure out the answer to their question!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I notice myself sinking into this convenient little swamp of mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, I try to reshape my thoughts &amp;ndash; usually with great success &amp;ndash; along the following lines:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;You are the victim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;? What nonsense! You left every instant messaging program on the planet open on your desktop. You checked your e-mail. You had a look at what was happening on the Freedomain Radio Board. You picked up the phone. Also, &lt;i&gt;you &lt;/i&gt;are the one deciding what is a higher priority than writing &amp;ndash; no one is ordering you to do that! If you decide to republish a podcast because it was cut off, that is your choice &amp;ndash; you could very easily keep writing and simply republish the podcast later. And finally, is the fact that people need some sort of feedback from you, or are providing you with helpful information, really such an enormous problem? Would you be more content if you had five listeners, and no capacity to do this amazing job on a full-time basis? Then you would certainly have &lt;i&gt;fewer &lt;/i&gt;interruptions, but your irritation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;at being interrupted would be replaced by despair about the planet as a whole!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, what I can do in these situations is simply to &lt;i&gt;realign my expectations&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; which has everything to do with remembering that my core goal every day is to move this philosophical conversation forward in some manner &amp;ndash; or, at least, prevent it from being moved backwards!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus on any given day, my purpose is not to write, or to respond to an e-mail, or to publish a podcast, but rather to do whatever it takes to move this philosophical conversation forward!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I remember that, I no longer view interruptions as &amp;ldquo;interruptions.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I remember that every day is a kind of dance between what you can plan for, and what you cannot. I remember that it is great to have specific goals, but they must all be measured relative to the overall goal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Obviously, having a podcast out there that ends abruptly does not move this conversation forward, but rather irritates listeners, consumes bandwidth since they have to re-download, wastes time on the part of the listeners because they have to reload the podcast and find where it was cut off, then listen through to the end, and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since my goal is to bring as positive an experience as possible to this conversation &amp;ndash; since heaven knows philosophy is already hard enough &amp;ndash; clearly the immediate requirement to re-upload the podcast takes precedence over writing a few more pages in a book that will not be out for several months.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Also, it is important to remember that all days are part of a generalized &amp;ldquo;bell curve&amp;rdquo; of interruptions. Some days you can sail through with barely a ripple, while on other days, messages pile up seemingly without end. At some point, I will either explode with frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or surrender to the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of where a particular day is on the bell curve, laugh about it, and put aside my writing until later.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I do find that, once I realign my expectations to take into account the empirical facts of what is happening &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;interruptions are piling up&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; then I find another interruption funny, rather than annoying.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Recognizing the &amp;ldquo;push and pull&amp;rdquo; of life &amp;ndash; that we must make plans, but that our plans will be interrupted &amp;ndash; takes a great deal of stress out of every day. Clearly, we cannot control interruptions &amp;ndash; else they would scarcely be called interruptions &amp;ndash; but we can recognize that interruptions are inevitable, and adjust our expectations accordingly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Certainly, we will all face a rather final &amp;ldquo;interruption&amp;rdquo; called death &amp;ndash; and so I try my best not to be too bothered by any interruption that is less significant!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;n the above example, it is clear that my thoughts (&amp;ldquo;interruptions are bad, because I must write!&amp;rdquo;) are clearly contradicting the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of my situation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I believe both that writing is my highest priority, and also that dealing with interruptions is my highest priority, then of course I will end up feeling frustrated and paralyzed, just as I would if I truly felt that I had to go both north and south at the same time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Practically, it is impossible for two actions that cannot be performed simultaneously to have exactly the same prioritization, because we have to choose between them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When the rigidity of my thoughts does not keep up with the flexibility that new information requires, I am in a situation where an unstoppable force (&amp;ldquo;I must write!&amp;rdquo;) is hitting an immovable object (&amp;ldquo;I must deal with these interruptions!&amp;rdquo;).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When this occurs, I cannot rationally choose to raise the priority of dealing with interruptions without lowering the priority of writing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I attempt to maintain both priorities &amp;ndash; despite the physical impossibility of this &amp;ndash; then naturally I will become anxious and frustrated. If I know that it is going to take me an hour to get to a particular appointment, and I cannot find my keys, then I know that the time I spend looking for my keys is going to be added on to the time it takes me to get to the appointment. Thus, if I cannot find my keys, I must call to tell whoever I am meeting that I will be late.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I try to maintain two opposing absolutes within my mind: &amp;ldquo;I must find my keys&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;I must be on time&amp;rdquo; then of course I will end up feeling frustrated and anxious.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The feelings follow the thoughts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I accept that &amp;ldquo;I must find my keys,&amp;rdquo; takes a higher priority over &amp;ldquo;I must be on time,&amp;rdquo; then I must give up the absolute of being on time. There is simply no other rational choice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105749"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633381"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Choose Your Thoughts, Choose Your Feelings&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;his is a relatively minor example of how our thoughts can directly influence &amp;ndash; or create &amp;ndash; our feelings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Here is another.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Years ago, I had to fly to Paris, France for a business trip. Unfortunately, I could not find my passport. I looked and looked, and got progressively more anxious, tense and upset as the hours passed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Once I realized the panic I was getting into, I took a deep breath, and said the following to myself:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Either I will find my passport, and go to France, or I will not find my passport, and I will not go to France.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This really helped me relax, and took the ground-shaking tension out of the situation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As long as the absolute statement was: &amp;ldquo;I &lt;i&gt;must&lt;/i&gt; go to France,&amp;rdquo; there really was no limit to the emotional escalation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The moment that I gave myself a choice &amp;ndash; or rather recognized the &lt;i&gt;true&lt;/i&gt; options &amp;ndash; my tension diminished considerably.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Either I was going to France, or I was not going to France &amp;ndash; but I certainly did not &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;have to&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo; go to France.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As the old saying goes, the only thing we gotta do is die.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Attempting to sustain two opposing thoughts &amp;ndash; &amp;ldquo;doublethink,&amp;rdquo; in Orwellian terms &amp;ndash; creates an enormous stress and tension within our minds, and tends to crank up our &amp;ldquo;fight or flight&amp;rdquo; mechanism to the boiling point.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105750"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633382"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Impossibility of Control&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;his is a continual problem in our relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. In our own minds, we so often set up an absolute called: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;My spouse &lt;b&gt;must&lt;/b&gt; do X&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; which we have absolutely no capacity to control or achieve!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This combination of an absolute requirement for a behavioural change in another person &amp;ndash; along with a complete inability to effect that change &amp;ndash; creates enormous tension, anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and hostility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in our relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I was stressed out about finding my passport, it was because I had an absolute goal, &lt;i&gt;but no direct control over my capacity to achieve that goal&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Flying to France required that I find my passport &amp;ndash; but I had no direct control over my capacity to find my passport. I could do my best, of course, but in the end, either I would find it, or I would not. (I did find it, if you&amp;rsquo;re curious, and had a great trip!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105751"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633383"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My Best Friend and My New Girlfriend&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;et us imagine that I am dating someone new, and I really want to introduce her to my best friend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Obviously, I would prefer it if my best friend really liked my new girlfriend, since it would be far easier for me if I were able to spend stress-free time with both of them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What options do I have to bring about this result?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I can certainly introduce my new girlfriend in the most positive light, and sing her praises, and show my friend that I am happier for having her in my life &amp;ndash; which will all doubtless have some influence over the outcome &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;but I cannot control directly whether or not my friend likes my new girlfriend&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I have in my mind an absolute: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;He &lt;b&gt;must&lt;/b&gt; like my new girlfriend!&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo; then I will have a very stressful time of it when they meet.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;(It is certainly true that my stress will &lt;i&gt;lower&lt;/i&gt; the likelihood that my friend will like my new girlfriend, but we shall come back to that in a little while.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we understand how we can most rationally and honestly deal with this meeting, we can begin to approach the question of the Real-Time Relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What is the most rational and honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;statement that I can make to myself about this upcoming meeting between my best friend and my girlfriend?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, it is: &amp;ldquo;I would really like it if my friend liked my girlfriend, but I have no control over that outcome whatsoever.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Can we all feel the sweet relief inherent in this statement?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105752"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633384"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Control versus Curiosity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hen I stopped frantically hunting for my passport, took a breath, and reminded myself of the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of my situation, something very interesting occurred for me emotionally.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I actually wondered if I would end up going to France.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, instead of being desperate to get to France, I became curious about whether or not I would end up going to France.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The opposite of control is &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;curiosity&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we give up false control, we open ourselves up to true curiosity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the transition from religion (false control) to science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;(true curiosity).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I honestly say: &amp;ldquo;I would really like it if my friend liked my girlfriend, but I have no control over that outcome whatsoever,&amp;rdquo; the wonderful thing that happens is that I can now become &lt;i&gt;curious&lt;/i&gt; about the outcome of the meeting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Instead of saying: &amp;ldquo;I must control what will happen!&amp;rdquo; I can say: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;I wonder what will happen?&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is a very different state of mind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is rational empiricism at its finest. Instead of saying: &amp;ldquo;Sacrificing this goat will control the rains!&amp;rdquo; we can say: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;I wonder why it rains?&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Abandoning our illusions of control opens us up to the magnificent wonder of curiosity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In my mind, when I say to my friend: &amp;ldquo;You &lt;i&gt;must&lt;/i&gt; like my new girlfriend,&amp;rdquo; I am treating him as an object to be manipulated for the sake of &lt;i&gt;my&lt;/i&gt; desires, rather than an independent conscious being.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I say: &amp;ldquo;I will control my friend,&amp;rdquo; the greatest lie is not that I think I can control him, but that I think I am treating him as a friend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why do I care so much about whether or not my friend likes my new girlfriend?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, I enjoy spending time with my friend &amp;ndash; and I also enjoy spending time with my girlfriend. It certainly would be convenient for me if they also enjoyed spending time with each other, so I would not end up torn between a complicated and antipathetic social situation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That is the story that I tell myself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;But that is not the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this book &amp;ndash; as in every book I write, every article I publish, and every podcast I record &amp;ndash; I will consistently and continually tell you that deep down, you always already know the truth about everything.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The &lt;i&gt;truth &lt;/i&gt;is that good people always like other good people. Good people do not like bad people, and bad people do not like good people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;With bad people, it is more unstable. They will really &amp;ldquo;like&amp;rdquo; each other, then really dislike each other, and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my best friend is a good person, and my new girlfriend is also a good person, I will feel no more stress in introducing them to each other than I would in introducing cream to my coffee.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is not that I dislike the social awkwardness that will result if they do not like each other. Oh no, it is far worse than that!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What I am really afraid of is discovering the true nature of my relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and thus of &lt;i&gt;myself&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105755"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633387"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Truth I Am Avoiding&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my best friend dislikes my new girlfriend, it is either because my best friend is corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and my new girlfriend is virtuous &amp;ndash; or vice versa &amp;ndash; or because they are both corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, in ways that do not serve each other&amp;rsquo;s immediate needs, but rather remind each other of their respective corruption.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus if my new girlfriend and my best friend do not get along, that says something rather terrible about &amp;ndash; who?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My new girlfriend? My best friend?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No, of course not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;About &lt;i&gt;me&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This next part may sound very strange &amp;ndash; but give me a paragraph or two, and perhaps it will make some sense. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;By introducing my new girlfriend to my best friend with the anxious hope that they will somehow &amp;ldquo;get along,&amp;rdquo; I am asking them to cover up the corruption that we are all enmeshed in.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I am asking everyone to pretend that we are all good &amp;ndash; and there is only one reason why I would do that, or why they would agree to participate in such a corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;fraud&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Because we are not good.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We will do almost anything to avoid that knowledge &amp;ndash; not because we &lt;i&gt;fear&lt;/i&gt; our own corruption, &lt;i&gt;but because we desire to continue our own corruption&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my best friend is corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and my new girlfriend is not corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then she will judge &amp;ndash; not my best friend, but rather &lt;i&gt;me&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my best friend is not corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but my new girlfriend is, then they will dislike each other, of course &amp;ndash; but some rather grim fallout will result from their meeting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I introduce a false, insecure and manipulative girlfriend to my best friend, obviously I am doing so in the hopes that they will &amp;ldquo;get along.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If my best friend is a good man, then he will be highly insulted by this, and will say:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Why would you introduce this woman to me and express a desire that we &amp;lsquo;get along&amp;rsquo;? Are you not aware that she is false and manipulative? Are you not aware that she is vain and shallow? Are you not aware that she talked about herself for over an hour, not asking me a single question? Are you not aware that she told me everything about her childhood &amp;ndash; which was not pleasant &amp;ndash; on our very first meeting? Do you not see that she lacks any rational sense of boundaries&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;? Do you not see how self-involved and narcissistic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;she is?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I reply that I noticed none of these things, then my friend is going to be even more insulted, and say:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;But you value &lt;i&gt;me&lt;/i&gt; as your best friend, and I exhibit none of these traits &amp;ndash; in fact, I would consider it personally dishonourable to act in such a manner! I assumed that you valued my integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, consideration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and so on &lt;i&gt;because you could tell them apart from their respective opposites&lt;/i&gt;. If you tell me that I am the best singer in the world, and then it turns out that you are completely deaf, then clearly I cannot take your praise seriously at all &amp;ndash; in fact, your former &amp;lsquo;praise&amp;rsquo; of me would be revealed as false and manipulative, since you have no ability whatsoever to judge the quality of my singing! Thus if you cannot tell the difference between this woman and myself, then clearly you have no right to call me your &amp;lsquo;best friend,&amp;rsquo; but have rather used that term to manipulate me.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In response, I might protest that I &lt;i&gt;did&lt;/i&gt; notice these troublesome habits in this woman, but it slipped my mind for a moment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Very well,&amp;rdquo; my friend will reply, &amp;ldquo;now I am even more insulted, because you introduced this woman to me in the hopes that I would &lt;i&gt;like&lt;/i&gt; her! You recognize that she is shallow, false and manipulative; you also recognize that I am virtuous, honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and direct, and yet you genuinely and honestly believed that I would&lt;i&gt; like&lt;/i&gt; her? Yet you claim that I am your best friend &amp;ndash; and that you love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;me &amp;ndash; because of my virtues. How is it, then, that you expect me to like this woman because of her &lt;i&gt;vices&lt;/i&gt;? Why are we subjected to such opposite standards? No, it cannot be possible that you expected me to like her &amp;ndash; the best that you could have hoped for was that I would&lt;i&gt; pretend&lt;/i&gt; to like her &amp;ndash; for your benefit, and hers of course. In other words, you wanted me to sacrifice &lt;i&gt;my&lt;/i&gt; integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the sake of your shallow lusts!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, when faced with such a stern and inescapable accusation, what would my response be?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I could get mad at my friend &amp;ndash; thus confirming his diagnosis and effectively ending the friendship &amp;ndash; or I could apologize profusely, promise to get help with my dangerous and slippery &amp;ldquo;dark side,&amp;rdquo; and immediately break it off with this corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;woman.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I were capable of this kind of integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, though, I would never have tried to manipulate my virtuous friend into pretending to &amp;ldquo;like&amp;rdquo; my new girlfriend in the first place.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In fact, we can very reasonably go one step further and say that &lt;i&gt;since I was the kind of man who had no problem whatsoever with manipulating a virtuous friend for my own selfish&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ends, there is &lt;b&gt;no possibility whatsoever&lt;/b&gt; that I would have a virtuous friend to begin with!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt;, my friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, is the knowledge that I am striving desperately to avoid &amp;ndash; not my fear that my friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are immoral, but &lt;i&gt;my desire to keep my immoral friends&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The moment that our own corruption becomes genuinely clear to us, we are immediately propelled into wrenching change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We avoid the truth about our own corruption because we prefer our own corruption to the dreadful alternative&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To the endless attacks from our fellow slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The alcoholic keeps drinking because he is enmeshed in a social network of mutual destruction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Deep down, the alcoholic is not afraid of sobriety; he is afraid of being attacked by his fellow alcoholics and enablers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105756"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633388"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Introducing Myself to Myself&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, when I attempt to control the results of the first meeting between my best friend and my new girlfriend, I am really attempting to control my own anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by manipulating others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This much we understand &amp;ndash; but let us go one step further.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; do I feel anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the first place?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, I feel anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because I &lt;i&gt;know &lt;/i&gt;the truth, and I am &lt;i&gt;rejecting &lt;/i&gt;the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In my real life, I do not feel anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when my wife comes home, because I am always overjoyed to see her. I rush down the stairs into her arms, and smother her with kisses.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I do not feel anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when I receive an e-mail from a trusted friend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I &lt;i&gt;do&lt;/i&gt; feel anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;whenever I receive an e-mail from an embittered enemy &amp;ndash; for the simple reason that these e-mails often contain unpleasant attacks which upset me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, &lt;i&gt;I feel anxiety&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when I instinctively feel the signs of an impending attack&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Anxiety is a form of beneficial alertness, essential for survival throughout the history of our species. Anxiety is the crack of a stick in a thick bush on a dark night. Anxiety alerts us to impending danger.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Anxiety is part of our &amp;ldquo;fight or flight&amp;rdquo; neurological mechanism, designed to make the presence of danger uncomfortable &amp;ndash; and so aid us in avoiding or escaping it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105757"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633389"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Anxiety and Control&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;magine that you are the first man who ever tried to tame a horse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You approach a horse in the wilds with great trepidation &amp;ndash; and great desire. You know that if you can tame this beast, you can ride it and harness it to a plough. You overcome your fear by keeping your eye on the prize.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Imagine that you do catch this horse and tame it, at least to some degree. After harnessing the power of the animal, you begin to change your farming practices &amp;ndash; you buy more land, hire more farmhands, invest in heavier ploughs, and fall deeply into debt.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Taming the horse, in other words, causes you to make decisions that depend on the horse remaining tame.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As the months pass, however, you begin to notice that the horse does not seem to appreciate being controlled. Initially, it tries to escape, but you catch it every time and bring it back. After a while, it no longer tries to escape &amp;ndash; except perhaps on occasion &amp;ndash; but it continually struggles to cast off its harness, throw its riders, veer to the left or right, and sometimes refuses to eat.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Here, you become stuck in a truly impossible situation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you had never seen the horse &amp;ndash; or tried to tame it &amp;ndash; you would never have changed all of your farming habits based on your expectation of being able to harness the horse&amp;rsquo;s power.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If, even months after being &amp;ldquo;domesticated,&amp;rdquo; the horse had simply bolted off and vanished into the wilderness, you would have shrugged your shoulders, sold your excess land, fired your extra workers, and resumed your former way of farming.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, since the horse is at times obedient, and at times recalcitrant, you become truly stuck. Since you have invested so much time, energy and resources on the assumption that the horse can be controlled, you cannot now stomach the idea of simply turning the horse loose and resuming your former life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105758"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633390"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Subtle Tyranny of Inconsistency&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As the weeks and months pass, the horse&amp;rsquo;s inconsistent obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;continues to drain more and more of your time and resources. On any given day, you can never be quite sure that the horse is going to do what you need it to do. In the morning, the horse pulls the plough beautifully &amp;ndash; in the afternoon, it kicks a worker and cannot be restrained.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As you sink even more time and energy into trying to control the horse, your stress and anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;continue to escalate.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;After a few months, you begin to feel truly trapped &amp;ndash; by this time, you have invested too much to turn the horse loose, but as every day goes by, it becomes more and more wasteful and frustrating to use the horse at all. (This is also known as the &amp;ldquo;waiting for the bus&amp;rdquo; syndrome &amp;ndash; when you have waited an hour for a bus, you are far less likely to walk. We have all been there with computers as well!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you initially started off, you wanted to control the horse &amp;ndash; as time goes by, however, it becomes more and more apparent that &lt;i&gt;the horse is in fact controlling you&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You initially tried to tame the horse in order to reduce your workload &amp;ndash; however, it becomes increasingly clear that having the horse around makes your job harder and more stressful.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105759"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633391"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Vengeance of the Slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we recast the &amp;ldquo;horse story&amp;rdquo; above in terms of human slavery, a very similar pattern emerges.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;cannot escape, and is beaten if he does not work hard, then his vengeance will always take on a more subtle form.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will perform his work slightly more slowly &amp;ndash; not enough to be punished, but enough to irritate his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will pretend to be less intelligent than he really is, so that when he loses or breaks things, he will be more likely to escape punishment, since he is pretending in effect to be a child.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As mentioned above, the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will also do what he can to promote any negative habits his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;may have. If his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;likes to drink, the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will always be on hand to refill his cup. If his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has a tendency towards jealousy, the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will innocently &amp;ldquo;mention&amp;rdquo; that he saw his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s wife chatting with another man.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is particularly cunning, he will also do everything that he can to inflate his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s ego. He will sing his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s praises, claim joy in &amp;ldquo;knowing his place,&amp;rdquo; thank the master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for everything he does, and remain fanatically &amp;ldquo;loyal.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This hyperinflation of the master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s ego inevitably creates pettiness, vanity, hyper-irritability, and unbearable pomposity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will always turn his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;into an unhappy man &amp;ndash; who is constantly annoyed, who cannot experience love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and who engenders no respect from those around him &amp;ndash; particularly his children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. (One of the worst aspects of being a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;-owner is that it turns you into a terrible and abusive father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As a result of the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s passive-aggressive manipulations, the master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;becomes prone to violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; verbal and physical &amp;ndash; self-abusive habits, crippling self-blindness, and sinks into a bottomless pit of discontent and misery.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the vengeance of the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;All slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are Iago.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And, for the most part, all children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As you were.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105760"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633392"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Dangers of Vengeance&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As we discussed above in the parable of the boxer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the great danger for the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is his capacity to become addicted to the dark &amp;ldquo;satisfactions&amp;rdquo; of passive-aggressive vengeance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;By enslaving his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;gains a sense of control &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;and also re-creates in his master&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;his own experience of enslavement&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is a subtle cry of hatred &amp;ndash; and plea for empathy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The horse above that cannot be free ends up enslaving its master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can only hope for freedom by &lt;i&gt;making owning slaves&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;unbearable for his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Not only might the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s endless passive-aggressive noncompliance and provocation provoke suicide on the part of his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; but his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s miserable existence might also serve as a warning for others who might wish to own slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the horse that makes its &amp;ldquo;owner&amp;rdquo; miserable &lt;i&gt;is performing an enormous service to the freedom of other horses&lt;/i&gt;, since anyone else who is thinking of enslaving a horse will look at the stress experienced by existing horse owners and do pretty much anything to avoid that fate &amp;ndash; thus leaving other horses free to roam.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, as mentioned above, the greatest danger for the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is that he becomes addicted to the sense of control that comes from manipulating his master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the great danger for the slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is that he becomes addicted to his slavery.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;begins to believe his own master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;-destroying propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, &lt;i&gt;then in the absence of masters, he will create them&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105761"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633393"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Slavery of Childhood&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;ost of us are raised as slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Our opinions are rarely sought, rules are rarely explained &amp;ndash; and moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;rules never are &amp;ndash; we are shipped off to schools where we are treated disrespectfully; our subservience is bought with rewards, and our independence is punished with detentions. Scepticism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and curiosity are scorned and belittled, while empty abilities like throwing balls, learning dates, sitting still and &amp;ldquo;being pretty&amp;rdquo; are praised and elevated.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Lies about our history become cages for our futures. Lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;about our own intelligence and originality lead us to the petty enslavement of &amp;ldquo;good citizenship&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; and horrifying fairy tales&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;about life in the absence of coercive or religious control scare us back into our slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;pens the moment we even &lt;i&gt;think&lt;/i&gt; of glancing outside to the green and beautiful hills beyond our bars.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Collective punishments turn us against each other; the &amp;ldquo;kibbles and whips&amp;rdquo; of the classroom reward us for laughing at each other to gain the favor of the teacher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;; terrifying and brutal &amp;ldquo;morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; is inflicted upon us. We are punished for not treating those in authority with &amp;ldquo;respect&amp;rdquo; (do they treat &lt;i&gt;us&lt;/i&gt; with respect?) &amp;ndash; and we are bred for a life of subservience, fear, productivity and dependence as surely as fattened calves are bred for veal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Where in the past we were not taught to fear the priests, but rather the imaginary devils&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;the priests warned us of, now we are not taught to fear our politicians, who can debase our currency, throw us in prison and send us to war &amp;ndash; but rather we are taught to fear &lt;i&gt;each other&lt;/i&gt;. We are taught to imagine that the real predators in this world are not those who control prison cells, national debts and nuclear weapons, but rather our fellow citizens&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, who in the absence of brutal control would surely tear us apart!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The entire purpose of state education is to make sure that we never truly &amp;ldquo;leave&amp;rdquo; our childhoods: that we spend our lives trembling in fear of imaginary predators, begging for &amp;ldquo;protection&amp;rdquo; from those who threaten us with the most harm.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As sure as sunrise, we will grow and mature, leave the control of our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and strive to make our way in the world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we are slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;who will inevitably be &amp;ldquo;set free.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How, then, can we &lt;i&gt;remain&lt;/i&gt; enslaved?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why through &lt;i&gt;false virtue&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, of course.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;But you&amp;rsquo;ll have to read my book &amp;ldquo;On Truth: The Tyranny of Illusion&amp;rdquo; for that! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105762"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633394"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Holding Our Own Chains&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Because our lives are so controlled by our political, familial and religious masters, we always and inevitably attempt to regain a sense of control by controlling &lt;i&gt;each other&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We cannot control our politicians; we cannot control the church; we cannot control our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and we are bullied and controlled by all these people &amp;ndash; and so we turn in panic and fear to controlling &lt;i&gt;each other&lt;/i&gt;, which makes the institutional control of all of us both possible and profitable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To return to the incident outlined earlier, wherein I try to make my best friend like my new girlfriend, it is clear that I am really attempting to control my &lt;i&gt;own &lt;/i&gt;anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; my knowledge of my own corruption and the corruption of those around me &amp;ndash; rather than either my friend or my girlfriend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What will the likely result of my &amp;ldquo;control&amp;rdquo; be?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, if my girlfriend says something unpleasant or awkward, I will feel great anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and flash her look of anger or &amp;ldquo;concern.&amp;rdquo; If my best friend sighs or rolls his eyes in response to something my new girlfriend says, then I will rush in to &amp;ldquo;explain&amp;rdquo; what she &amp;ldquo;really&amp;rdquo; meant.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Basically, I will sprint back and forth throughout the conversation, trying to eliminate or explain away any symptoms of disapproval&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or negativity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What will the experience of my friend and girlfriend be?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Will they feel &lt;i&gt;free?&lt;/i&gt; Will they feel that they can express themselves openly?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;They will feel a rising irritation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;towards me &amp;ndash; since no one likes to be manipulated and controlled for the sake of someone else&amp;rsquo;s anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My girlfriend will look at my frantic efforts to &amp;ldquo;explain&amp;rdquo; her weird or awkward statements as insulting to her. My friend will see my actions as guilty and panic-stricken &amp;ndash; and a foolish attempt to make him &amp;ldquo;respect&amp;rdquo; a woman &lt;i&gt;that I clearly do not respect&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My girlfriend will also see that I am terribly and painfully vulnerable to any negative opinion that my &amp;ldquo;best friend&amp;rdquo; might have of her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Deep down, she very well understands that this is because &lt;i&gt;I share that negative opinion&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, I am only afraid of having my bag searched in a store if I have actually stolen something. In the same way, I am only afraid of a negative opinion of my girlfriend if at some level I share that opinion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Seeing me strive to control my friend&amp;rsquo;s perception of her, she also clearly understands that I am very willing to sacrifice her own sense of self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and social competency &lt;i&gt;if someone else disapproves of what she is doing&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It becomes blindingly clear that I will sacrifice her happiness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; in other words, my good opinion of her &amp;ndash; on the off chance that someone else might react negatively to her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, I will side with others against her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Does this make her feel treasured? Does this make her respect my loyalty? Does this help her respect my integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of &lt;i&gt;course &lt;/i&gt;not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;By elevating the power that my friend has in this situation, I automatically devalue my girlfriend &amp;ndash; and thus myself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, the only reason that I wish to control the power that my friend has &lt;i&gt;is because I have given him that power in the first place&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is what I mean when I say that &lt;i&gt;all manipulation is self-manipulation&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Trying to control my friend&amp;rsquo;s reaction to my girlfriend is as deranged as giving a gun to a madman, and then trying to talk him into giving me the gun back.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105763"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633395"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Power and &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;Liberty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;n any intimate relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we inevitably surrender power to others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you fall in love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you&lt;/span&gt; hand&lt;span&gt; your heart to your lover on a platter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, as discussed earlier, involves integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and thus reduces insecurity, to refuse to be vulnerable with a lover is to openly state that you &lt;i&gt;do not love&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;her&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus there is no possibility that love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;does &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; involve a surrender of power.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we try to control those who have power over us, we are clearly saying that &lt;i&gt;we do not trust them to exercise that power benevolently&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is a basic fact of life that virtuous people will rarely submit to the manipulations of others. Virtuous people know that they use their power over others benevolently &amp;ndash; and thus experience it as insulting when other people try to control them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A surgeon finds it equally insulting if someone attempts to wrestle his knife away from him, as if he were a common criminal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of trust and vulnerability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is that &lt;i&gt;if you do not trust someone, you should not be vulnerable towards her&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The solution to this, of course, is not to refrain from being vulnerable &amp;ndash; otherwise how would you know who is trustworthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;? &amp;ndash; or to attempt to control those who exploit your vulnerability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105764"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633396"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Remaining Vulnerable&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The answer is to remain vulnerable to those around you, and systematically get rid of those who abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;your trust.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is what I mean by the value of curiosity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Most people take the approach that: &lt;i&gt;others must treat me well, and if they do not treat me well, I am allowed to punish them&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is pure nonsense, and a highly dangerous approach to relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The simple fact of the matter is that &lt;i&gt;no one has to treat you well&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We certainly &lt;i&gt;prefer&lt;/i&gt; to be treated well &amp;ndash; but that does not mean that we have a &lt;i&gt;right&lt;/i&gt; to be treated well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I &lt;i&gt;prefer &lt;/i&gt;not to get colds &amp;ndash; that does not mean I have a &lt;i&gt;right&lt;/i&gt; to not get colds.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Controlling and insecure people always say: &lt;i&gt;This person had &lt;b&gt;better&lt;/b&gt; treat me well!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Curious and confident people always ask: &lt;i&gt;I &lt;b&gt;wonder&lt;/b&gt; if this person will treat me well?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, controlling and insecure people say: &amp;ldquo;There &lt;i&gt;must&lt;/i&gt; be a God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;!&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; while curious and competent people ask: &amp;ldquo;I wonder if there is a God?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And&amp;hellip; controlling and insecure people say: &amp;ldquo;There &lt;i&gt;must&lt;/i&gt; be a government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;!&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; while curious and competent people ask: &amp;ldquo;I wonder if there must be a government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Controlling and insecure people, if they receive bad service at a restaurant, feel abused and insulted, complain to everyone they know, launch lawsuits, and perform all other sorts of silly and enslaving actions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Curious and confident people, if they receive bad service at a restaurant, simply pay their bill, leave, &lt;i&gt;and never come back&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, if they have been coming to the same restaurant for many years and have always received excellent service, they will let the actions of one rude waiter slide. If they continue to receive bad service, they will speak to the waiter, and then to the manager, in order to try to help or save the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, if their expressions of concern are met with indifference or contempt, then they simply stop returning to that restaurant.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;They do not need to fight, they do not need to yell, they do not need to complain endlessly and they do not need to get engaged in all sorts of drama and nonsense, because they respect their own ability and right to choose their relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;voluntarily.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If they feel that they can only ever eat at that one restaurant &amp;ndash; and can get food nowhere else &amp;ndash; then of course they will get hysterical and aggressive, because they will be trapped in a situation of constant frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and bad service!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is, of course, our situation with regards to our government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Since we cannot choose how it interacts with us &amp;ndash; or choose to avoid interacting with it &amp;ndash; we remain in a constant state of frustration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and hysterical or greedy control.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I would submit, though, that all of our relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that are non-coercive in nature are subject to the same possibilities of choice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105765"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633397"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Power and Family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;uality as a concept, as a measure, can only exist as a result of &lt;i&gt;choice&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Where we have no options, there can be no quality. We know that this is true with regards to public schools, the Department of Motor Vehicles, the IRS, the Postal Service, and all other forms of coercive and controlled &amp;ldquo;interactions.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We generally fail to remember, however, that when we were very young, we did not have &lt;i&gt;any choice whatsoever&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We do not choose our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, our schools, our siblings, our extended family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or our neighbourhood.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We also do not choose our country or our religion, but rather these things are inflicted on us by circumstances and propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There does come a time, however, when we &lt;i&gt;do&lt;/i&gt; slowly begin to gain the capacity to choose with regards to our family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;After puberty and throughout our teenage years, we begin to experience a growing sense of choice. What we were born into no longer dominates us through natural biology or through our physical dependence upon our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and utter subjugation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to their whims and preferences.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Unfortunately, families&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and society as a whole &amp;ndash; inflict an enormous amount of propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;upon us about the innate &amp;ldquo;value&amp;rdquo; of family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and the endless virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of &amp;ldquo;loving&amp;rdquo; your family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, as we can immediately see, propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;about the value of something is scarcely required &lt;i&gt;if that thing does in fact have value&lt;/i&gt;. Brad Pitt or George Clooney would never benefit from a system of &amp;ldquo;arranged&amp;rdquo; (i.e. enforced) marriage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, since they have their pick of women anyway.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No, it is the man that no reasonable woman would want to marry who devoutly wishes to have marriage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;forced upon women.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Institutionalized coercion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is all about attacking someone for noncompliance with an &amp;ldquo;ethical&amp;rdquo; absolute.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The IRS does not say: &amp;ldquo;Pay your taxes, or we will shoot you!&amp;rdquo; No, it is always presented as a virtuous obligation, insofar as you consume government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;services, love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;your country, care for the poor, the sick, the old, and so on. In other words, taxes are presented as payment for a &lt;i&gt;voluntary &lt;/i&gt;interaction &amp;ndash; like the bill that arrives with the plasma television &amp;ndash; and thus refraining from paying your bill is portrayed as &amp;ldquo;dishonourable.&amp;rdquo; Don&amp;rsquo;t &amp;ldquo;cheat&amp;rdquo; on your taxes; pay your &amp;ldquo;fair share.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;present themselves as devoted and loving servants of your well-being as a child and thus &amp;ldquo;demand&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; whether actively or passively &amp;ndash; your love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as an adult.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Yet you no more &amp;ldquo;choose&amp;rdquo; to consume government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;services such as public education, roads, water and electricity than you &amp;ldquo;chose&amp;rdquo; to be born into your family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Neither of these situations are voluntary or contractual &amp;ndash; and thus by definition cannot contain any virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or quality in and of themselves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This does not mean that it is logically impossible to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. They may have been virtuous, considerate, solicitous, kind and firm &amp;ndash; and thus naturally you will love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, it is &lt;i&gt;essential&lt;/i&gt; to understand that if this is the case, you do not love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;your &lt;i&gt;parents&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;you love&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;the &lt;b&gt;virtue&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What you love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is not the category &amp;ldquo;parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; but rather the action &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Virtue&amp;rdquo; is a choice, and thus involves quality &amp;ndash; &amp;ldquo;parent&amp;rdquo; is not a choice &amp;ndash; at least from the standpoint of the child &amp;ndash; and thus in no way involves quality, but rather is a rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of quality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105766"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633398"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Choice and Quality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In a stateless society, we will doubtless need roads, and so we will enter into contracts with those who provide our roads, based on our evaluation of their efficiency, price and competence. It is these criteria of &amp;ldquo;evaluation&amp;rdquo; that drives the criterion &amp;ndash; and thus the possibility &amp;ndash; of &lt;i&gt;quality&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Those who do not bring &lt;i&gt;quality&lt;/i&gt; to the table never want the possibility of voluntary evaluation to exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this way, we know that those parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;who demand respect and love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;because they are parents&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are morally corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When your government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;demands &amp;ldquo;payment&amp;rdquo; at the point of a gun, it is because &lt;i&gt;it is not providing value&lt;/i&gt;, in the same way that a mugger does not provide value, and so must extract your money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;through force.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105767"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633399"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Family and History&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we interact with our families&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; particularly as adult children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; there is an essential aspect of curiosity that we constantly strive to avoid.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The unhappy and insecure man says: &amp;ldquo;She &lt;i&gt;must&lt;/i&gt; treat me well!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The happy and confident man says: &amp;ldquo;I &lt;i&gt;wonder&lt;/i&gt; if she will treat me well?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The adult child, with regards to his parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, &lt;i&gt;knows the answer already&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; in his very &lt;i&gt;bones&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The simple question that the adult child must ask is: &amp;ldquo;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Did&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;i&gt; they treat me well?&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If this question seems too hard to answer, because of a blankness in your history, or an excess of propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;from your family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then you can answer it even more simply.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;When I see their phone number on my call display&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, how do I &lt;i&gt;feel&lt;/i&gt;?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is nothing that we need to be taught about how our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;treated us when we were children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. There is no possibility of knowledge about another human being that you do not already possess in relation to your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;(and your siblings, of course, but we shall focus on your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the moment).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is a fundamental fact of human physiology that our deepest emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are immune to propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, just as physical pain is immune to propaganda.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You can be told over and over again as a child that jamming a knitting needle through your hand will not hurt, but rather will feel wonderful. You may even believe this in your conscious mind, but your hand knows better. When you do stick that knitting needle through your hand, no amount of propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can prevent the agony you will experience.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is why we use anaesthetic in surgery, not storytelling.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is why Novocain is a drug, not a mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Most of our emotions result from our thoughts &amp;ndash; but our deepest and truest feelings accumulate from years of &lt;i&gt;experience&lt;/i&gt;. These feelings cannot be eradicated or changed, any more than our experience can be eradicated or changed. Learning another language as an adult is a conscious decision &amp;ndash; learning language as a toddler is an unconscious accumulation of experience and innate ability.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;These deepest emotions occur in the &lt;i&gt;body&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; and the body is immune to propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. This is why control and rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the body is so essential to all exploitive power structures &amp;ndash; think of the hostility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that most religions have towards the flesh.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since our deepest emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;cannot be eradicated through propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, propaganda must instead focus on the creation and maintenance of&lt;i&gt; psychological defences&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Think of what happens when your phone rings, you look at the call display&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and you see:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="center" style="text-align:center;border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;YOUR PARENTS!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What probably happens is that you experience an initial sinking sensation, followed by a strong desire to avoid picking up the phone. You roll your eyes, check your watch, figure out how much time you can waste talking to them, and generally feel the exact opposite of enthusiasm.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Then, of course, you feel guilt, and chastise yourself for your ingratitude and lack of consideration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for their feelings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;They did so much for me, they ask for so little, they&amp;rsquo;re always concerned about me, it costs me so little to make them happy, etc. etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The picture of your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s long-suffering face will rise in your mind, and you imagine her sadness as she slowly puts down the phone, feeling rejected. You imagine your father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s irritation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;complains that, &amp;ldquo;She never seems to pick up the phone any more when I call &amp;ndash; I&amp;rsquo;m sure she&amp;rsquo;s just busy, but&amp;hellip;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You feel &amp;ndash; projected into the future &amp;ndash; a growing unease about the ever-increasing emotional cost you will incur if you continue to avoid their calls. &amp;ldquo;Might as well get it over with now,&amp;rdquo; you say to yourself, reaching for the receiver &amp;ndash; and then, to avoid the guilt of &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt; feeling, you pump some enthusiastic shine into your voice as you answer.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;After the initial exchange of pleasantries, you feel a rising tension and boredom, because you have nothing to say to your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. She talks about this or that, asks you some questions which only elicit monosyllabic responses from you&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Then, the awkward silence descends&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You begin to tell a story; she murmurs some noncommittal responses. She begins telling a story about someone that you barely know, and you attempt to show interest. She asks you questions which are annoying, because they&amp;rsquo;re manipulative (&amp;ldquo;Have you met anyone &lt;i&gt;nice&lt;/i&gt; recently?&amp;rdquo;) or unanswerable (&amp;ldquo;What will you buy your nephew for his baptism?&amp;rdquo;).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You realize how little of your life you can actually share with your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and for the millionth time you wonder how someone could have become so old and remained so uninteresting. You also wonder what pleasure she could possibly derive from these forced and empty interactions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;She must be taking some pleasure in calling you &amp;ndash; otherwise why would she? &amp;ndash; but you can&amp;rsquo;t imagine what that pleasure could possibly be.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You sigh, listening to her tinny voice, and wonder when the last time was that you had a problem in your life, and really &lt;i&gt;wanted &lt;/i&gt;to call your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for advice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Never&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;, comes back the immediate answer&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Then, your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;says she is going to put your father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;on the phone, and you scrabble to find an excuse that will not offend him too much &amp;ndash; and then you remember that you have used up all your excuses over the last month or two, and that if you try to make up another one, he surely &lt;i&gt;will&lt;/i&gt; get offended. And so you swallow, roll your eyes, and say: &amp;ldquo;Hi, Dad!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And you know, deep in your bones, that this crushingly dull and awkward ritual will be repeated many more hundreds of times in your lifetime &amp;ndash; and that the outcome will be &lt;i&gt;exactly the same&lt;/i&gt; each time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;After you are finally able to get off the phone, you feel empty and a little depressed &amp;ndash; but also relieved, because you know that you have bought a certain amount of guilt-free time away from your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Then, you remember that Christmas is coming up, and your depression yawns to swallow you whole&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105768"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633400"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Empiricism of Emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;s we can see from the above example, it is clear that the debate you are really having is not with your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but &lt;i&gt;with your own emotions&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Everything that you ever need to know about any of your relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is available to you in that split second of emotional &lt;i&gt;authenticity &lt;/i&gt;that occurs when the phone rings, and you look at the call display&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Whatever your emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;tell you in that split second before your defences can react is the natural and basic truth about that relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And &amp;ndash; believe it or not &amp;ndash; your emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are in fact trying to &lt;i&gt;help you &lt;/i&gt;by telling you the truth about your relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105769"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633401"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Propaganda of Regret&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;(I will use the word &amp;ldquo;emotions&amp;rdquo; in this section to describe our deepest feelings that accumulate from experience, rather than the more conscious emotions described in the previous section.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are in fact telling you that you will not live forever, that there are no unchosen positive obligations, that the hours, days, weeks, months and years that you waste in negative, dull, abusive or unproductive relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are never &amp;ldquo;refunded&amp;rdquo; to you &amp;ndash; and that in particular, with your family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the endless &amp;ldquo;propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of regret&amp;rdquo; is nothing more than a corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and exploitive lie &amp;ndash; a secular &amp;ldquo;hell&amp;rdquo; that was invented to enslave you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we are taught to fight ourselves, we always end up enslaved. The priest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;who hates and fears his own sexual impulses remains utterly enslaved. The citizen who hates and fears his own desire for freedom remains utterly enslaved. The child who hates and fears his own dislike of his parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;remains utterly enslaved.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Emotions are the empiricism of values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; defences are the religion of subjugation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To become authentic &amp;ndash; to become who you &lt;i&gt;truly are&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; requires&lt;i&gt; slowing down&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When the phone rings, and you see the call display&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, invoking guilt-ridden or self-recriminatory defences is the most fundamental self-rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that you are capable of.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The insecure and enslaved man says: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;I &lt;b&gt;must not&lt;/b&gt; feel this way!&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The man who has at least a chance for freedom asks: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;I &lt;b&gt;wonder&lt;/b&gt; why I feel this way?&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In religious terms, the enslaved man says: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;I &lt;b&gt;must not&lt;/b&gt; doubt there is a God&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The man who can be free asks: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;I &lt;b&gt;wonder&lt;/b&gt; why I feel there is no God&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105770"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633402"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Facts of Your Feelings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;All I am talking about &amp;ndash; like any competent empiricist &amp;ndash; is working with the &lt;i&gt;facts&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The &lt;i&gt;facts&lt;/i&gt; of your &lt;i&gt;feelings&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Working with the facts of your feelings does not mean treating them as epistemological absolutes. Emotions do not equal knowledge any more than our senses equal the scientific method&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Propaganda will always seek to inflict &lt;i&gt;negative moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;judgments&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; on your authentic emotional responses.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Remember, earlier in this book, we talked about how &lt;i&gt;false answers&lt;/i&gt; are the exact opposite of &lt;i&gt;true curiosity&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; and so knowledge.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When faced with the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of our feelings: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;I do not want to talk to my parents&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; it is an utterly false answer to &amp;ldquo;explain&amp;rdquo; those feelings away by saying: &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;Because I am a bad person&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;rdquo; It makes about as much sense as saying, &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;I want to masturbate because I am tempted by the devil.&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo; It is a mad fiction designed to set you at war against yourself and so have you remain enslaved to those who define such false &amp;ldquo;morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In any science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; in any rational philosophy &amp;ndash; the real, honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, productive and true response to any new information is &lt;i&gt;curiosity&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you stand at the port in Lisbon&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the 15&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; century, watching the Santa Maria sailing off across the Atlantic Ocean, and see the hull slowly disappear &amp;ldquo;into&amp;rdquo; the ocean &amp;ndash; and then the lower masts, and then the &amp;ldquo;crow&amp;rsquo;s nest&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; you can either make up an &amp;ldquo;explanation&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; &amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;OMG&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;Poseidon, like, totally ate that ship!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; - or you can admit a lack of knowledge, and remain curious.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;I wonder what happened to the ship?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Making up an answer will keep you mired in a stupid, exploitive and destructive state of piggish ignorance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Retaining your curiosity may lead you to the truth: &lt;i&gt;that the world is round&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your eyes provide you an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;experience of what is happening &amp;ndash; that the ship appears to be slowly &amp;ldquo;descending&amp;rdquo; into the water.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Based on this empirical information &amp;ndash; what do you do? Do you make up an answer, or do you explore the question?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When the phone rings and you look at the call display&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, your emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;provide you clear and empirical information about your relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Based on this empirical information &amp;ndash; what do you do? Do you make up an answer (&amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;I am a selfish&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;child!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo;) or do you explore the question (&amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;I wonder why I dislike it when my parents&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;call&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo;)?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105771"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633403"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Propaganda and Motivation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.0pt;"&gt;W&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;henever we are conflicted, it is almost always because we have a genuine desire that does not serve the needs of others &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;and we have been trained to believe that our genuine desires are always &amp;ldquo;wrong.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Our genuine desire &amp;ndash;&lt;i&gt; &amp;ldquo;I do not want to talk to my parents&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ndash; does not serve the needs of our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, we must have a desire to satisfy the needs of our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; by attacking our own genuine desire as &amp;ldquo;wrong.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This creates a truly terrible contradiction within us. Our genuine desires are &amp;ldquo;wrong&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; but our artificial &amp;ldquo;desires&amp;rdquo; (to please our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;) are &amp;ldquo;right.&amp;rdquo; Thus our desires are both &amp;ldquo;right&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;wrong&amp;rdquo; simultaneously.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Are we supposed to value our desires? Are we supposed to reject them? Who knows? All that is known is that we can waste our entire lives attempting to unravel these mad contradictions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105772"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633404"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Power Versus Pleasure&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you do not want to talk to me, but I want to talk to you, then I have two basic options.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I can either ask you openly and with curiosity &lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt; you do not want to talk to me &amp;ndash; with the goal of making our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;more positive, enjoyable and productive for you &amp;ndash; or, I can attack you for not wanting to talk to me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, I can either be the &amp;ldquo;free market,&amp;rdquo; or I can be the government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I genuinely want to create real value for you in our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, ask you how our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can better serve your needs, remain open to self-correction and improvement, and thank you for bringing up any criticisms of me &amp;ndash; and in addition make genuine and successful efforts to change &amp;ndash; then clearly I am a valuable person to have around.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, if I care about your feelings, then we do genuinely have a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and so it can be improved.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;On the other hand, if I do not care about your feelings, but rather only care about managing my own anxieties, then it would be very unlikely that you would ever want to talk to me in the first place, since no one really enjoys being a Band-Aid for rampant narcissism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I am only really bothered by my own feelings of being rejected, rather than your feelings of dissatisfaction, then it is all about me, of course.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If, then, I keep calling you and keep getting your answering machine, I am going to feel a steady escalation of anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because you are clearly communicating your lack of desire to talk to me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You are implicitly communicating to me your dissatisfaction with your side of our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. You are openly &amp;ldquo;saying&amp;rdquo; to me: &amp;ldquo;I am not taking pleasure in your company.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I believe &amp;ndash; as most people do &amp;ndash; that you &amp;ldquo;owe&amp;rdquo; me a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; or even just an explanation &amp;ndash; then any hesitancy, reticence or avoidance on your part will make me angry, just as if you were refusing to repay a legitimate debt.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You cannot reasonably call up your bank manager and say that you are feeling &amp;ldquo;resentment&amp;rdquo; towards the mortgage and so you are just not going to pay it &amp;ndash; but that you are also going to keep the house.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;very likely have the same approach to you &amp;ndash; they have given you &amp;ldquo;the house&amp;rdquo; (life and your childhood), and now you owe them the &amp;ldquo;mortgage payments&amp;rdquo; of time, love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and resources until the day they die.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since you cannot give back &amp;ldquo;the house,&amp;rdquo; avoiding your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the same as stealing from them &amp;ndash; and will be met with the same passive or aggressive hostility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that anyone would express if you refused to repay a legitimate debt.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I myself experience this from time to time with listeners who criticize me on various grounds. I offer to have a conversation with them over the Internet &amp;ndash; or by phone, if they want &amp;ndash; and yet they often come up with endless streams of excuses as to why this cannot happen. Their parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will hear, they don&amp;rsquo;t have a microphone, they don&amp;rsquo;t have time, their cell phone is too expensive, etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I do smile when I hear all of this nonsense, and imagine whether they would have the same set of excuses if returning a phone call were to net them $1 million, or whether if a cute girl or guy wanted their number, they would say the same things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course not! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I do not get particularly angry with these people, because they certainly do not &amp;ldquo;owe&amp;rdquo; me a phone call. I would prefer it if they told me the truth &amp;ndash; but of course they do not &amp;ldquo;owe&amp;rdquo; me the truth either!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I simply take note of their behaviour and come to my conclusion, which is that I will not bother talking to them if they do not want to talk to me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105773"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633405"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Follow the Benefit&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hen you are conflicted, your genuine emotional response is at war with the propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that has been inflicted upon you for the benefit of others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;But &amp;ndash; how can you tell your genuine feelings from your propagandized defenses&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ah, that&amp;rsquo;s easy!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The &lt;i&gt;first thing&lt;/i&gt; that you feel is your always genuine emotion &amp;ndash; the &lt;i&gt;reaction&lt;/i&gt; is always the propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the example above, when the phone rings, you experience a sinking sensation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, followed by a dull litany of self-recrimination.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The sinking sensation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is your genuine emotion &amp;ndash; the negative self-judgment that follows is the propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Secondly, all you have to do is play the game called &amp;ldquo;Follow the Benefit&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Whenever forensic accountants are examining a fraud&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or embezzlement, they always &amp;ldquo;follow the money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, when you are attempting to untangle your healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;flesh from your scar tissue &amp;ndash; your true feelings from your propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; all you need to do is &amp;ldquo;Follow the Benefit&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your initial emotion is that you do not want to talk to your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then clearly &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; will benefit from not picking up the phone.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, when we begin to understand this process, it becomes clear that the phone call has actually begun long before we pick up the receiver.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since we do not want to pick up the phone, it must be someone &lt;i&gt;else &lt;/i&gt;who wants us to pick it up, if we end up answering the call.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this example, clearly there are only two parties in the interaction. Since &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; will not benefit from picking up the phone &amp;ndash; since you don&amp;rsquo;t want to &amp;ndash; clearly, the guilt and negative self-talk that you experience on the heels of your initial desire to avoid your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;must come from your mother&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Follow the benefit&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, if you ever dream of a life free from income tax, the guilt and negative self-talk that you experience on the heels of your desire for freedom clearly does not benefit you &amp;ndash; thus it must benefit &lt;i&gt;others&lt;/i&gt;. (For a hint, glance at any ballot.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Win/lose. You win, your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;loses. Your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;wins, you lose.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In positive and mature relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; in other words, in&lt;i&gt; voluntary&lt;/i&gt; relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; win/lose interactions are utterly unsustainable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that are either objectively or subjectively &lt;i&gt;involuntary&lt;/i&gt; (state, religion and family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;), &lt;i&gt;win/lose interactions are the norm&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105774"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633406"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Culture, Propaganda and Exploitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;ropaganda &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;culture&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, as we understand it &amp;ndash; is entirely designed to create and sustain win/lose interactions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the most essential virtue,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because without lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;exploitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is impossible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slaves, as we have discussed, express their hostility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to their masters through an excess of grudging obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, you will answer the phone when your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;call, &lt;i&gt;but you will do a bad job of even pretending to enjoy the conversation&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is how you attempt to &amp;ldquo;explain&amp;rdquo; your enslavement to them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This, however, keeps you in chains&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And now we will talk about how to become free.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p style="border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoTitle"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Becoming Free:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoTitle"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Real-Time Relationships In Action&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105775"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633407"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Alternative to Grudging Compliance&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;f you are a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and you want to become free, the solution is actually quite simple &amp;ndash; assuming that you are not subject to direct coercion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you are a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and you want to become free, the solution is not to try and talk your owners into setting you free.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you are a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and you want to become free, the solution is not to try and talk your fellow slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;into joining your rebellion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you are a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and you want to become free, the solution is very simple.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Very terrifying, but very simple.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you are a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and you want to become free, the solution is simply this:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="center" style="text-align:center;border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Stop &lt;span style="text-decoration:underline;"&gt;acting&lt;/span&gt; like a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What does this look like?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slaves are not allowed to tell the truth. Slaves are not allowed to offend their masters. Slaves are not allowed to express preferences. Slaves must always manage their masters. Slaves must always be on guard. Slaves must always shy away from punishment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slaves must always fear their fellow slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slaves are not allowed to feel curiosity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slaves are not allowed to feel genuine emotion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slaves can only react to propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So if you don&amp;rsquo;t want to &lt;i&gt;be&lt;/i&gt; a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, stop &lt;i&gt;acting&lt;/i&gt; like a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the core of the Real-Time Relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;(RTR&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105776"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633408"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Real-Time Relationship (RTR&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that I call it the RTR&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is because it is all about telling other people &lt;i&gt;in the moment&lt;/i&gt; how you feel.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slaves are not allowed to tell the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So &amp;ndash; you start off by telling the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you don&amp;rsquo;t want to be a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, when the dreaded name lights up the call display&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you pick up the phone and say to your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Hi, mom. Do you know &amp;ndash; the most interesting thing just happened &amp;ndash; your name showed up on my call display&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and I felt a sinking sensation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in my stomach, a kind of dread, or nervousness, and a desire to avoid picking up the phone.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And then, you say nothing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Nothing at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You must be free to say what you truly think and feel &amp;ndash; and your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;must be free to respond as she sees fit.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Just as it is essential for your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to know your true thoughts and feelings, so it is essential that you know your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s genuine response to your true thoughts and feelings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Picture speaking this honestly to your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; picture being &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt; honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What does that make you feel?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Dread? Fear? Terror?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Hopelessness? Despair?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Like walking off a cliff?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That is your enslavement weeping.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That is your propaganda&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;shrieking.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That is your &lt;i&gt;mother&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;speaking.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;But if you want to stop being a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, stop acting like a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You feel terror &amp;ndash; but really, what are you so afraid of?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Can your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;beat you now? Does she have total control over you, now that you are an adult?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Can she lock you in your room and deny you dinner?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So &amp;ndash; I ask you again: &lt;i&gt;what are you so afraid of?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105777"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633409"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Core of Fear&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I can tell you, if you like &amp;ndash; but you already know the answer of course.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;You are afraid of being revealed as a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; not to your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;, who already knows &amp;ndash; but to &lt;b&gt;yourself&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The worst and most terrifying aspect of slavery is that you have to pretend that you are &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; a slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you look at the history of genuine slavery, it was never justified in terms of force, but rather in terms of Christian benevolence, the mental retardation of the slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the &amp;ldquo;white man&amp;rsquo;s burden,&amp;rdquo; the need to save the souls of the savages and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the people called &amp;ldquo;slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; were not really slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, any more than a baby is a &amp;ldquo;slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;went something like this:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p style="border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;These &amp;ldquo;slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; are only owned because they lack the capacity for self-ownership. They are controlled for the same reason that a child wandering into traffic must be controlled. These savage fools are terrible dangers to themselves &amp;ndash; they cannot handle freedom. If given their liberty, they would act out a terrible orgy of self-destruction, sexual abandon and brute violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And the same is considered true of us, in our &amp;ldquo;democracies.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A terrible trap was thus set up for those who were subjugated&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If they obeyed the will of their masters, they were &amp;ldquo;good&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; and &amp;ldquo;liberated&amp;rdquo; from their own tendency toward self-destruction. If they disobeyed the will of their masters, they were &amp;ldquo;evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;irresponsible,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;willful,&amp;rdquo; etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus: &amp;ldquo;slavery equals freedom,&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;freedom equals slavery.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105778"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633410"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slavery and Freedom&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The moment that slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;see themselves &lt;i&gt;as slaves&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, they immediately begin to become free.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The true equation for freedom &amp;ndash; the thunderous power that shatters the chains&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; is the simple statement: &lt;i&gt;slavery equals slavery&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus the greatest danger for slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;-owners is that they will lose control of the moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;definitions of &amp;ldquo;slavery&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;freedom.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, they are in constant danger of losing control of these definitions, because of the rank hypocrisy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;involved in any form of human ownership or control, and because, deep down, the slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;yearn and burn to be &lt;i&gt;free!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Reason, empiricism, science&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and simple experience are always dissolving the chains&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of mankind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Chains must be constantly re-forged, strengthened, reinforced &amp;ndash; they rust by the &lt;i&gt;minute&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We can see this in the world of &amp;ldquo;democracy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; insofar as people are considered to be violent, greedy, evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, short-sighted and so on &amp;ndash; yet somehow magically possess the wisdom and foresight to elect people who will force them to be &amp;ldquo;good.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Without a government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, so the mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;goes, we would all tear each other to pieces.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Human beings are by nature evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and violent &amp;ndash; thus we should give a small monopoly of people who want to use violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to achieve their ends (the state) a monopoly over the use of force, and an endless ability to escape the consequences of their actions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, the truth that we all experience &lt;i&gt;in reality&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, on a daily basis, is fear not of our fellow drivers, but of the police car. The violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that we are threatened with is not mugging, raping or home invasion, but rather jail for non-payment of taxes or disobeying the whims of our masters. What is more likely &amp;ndash; that we will be robbed by a criminal, or that our money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will lose its value through political inflation?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The supposed predations of our fellow citizens&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are almost nowhere to be seen &amp;ndash; it is the &lt;i&gt;state&lt;/i&gt; that controls the money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;supply, the army, the police, the guns, the bombs, the attack helicopters, the long-range bombers, the nuclear weapons &amp;ndash; and the prisons.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;True freedom would be a disaster, we are told &amp;ndash; nature red in tooth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and claw &amp;ndash; and thus enslavement to our masters is real &amp;ldquo;freedom.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;define slavery as &amp;ldquo;virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; despite the endless hypocrisies of this mad reversal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105779"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633411"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Hypocrisy of &amp;ldquo;Consideration&amp;rdquo;&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;o understand why we are so blind to our own enslavement as adults, we need to understand how we are first enslaved as children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As always, our enslavement begins with moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;hypocrisies inflicted upon us by those in authority.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Parents will always call us &amp;ldquo;selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; if we fail to act on the basis of &lt;i&gt;their&lt;/i&gt; emotional preferences.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;wants to talk to you, and you do not want to talk to her, then you are &amp;ldquo;selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; if you choose not to talk to her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is a mad moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;which is utterly unraveled by a moment&amp;rsquo;s thought.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are taught &amp;ldquo;consideration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; not as a mere &lt;i&gt;personal&lt;/i&gt; preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;on the part of our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but rather as an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and absolute moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principle.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If &amp;ldquo;consideration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the feelings of others&amp;rdquo; is thus such an axiomatic and universal moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;value, then clearly it &lt;i&gt;must&lt;/i&gt; at least apply equally to both parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and their adult children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;It is &lt;i&gt;good&lt;/i&gt; to be sensitive to the feelings of others,&amp;rdquo; sayeth our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. &amp;ldquo;It is &lt;i&gt;bad&lt;/i&gt; to perform actions which cause unhappiness in others.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We swallow this as a moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;absolute &amp;ndash; and thus feel guilt whenever we violate this principle.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105780"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633412"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Key to the Cell&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ah, but if &amp;ldquo;consideration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; is in fact a universal principle, a moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;absolute, &lt;i&gt;then it binds our parents&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as surely as it binds us&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If it is &lt;i&gt;bad&lt;/i&gt; to cause discomfort in other people, and you feel discomfort when your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;calls, surely, when you tell her about your discomfort, &lt;i&gt;she should feel bad, and want to change her behaviour&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;apologizes for her lack of consideration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, asks you what would make you feel better, then you can rest assured that she did not inflict the moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;principle of &amp;ldquo;consideration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; in order to control and bully&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;you, but rather because she genuinely wanted you to be good &amp;ndash; and that she knew all about goodness, because she practised moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;behaviour &lt;i&gt;herself&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you report your discomfort to your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, what do you think she will &lt;i&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; do?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You already know the answer, because you have not told her the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your brother constantly lectures you about the need for financial responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and mocks and berates you whenever you use a credit card or spend &amp;ldquo;too much&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; how do you feel when he borrows money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;from you, and then avoids you when the time comes for repayment?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What is thus revealed about your brother&amp;rsquo;s use of the term &amp;ldquo;responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Did he inflict negative judgments on you because he genuinely understands the value of responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;through his own personal practice of it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Or &amp;ndash; did he inflict negative judgments on you because he is a self-righteous hypocrite who uses the word &amp;ldquo;responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; to control and demean other people?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You know everything you need to know &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;if you want to stop being a slave&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you just need to stop avoiding your knowledge&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105781"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633413"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Testable Hypocrisy?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Perhaps you disagree with me, though, and say that you do not know the answers to these questions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No problem!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I think we can certainly agree that it is important to know the answer to the question, &amp;ldquo;Was &amp;lsquo;morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo; used to control and demean me?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you genuinely believe that you lack answers to these questions, the test is embarrassingly simple &amp;ndash; and reveals everything we need to know about what we already in fact know.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;tells you that you should pick up the phone because you are supposed to be &amp;ldquo;considerate,&amp;rdquo; and not create negative feelings in her, how do you think she will react when you tell her the truth about the negative feelings that &lt;i&gt;she&lt;/i&gt; is creating in &lt;i&gt;you?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you tell your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that you feel a strong desire to avoid her phone calls, will she apologize for her own lack of sensitivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;towards your feelings?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Will she ask you to tell her more about how you feel, so that you can get to the root of the issue, so that you can end up with a better experience of your relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Will she ask you when you first experienced these emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;towards her?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Will she patiently support you as you peel back layer after layer of negative experience, which resulted in your desire to avoid her calls?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is absolutely no possibility that she will do that.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;None whatsoever.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Not a shred of a chance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It will never, ever happen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is functionally, logically and emotionally completely and totally impossible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How can I be so confident?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do I know your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No, but I know &lt;i&gt;philosophy&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is why it is impossible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105782"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633414"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Impossibility of Adult Reciprocity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;were to take this course of action when you admitted your desire to avoid her calls &amp;ndash; if she were to be truly curious about the root causes of your negative feelings &amp;ndash; she would have a great challenge on her hands.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;She would have an impossible time explaining one simple thing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="center" style="text-align:center;border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why has she never known how you feel?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since the roots of your desire to avoid your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;go back many, many years, how is it possible that your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has &lt;i&gt;no idea&lt;/i&gt; that she was inflicting any kind of negative experience upon you?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There are really only two ways that this could have come about.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;knew&lt;/i&gt; that you were not having any fun in the relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and utterly ignored that reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the sake of her own needs &amp;ndash; which scarcely supports the theory that she values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ldquo;consideration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the feelings of others&amp;rdquo; as any sort of objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or universal value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Alternatively, she can claim that she had &lt;i&gt;no idea&lt;/i&gt; that you had not been enjoying your relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with her for many, many years &amp;ndash; which means that she took no real interest in your true feelings, or rejected you if and when you honestly told her how you felt in the past.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Naturally, since we do prefer to tell the truth to each other, she must also be able to explain why you felt it necessary to hide your negative experiences from her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, if your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;took no interest in your true feelings throughout the history of your relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, it becomes very hard for her to argue that &amp;ldquo;consideration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for the feelings of others&amp;rdquo; is a great virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, since we generally do not enjoy it when other people who claim to love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;us take no interest in our feelings &amp;ndash; in fact, that is a &lt;i&gt;horrible&lt;/i&gt; experience.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, I can completely guarantee that if you take no interest in your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s feelings, she will be very hurt and upset &amp;ndash; and possibly attack you to boot!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, if she claims that she had no idea that you were having any kind of negative experiences in relation to her, then clearly she was taking no interest in your feelings. Since that is behaviour that both angers and upsets &lt;i&gt;her&lt;/i&gt;, she is openly revealed as a multi-decade complete and total hypocrite who used moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;arguments to control, manipulate and subjugate you to satisfy her own narcissistic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;needs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, she was a total bitch and a contemptible hypocrite.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sort of a deal-breaker for anyone with any self-esteem&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, if you did genuinely end up hiding your feelings from your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; which allows her to claim that she did not know what they were &amp;ndash; there is only one reason &lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt; you would have done that.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You did that because your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;rejected what you truly felt &amp;ndash; and attacked you for your feelings as well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is very hard for someone to argue that you should be considerate towards other people&amp;rsquo;s feelings, while rejecting and attacking the feelings that you have if they are inconvenient or negative to that person.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It would be the same as me arguing that you should always pay back your debts, no matter what the hardship &amp;ndash; and then, after borrowing money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;from you, criticizing you for being &amp;ldquo;cheap&amp;rdquo; when you had the temerity to ask me to repay the loan.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It would be a sickening, stomach-turning display of bottomless and manipulative hypocrisy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;were to admit any of these things, she would be revealed as a horrendous and destructive person who plied you with &amp;ldquo;moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in order to exploit you for her own narcissistic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;needs &lt;i&gt;based on your very desire to be a good child and please her&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Using false moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;arguments to exploit children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;based on their desire to be good is the very core of corruption and evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105783"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633415"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Following the Maternal Benefit&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let us &amp;ldquo;follow the benefit&amp;rdquo; in this case as well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is this type of person, then remaining obedient to her wishes is to be enslaved to corruption.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Clearly, identifying your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and manipulative &amp;ndash; if that is what she is &amp;ndash; benefits &lt;i&gt;you &lt;/i&gt;enormously.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Who, though, does it &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; benefit?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why, your &lt;i&gt;mother&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of course!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is what I mean when I say that slavery is defined as &lt;i&gt;the avoidance of the knowledge that you are a slave&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slavery is also defined as the desire for passive revenge upon your masters.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And this is why we lie to them, and pretend to feel what we do not feel, and refuse to be honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;about what we do feel.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Self-delusion is the lie that is always inflicted upon masters by their slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Freedom from slavery is nothing more &amp;ndash; or less &amp;ndash; then a commitment to honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which is also a letting go of the desire for vengeance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105784"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633416"&gt;&lt;span&gt;RTR&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Empiricism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;he Real-Time Relationship is about empiricism and curiosity &amp;ndash; fundamentally, it is the scientific method&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;applied to our relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105785"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633417"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Diagnosis&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your back hurts, you go to a physiotherapist. The physiotherapist will gently press upon your spine in order to localize and identify the problem. She will ask you, over and over, &amp;ldquo;Does it hurt here?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;She presses upon nerves to find out if they hurt.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That is how she identifies where the problem exists.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You can of course avoid going to a physiotherapist &amp;ndash; or any other health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;practitioner &amp;ndash; and simply take painkillers to alleviate the symptoms. This is a clear example of preferring immediate avoidance over long-term solutions &amp;ndash; scarcely the mark of a mature or responsible person.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, the reason that you pick up the phone with your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and pretend to &amp;ldquo;enjoy&amp;rdquo; the conversation is that you prefer the short-term relief of empty compliance over actually pressing a nerve ending to see if it hurts, so that you can identify the source of the problem and work towards a practical and permanent cure.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Our nerve endings signal discomfort &amp;ndash; just as your &amp;ldquo;sinking sensation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; signals discomfort &amp;ndash; but by picking up the phone and avoiding the truth, you are simply masking the symptom, rather than dealing with the problem.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Again, this approach is fundamentally &lt;i&gt;religious&lt;/i&gt;, in that you are making up instant &amp;ldquo;answers&amp;rdquo; rather than examining the empirical evidence with curiosity and rationality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Naturally, if we are not allowed to tell the truth in a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and we are consistently bullied into pretending to be something other than who we are, we will not enjoy that relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; because in fact, it is not a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;at all, but rather a mutual exploitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;based on immediate anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;avoidance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus our sinking sensation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is clearly communicating to us that we do not enjoy this interaction&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are perfectly aware of why we do not enjoy our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with our mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which is that we are not allowed to tell her the truth &amp;ndash; primarily, we are not allowed to tell her that we do not enjoy our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus our emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are putting forward a theory &amp;ndash; that our mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will attack us if we are honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with her &amp;ndash; and if we wish to establish the validity or invalidity of this theory, all we need to do &lt;i&gt;is be honest&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with her&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we are honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with our mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; if we say: &amp;ldquo;I do not want to talk to you, and I do not know exactly why, and I have been feeling this for many years,&amp;rdquo; and our mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;responds with genuine concern and curiosity, then our &amp;ldquo;sinking sensation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; was more paranoia than accuracy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If, on the other hand, she reacts with irritation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, dismissal, avoidance, redirection, attack, or an over solicitous and cloying &amp;ldquo;concern for what&amp;rsquo;s wrong,&amp;rdquo; &lt;i&gt;then our emotional thesis is amply confirmed&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The simple fact of the matter, of course, is that if our mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;did&lt;/i&gt; have a habit of genuinely responding to our distress with curiosity and concern, we would never have any kind of &amp;ldquo;sinking sensation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; when she called.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the case of long-term relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, &lt;i&gt;the feeling is the proof&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is &lt;i&gt;no possibility whatsoever&lt;/i&gt; that a positive long-term relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can exist if one or both parties is regularly feeling bad about talking to the other party.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105786"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633418"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Paranoia?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;says or implies that you are &amp;ldquo;paranoid&amp;rdquo; for feeling anything negative about her calls, then not only is she rejecting and attacking your feelings (hence their negativity) but also she is the kind of person who is perfectly happy to continue for years talking to a paranoid person &lt;i&gt;without once productively addressing that paranoia&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That is, sadly, in no way the mark of a healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;person.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why is it, then, that we avoid putting our emotional theory to the test?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, if we avoid putting a theory to the test it is because we know the answer to that test, and we do not like it. This is one reason why religious people always avoid a rational examination of the existence of God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and always fall back on &amp;ldquo;faith,&amp;rdquo; which is defined in reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as a willed bigotry in what is known to be false.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If our emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;tell us that we will be attacked for telling the truth &amp;ndash; and we have not been telling the truth &amp;ndash; it is because we wish to avoid &lt;i&gt;confirmation&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; i.e. &lt;i&gt;certainty&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we wish to &amp;ldquo;avoid&amp;rdquo; certainty, it is because we are &lt;i&gt;already certain&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus it is not really &amp;ldquo;certainty&amp;rdquo; that we wish to avoid, &lt;i&gt;but the results of accepting what we already know to be true&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The superstitious cultist who goes to church does not avoid rationally examining the question of the existence of God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because he is certain that God exists, but rather because he is certain that God does not exist at all. What he truly wishes to avoid is not the knowledge of God&amp;rsquo;s nonexistence, but rather the inevitable &lt;i&gt;results&lt;/i&gt; of that knowledge, which is the end of his association with his cult, and the inevitable attacks that will descend upon him from his fellow cult members. He also fears the contempt and hostility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in his children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s eyes that will inevitably result from his recognition of the truth, since he inflicted his superstition upon them with pious self-righteousness when they were young, helpless and utterly dependent. He is also afraid to put his wife&amp;rsquo;s love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to the test, because he knows &lt;i&gt;exactly&lt;/i&gt; what will happen if he says to her: &amp;ldquo;Will you love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;me and the truth, or will you reject me out of fear and enslavement to our fellow cultists, if I reject falsehood?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He already knows what her answer will be.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He already knows &lt;i&gt;exactly&lt;/i&gt; where he sits on her hierarchy of &amp;ldquo;values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He already knows that his wife will kick him to the curb the moment he speaks the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus it is not the absence of God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that he fears and avoids, but the consequences of speaking the truth &amp;ndash; and the knowledge that he has wasted his life in a squalid, corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;cult of liars and bullies &amp;ndash; and even worse, that he has sacrificed his children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s intelligence and integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;on the altar of his own cowardice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Truly, to look into the mirror with such accuracy, and to see what he had truly become, would be more than his soul could possibly bear.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And so he struggles on, avoiding the truth, at war with himself, murdering his honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;instincts every single day, proselytizing to helpless children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and credulous fools that which he knows to be false, until nature finally takes pity upon him and puts him out of his agony with an empty and prayed-for death.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course for the religious, death leads to paradise, because their life is a living hell &amp;ndash; compared to which the mere nonexistence that we all know awaits us in the grave seems like a blissful heaven.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105787"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633419"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Exploring the Facts&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The simple fact is that God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;does not exist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The simple fact is that &amp;ldquo;the government&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; is just a bunch of pompous goons with guns ordering you around, filling your children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s heads with lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and stealing from you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The simple fact is that you do not want to talk to your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;on the telephone.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And the simple fact is that we know exactly what will happen when we speak the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We will be attacked by our fellow slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We will not be invited to become a master&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And thus we shall be alone.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the deepest horror of living among the slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; that the very communal power that could overturn our masters is not turned against our masters, but rather against any slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;who dares to say: &amp;ldquo;We are slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We &lt;i&gt;have &lt;/i&gt;a State because we &lt;i&gt;are&lt;/i&gt; the State.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The shock and loathsomeness of this understanding &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;that we have no masters but each other&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; is the real horror that we avoid with our blank, smiling conformity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the real reason that we make up &amp;ldquo;answers,&amp;rsquo; and believe our own lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, crush our natural hunger for truth and freedom, attack anyone who makes us uncomfortable, attack the &amp;ldquo;enemies&amp;rdquo; that we are told to hate, and lick the boots of our owners in happy, cringing abandon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are not ruled by masters.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are ruled by each other.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The &amp;ldquo;masters&amp;rdquo; simply pick up the pieces.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;These are the simple facts that we know deep down. These are the simple facts that are carved into our very &lt;i&gt;bones&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;These are the simple facts that we will waste our lives evading if we do not find the courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to speak the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105788"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633420"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Barriers to the Truth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;B&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;efore you implement what we will talk about below, I think it only fair to remind you that if any of your relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;survive your honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you will be in a tiny minority.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Before exposing yourself to this light, it is essential to be aware of the simple fact that when your eyes have adjusted to the brightness of this new world, almost everyone around you will have vanished.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Our theory &amp;ndash; our instinctual &lt;i&gt;knowledge&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; is that we will be attacked and reviled for speaking the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If our theory is true, then this is exactly what will happen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let me be more specific.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If this theory &amp;ndash; and my experience, and the experience of thousands of other people in this philosophical conversation &amp;ndash; is true, then you will be attacked and reviled for speaking the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You will be snarled at, dismissed, waved off, condescendingly lectured to, called a fool, a cultist, a traitor, a disinformation agent &amp;ndash; angry, paranoid, selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, ungrateful, deluded, psychotic, insane &amp;ndash; and fat, believe it or not!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There will be no end to the vituperation and invective that will be hurled at you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;People live in the darkness, scurrying and biting and gnawing at scraps, and each other &amp;ndash; but they have an amazing sensitivity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to light &amp;ndash; probably because it will reveal their highly unflattering reflections.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When people sense the light of truth approaching, they snarl and growl and attack. They shed all self-restraint, all pretense of dignity, any vestige of &amp;ldquo;self-respect.&amp;rdquo; They attack with lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, with anger, with misrepresentation, with &amp;ldquo;confusion,&amp;rdquo; with scorn, with contempt, with eye-rolling &amp;ndash; and thankfully, in the end, with ostracism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;They attack with the ferocity of cornered rats because they imagine that the threat comes from you, not from their own hearts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;By odd coincidence, at the very moment that I was writing this section, my podcast show got a new review on PodFeed &amp;ndash; the first in months.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p style="border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Useless moralism (1 star)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;By: Daniella&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;This guy is an inadequate philosopher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and neocheater. His philosophy is religious. What drives him is the quest to be morally pure. All his positions revolve around the quest to keep his hands clean and try to manipulate others to be convinced that he&amp;#39;s a moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;authority to be looked upon with awe. He is of no use to society. Don&amp;#39;t bother.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Reviewed on 12/23/2007&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;I must confess to being quite fascinated by the term &amp;ldquo;neocheater,&amp;rdquo; which I have never heard before! I certainly do agree, of course, that I am no use to &amp;ldquo;society,&amp;rdquo; since it is an exploitive lie.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105789"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633421"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Working with the Facts&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, I am not telling you anything about the people around you that you do not already know.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The truth is such a beautiful, wonderful and liberating thing that if people surrender it to lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we know that it must be because they are subjected to the greatest possible duress, the most extreme threats.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We also know that people in societies that are generally more free (i.e. where they are not jailed or killed for criticizing the system) believe almost as many exploitive lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;as those in societies that are less free.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus political freedom is not the primary factor in gauging how many lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;people will believe.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since direct threats of physical destruction or enslavement are not required for people to believe all sorts of horrible moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; indeed, such lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;would be impossible if they &lt;i&gt;required&lt;/i&gt; such threats &amp;ndash; there must be another factor that drives the conformity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of mankind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105790"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633422"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Criminal Slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is a tried and true principle of homicide investigations that when a husband or wife goes missing, the first suspect is always the spouse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Whenever a crime is committed, look first to those closest to the victim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;To unravel the riddle of the enslavement of the many by the few, our first suspects cannot be the masters, but must be the slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This we all know deep down.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We know that the truth is a beautiful and liberating thing &amp;ndash; a trophy that we hunger for, yearn for, love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;hopelessly, desperately, at a distance, secretly &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;and that we cannot ever speak the truth at all&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I am here to tell you that what you fear is all true.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You cannot speak the truth to those around you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You know &lt;i&gt;exactly &lt;/i&gt;what they will do to you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;But you do not really &lt;i&gt;know&lt;/i&gt; this yet &amp;ndash; not where it counts, not in the place that will propel you into real action, into real escape, towards &lt;i&gt;real&lt;/i&gt; freedom!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Dare I say &amp;ndash; towards the future? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is only one way to find out whether our fears about speaking the truth are a valid assessment of imminent danger, or rampant and self-indulgent paranoia.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m sure you know where I&amp;rsquo;m going with this&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105791"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633423"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Speak the Truth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Yes, it really is that simple.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That simple, and that &lt;i&gt;hard&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you think that I am full of nonsense, or that I am wildly overstating the case, or that I am writing more of a self-indulgent manifesto than a rational call to action, I am perfectly fine with that!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I actually think that is a very healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;approach to take to what I am saying.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Scepticism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is enormously healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because scepticism requires both logic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and empirical validation to be transformed into acceptance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Fortunately, you have access to all the logic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and empirical validation you could ever desire &amp;ndash; today, right now, this minute!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For the logic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you can turn to my two previous books, and my podcasts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For empirical validation, things are much easier.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You do not need to buy and study any books. Thank heavens, you do not need to listen to a near-infinite series of podcasts. You do not need to learn ancient Aramaic, how to juggle, ride a unicycle, or breathe water.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You only need to open your mouth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105792"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633424"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in Honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you really &lt;i&gt;do&lt;/i&gt; dislike it when your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rsquo;s name shows up on your call display&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, you may well be tempted to yank the phone off its handle and yell at her that she is a fellow slave&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;who is keeping you down, that she bullies you like a cornered rat, and she serves the masters who rule us all!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Not only would this be unwise, it would also be dishonest.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The fact of the matter is that you &lt;i&gt;do not know for certain the validity of these theories&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I am not asking you to believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that these theories are true.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I think that would be a very bad idea.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The truth of the matter &amp;ndash; as it stands for you, right now &amp;ndash; is that you &lt;i&gt;genuinely do not know why you cannot speak the truth with your mother&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Earlier, we talked about a 15&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; century man watching a ship on an ocean descend slowly over the horizon. That observation is the &lt;i&gt;fact &lt;/i&gt;that he is working with &amp;ndash; he does not as yet have a theory as to why that phenomenon is occurring.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If this man simply started yelling at people that the world was round, whizzing around the sun at 30 km a second, that the sun was the center of the solar system, and is also whizzing along at terrifying speeds &amp;ndash; for a combined planetary motion of 900 km/s &amp;ndash; everyone would think that he was just mad! They would be right in that evaluation too, since he would have no theoretical or empirical proof for what could only be considered entirely wild propositions!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You have a fact to work with in your relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which is that you do not like it when her name lights up your call display&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You do not know exactly &lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt; that &amp;ldquo;sinking sensation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;rdquo; is occurring.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I have put forward a theory as to why that sensation is occurring &amp;ndash; and the likely events that will unfold if you speak the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, it remains as yet only a theory.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is a theory, of course, that should give you some great comfort &amp;ndash; despite the anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;it provokes.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If the theory is true, then you have &lt;i&gt;damn good reasons for staying silent&lt;/i&gt;, for conforming, for refraining from speaking the truth &amp;ndash; and for lying to yourself about why.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It makes little sense to hide if you are not being hunted.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I am telling you that you hide because you are being hunted &amp;ndash; but this has not been proven, and therefore must be put to the test.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your test.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So &amp;ndash; call your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Tell her that you feel unease &amp;ndash; or a sinking sensation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, or whatever it is &amp;ndash; when her name lights up your call display&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;That&amp;rsquo;s pretty terrifying, isn&amp;rsquo;t it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Good.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Feel the burn!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I mean &amp;ndash; you don&amp;rsquo;t want to go through the rest of your short life utterly deluded about the content and quality of your &amp;ldquo;relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;,&amp;rdquo; do you?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since you yearn and &lt;i&gt;burn&lt;/i&gt; for the truth &amp;ndash; as we all do &amp;ndash; don&amp;rsquo;t you want to find out if your relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can support it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since you yearn and burn for love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; which requires the truth, as we have discussed &amp;ndash; don&amp;rsquo;t you want to find out if your relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can support it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Since you yearn and burn for intimacy, integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, trust and devotion &amp;ndash; all of which require the truth &amp;ndash; don&amp;rsquo;t you want to find out if your relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;can support them?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your existing relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will not only &lt;i&gt;never &lt;/i&gt;give you what you want, but exist only to rob you blind, don&amp;rsquo;t you want to stop wasting your life?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now you can.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So &amp;ndash; all you have to do is tell your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;how you feel&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you are talking to her &amp;ndash; particularly for the first time &amp;ndash; you cannot with certainty tell her that you know exactly why you are feeling what you are feeling. Yes, she might frighten you with unconscious or subtle threats of attack or abandonment &amp;ndash; but you have no real evidence of that as yet! Thus it would be entirely unjust &amp;ndash; and abusive &amp;ndash; to attack her with &lt;i&gt;conclusions&lt;/i&gt; when you have as yet only &lt;i&gt;facts&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;he &lt;i&gt;fact&lt;/i&gt; is that you feel anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;calls you. The Real-Time Relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;concept demands that we are honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with each other by speaking the facts of our experience.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Not the mythologies, not the stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, not the blame, not the conclusions &amp;ndash; just the &lt;i&gt;facts&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The fact is that you feel anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and you do not know &lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt; you feel this anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;So what do you say to your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You tell her the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Nothing more, nothing less.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You say: &amp;ldquo;Mom, I feel a strange anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when you call &amp;ndash; I don&amp;rsquo;t know why, I&amp;rsquo;m not saying it&amp;rsquo;s anything that you are doing, but I have felt it for quite some time &amp;ndash; many years, actually as far back as I can remember. I&amp;rsquo;m not saying that this is your fault, because I don&amp;rsquo;t know where it comes from &amp;ndash; I&amp;rsquo;m just telling you what I feel.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And that&amp;rsquo;s all that you say, because that&amp;rsquo;s all that you know for sure.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105794"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633426"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Avoiding &amp;ldquo;Story Time&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You will be greatly tempted &amp;ndash; and your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will doubtless tempt you with this as well &amp;ndash; to blame your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, so that you can both take a mutual dive off the cliff of &amp;ldquo;story time.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The way that we do this is to inflict a &lt;i&gt;conclusion&lt;/i&gt; on someone else.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus we are sorely tempted to say: &amp;ldquo;Mom, I feel a strange anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;when you call, because you are always so critical!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see the difference? Do you catch the difference between the first speech, and the second?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The first speech is an honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;expression of your emotional state &amp;ndash; feedback &lt;i&gt;in real-time&lt;/i&gt; to the person that you are talking to about your immediate experience.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The second sentence is a &lt;i&gt;conclusion&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; easily recognizable by the terrible use of the word &amp;ldquo;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;because&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Because&amp;rdquo; is a word that indicates a shift from &lt;i&gt;experience&lt;/i&gt; to &lt;i&gt;thesis&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Our historical friend in Lisbon&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, who watches the ship disappearing over the horizon, can honestly turn to someone and say: &amp;ldquo;Hey, I see that ship disappearing slowly over the horizon, hull first!&amp;rdquo; That is a true statement of his direct experience in the moment &amp;ndash; no one can reasonably tell him that he is wrong.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The moment that he provides an explanation, however, he is open to criticism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If he says: &amp;ldquo;The ship is disappearing slowly into the ocean &lt;i&gt;because&lt;/i&gt; it is being swallowed up by Poseidon,&amp;rdquo; now he is in the realm of story time, since he has just made up an &amp;ldquo;explanation&amp;rdquo; for which he has no direct evidence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus when you say to your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;: &amp;ldquo;I feel anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;because&lt;/i&gt; you are so critical,&amp;rdquo; you are stating knowledge and certainty of a causal relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for which you have no direct evidence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It may be true that your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is hypercritical &amp;ndash; it may be true that she has attacked you for years, every single time that she calls &amp;ndash; your thesis may be entirely true, &lt;i&gt;but the problem is that you have absolutely no evidence &lt;b&gt;in the moment&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is how we so often shoot ourselves in the foot when we attempt to be honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you say to your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that your anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is caused by her critical nature, what is she going to say?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Come on, you know it exactly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;She is going to say, of course: &amp;ldquo;I am not critical.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And what do you say in return?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You say: &amp;ldquo;You are &lt;i&gt;too&lt;/i&gt; so critical! Like &amp;ndash; every time we talk, you say that I sound &lt;i&gt;tired&lt;/i&gt;&amp;hellip;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And what happens with that conversation?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You argue and debate and provide evidence and deny and attack &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;and never talk about your true feelings at all&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see how presenting &lt;i&gt;conclusions&lt;/i&gt; is simply a massive avoidance mechanism&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;which allows you to debate endlessly about inconsequential details that cannot be proved, rather than talk about your actual experience of your mother?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Stories can be debated endlessly &amp;ndash; witness the endless idiocy of medieval scholasticism, or modern theological or political debates &amp;ndash; because &lt;i&gt;stories&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are not real&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You say that your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is critical, and she replies that she is not &amp;ndash; that she just has your best interests at heart, that you can be careless or irresponsible, that she never &lt;i&gt;said &lt;/i&gt;that, or that if she did you misinterpreted it, that you have always been so sensitive, that you must be tired now, that she has always tried to do her best, that motherhood is not easy, that she doesn&amp;rsquo;t understand why the younger generation behaves the way it does, that things weren&amp;rsquo;t like that when she was your age, that you&amp;rsquo;re not a parent, you&amp;rsquo;ll understand when you are a parent &amp;ndash; and so on and so on and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Round and round and round&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A massive, cumbersome, convoluted, baffling, frustrating, empty bag of Gordian knots that no sane human being could ever unravel.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How many times has this happened in your relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;? How about your girlfriend? Boyfriend? Siblings? Friends?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we experience a negative emotion, we are unbelievably and inevitably tempted to place the blame for that emotion on someone else, by creating an untestable mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that defines &lt;i&gt;their actions as causing our response&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And it never, ever gets us anywhere at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105795"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633427"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Post Hoc Ergo Propter Hoc&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;he &lt;i&gt;post hoc ergo propter hoc&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;(&lt;i&gt;after&lt;/i&gt; this, therefore &lt;i&gt;because&lt;/i&gt; of this) fallacy is based upon the notion that simply because &amp;ldquo;B&amp;rdquo; happens after &amp;ldquo;A,&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;A&amp;rdquo; &lt;i&gt;caused&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ldquo;B.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I kill a goat, and then it starts to rain, it is completely irrational to say that the death of the goat &lt;i&gt;caused&lt;/i&gt; the rain.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I get angry when my wife says something, I cannot immediately prove that I got angry &lt;i&gt;because&lt;/i&gt; my wife said something &amp;ndash; all that I know for sure is that I felt anger &lt;i&gt;after&lt;/i&gt; she spoke.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, we are endlessly drawn to the fallacy of blaming others&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;for our own feelings, because it is far easier than actually discussing our feelings in an open and vulnerable way.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Forever and a day, if you take the &amp;ldquo;blame&amp;rdquo; approach, you will be mired in dysfunctional, frustrating, empty, wasteful, negative &amp;ldquo;relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How many times do we feel that we are silently and invisibly &amp;ldquo;fencing&amp;rdquo; with someone else, where we are trying to pin the blame for our emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;on him, while he is struggling to evade our blame, and trying to turn it around and blame us?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are priests arguing about dead gods.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are wasting our lives fencing with ourselves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And we deserve so much better.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;But first we have to &lt;i&gt;earn&lt;/i&gt; it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105796"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633428"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Avoiding Mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hen you take the RTR&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;approach, you simply &lt;i&gt;state the facts of your experience&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You do not make up reasons as to &lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt; you feel what you feel. You simply say: &amp;ldquo;I feel X.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You can honestly say: &amp;ldquo;I felt X after you did Y. I am not saying that Y &lt;i&gt;caused&lt;/i&gt; my feeling, I am simply saying that my feeling followed Y.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the truth. It could be that your feeling was triggered by a situation that just happened to be similar to a traumatic or difficult situation in your childhood. This does not make you paranoid, just a sensitive person with a memory. A soldier who has returned from violent combat, and who ducks when a car backfires, is not paranoid, just painfully conditioned. He felt fear &lt;i&gt;after&lt;/i&gt; the car backfired, but not &lt;i&gt;because&lt;/i&gt; the car backfired &amp;ndash; and we know this because other people &lt;i&gt;did not feel fear&lt;/i&gt; when the car backfired.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The backfire was thus merely a catalyst, not a cause.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If it were an objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;cause, then everyone would feel fear, not just him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;An objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;cause of pain is &amp;ldquo;being stabbed&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; a subjective cause of pain is &amp;ldquo;being embarrassed.&amp;rdquo; The first is based upon our objective&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;physiology; the second upon our subjective interpretation. The first is a fact; the second is a &lt;i&gt;story&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, you can legitimately say: &amp;ldquo;When you &lt;i&gt;did&lt;/i&gt; X, I &lt;i&gt;felt&lt;/i&gt; Y&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; it is important, however, to continually remind the person that you are talking to that you are not saying that she &lt;i&gt;caused&lt;/i&gt; your feeling.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Not only has that not been established logically or empirically, but even if it &lt;i&gt;were&lt;/i&gt; established, it would still not be true, because unless someone is sticking a pin in your arm, they do not have the power to &lt;i&gt;make &lt;/i&gt;you feel anything.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;f you and I go on a first date and I spend the first five minutes yelling at you, you will of course be frightened, anxious and upset. There is no way to avoid this reaction, since your autonomous nervous system will react to my potential attack with a healthy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;dose of &amp;ldquo;fight or flight.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Naturally, then, you will make your excuses, leave, and never see me again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you &lt;i&gt;do &lt;/i&gt;choose to see me again, and I continue to yell at you, &lt;i&gt;I&lt;/i&gt; am not making you feel bad, &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; are making you feel bad.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The first time that you put your hand in an open flame, it is the &lt;i&gt;flame&lt;/i&gt; that burns you. If you voluntarily put your hand &lt;i&gt;back&lt;/i&gt; into that open flame, it is now &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; who are burning &lt;i&gt;yourself&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The way that we always end up in abusive relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is that we simply ignore, reject, minimize or mythologize &lt;i&gt;how those relationships&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;make us feel initially&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we are always taught to obey external rules rather than express our honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;feelings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Feelings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; destroy hierarchies &amp;ndash; particularly unjust hierarchies.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Feelings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; instantly tell us whether a situation or interaction is good, bad, or indifferent for us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you were sitting in your classroom as a child, did you feel happy, bored, frustrated, angry or indifferent to be there?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When the teacher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;called on you, did you feel eager or nervous?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Did the teacher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ever sit you down and ask you if there was any way that you could enjoy your learning experience more?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Private companies do this all the time &amp;ndash; they are continually polling their customers to find out if there&amp;rsquo;s any conceivable way that their needs can be better served.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Did your teachers ever ask you how they could serve you better?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Did your &lt;i&gt;parents&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This may sound odd, but it is very important to understand.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105798"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633430"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Quality of Service&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;regularly ask my wife if there is anything that I can do to improve her experience of being married to me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I can&amp;rsquo;t automatically tell if she is dissatisfied or unhappy about something &amp;ndash; and I would far rather change my behaviour &lt;i&gt;before&lt;/i&gt; those feelings arise &amp;ndash; and so it is important to check in with her and make sure that everything is running smoothly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Even if I am doing pretty much the same thing that I did a month ago, her needs or preferences might have changed in the interim. Sometimes, just asking the question can help uncover a new preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that she is not even fully aware that she has.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that I want to talk about this aspect of a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is so that you understand that, as a child, &lt;i&gt;you were almost never consulted about what you wanted&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I say this, I&amp;rsquo;m not talking about things like &amp;ldquo;What do you want for Christmas?&amp;rdquo; or &amp;ldquo;What would you like for dinner?&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; which you might have been asked, and which is all fine and dandy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;No, what I mean is not whether your preferences were solicited with regards to &lt;i&gt;material objects&lt;/i&gt;, but rather with regards to &lt;i&gt;the people around you&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we are generally raised to conform to the preferences of those around us &amp;ndash; though, as I talked about in my book &amp;ldquo;On Truth,&amp;rdquo; those preferences are almost always portrayed as moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;absolutes &amp;ndash; but we are not allowed to have any particular preferences &lt;i&gt;of our own with regards to those around us&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105799"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633431"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Consultation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For instance, did your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ever sit you down and say:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p style="border:none;padding:0cm;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Is there any way that I could make your experience of being my child even more enjoyable? Is there anything that I am doing that you dislike, or that you don&amp;rsquo;t understand, or that you do not see the purpose of? Although I know that you disagree with me about certain decisions that I make for you in the moment &amp;ndash; like &amp;ldquo;don&amp;rsquo;t eat that third candy bar&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; do you understand those decisions later on, or do they remain confusing for you? Do you think that I am teaching you to follow sensible principles, for your own good, or do you find that you are merely obeying me in the moment? Overall, are you enjoying being my child? Would I be the mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that you would choose out of all the women in the world, if you could choose who was your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;? If not, why not?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Can you identify the emotion that wells up in your heart from even &lt;i&gt;considering&lt;/i&gt; this kind of interview from one or both of your parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m telling you &amp;ndash; this is what you need to feel to be safe, loved and happy now, and in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why is it so incomprehensible that our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;would ever ask us these sorts of questions, and ask us for honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;feedback about their success as parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why is it that our local pizza parlour will interview us to find out what kind of pizza we like &amp;ndash; but our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will never ask us what kind of &lt;i&gt;parenting&lt;/i&gt; we like?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see everything that is &lt;i&gt;not &lt;/i&gt;being talked about in the world?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see why people grow up to be so compliant, so fearful, so frustrated, so angry, so lonely &amp;ndash; and so fundamentally cut off from their emotional experience of the world &amp;ndash; and thus so sad in their very souls?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Muscles that we do not use inevitably atrophy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Feelings that are never consulted inevitably go underground.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your opinion is never sought &amp;ndash; or if it is &amp;ldquo;sought,&amp;rdquo; but never acted on &amp;ndash; you will simply cease experiencing opinions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your preferences are constantly rejected &amp;ndash; which is always hypocritical, since to &lt;i&gt;reject&lt;/i&gt; a preference is to &lt;i&gt;express&lt;/i&gt; a preference&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; then you will simply cease experiencing preferences.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;(Notice that I do not say that you will cease to &lt;i&gt;have&lt;/i&gt; opinions or preferences &amp;ndash; merely that you will cease to &lt;i&gt;experience&lt;/i&gt; them.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Whatever we accept as a general principle we inevitably end up implementing ourselves &amp;ndash; thus if you grow up rejecting your own preferences and opinions, you will inevitably end up attacking, crushing and rejecting the preferences and opinions of others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Particularly those who depend on you the most, such as your children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and your lover.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105800"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633432"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Identification and Self-Expression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;t takes an enormous amount of work to first identify what we feel, and then learn how to express those feelings honestly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Then it takes additional effort to truly understand the source of our feelings &amp;ndash; the complex interaction of our ideas and our experiences of the world, and of others &amp;ndash; and then it takes even &lt;i&gt;more&lt;/i&gt; effort to accept the information and conclusions that our feelings provide us, &lt;i&gt;and act upon them&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This complex dance is one of the greatest and most amazing experiences that life has to offer. Learning how to productively match the complexity of our inner experiences with the subtlety of our outer experiences is a truly magical journey.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105801"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633433"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Depth Right at the Surface&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We so often feel that what is occurring for us emotionally in the very depths of our souls is somehow radically disconnected from the daily world that we live in.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I first started going to therapy &amp;ndash; I went for three hours a week for almost 2 years &amp;ndash; I had a dream that I was being attacked by a hostile woman. I brought the dream in for analysis, spouting all this Jungian nonsense about how this angry woman was my &lt;i&gt;animus&lt;/i&gt;, my female side and so on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My therapist held up her hand and said: &amp;ldquo;Perhaps, but let&amp;rsquo;s start with something a little more simple. Did you talk to your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;yesterday?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course I had &amp;ndash; and of course my mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;had attacked me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This simple idea &amp;ndash; an astounding revelation to me &amp;ndash; that the depths of my unconscious was perfectly attuned to the realities of my daily experiences &amp;ndash; completely changed how I viewed the value and purpose of my inner life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As I continued in therapy, it became increasingly clear that my senses did not lie, and my unconscious did not lie &amp;ndash; it was only my &lt;i&gt;conscious&lt;/i&gt; mind, and my psychological defences, that were consistently and constantly misleading me through the endless invention of false narratives and imaginary cause-and-effect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I was in fact a kind of &amp;ldquo;truth sandwich.&amp;rdquo; My senses told the truth; my dreams told the truth &amp;ndash; but in the middle was my conscious ego, which lied and evaded constantly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your dreams, your instinctual emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, your deepest and &amp;ndash; as you think &amp;ndash; most private experiences &amp;ndash; are the greatest source of truth available to you, after your physical senses (and your greatest source of &lt;i&gt;moral&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;truth!).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, learning to trust our instincts &amp;ndash; rather than just &amp;ldquo;follow the rules&amp;rdquo; (even philosophical rules) is essential for living a happy, safe, loving and productive life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, due to the fact that as children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;our feelings and instincts are stifled, mocked and abused, it can take quite some time to become comfortable &lt;i&gt;feeling &lt;/i&gt;them, let alone expressing them, understanding them and acting on them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105802"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633434"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Feeling Your Feelings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;ince the first challenge is learning how to feel your feelings, how can we approach that most productively?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;First of all, you are &lt;i&gt;already feeling your feelings&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your initial impulse &amp;ndash; the &amp;ldquo;stab&amp;rdquo; or &amp;ldquo;sinking feeling&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; may be subtle, brief and fleeting, but I guarantee you that it is there.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The moment after you feel your feelings, your defences summon mythologies to label those feelings &amp;ldquo;bad,&amp;rdquo; and thus prevent you from communicating, understanding, or acting upon them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This we all learned from the sick fantasies of religion &amp;ndash; the mythology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that certain impulses come from &amp;ldquo;the devil&amp;rdquo; and so are labeled &amp;ldquo;bad,&amp;rdquo; and so you must keep them to yourself &amp;ndash; or perhaps confess them as a guilty secret &amp;ndash; and thus never accept those feelings or act upon them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see the evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;genius of religion?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Doubt in the truth of the fantasy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;comes from &amp;ldquo;the devil,&amp;rdquo; and thus is labeled &amp;ldquo;bad,&amp;rdquo; and so should never be communicated or acted upon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Brilliant &amp;ndash; simply brilliant!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Authenticity is evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;; empty submission is virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;This&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; is how the greatest predators feed!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105803"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633435"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your First Feeling&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hen I was 19, I worked as a gold-panner and prospector in northern Canada for about 18 months, saving money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to go to university.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Every couple&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of weeks, I would go into town, have a nice dinner and perhaps go to a disco.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;One night, I started chatting up the prettiest woman at the bar. I found it rather difficult to talk to her, though, because she kept glancing around. We chatted for about 15 minutes &amp;ndash; though her responses were mostly monosyllabic &amp;ndash; and then she excused herself, because she wanted to go and talk to a friend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I sat at the table for about 20 more minutes, not knowing if she was going to come back, feeling increasingly baffled and irritated. When she finally did return, she said she had to go. I asked her for her number &amp;ndash; she sighed, and told me that she would prefer it if I gave her my number.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I did, and then spent the next day hoping that she would call.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Two nights later, after working out, I was sitting in a sauna, and realized that she hadn&amp;rsquo;t called me. I felt a stab of disappointment &amp;ndash; which I immediately smothered by taking a deep, sudden breath and forcing myself to think of something else.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I had recently read my first book on psychology, and so, catching myself, I decided to relax, slow down my breathing, and actually&lt;i&gt; feel&lt;/i&gt; my disappointment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Shocking, I know! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This began a lifelong process for me of re-learning how to trust my emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s no fun to live life as if you are inhabited by some malevolent demon that is constantly &amp;ldquo;shooting you up&amp;rdquo; with random high-stimuli emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that will inevitably mess you up in some manner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Setting us at variance against ourselves is a prerequisite for exploitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A man at peace with himself cannot be exploited, except through direct violence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which the ruling classes quite sensibly shy away from.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;A man at war with himself remains jittery, insecure, consumed with self-management, overeager for approval, unable to set boundaries&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, always available to work overtime. He feels generally unworthy of keeping his property, unable to challenge any of the moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;rules that enslave him&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;He lives a life of fear and self-subjugation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is this self-subjugation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that breeds political, religious and tribal subjugation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is self-slavery that creates our masters.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We sell ourselves &lt;i&gt;before&lt;/i&gt; we are bought by others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105804"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633436"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Slowing Down...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Our defences work by creating a &amp;ldquo;rush to react,&amp;rdquo; which smothers our genuine instinctual and emotional responses.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sitting in the sauna all those years ago, when I felt my stab of disappointment that the girl had not called me, I immediately began to make up excuses as to why my disappointment was invalid:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul style="margin-top:0cm;"&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ahhh, it&amp;rsquo;s her loss.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;She wasn&amp;rsquo;t that pretty anyway.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Maybe she lost my number.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;She might call.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We all know these endless litanies of excuses that we invent to smother our genuine emotional reactions. We live life so frightened, so unstable, so consumed with self-management, that we become cheap lawyers, petty sophists &amp;ndash; ready, willing and able to talk ourselves in and out of &lt;i&gt;anything&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Self-manipulation is our medication.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Mythology is our drug.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The only cure is honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I made up &amp;ldquo;answers&amp;rdquo; in a &amp;ldquo;rush of reaction&amp;rdquo; to my genuine emotion, I was engaged in a fundamentally religious approach to reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I was not exhibiting any kind of curiosity about myself, about my emotional reaction to the girl not calling. I experienced a stimulus that I considered &amp;ldquo;negative&amp;rdquo; &amp;ndash; and so just made up an &amp;ldquo;answer&amp;rdquo; to make the stimulus go away.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is exactly the religious approach &amp;ndash; when religious people experience &amp;ldquo;negative&amp;rdquo; stimuli, such as doubt, they make up answers to make the stimuli go away.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we do not know where life came from, or how old the planet is, or what makes the lightning, we can either ask questions in all humility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;according to the scientific method&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;- or we can just make up &amp;ldquo;answers&amp;rdquo; to wish our doubts away.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the latter case, clearly we are not interested in establishing the truth, but rather in magically turning our ignorance into &amp;ldquo;truth.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This habit is the eternal curse of our species.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we are faced with the question &amp;ldquo;How are the children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to be educated?&amp;rdquo;&lt;b&gt; &lt;/b&gt;or &amp;ldquo;Who will build the roads?&amp;rdquo; saying, &amp;ldquo;Just give a bunch of guys a bunch of guns to make it happen,&amp;rdquo; is a complete and total non-answer.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we are faced with the question, &amp;ldquo;Do my parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;really love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;me?&amp;rdquo; saying, &amp;ldquo;Yes, because they tell me so,&amp;rdquo; is also a complete and total non-answer.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105805"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633437"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Truth We Repress&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Once I began to explore my feelings of disappointment about the girl not calling, some fascinating insights began to arise.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;First of all, it became clear to me over time that I was not disappointed in the fact that the girl had not called me, but rather I was frightened by my desire for a girl who would not call me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I chose her in that bar because she was very pretty. I ignored the fact that she was quite rude, and was constantly looking around the disco while I was talking to her. I ignored the fact that she abruptly got up and talked to a friend of hers for 20 minutes, leaving me sitting in the booth, twiddling my thumbs and wondering whether I should stay or go. I ignored the fact that she gave me a very scant smile when I ask her for her number, and said, &amp;ldquo;Why don&amp;rsquo;t you just give me your number instead?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;was that I was disappointed in &lt;i&gt;myself&lt;/i&gt;, not in the girl.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And I was afraid.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why was I afraid?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, I was afraid because I was putting my heart in danger.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I was afraid because, by choosing women who were obviously not very nice based entirely on their looks, I was putting myself in considerable danger. Not just in terms of disappointment, but in terms of getting into a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with a cold, selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and manipulative woman &amp;ndash; and, God&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;forbid, having children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with her &amp;ndash; which could truly ruin my entire life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;By attempting to repress and ignore my disappointment, I was placing myself in considerable danger of ruining my life &amp;ndash; and the lives of my potential children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which is even worse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Negative&amp;rdquo; feelings are designed to protect you, in the same way that physical pain is designed to protect you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My feelings were telling me that my approach to women was going to put me in grave danger throughout my life. The value that I placed upon a woman&amp;rsquo;s looks &amp;ndash; in complete opposition to the definition of love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;we have talked about in this book &amp;ndash; left me wide open to disastrous exploitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As it turns out, that was not the end of the story either&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105806"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633438"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Emotions and Exploitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p style="margin-bottom:0cm;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:40.6pt;page-break-after:avoid;vertical-align:baseline;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:53.5pt;"&gt;B&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;y placing value on women for their looks alone, it is certainly true that I left myself open to the worst kinds of exploitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; but the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;was that I only left myself open to being exploited &lt;i&gt;because I wanted to exploit the pretty women&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I wanted certain types of women because of my own vanity. We all know that looks alone are not indicators of spiritual quality &amp;ndash; in fact, quite the opposite appears so often to be true, except for my wife.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I wanted these women to go out with me because having them on my arm would make me &amp;ldquo;look good.&amp;rdquo; In other words, I wanted to use them to dominate others, to evoke envy and establish my own superiority.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Can you see why there are considerable secondary gains in repressing these &amp;ldquo;negative&amp;rdquo; emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Can you also see how far away from the truth my original &amp;ldquo;explanations&amp;rdquo; were? By providing me with instant and comforting &amp;ldquo;answers,&amp;rdquo; they could not have been more opposed to the truth than if they had been direct lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which at least can be seen and examined.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105807"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633439"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Even Deeper&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Furthermore, my father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;chose my mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; a thoroughly nasty and corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;woman &amp;ndash; largely for her looks, since she was very attractive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus, I have seen the results of this kind of mutual exploitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;up close, and have lived through all the disasters of a nasty, brutish and short marriage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, if I were to cast aside my own shallow addiction to physical appearance, what would be the long-term result?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Having lived it now for over 20 years, I can tell you quite definitively.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When we begin to realign our standards of evaluation from inconsequential things such as appearance, status, money&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and prestige, towards moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;standards such as courage&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Well, as I said earlier, almost none of your relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will survive this transition &amp;ndash; because, as you will very quickly discover, if you pursue this course, you think you have a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with others, but you really only have a relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;with your own illusions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;My particular illusion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;was that physical beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; and the envy it produces in others &amp;ndash; creates value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Sadly, this was like putting a Band-Aid over a sprained ankle, which only made that sprain worse over time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I say that I need a beautiful woman in order to have real value, then clearly I am saying that without that beautiful woman, I do not have value &amp;ndash; or I have negative value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If I want to wear platform shoes, it is because I feel that I am short.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Buying and wearing platform shoes does not get rid of my belief that I am short, any more than buying and wearing a wig gets rid of my belief that I am bald.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Acting in &amp;ldquo;opposition&amp;rdquo; to an underlying belief only reinforces that belief.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus I pursued beautiful women because I felt that I lacked value, which arm-candy would somehow alleviate.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, this pursuit only &lt;i&gt;reinforced &lt;/i&gt;my belief that I lacked value &amp;ndash; which is why it could never succeed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;As we talked about earlier, using other people to manage your own anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;For me, using the physical attractiveness of women to avoid the anxiety&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of my own low self-regard was selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now &amp;ndash; although this is of course a very painful experience to go through &amp;ndash; and is also enormously humbling &amp;ndash; is this not a far better approach to building a happy life than pretending to yourself that the girl just somehow &amp;ldquo;lost your number&amp;rdquo;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105808"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633440"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Even DEEPER!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Ahhh, but it went even &lt;i&gt;deeper&lt;/i&gt; than that!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Like just about everyone else on the planet who was not raised by wolves, I was taught that my family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;had value in and of itself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I was &amp;ldquo;taught&amp;rdquo; that my father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, my mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, my brother, my half-sister &amp;ndash; my extended relations of every kind &amp;ndash; were valuable and deserved my love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;simply because they were members of my family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Of course, as a criterion for love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, this is in fact as inconsequential as height, hair, or high cheekbones.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We tend to mock and ridicule the old man who dates the busty bimbo, since he is clearly communicating his shallowness, insecurity and silly vanity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, we tend to &amp;ldquo;cherish&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;respect&amp;rdquo; those who value family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;members for no reason other than similar DNA.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Beauty is accidental.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt; is also accidental.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I began to challenge my own vanity and greedy desire to exploit others &amp;ndash; both the pretty women and those who would envy me for being with them &amp;ndash; I began to understand that &lt;i&gt;virtue&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;was in fact required for love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is a strange, terrifying and disorienting realization.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;is required for love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, then &lt;i&gt;I cannot reasonably judge the value of my family&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by any standard other than virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;How does&lt;i&gt; that&lt;/i&gt; sit with you?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has no value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your country has no value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your religion has no value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Your gods, governments, teachers and friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;have no value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Only &lt;i&gt;virtue&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;has value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Is it becoming clear to you just what an enormous minefield lay underneath my stab of disappointment in that long-ago sauna?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Can you begin to understand exactly why I felt such fear and trepidation about the very idea of &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; repressing my feelings anymore?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Deep, deep down, of course, I totally understood the road that I was taking my first step upon. I knew where it would lead, and I knew just how few people would be willing to follow me there. I knew exactly what kind of ugly and hellish confrontations awaited me down that road, how many subtle and vicious attacks I would endure, how many sleepless nights would torture me &amp;ndash; and to what end?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Who knew?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And all this came to pass. That fateful night in that sauna, when I made the decision to stop repressing my feelings, every fear I had came true.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When I began to view and evaluate my family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;members, friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, girlfriends, dates and business associates by reasonable moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;standards &amp;ndash; nothing fancy, just honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;really &amp;ndash; the whole magnificently empty house of cards that was my social world came fluttering and crashing down.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The world is well-armed against virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The world is so corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because being good so often totally &lt;i&gt;sucks&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;None of this occurred overnight, of course. It was years before I began to really apply these values&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;to those around me &amp;ndash; and it was another few years after that that I broke with my mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Two years later, I broke with my brother &amp;ndash; and the year after that, I broke with my father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, which was less important, since I had never lived with him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;But it really does all come back to that first, fateful decision, to simply &lt;i&gt;start listening to what we already know to be true&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105809"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633441"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The Truth Within&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Deep within our bodies, from the moment of our conception, lie all of the amazing biochemical functionality and potentiality of growth, puberty and maturity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, within our unconscious minds, lies all the wisdom we could ever consume in a single lifetime.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We do not defend ourselves against our emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;; we do not defend ourselves against the pain of the past; we do not even defend ourselves against the discomfort of the present.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We always and only ever defend ourselves against the &lt;i&gt;actions of the future&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we have been hurt by a dentist and we fear returning, we do not fear the past, since that pain has come and gone.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We do not fear the pain of the past.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We fear the pain of the &lt;i&gt;future&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Psychological defences do not exist to prevent us from feeling pain in the past; they exist to prevent us from acting with integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Psychological defences do not prevent us from being exploited in the past &amp;ndash; since that has already happened. Psychological defences ensure that we shall be exploited in the &lt;i&gt;future&lt;/i&gt; &amp;ndash; and that we shall exploit others, which is even worse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;An addict does not take his drug in order to feel bliss in the past, but in order to feel bliss in the present &amp;ndash; and, as the addiction develops, in order to avoid the agony of withdrawal in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In the same way, we avoid our feelings in the present because we wish to avoid ugly confrontations in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We ignore our &amp;ldquo;sinking feeling&amp;rdquo; when our mother calls because we wish to avoid the confrontation that will inevitably occur if we accept our feelings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;I desperately wanted to avoid my feelings of rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, because once I felt my own feelings of rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, it turned out that I was going to have to reject others in the future &amp;ndash; the corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, the false, the evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It was not this particular girl&amp;rsquo;s rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of &lt;i&gt;me&lt;/i&gt; that I was avoiding &amp;ndash; but rather, the inevitable rejection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of &lt;i&gt;others&lt;/i&gt; that would occur in the future, if I began to in fact judge people according to virtuous principles rather than shallow inconsequentialities.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see &lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt; we avoid our feelings?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see why thinking that our avoidance has anything to do with the &lt;i&gt;past&lt;/i&gt; is so fundamentally counterproductive and erroneous?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see how terrifying our true feelings are for those who exploit us?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see how impossible it would be to exploit us if we truly &lt;i&gt;felt &lt;/i&gt;our own emotions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you see why I say that we must &lt;i&gt;be&lt;/i&gt; slaves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in order to &lt;i&gt;facilitate slavery&lt;/i&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Do you understand why I say that we must first reject &lt;i&gt;ourselves&lt;/i&gt; before we can be controlled by others?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We can do nothing about our enslavement in the past. We were children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, we were forced to go to school and church, we were surrounded by people that we never chose to have in our lives &amp;ndash; our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, siblings, our extended family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, our teachers&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The slavery of the &lt;i&gt;past&lt;/i&gt; is unalterable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The slavery of the future can be changed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We cannot be free in the past, or from the past.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We &lt;i&gt;can&lt;/i&gt; be free in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And our souls are constantly whispering in our ears the combination to the lock that will set us free.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;Feel, communicate, understand, &lt;b&gt;act!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105810"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633442"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Dodging Defences&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hen we decide to finally start telling those around us the truth of our experience of them, it is a near-certainty that they will oppose us with every fibre of their beings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is not because they are evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or because they are corrupt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;or because we are doing something &amp;ldquo;wrong.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is because they are frightened.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;People oppose us when we speak the truth because they like to hide in shadows &amp;ndash; because when we bring the light of truth into their dark and fearful worlds, they actually see their own darkness, which is invisible to them when there is no light.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;People live in the dark because they pretend that there is no such thing as light.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When the light appears, it reminds them that darkness is a &lt;i&gt;choice&lt;/i&gt;, not an absolute.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105811"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633443"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Flying from Flight&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If it turned out that gravity was an illusion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and that you could fly simply by picturing it, wouldn&amp;#39;t you feel rather foolish for all the time you spent walking or waiting for the bus?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;And &amp;ndash; more importantly &amp;ndash; how would you feel about all those who taught you that flying was impossible?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If, for your whole life, you could have experienced the joy and freedom of flight at will, how would you feel about those who had told you that flight was not only impossible, but &lt;i&gt;evil&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;What would that do to your image and picture of the world, if with your new understanding you saw the natural and beautiful wings of children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;being torn out at the roots in the name of virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and goodness?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Would you begin to understand what type of people really run the world?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Would the wars, famines, religious conflicts, dictatorships, prisons, gulags, genocides, murders, kidnappings and child abuse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;all begin to make sense?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It is a simple logical correlation that we are in hot pursuit of in these pages.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The world is full of evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, and no one is allowed to speak the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Throughout history, men have striven to rid the world of evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;by creating institutions capable of doing evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; religions, governments, and the absolute authority of parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;They have continued to do this despite the fact that not only do these institutions not rid the world of evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, but the evils&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the world continue to increase.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Thus we can only surmise that the alternative to speaking the truth is even worse. The alternative to all the evils described above is even worse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The alternative is, of course, discovering that we are turned towards evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;through our love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of goodness. That we are lied to about virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;in order to lead us to vice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let me put forward a simple proposition to illustrate what I mean.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105812"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633444"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Evil and Lying&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Pretend that you are a child again. If a vase lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;broken, your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;will command you to tell her who broke it. If you evade or lie, you will be morally attacked, because &lt;i&gt;lying is wrong&lt;/i&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However, when her friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;are over, if you tell them that sometimes she drinks in the morning, you are attacked for being &amp;ldquo;rude&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;inappropriate&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;airing our dirty laundry in public.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the simple principle. It has nothing to do with morality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoBodyText"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you are in possession of information that those in power want you to reveal, it is &amp;ldquo;immoral&amp;rdquo; to lie.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you are in possession of information that those in power &lt;b&gt;don&amp;rsquo;t&lt;/b&gt; want you to reveal, it is &amp;ldquo;immoral&amp;rdquo; to tell the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;You are led to serve those in power &amp;ndash; the foundational root of all institutionalized evils &amp;ndash; by your very desire to be good &amp;ndash; to not be called &amp;ldquo;immoral.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;In other words, the devils&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;destroy you with angels&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;. The devils&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of this world destroy you with the angels&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of your nature.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The world is evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;because we want to be good.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;We are enslaved because we want to be free &amp;ndash; of vice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Every evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;man in the world knows how desperately we want to be good. That is why Hitler had his soldiers swear an oath of loyalty to him before turning them on the rest of Europe. He knew that they would want to keep their word, and so would not need to be ruled by force.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;World War II would have been impossible without this &amp;ldquo;integrity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;ldquo;Virtue&amp;rdquo; created a Holocaust; it created Soviet gulags, Chinese starvation, American prisons and African famines.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Whoever owns the definition of virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;owns mankind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This we all know. This, deep down, does not surprise us at all. It is our desire to be good &amp;ndash; according to the terms of evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;men &amp;ndash; that turns us to the service of evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;False virtue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;makes true vice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The reason that I wanted to talk about all of this before we get into how you can recognize the defences of others is so that you understand the stakes involved in what you are about to do.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Really, it&amp;rsquo;s not about exposing the lies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s about saving lives in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105813"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633445"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Proof&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If we lie to evade an unjust punishment, we are called &amp;ldquo;bad.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If, by telling the truth, we inflict a just punishment, we are called &amp;ldquo;bad.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is the simple evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;However in this &amp;ndash; as in all things I write &amp;ndash; there is absolutely no reason to take my word for it in any way at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;ever told you not to lie, how do you think she should logically react when you tell her the truth about how you feel?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Because telling the truth is &lt;i&gt;good&lt;/i&gt;, right?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Will she praise you for your honesty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Try it and see.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105814"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633446"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Typical Defences&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;hen you begin to tell your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;the truth about how you feel, she will instinctively and inevitably begin to deploy a series of psychological defenses&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;designed to disorient and punish you for telling the truth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Let us have a look at the likely obstacles that will be thrown in your path when you dare to be honest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you tell your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;that you are afraid of answering the phone when she calls, she will immediately ask &amp;ndash; usually in a wide-eyed, innocent voice &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;but&amp;hellip; why?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;The purpose of this maneuver is to have you provide a reason that she can reject &amp;ndash; usually initially through the defence of minimization.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you say: &amp;ldquo;I do not feel that you listen to me,&amp;rdquo; then she will immediately say something along the lines of&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105815"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633447"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Minimization&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Source&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Script&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Translation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;What do you mean &amp;ndash; I&amp;rsquo;m listening to you &lt;i&gt;now&lt;/i&gt;, aren&amp;rsquo;t I?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt; actually the bad listener, because you don&amp;rsquo;t even notice that I &lt;b&gt;always&lt;/b&gt; listen to you!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Are you trying to tell me that I have never &amp;ndash; not once in your entire life &amp;ndash; &lt;i&gt;ever&lt;/i&gt; listened to you?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re insane and exaggerating &amp;ndash; I am going to create an impossible standard of proof, wherein a single exception to a complaint dismisses the entire complaint.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt; (&amp;ldquo;&lt;i&gt;Hey, remember that one Sunday when I &lt;b&gt;didn&amp;rsquo;t &lt;/b&gt;beat you?&lt;/i&gt;&amp;rdquo;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.8pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Yeah, yeah, you had it sooo tough, didn&amp;rsquo;t you? Why, when I was your age&amp;hellip; [Followed by cavalcades of desperate parental childhood stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;.]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.55pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;You&amp;rsquo;re a pussy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.8pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Sweetie! What on &lt;i&gt;earth&lt;/i&gt; could have put that thought into your head?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.55pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;There is absolutely no evidence for your complaint. We must look for external sources for your insanity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105816"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633448"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Self-Pity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Source&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.8pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Script&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.55pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Translation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:47.95pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;[Bursts into tears!]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;If you ask me to have sympathy for you, I will forcibly extract sympathy from you. If you think this is a two-way street, I will run you over.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/td&gt;
&lt;td style="width:133.8pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;m sorry, I know that happened, I was so distraught, your father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;was never home, I was overwhelmed, I did the best I could in a difficult situation&amp;hellip;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.55pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Only an unbelievably cold and selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;child could fail to dissolve into tears when considering &lt;b&gt;my&lt;/b&gt; plight&amp;hellip;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:47.95pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.8pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;I&amp;rsquo;ve done everything for you! I&amp;rsquo;ve devoted my whole life to my kids &amp;ndash; how can you &lt;i&gt;accuse &lt;/i&gt;me of these things?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.55pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;You owe me an endless debt of allegiance and obedience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; it would be utterly evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;to refuse to repay it, let alone criticize me!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Father / Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.8pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;How many times do we have to apologize for this before you&amp;rsquo;re satisfied?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.55pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;You are using criticism as an unjust weapon to hold power over us and make us feel bad. You bastard.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105817"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633449"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Denial&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="border-collapse:collapse;border:none;" class="MsoNormalTable"&gt;

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&lt;td style="width:47.95pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Source&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.85pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Script&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.5pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Translation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:47.95pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;What nonsense &amp;ndash; of &lt;i&gt;course &lt;/i&gt;I listen to you!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.5pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Your experience is utterly incorrect. You are attacking me unjustly. You&amp;#39;re crushing my illusions! Dear god, whyyyyy?!?!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:47.95pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/td&gt;
&lt;td style="width:133.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;You don&amp;rsquo;t really mean that, do you? You can&amp;rsquo;t possibly believe that!&amp;rdquo; [Tears.]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.5pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Your experience is utterly incorrect. You are attacking me unjustly!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Nothing like that ever happened. I never did that.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.5pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Your experience is utterly incorrect. You are attacking me unjustly! I&amp;#39;m an eyewitness, too, and my testimony should at least balance yours!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Siblings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.85pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;No one else has a problem &amp;ndash; only you. What does that tell you about the reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the situation?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.5pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;You are attacking them unjustly. We are claiming to have no problems so that you will start doubting your own experiences and shut the hell up.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Because no one else who was there will support your claims, you must have been seeing things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105818"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633450"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Counter Attack&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="border-collapse:collapse;border:none;" class="MsoNormalTable"&gt;

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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Source&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Script&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:139.5pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Translation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;You kids were just so difficult. I know I lost my temper, and I&amp;rsquo;m sorry about that &amp;ndash; but you kids just pushed me and pushed me, and never listened.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:139.5pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;You were a bad kid, and forced me act &amp;ldquo;badly&amp;rdquo; on occasion. But it was still all your fault.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;I get so frustrated when people explicitly tell me to punish them and then complain when I do what they ask for.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;I never did that! Why are you saying this? Why are you making up these stories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;? Why are you trying to hurt me?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:139.5pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;I am completely insensitive to your real pain, but you&amp;rsquo;d better be totally sensitive to my imaginary pain!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Siblings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Yes, bad things happened for sure, those were difficult times for all of us &amp;ndash; but it was a long time ago, it&amp;rsquo;s time for all of us to forgive, forget and move on.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;I feel really anxious when you bring up the past, so I&amp;rsquo;m going to pretend that you&amp;rsquo;re irrationally resentful, and that you&amp;rsquo;re bringing up the past as a weapon in order to control us in the present.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Siblings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Yeah, you&amp;rsquo;ve always had a hard time forgiving people. You can nurse a grudge until it grows a beard.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:139.5pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;It is irrational to feel resentment about being badly treated in the past. You are just imagining all the pain that you suffered. Our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;were fine; &lt;b&gt;you&lt;/b&gt; are the bad one.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Siblings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Tell me &amp;ndash; who is it in your life that you feel listens to you just the right amount &amp;ndash; not too much, and not too little? What? No one does it exactly right? Well then, the only common denominator in all the problems you have with everyone is, well, you!&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:139.5pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;The only reason that you could ever feel pain about the past is because you have impossible standards and can&amp;rsquo;t ever be satisfied. Mom and dad were the victims of your irrational standards.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;How many times do we have to apologize for this before you&amp;rsquo;re satisfied, you selfish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;little&amp;hellip;?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:139.5pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;I am going to get angry every time you bring this up, because since I have apologized angrily before, you should be satisfied now.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105819"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633451"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Genial Blankness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Source&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Script&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.55pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Translation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother / Father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.8pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;I don&amp;rsquo;t remember anything like that ever happening, but I can understand that it would be frustrating for you. Any time you ever want to talk about it, I&amp;rsquo;m here for you.&amp;rdquo; [Followed by blanket denials if you ever bring the subject up again.]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.55pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;We&amp;rsquo;re very sorry that you had bad parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;in the alternate universe that you inhabited as a child.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;We understand that you&amp;#39;re insane, but we get understandably weary of it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother / Father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.8pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Your memory of that is different from mine. That&amp;rsquo;s not how it was for me, but everyone is entitled to his opinion.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.55pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Your experience of your childhood is just an opinion, not reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;. You are delusional, but we support you, because we are good parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:47.95pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:133.8pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;I don&amp;rsquo;t remember that ever happening. Are you sure you didn&amp;rsquo;t dream that?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:140.55pt;border:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.5pt;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s a shame that you find it so hard to process reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;. I am more than happy to sacrifice your sanity for the sake of retaining my own illusions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105820"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633452"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Framing&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:47.95pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Source&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Script&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:139.5pt;border-top:solid green 1.5pt;border-left:none;border-bottom:solid green 1.0pt;border-right:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Translation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Siblings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;[Rolls eyes.] &amp;ldquo;Oh that&amp;rsquo;s just how [your name] is &amp;ndash; don&amp;rsquo;t mind him. He&amp;rsquo;s always got a bee in his bonnet about &lt;i&gt;something&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:139.5pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Only an irrationally angry person could ever complain about our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10pt;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Don&amp;#39;t mind him. He&amp;#39;s always upset and angry about unimportant things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother / Father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Oh we already know how you feel about &lt;i&gt;this&lt;/i&gt; topic &amp;ndash; don&amp;rsquo;t start &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt; again, we got it, you have a problem with the family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;hellip;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:139.5pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;No matter how much we try to appease you, you always want us to grovel a little bit more, because you are addicted to shaming us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:134.85pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;What exactly do you want me to do with all your complaints?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;td style="width:139.5pt;border:none;padding:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt;"&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;I will do my best to satisfy your insane little requirements, just to keep the peace.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;I have absolutely no idea what it is you&amp;#39;re asking for, so you might want to get to the point.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Is there anything I can do differently?&amp;rdquo; [When you give a list, you are attacked.]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;I have always been very happy to accommodate your requirements &amp;ndash; unless you actually give me your requirements, at which point I will attack you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105821"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633453"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Aggressive Appeals to &amp;ldquo;Compassion&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Source&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Script&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Translation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Father&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;You should not bring this stuff up with your mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;, because she is fragile.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;We should be very gentle with fragile people &amp;ndash; unless they are children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;, in which case we are allowed to attack them at will.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mother&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Don&amp;rsquo;t you know how much these topics hurt me? Don&amp;rsquo;t you have &lt;i&gt;any&lt;/i&gt; compassion for my feelings?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Only &lt;b&gt;my&lt;/b&gt; feelings are important in our relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; your &amp;ldquo;feelings&amp;rdquo; only exist to serve my convenience.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Siblings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Mom did the best she could. She had the best intentions, she just didn&amp;rsquo;t have the knowledge. Things were different back then &amp;ndash; there was no &amp;lsquo;Oprah.&amp;rsquo;&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;You are completely intolerant for criticizing mom &amp;ndash; it&amp;rsquo;s like getting mad at a houseplant for not knowing how to program a computer. The fact that she had irrational standards for us when we were children&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;is completely irrelevant.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Mom and Dad are getting old now. We know they didn&amp;rsquo;t always do the right thing, but they&amp;rsquo;re not about to change now, so we have to make the best of things.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;It requires real maturity &amp;ndash; which you apparently do not possess &amp;ndash; to accept people&amp;rsquo;s inevitable limitations. We must forgive those who do wrong &amp;ndash; especially those who never forgave &lt;b&gt;us &lt;/b&gt;for doing wrong!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105822"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633454"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Aggressive Appeal to &amp;ldquo;Self-Respect&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Source&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Script&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Translation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Siblings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;You have to give up your anger about the past, otherwise it just ends up controlling you forever.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Now that our parents&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;no longer have total control over your environment, I&amp;rsquo;m going to try to convince you that they have total control over your happiness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Your feelings will overrun you if you continue to feel them. If you&amp;#39;re strong, you&amp;#39;ll crush them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Siblings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;We could dwell on all this for the rest of our lives, but what good would it do? You&amp;rsquo;ve just got to accept things for how they were, and move on from there.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;I am going to reject the pain that you feel, while preaching that it is moral&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;to accept things for what they are.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Siblings&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;ldquo;Someone&amp;rsquo;s got to be the bigger person in this relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash; clearly it&amp;rsquo;s not going to be mom, so I guess it&amp;rsquo;s up to you then, isn&amp;rsquo;t it?&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;The bigger person must always bow down to the smaller person &amp;ndash; that&amp;rsquo;s how we know how big he really is!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p align="left" style="text-align:left;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;Mom is a horribly weak person, so she can&amp;#39;t treat family&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;members as they hope to be treated. Surely you won&amp;#39;t be as weak as she is!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h1 style="border:none;padding:0cm;"&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc191105823"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a name="_Toc189633455"&gt;&lt;span&gt;the Conversation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Now, we are ready to put RTR into practice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;When you pick up the phone to call your mother and tell her the truth about your experience of her, an odd but insistent undertow will attempt to pull the conversation away from your real experience and towards endlessly-debatable &amp;ldquo;conclusions.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;There is only one way to avoid this tendency, and that is &lt;i&gt;to continually talk about how you feel in the moment&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Here is an example:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Mom, I want to tell you something&amp;hellip; [deep breath] I know that this will sound strange, because I&amp;rsquo;ve never talked about it before, but it&amp;rsquo;s very important to me. For some time now 
